A beautiful woman once told me, "You can't afford me". I eventually left her. She is now divorced with two kids by different men. I'm still single and doing very well. She was right and I could not afford her. Whenever I see her I feel lucky to have escaped and survived her evil spell...😳

The force is strong with this 1. The ability to deflect and dodge accountability as well as the professional victimhood

Holding men accountable: “men are incarcerated and broke” Holding women accountable:”i CaN’t sPeAk fOr aLl wOmEn!” Remember fellas, generalizations are only ok when they are used to reprimand men.

Women: “We don’t rate men.” Also women: “I only date guys who are 6’ tall, have 6-pack abs, and a 6 figure income.”

When something benefits her argument she speaks for all women / when something proves her WRONG she can’t speak for all women 😂

In one ear and out the other. She's just happy to be seen with KS and collect her clout.

"If the man decides to leave, my father did." There it is. You will never change her mind. All men are her father and owe her a debt.

At first I was like "she looks good". The more she opened her mouth the less attractive she became. Women just don't get it... it's not about your beauty, it's about your spirit and mindset. Men want a submissive woman who want to raise a family. She's only good for getting ran through.

"When is men's value half off??" Only half off? Men are on clearance 90% off basically their entire life until they get financial stability when they get older. Women get a free ride until they hit the wall, and go half off at 30.

I hope she gets what Kevin is saying because majority of what Kevin is saying is real life. It ain't no joke. This is like a father having an heart to heart talk with his daughter

What gratitude I have for this guy, courage, strength, honesty, independence, you fill us with hope for a better future, Kevin shines! Greetings from Brazil!

If these ladies just listen to the message, they would get what they want. KS’ advice has already been proven in my life. It feels like I’m using cheat codes even though I’m putting in the work. I’ve been reading books and studies in order to boost my knowledge for when I get into conversations like this and it has helped I’m my general communication as well. I swear life is an open book these and women like her keep failing.

My irritation is that a lot of women know this information about our beauty and having advantages in the world but some will play dumb and act as if it's not true.

Mad props to Kevin on this. He called her out on all of her deflections and wouldn't let her change the subject when she wanted to argue based on her feelings.

This woman had a father figure in her life for over an hour and instead of just listening chose to be right in her own way

She literally has the hardest time just answering simple questions… crazy to me

When Kevin brought up Lizzo and this woman deflected and just said “go Lizzo”, that summed everything up for me.

See this is why it's hard to have these conversations with women because they want everything to be in their favor even when they know they are wrong. It was so hard for her to admit that it is wrong for women to get lighter sentences than men for commiting the same crimes.

So calm and well spoken this man was

If you hear the words "I deserve" come out of their lips...run. Run right now. To earn is to labor and apply thought. To deserve is to 'sit and manifest because I AM THAT I AM'. Yes, I was married to one of those until I divorced her. Trust me, RUN!

You don’t feel it when you get older either but it still happens.. just because you don’t feel like your value goes down doesn’t mean it’s not happening

Very interesting! Every single time that Kevin brought up facts that didn’t help her thought patterns she went mute. She was overwhelmed at one point and couldn’t handle those real jewels he was dropping. And she kept saying “I can’t speak for all women”. She will reflect when she sees the playback and when his wisdom echoes in her head. Great one Kevin 👍🏼

Men are discounted pre 30, women are discounted past 30.

Yes this conversation was much needed! Really appreciated Kevin, some women didn’t like these thought provoking conversations.

“You’re not rare, you’re a woman. None of us are special. Women earn their value in relationships.” Let me just say that after listening to Kevin and Patrice O’Neil, I truly understand where I can help and add value, joy, peace and so much more to my Superman’s life.

“ Women earn their value to men in the relationship not outside “. Good one Kevin!

Love the information cited being spotlighted as he makes his points.

Kevin, loving this series so far. Thank you, brother. She has what I call pretty people disease. Life has provided her with plenty of privilege, and she is not able or willing to see anything outside of that viewpoint. Reality and facts are foreign concepts to people with the disease. It flies in the face of all of their antidotal and lived experiences (in addition to what they are feed through the media). Keep up the work family.

I spoke to a feminist and I said if you replace the word “men” for race or religion you would be called a racist and a bigot. However in our society it seems it’s ok to refer to men that way without any consequences.

“I don’t believe my value is going down ever.” What a huge disconnect from the most basic human reality, for all humans, but in particularly women. It’s unbelievable.

10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 9. Wasting time by scrolling social media 10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.......................................

Sir. You are 100% on, but not only in black women but women in general. I was married for 19 years and now going through a divorce because my "wife" was a lot like this. Found out she was screwing around. At one poin I felt my life was over. My life as I knew it was done. Come to realize I'm ok. I find out women like what I am and who I am. I'm a lot older, hair thinning out and I thought man this sucks what woman is going to want me. Wow, was I surprised, a lot of women do. Hot women...I guess I just have to believe it and first close this chapter in my life and then see what happens. Anyway, some of these women feel like they are never going to age they depend on their looks and feel this is all they need is their looks.

Convo was 🔥 and much needed. This shows even the sophisticated and college educated have the same mind set as the 22 yr old towards men and relationships 🤦🏾‍♂️

Kevin mentions the suicide rate amongst men; she responds by gaslighting them. While I won't comment on her response. Let me say this. During the previous video, when asked about low marriage rate amongst women along with their general dissatisfaction with their love-life and and personal relationships, she quickly opted to place the responsibility on the men of the black community. I won't comment on this either. But I say all this because even if all she said were true, if men were all to blame, it wouldn't resolve the issues mentioned. Change only starts with taking responsibility for the things you can control, and sometimes that means taking responsibility for things you feel you don't deserve.

KS Shows is just incredible. Love these sort of shows.

Kevin's talking points are amazing.(TS) The examples he use are well thought out and prepared. His thorough research(TS) proves him to be very knowledgeable on subjects. He didn't allow her to deflect.

This is like a father having an heart to heart talk with his daughter! giving her a dose of the real world, reminds me of Proverbs 31- which women don't want to talk about.

"I don't think MY value is going down, EVER." "...HE'S gonna find ME." She is CLUELESS. You're single with all that face, body and business... The guys you like DON'T LIKE YOU. You're going to HAVE TO be an active dater AND prove YOURSELF to HIM. You haven't done it and you haven't gotten it. How much more real can it get?

This is a fascinating conversation! I love how this lady can compose herself but has these long moments of silence just looking right at Kevin like she wants to beat his ass! There is a lot going on here.

Whenever I hear about the struggles of men in society I always think, we're the ones who structured society this way. I would love to hear Kevin speak on that in depth one day.

She's no different from woman who call in the show, she's being disingenuous like women who call into the show and just trying to be right in my opinion.

Arguing and trying to change their minds is FUTILE. Don’t try this in real life fellas. 💯💯💯

They can’t debate with Kevin because he’s articulate, intelligent and presents facts to the argument!!!

Great video, thanks for sharing

Women, children and pets are loved unconditionally. Men are loved under the condition that he provides something.

She really try hard to be feminine but she’s actually truly combative. It’s amazing how she keep fighting reality and wanna artificially change what men want .

Kevin: "Do you not see the hypocrisy in your double standard?" Her:"I see what you're saying...." That is not an answer. Yes or no. He asked her a question, and the answer was clearly yes: there is a hypocrisy women tolerate....but to get her to admit that she herself tolerates that hypocrisy ("I believe my value will never go down")....is impossible. She will not concede simple yes or no answers. she thinks she's so clever because she looks and acts like a sophisticated, educated person, but if you listen to her, she does not participate in the discussion. She puts out her viewpoint, nods her head, and then acts like he said nothing at all. the wall will hit her hard when she's no longer pretty enough for men to listen to her unbearable diatribe.

Well done Kevin...very factual statements from you

I love it. Men, we have to create our value from the ground up. Build our empire. Then when the women see our empire they get jealous and say how easy we have it without seeing the work that went into it. For women, they spread their cheeks on instagram and call it "fitness" and they get to move into the same neighborhood we slaved our whole lives to move into with minimal effort. Women rarely self reflect in the mirror.

KS is on point. I don't know how many times I have heard a woman claim 'she can't speak for all woman when a point is against them but all women when it's something in her favor. Don't talk about when they know they are wrong and will argue until you are tires. Very rarely they admit they are wrong. When a woman admit that she was wrong to me today, I fell out on the couch and bumped my head because I could not believed she admitted she was wrong. She asked did I need to do all of that, and my response was when have you ever admitted you were wrong. She said I was right again and grinned.

Some of the best reasoning you have made Godfather, love it🇯🇲

She's definitely good looking no doubt! But there's also thousands and thousands of girls that look just as good if not better!

What I am seeing developing in society right now is very scary. So many single men, and single women living apart - does not benefit anyone but the government. Individualism has reached an all-time high in our society, and although it negatively affects both genders, it will hurt women the most. Because they are the most vulnerable when alone.

To answer her question “When are men at a discount 50% off?” When men are young & unproven.

This is a work of art 🎨

Wow...this was amazing and humbling at the same time. I just started watching him. I didn't know who he was before his passing. What a shame. May he rest.

Her music playlist consists of: Jazmine Sullivan Ari Lennox Summer Walker Doja Cat Megan Thee Stallion and SZA **edit** I forgot about City Girls

As 50 Cent said: "She can have what she want, just not from me"

Watched the entire interview- very informative- great content-thank you KS The godfather#!

i just discovered your show and your ability to cut through the nonsense is excellent.

Modern ladies favourite response whenever you flag a double standard to them 'I'm not those women/I wouldn't do that' and the all time favourite 'I can't speak for all women' but when its something that they benefit from suddenly it becomes 'ALL women are beautiful', 'believe ALL women' etc. So comical! 😆

Kevin your doing such a good job in bringing truth to America. Thank you sir!

This video needs a billion views.

You can tell no one has ever spoken to her like this and gave her such a reality check and finding out she was not special nearly crushed her. She's 30 next year, coming into geriatric pregnancy, the women she will be in competition with are in their 20's, there is always one finer than the next and the man that she is looking for has options. The more money a man makes the more younger, fit, feminine, fresher, zero masculinity, hotter and baby mamas need not apply. She is leaving this interview really evaluating herself and her options.

Men don't leave, women push us away! (Truth don't change)

I loved that statement "women gain value to man in the relationship"

This the realist conversation he did so far

Good to see healthy dialogue between black men & women. Communication saves a nation

She has the "I can't admit you're right" syndrome. She has to win the argument. That's why, in my opinion, she pauses when Kevin says something that's indisputable, then she responds by not answering the question. Fellas, we should avoid women like her. A real help meet is someone who realizes you're a team. She is willing to say, "You're right," when you're right, because she concedes to the truth that will help both of y'all.

"The patriarchy created the biological clock and male/female attraction in society" hahahahaha.... Watching these videos and seeing these programming languages used by the ladies in the real world is such a comic relief.

100% facts from Kevin

I’m 8 years older than KS and, like him, have watched this situation develop. I see one of two things happening going forward: (1) men will either never seriously pursue a relationship or opt out, especially after getting vulcanized in a divorce or (2) men will become ruthlessly transactional in the whole thing. John Cena’s 75 page “roommate contract” is an example and IMO it’s a matter of time before similarly high-earning men start tweaking the concept of a family trust or LLC/LLP from giddy-up. A woman can probably get a pre-nup voided very easily by claiming duress. Dissolving a trust or LLP wouldn’t be quite so easy…especially if she had to sign off on terms that she had to lawyer up to negotiate. Now if the *guy* is smart and doesn’t move her in or get her pregnant, if she refuses to get with his program, he walks away. Forever. Might be easier to join the guys in group 1…or move to Thailand? IMO, any significant, organized effort from women address the glaring, inequalities in the system will *never* come…so, “the ball is in your court,” dudes.

Shes like a-lot of pretty women I’ve met their great when it comes to school and making money but terrible when it comes to Male and Female dynamics (relationships/dating market)

This brings tears to my eyes knowing Black men are already looked at a certain way now im constantly having conversations trying to show my woman my side and having her only to see her side and make my side the bad guy smfh

Thank you sir I hope this message is taking seriously

That was a great conversation

That's why I truly enjoy listening to this brother he speaks facts no feelings logic no compromising it doesn't matter how this female looks she's gonna hear the truth and she has to acknowledge the facts no catering

Based off the conversation I'm getting the sense that she's got her mind made up on the kind of guy she wants whether he actually exist or not . This is gonna be a sad reality after 50 for her

Love this guy mann.

Mr. Samuels has brought a good point into light.

"power couple" is just another term invented by magazines trying to sell stuff. How these marketing tools can enter our lexicon and inform life decisions is insane

As women we have to be able to call it like it is and not be in fear of other women condemning us. You can tell she is uncomfortable at times to agree with Kevin. We are doing a disservice to each other by not stopping these toxic traits and speaking truths. Kevin speaks facts and we just don’t want to hear it because it shatters the “body positivity and open ideals that have been created for modern day woman”. Deflecting the question with the, I can’t speak for all women, doesn’t help us in the end. Just speak for yourself and others may have the nerve to finally speak up.

Rest in Power brother ✊

She doesn't "feel" her value is "going down, ever." I can list an item at an auction for as much as I want, it doesn't mean somebody will buy it. In my first retail job as a college student home for the summer a guy came into the office supply store and asked for "really expensive pens" to which I said "we have Bic and I can make them as expensive as you are willing to pay, but it is only ever going to be a Bic." he laughed.

It's always sad to see how trapped people are in their flaws and can't seem to (sometimes) see the light when it's too late.

"Women today are at odds if they are religious with the creator that they believe in or if they're not religious the science" This is an on point and deep ground breaking statement!

I have been crying about this for decades and I am so pleased black men are awakened. Let the struggle continue

thank God for this man...u a real one

She's hearing what he is saying but doesn't care cause she hasn't gotten to that stage in life where she has to face reality cause she gets by on her looks. Women never think about the future and the consequences of their poor choices. Their mentality is i'll deal with it when it happens. Give her 5 more years reality will start to settle in.

I have a teenage daughter and the reality is this...I, as a parent, will have to present these types of realities to my daughter and at some point, I can only hope that she applies what she has been taught, to her own life. Kevin is helping me instill knowledge and wisdom thru facts, data and statistics in order to paint a quality picture of reality to my daughter. In short, I'm stealing these knowledgeable and valuable videos and using them as a parent. Thanks Kevin. Good lookin out bruh!!

Continue to speak the truth.

good work Kevin

"I can't speak for all women" proceeds to speak for majority of men!

They don’t care about hypocrisy they have tunneled vision..

Thank God for this man

Mr Samuels...... this was spot on !!!

A woman is about as good as her listening skills💯 I'm approaching the "30% off" mark soon and I'm aware I cannot stop how quickly time is going but I *can* adjust my actions to be the best F.B.I. woman I can be. *Salut* *to* *the* *Godfather* 💛

I lived in Miami for 8 years , met this woman and dated a lot of women in Miami just like her. Women that look like her are literally standing on every corner in Miami and it’s crazy watching these women when their 40 and still at the lounges , bars and clubs trying to compete against 20 year old women for a 30 year old man It’s also interesting how women like her call themselves boss chicks when their running a bikini business , how many of those businesses exist in Miami? Thousands…..

BEST VIDEO EVER! you should stick with this format of debating/conversing face to face with an attractive successful woman, your views would EXPLODE! thats the recipe that people really wanna see, you talking about men/women issues with a BEAUTIFUL successful woman IN PERSON on video!

Been in a career I just retired. Have negotiated multi million dollar deals with O & G companies. We NEVER referred to each other as the table. The negotiation table was either literally the boardroom table we sat at, or figuratively to that stated of negotiating. But either way, the table itself, was never a party to the two parties negotiating.