Everyone here needs a hug now.. °^° *HUGS*

Can’t have toxic relationships if you don’t have friends.

I’ve decided that I can’t stay with my best friend. I feel like I’m walking on thin ice when I’m around her, I stay up at night thinking about what I said around her.

Thank you so much for this. My best friends have been constantly ruining my mental health and excluding me and then gaslighting me making it my fault. I just can’t find anymore friends. That’s why I can’t let go.

Could of used this advice in elementary school

I'm the person who never leaves the station.

Honestly the reason i stayed in a toxic friendship for so long was because it would be more drama to end the friendship than the drama experienced in the friendship itself

Letting go of toxic people makes you realise something- You have been neglecting YOU. And you should never let go of yourself again❤

they were bored that's why they "board" our trains, and once they're bored of us they leave... ( -_-)

I just put down a toxic friendship, but I felt I did it to harsh. She cried, but this person really was just mean so I looked at this video and it helped a lot thank you!

i just left my toxic friends last night. i apologized to them even though it's not my fault. the thing is, i hope everything will be well and i am already distancing myself from toxicity. i am now starting to show a huge care to myself after sacrificing a lot just to save our friendship and their happiness.

This is really hard for me, because all my “friends” don’t even care about me, but I care about them. How do I let go?

PSA: I was in an abusive friendship for years. She was a piece of shit narcissist that sucked the life out of me and heightened my want to commit suicide. When I broke off my relationship with her, she tried to turn my friends against me and make me look bad. Then she wanted me back. NEVER TAKE BACK NARCISSIST PEOPLE. THEY WILL NOT CHANGE.

I don't understand how someone can give so much and people have no guilt in returning it back. Maybe this is just me but I always try to show appreciation for people close to me because I'm just happy that they want to be around someone like me. I give people gifts with my own money, take them with me on trips, and willingly go the distance for them so we can hang out. I do all this stuff to show love to my "friends" and somehow when I need them to do the same because I can't at the moment, they back out and say they can't. I never really noticed this until someone pointed it out to me saying "Why do you buy stuff for them? I haven't seen you get anything in return." I've always felt guilty when I made them upset and I do everything to try to make things right. These people just keep asking for more and more and I'm in shock that they don't see how much I've already given. *Never in my life would I think I'd be so jealous of the girls that get balloons and gifts from their friends during the holidays because I knew that would never happen to me*

Same letting go of toxic friends made me feel so guilty like I'm doing something wrong. Also fear of being alone. But then I finally took that courageous step and left. Found a new group of friends who are so sweet and respected me for who I am and not change me like my old friends. I'm way happier and calmer now with less drama. But toxic people they know they can manipulate you so, so they came back saying sorry and all. I didn't reply obviously they are just sorry that they lost someone who could used as per their need. Not going to be anybody's doormat anymore.

those people have replaced me, gaslighted me and as soon as i didnt wanna engage with certain behaviours anymore, turn my life around, they found no time for me, and straight up gave me a lower importance level in their life- now ima go talk to one of them and tell her how i feel so i can move on, wish me luck

Some years ago I had only some toxic friendships. Now I have no friends. (And no, that is not a joke) It's fucking hard to make friends when you have anxiety in nearly every situation... :(

YOU'RE A STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN WHO DON'T NEED NO JASON!

I lost my best friend. She always left so easily and was fine when we broke up, but every time I came back, crushed and longing for her friendship because she was precious, she never changed. She told me I was angry, and hot headed. But in reality, she pretended to be weak and forced me to believe I was hot headed to feel guilty for confronting or disagreeing with her. Still, the happiness she brought me is something I miss. I told her if she ever wanted to be friends I would in a heartbeat, but she has to be the one to take action this time for once. It's been 5 months and I'm still blocked.

I told my toxic friend that they’re being toxic and I almost cried bc they were a nice person and they changed into such a bad person but I’m kinda proud of my self for letting that friendship go

My toxic friend wont let me let her go ;;--;;

I was a friendship I would consider toxic. I try to get them out of my life but they keep saying to me 'you make me a better person.' It's so frustrating cause they make me a 'worse' person & they make me feel bad. But I've been sticking up for myself and I'm tired of dealing with that stuff :/

Just detached myself from a toxic friend. I cried a little, but now that it's over i feel refreshed and cleansed. 😞😌

It feels really bad when it's actually the toxic one that leaves you because they think that you were the problem...........

I was recently in a toxic friendship but then I got back in it now back in it they have changed me and the mess with me and fucks me over a lot never caring about me except if it was to make them look good

I couldn't have gotten this at a better time. Ive just been going through a huge fuck up with my friend. Shes constantly negative in my life, she doesn't care if she hurts me. She just doesn't care. Sometimes I wonder if she hates me. She's so toxic in my life and I know that I'm going to have to leave her someday. Probably soon.

Its better to be alone then be surrounded by toxic people . Like an eagle that flies alone in thunderstorms ❤️

I've been postponing letting go of my only friend group though they are toxic to me for years. They always "forget" to invite me when they're hanging out and always makes me feel bad about myself. I came across this video and all the comments. It made me realize that there are people out there who has the same issues as me, and that it's sometimes better to be alone than to live a life where you're always feeling out of place and a burden with people who doesn't even care. I am finally ready to let go of these people and continue my life alone but indepedent. I have come to realize that the internet can be a great place.

You seem mad

I used to be in a Toxic Friendship and I'm still broken by it, and it's been 3 years.

I recently let a toxic “friend” back into my life after he expressed how much he missed me. Biggest mistake ever! I was already apprehensive about letting him back in, but did so because I genuinely cared for him. In less than a week of us reconnecting, he’s back to his toxic ways and draining me of all of my energy. He found a way to blame me for all of our friendship’s problems and ghosted me! SMH! I CANNOT and will NOT allow him to make me feel worthless as a person anymore! I refuse to walk on eggshells around him!! Who TF does he think he is??!!Being ghosted was the best thing he could have ever done for me. The trash took itself out!

I had my feature film debut and not only did he (my best friend) not come, he didn't even acknowledge it or say anything, not even a "I'm happy for you". I texted him a week later asking if he was happy for me and he said yes (Not knowing what I was even talking about) and I literally had to tell him about it...and he didn't say much and we never got together to talk or anything when I really wanted to celebrate with him. I cut him off then. I was there for his wedding as his best man, there for his career, and gave up an entire summer for him when he had a break up, given him money, etc. All things he would NEVER do for me. -_- I mean, I kinda knew he wouldn't do THAT much for me (cause honestly he never had...or done ANYTHING for me) but he could have at least acknowledged me and what was happening (which is apparently too much to ask for)...but no. So I had it. I had confronted this problem several times over the last decade and it always came back to becoming friends again (and it had to be back to friends immediately and trust him 100% for him otherwise I'd never hear the end of his guilting me till I finally fully took him back) and the hurtful situation would inevitably happen again. I did eventually tell him why I broke away from him by messenger, and I did it in the kindest and most civil way possible with no anger or anything. And...get this...his response showed he wasn't broken up by it or that he took it seriously as he said "Oh, I'm proud of you" and talked about "his being loyal always to me" as if he didn't even read what problems I brought up to him, and I got a wave of "likes" on everything about my stuff then and there (eyes roll, oh sure, NOW you notice and act like this so that to others it looks like you're loyal to me). He didn't even apologize or make any reference that he would change either. Whatever, I didn't friend him back or anything and thought he would get the point. ...he didn't. (He still thinks we're best friends at this time) So a couple months go by and he commented on one of my social media posts how I am a star in his book and that just made me angry. Yup, THAT did it. I privately responded to him (Again, not name calling or anything, but a lot more firm and clearly annoyed) that I didn't see how that was possible after everything I had already said to him, after not even being there this whole time I needed him and wanted him to be a part of my life too. I told him that this had nothing to do with my acting career and had everything to do with how important we are to each other, cause clearly I'm not to him, and I straight up told him that I didn't think he took what I said to him seriously and to back off and leave me alone and that all his words are empty to me. Side note: This whole time I didn't hate him or wish him bad or anything. Just recently he tried to "apologize" and I told him I wasn't ready to accept it and that I will later but I needed space. He went BALLISTIC! He said he did nothing wrong (so why did he apologize then?) AND accused me of wanting a romantic relationship with him (WHOA!), AND that being with me meant that that was "neglecting his family" like WTF! XD He said to me too that maybe people were right about me after all in saying I'm in a fantasy world (cause many people didn't believe in my acting career). Low blow, but that's rich coming from him cause at least I'm actually acting in movies that are being shown and getting bigger and bigger and have more friends in my life now who think nothing like the people he's talking about vs him who wants to be a pastor and ministry and is lazy and hasn't done ANYTHING to move forward in his direction for years cause his priorities aren't in order. He also "justified" his many times cancelling on me and said how I was a selfish immature adolescent, said things that he knew would have used to hit my "insecure nerve" (but he hasn't seen me grow the last few years to know that that doesn't work on me anymore, lol), name called and so on and so forth. I can say with ease and confidence there is NO chance of us being friends after this =) He totally showed his true colors and did everything to make himself look good. I think finding new friends and working hard for my future opened my eyes to how I wanted to be treated and he couldn't accept that. He wants the me of 10 years ago. I've outgrown him and after what he said yesterday I don't ever want to see or talk to him again. I HOPE he gets the point now. Either that or he'll think what happened before will happen again: I get guilty and then I do all the apologizing and we become friends again (will full trust on HIM, not me, cause I'm the dumb immature one) and move on the way HE wants to go. Sorry dude, NOT this time. He had 13 years to change...and he's just the same. I'm moving on and have other films coming up that I'm acting in and several other friends in my life who are supportive and loving who showed me what true friendship is like =) Life is good without this guy. Never again.

NOO NOO NOO! if some one treats me wrong they are GONE! I am NOT going to waste my time on some one whos no going to put time into ME!

This is really helpful. Thank you.

I've only had 2 toxic friends so far. I'm still dealing with one of them. She makes me feel sick with stress when I'm at my best. I want to cut her off but she's in my friend group. I don't know what to do.

My friend makes me feel bad about myself, she’s been doing this for years and I’m tired of putting up with it. Thank you for this video

This video is super important for me cause I always seem to end up in really toxic friendships but can never seem to get out of them

Only criticism I have is that I feel there's too much emotion in your voice - it seems a bit forced. Perhaps tone it down a little bit - otherwise, great advice.

I remember when I was a toxic friend, I convinced my self that I was always right. I was really unaware of this most toxic friends I knew got angry, I always cried instead. It was not until I noticed what I was doing My life really changed. I changed how I acted and just became a better person, I made a lot more friends, I am a more happier person in general. Don't ever become friends with a toxic person trying to change them, they can only change themselves. I know that from experience

I just let go of my toxic friends last week. I thought if they were really my friends and like me they would ask me if something is wrong… they didn’t, they ignored and kicked me out of our whatsapp Group. Some girls of my class saw that I hung out alone these last days and they’ve been better friends in a week than the other ones in 2 Years! *Guys just let go of toxic people even if it means being alone a while!*

My childhood best friend became extremely toxic, so I had to let go of her at the age of 8. She came back to bite me in the butt because we got in the same middle school. Gosh that sucked.

What if I have no friends because I'm different, mildly autistic , my parents don't love me and I have severe anxiety when trying to socialize?

I like how I can relate to the people in the comment section than in real life.

Thank you so much for this video. Im going thru this now and it’s hard because I’ve never really had a whole bunch of friends so if I lose some it hurts extra harder because I feel like I need them, for without them I’ll be friendless and a loner and I’m afraid of that. But what I’ve started to realize is I’d rather have no friends than people who consistently make me feel like shit. Rather if they stress me out, give me anxiety, piss me off, annoy me, make me feel sad or less than, I don’t need that shit in my life nor do I deserve it. I’m a decent human being, I know I’m not a bad person, and I try to be better every day but that doesn’t mean I have to change the foundation of who I am for people who wouldn’t change for me or anyone for that matter. You rather like me, or you don’t. Accept me for me, or keep it pushing. I’m done trying to change myself for other people I need to learn to be confidence in who I am as a person.

I had a toxic friendship from kindergarten till third grade. She wouldn't let me make other friends, and it didn't help that I was already a shy kid before I met her. But for a few years after we stopped being friends, I was extremely shy and acted cold towards others out of instinct and I was afraid I'd make another "friend" who would manipulate me, so I never talked to anyone. It's been five years since we stopped being friends and I still sometimes have trouble opening up to people and making close friends that I can fully trust, which sucks.

I never had a good friend that I felt comfortable with. And it sucks. I meet people that bring out the worst in me. It hurts because I dealt with this my whole life. People move on and they act like I don't matter or they stick around just to act negative. And then they treat others better.

In almost all of my friendships, they were always toxic in some way. Whether they manipulated me, used me as their "punching bag," or just straight up acting as if I were nothing more than an idiot, it's like they're attracted to me. The sad thing is the majority of these people are ones I consider my "best friends." I have a hard time letting go, as I've never been treated right by ANYONE. My dad abused me and my brother as kids, my mom hides away in her room almost all of the time, so I've never truly felt loved by either of them. In elementary school people called me a "freak" and "psycopath" and even now it still happens, but its not as often. My first "friend" was a girl by the name of Ashlyn and I just thought she was amazing. I'd do anything she said and I took every word she said to me, whether it was a compliment or an insult, to heart. I did that up until the point she moved after fourth grade. In fifth grade I only had my cousin to rely on for the most part and another "friend" who, again, treated me like she could do anything and get away with it. Once getting to middle school, I was the new "punching bag" for new kids, and for people I considered "friends." It wasn't until recently, and I mean recently, that I realized these "friends" aren't my friends. But my problem is I have a hard time letting go. This is the only thing I've ever known. And the only reason I realized any of this was because of my boyfriend. The way he and his friends act is like actual friends, people you can rely on when you need them, they're your second family. And the way he treats me is so much different than how I've ever been treated. He's always giving me non-stop compliments, he does practically whatever I want him to do, he's protective and caring, he's so loving and kind. Without him, I would have never realized that I've been in toxic relationships my whole life.

If we are trains, then how do others bored our trains? Are their trains shoving themselves through the doors? ARE THEY MORPHING INTO ONE TRAIN?!

I understand your frustration

Next lesson: how to hire a hitman.

What I'm struggling with is how to deal with having a major falling out with a close friend when you still associate with the same circles. Reconciliation is not really possible, and I really don't want to see this person at all, yet we're bound to bump into each other regularly.

I just let go of some toxic friends. It hurts so much but I feel so much better than when I was with them. They don’t deserve me.

Just when I needed this, Thank you!

Literally just yesterday I got rid of all my toxic friendships, that just happened to be my inner circle. I think the thing that was preventing me from letting go was that I had some of my best memories with them, but also some of the worst.

I never had true friends. I've always had toxic fake friends and I find it hard to let go because I'm lonely, and even if I try to let go they like to glue themselves to me.

I know this feeling all to well, what I’ve learnt is trust no one

letting go and embracing something new is incredibly hard, even when it's the right choice. I had to learn it the hard way. friends that do not support my vision of a KZfaq channel need to go. If I'm looking for support but receive laughter instead, then it is time to go. guys stop clinging to lost causes, you'll waste energy and time. It's time to move on! I'm an extreme introvert but Id rather search for new people then being around the wrong ones.

This is my life explained in 7mins 😌

What hurts the most that the person whom we thought to be The best person whom we can confide in everything about our lives Even the gravest of the secrets can ever ditch us like that and turning the toxic friend disturbing your mental health. Don't let anyone come into your life such that they can destroy your mental health 😌

I recently ended a friendship with someone... We were really close, closer than anyone I’ve been friends with before. He gave me so much and I tried to do the same. (I failed at that). We did so much together until I needed some space. He freaked out and started a horrible cycle. Each time he’d find an issue with how I was behaving and would often tear apart my character every time. He was always blunt but in hindsight he pulled no punches. Each time I’d come to dread our interactions. I was never good but I tried to keep going. I just never did anything right. It was a depressive episode on his part that broke us. He said something that just terrified me (something along the lines of I should be expect him to be snappy). We ended up not messaging for two months. I threw myself into my courses and I tried to avoid doing any guilt tripping or unhealthy clinging. Just when I was starting to properly let go he came back... and I saw how toxic our friendship was. He was emotionally manipulative (indirectly blamed me for his self harm etc). I was always too scared and then too resentful to communicate my issues. I knew that it was not a healthy dynamic. I thought about fixing it, trying to start again. I didn’t want to lose my friend, someone I had come to care about only to fail at showing it. I knew that it was easier and nicer to try again but healthier to step back. I never threw my emotions at him like he did to me, but the heartbreak I felt was devastating and unlike anything else I’ve felt. I didn’t tell him all the awful tings I thought about how he acted or treated me, I didn’t even argue with him. I just told him that we weren’t good for each other. He never forgave me, he never really acknowledged what I said in a way that mattered. Even so, I will always wish him the best. I’m grateful for everything I learnt during my time with him.

could've used this in middle school

Your intro audio sounds like someone snorting coke.

I just got through a toxic friendship, literally hours ago. It was the worst friendship of my life. She constantly lied to me and did it unabashedly, and I couldn’t trust her. She was selfish, rude, and incredibly judgmental. She made me feel guilty for everything, and I felt so trapped in that friendship. I wanted to get out but couldn’t, she would guilt trip me and had me sobbing myself to sleep so many times. I felt like I owed her something, and I was the doormat to her shoe. Now I can see how much she had been manipulating me and how awful she was treating me. She never cared about me, and said that to me to my face. I couldn’t get out though, because she was the only best friend I’ve ever had. She was so sweet, AT FIRST. She was so caring, AT FIRST. She was so gentle, AT FIRST. Everything changed though, once I told her parents she was suicidal. I called her for two hours and she talked about killing herself. She talked about letting go. She talked like this was her last day, she started giving away all the money she had and distancing herself from everyone. And her voice... she sounded so defeated and dead. I knew I would regret for the rest of my life if I didn’t tell someone and she killed herself. So I talked to my parents and they called her Mom and explained what happened. It’s been a month since that day, and she never spoke to me once. I just messaged her yesterday apologizing, which now I see I didn’t need to do. Why was I apologizing? I was trying to save her life! I wanted to help her! I sent her a four paragraph message about how I loved her(she was my cousin) and how I missed her and thought she was incredible. You know what she sent back? “:my name:, I’m fine. Our friendship is over. The last month I’ve spent not texting you has made me so much happier. You can make new friends.” Just like that. Our twelve years of knowing each other and three years of friendship were GONE because I was trying to help her. I was trying to help her! I started crying immediately after that message because it hurt so much. I felt like giving up, but then I realized. This was the push I needed to break away from this toxic friendship. I didn’t reply to the message, instead I blocked her on iMessage and all social media’s. I still hurts what she said to me and I’m sure it’ll still keep hurting, but I can see clear as day now how harmful she was to me. If you’re seeing this(you know who you are): Please never do this to anyone again. I will not be your doormat for you to step on. All those times I’ve helped you with homework, grieving, and advice are gone now. This was your choice, I will no longer be manipulated by you. Thank you for ending the friendship, I needed to get away but didn’t know how to do it. I would say I hope you have a good day, but all the late nights I’ve spent talking to you, the sobs I’ve shed for you, the anxiety attacks I’ve had because of you say otherwise. Never treat anyone how you’ve treated me. Have fun with your life!

Im the type who ALWAYS kicks the person off the train, they dont leave on their own. If I realize something I dont like and it compromises who I am then I'm pushing said person away.

Now I'm even more depressed 😢 people use me too I'm glad this made me realize

I love this channel and I've been subscribed to it for a very long time. BUT PLEASE make the pace a bit faster. And please change the slow drawings because it distracts me from listening to what you're saying.

I told my friends that I had depression and they didn't seem to care and take it seriously. I still don't know how to get through it.

I left 3 toxic friends because they we’re destroying my mental health, as well as all 3 them being manipulative and destructive towards me and even the friends that cared around me

Some are not toxic but when you open up to someone you create a emotional bond. When you grow up people get mature and more rational. It can be hard to make a barrier between these two in the beginning but once you do it you might find yourself being more happy 👍

Even though I really don’t have friends after letting go of my toxic friendship, I feel so much better. It feels like the weights on my shoulders have been lifted off. And, I’m starting to gain more and more confidence without being insulted or “joked” about each day. I tell you know, it may be hard at first, but once you let go of someone, you feel so much better.

I have a toxic friend that I’m desperately trying to leave but the problem is every time id try to distance myself, she’d see it and come to me to torture me. There are times I’ve been obvious about what I wanted to do and she would end up near me in school during our recesses and she’d either say things to her friends really loud to make sure I hear it or she’d get really physical. I’m not weak it’s just that I don’t want to have on my school records that I’d gotten into drama. My dreams of going to college help me cope and just bare these situations but I really desperately want to get away from her.

This is my story I know people probably aren’t interested but it feels good to share it I had a really close friend who seemed like a really nice person, she was my second best friend and in a friendship trio with me and my best friend. Then someone called me a slut and a bunch of people joined in. I didn’t react very well, I got really sad and got depression, but to mask that depression I made myself really angry and said some things I probably shouldn’t have. This friend acted like she was supporting me but then started saying that I was reacting really stupidly, I thought she was just trying to help until one day. She tried to turn my best friend against me by teaming up against me and saying that I was being stupid and toxic, though I never got them involved. After it was all resolved, my best friend apologised but the fake friend never did, I assumed she implied it somehow and I’d just missed it. Then the fake friend stopped being as close with me and my best friend over time, and started ranting to whoever would listen about how awful I was and how I got away with everything. This is my story.

This video is very personal. Like, calm down, sis.

this is convinent timing for me honestly, thank you

a friend of mine who was always the nice, quiet girl, hadn’t talked to me for a long time. Today, she texted me out of the blue and my response (which was a polite “no thanks” to a web link/code) made her say some cuss words and mean things. I politely told her not to swear around me and she said too bad. I guess she’s changed (for the worse?) due to some family issues and friend influence... I was sad and cried for a little while. We blocked each other on the texting site in the end.

I had a friend who I known 3 years. Our friendship had been on and off for a while and I had dealt with her being so available when she need something from me. Every time I get paid, she always text me 'how are you doing' and asks for money and never pay me back. I felt she was a narcissist.

Dude. You need to stop with that passive aggressivity and focus a bit more on the actual video

So, trains take rides on trains?

im glad i watched this...ive been in a ONLINE toxic friendship...she will always bully me and make me cry...and everynight cuz of her ill cry my self to sleep...she will scream bout me over stupid things and when she dosent get what she wants she will just ingore me...

You are helping me learn how to move on from a friendship I have and I’m planning on ending it soon I will still have some people around me and I am so grateful for that

Fun fact: "You're not afraid of letting go, You're afraid to accept the fact that they're really gone."

1:52 okay not kidding, one of my favorite artists just tweeted out "every single person comes into your life for a reason... whether they stay or go"

I remember not long ago, sitting with a toxic friend in his little apartment, sharing drinks and talking about music. At one point, he kicked into his dark side and started giving me his analytical opinion of me which felt degrading. This was very common, I would put up with it or it would trigger me into anger as if I was having to defend something about myself. I went through the cycle of thinking “maybe he has a point. Maybe I am rotten in some of these places.” During this particular moment that we were talking and having drinks and talking about music, I felt the following words come to my mouth and I just let them go, straight to his face: “no one talks to me the way you talk to me. Not even family members.” It took him aback and he seemed to feel shocked and ashamed. We still have those moments where he falls into judging me out loud when we hit on a particular topic during our discussion. The funny thing is, it’s never at a point where I am critiquing him. It’s usually at some point where I critique something or someone he holds dear, something or someone who is not directly connected to him. Usually it’s an ideology or political figure.

I am the toxic friend that was cut from someone elses life...I miss my friend a lot and have dreams about the things I did. Wish her well, she did the right thing

LET IT GO, LET IT GO, I NEVER LIKED PEOPLE ANYWAY

I just don't have the balls to let go just because I'm afraid I will end up dying alone :c Being an introverted person with only a handful of friends, coming across one of these "Jason" is a punch in the gut.

It hurts looking back and thinking about how much shit I dealt with from the people who were supposed to be there to support me. I stopped feeling safe, cared for, and appreciated early on in the friendship, but I stayed for so long out of fear of not finding any other friends. It wasn’t until I got to college and I met genuine people who liked me for me that I acknowledged how terrible my high school friends were.

I’ve needed to end a long lasting friendship of 16 years… when you In your 40’s your circle is gone… but it was too much… I was used, abused over and over again… I think it’s better to be alone without any friends than in pain…

THIS IS JUST WHAT I NEEDED THANK YOU

I've been trying to leave my best friend for a while as I've been feeling unhappy with her lately. I failed, because I can't say no to crocodile tears. After I watched your videos though, I realized she was manipulative, and I'm gonna have a shot at it again. Thanks Psych2go!

i recently cut off all my friends , in a pretty harsh way . they did something like a month ago that truely hurt me , and when i told them abt it they got deffensi e instead of simply appologizing , and then they kept doing it over and over , an everytime i just cry and endure it . but i was so mad and fed up that i texted them like rly harshly saying i was done , but what they did shocked me , they said they never liked me , that i waz a bitch , that i they didnt trust me , and stuff like that . they even told me to k*s and that i deserve to 💀 . i am glad i ended this friendship bc im only realising now how toxic it was

Ive been in a toxic friendship for years, I only do them favors and they are just mean, unfair and makes toxic comments, its time to break up these friendships thank you

I wish i saw this two years ago when i lost all my friends. I've been in a depressive kind of state because of it, never did i think i was better off without them or that they were toxic. All i saw was i was left behind and not worth staying for. But maybe better they left sooner than later when I've come even more attatched. I think. I hope...

I recently cut off some toxic friends.I want a fresh start,but I'm forced to stay put.What else can I do???

I’ve been in those relationships for a long time, God bless you for helping me let go of the wrong people, for sharing what you have learned and everything, thank you

I just cut out a toxic friend today. Weirdly a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. Now I have to start from scratch so there’s that.....

I like trains

I got rid of him, finally, thought i needed him but I realised I didn’t need him a long time ago and I finally did it. It’s gonna be hard to let go but it’s worth it, he never cared about me or my feelings even when I cared for him so much. Pretty sure it was a karmic relationship.

As I grow older I really realise that with my own personal growth I need to really leave and recognize the people who haven't grown themselves or don't want me to change. I have learned how toxic people can be and letting go, deleting and cutting out people that have made me feel uncomfortable or negative has been a real relief and life changing. It's easy to think that just because you were friends with someone you still need to be - Social media doesn't help this as naturally we would not have a list of over 10 people as friends and would not stay in contact with people after a longer period of non contact. I deleted FB in January after using it pretty much every day for 13 years. I don't miss it at all.

Wow...this video probably just saved my life from some of my toxic now formerly, "Friends" that used me for my kind heart...it's only been an hour or two since I parted ways with a former friend. Thank you so much for making me realize the harm I was doing to myself by continuing these relationships :)