My dad hadn't finished high school when he got married. He got his GED and finished his master's degree in education and worked full time while going to college. He graduated with no debt. Good luck doing that today.

She's like Derek Jaxn in a way. She's found a niche market for people who want to be lied to that being promiscuous has no consequences. No matter how much you try to normalize female promiscuity it's always going to be a natural turn off to most men.

She’s saying the same talking points we always hear. 1. Men need to step up. 2. Lots of black men are locked up. 3. Women should be educated and career driven.

Idk, something about a society being overly focused on sex rubs me the wrong way.

Women "we are gonna level up our body count" Dudee "good luck with that......"

She was so disingenuous in the interview. Never holding women accountable. And did not want to believe the stat that men out earn women.

In terms of body count it didn't feel like we got an answer from her, but Kevin's question about what you want from a woman was saying body count depends on what you want as an outcome.

Kevin is a g, but us men aren't going to ever get on board with the high body count thing. Even Kevin knows how detrimental it is, that's why he has told many wmn who have called into his show to not let it get out of hand.

I don’t think anyone is truly having a good faith discussion about relationships where each other’s basic needs are actually met. This conversation was no exception; KS out here advocating for the guys who want relationships and this girl on here talking about female orgasms. Speaking past each other honestly because KS’s underlying point is ‘How do dudes even get to the point of satisfying a women without the sexual access’ which she ignored with her typical modern talking points of how men are incarcerated or in some way not stepping up. This was not a constructive conversation despite how respectful the discourse was. I’ve had many ‘great’ conversations at work in a meeting which was wholly useless, this resembled one of those.

She doesn't get it when she said their audience should mix I can guarantee that her audience is some of these women that call in to his show with the delusional 🙄

I'm so happy you two were able to record this for us. It's valuable information.

Men don’t want to walk around with the town’s “person”. I would liken it to a man being bullied and beat up for most of their life. Both have sketchy past. Women would not want to walk around with the man who the whole town thinks is a punk. History most definitely matters, it’s the best predictor of future performance.

One day, i hope, Men and Women wont have to jump on platforms just to enjoy a constructive, deep conversation amongst each other. This sets a precedence.

I screamed when she made the suggestion to mix the audiences. Bad idea. There would be absolutely no compatibility!

She wouldn't come right out and say it but she has a problem with KS telling women to lower their standards. Most women actually want the highest value men to lower THEIR standards and be with an uncooperative, non-feminine boss chick because she makes money too.

If there is one thing, I hate about Kevin is the fact that once he meets these women, he does not call out their fallacies as straightforward as he does with the average woman. He argued with other women that what do they gain by sleeping around. This woman calls it liberation and he says nothing.

“Cis heterosexual” Nope. Automatic dealbreaker.

Funny how she assumes women are all sex goddesses and men are just fumbling around. Most women I’d say don’t even know how to please themselves

One thing ive noticed about KS, he drank ALOT OF REDBULL. Be careful drinking that stuff can lead to severe hypertension.

Rewatching your old videos and still learning. RIP Kevin!!

"Partner?" That perked my ears. After listening to more, she's revealing she's a modern feminist.

This is a excellent conversation overall! 💯

She came with the same rhetoric that we hear all the time. It boils down to "it's black men fault" and we need to "level up."

Soo, genuine question. What are women being sexually liberated from in the past 20 years ?

Good interview. The bridge is being built to finally understand and learn from both sides.

she's just talking jazz...a woman who has multiple sexual partners will def affect both her mind and body

I so enjoyed listening to this woman talk! Her conversation is clear. Subject is presented well. No long rambling paragraphs that have a lot of words but have very little meaning! No mouth smacking sounds! She is well informed on the subject at hand. No trying to deflect or change the subject. No asking of unrelated questions or bringing up unrelated topics.

Yay! I’m so happy about this collaboration and I enjoyed this discussion so much!!

The young lady is very articulate but she definitely has a slant that for her explains everything as it relates to women and men. I would love to be able to ask her questions to put her fundamental beliefs to the test because she has a lot of "sacred cows" as it relates to men. Which comes off as her being bitter but she's able to mask it through her selective use of words but I hear the subtle misandry.. To summarize her point of view would be to sat she believes that all men are just insecure with weak egos who need to be more like women basically. When you boil down what she had to say it amounts to women strong men, weak and or defective. The reason people of her elk annoy me is because they speak with such certainty and they leave no room that they could be totally wrong. She's trying to explain the male /female dynamic through a modern lense but it was only 70 years ago that my grandmother didn't even have a refrigerator they had ice box and ice was delivered the entire today is foreign to what the human species is use to living in.

Understanding yourself and knowing what you want and enjoy it period !

I loved the final minute the most. The hardest things can be so simple. Proximity changes the game truly. Creating opportunities to believe, it's a beautiful thing.

This is a great start to a powerful collaboration.

The amusing thing of this conversation is that if birth control pills, condoms as well as the myriad of other contraceptives were not invented, the supreme importance given to sexual intercourse in all its lustfully hedonistic perversion inspired by pornography, would naturally rest in the responsibility of rearing posterity for furtherance of legacy and betterment of society, any of this talk to rationalize sexual degeneracy can afford audience due to modern contraceptive technology, as well as medical abortion that have diminished and misled the moral values of procreation and undermined the familiar institution, other than that these discussions would not be as elaborate for an act constituting a primordial means to an end rather than an end to a recreational means.

Always nice to see Kevin in a well lit environment 😄

Her slick politician style double talk questioning

I learned today I’m not interested in hearing about others peoples sex lives

24:30 she says women are more sexually liberated & men aren’t rising to the occasion but instead ask women to scale back sexually. I think that stance sounds good in theory but in reality women w more sexual partners tend to come w more baggage & self described ‘trauma’ from past relationships. She speaks as if sexual liberation is an absolute positive but the reality is women who’ve explored a lot of sexual desires tend to bring baggage of all kinds with it to the next man.

Trial and learning 'on the job' is naturally the best way to learn, (women do it quite a bit in western society), however it's actually dangerous with severe consequences for trial and error for men-up to and including jail. So it doesnt happen.

She exemplifies modern women. She brilliantly articulates all the misandrist, 5luT enabling taliking points

More conversations between the two of you and other level headed individuals please. This is what we need. Dialogue where no one is trying to out shout one another. Bravo.

Perfect example of how it is always one step forward, two steps back.

I don't get how this talk is a good thing. There is NO wisdom or insight that could come from a young, immature woman. Wisdom comes from age and experience. The way she speaks, reeks of immaturity and feminism. A wise man knows where to obtain wisdom

This should have been atleast a 3hr event. Great convo! I see big things happening with these powerful "duo" if they come together.

This was an excellent and informative conversation.

The problem is sex used to be for men and romance was for women. Now everything is for women and the women's pleasure and women's happiness and nothing is for men.

Having sex is not an act, it’s an experience! Most ppl (men and women) don’t understand that! Among those ppl, lots are also inept to understand because their psychological profile has difficult managing the basic characteristics of a patient lover: easing into the experience, build it up, read the mood as you go, sensuality and finesse. Culture does have something to with it also. Above all, it is very important to be comfortable in ur own skin

Great convo!!!

Great mature conversation, indeed !

I'm a man and sex is something I can only truly enjoy in a loving relationship.

Been waiting on this. Here we go ladies and gentlemen

I’ve been excited for this video!!

Wow. The picture, and sound quality are superb!

She didn't say anything of significance. She basically perpetuated the same things we all already understand and know. She is supposed to be the sex expert, but from what I heard she is NOT aware of what women are doing in today's culture. She ignored the BODY COUNT issue and did not answer Kevin's inquiry. It was funny that Kevin knew MORE about the sexual trends than she did, that said a lot.

21:30 it goes both ways. You can be as experimental as you want as a dude, a lot of women are extremely uncomfortable with their body. Half the women I've been with only do 1-2 positions because they too afraid to try anything else and "make a mistake".

Kevin's show continues to grow and elevate.

We love interviews/crossovers like this! Both of you are "controversial" in your own way on your own channels, but you both are so wise and articulate!

Amazing conversation can't wait for the next episode.

"cis heterosexual" 😑 even the seemingly calm black woman is corrupted

Excellent! Whether y'all like it or not, Kevin is leading the charge for change in our community.. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

best interview in this channel

Shan seems to concentrate on sex and physical techniques. Her message is 100% about what women want & need. I don't think she's ever given much thought about what men want or need, sexual or otherwise. Keven concentrates his message on relationships. They are, of course, two entirely different things.

I guess it doesn't matter what a man wants as long as the woman is pleased. Got it.

Great conversation

As a woman, as much as it's natural for us as human to have sex I'm getting so annoyed with all this discussion about sex. Sex isn't everything but it seems these days thats all people talk about. Takes the specialness away from it. I don't calle ol fashion but I'm just sick of this crap. What happened to being conservative? Women need to stop blaming men and start looking at themselves for being promiscuous and wondering why no one takes them seriously.

What Kevin did was kind of genius man. He baited us in with the Average at best and You built like a Runningback to ultimately give us great content.

As a man successful with women, reading a book called “how to please a woman” on the subway is a great F-ing idea. Great conversation starter.

How did I miss KS sitting down with women in the flesh. This is only the second one I’ve found (both found today). So glad to have found new (to me) content from the great man. 👍

women always make things more complicated then it needs to be, just for some mental feelings that only she feels.. and how can a man become all the different fantasies she got bouncing around in her mind? he can't.. so it just shows that no 1 man can satisfy a woman.. a woman wants everything and since nature will not give a woman everything then she will always be unsatisfied.. so men should not waste their time and efforts on a woman's desires, because a man can never give her everything..

The body count issue is where Kevin simps

Great conversation, interesting and informative…🖖🏽

Great, great discussion💯👏🏽

I like this convo/format a lot more of these would be dope

Women remain stagnant because all of their choices, thoughts and options are controlled by someone or something else. Powerless and waiting to be rescued is how they endure life

This was good.

29:55 - 30:00 This part right here. Very quick, very subtle, but very important. The ATTITUDE. The cavalier ATTITUDE towards responsibility. Not talking life as seriously as it should be. Men do not have this luxury. Women in first world countries don’t have to take life seriously. No real or harsh consequences.

Great conversation with 2 adults...articulate and respectful

What a fantastic conversation and so relevant. I’ve learned so much about sex and sexuality from so many places. I’m always surprised how repressed so many people are - even women.

Great website!!

Shes 1 of the best guests kevins had jus humble individual✌🙏🙏

Biology is biology. Dudes don’t want a woman who’s been ran through. The huge problem is most women that enter into relationships lie about their past sexual activity and guys find out about it down the road when he’s already attached and fallen for her. Ladies if you want to be in the streets, no one is trying to stop you. In fact we applaud 👏 you. But stop trying to reformat yourselves into relationship material and lying to men and yourselves. No man wants to deal with that trauma.

I’m in a million dollars in debt- I own a home- um the bank owns the home- “educated” no- indoctrinated. Went to college to be a KZfaqr😂

I’ve been waiting for this collab!!!!

What use is it to “all men” that we are allowed to be sexual or have many partners,(as she says) when only 10% of men are able to get sex?? Even in sex she compares “all women” to the 10% of top men. Now that I think about it, last thing any society needs is to incentivize women into being sexual, cause most women will find easy access to sex, On the other hand, doesn’t matter how much sexual freedom we allow men, only the top candidates will find easy access.

I went to a Passion party when I was at Hampton university back in the late 90s. I was blown!

I absolutely love both of y'all podcasts & content! Dedicated listener keep it yall 💯

This was a good talk

Great dialogue 🎯

Words sounds is power. Teach dem make sure the message deh reach dem godfather. 🇯🇲

I'm sitting here impatiently waiting on the next part of this conversation

Mature and professional conversation.

The video quality has improved drastically

A sex therapist who does NOT know what a passion party was.. How knowledgeable

1. Sex is NOT a need! The only need you have is air, water, food, using the bathroom and sleep. 2. Sex for men is different because from what I know amongst my peers. A woman who has a lot of body counts is a turn off to most men just like if a bum sticks his finger in your favorite food once that happened you no longer really want it. 3. When women have a lot of men, no way they can settle down with one men because logically it doesn't make sense that they will be okay especially if his is average. Women that did gang bangs, 3somes, had all types of sizes. They will fantasize about their encounters and most likely tempted to do it again. I had a lot of female friends and if you hear them talk, they will never admit it but you can hear them say things that let you put it together. 4. Women absorb the mens sperm and juice internally. Men it's not different than you sticking your finger in something. You can debate but I know quite a few men that feel that way, regardless of what women think or say about it. Men, may resent their women if they know they had a lot of partners even if they decide to be with them which makes it a case for them to cheat because they may feel that it's not worth it to be "monogamous" because of her past and they justify because of it.

Great content Godfather 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

This is a good one and very different from previous collaborations. I've been studying the language of sex for 12 years now, though artistically; trying to find new ways of expressing the idea. I'm either ahead of the curve or too obtuse to be understood. But this is definitely a necessary dialogue. ......to be continued.

She is saying men need to be taught how to please women. I disagree 100%. Women are to provide serenity at home, so they can reduce the stress of the man and show him love that will keep him working. If he is the pleasurer then she needs to woman up and be the provider

Talk about women wanting to ask men to be monogamous, even though men have drastically less sexual fun and experiences, between the ages of 18 to 40

I think men care about women's "body count" because we know that it matters and shows aspects of her character. Women don't have to work for sex. They can just get it whenever they want to with absolutely no effort. A woman who has had alot of sex hasn't done anything special or proved anything to the world. I watch the show "600 Pound Life" and some of those women have babies and husband's. I wouldn't want to be married to a woman who has had sex with tons of different men because there wouldn't be anything special about her. It's the same in terms of me not wanting a woman who has kids by other men. Same concept to me. If everyone has had you, I can't claim you in public. That's my personal feeling about it. That doesn't mean we can't be friends or even have sex but I won't be in a relationship with you.

IT'D BE INTERESTING TO SEE YOU GUYS CO-HOST A LIVE SHOW AND TEAM UP ON THE GUEST 😁👍

I'm 47 years old, and I've never cared nor asked a woman's body count. One reason is that I know the kind of women I go for.