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Midwest Magic Cleaning

Midwest Magic Cleaning

3 ай бұрын

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@HaydenVio
@HaydenVio 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for including me in this video, I really appreciate the awareness. ❤. You are doing good work here.
@MidwestMagicCleaning
@MidwestMagicCleaning 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for letting me use your clips! Pinning this comment.
@kimberlymiller655
@kimberlymiller655 3 ай бұрын
What did this mean?
@thechonus3858
@thechonus3858 3 ай бұрын
@@kimberlymiller655 HaydenVio was the young woman in the video clip shown at the beginning - the one with the hoarder dad
@HaydenVio
@HaydenVio 3 ай бұрын
@@kimberlymiller655 I was the girl in this tiktok he showed, he used my video
@MoonstarGem1
@MoonstarGem1 3 ай бұрын
As a fellow adult child of hoarders, I want to give you a hug. I escaped it. My brother didn't. I'm proud of you for creating a better space for yourself.
@hiddenhand6973
@hiddenhand6973 2 ай бұрын
All those times my dad screamed “you live like a pig, clean your room” I was what, six? No one showed me how. He acted like it was second nature. Thanks for this video, hon.
@walmarp
@walmarp 2 ай бұрын
this is how my dad has acted with every single thing, he starts getting angry and screaming and yelling and threatening to call the police whenever I kindly ask for help
@michellenash6802
@michellenash6802 2 ай бұрын
Sounds like a military guy. You figure it, just get it done asap!
@ElegantHope
@ElegantHope 2 ай бұрын
mine always explained it, but in a way I struggled to understand. it was always too simply explained and I had to basically figure it out in spite of the instructions. it was miserable cuz it got me yelled at a lot for not getting it right, and he didn't like me veering away from doing it a specific way even if it was more comfortable for me. as I got older I learned to ask him for details. and he still wouldn't explain it in more details, he'd just repeat the same instructions but in a different way. :/
@SpecialInterestShow
@SpecialInterestShow 2 ай бұрын
Exactly! Even today I barely know how to organize my room
@Jonathan-A.C.
@Jonathan-A.C. 2 ай бұрын
Comment and all these replies are relatable af. I’m thankful for people who actually care and who want to help people learn
@Gneevah
@Gneevah 3 ай бұрын
My dad slipped an index card full of chores, under our doors, every Saturday. There were five of us, my dad, an elementary school principal, knew how to keep children busy. We hated it, couldn’t go anywhere or watch tv until our chore list was done. He itemized each chore with 1.) Clean sliding glass doors a.) Clean bottom after vacuuming dust out, b.) clean glass inside and out side. Each chore was explained in detail. I realize not everyone had a dad like mine, it definitely taught me how to clean. Love your channel.
@taraquo
@taraquo 2 ай бұрын
I'm going to try this on my children.
@sohappytogether88
@sohappytogether88 2 ай бұрын
​@@taraquosame! Sounds great 😊
@arrriadna
@arrriadna 2 ай бұрын
I was the only child of my single mom mom. I swear to god... Cleaning, cooking... We were a team of 2... It was what it was. To this day I hate any dust gathering rug sitting for nothing 😂😂😂😂
@meh_lady
@meh_lady 2 ай бұрын
Our mom made each of us a list of chores with instructions every Saturday morning! Funny how that was such a drag as kids but is now a sweet memory. I’d give anything to have a list of chores from her now, miss her every single day. 😢
@lucanandrews774
@lucanandrews774 2 ай бұрын
I had a single bio-mother, twin and half brother... After starting 4th grade, it became apparent that I was better at making sure my chores were done, done right, and done the first time around... so I became the maid. And because of that, "allowances" stopped for all 3 of us. I hate doing dishes and folding clean laundry. Everything else goes fine... but I'm also disabled now, so being able to clean our whole apartment in one go. My partner works insane, unpredictable and random hours, so relying on her to be not completely exhausted by the time she gets home is like relying on a single nail in the wall to hold the 44" TV... I know how to clean and organize better than my twin and half-brother, and essentially everyone in my friend group- and the only one who gets close (my partner) is mostly because of her job.
@lrigdrenlrigdren2147
@lrigdrenlrigdren2147 16 күн бұрын
Actually *nothing* is intuitive, but most people don't remember being taught. It really helps to have someone teach every step, because not everyone had that opportunity early in life. Thank you for doing this.
@kidflersh7807
@kidflersh7807 8 күн бұрын
sex is intuitive, actually
@GuerillaSlop
@GuerillaSlop 8 күн бұрын
​@@kidflersh7807my partner's grower get twisted before even entering the cave. Guess he's an exception.
@kidflersh7807
@kidflersh7807 8 күн бұрын
@@GuerillaSlop twisted?
@dovahfruit9503
@dovahfruit9503 6 күн бұрын
breathing is, actually!
@DeJay7
@DeJay7 6 күн бұрын
I would argue that our bodies are specifically designed to have an intuitive idea for how, when and why to do anything that is required for survival. But only survival, not even reproduction. Maybe I'm coping.
@theGhostWolfe
@theGhostWolfe Ай бұрын
It was extremely validating to hear someone who cleans professionally to admit they hate scrubbing bathtubs. On the weekend I was scrubbing the bathroom of the rental house we’d just moved out of. It clearly hadn’t been deep cleaned before we moved in, and eventually I just broke down in tears because I hate cleaning and I was mentally and physically exhausted doing this on top of the move. I feel so much better knowing that even “clean people” find some of this stuff challenging.
@nokateno
@nokateno Ай бұрын
Cleaning tubs is the worst. If you have a ceramic tub or some hard material they have power brushes on a stick that work well. Mine is plastic so that would scratch it up so I end up neglecting it, then hurting myself when I have to go HAM on the gross tub.
@CleanLuxuryCosmetics
@CleanLuxuryCosmetics 29 күн бұрын
Lysol toilet bowl cleaner. Rinse. Then a wash with vinegar does wonders. Makes the job so easy and quick. For grout too. I don’t like cleaning, but i look forward to the result. It makes it feel worth it and like i accomplished something.
@ELKvlt
@ELKvlt 28 күн бұрын
every professional cleaner has at least one task or thing they hate cleaning. It's Urinals for me. Cleaning can really suck and it is in fact exhausting both physically and mentally. Cleaning at the end of a move is a different type of frustrating though.
@gracekoehler4434
@gracekoehler4434 26 күн бұрын
Definitely one of my most dreaded tasks too, but I found a method that works a little better for me. I'm not blessed with a removable shower head so I use a pump up sprayer for the garden to wet the tub. Then I take one of those dish wands that stores the soap in the handle and fill it with toilet cleaner and scrub (dedicate to this task, do not use it for dishes after!). Finally rinse with the sprayer again.
@MAGAMAN
@MAGAMAN 10 күн бұрын
Did you go into your cry closet? Sounds like you never did a good job of cleaning the entire time you lived there.
@LiminalNotion
@LiminalNotion 2 ай бұрын
"I'm going to show you how to clean." *Proceeds to aggressively throw multiple bottles on kitchen floor.*
@elenalatici9568
@elenalatici9568 Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@yasmeenw7227
@yasmeenw7227 Ай бұрын
I got scared when that happened cus I was washing my dishes, I thought he forgot to edit that out so I had to rewind 😂
@briarrose29
@briarrose29 Ай бұрын
I get it, but as a woman with ADHD and knowing his wife has it, I find his approach so loving and liberating
@mwahha6965
@mwahha6965 28 күн бұрын
Scared me fr , relaxing over here 😂
@IWishIDidntExist2333
@IWishIDidntExist2333 25 күн бұрын
Legit got me flinching.
@ElvishShellfish
@ElvishShellfish 2 ай бұрын
I love videos that show people how to be adults without being condescending. Straightforward and educational.
@criseastman6503
@criseastman6503 2 ай бұрын
Yes. Your kindness does so much good. As an adult I have discovered that there are a lot of things I "missed the memo on" your videos often bring me to tears with your kindness and compassion. Thank you. I hope you get your play button soon, you deserve it.
@SpecialInterestShow
@SpecialInterestShow 2 ай бұрын
Dad/Mom, How Do I? Are great channels for this too
@meretriciousinsolent
@meretriciousinsolent 19 күн бұрын
Quietly revolutionary, I think.
@ragdollrose2687
@ragdollrose2687 Ай бұрын
As a neurodivergent person raised by neurodivergent parents who didn't teach me how to properly clean but complained all the time how messy I was, this feels healing. Thank you!
@Laetu
@Laetu 12 күн бұрын
I have the same problem actually 😭 I can sorta stress clean but I can’t regularly clean and I don’t even think my mom knows how to do that :(
@user-ow1bc4sx2r
@user-ow1bc4sx2r 3 күн бұрын
you’re breaking a cycle that probably goes back generations. Feel proud! I’m sure your neurodivergent parents learned their methods from their neurodivergent parents. Understanding neurodivergence unpacks a lot of weird family quirks
@Llama_charmer
@Llama_charmer 3 күн бұрын
Didnt even learn how to clean despite being a germaphobe because i had a dad with OCD who wouldnt let me even touch the bottle of any kind of chemical cleaning product
@berku
@berku 30 минут бұрын
@@Llama_charmer you hate germans???
@Bizzy-Bumble1131
@Bizzy-Bumble1131 Ай бұрын
I like the fact that you have a regular looking house on the inside where people live. Majority of the cleaning vlogs look like people live in a showroom.
@Punsmaster2
@Punsmaster2 3 күн бұрын
favorite part was the dog casually moving out of the way of the vacuum cleaner like "yeah, yeah, we know this song and dance"
@missmagic707
@missmagic707 2 ай бұрын
Really appreciate seeing a normal house being cleaned, not a model show home that looks unlived in.
@RandomPerson-nd2ey
@RandomPerson-nd2ey 2 ай бұрын
As a buddy of mine said when I told him that the house wasn't super clean because we'd been busy with something, "I'm asking to come over and see you, not your place. That's fine."
@Ashgrey0
@Ashgrey0 2 ай бұрын
​@@RandomPerson-nd2ey real homies don't judge✊️
@johnnye87
@johnnye87 2 ай бұрын
"My wife has ADHD so we're going to leave her piles here, but I've made them organised & symmetrical" now that's a beautiful marital compromise if ever I saw one
@hish33p32
@hish33p32 2 ай бұрын
Houses like that still look like mansions compared to our houses here in the Philippines
@sevendeadlychins
@sevendeadlychins 2 ай бұрын
@@johnnye87This is how I clean for cluttered people. They love it.
@dovie2blue
@dovie2blue 3 ай бұрын
With all the products I've bought, my house still doesn't clean itself, damn it.
@heyheysbk
@heyheysbk 3 ай бұрын
That's the problem I have!!
@wolfe6220
@wolfe6220 3 ай бұрын
Stoopid ungrateful house! *fake spits at it*
@chillfactory9000
@chillfactory9000 3 ай бұрын
I need a Mr. Handy like in Fallout.
@dovie2blue
@dovie2blue 3 ай бұрын
@@pixie3760 Can I be your friend?? I have all the things you need
@angelicapain5331
@angelicapain5331 3 ай бұрын
Honestly I've had my eye on an automatic sweeper/mop for a while that is fully automated. Just need to find something that can put all the stuff away 😂
@miirav.8482
@miirav.8482 26 күн бұрын
As someone with ADHD, the really nice thing about actually getting into some kind of cleaning routine is that once you get everything to a consistent level of “clean enough”, you really dont need to do big deep cleans that often, which was what was keeping me in a rut of having a really messy living situation. Like. If on a random Sunday I feel like scrubbing out the entire oven until it’s brand new or washing the pillows, etc, I can do that as a little project. But otherwise as long as everything stays “clean enough” and we’re cycling through what’s getting cleaned each day/week/etc, nothing builds up enough that it’s too much work to get done in like. half an hour to an hour
@imthinkingthoughts
@imthinkingthoughts 24 күн бұрын
Yeah this was a game changer for me too hahaha
@RobertMorgan
@RobertMorgan 8 күн бұрын
Want a real ADD trick that will fix a lot? Never do anything for YOU, but do everything for FUTURE you. Try to impress that person. Even thank them for it later. I do this all the time, I do something, forget I did, then later it comes in clutch and makes something way easier, and I remember hey I DID do that, good job past me, you did good work, hope you kept it up.
@The7thJubilee
@The7thJubilee 18 сағат бұрын
​@@RobertMorgan Awww, that is so sweet! I have really bad executive dysfunction and I similarly try to applaud myself when I've managed to successfully do something good (even if mundane for other people). Positive self talk is just SO important. I used to beat myself up and call myself stupid and I internalized all my challenges as just "well I suck, so what did I expect" and I didn't even get diagnosed ADHD until I was 21, so my entire childhood was just being told I was bad and broken and different than others and I never knew why and I always just wanted to be good! I've been doing something similar to what you suggested for myself, but it also works great in healthy living/eating! I got overweight cause of depression, but I've lost a good amount of weight now, and current me thanks past me and encourages future me every day. ❤
@zem7924
@zem7924 17 күн бұрын
I have no idea why this is so soothing, but it is. What makes me really happy is that your house is clearly being lived in. There's some mess, and some stains that won't come out of the carpet, and a bunch of pets. And you just move the random items, clean the surface, and move them back. Most "clean your house" videos make me feel like a failure because the houses all look like they're straight from an IKEA ad. So, thank you for this. I watched the whole vid.
@qwaabza
@qwaabza 12 күн бұрын
yes! my mom once commented that all the houses on real estate photos and newspapers never looked "lived in". there are never boots by the door or cups on the coffee table or a doggy lying by the table..
@creativename2567
@creativename2567 2 ай бұрын
I feel like I was raised by the internet, I learn the most basic stuff here, while my mom just humiliated me for not learning how to do it by aging.
@Leon_Portier
@Leon_Portier 2 ай бұрын
"You're X years old, you have to know this!" :rolling_on_the_floor_laughing:
@noragalligan9421
@noragalligan9421 2 ай бұрын
Thisssss
@jessicaheger1880
@jessicaheger1880 2 ай бұрын
Your mom was probably repeating what was done to her too. Parenting doesn't come with a handbook, and most of us made countless regrettable mistakes trying our best to raise those we love the most. 💞
@AsAboveISoBelow
@AsAboveISoBelow 2 ай бұрын
Yep. Was never made to cook, or clean, or anything, and then they got mad at me for.. y'know... not being able to cook, or clean, or anything. Parents can be loving but neglectful. It's still abuse, albeit a bit more unintentional.
@ladyselena255
@ladyselena255 2 ай бұрын
Yep. I wasn't allowed to help with cleaning as a kid, because "there will be time enough when you are older" and when I was older she was shocked I didn't know how to clean anything. The internet has been a blessing teaching me all the little things my parents didn't.
@heathershideler9641
@heathershideler9641 3 ай бұрын
Do you know I actually cried watching this??? I'm showing it to my teenage sons to help them out. I was raised by a perfectionist that never taught me anything because I wouldn't do it right. Thank you so much for sharing this video. We all have ADD or OCD in our family. I'm 50 yo now and still learning.
@mmh290
@mmh290 3 ай бұрын
This is beautiful. You are an awesome mom. 👍💕
@loricartwright9841
@loricartwright9841 3 ай бұрын
PS make sure to wipe off the flush handle on the toilet.
@helenaquin1797
@helenaquin1797 3 ай бұрын
Yes.. What a good Man to show ppl, especially young ppl who may have never learned how to clean!
@gregpendrey6711
@gregpendrey6711 3 ай бұрын
The perfectionist in me wants him to show how to air dry the toilet brush. But I'll bite my tongue haha.
@ginajennings1664
@ginajennings1664 3 ай бұрын
My mom was also a perfectionist and she didn’t teach me how to clean either. It was hard for me when I had my own home.
@onlypaintmode8496
@onlypaintmode8496 Ай бұрын
I have ADHD and it feels very soothing to hear someone feel empathy for how an ADHD brain functions. Before I started to figure out my personally preferred method of cleaning, I… just didn’t do it. There were piles everywhere, because I was fearing to forget to do something with the content of those piles, or would forget (more like… erasing it from my radar) where I put it if I stored it somewhere out of sight. Yet, I found out that my brain loves simplicity. Especially when my surrounding is as less taxing on my senses. It relaxes me, and gives me the option to start a day without stress. I still work with the pile system, which is why a neurotypical person would most likely not find anything in my room suitable for themselves - for example, I have a “pile” for very important documents I need in the near future; all dates and labeled, but not related to one another at all. Cleaning is tough with ADHD. There’s almost no chance to find good and well-meant resources of how to keep your house with this condition. I needed to figure out what my brain actually liked the hardest way: by suffering from endless times of failure. Wouldn’t have happened if I found you earlier. You’re a TREASURE.
@cortster12
@cortster12 26 күн бұрын
Mood. Then you add autism to the mix of ADHD, and things are crippling.
@citizenoftheearth6
@citizenoftheearth6 25 күн бұрын
Same here. If I put any paper out of my sight, it gets completely forgotten. So, there is always a pile on my table. I am also OCD, so imagine my suffering looking at that mess every time I have to eat.
@user-ow1bc4sx2r
@user-ow1bc4sx2r 3 күн бұрын
Reading a book about adhd home organizing was like a warm comfy blanket for my brain. Every page I think “yes, that’s how things should be”
@TheHappyBunny91
@TheHappyBunny91 3 сағат бұрын
I felt so seen when he mentioned his wife's piles 😂
@no1chuuyassimp
@no1chuuyassimp 22 күн бұрын
im autistic and I grew up in a abusive household and my mother would beat me up and yell at me every time i was cleaning the incorrect way and she would never tell me how to clean this video made me cry for the first time in months it felt like for the first time in my life that someone cared about about me thank you for making this video
@tianachidester1566
@tianachidester1566 18 күн бұрын
Your mother must love you... She may have just been frustrated... She had you after all
@no1chuuyassimp
@no1chuuyassimp 18 күн бұрын
@@tianachidester1566 ma'am I'm gonna tell you this because clearly you don't understand that just because someone gave birth to you it's not give them the right to treat you horribly. I used to think the same thing. And I would gaslight myself into believing that maybe my mother was just having a bad day. But would a loving mother abuse you physically and mentally. Would a loving mother try to sell their daughter into human trafficking. Would you say a person breaking their child's foot because they were angry because their child didn't give them a foot massage a loving mother. Ask yourself is that a loving mother would do? I don't think so. Do you think a loving mother would tell their daughter who was getting sexually abused by their babysitter and by their stepdad that it's normal and that it's fine and to not tell anybody about what happens at home or else she will kill you. Do you honestly think that's something a loving mother would do? would a loving mother permit a man to touch their daughter that is no younger than 4 years old sexually. Do you think a loving mother would let her brother take her 4 years old daughter's virginity. I don't think so I used to think that it was fine and that everything was fine. And that my mom was just frustrated when she hit me. But guess what when I had my own kids and I realized it's not that hard to not be a shitty parent. Sure I get frustrated with my kids but I don't yell at them and beat them up to the point that they cannot walk for several days. Instead I explain to them and teach them and give them reassurance and treat them like actual children instead of slaves instead of emotional support. Because they are children I let my children act like children. But my mother she forced me to grow up to take care of my younger siblings. Do you think that's something loving and caring mothers do? You know what my mother would tell me. she would tell me that I was a mistake. And that I'm lucky that she gave birth to me because she was going to get an abortion.But guess what my eldest kid was an accident and I didn't know if I wanted them at that time and was considering getting a abortion. But instead of telling my kid that they were an accident and they they should be grateful that I didn't get an abortion. No instead I tell them that they were a happy accident and that I love them. And that I am grateful for them being born because they did not choose to be born I chose the responsibility of becoming a parent. It's not that hard to not be a horrible parent but still some parents choose to be horrible to their children. Okay so don't go online telling people that "oh their mothers probably were just frustrated and that's why they beat them up and they gave birth to them and they were just having a bad day" no it's not it okay some mothers don't deserve to have children. you do not know what the person commenting has been through so please don't go online saying those types of things. I am sorry for the bad English in this and I apologize for going on a rant but you need to understand that not everyone has a loving mother and that sometimes mothers can be horrible people.
@tianachidester1566
@tianachidester1566 18 күн бұрын
@@no1chuuyassimp true
@bluemoyie8618
@bluemoyie8618 8 күн бұрын
I also had a broken / abusive mother. Like the burners on a hot electric stove, no matter how I approached her ( with love, kindness, care, quietly, slowly, etc) she would still "burn" me, because it was what she knew. I hope that you have had help to heal, and that you forgive yourself for ever having been angry with her or blaming yourself. It was NOT your fault, and you DIDN"T cause it. And, it isn't your job to forgive her, just to find a way to move forward. 🫂
@gabriellearistil5648
@gabriellearistil5648 7 күн бұрын
@@tianachidester1566 why the hell are you trying to excuse their not yours THEIR abusive mom
@blacky_Ninja
@blacky_Ninja 2 ай бұрын
I love all these „Internet Mom“ and „Internet Dad“ type of videos, that just explain and teach useful everyday stuff, because there are just SO many people who do not have those in reallife. Thanks for your work, be assured that this means a lot to many people! 🥰
@crassiewassie8354
@crassiewassie8354 Ай бұрын
A lot of people just expect this stuff to come naturally
@bondvabond
@bondvabond 25 күн бұрын
Exactly! Some people have parents who teach them to be self-sufficient or parents who have no issue with explaining how to do something if asked. Many other people have parents who didn't teach them how to do these things. Of those, some would either respond aggressively or in a belittling way for not knowing how and eventually they just stop asking, because why would you if all you receive in response is abuse? There's also a sizable portion of people who are afraid to/don't feel comfortable asking for help/advice for a multitude of reasons, whether because of toxic independency, shyness, not knowing how to do so without sounding dumb (common with autists, like me!) or just not realising it's an option and think everybody should know inherently. Creators like this have been tremendously helpful to me in learning how to be a functioning, independent adult. My parents were great, but mildly enabling of dependent behaviours (they never liked seeing me or my siblings struggle and would try to fix any problems/take care of tasks before we had to deal with them), and that coupled with me struggling with asking for help meant I was pretty clueless on household tasks. Feeling like this while simultaneously being a high-performing professional in a STEM-field is very trippy and discouraging. Seeing stuff like this made me realise though that 1. I'm not alone in not knowing these things and 2. I CAN find out how to do it in a way I'm comfortable with.
@Sara3346
@Sara3346 3 күн бұрын
Do you know where we can find more of these? Internet parents I mean.
@Chrissyhappy
@Chrissyhappy 3 ай бұрын
When my son finished his A levels and had a four month break before he went to university, I taught him how to wash and dry clothes. How to cook the meals he enjoys. How to clean. What products to buy. How to shop. I’d been teaching him how to budget since he was five and started getting pocket money. He’s now been at university 2 years almost, and often helps his friends out. The first weeks they didn’t even know how to use a washing machine. They didn’t realise you need to change bed sheets and wash them!😮. They couldn’t cook. He said it was actually quite shocking. So you can understand how some kids who’ve been brought up in certain situations don’t know how to manage. People blame them, but they haven’t been given the skills in life❤️
@jenniferpearce1052
@jenniferpearce1052 3 ай бұрын
Aren't A levels taken at like 16 or 17 years old? It's awesome you taught him, but my mom had us learning those chores from age 7 or 8, with increasing skill and complexity so we could help and she didn't have to do it all herself! (Or with dad's help, because dad did clean) Whatever happened to childhood chores?
@juliewilbanks9691
@juliewilbanks9691 3 ай бұрын
@@jenniferpearce1052 Divorced parents and working moms with ADHD and pretty unsupervised kids. I wasn't sh0own all the chores I was expected to do and then got in trouble for not completing them. I was ADHD and head strong and got by because my babysitter brought boys over, so I blackmailed her to do my chores to keep my mouth shut. I did gain some skills when I spent weekends and weeks during the summer with him, as he did show us and did not made sure we got it. It did not even care about clean after awhile. When I started caring I had an autistic legally blind daughter, who spent her first 10 days in NICU, had heart surgery at 6 weeks and had other anomalies at birth. At 29, I started learning to clean, care and do whatever it takes to raise my awesome daughter. I am still not very good at cleaning, but these videos are really helping me and inspiring me to be better, so I can help my daughter do better. She is now 32 and living independently in a special needs apartment complex with 2 roommates and caregiver support once a week, plus me until we can get more help or do better. I am 60 and still learning to keep my house, yet trying to teach my daughter too... talk about the blind leading the blind, but we manage even if e don't excel. I cannot tell you how happy I am that I found this awesome KZfaq channel, as it is really helping us improve in both of our homes!
@juliewilbanks9691
@juliewilbanks9691 3 ай бұрын
It seems I referred to my Dad as him. I think if I could have been raised by my dad, I would be a completely different person today. They did not do that is the late 60'sw, though
@hammyk2372
@hammyk2372 3 ай бұрын
@@jenniferpearce1052 EXACTLY what I was thinking. Geeeez!
@marylloyd5501
@marylloyd5501 3 ай бұрын
you were excellent parents!!
@stormkive4356
@stormkive4356 29 күн бұрын
healed something in me to see someone treat adhd piles as not dirty and not mess. thank you ❤
@SerenityForschen
@SerenityForschen Ай бұрын
I also love that the house looks like a lived in house. A lot of cleaning channels are cleaning already clean homes.
@aurusallos
@aurusallos 2 ай бұрын
I adore how genuinely unbothered your animals are by the vacuum. Your dog just gets up and moves to a different room, and your cat just watches.
@hattiecattie
@hattiecattie 2 ай бұрын
I struggle with my vacuum more than my cats do. They side eye it and one of them stalks it, but unless I'm using the small handheld one, I have earplugs in and can only do small areas at a time because the noise bothers me.
@StonedSammieSue
@StonedSammieSue 2 ай бұрын
@@hattiecattieacoustic?
@arizonashopper5095
@arizonashopper5095 2 ай бұрын
You can tell he actually uses his. Unlike me and my animals. 😅
@hunszaszist
@hunszaszist 2 ай бұрын
​@@StonedSammieSue I can't tell if you meant acoustic, or autocorrect got you and you meant autistic. Both of those fit except acoustic doesn't make sense as a question lol
@soka3106
@soka3106 2 ай бұрын
​@hunszaszist its a joke where people use Acoustic to refer to Autism
@MioneBeast
@MioneBeast 3 ай бұрын
I remember having to explain to a friend of mine who couldn’t understand how a person’s house could get so messy. I pointed out she learned from her mom, but not all mom’s know how to clean and maintain a household. And some people were taught to clean but told so often “if you can’t do something right don’t do it at all” which when they’re older with their own place they think “Well, I don’t have time to mop the proper way so I can’t mop” even though there are countless methods and most of them are good enough! Also some people were raised with chores as punishment, so as they got older they think “why do I have to do the dishes? I’ve been good!” I had to make a drastic shift in my mind set before I could even begin to get a handle on cleaning regularly. Flylady helped, not so much her method but her mindset. Cleaning is blessing your home, it’s blessing your family. Sorry, I took the long rambling way to say what you’re doing is fantastic and your wife is 100% right, cleaning is not always intuitive. It’s something you learn.
@auroraasleep
@auroraasleep 3 ай бұрын
I like FlyLady too. I learned to clean from her. Picking it up again to teach my kid, and get me out of the mess my back got us into.
@kathygreer2097
@kathygreer2097 3 ай бұрын
Love FlyLady! “You can do anything for fifteen minutes” and “It doesn’t have to be perfect, it just have to get done” were a game changer for me, as were her routines.
@hattiecattie
@hattiecattie 3 ай бұрын
I'm in the boat of having chores as punishment, not really ever been shown how to clean anything, and having ADHD. I've been watching this channel for awhile now and it's the only one I contribute monetarily to because I have found it lifechanging. I've cried more than once after watching a video. I struggle so much with cleaning and this channel helps me feel like I'm not a failure.
@hxjdjdn6236
@hxjdjdn6236 3 ай бұрын
This is so true! Another example is when your room got messy when a kid and your mom cleaned it for you while you were away and then got the feeling of guilt and shame and the pressure in comments like now keep it clean! As my mental health is declining clean home gives me tremendous anxiety so as soon as I clean up, I feel awful and start to hoard everything back.
@eminempreg
@eminempreg 3 ай бұрын
Yup, exactly this. I grew up with a combination of cleaning being a punishment and developing depression right when I'd really start to shape those habits. So now I'm here at 23, I want a clean organized space but it feels so hard to maintain. So now I'm also reshaping how I think about things. Dishes have gotten a lot better, I actually somewhat enjoy it if I have music going. The othere stuff, were still getting there
@ajinkyapawar9665
@ajinkyapawar9665 2 күн бұрын
This man is a compassionate, empathetic and caring person. I wish him all the best.
@devin_s
@devin_s 15 күн бұрын
I like how he makes sure to mention the most low-cost and economical way to effectively clean. I feel like a lot of cleaning content tends to promote excessive product use/purchasing that is wasteful. This also makes it really accessible!
@katrpatter
@katrpatter 2 ай бұрын
Something that helped me was when I realized that decluttering, organizing, and cleaning are three different processes. When deciding on which one to do, I gave myself permission to not worry about the other two (for the time being). For example, if the kitchen really needs to be cleaned, then I just focus on cleaning (wiping out the stove, fridge, and sink, sanitizing surfaces, mopping the floor) and not worry about organizing (should the blender be stored in this cabinet or a different one?) or decluttering (I don't need three dozen dish rags; which ones should I toss?). Narrowing your focus like this can help minimize overwhelm, reduce indecision, and ultimately help you get done faster. . Thanks for the video. We got this, friends.
@alady09
@alady09 Ай бұрын
Wow! Lightbulb moment! I often get overwhelmed because I feel like I have to get all three done at once. Thank you for this tip!
@nikiTricoteuse
@nikiTricoteuse Ай бұрын
That's a great comment! I tend to be a "whole picture" person and would get so overwhelmed, l couldn't even manage to begin. It's really distressing and made me hate myself for years. Luckily l'm finally realising what was happening and have begun to find strategies, yours is another one to add. 😊
@Volkbrecht
@Volkbrecht Ай бұрын
Yes and no. Oftentimes things can be brought into a logical order that makes each subsequent step easier. For instance: Declutter first. Things you don't need any more should be thrown out before you waste time on cleaning them. Once you got rid of the junk, tidy up. Cleaning surfaces is much easier when you don't have to move stuff around all the time. Once the place is in order, wiping down surfaces is hardly an effort any more. Personally I find I have much less struggle motivating myself to clean when cleaning is actually easy. Which is why I have almost no stuff sitting on my kitchen tops.
@Metqa
@Metqa Ай бұрын
This wonderful Comment was obviously written for people who don't already have things all together and who dont have the time or the executive function to "do them in the right order". When the kitchen needs cleaning, it needs to be clean. No amount of decluttering is going to make the dishes and surfaces any cleaner if I get sidetracked; I'd just have fewer dirty dishes in front of me and stuff will get moved around, but it'll still be dirty. Times I've tried to go in a "logical order" i.e. Put away dishes first, then wash dishes and put them in the rack, etc. ended up with me frustrated while trying to put away the dishes "the right way", trying to find the best place so I won't lose it, and other organizational blunders, until I give up and the dishes don't even get washed at all. and since I gave up on the dishes I'm too frustrated to get to the stove or the floor, so the whole project feels like a wash, ... see what I did there? Sometimes I just let myself ONLY put the dishes away and not feel guilty about washing more. Also Life Happens. My sink is acting slow, so I can't wash how I want. So, some pans are still on the stove. When I want to cook, I clean the part of the stove I' use and can get to. The clutter is not to get "rid" of my pots, it's that I can't clean them all at once and also put them away. So why try? If I can do one pot now. and one pot later after the sink drains, that works too. waiting until everything is decluttered and tidy in order to clean will be a happy time for bugs, mold, and grime. It's okay to clean imperfectly between the clutter if it gets you closer to what you want and need to do. or as that FlyLady said "A done something is better than a perfect nothing." I need to keep reminding myself of that when I feel overwhelmed by life
@peggys430
@peggys430 Ай бұрын
@@nikiTricoteuseme too! Also, I just read a comment in one of his videos that if you do something "half-a••", you'll have it half-done!
@joaquinceriani5033
@joaquinceriani5033 2 ай бұрын
To be honest the fact that you also leave some messes and explain that "it's my house, I can be lazy sometimes" really comforts me, you don't leave on a pristine spotless mansion, you live in a house with stuff in the middle you need to move to another spot to clean a space. Really loved this video, really helped
@monique7537
@monique7537 10 күн бұрын
No excuses but I have realized how my undiagnosed ADHD mixed with never being taught, just expected to clean has been hard. Specifically with my room, thanks a million this means a lot !!!
@amadeagottlieb
@amadeagottlieb Ай бұрын
I still remember my mom teaching me to "clean" my room at a very young age of four or five, which was to make my bed and put my toys in their proper places. So cleaning was a fun play process for me, making the doll bed, sitting the doll up in a nice outfit, putting books away, etc. I still like cleaning many, many years later.
@MrCmon113
@MrCmon113 4 күн бұрын
Imo aranging things in a certain way and cleaning are completely different things. Aranging things regularly is just a waste of time. Leave stuff in the place you put it, until you need the space. Then replace it. That's efficient use of space.
@amadeagottlieb
@amadeagottlieb 4 күн бұрын
@@MrCmon113 Ha ha you sound like my cat. Leave my things where they are. I just spent all day yesterday rearranging furniture and I enjoyed it immensely. It was so fun!
@Fern23
@Fern23 3 ай бұрын
I am an adult with autism, and growing up my sister and I had to do chores around the house. I always got in trouble because I wasn’t doing things “correctly” and my side of our bedroom was always messy. It wasn’t until I became an adult where I had a conversation with my mom and sister about it. I told them I don’t know how to clean my house. Every time I go to my sister’s house it’s immaculate, and I’m flabbergasted as to how. It’s a natural thing for her, so she was confused that I was confused. This was a longwinded comment to say this video was very helpful.
@nineteenboston498
@nineteenboston498 2 ай бұрын
I identify exactly with this comment. Internet friend, thank you and you are not alone.
@ruffethereal1904
@ruffethereal1904 2 ай бұрын
Also an adult wirh autism. My mother and older sisters akways get mad i don't know how to clean when they've never taught me once or left it to professionals. I need direct instructions, all their getting mad I never do it right makes me feel like never doing it.
@MK-er7cx
@MK-er7cx 2 ай бұрын
do you and your sister learn differently? can you give an example of what would have helped? asking for my daughter - simple things are tough to explain to her (and make it stick) sometimes
@ruffethereal1904
@ruffethereal1904 2 ай бұрын
@@MK-er7cx My sisters and mother were all raised with the expectations of doing household chores. Something that would have helped is Midwestern Magic Cleaning's thorough step by step explanations instead of just getting mad I can't do a thing they know, to their standard, without teaching me it ever.
@publicserviceannouncement4777
@publicserviceannouncement4777 2 ай бұрын
ADHD is a comorbidity of autism too. Don't ask how I know.😅
@jcortese3300
@jcortese3300 3 ай бұрын
I'm actually gratified to hear a 6'4" tall dude say that scrubbing bathtubs takes a lot of effort, and he hates it. I'm a nearly 60 year old woman built like a garden rake and scrubbing the bathtub has been the bane of my existence. Until I realized that I could use a scraper, I avoided it like the plague, and the tub always ended up looking awful. It was only when I realized I could scrape it (mine has a smooth surface) that I realized my bathroom could look nice, and it motivated me to clean it every month, top to bottom. I'll give barkeeper's friend a shot, too. You're absolutely right that cleaning isn't intuitive AT ALL. My mom's mom died just as my parents got married, so my mom never had the chance to lean on her mom's knowledge when she got her own home and family to maintain. It wasn't until I discovered Aurikaterina and you that I really got a full-on grip on how to get things clean, and it's a hell of a mood lifter to be in a clean home. After getting the entire bathroom sparkling, I even just like walking in there and looking at it. My mind and mood sees it as being in control of my environment rather than at the mercy of it.
@margaretmcnarry4298
@margaretmcnarry4298 3 ай бұрын
Your last sentence sums it up perfectly! Thank you, I’m borrowing it for my new mantra!
@cathyprosser1050
@cathyprosser1050 3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@tamaratamtammorris8151
@tamaratamtammorris8151 3 ай бұрын
Finding Aurikateriina changed my life too. She was the gateway to my love of cleaning KZfaq channels, including this one
@CraigsOverijse
@CraigsOverijse 3 ай бұрын
oh I wish teaching kids to clean was all that was needed my Autistic son whose in his mid twenties to date does not matter how many times I stand with him and explain what is the process is, left to himself does not do even the basics. If i say for example have youncleaned your room as asked reply yes. If I go up and look he may have for example picked up his dirty laundry and brought it down for the laundry fairy to process, or maybe he vaccummed the carpet. He will not have picked up the thrash (not much but some) he will not have wiped the sheleves over even if he split a drink on them. He also knows if mum is out and he is home on his laptop when she returns she gets annoyed if the sink is filled with dishes especially if the dish washer is empty and yet any day I go out when I come home dishes in the sink. Does not matter how often I say to him please do not do this. In one ear out the other side.
@gregpendrey6711
@gregpendrey6711 3 ай бұрын
I hate the tub cleaning too. I just tried a Chinese spin brush I charged it and voila where have you been all my life. I wish I would take more showers and use the spin brush more. Apparently I'm not evolving but there is a glimmer of hope now.
@hey_maurice
@hey_maurice Ай бұрын
As someone who is self-taught for probably more things than I should be, the opening of this video gave me an incredibly enlightening realization: how many things am I doing incorrectly / wastefully simply because I was never taught (or was taught by someone who was also never taught). Wow. Talk about a BIG lightbulb moment. Thank you! 🙏🏽
@MusicalBubs
@MusicalBubs 25 күн бұрын
this doesn’t feel like a youtube tutorial, this feels like my dad just showing me how to do things! you are absolutely amazing ‼️‼️
@MariaGonzalez-yb9oh
@MariaGonzalez-yb9oh 2 ай бұрын
This video is so freaking wholesome. the lack of judgment, the empathic understanding and just clear intentions of wanting to help others just brings so much joy.
@azrani2023
@azrani2023 2 ай бұрын
Right??? This sums up my impression just perfectly. what a genuine and friendly person he is. a real treasure.
@kadynisapanda
@kadynisapanda 2 ай бұрын
Mack is the best! My favorite goofball full of kindness 💜
@beabeauty
@beabeauty 2 ай бұрын
He’s my favorite teacher from KZfaq helps me so much to understand ADHD /hoarders issues. My moms has these problems and it’s very difficult to help as I struggle with adhd and decisions too.
@charliesmith_
@charliesmith_ Ай бұрын
IT'S ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL. Unconditional, IQ/EQ genuine love. "Teach a Person HOW to Fish" x🙏
@drendraleigh4722
@drendraleigh4722 2 ай бұрын
My parents got arrested and they need to serve time. They left me with a hell hole of a room with so much clothes(washed and unwashed), dirty plates, rotting garbages and rotten wood boards. The aunt who is kind of the home owner(It's a family house) was getting on my nerves so being there to clean their mess up had been a dreadful thought to me because all of my life my parents had gaslit me into believing that I was a lazy, filthy child when 1. they've never taught me how to clean, 2. They're the one making messes, 3. I have undiagnosed chronic illnesses they refused to get check since I was 12. I always put your video on whenever I need to clean up the place even before they got arrested, but I've never need to do it as throughly as this time, so this video is a life-saver to me, it relieved me so much fear and anxiety. You may not ever saw my comment, but I would like to tell you how you basically helped me dig myself out of my misery since I was a teen who has no way of escaping that hell of a family by giving me the push to clean up after myself and making me realize that I can make it in this life, despite everything.
@TechnoScorpion2137
@TechnoScorpion2137 2 ай бұрын
Good luck
@MamaJLW
@MamaJLW 2 ай бұрын
I think the hope in your last sentence is a great place to be. “I can make it in this life, despite everything.” You have already proven that you can do hard things. I have no doubt that you will succeed and have a better life than what your past would predict. Keep on going! ❤
@nuggetoftruth865
@nuggetoftruth865 2 ай бұрын
I’m heartbroken when I hear of people thrown into awful situations like this. I’m sorry your parents left you in such a situation, but it also sounds like you’ve been incredibly resilient. Keep it up, you’re awesome.
@Heterogeneity
@Heterogeneity 2 ай бұрын
I'm so proud of you kiddo. I came from similar neglect/abuse and it takes a lot of courage to learn new ways when the adults who made you didn't bother to raise you. ❤
@thegiantbeagle
@thegiantbeagle 2 ай бұрын
God bless you Jesus loves you! You will make it keep going! I hope now that you are more in control of your space it helps your illnesses have a good day!
@kungfupowerpoint7783
@kungfupowerpoint7783 2 күн бұрын
My Home Ec teacher made my class's final on how well our kitchens were cleaned. She'd also make us do weekly chores, like laundry, taking expired food out of the fridges, and it taught me very essential life skills. We need more Home Ec/FCS teachers in schools man!
@LoquaciousPint
@LoquaciousPint Ай бұрын
I cannot express enough how encouraging it is to see a person showing this information in such a compassionate non-judgemental way. Also, seeing a home with things that actually *need* cleaning makes me feel connected as a human and not feel like I am failing at life. Thank you for sharing your home and your knowledge.
@outlier2211
@outlier2211 3 ай бұрын
Do I know how to clean? Yes. I have a blackbelt in cleaning and organization. Did I watch this whole video? Of course I did. Thank you for doing this. So many people don't know how to clean. I remember working a job and I cleaned and organized and my boss was stunned because they could never figure out how to do it. Someone showing you how (judgement free) is invaluable.
@ohthereyouarepeter1435
@ohthereyouarepeter1435 3 ай бұрын
I'll sub if you teach ❤
@heatherrae901
@heatherrae901 2 ай бұрын
I agree. Judgement free, it makes all the difference. No use in shaming anyone, we don’t know what we don’t know.
@BrightElk
@BrightElk 2 ай бұрын
I know some of the basics but I was never properly taught because of some childhood issues so I just wanted to make sure I didn't miss anything important!
@vivvy_0
@vivvy_0 2 ай бұрын
domestic work isn’t as valued as other types of work even tough it’s what keeps us healthy.
@lka9900
@lka9900 Ай бұрын
I love seeing other people’s methods, tips, and tricks! Sometimes we learn a new/better/different way to do things even if we’ve already been doing it.
@BrightElk
@BrightElk 2 ай бұрын
I come from an abusive home. One of the abuser tactics my dad used was demanding that my mother "relax and let the kids deal with it." Whenever she started to clean the house and then call my sisters and I lazy and incompetent when we did clean and he was extremely over critical so it felt like everything we did was wrong until we just gave up and began to feel like it was not worth it to even try. We lived in disorder, chaos and clutter. We got food poisoning a lot because he wouldn't let our mother put food away in time but then insisted we eat it so it won't go to waste. It was only when I was in my midtwenties did I start to feel like I was developing mediocre cleaning skills. I'm now in my 30's and I'm finally in a place where I do the dishes regularly. I honestly don't feel like this would have been possible had I not met my husband. He's so kind and gentle and he helped me make a home where we feel safe and loved. I don't feel stressed. Part of my cleaning journey was definitely deeply ingrained in the healing and recovery process.
@logixindie
@logixindie 2 ай бұрын
It's sad hearing what you went through. But great that you are now in a good place. Breaking the chain of bad parenting.
@Arkylie
@Arkylie 2 ай бұрын
Mine wasn't as bad, and it took me until my forties to even grasp that "abusive" might apply (as I do love my parents, they do love me, and the issues seem minor in comparison to so many people's), but I did have my dad constantly criticizing my cleaning attempts -- in ways that I only in the past five years have determined are related to my ADHD. I was always not cleaning in a timely manner, or cleaning the wrong location, or cleaning the wrong sublocation, or getting distracted and not completing the job, or cleaning it inadequately, and every time he would be like "why didn't you do it over here and this way" until I learned that it was easier to not do it at all in the first place, since I'd get criticized either way. Digging yourself out of that sort of hole is tough. I've got a long way to go, but at least I understand better the roots of some of my issues. I'm glad you've found the resources and support you need to progress to a better stage of life.
@tasteychackras7023
@tasteychackras7023 2 ай бұрын
Im glad to see how far you come and that you have support. I had a rough time as well growing up and had a similar situation and thoughts when I seen this video. We had electrical, plumbing issues, no ac or heat, so much junk, and we were broke. Im not sure but i think my parents spent their money on the wrong things. I remember wanting to clean so bad too; my room was good but we never had stuff like garbage bags, towels, clean wash cloths . I'm glad I've come to learn most this video in my 20s like you did. I still feel like there's other basic stuff that I don't even realize I'm still doing wrong tho.
@noahlani6480
@noahlani6480 2 ай бұрын
Do you have my dad???? Also I’m glad your out of that and healing, I can’t leave yet.
@aya5468
@aya5468 2 ай бұрын
My dad made everyone clean. I knew how to do the dishes when i was like 7. He was an asshole.
@bdizzle561
@bdizzle561 23 күн бұрын
Can I just say, thank you! I always felt so horrible for having hair in my vacuum! Thought I was the only one sitting on the floor cutting it out. Thank you for showing me that I am not abnormal. That people actually "live" in houses and not everyone's is immaculate ❤
@user-ow1bc4sx2r
@user-ow1bc4sx2r 3 күн бұрын
it means your hair is strong like ox and not weak baby hair that is easily defeated by puny vaccum cleaners
@witchyLevy
@witchyLevy 25 күн бұрын
I've always scrolled through videos on various social media to find out how to clean something, and felt like an idiot the whole time. The idea that it shouldn't be considered intuitive is mind-blowing. I love it.
@Jay-og4yb
@Jay-og4yb 10 күн бұрын
I mean its not intuitive to put things away and throw away trash?
@cameron3426
@cameron3426 4 күн бұрын
​@@Jay-og4ybI'm assuming the person is talking about the multitude of chemicals that are used in cleaning and not knowing what to do.
@heatherrohde6541
@heatherrohde6541 3 ай бұрын
You're the first person I've ever seen make a "cleaning for dummies" video. Thank you ❤
@rustynailmendlesohn8710
@rustynailmendlesohn8710 3 ай бұрын
Well said heather 👍👍
@lisacastilla9615
@lisacastilla9615 3 ай бұрын
I know huh?!! Embarrassing to admit, I am old ....I was never taught anything! You were very matter of fact... Not demeaning.
@annwilliams6438
@annwilliams6438 3 ай бұрын
Hmm, not quite. There are PLENTY of ‘how to clean xyz quickly and easily’ videos available. Mac brings a fresh and fun perspective to doing house cleaning, that is a pleasure to watch. :)
@mel4340
@mel4340 2 ай бұрын
@@annwilliams6438 they said “the first person I’VE seen” not “the only person to ever do it”..
@appletherapy
@appletherapy 2 ай бұрын
Probably because there's more than one way to clean.
@Anna81Louise
@Anna81Louise 2 ай бұрын
My Mum didn't teach me to clean because she is a perfectionist and did it all herself. I learnt how to clean at my part time job. I worked at a fast food restaurant and learned how to clean a kitchen, dining room and bathrooms. I swept, mopped and washed dishes. I learnt safe food handling. I'm grateful for that experience.
@user-yg2uy8bc8q
@user-yg2uy8bc8q Ай бұрын
This! My mom did literally everything for me. Didn’t let me do a single thing. Now I don’t know how to do stuff myself and they are a big headache of stress for me. If I point it was their own fault, you know what happens. So I asked them to let me live alone for a while when I’ll be going for college. Just so I could be away from them and finally do things myself. And they are second thinking that because I don’t know how to do anything. These people never learn.
@mjkcomposer
@mjkcomposer Ай бұрын
working in food is the best way because you encounter some horrific cleaning jobs. it toughens you.
@Gizzy9987
@Gizzy9987 Ай бұрын
Same actually. My first job at 16 at a fast food place taught me so many things that I still value today.
@littlestbroccoli
@littlestbroccoli Ай бұрын
This is where many people learn the first things about cleaning! Being a lead in this business is really rewarding to me for being able to help kids and young adults with things that will serve them throughout their lives.
@13donstalos
@13donstalos Ай бұрын
Wow this comment is weirdly 100% me. A perfect explanation of my own situation. You don't know me, but you get me. Take care, stranger.
@taracr2984
@taracr2984 Ай бұрын
Having a long handled scrubber for the tub was a game changer for if you can’t reach or you have back issues. It has helped immensely.
@everettthuline9513
@everettthuline9513 17 күн бұрын
you popped up on my for you page, and as a young adult who has never been taught to properly clean and lives in a family hoarding situation, you not only made me feel seen and gave me a solid rubric of what to do, but also kept the energy light and funny. i can’t thank you enough
@jenfree2241
@jenfree2241 3 ай бұрын
Reassurance tip: the first time you clean properly around the outside of the toilet, you will be horrified at how cruddy it is. But, it will never be that bad again, because you will (hopefully) get into the habit of doing it regularly, and then it will be just be a "swoosh" clean every time. So much easier after it's done right once!
@theroadlesstraveled3993
@theroadlesstraveled3993 3 ай бұрын
Some random guy at a party my roommate and I had in college said to me, I think that's the cleanest toilet I've ever peed in. I thought what a weird thing to say. Now that I'm older and seen how most toilets look I get it. I can't let my toilet get like that. Lol (no judgement, I just have a need to keep mine super clean)😊
@ashoalcraft4404
@ashoalcraft4404 3 ай бұрын
I'll be honest: Once I understood what a poor job of cleaning I'd been doing since I didn't know better, I hired a professional to come in and deep clean some things. The toilet and tub were at the top of my list because I knew they'd be difficult to get to a clean state. I know that's not an option for everyone but it was money well spent. It was a lot easier to then clean properly once I had a "clean" slate to start.
@jenniferpearce1052
@jenniferpearce1052 3 ай бұрын
My dad taught my brother and me how to clean the bathroom when we were first assigned it as a chore. He told my brother that no matter who had the toilet cleaning duty (we alternated) that it was HIS job to wipe of any splatter from the floor or wall because I wasn't responsible for peeing outside the toilet! Thanks, Dad! And I'm sure my sister in law thanks you too.
@vikki4now
@vikki4now 3 ай бұрын
I just do enjoy seeing manly man do household cleaning. Honestly I've never seem such a thing...so satisfying.
@ineasud
@ineasud 2 ай бұрын
But like, what's regularly? How many times is that
@inconveniencestore_
@inconveniencestore_ 2 ай бұрын
I'm autistic so often "common sense" isn't common or sensical to me. People expect me to just know things, and this video helped a lot with me figuring out what the proper way is to clean something because I just do not learn in the same way a lot of people do. Having someone patiently explain it helps A LOT.
@WarmyFlame2.0
@WarmyFlame2.0 2 ай бұрын
I wish I could just have someone explain everything to me in life because I’m not joking when I say I genuinely don’t understand a lot of things without help.
@Vomna
@Vomna 2 ай бұрын
it's terrible how there's so many people who could thrive in society but don't simply because when growing up, their parents weren't patient or understanding, whether it be with explaining chores, self hygiene or homework.
@davidrobinson7260
@davidrobinson7260 2 ай бұрын
That's not what autism is.
@inconveniencestore_
@inconveniencestore_ 2 ай бұрын
@davidrobinson7260 I think I'd know being that I have it? I'm speaking about my personal experience, not every autistic person in existence.
@Vomna
@Vomna 2 ай бұрын
@@davidrobinson7260 ~ The arbiter of autism and who has it
@kaylathompson8218
@kaylathompson8218 17 күн бұрын
Can we just take some time to appreciate how funny and cool this guy is? 😂👏🏼👏🏼 I actually enjoyed learning how to clean, this was extremely helpful. Thank you so much
@scorpi.senses
@scorpi.senses Ай бұрын
I think about this sometimes. I was raised by my grandmother, who was very clean. And I don't remember a time where she sat me down and was like "this is how you clean." I was just expected to know how to do it. And by the time I was a messy teenager, all patience went out the window, and fights ensued. My grandma did the best she could, obviously and I'm grateful for her. But I think if I had been given those tools as a kid, things would have been a little bit easier for me. Now I know how to "clean", but keeping things tidy and not having to deep clean at random times is what I struggle with.
@Linken062478
@Linken062478 2 ай бұрын
The "I SAID GET-EM OUTTA HERE" as if he's upset they didn't magically disappear made me fucking die laughing. Great video dude.
@Subreon
@Subreon 2 ай бұрын
though it is funny he had to grab a couple of them back up cuz he actually used some :p
@alex_blue5802
@alex_blue5802 2 ай бұрын
The attitude is great.
@TheFren
@TheFren 2 ай бұрын
I got a panic attack cause it reminded me of my abusive parents and ex husband. 😔
@makiisbro1129
@makiisbro1129 2 ай бұрын
That caught me off guard I was like “wtf”
@RyeMi
@RyeMi 2 ай бұрын
@@makiisbro1129 same. i debated to not watch the video after
@andrea5461
@andrea5461 2 ай бұрын
So comforting. No screaming, no shaming, just a man parenting all of us who were never taught but still shamed to hell and back. Only in my 20's did I realize that I only ever tried to figure it out on my own, but never actually knew how. My dad would scream and shout, but he wasn't that clean at all either. For the last few years, I've just been realizing all the stuff that I never even knew needed cleaning. I never saw it, I never looked at it, yet one day I'm like: shit, this can probably be cleaned, somehow. 🤦‍♀️
@katierasburn9571
@katierasburn9571 2 ай бұрын
God the parent screaming and shouting and shaming is my mother to a t. Shes a borderline horder and “cleans” the dishes by still leaving all the shit on it
@tricitymorte1
@tricitymorte1 2 ай бұрын
I got the yelling about cleaning my room. And I got my stuff taken away. But I was never taught how they expected me to clean my room. I thought it was clean. I had a farm toy set with LOTS of pieces that I played with every day. I left it out on the floor. Because I used it every day. I didn't want to put away the 100+ pieces every day just to get it out again the next. But apparently, that was wrong, in my parents eyes. I still do this. If it's something I use every day, I keep it out if it's something that takes forever to set back up (tools, hobby supplies for a project in progress, etc.). I'll put everything away when I'm done. If I put everything away every single day, nothing will ever get completed.
@tessiepinkman
@tessiepinkman 2 ай бұрын
@@tricitymorte1 That's exactly how I work too. It just feels more intuitive to keep the things I will need for whatever I'm doing out until I'm done rather than to pick them up and put them away each and every day. Like you said; If I put everything away every single day, nothing will ever get completed.
@rebeccastephens6087
@rebeccastephens6087 2 ай бұрын
He did yell at the products in the beginning. 😂 "Get off!"
@andrea5461
@andrea5461 2 ай бұрын
@@tricitymorte1 yelling and taking away a child's toy that they left in their room and doesn't bother anyone is so sad. Especially when it's not about hygiene, but just appearances :(
@JP-ve7or
@JP-ve7or 28 күн бұрын
One good thing about the internet is that it taught me a lot of people haven't learned the lessons many consider "common sense" or that they should be shamed for not knowing. Maybe people don't know how to clean house, or good hygiene, or spending wisely, or fluent English, and that's okay. It's made me more compassionate (I hope) and less judgmental. 🙂
@mongopoe5099
@mongopoe5099 8 күн бұрын
It almost makes you rethink common sense
@angeliclizzie
@angeliclizzie 5 күн бұрын
❤❤❤ true
@TheMotherSeal
@TheMotherSeal 12 күн бұрын
As someone who was severely neglected as a child, thank you so very much for showing this. I only ever used what I perceived to be common sense but never actually learned from anyone. Thank you so much!
@vickidodson1359
@vickidodson1359 3 ай бұрын
When I worked as a nurse going to people's homes, I had one lady who complained about her vacuum cleaner not picking up. (Some people thought we were there to fix a variety of problems, not just health-related) I told her I'd take a look and when I did the canister was so full that it could not contain another speck of dirt. I showed her how to empty it and told her to empty it regularly. Enjoyed your video tonight.
@Theadamsfamily2000
@Theadamsfamily2000 3 ай бұрын
I was a home health physical therapist assistant. Fixing things was part of the job!!
@kitten88dm
@kitten88dm 2 ай бұрын
I helped an older lady I lived next too. Everyday I noticed her floors were dirty even after I'd just cleaned them the day before til I noticed her son coming in with his shoes on. Had to tell him he might as well take a load of dog shit and other crap and rub it into the carpets then pointed to the porch where everyone else had put their shoes. I've never seen the penny drop so slowly in a 50 year old man. Then he started kicking the skirting boards to clean mud off his boots in the porch so I pointed to the massive rug and boot scraper outside and said you're supposed to do that out there I was at the point of thinking he must just hate his mother. But still gave him the benefit and held my tongue. Until the day I cleaned out her bathroom and had it spotless, it didn't have running water so I left a bucket of water so you could fill up the tank after flushing because I'd already filled it. He took a shit in the bathroom and just left it. So I told his mother and she told the rest of the family about all of it, including the time I caught him wiping snot somewhere. He's been on his best behaviour since, lets hope it stays that way.
@valeriaswanne
@valeriaswanne 2 ай бұрын
"The dryer isn't working" Have you checked the lint trap? "The what?" 😬😬😬
@MXarcx
@MXarcx 2 ай бұрын
@@valeriaswanne Or the water container for non-plumbed in dries is also a classic.
@R_N22
@R_N22 3 ай бұрын
For those of us returning as we clean- Timestamps: 1:36 Cleaning supplies 4:20 General surface cleaning 8:35 Toilet | Inside 9:31 Windows 11:58 Mirrors 13:07 Sinks 15:30 Bathtub & shower 19:30 Dusting 21:31 Vacuuming 26:03 Toilet continued | Outside 29:27 Dishes | Dealing with grease 31:05 Final thoughts Thank you so much MMC!! This was so helpful!!
@Random19800
@Random19800 2 ай бұрын
I appreciate you!
@abocrafter643
@abocrafter643 2 ай бұрын
Underrated comment!
@rezandrarizkyirianto-1933
@rezandrarizkyirianto-1933 2 ай бұрын
2:24 I SAID GET THEM OFF HERE!
@KO-lw4lo
@KO-lw4lo 2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Sonrisaanimada
@Sonrisaanimada 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🎉
@mrstomschaefer
@mrstomschaefer Ай бұрын
My grandmother taught me to clean the corners/edges first, then most of the work is done by the time you get to the big part - and the details are taken care of. She applied it to all areas of cleaning. It’s easy to remember and something that always helps me focus.
@maxe_mini
@maxe_mini 14 күн бұрын
This helped me out so much. I'm moving out of the house in about a month, attending college and living in a dorm. I lived in a dorm during high school, but I went home on the weekends and the dorms had their own cleaners. It'll be different in my college dorms now, it'll be all up to us. I spent a long time being scolded and ridiculed by my father for not knowing how to clean properly, and eventually every attempt with him around just made me really anxious that he'd make fun of me again and make a big deal out of me doing something wrong, even when he'd never actually bothered to teach me, which just completely discouraged me from cleaning altogether. Been super insecure about it for a while, so this was really helpful. This was really comforting too, for someone to acknowledge that in certain cases some people just really don't know how to clean. I loved how clear and specific this was, since I have a hard time following instructions that aren't step by step or vague. Thank you.
@Luipaard005
@Luipaard005 3 ай бұрын
It's very brave of you to show your home as it is and not bother prettyifying it just because it's on camera. You're showing us your real lived in home and demonstrating how cleaning works with your own stuff. This is very real and we see it and appreciate it.
@Watchoutforsnakez
@Watchoutforsnakez 2 ай бұрын
You know I was thinking the same thing. I really like their simple home.
@vivvy_0
@vivvy_0 2 ай бұрын
how’s teddy doing?
@Biiku_
@Biiku_ 2 ай бұрын
ADHD wife here. Thank you for respecting the piles. My husband moves them or destroys them and then it takes me at least an hour to remember what the pile was, what was in it, and what I was saving it for. Lots of tears.
@heatherdarabos7293
@heatherdarabos7293 2 ай бұрын
My husband reorganizes when he is stressed out and "undoes" my systems which is incredibly stressful. I feel you. *Hugs*
@TillyJones11
@TillyJones11 2 ай бұрын
If you don't remember what the pile was for, why even make it?
@Biiku_
@Biiku_ 2 ай бұрын
@@TillyJones11 I could respond with the why and the how my brain works, but suffice it to say the piles are a part of an activity or chore I'm trying to finish but couldn't for whatever reason. When that pile is removed or destroyed, I have to remember what I was trying to accomplish, what tools are required for the job, and how I was going to accomplish it. Steps that would make sense to you and take a minute make no sense to me and take hours.
@gotchathespider7850
@gotchathespider7850 2 ай бұрын
@@TillyJones11 The pile serves as the reminder, as well as a pitstop for everything needed to accomplish the task it's reminding you of.
@mlindholm
@mlindholm 2 ай бұрын
"Doom piles", I've heard. It's hard to understand if your brain doesn't work that way, but makes perfect sense if it does.
@christif3230
@christif3230 Ай бұрын
I think it's great that you don't assume someone knows things, even if they seem simple, and you don't judge. You just go, "here's how you do it" and you thoroughly explain it. Great video.
@mihailoculum8560
@mihailoculum8560 11 күн бұрын
I compiled all the info from this videos into a nice format below, to remember it better, hope this helps! Thanks Midwest Magic Cleaning! For those of us living alone for the first time, this is great. --- All resources from the video 1. Dish soap 2. Sanitising spray made from: > 70% strength isopropyl alcohol > Half a teaspoon of dish soap 3. Toilet cleaner 4. Scouring agent for bathtub 5. A couple of dish rags > Cleaning rag > Drying rag 6. Microfiber rag 7. Ultra microfiber rag 8. Sponge with scouring pad 9. Mr Clean “Clean Freak” multi-purpose cleaner 10. “Bar Keepers Friend Cleanser” (scouring agent, oxalic acid, versatile powdered cleaner) --- Clean Everything in Two Steps 1. Emulsifier for grime 2. Sanitising spray --- Surfaces Removing Grease & Grime 1. Clear a section of the countertop. 2. Soak a rag. 3. Put a tiny amount of dish soap on it and mix it together. 4. Wring out the rag so it's damp. 5. Scrub countertop down left-to-right to get rid of grease and grime. 6. Dry off the area with a rag. Sanitising 1. Mist the countertop with sanitising spray. 2. Let it sit for 30 seconds. 3. Wipe it down. --- Toilet 1. Get the toilet cleaner. 2. Put on some gloves. 3. Go along the inside rim of the toilet bowl with the tip pointing upwards and squeeze. 4. Make sure it comes into contact with the underside of the toilet. 5. Coat the sides. 6. Let it sit as long as possible. 7. Spray with Mr. Clean or sanitiser, including lids, sides, front, bottom, and base. 8. Use toilet paper to scrub everything on the outside. 9. If you use a rag, wash it on hot without fabric softener. 10. Take a toilet scrubber and brush, making sure to get up underneath the lip of the toilet. --- Window Method 1 1. Pull up the blinds. 2. Soak a rag. 3. Put a tiny amount of dish soap on it and mix it together. 4. Wring out the rag so it's damp. 5. Scrub window up-down to get rid of grease and grime. 6. Quickly dry off the area with a rag. 7. Do the same on the outside. Method 2 1. Spray sanitiser. 2. Wipe with a microfiber rag. 3. Dry with an ultra microfiber rag. --- Mirror 1. Spray sanitiser. 2. Wipe with a microfiber rag. 3. Dry with an ultra microfiber rag. --- Sink 1. Spray down with Mr. Clean. 2. Let it sit for a few moments. 3. Wet down a sponge and drain it a bit. 4. Use the scouring side to scrub the sink, including between the sink and faucet handles. 5. Take a dry rag and dry it all off. 6. Remove hard water stains with CLR if necessary. --- Bathtub 1. Wet down the tub. 2. Wear gloves due to oxalic acid. 3. Sprinkle the powder, don’t wait for it to settle. 4. Scrub with the scouring side of the sponge (tip: scrub in circles if the bathtub surface is textured aka if it has bumps). 5. Spray with sanitiser to remove residue from previous cleaner. 6. Wipe up all that. --- Dusting Tip: Dust top-to-bottom. Start at the top where the wall meets the ceiling, then objects suspended on walls, then go down. Method 1 Use a dry cloth to wipe down dusty areas. Method 2 1. Get a Swiffer duster. 2. Put the handle of the duster into holes of the soft part. 3. Shake to get the fluffy part to pop out. 4. Adjust angle if needed (typically 45°). 5. Wipe down items. --- Vacuuming Vacuuming steps depend on the type of vacuum. The one shown in the video is lile this: 1. Set the bristle height: - Fluffy carpet - high - Wooden floor or thin carpet - low 2. Clear hair out of bristles by cutting them with scissors and pulling them out. 3. Take clogged filters outside and bang them out. Some can be cleaned with hot water. 4. Use the vacuum hose for crevices, corners, nooks, etc. 5. Vacuum in a forward-backward motion. --- Dishes 1. Never dump grease into pipes; it solidifies and clogs plumbing. 2. Never use metal utensils on non-stick pans. --- Cleaning a Greasy Pan 1. Scrape all the grease together with a plastic spatula and dump it in the trash. 2. Wipe down the spatula and pan with toilet paper. 3. Run water over the residual grease and clean with your regular dishes.
@yochva
@yochva 3 ай бұрын
Added context below. Additional reminder that some people don't build habits at all, ever (thanks, neurodivergence!), so having the _bare minimum_ explained in a gentle way like this is incredibly helpful. Editing to add: This comment has gotten a lot of traction, so I'm going to attempt (once) to add a bit of the context I initially tried to leave out for sensitivity. The technical definition for "habit" is "any regularly repeated behaviour that requires *_little or no thought_* and is learned rather than innate" [emphasis added]. Those of us who cannot form habits require conscious thought for every decision train. We use coping mechanisms, systems, frameworks, labels, triggers, reminders, and organization (to name just the few I use myself) _instead of_ "thoughtless" habits. We may be very good at operating within these frameworks and from the outside it _looks like_ we've got habits, but I can say from personal experience that each one is an analogue to something I was "supposed to" have learned as a child and "should be able to" do without thinking about it as a result. I'll list them if you want me to, but seriously, it's endless. I deliberately used the broad term "neurodivergence" because the inability to form habits applies to so, so many diagnosed and undiagnosed brainspaces (including ADHD, autism spectrum disorder, and executive function disorder, just to name a few I'm familiar with). I deliberately used the term "inability" because I'm _not_ referring to lack of motivation, lack of repetition, or lack of guidance - I, for example, am autistic and cannot for the life of me remember to brush my teeth _even though_ my parents 100% taught me how and repeated the action with me throughout my childhood. I'd love to have fewer cavities. I hope this helps explain a few of the misconceptions I've seen in the conversation below. And as always - if you know, you already know. *_*hug*_*
@priskruger314
@priskruger314 2 ай бұрын
😢❤❤❤
@SmallSpoonBrigade
@SmallSpoonBrigade 2 ай бұрын
That's usually stating it a bit strong, but there definitely are people that are resistant to forming habits in the first place and get off track almost immediately and have to start over if interrupted.
@hillbillycyborg
@hillbillycyborg 2 ай бұрын
anyone can build habits unless they are functionally retarded and you may be retarded but you are definitely not functionally retarded it just takes more work and more time for some people
@Xanthelei
@Xanthelei 2 ай бұрын
​@SmallSpoonBrigade I'm in this comment. xD I'm ADHD inattentive, and cleaning falls into the "I generally know how, but always forget to do it until it's not easy anymore and gets overwhelming" category for me specifically because I have such a hard time building habits. The ones I have built have either been because they immediately impact my life, like knowing where my glasses are in the morning, or after multiple really bad experiences, like remembering my keys BEFORE I leave the house.
@SmallSpoonBrigade
@SmallSpoonBrigade 2 ай бұрын
@@Xanthelei There's a reason why I said usually. In some ways I think the OCD and ASD tend to balance out my ADHD a bit in that regard. I prefer to have a set of keys and everything else that I take with me everyday either in my pants pockets or in a bag I take with me everywhere. It makes that a lot easier. And a check list of what goes in it can help do a quick check from time to time. In practice, I rarely need to check the bag.
@thescrybe
@thescrybe 2 ай бұрын
The irony of finding this video on Mother's Day. My mother was a perfectionist who never taught me any of this. Because I could never do it right. Thanks for this.
@k.t.7507
@k.t.7507 2 ай бұрын
I don't think you understand how amazing this is. For you to take the time and make a video like this. People need to be more compassionate towards others, because not everyone comes from a living and caring family. Not everyone is talk this essential life lessons, these lessons others call 'common sense'. I really hate when people say condescending things such as 'common sense' isn't common anymore', because sometimes people need the 'basic' things explained because it was never taught to them. And if it was, it was taught in a condescending and abusive way, to the point where you think your effort is pointless. How about you grow up in a family where everything you did was rediculed? Where you were told that everything you did was wrong, even though you tried your best. That kind of 'teaching' really leaves people depressed and feeling worthless. So thank you for not being a condescending jackass, and explaining and realizing that we didn't all grow up in healthy environments that allowed us to grow and learn in a healthy way
@MissingRaptor
@MissingRaptor 21 күн бұрын
Thank you for including how to dispose of the cooking fat. That's a question I had for years before being able to find an answer. It's the one thing that my mom wasn't able to teach me when it came to cleaning. Btw, this video is an amazing resource and you've truly provided an incredible service to innumerable people.
@zanesmith9539
@zanesmith9539 8 күн бұрын
The camaro peeking through the back door is a nice touch. Wholesome uncle vibes.
@Zombie-adventures
@Zombie-adventures 3 ай бұрын
This should be shown in the middle and high schools! The kids need this training!!!
@wolfe6220
@wolfe6220 3 ай бұрын
Schools should teach kids how to clean early, like in Japan. When their school day is done, they begin cleaning their classroom.
@chillfactory9000
@chillfactory9000 3 ай бұрын
Home Ec should honestly be brought back, the expectation that all kids are taught to cook and clean is so stupid.
@tamaratamtammorris8151
@tamaratamtammorris8151 3 ай бұрын
This! My middle school kids could barely sweep a floor when I assigned classroom jobs 😑
@mmh290
@mmh290 3 ай бұрын
@@chillfactory9000 I totally agree! I think showing kids how to rent an apartment or enter a contract/agreement should be taught as well. Maybe a lesson on interest with credit cards too.
@Iquey
@Iquey 3 ай бұрын
Elementary school, maybe 5th grade honestly. Early middle school or upper elementary. Cleaning should be added to health class, which encompases sex ed and mental health. But bodily and mental health are definitely affected by your home environment!!!
@WhiteWolfBlackStar
@WhiteWolfBlackStar 2 ай бұрын
As kids in the 70’s I know my cousin and I were shipped off to our grandparents for the summer. We were taught how to do all this stuff. I had my own cleaning business as a kid because of it. My elderly neighbors used to hire me out, clean houses, yards, wash cars, walk dogs, etc. I still do it today. What puzzles me, WHY was HOME EC cancelled in schools? EVERYBODY NEEDS TO LEARN THE BASICS! I would actually teach my younger friends cooking, cleaning, sewing, clothing and beauty. Give the younger ones a chance! They’re eager to learn, then TEACH! After showing this amazing duo how to make tacos at hime, I came home to find CLASS for 15-20 young girls from their church ALL LEARNING HOW TO MAKE TACOS! They were laughing and eating, having a ball! I seriously have never been so proud in my life. They had it DOWN!
@Jonsmama1
@Jonsmama1 2 ай бұрын
I am so thankful for Home Ec. I learned so much, and I still know all the different sewing stitches, cooking, baking. it was my favorite class ever. I ended up becoming a full-time homemaker. I homeschooled my kids and taught my kids all that I learned. Anything else they don't know, they have learned on their own. Home Ec. is so necessary to learn for life's basic survival. I'm so glad that there are channels like yours that teach cleaning. I love to watch them and pick up any tips that would make cleaning easier.
@cookiesandpudding8485
@cookiesandpudding8485 2 ай бұрын
Canceling home ec made it easier to sell things to most people and manipulate others
@valeriaswanne
@valeriaswanne 2 ай бұрын
No room in the school budget for anything other than required core classes. Even the teachers don't get paid enough to live indoors-- I had one teacher who lived in her car and slept in the classroom.
@heatherrae901
@heatherrae901 2 ай бұрын
It’s a sad thing that home ec is no longer a thing. It absolutely should be as well as a course in managing your finances, how credit works, etc.
@NiaLaLa_V
@NiaLaLa_V 2 ай бұрын
Education budgets suffer because America prioritizes subsidizing unhealthy food over all other expenses. Meatonomics will teach you all about it.
@Spmama444
@Spmama444 Ай бұрын
This is why I have taught my children from the time they could pic up a rag to clean and have family contributions! Thank you for doing this! It’s so needed!!
@Bloomsong1020
@Bloomsong1020 27 күн бұрын
you will not believe how many young adults don’t know basic cleaning, like wipe off tables BEfORE sweeping or even how to sweep… this should be learned before they even get a job or their drivers license tbh
@someone2447
@someone2447 2 ай бұрын
Surprisingly, a man explaining each step of cleaning was way more motivating than being yelled at haha thank you ❤
@cathiemarvellous
@cathiemarvellous Ай бұрын
Weird huh!? 😅 😢
@thenefariousnerd7910
@thenefariousnerd7910 3 ай бұрын
That tidbit about twisting the top knob on the vacuum to instantly unspool the power cable just changed my whole life
@emmsue1053
@emmsue1053 2 ай бұрын
Hahaa, noooo!
@sharroon7574
@sharroon7574 2 ай бұрын
Hilarious, I find that you have to be careful to not get the cord tangled, though when you do that
@TiffBishop-ww8br
@TiffBishop-ww8br 2 ай бұрын
😂
@WendyvanToor
@WendyvanToor 2 ай бұрын
Was new to me too :)
@Joshuaiwanski0019
@Joshuaiwanski0019 2 ай бұрын
Yeah my chord tangles up every time though
@Zeldalover14
@Zeldalover14 6 күн бұрын
Nothing drives this home for me better than when I moved in with my husband and asked him to clean the bathroom. He cleaned the inside of everything, but not around it. Genuinely didn't cross his mind that cleaning the toilet means more than cleaning the bowl lol
@DeZigningLife
@DeZigningLife Ай бұрын
Not only did you just teach people who don’t know how to clean, clean but you also created a video for those of us who need to clean but can’t get motivated!! Ty !! I am favoriting this and coming back to each week to do it again “with you!! TY ❤
@WelfareChrist
@WelfareChrist Ай бұрын
The premise of this video is so sad. When I lived in Oregon I ended up taking in this girl because she was homeless with an infant and had come from two generations of homeless parents, and about three months in she came home crying because she had bought dish soap and windex and she had never bought cleaning stuff before in her entire life. She was I think 25 at the time. Really eye opening.
@13donstalos
@13donstalos Ай бұрын
I know the feeling. I had never spent my own money on household supplies until the other day and I am 34 (bleach cleaner, garbage bags, TP, laundry soap, etc.). Once I quit using drugs/alcohol, I could actually afford it. I realize now it's all part of maturing into an adult.
@armyofninjas9055
@armyofninjas9055 Ай бұрын
​@@13donstalosSimilar story. But I'm on the spectrum. My problem isn't drugs/alcohol. It's depression/mental illness. In all honesty, I never figured it would be a problem. Didn't think I'd still be here.
@Dude8718
@Dude8718 20 күн бұрын
@@armyofninjas9055drugs alcohol usually come with mental illness. People don't depend on drugs because theyre doing well. Drug and alcohol abuse is just another symptom of mental illness, but they can definitely worsen things in the long run. I quit drinking this year and my anxiety got so much friggin better. My main addiction tho is my phone. I waste so much time scrolling and typing to random people on the internet and don't actively take care of myself because of it. Why get dopamine from hard work when you can get it staring at a metal and glass block in front of your face? I lost my phone last week and spent a week without a phone and had legit withdrawals and cravings. I didn't know how to cope. But after 5-6 days it gets a lot easier and I started going to bed earlier and getting out of bed faster. Normally I only get up to make tea and then sit back down and check my phone for a while. But without it I was able to immediately make breakfast and shower and stuff like that.
@drewbabe
@drewbabe 19 күн бұрын
@@13donstalos congrats on getting sober!
@tianachidester1566
@tianachidester1566 18 күн бұрын
​@@armyofninjas9055so youre gonna clean 😊
@justbubba4373
@justbubba4373 Ай бұрын
I am 21 and have no clue what I'm doing and this has frankly saved my life. Thank you man
@Rybe33
@Rybe33 Ай бұрын
shoutout to respecting/moving the ADHD piles! A source of strife between my partner and I for many years (that we have since worked out!) was him accidentally hiding stuff from my ADHD self while cleaning by "de-cluttering" and "putting away" my stuff, thus hiding it forever lol. Not every house is gonna be pristine, and that's fine. Just be like us and only do your major-major cleaning when guests are coming! To the point that your dog starts staring at the front door in anticipation when you both start cleaning the house too intensely....or maybe don't do that lol
@janebarfell9551
@janebarfell9551 3 ай бұрын
It would be cool if you had starter gift sets for sale with the empty spray bottle, gloves, bar keepers friend.... and an encouraging outline of simple steps (moose jokes included). These could be great graduation gifts.
@sarahgazaway3543
@sarahgazaway3543 2 ай бұрын
Cute! Great idea
@Kozinu
@Kozinu 2 ай бұрын
Also loving this idea! ❤
@KuraiKaNinja
@KuraiKaNinja 2 ай бұрын
heck, id buy it for myself when moving to a new place!
@makaiibanez8122
@makaiibanez8122 2 ай бұрын
Other than how informative it is, my favorite part of this video is how the green goblin occasionally takes over your body before you immediately convert to a professional demeanor.
@PsychicGirl
@PsychicGirl Күн бұрын
That first video you showed me really hit home. My mom is a hoarder and most days I feel like I have all of the same tendencies. Thank you for being both informative and encouraging.
@piratehalfdroid7370
@piratehalfdroid7370 17 күн бұрын
I also come from a hoarder's house. I am forced to share a bed with my parent due to their hoarding habit so even I am unable to get my things organized even if i want to. This helps ALOT.
@MisssAlexandriaJR
@MisssAlexandriaJR 2 ай бұрын
“It’s gonna smell like alcohol.. because it’s alcohol”.. lol 😆 I love how he addresses people’s sheepish freak outs.
@saynotohookups
@saynotohookups 2 ай бұрын
It's the same reaction you might get with spraying vinegar and water. Vinegar dries on it's own and doesn't smell or you can wipe it down.
@mrahim1342
@mrahim1342 2 ай бұрын
It’s so refreshing to see a how to video that’s not like “Oh my god you guys I have found the top five “secret” products that you NEED to have to keep your home clean!” He gave so many different options and kept acknowledging that there are those who can’t afford certain products and there’s still options and techniques that can help them keep their homes clean. I wish we had more content like this that pushes “here are some tips, do what works for you” instead of the constant “these specific products are the only thing that will fix your problems, link in bio” marketing that we see all the time. Such an awesome video 😌
@allik15
@allik15 Күн бұрын
Beautiful home with beautiful pets and art! The sentiment of this video is so amazing. I clean all the time and still learned a few things!!
@sunguita
@sunguita 25 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for the work you do.This should be a mandatory class in high school, kids should learn how to do basic cleaning and cooking. My kids learned to cook and clean from a very young age so they don’t have to struggle once they live on their own.
@bethanyclarke258
@bethanyclarke258 2 ай бұрын
I LOVE the fact that you kept your wife’s items in the same areas because of her ADHD. It drives me bonkers when things I have on counters at home get put upstairs or shoved in a bag because I now have absolutely no clue where specific things like letters or bills are, but I get blamed for having a mess or get told I should have cleaned up and they wouldn’t have had to clear the table when they got tired of MY things being there. It is literally just how our brain works.
@nolife8209
@nolife8209 2 ай бұрын
i can relate to u, i dont have adhd but even if my table's a mess, i know where my stuffs are. and it really bothers me when someone cleans it and misplaces everything
@SnailHatan
@SnailHatan 2 ай бұрын
Or, just pick up after yourself. I have severe ADHD. The only mess I have is in my room. It’s not difficult.
@bethanyclarke258
@bethanyclarke258 2 ай бұрын
@@SnailHatan If you have ADHD then I’m sure you’re 100% aware that it affects everyone differently. Glad you don’t have issues cleaning. Congrats on that 🎉 My ADHD, however, clearly affects me differently. It’s really not that difficult to understand.
@rrxyzrr
@rrxyzrr 2 ай бұрын
also have ADHD, this problem can also be solved by indeed picking up after yourself instead of leaving your stuff all over shared living space
@kayleeholt0712
@kayleeholt0712 2 ай бұрын
It think I'd they want to clean actually communicating to you that they are moving the stuff because of soemrhhjbg rh2y need to do there would be nice
@Revert2017
@Revert2017 2 ай бұрын
I started watching this video and thought, “Who doesn’t know how to clean a counter?” I started reading the comments and realize how many people DON’T know. I also didn’t know how many people have triggering memories attached to cleaning. I certainly do. I had a mother who let dishes, pots and pans pile high. There was trash in the sink and old food. Then, she would pick a fight and punish me by telling me I had to wash the dishes. I have always had some lower back pain so the hour and a half it took would hurt me. When I moved out, I washed dishes immediately so I would never be at the sink for an extended period of time or see nasty dishes in the sink. Thank you for this video.
@53jrodriguez
@53jrodriguez 2 ай бұрын
Same. Now I need to send this to my hubby because I'm realizing that maybe he doesn't know how to clean....
@Revert2017
@Revert2017 2 ай бұрын
@@53jrodriguez awwww!
@ItIsYouAreNotYour
@ItIsYouAreNotYour 2 ай бұрын
They know. They just are the typical conforming to whatever video they watch. You have to be short bus certified to not understand these basic tasks. It's really embarrassing looking at these comments. "I was never taught how to clean!" Nah, you are just lazy. Then again, it's very possible these people need their hand held still across the street. See short bus for more information.
@panic.betrayer
@panic.betrayer 2 ай бұрын
​@@ItIsYouAreNotYour Everything about your comment, even your username, reeks of arrogance
@medlink1
@medlink1 2 ай бұрын
@@panic.betrayer They're a low effort troll, just ignore. Likely doesn't do anything worth while IRL and is upset at others being supported so they lash out online. Not worth the effort.
@Wordsman
@Wordsman 2 күн бұрын
I dont even usually watch this sort of content, but I love what you've done with it. You've made this feel accessible to a high school student, even in 2024 a kid who wants to be responsible with their fast food job money or whatever could probably stomach spending $20 on their first set of cleaning supplies especially when they know how far it will stretch and know how to use it. Thank you for this!
@TheLelaBelle
@TheLelaBelle 3 күн бұрын
I love that your old doggy watched you explain the vacuum 💛
@1Eilatan
@1Eilatan 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for distinguishing that you don't need super expensive cleaners and can clean with a few simple things you probably already have lying around the house. That's really important to hear, especially considering most cleaning channels swear by a million products that not everyone can afford.
@Dorian1970
@Dorian1970 2 ай бұрын
This is the most compassionate, comprehensive, and thoughtful instruction of essential cleaning I’ve ever seen. A preteen, teen, or adult would equally be able to watch this video and feel capable of cleaning a home to a level of reasonable sanitation. This is such a good skill building video!
@Toricatgirl
@Toricatgirl Ай бұрын
Thank you. I get yelled at a lot because I dont do chores correctly. They say i half ass things and dont do things i know i should do. This video really feels warm and judgement free for those of us that struggle.
@Coyoteclaw11
@Coyoteclaw11 16 күн бұрын
There was so much in this video I just... didn't know. The way I pulled out my vacuum during that section of the video and was shocked to find the part holding up the cables actually moves lmfao and I'd never even noticed the carpet height switch! You made everything seem really straightforward and simple, and as someone who gets really overwhelmed easily, I really appreciate it. Even just... the fact that you can move stuff out of the way, clean, and put stuff back. For some reason that feels revolutionary to me. Thanks again!
@SweetSouR420
@SweetSouR420 2 ай бұрын
When he said,"you don't need all of these so we're going to get'em off... Get'Em OFF!" And he tossed all the unnecessary cleaners in the floor, is the moment I gave my like!😂
@sproggs
@sproggs 2 ай бұрын
I remember my mom literally yelled at me for using more than 7 squares of toilet paper to clean myself and later yelled at me for "living like a slob" when I was a pre-teen. I watched her clean a 1600 sq ft. property wide-eyed and panting because she was in her 50s. It wasn't until semi-recently, and I am 32, that I realized she never actually taught me to maintain and nurture my living space. I'm not being angry or pointing fingers at my momma but just making a realization. Thank you for making this video.
@NormieNeko
@NormieNeko 2 ай бұрын
My mom was a housewife as well, but she never taught me a thing. I occasionally ironed my clothes and did some cleaning for fun. I probably watched a movie showing cleaning. I learned how to clean the first year I was married (23 at the time). I only cooked for fun before then, so I had to learn practical meals. My husband had a job where he needed to be at work by 5 am, so I needed to send him off with a lunch and breakfast. Honestly, I hate washing dishes. It's the chore I dislike the most because I do a sanitation soak like in the restaurants to avoid getting sick. Our dishwasher broke down last year, but we're definitely going to get another one if we see a good deal. Technology exists to help us if we let it.
@IlonaJuhanson
@IlonaJuhanson 2 ай бұрын
It took me years to realize you didn't need to feel upset while cleaning. The maintenance is a chore, of course, but it can be made fun or enjoyable. You don't have to feel bad when you're doing a good thing - it doesn't make the cleaning any better.
@Jakkaribik1
@Jakkaribik1 2 ай бұрын
@@IlonaJuhanson Put on Music or some other thing like a Podcast and you do not notice the Time go By.. Best is when you do it with another Person..
@pong9000
@pong9000 2 ай бұрын
My mother was the eldest of 5 in the 1950's to a single mom who was autistic enough some kids were taken away for neglect. For my mother the topics of food and cleaning are emotionally charged to the point she drives herself, solely by her own actions, to hysterics. So I couldn't learn from example, and as a child became a keen observer of other peoples' domestic habits. Why I watch videos like this.
@Naturally2Sexy
@Naturally2Sexy 2 ай бұрын
So what you're saying is that you spent years watching her do these cleaning tasks and never thought to copy her actions? People are terrifying.
@krisdreemur5235
@krisdreemur5235 8 күн бұрын
This video was incredibly helpful to me. I’m neurodivergent and I’ve always struggled with incredibly basic tasks like cooking or cleaning, and I’ve always been embarrassed to ask for help. Reading these comments made me feel like I’m not alone in this, and this video was so helpful.
@JrPow3
@JrPow3 Ай бұрын
Honestly, my mom taught me to clean, but was overwhelming because she had a giant caddy with TONS of different cleaners and cleaning tools. Always made me anxious of what was going to happen if I accidentally used the “wrong” cleaner. Bless you kind sir and this lovely video! 🙏
@emilioparrilla465
@emilioparrilla465 2 ай бұрын
one of my biggest goals when im a father in the future is to actually take the time to thoroughly explain how to do things. pretty crappy being yelled at for not doing something right when nobody bothers even attempting to teach you.
@karenpeck4344
@karenpeck4344 3 ай бұрын
"This does take some effort, I hate doing it." Thanks sir, I'm still learning how to keep a house clean and sometimes it ain't easy 😊
@nerdalieisasleepyhead104
@nerdalieisasleepyhead104 5 сағат бұрын
Appreciate the respect you show to your wife and her piles. ❤
@emilyblb
@emilyblb 23 күн бұрын
This is a blessing. Thank you so much for showing us how to clean and to think about why we clean as well. Your patience and kindness is incredible and it's inspiring. May God bless you and your family ❤
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