“I survived that hell hole, so I can survive this too.” AMEN.
@alexobenАй бұрын
loved this episode, thank you for uploading! i resonated with alot of your responses to this question! i have had to go through this more than a few times, definitely not a fun thing to experience. there were parts of what xannie & mo said that really hit home for me ❥
@user-no2mz9hl4fАй бұрын
For sure. Losing someone who’s still alive is a special kind of grief, and it can be very painful and challenging to navigate.
@sagedandy123Ай бұрын
Haven't even listened yet. I lost so much and so many people. I realised that the ppl in my life weren't that great anyway.
@tadams2toneАй бұрын
So many. So many people that helped me along the way... That's okay, I'm getting better.
@PrincessAugusteАй бұрын
Yep. So many people that helped me
@FrostNova912 күн бұрын
I subscribed to this channel because my wife has BPD and I’m trying so hard to make things work. Hearing you all speak has given me perspective and I will watch more of your content but is there any advice or wisdom you can offer when it comes to being in a relationship with someone who has BPD? A sort of “things that help” and “things that don’t” perhaps. As all of you I’m sure are aware, it really is a struggle for both me and her. We’ve been married for 7 years, I’m 33 and she’s 30. We have 4 kids together and I feel that the strain in our relationship is affecting them. I know this is like at least a month old video but the few videos I’ve seen of yours have been quite insightful so I really hope to hear back from you.
@thebpdbunch2 күн бұрын
We’ve got several episodes on BPD in romantic relationships! kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eciciL2Ip5fYfI0.htmlsi=PO9TI5dqGI-LmFRp kzfaq.info/get/bejne/n9-IoLilx8qYoJc.htmlsi=Z9Yk5nMFJYBqsPMF If you have specific questions, Xannie and her husband will be doing a new Q&A on relationships this upcoming season 5
@user-dn8hd6xn1eАй бұрын
I haven’t even watched it yet and this is about to be a gut punch I bet lol
@9474u5Ай бұрын
I have found myself feeling annoyed at people who don't easily get over the hurt I caused them...particularly if it feels minor in comparison to the hurt I know I'm capable of inflicting on someone (trust me, not bragging 😔). It's ironic though, because I often find myself utterly distraught by minor things that other people (likely unintentionally) did that hurt me. I do tend to get over it relatively quickly though if their behavior towards me becomes validating or kind again. Then I feel bad for even being upset at them in the first place. 😵💫 This is why I isolate so heavily.
@sagedandy123Ай бұрын
Full episode?
@thebpdbunchАй бұрын
Linked in description!
@n.b.189Ай бұрын
Does the splitting decreased or become less intense during recovery
@thebpdbunchАй бұрын
Yes! Many of our cast either don’t split as frequently or when they do it is not as uncontrollable as in the past ❤️