i rarely ever feel this way but i wish these podcasts were longer

I really love Ashley Gavin's pick-up line at bars where she says "Are you gay enough for me to buy you a drink?". It's so open and honest, and it's an easy way to let people know you're interested without trying to figure it out via a long conversation that is not going anywhere.

Gosh, the irony of a university being called LIBERTY and being so restrictive to people's freedom...

I want a second interview with her. I want to hear more about her dating when she was closeted. That had to be really smooth.

“Nothing about me screamed gay” was actually pretty validating bc I really doubted myself when people were so shocked like I must’ve gotten it wrong :/

Oh I loved her so much😂. This episode guest was just a breath of fresh air. I loved her exuberant energy and the stories she told were very compelling. I also loved her confidence of approaching women in a just effortless way😂. Must say, there is a lot to learn from her.😂

I would love to see an episode solely on the femme struggles. I have been on a rant about the gay/hetero struggles we have to balance being gay but looking straight and I love to hear some opinions on this subject.

I need like an extended edition of these episodes, I have loved every episode so far

really interesting podcast and fascinating conversation! as a bisexual woman, i want to urge women who like women to be more assertive, clear, and direct with their intentions and interest. don't be subtle! offer to buy her a drink, ask for her number, and ask her on what's clearly a date. don't be ashamed. sometimes i feel like an anthropologist navigating the world as a bisexual, able to analyze gender and sexuality from a unique perspective. men are socialized to be more direct while women are socialized to be more passive. it results in lesbian dating being much harder, and i don't like always feeling pressure to make the first move or be the more assertive/dominant person in a dating dynamic. i also really don't like grey areas between friends and dating, it's usually a huge waste of my time and energy. anyway, great conversation and i especially appreciated the perspective on the different experiences of being more masc or more femme presenting. you have a new subscriber!

I really do appreciate the talk about dating a woman that hasn't ever dated woman before ❤

It feels sooo good to have representation ❤ we need more episodes!!

That laugh is so infectious 🥹

These podcasts are genuinely so amazing. These need to be longer !!! Honestly I don’t often listen to podcasts but these really keep my attention. They feel so real and authentic ❤

I seriously love every single episode of this podcast UGH

Hi, I’m from Brasil and this podcast has helped me so much, thanks for your work I really needed this kind of content. I’ve kind of made a marathon of ALL GUESTS, and I feel so glad I did it, I’m about to turn 25 next year and sometimes I feel so old of start to living as a queer person in the last 2 years, but the stories here made me realize that this is not uncommon and I’m not weird for that.

What a great way to wake up, a new video from you!! The only negative to finding you early on is that you dont have a bunch of videos to binge waiting for the next one! 😂

These are genuinely so amazing. These need to be longer !!! Honestly I don’t often listen to podcasts but these really keep my attention. They feel so real and authentic ❤

❤ a few minutes in and I don't want it to end. I relate so much with Jordan's experiences. Also, she's hilarious 😂

She should become a teacher! I understood and comprehended what she said on a whole other level, she speaks so clearly and cohesively lol , women.

I have been waiting for this episode for last 3 days. Your podcast is kinda relief for me, I listen to it while I’m even working. As someone who’s living in a country where I can be who I am is really depressing. Your content really helpful to relax and chill ❤

Loved the energy in this pod! Thank you! Got a date tonight, keep them fingers crossed guys!

i've discovered this podcast recently but already love it!

Love the irony of the name of the University. Liberty = Freedom.

I look forward to this podcast every week and stalk tik tok and watch all the clips in anticipation. So happy a new episode i can obsess over is out

I so appreciate this podcast. Loving these topics and perspectives. So needed💕 side note: the whole 'predatory lesbian' trope that the media created is such a farce. Many a lesbians dont want to make another woman feel uncomfortable, even if they are flirting with you. I so dont make the first move unless I get 500% go ahead from that woman. I so had a crush in my apt and after her light flirting with me I still didnt make the move.

Loving this content every week! So refreshing 💖💖

Please do a podcast on dating for older women.

I love this podcast, too bad it wasn't around when I came out 40 years ago; of course these women weren't even born yet.

Loved Jordan's energy and vibe🤩🤩

So good!! Missed the U-Haul / U ghost segment . It’s my fav 😂❤

Another great one, love it. The vibe is so great, make me laught a lot, so much good content, thaaaanks Girls and yeah you can simply talk longer 😊

Just seeing the podcast for the first time. Love this topic and advice

You might be a late addition to this world but you'll take it by storm, I feel! Please continue to use your powers for good! On a different note, it is so crushing (and necessary) to be reminded, through your guests, of the hardship we all have to go through to just... be! It's such a common theme across all accounts: teenagers terrified to be outed, rejected by family and peers, with personal safety, mental health and career on the line. We really do play life on hard more!

I feel like you two are so similar and so different. First time watching this “series” (?) but I love it

Love this so much, Jordan Harvey has such good chemistry!

I’m soooo excited for this episode 🎉

This was such a great episode! Love hearing about other queer ppl's struggles when it comes to dating.

i loved so much this episode and i had so much fun listening LOL thanks alot!

Another great podcast. Thanks so much!

Jordan is so knowledgeable and and it is so refreshing to hear her talk because she is so opened about her experiences.

OBSESSED! Why am I just discovering this content now! Love the energy, laughter and real talk! I'm a new subscriber fromLondon! 🇬🇧🏳‍🌈🔝

We didn’t have the luxury of the Internet in the 90s..but we did have amazing huge gay women bars in Los Angeles…coffee shops and a Women’s Comedy and Fest..way up in the mountains. It was all magical…coming out was tricky! ❤

I loved this one, it's true there too many expectations on who does what

My favourite guest so far - Jordan Harvey is adorable 🥰

She talked in an amazing way .....just loved this show ....many question has been answered through real experience

loved this episode!

These episodes are so lovely 🤍🤍🤍

I like that y’all have been adding picture and videos

Thank you for making this podcast! 🌿

I’ve been enjoying this podcast a lot!

Another great episode.

It’s the irony of being bound at “Liberty University “ for me.🤷🏾‍♀️

I really enjoyed this podcast. Thank you ❤

Loving this podcast ❤❤❤❤

Love your podcast ❤❤❤

I listened to you guys every night before bed love what you guys talk about…

she just called me out in everything she says LMAO

This was the only episode that got me spiralling. At once saying the lesbian dating pool is painfully small, but then also saying that she wouldn’t date anyone new to coming out felt like a kick in the face. You do you girlie, as usual, but oof, the contradiction 😗

These girls have been so entertaining… nice job…

I’m 62- we had so many gay and lesbian bars. We got to meet so many women. Miss that-

Tik tok brought me here I enjoy this ep a lot 🌟💞Its really hard to always be the person who make the first move😭love straight women bad.

I had a two cousins who also attended liberty University, they are both Christian and only lasted a year. They said they couldn’t do it. One of them actually had to leave because she got pregnant by her now husband. But the rules were too much…Now I know why. Great conversation. I relate so much to Mal with the experience of femme presenting and being in the queer community.

I feel like we should talk more about dealing with family pressure

Have literally watched all you're podcasts, some a few times over. I love what you're doing with this and the relevance it has. I listen and go back through the different periods of my life and go "yes" through something that I have or currently experience! I do get a bit jealous of the fact I live in a part of Australia and our dating pool is non existent. I'm struggling to make Friends in the queer community being a lesbian. There is just no where to go to meet unless you're in certain areas of the country which is unattainable for most. I want to just organise a big long weekend holiday at a resort or camping where queer people from all over can come and meet, enjoy different activities and make memories although I don't have the skills to be able to organise that. I'm literally looking if they have these things overseas that I could go to. I'm going to the next Matilda's (soccer) match and that's pretty much the only lesbian event I know of where multiple lesbians will be... Sad I know but so true. Mardi gras in Sydney is another but it's once a year. Matilda's is multiple occasions. Keep doing a Killa job on your podcast and I'll be one of the first to listen to any content that comes out. 🏳️‍🌈👸🇦🇺😊

Favorite pod cast so far !!❤. Fems are tricky . I can defiantly see the struggle with mistaken as hetro. I give off a masculine vibe but a lot of times its not obvious. I used to be picked up by guys. What is your advise to older leabians that never had a girlfriend? I was asked about my last relationship ... i was embarrassed to say not in a while.

As a baby lesbian in the dating world, I find this video very helpful. It solved my questions in just a few minutes ❤❤❤

Thank you ❤

Love her! Also, I am a Femme that loves pursuing people. My current very masc presenting partner was definitely picked up by me in bar, not vice versa 😊

Ok I live under a rock…but who is Jordan harvey? She’s so charismatic and humorous! :)

Jordan was like the CIA of lesbians at Liberty.

No pressure; but keep it up!❤🎉😊

I’ve been out for 15 years or so… and the one thing Ive always struggled with was finding queer friends… to this day… I have 1 who lives across the country!

I wait a game on the end 😅

I also went to Liberty 😭

OMG yess 16:00 in high school I thought I’d graduate, get to uni, then the gays would appear 😭 well that did NOT happen so as a freshman in college I was constantly searching for the gays as a closeted -for safety- lesbian.. and let me tell u it’s difficult 😭 but now I found some gays through a friend that goes to a different uni and has gay friends so I was like um guess whattt I’m gay and I want to get to know the local gays.. so yeah it’s dope also guys there is hope trust me you are NOT the only gay/queer person no matter where u are I’m in the middle east gurl and there are queers here like I knew we have an underground gay scene u just have to find a way to get to it lol

“How can you find gay friend?” Girls, they are all here listening to the podcast hahaha

you sould link the guest's socials in the description

the catfish story was WILD😭

A lot of fems think the more masculine one is going to be more forward about asking the other out and so on. Asking a lady out is really hard. I wish this sort of stuff was around when I was younger. Would have saved me a lot of time.

I am taking noootes ✍🏽 Apparently I'm oblivious. Lmao

Mal you look so gorgeous 💖

Not just that it’s Liberty, but you’re in Lynchburg which is a dry county.

Kohhh back.

What.... I didn't know about the ig thing 😅

why does she still have all the apps though 💀

🧡🧡🧡🧡

Love the energy! Love this, would love to see something about being neurodivergent (autistic/ADHD/genetic stuff), and dating as a sapphic (lesbian or bi) woman, which this podcast and getting it in my feed again has got me questioning again if I’d like to date women, never mind that I’ve never had any significant dating experience of any kind but plenty of other gay/lesbian and trans friends at my little liberal arts college (except difficult to meet anyone who I’m not already friends with and might make it awkward). And that makes dating people of all genders really difficult. Hopefully not an overshare because I do that a lot.

Any advice for later in life lesbians?

18:24 it is difficult. I'm from Jamaica and it's so alone here being a lesbian and one that's not into parties or into being sex buddies 🙄. I really wish i had some gay friends.

omg liBERTY va represent

Longer!!! lol

If ur catfished you can leave omg horrible 😂 and especially better believe I’m telling the server our checks are separate 😂

Ghost or U-haul 😅

Ana shumate next pliz

Hi Ladies! SoCal based Graphic Designer. 😉

16:21 Not sure why i am watching this as a straight man in this 50s but it has been the same for all of my life, where t f do i meet someone to match me.

Does she have any social media instagram or sth?

Please invite christina and amber or one of them

Is Jordan a Leo?😂

Like fr, How many Jordans have you met in your life 😂