I was just looking for you,Thank you Deshawn soo much!!🤞👑

Legend 💪

The most consistent MVP around - thanks @deshawn !

Your the goat Brotha

Awesome job

Indeed

He was so awesome

That’s right

Spot on

Amen

Facts

My hearts ♥️ broken

He finished his work on earth and God called him home.

@@MrDkb21 I’m At The Gym Right Now But I Have To Say This… He Had So Much More To Teach Though. He Would’ve Been The Most Known And Taken His Talents To New Heights Never Seen. Not Only Redpill And The Manosphere Taking Height To Life And Awareness But The Health Of People And The Ever Changing Dynamic Between Men And Women (mainly women). I’m Still Heartbroken And I Haven’t Vented In A While But I Miss Him. I’m Glad I Could Vent.

@@atorius why do you capitalize every word?

The saying is “ It’s not about who you know, It’s about who you BLOW”

@@gorilla9519 that’s for women

@@gorilla9519 This is a wild comment!

It’s not what you know, it’s who you know

Had me dying 🤣🤣🤣 Kevin said what's my topic for the night lol

@@thatdudekove yes😂😂 and he was like: uhmmmmm...

💯💯‼️

He said that with no follow up either.

🤣🤣🤣

Its dope you made 45k a year while a junior. Great story.

@The Esquire of Sports ® exactly. Circle of friends and gaining new friendships that are like-minded challenge you and give you all the information you need. Taking advantage of what your school has to offer is huge. Mock interviews with high level professionals that are connected to your school is huge and you gain a new professional friend. In my opinion, there’s very few (and I mean less than 3) ways to be successful in a career. And you’re right, there’s is no “I’m doing it my way” kinda bullshit 🤣 you really keep yourself in the rat race thinking that way.

Thank you makes so much sense to a 34yr old

Yessss!!! I'm speaking as a woman here, but I did similar (though I had the added benefit of a husband, so it let me be a bit more relaxed in goal setting) -- if I were single and/or a man I would have been much more aggressive in going after things. That's exactly what we teach our teenage son --- goals 1st, everything else will follow -- Sometimes this means separating yourself from some. If they're not teaching, motivating, inspiring or adding benefit to your life in some way, remove them! Good luck!

@The Esquire of Sports ® that was one of my biggest mistakes when I was younger. I would 100% be classified as an introvert if someone watched me 24 hours a day, but these days I can talk to people for so long that they laugh when I mention I'm actually an introverted dude. Extro/intro just refers to how we recharge our batteries, extros recharge by being around people and intros recharge by being alone... Neither one is necessarily shy or super social. Younger me was trying to prove a point that I could succeed alone, with no degree, no car, no credit, no debt... Basically trying to reinvent the wheel of success when the formula was already in existence and right in front of me.

It’s not even about social skills with random ppl but with the one they’re with at least. Some of these dudes are socially awkward almost autistic (you can tell by the question they ask). Obviously a man needs to be able to relate to a woman, communicate well with her etc.

This is the truth. I got promotions at a warehouse when I first came to the states with no work experience after a couple months mainly because I was a social person people knew me. When I was would miss work people will ask me the next day if something happened because they are so used to seeing me all the time. I didn't even have to do interviews they would just give me the job. Social skills are massive. I am the only one in my family who speaks Hindi and I learned that when we lived In India. I would talk to shop owners in Hindi, Talk to my landlord in Hindi, Cab drivers everyone. People light up when you talk to them in their native language. My Spanish is average at best but every chance I get I try to speak it to anyone whether it's coworkers or shop owners. Mind you I love being at home and just relaxing but I thrive when I am around people.

Bruh you can't even write sentences properly! This is just sad

@@professionalpookie With you saying bruh you can't even start off. A sentence properly now that's truly sad. Get it together and do better and send out more positive energy instead sending out negetive energy.

Damn this something I struggle with .

Preach

Married and happy and successful. Not married and miserable.

Odd that you include alphabet friends, as if they cant/dont have successful relationships like single people, when they do.

This is about bringing men and woman together everything else is out and off balance

@@jee6213 they don’t lol you know divorce lawyers got hard and wet when homosexuals were granted the license to “marry.”

"you can't make this *** up"

😂😂😂

Facts 💯

He literally split the whole show giving advice to both sides. Telling women they don’t need to improve doesn’t help them. If they don’t have the outcome they want, something needs to change and often it’s them.

@@antwanthorogood4921 I'm not saying women don't need to improve. The only point I was trying to make was listening to some of the guys that called in it wasn't hard to tell why they might have problems with women. Almost all of them were over 25 but talked like they're still in high school.

Well said! 🎯

@@jayp3360 yeah they lacked vocabulary and real social life skills. Thing is, they could recognize it and was asking for help. The women spent the time trying deny anything was wrong or pass the blame to someone or something else.

@@antwanthorogood4921 he said….”it’s not ALL on the women” he never said women don’t have to improve…the ones that have great careers have gotten complacent and the ones that don’t tend too talk to much too many people as it is 😂 jk they need to use their mouth and social skills to help their man and family as a whole. KS said “it’s ALL ON WOMAN”

That's been a saying for almost a year in a half now. Where you been?

@@stayathomedad4830 your making a assumption.

Not feel bad. I'm the same way. I'm 24 and got into med school. However I'm struggling to communicate with mentors and others students. Some are questioning why I even wanted to become a doctor. Meanwhile my friend fails at everything but he is a people person so people recommend him all the time. Also women dont exist at all Lol. I'm putting in that effort as well.

Same. Accept the challenge and evolve.

Unfortunately today's corporate America is corrupt. Corporations promote

Thanks man ! I am going through this right now it lets me know it can be done

How would u go about working on EQ ?

@The Esquire of Sports ® it got me no where in the company being introverted. At times I still do get the emotional anxiety 😅. However, the more practice I got, the better. I still have room for improvement. KS's platform is getting international attention. I am from Malaysia.

As a man myself I like quiet females. Silent cute and discreet is the way to go. Obviously in certain situations understand how to socialize (when necessary) but other than that, my lady is best up under me and discreet.

@@BRlGADE_KINGPIN cringe

@far from I am married. Touching 15 years now. At work I may lead, but at home there is one leader - my husband. I am able to voice out my concerns or opinions, but the tone & deamor has always got to be respectful, cooperative - to cut it short- what KS says what being feminine is all about.

Generally, we still give our men respect.

Get to it and please post an update about how it went. We will cheer your success.

For real! I'm trying to start up a wedding videography and photography company and I've never been that great at approaching people. Time to change my mentality!

How did it go?

Just found this video organically and realized I see some questions so update: An increase in higher paying clientele, less attrition, more word of mouth referrals and more people connecting with me as the medium for them to go on doing business together, stronger community, many gifts from clients Got a couple lunches lined up this week as I’ve continued to recognize that social side

Be careful, traveling alone is how BW get killed all over the world.

@@personalshopper2585 Nice way to shove in your personal coincidentally antagonistic feelings about Kevin

@@krog1618 everyday we get live example on why we shouldn’t deal with American BW.

@@skipg73 Understood but the key for me has always been using basic common sense. I stay around people, don’t isolate myself in risky areas, and do many group tours and activities when abroad. Many people I know don’t like to travel and life is too short to just stay at home.

Same here, solo traveling does open opportunities and networking especially in Mexico

Great point!!!

Chosen.

Now all of a sudden Pookie has charisma and social skills? Their full time job is chasing women, drinking, smoking and wasting their lives away. How tf does this equate to having better social skills? Find me the the white, Asian or Hispanic version of Pookie who has as much success with women of his cultural group. Oh wait you can't. Other women don't find that shit appealing, bottom line. Becky and Marisol will f Pookie but she won't see him as a serious prospect as a mate or father of her child.

It was off the topic of social skills. Another man tried to talk about divorce. Social skills are why 90% of dudes are here.

@@personalshopper2585 maybe it was personal how u know. It’s def not masculine AT ALL to take donations from other grown men.. A man with a certain pride and honor would never

@@personalshopper2585 Preachers pimp other men too. Actually alot of men pimp other men in one way or another if you really think about it

@@Kickinthescience Right ! That's the way of the world. Look at Donald Trump and Don King. Only in America

@@personalshopper2585 well he did start out talking to men and the way he talked to women now was the same way he talked to men.

How do you do that if your not attractive?

I agree. Great comment!

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@@tilt6715be charismatic. Don’t matter how attractive you are when your charismatic. Be funny too that’s a bonus

my mom is the same way lol i learned from her shes an amazing women

Bro this right here is golden I’m currently trying to break into IT

Are you willing to read some books on the topic? I can point you to a couple if you're interested. Nothing Machiavellian or manipulative, but just some ways to merge your own personality with what others like and expect.

@@ScentSense I'm not big on reading books, articles yes.

@@ScentSense I want to know some books to read. I need help to improve on my personality

@@eliduncan7715 try the classic How to Win Friends and Influence People, How to Meet and Connect with Women (a PUA book but not slimy or artifical at all - it's all about charm, personality development, and becoming more interesting + confident naturally) by Wayne Elise, and Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss. Those should cover the basics of general social skills with the first, inter-gender social skills and a lighter aspect of things with the 2nd, and the hardcore business side with the 3rd.

@@realass_me unfortunately you're severely limiting yourself then. Books are pure condensed knowledge that can save you years of trial and error. Don't fall victim to the short form, lack of attention span trap - every single successful man in the world partially attributes their success to quality reading and that's a non-negotiable part of the formula. Articles are next to worthless because they cannot come anywhere near the depth of an actual book, and are written in ways that satisfy you quickly and keep you reading more without ever divulging the truly important stuff. My best advice to most young men is to simply read more. If you do want to start, I listed a couple books in my above comment to the other guy who replied.

Miserable women keep other women single.

@@franknitti1190 🎯🎯🎯🎯

@@franknitti1190 💯💯

At least you cracked the code!

I couldnt understand women that do something like that. This is why i keep my personal life private from most friends, regardless of their gender.

Very true...some folks can't take all that realness and bluntness

Facts

I've always admired how they watch out for one another. If a member of the church is down on their luck, they provide resources and guidance to get them back right. They also hold members to a standard. I'm not s religious man but I can always respect folks who actually live by the words they preach.

@@melvinbarnes6652 Yes. Very very true.. it’s like a well governed society of folks

I was born and raised Jehovahs Witness. I still am a practicing Jehovahs Witness. He just cracked me up with this. He ain’t lying, Saturday morning we are going to give you this word. Lol. Great content Mr. Samuels. I listen to you because of your love for the Bible and “limited” vulgar language. We LOVE ALL HUMANS!!

You can't improve iq

They are tests. You can practice.

Character, loyalty and other virtues is way more important than talk. Talk is cheap

@@Tbatbatba88 You can improve physical ability and also mental capability. So yes you can.

Don’t sweat it. Not all men are chatty patties 🤷🏽‍♂️. It’s cool to be stoic, reserved & introverted. Somebody has to be the show monkey & it doesn’t have to be you. 💪🏽

good luck, bro. goooood LUCK.

Don’t go through your wife’s phone or come home unexpectedly Godspeed

😂😂😂😂

@@torachan23he stays at home? How would he come home when I he is home .?

Facts 💯💯💯

@Bishop No. he's right, and his points are not hypothetical. Often times very sociable people are that way because they do not stand for too much and therefore "relate" to a lot of people and are better able to "socialize"

@Bishop I think the disconnect is what kind of introvert are we talking about. Some ppl are introverts because they can’t help it. (socially awkward, insecure, etc…) Then, there are introverts like myself who has social skills, can deal with any crowd or gender but I CHOOSE to stay away from ppl because I don’t like being played with, stabbed in the back, I tend have opposing views (conservative).

@Bishop foh you don’t need people to make money in 2022 lame

As the saying goes, " a friend of many is a friend of none".

So true

Totally agree it's like someone being totally book smart. And could almost run a nuclear power plant on their own. But don't have that common sense to start a conversation on normal everyday things. To break the ice to someone to show how really how genius they are.

@ᴋᴇᴠɪɴ sᴀᴍᴜᴇʟs F*ckin Bot... I know this ain't KS

Amen brother. appreciate to the massive contribution that's helped us grow as men

That is our job to write a book. Do your Ph.D. dissertation on this great topic like I am and help our current generation!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Doctorate of Divinity!! I pray to take all of KS great knowledge to help Black Boys!!!!!

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Supposedly he is writing a book! He spoke about it some months or even a year+ ago, but we haven't gotten an update since as far as I'm aware. Fingers crossed we get it soon, it's a day one read for me.

@@ScentSense yea definitely can’t wait at the same time not rushing the more he goes through and thinks about the more 💎

PersonalShopper Your a misandrist who's propaganda doesnt works in the manosphere. Your attempt to leech of others content to stave off the decimation of the swirling/divestment numbers speaks volumes.

Love the idea going to therapy Alvaro,, and try to win yourself not friends then we will attract to you..

Hey, maybe try connecting by same religious and or political views.

I would suggest joining a boxing gym, MMA gym, or any kind of gym that has a lot of people and involves competitive contact. I joined when I was 17 and was somewhat quiet, but the forced interaction with like-minded people alongside the physical challenges is a double edged sword and open you up to be more confident overall in yourself. It’s a natural environment to develop in a hierarchy as well just like the real world. You won’t feel bad as you improve physically. (Translates into less feelings as you grow professionally and personally). Hope everything goes well for you.

@@danieldiaz4692 Cool, nice strategy!

First step is being aware of it then to take action you're well on your way

I’m the same way. Don’t sweat it, everyone can’t be chatty patties. Stoic, reserved is fine. It’s called “lone wolf” for a reason. 💪🏽

@@DetroitsProduct I am very stoic. But when we end up in situations that is ass I won’t fake it. She wants me to fake it and I will not.

@@MrEherndon5 😂 Good for you champ! Me neither. 😆

So awesome good for you! How old are you and how long were you together before you got married?

@@vlogcity1111 thank you! I'm in my late 20s now, we started dating when I was 21 and we were together 3 years before marrying. He's 10.5 years older than I am.

Great advice

Facts

Atleast you can work on your EQ. Can’t really improve IQ. Im the opposite, high EQ mid IQ. Pros and cons with both.

Feel like I've only listened few hours but it's like same ppl but I don't wanna listen to a whole show cuz then I'm like a loser but these bytches ain't really shiyt and I'm undervalued

Same lol, though I think I've gotten better at that part and the biggest issue is convincing myself to care about being more social in general.

I know this is off topic but I have a 6 yr old nonverbal autistic son and I was wondering if you could give me some advice for the best way to calm his stimming? I just want to help him

Powerful Story Sir

@ᴋᴇᴠɪɴ sᴀᴍᴜᴇʟs Mr. Samuel. I want to inquire about booking a session with you. And how I go about it. I love your content. Many of the topics in which you have for women. I too have had these conversations with my nieces, female counterpart and even with my ex-wife before I discovered your channel. Which is why, when I first discovered your channel I was immediately connected. For so long I thought I was crazy due to the fact it seemed as if I was the only person in this world of understanding. You proved I was not. I thank you my brother.

Lmao I literally busted out laughing at my desk when I saw this !!!! 😂🤣😂

This lol

True

Tight list, brother.

Probably not with the people in your immediate circle because they have a preconditioned notion of who you are and how you are so if it were to change it probably would take a long time for it to change but even then one slip up or anything but just revert it back to who they think you are that's just my opinion and possibly my experience

Ask yourself if being invited to gatherings and parties that you were not initially wanted at is worth changing who you are as a person just to be accepted by others

The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People can help you transition.

How should I improve on my social skill?

@@eliduncan7715 talk to people without wanting anything in return. A good way is just saying "Hi" or making a a joke or something lighthearted when you're in line at the store or waiting for coffee. Mainly just being a genuine person. Not putting pressure on yourself to meet people, but more so just enjoying the human experience. I'm a true introvert and can go weeks without talking to people. But I can also go to a gathering like an exhibit or gallery opening and just chat with people there. Learn about the event and what not. But the first thing is just starting with saying "Hi". Take it one day at a time.

@@eliduncan7715 be open aswell be cautious for obvious reasons in my situation want to better myself and have bigger circle of friends because at present moment have three people that aren't exactly leveling up me

@@66coldnight this is a good point. I found that as I was bettering myself my circle of friends got smaller and eventually it was just me. I realized that I need to be around people who inspire and challenge me to be better. Some people get to a point in life and that's their apex. In my case, I want to see what my ultimate self is like. Meaning training my mind, body and spirit. Understanding that I will always be a student of life. And i am okay with staying on my path even though people I care about may not be able to keep up. After my divorce, I was left at the very bottom. Living out of my car and the best job at the time I could get was a groundskeeper job at a golf course. I worked and focused on being the change I want to see. Eventually I got a better job, then finally made it into the professional world. I am currently head of marketing for a company here in NC. I stayed focused on what I need to succeed. Meeting people was a part of that and because of my social skills I netted some important references, that boosted me to the next level. So stay focused on constantly improving. Hit the gym, join a boxing club or martial arts dojo, and build skills around your main skills. I went from being homeless in Chicago to head of marketing in Charlotte. Its one step at a time bruv and remember its progress not perfection. Sometimes those closest to us are unable to keep up. But that shouldn't stop us because maybe our actions will inspire, just like others have inspired us.