As a Pakistani American, I came out to my parents spring break sophomore year of college. It went horribly..haven’t spoken to them in over 20 years..I can’t believe how homophobic Muslims are..even the ones who are in America like my parents.

I'm gay still in iran , and truly your story was in a way inspiring, im a highdchooler and i definitely understand what you went through, it's super hard to live here , especially when your friends call gay people disgusting to your face , so thank you for sharing your story cause by doing so , you give little gay Boys like me can feel semi represented, your awesome ❤❤ Merci❤

Hey, I cant imagine how stressful it is to live in the middleeast while being gay. I applaud your bravery and thank you for sharing your story.

Thank you for sharing this story. My husband is from the Middle East and he is still not out to his family. He came to America to go to school as well and that's how we met. Live your best life and find a guy or girl, that treats you with respect and love and holds you number one in their heart.

Matin is so funny. He takes life with humor and giggling through all his experiences. 😂😅

This is the absolute best come out video ive seen. Im a 22 closeted egyptian, and ive been seeing those kind of videos since forever. They were always sad and over dramatic , leaves me depressed and crowled on myself. But this video was full of fun and twists. Ive had similar experiences to yours but i was smart enough to keep everything private till this day lol, only caught very few times. I use double accounts for everything and that works well. Im planning to finish medical school and go to a country that accepts me the way iam, but its gonna take hella lot of time, maybe even in my 30s, and also i gotta prepare mentally for the people and things im gonna lose. If you can talk about your approach to mentally heal from those in future video that would be amazing. Thanks bee and much much love 😘🥰

As a Turkish, While watching the video, I thanked to Atatürk and secularism more.

My situation wasn't life threatening, but my parents handled it horribly for YEARS. And I love this comment section, you are so sweet and deserve to be protected!

Totally appreciate your story. You are a very special guy.

Matin...you're a very brave man. Welcome to Canada, my friend. We need more men like you to make out country even greater. A fan from Canada...

as an ex muslim gay man from syria i feel represented.. thank u.. xoxo 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈❤❤

The "Gay Best Friend." YUP. I grew up in the US, so it isn't illegal, but my family is EXTREMELY religious and abusive. It's shocking how little people care. Always being reduced to, "you know, the gay one." Thanks for sharing your story! It's nice to see you laugh through it ❤

Oh God Matin is soooooooo irresistibly cute!!!!!!!! The smiles, the goofiness, the cuteness, everything about him is so amazing... I melted into water! Love you Matin! From New York!!! Raj

Left islam and never have felt better in my life. I started to love myself again and threw away the rubbish islam installed upon me ❤❤❤

You have an amazing story that needs to be shared with the Muslim, fundamentalist Christian, fundamentalist Jewish, and any other religious beliefs that condemn or deny us our God-given humanity. Kudos for making yourself a happy man. Be at peace.

Baby, can’t deny your cuteness of every giggle at the end of every sentence! 😍 Stay strong!

You said something that I paused to write down: "Nothing feels better than to express yourself freely and to be who you really are." Such beautiful words and phrasing. I came out 45 years ago and have never looked back. I was so so so so SO fortunate to have supportive parents who didn't bat an eye (and they were not religious either). I immediately moved from Atlanta Georgia to San Francisco where it was much easier to be gay when I was 22. 15 years later and two college degrees I moved to Hawaii, got married to a great guy scientist at age 55 - so it gets incredibly better, Matin! My very best to you on your Journey! Aloha!

Hey I'm a gay Iranian who was born and raised in America. I appreciate you sharing your perspective because culture and religion can translate to even another country. I can't begin to imagine how it would have been growing up with these difficulties with the added extremism and homophobia of Iranian culture. Lots of love

Heyy I’m not sure if you’re gonna see this but as a Pakistani guy who comes from a conservative Islamic background I related to this so much it was so heartwarming and made me feel like I’m not alone ❤ thank you for that. Stay blessed Matin edit: thank you sm for the beautiful replies I truly feel loved in this safe space

Hey I have a very similar experience as I also left my country (Saudi Arabia) and claimed asylum in the UK (finally got it after two years) during my asylum process I also came out to my family and put them in the same situation (you either accept me or I’m cutting ties) I understand how difficult it’s and you are very brave and I’m very proud that you’re finally able to be your authentic self and building your future while taking care of your mental health. Thank you for making this video and I hope it inspires others to do the same while also being safe. Best of luck to you and I wish you all the best ❤

You are so adorable! I think middle eastern men are so handsome. Coming out is scary enough without worrying about being killed for it. Good for you and the best of luck to you in your freedom!

Thank you Matin, for your courageous story. I am much older than you are and being American, although we had to stay 'hidden' when I was young, still the culture in USA is nothing like the Middle East. My husband is Canadian and you are so fortunate to have relocated there. We love the Canadians; if only other countries could be as affirming as they are. Loved your testimony!

Congratulations you are now Canadian, simply because you said "That being said". Heheheee. Really, don't stop encouraging others. You will help some persons that think they are the only one.

That is an interesting and sad story. I spent time in the Middle East, and I know the dangers of being gay. You seem to be a lovely man in every way. I'm glad you've made it to Canada.

So brave of you for coming out! you definitely inspire lots of other Persian queers to find them selves love you for that❤

This popped up to me when i was really depressed thank u so much❤

Congratulations on living in Canada. As someone who lives in the United States and is still in the closet, I hope watching your video gives me the courage to come out. Thanks for such an inspiring video.

I am happy for you. Wish I could say the same for my friend who is also a Muslim here in the Philippines. When we were younger, he is only able to express who he really is when he was around us and when we were at another friend's house. It's where he was comfortable, no other people, just us his friends who knew about him. He was forced into marriage and had to stop seeing us. We all moved on with our lives as adults. He has 3 kids now but we know he isn't 100% happy. Since then, we can only get updates on social media. I miss him, I remember when he would transform himself into a diva using blankets and sing like a true diva. You are so right about how religions can brainwash people.

You're such a good storyteller! Your little reactions are so adorable. Got me cracking up over here 😂

You are a beautiful human being. Thanks for sharing your inspiring story!

Btw, your “SHY” smile is really cute and will melt someone’s heart :) really !!

Awesome for you to share this story. Even after six decades you brought some clarity to my own story.

I happen to have a friend from Iran, as taboo as gay sex is, it is happening in Iran all the time, he was very pretty, and probably the reason he was sexually abused at age 12 by his uncle and his teacher and when he tried to speak to his mum about it , she just slapped him, and told him not to lie and never ever speak of it again ... this abuse continued for years, at age 18 He left the country and now live in UK... and sadly he has no contact with his family anymore! He told me this happens all the time under the nose of many parents and it is very common and expected in a sexually repressed country as Iran!

Go ahead bro we are Proud of you 🙌🏻

My heart goes out to you. So many of us have stories similar to yours. You are an inspiration to others. Hugs.

You tell your story so beautifully! With humour and lightness for a life growing up as a young man in Iran not always so easy! Bravo! And enjoy your life in Canada.

Wow Im also living in iran right now but if your originaly from iran you speaking is really amazing ...sharing your personal story to the world is a bold move and your very brave man and cute at same time!

Total respect to you, Matin. You’re an inspiration.

So proud of you, It is hard enough to be your full self, it is far more difficult when how you are and what you feel is forbidden. You are a beautiful soul

Absolutely love and respect your content. I think you are truly an ambassador for all young people struggling with the same issues. A very true and candid story - thanks for sharing🙏

Thank you so much. I really appreciate you telling your story. I'm grateful that I never experienced worse traumas in my own coming out, but I still struggle with the internal shame to this day. Part of my journey to self acceptance is gaining strength from others through their stories. Thank you for being so open and willing to share. Your courage and encouragement will save someone's life some day.❤️🧡💛💚💙🩵💜🩷

Thank you so much for the message at the end. As someone living the a similar situation you got out of and actively working on leaving, I really needed to hear that. Appreciate you and your channel and thank you so much for sharing and being a bright light. Love you too Matin! ❤

You sound like a really positive hearted person despite hardships or dangerous situations... wish you a wonderful and fulfilling life.

All that love in you, shining past hard times. And to come up and out beyond it all with that sweet twinkle in your eye. What a beautiful (hunky!) gift! 😘

Thank you so much for sharing your story, Matin. You come across as such a sweet soul and I hope the future remains bright for you.

I send all my love and support to all the LGBT people of the world ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all are important and very valuable even though we live in a world that makes you all believe otherwise. Remember always be proud of who you are 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 You all make from this world a better place ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people are a rainbow of love in a world full of hate, but with difference of our straight partners, we all are united over a same flag 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 The flag of LGBT love ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 And we all must be united against hate, violence, discrimination and intolerance ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We all are like a great family and we must fight to destroy hate ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Remember, LGBT people is love and love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 I don't care about your race, nationality, biological gender, health condition, religion or any other condition ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 If you are an LGBT person you have all my love and my support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You guys are not alone in this fight and all the LGBT people of all over the world needs to understand this messagge, cause just united we will win against hate and we don't have to allow that nothing divide us. Never feel bad of who you are and never allow that this cruel world change who you really are or turn off your light and your shine ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all born that way and remember LGBT people of all the world, at the end, love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

Thank you for sharing your story. I'm loving the positive energy in the comment section as well.❤

So happy you now live in a country where you do not need to hide who you love! Much love to you!

I’m so sorry you had to go through all that 😢 I’m glad you are now here in Canada. 🇨🇦 🤗

We can't help but love you, too, with your infectious smile and laugh and your positive attitude. Thank you for being a voice for so many in countries that oppress the LGBTQ+ community.

You're so inspiring! Thank you for sharing your story!

Much love and support to you. Thanks so much for being brave enough to tell your story

Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and your strength. You are an inspiration.

you had a lot to overcome to get to where you are. I’m always proud of those who are as brave as you.🙌🏻

You are a very smart and caring young man. What you are doing is helping others around the world to know they are not alone, and your advice will save lives. Thank you for being honest and sharing your story. By the way, I had to make the decision to cut some of my family members and friends out of my life when I came out, too. It seems harsh, and is by no means an easy decision, but it is ultimately the right decision. No person, even your father, should be allowed to cause you shame and misery. Be proud of who you are to everyone. I'll be proud of you, too.

thank you for sharing your story! i'm glad you're safe now 💗

Wow! You’re story really touched me. I always have empathy for others plights in life. I had a very normal American upbringing. Being gay was still tough as a kid. But once I got to high school the US was changing and my parents and friends were accepting. I had a friend who came to live in the US from Jordan. He explained the taboos of homosexuality in Muslim countries. I am so glad you found your peace. You seem like a very genuine soul and I hope you continue to help others feel accepted in the world.

Matin, Thank You for sharing your story. Your expression will help so many in the coming out process. So glad you made it to Canada, a great country. Stay strong and well.

I’m glad you’re finally in a different, safer and more respectful environment. You deserve to be happy and free. You’re so cute and a real jewel! 😉

Thank you for sharing Your story ! I am Glad you are Still Here & Alive !

I love that you were able to tell this story with a sense of humor. We need to keep it in mind that hating someone because of their sexuality, ethnicity, gender expression, etc. is a joke, and we should be able to laugh at it even though it's also simultaneously endangering us. To quote Seal " you're never gonna survive unless you get a little crazy" and you did gurl...you did. 🙏 🤲

Hugs! From Philippines 🇵🇭 Stay strong. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

Thanks for speaking out. I am sorry you had such a tough journey, but I'm glad you found some support from friends and family eventually. You have a great smile, too. Very handsome.

I so rarely watch coming out videos. Came out in 2003, so I've seen my fair share of them! But I stumbled across yours and gave it a chance. I'm so happy I did! Your sense of humor and gifted storytelling are top notch! Subscribed. 💖💖💖

Wow, I'm so sorry that you had a challenging coming out experience. But it's so beautiful that you even have a bit of a sense of humor about some of those experiences. It shows that those experiences don't have control over you. I'm so happy that you're able to live openly and truthfully now. :) Best wishes.

Thanks for your story. I'm so glad you are safe and free. You are gorgeous!

Amazing story! I'm so happy you were able to move to Canada and pursue your life without fear of violence! Congratulations! (You have an endearing KZfaq personality!)

Love your videos. It's nice that you feel safe and independent on your own now. Those are great advices. It's really hard to come out to your family especially if you're still dependent on them. I hope one day I can move abroad like you and find a place that feels safe.

Thanks for sharing your story. Coming out is rough but I didn't take into account it also being illegal for some. That is an extra level. I hope your story helps others find their way.

I am happy to hear young generation coming out being strong. Asia and Africa aren't easy societies because of religion. Keep up the spirit because God doesn't discriminate human beings do.

This will help so many of our community find the strength and courage to find a way through which seems like a tunnel with no light at the end. Also, you're cute as heck. Great video

You expressed yourself so clear. I'm so sorry about every bad moment that you have experienced. But as we can see it couldn't stop you to survive and take your life back. At the same time i am so happy to listen you again. You are inspiring people who want live his own journey. I feel your support and energy. You deserve the best! 💙

LOVE YOUR STORY MATIN...IM HAPPY YOU HAVE PROGRESSED AND IN A MUCH BETTER SITUATION❤❤❤❤❤❤

I have no word. Make the most out of your life. You’ve got a nice, positive vibe 🫶🏼

Matin… I stumbled across your video & I was so impressed by your coming out story. I live in the US and I cannot imagine how difficult it must’ve been for you to come out in your country. You should be very proud of yourself. I have so much admiration for you. Please post more videos. You are an inspiration.❤️

Wow! That was an extremely emotional story, but you seem to have great sense of humor about it! I’m happy to hear you’re doing well now and are comfortable with yourself. 👍🏼💜💜👍🏼

Aw wow I have no idea how I stumbled across this video, it just auto played after I finished watching another one, but I am so glad that happened! You are so funny and sweet, I think it’s beautiful how you have such a kind and gentle energy even after all that you have been through. I am so happy for you , and I think it’s so cool that you are studying animation, I am really interested in getting into that myself (or atleast knowing more about it, and more about your personal style! - I’ll look through your other videos to see if you have any videos about that) I felt drawn to comment because it’s rare to stumble across someone so wholesome by pure accident 💛

Matin, you are making a difference for the community. I have been reading post after post of men who are looking for some kind of guidance and support and for now, you are that person. I love you to pieces. ♥️🌏🌍🌎♥️

So proud of you li' bro! Glad you were able to get out of that situation and hope you continue to be happy!

Thanks for sharing your story: I admire your courage and your articulateness.

You sir have the most adorable giggles on all of youtube, may they never end, much love to you

I’m moved by your story and you are fortunate to have so much support. Stay happy!

thank you for your story & telling us how life is like in The Middle East. You have a great attitude & a positive message, Keep smiling!

Thank you for sharing your story. It’s so good your family still support you and haven’t disowned you. I’m a muslim gay guy but not out, i’m 35 and still in the closet! Wishing you all the best ❤

Iran has lost a national treasure; Canada has gained one. This is the advantage of liberalism.

Coming out is am individual experience for each of us, everyone fits in somewhere. Really good advice, Matin glad you managed to stay safe in really dangerous circumstances.

You really went through a process and presented yourself with honesty and care. I hope a lot of people who suffer with wrong understanding and non-acceptance of themselves can move forward ⏩ with your inspiring video

❤ coming out is a personal business. No one has the right to out you and take that away from you. You come out when u are ready, its a process that not everyone understands. Keep shining and live your truth.

Oh my gosh, your journey to express yourself is an inspiring one. I also can relate to you in some sense regarding family, I grew up in a islamic household and my parents thinks of gay people like we are some brainwashed community that is unethical, everytime they preach it I'm just like🧍🏻‍♀. Thankfully I go to a more international/english speaking school so people are more open minded to this. Videos like this would always make me feel like I'm not alone, there are millions out there like us that has an unfair disadvantage in life just because we're different than the majority :( . I would always try to be grateful because I know people out there don't have even 1 support system in their life when it comes to this. As of now, there ain't no way I'm coming out to my family as of now, maybe way later in the future when I'm older and more financially stable so that I'd have my own independence . SO glad that I got recommended this video of yours ahhh!! I've been following you since your first video. Can't wait to see your channel grow Matin! ❤😁 Love from Indonesia!! 🫶

Thank you for sharing your story. You are an intelligent and brave man, and you are an inspiration to many.

Your advise on the last few minutes is totally valid !! Thank you for sharing.

I am happy that you made it safely to Canada. You are mature and have a great sense of humor. Best wishes for much happiness and success in the next steps in your life.

I absolutely respect your story and you are an amazing person. Very cute too! X

Thank you soooo much for posting this video. I feel like there's hope for me now🤩

What an experience you had growing up. It sure makes any of the small difficulties I had growing up here in the USA is very insignificant compared to what you had to endure. You're a brave man and I'm sorry you had to deal with so many people in your life that seemed all too eager to betray you and thus putting your life at risk. I know how I would react to people like that whether a relative or not, and they would be all part of the past with absolutely no participation in the present or future. I am so happy to hear that you're in Canada where you can be yourself and not have to worry about your personal safety or care about what anyone else thinks of you. Btw, this was the first video of yours I've watched and I will certainly enjoy watching more. And the fact that you have an infectious personality and are a very handsome/cute guy doesn't hurt either! 🙂 I have always wanted to visit Iran, but as a U.S. citizen, I can't plan on that trip happening as I don't travel anywhere that the U.S. does not have reciprocal diplomatic relations with. Maybe someday, but maybe not. Anyway, my name is Jason and I live in Madison, Wisconsin, USA and have lived here my entire life and I'm thankful that when I came out in my early 20s, it was fairly easy and conflict free. And it goes without saying, but very nice personal video and thank you for sharing details about your experiences. Stay strong and be as gay (or whatever you prefer) as you want! 😉

You’re so brave ❤

I can related in so many different ways. You are an amazing person thank you for your wonderful story.

What a great story Matin, you seem like a great guy, with a real sense of fun and humour. So glad you are in a safe place now. All the best man.

Amazing story, and this comment section is so heart warming. Love and happiness to you all ❤x

I can definitely respect your story i can relate growing up in the deep south/GulfCoast area but down there its two sides. they like their freedom of whatever, being charismatic, eccentric and can be extreme about it, while others can be bible thumpers!! congrats to you for wanting to be who you are. Keep it up Happiness is everything!!