We need to redirect the shame toward the bare minimum fathers

Watching my mother be a miserably married single mother was all the birth control I needed. Worked an outside job and still had to come home and take care of 5 kids. My father came home after work and sat his azz in his easy chair to either watch MLB or the Rockford Files. My Mother died at 59 years young from stress induced heart failure. My older sister is also childfree. Thanks for the life lesson Mom. RIP ❤🙏🏾 🪦

I think this shame is also sometimes getting labeled as postpartum depression when really it’s just women realizing what they did to themselves. They’re realizing that they trapped themselves in this role for the rest of their lives and it’s daunting.

My mom told us she regret having me and my siblings. That shit traumatized me for life. She was always stressed. Just because you have kids… Doesn’t mean you’re fit to be a mother.

I love how it's mostly black mothers in this video. Especially since being a baby mama/strong single mother is so glorified in our culture.

I’m glad that women are finally being HONEST.❤

To all the mothers out there that feel regret about your kids just know you will never ever ever ever get judgement from us child-free women. Keep strong sisters.

I am child free by choice for many reasons. Videos like these need to shown in sex ed class in schools. Having a child is huge decision that should not be taken lightly. This needs to be talked about.

“I don’t regret motherhood I just regret *describes motherhood*”

r/regretfulparents Infinitely better to regret a decision you didn’t make than a decision you did make and can’t undo

#CHILDFREE you couldn't pay me to take on parenthood.

This is why I’m childfree. I told my friend, who’s a mother, that I could never have kids. I’d probably never sleep another night in my life. And she didn’t cap w/ me. “You probably won’t,” she said.

It amazes me that so many women are having children without thinking of the consequenses.

I don't regret my kids. But my 2nd birth gave me health problems that im still dealing with to this day and an asshole ex-husband who didn't help raise her. He just sat by and watched. Shes graduating law school and he will attach himself to my daughter's success.

My mom passed away in 2019, that was the moment I resigned myself from having children. One of the reason an ex fiancé and I didn’t work out was because I wasn’t ready to have children. As an African, it’s a lot of pressure to have children, and you get treated like second class or less of an adult if you don’t have children. Today, I’m believing more more that I don’t want children. I just know deep down I won’t be able to handle it and fear of no support has made that decision much easier. I have worked full time job, one part time and gone to school full time, no brainer, with no sweat. But having children to me, seems to me would be like having ten jobs. I salute the mothers, y’all are truly a blessing to this earth. And this men have no idea how deserving you all are.

Some of these mothers who regret motherhood are also not good mothers. My mother left me home alone when I was 2 years old and went to work. Just told me to sit in this chair and don't move. So many women hate being anyone's mother. But a lot of them don't bother mothering and instead throughly neglect their children while at the same time acting like they are doing so much. The only time my mother knows I exist is when someone else mentions me. I can literally tell who talked to her last based on the reason for her call. Not all women who have children are mothers. A lot of them don't think about their children and only care about them insofar as their image as a mother is important to others.

I raised my niece from age 1-7. I was 25 when I took this on, due to certain family circumstances in her family that required I do so. It was hard... I constantly worried about her safety, welfare, health... It only confirmed why I didn't want kids of my own.

Every one i know with kids told me not to do it i haven't looked back since😊

I regret having a child but I absolutely adore my daughter.

Kids are not the problem, the problem are the cheating neglectful men who don't want to provide, not having financial aboundance, and negative society. Daycare is also a arm and a leg

We have been living unnaturally. The reason why most regret it is because they are parenting by themselves. Individualistic relationships killed your communities. That's crazy

Im not a parent but I completely understand that feeling anytime I'm responsible for my nephew for a week or so. It's mentally consuming. When is he hungry? Did he get enough nutrition? Is he sad he's not outside playing with the neighbors? Will someone try to hurt or take him if I went to get him and his new friends a snack from indoors? Does he know not to go into the street? Am I doing a good job that isn't going to scar him for life? He's not even my child but once you have complete responsibility over someone elses life It's a terrifying feeling.

Men want offsprings but are not consumed with the care and protection of their offsprings as a woman would be, even for a step-child or any child in your care that you loved. It's different for us women, cause when we take on the care of a child it consumes us, on a mental and biological level, unlike for men. Men, wanting kids is like a child wanting a new toy or pet to show off but that all consuming need to protect and provide for your child at any cost, the constant worry about it's safety, it's not that deep for men. Men, in society asked us for kids, like it's a light thing.

“Baby fever” is a biological fail safe Women being to ashamed to speak about the trials of motherhood is on purpose Even in nature the mother goes off with her cubs behind The internet is leaving the lamentations of motherhood in the air for the younger women to see And thank god ! Respectfully declining to join Mothers will always have my respect though Signing up for a job, then being giving roles you never imagined for no pay or appreciation And doing it with love ?!?!? Good mothers have my respect

Motherhood is a very hard, thankless job. Don't know why some women won't be honest about this and set young girls up for a hard life letting them believe in fairytales. My own mother tries to do this as if I don't remember all the hell endured doing my grown up years with her doing everything, and her trifling husband only going to work being super neglectful and abusive. This is a common tale for many women alot of women coming up now can remember the mothers going through it even if they don't talk about it. And that reality causes many women to be childfree.

I told my kids and people i know that if i could do it all over again, I would have never had kids. Its not the kids thats the issue, it's this society we are in. I can't protect them like the other lady said. I don't even want to be a grandma but my middle son had a son 18 months ago. My other two don't want kids and I support them on their decision. If society wasn't so off and looney, I would have had 10 kids.

Never regret, I regret the circumstance of single parenthood. I regret I was not taken care of, which can affect quality of care. I love all my kids. I would bare them 100 times over. However, the neglect I experienced with no real support I would not place my worse enemy. A supported mother is happier with her role

I hate people like the daily wire who pushes people to have kids with insecurities and fears. Not all adults are fit to be parents! We have so many abusive parents with unlucky souls that its heart wrenching!

I have seen what motherhood looks like thanks to helping my sister raise her 3 children. And I don't enjoy any of it. And knowing what I know now I don't think I want to be a parent.

11:13 motherhood sounds like torture 😢

South African here🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦 and you are right. The pressure to have kids on Africa is real. I wish these kinds of conversations could be held in Africa. A lot could change for the better.

Every generation of "mother was built on survival so that another person can exist." That's motherhood in a nutshell. It is a necessary duty but it is not easy.

I Don't Regret My Kid At All, I Just Regret Having To Raise Him Around My Dysfunctional Family Due To Financial Issues 🤷🏾‍♀️ I'm Dying With Anticipation To Get Rid Of Them For Good

We feel this way because these bandits leave us to take care of these kids on our own ,so we can’t really enjoy motherhood, stop having kids with bandits.

I don’t regret my son at all, actually his existence in my life feels predestined. What I do regret is that is father is his father. It is a forever job though. The talk about the life long anxiety is real. But the anxiety comes from the all consuming love that you have a child.

The shame needs to be directed towards society. It’s our societal norms on this subject that is so very damaging.

Comparing the choice of having a child and regretting it to someone working at Walmart and regretting it was a terrible analogy. The Walmart employee can leave Walmart and get a different job. It's no where near the same thing. You can't disregard another human life in the same manner. This is a good video and im glad people are starting to be honest about this topic. That comparison that one person gave was just way off.

Sounds exhausting...I'm sending you ladies good vibes.

I don't have children because I almost understand how mothers feel 24/7. It has always made me feel sick so I know if I had a child it would be an even stronger feeling that I am thankful I can't understand. Y'all are way stronger than I want to be.

their children must feel so "wanted and loved"...yeah

I don’t regret my son but I’m freaking tired. It’s a thankless, impossible job. I worry all the time about him and sometimes it’s so consuming that you lose yourself in motherhood. I’m a single mom and it just makes the situation worst. I just think there should be more support for moms and we need a break.

Yesss!! Please be honest cause this parenthood stuff is a new level of pain, anxiety and exhaustion you didn’t even know existed and it’s a thankless job!!! Please only do it if you have a VILLAGE to help you cause you’re gonna need it!!!

Me being childfree, i appreciate they are being honest on what its like to have kids!! That's really admirable that they are open and honest 😄👍

Motherhood is a sacrifice no one else will understand. It is truly all encompassing. I'm a mom because I refused to have an abortion. I accidentally became pregnant after years of infertility. It was a new relationship and I was completely shocked to find out I was pregnant. I thought I had a kidney infection! I always promised myself I would just go have an abortion if there was an unwanted pregnancy, but I couldn't emotionally bring myself to do it. Having my daughter has been the most rewarding experience, but the most exhausting! The pregnancy was extremely traumatic mentally/physically. I gained 100 lbs and had severe preeclampsia. I also completely lost my own identity. Plus my relationship was abusive. I left my boyfriend and now he's homeless on the streets and back on drugs. I'm raising her by myself. It's so hard! And yes, the constant worry about your baby or someone hurting them is so traumatizing. I pray constantly!! Especially with all the kidnappings and school shootings. May God help everyone 🙏♥️

It's hard enough to be responsible for yourself, why would you want to have the unnecessary responsibility for caring for another human being.

It’s sad because kids are so innocent. They don’t see their parents as real human beings who have purpose outside of being a caretaker until much, much later-maybe. It’s daunting.

I'm always genuinely curious why people say motherhood is rewarding. I looked it up and it said the struggle is the reward and I'm like, *confused rapid eye blinks* whattttt.

My mom is so desperate to have children. Me, my mom and dad had our final discussion regarding it. Whenever I would tell my mom the things that could happen, she would respond, “See you always thinking negative”. Im like wtf? You’re so busy glorifying motherland like it’s the best (not saying it’s not) but it also has its downsides…I could go through terrible post partum/depression etc. At least tell me the cons instead of just the pros. My father even though he wants a grandchild he said, “It is up to you, it’s your body. When/if you do decide to be a parent we’ll be here to support you”. That in itself meant more to me than talking to my mom. She just sounded selfish honestly, “I want to be called grandma”, “Everyone has a grandchild but me”….I even told my mom I almost had a breakdown/stroke due to stressing over that.

Mom anxiety is very real❤the daycare my only support system and I wish I had more support

And if your child is special needs increased the already high anxiety x10

OMG, I'm so glad these mothers of color are spreading the word and telling their truths!

I just started subbing and before wanted children and right now I am reconsidering. I don’t have kids but I have hella dogs 🐕 and only understand after reflecting on my childhood and observing the landscape it’s a lot of responsibility. Side note; I learned quick after all the fussing for what the dog did and had to work it off doing more more more chores with my lil Nokia phone.😅

I wonder what percent of mothers who feel this way have daughters. In my family, the elders who had daughters first didn't have more childern. Those with sons first did have more. I think the stress levels varies based on the child's gender.

As a childless woman I think I can for us- we DO realize that mothers do have these feelings of constant anxiety and worry and yes the sweetness of their love too. And we do know that there are some that regret the role (not their children). That is why we choose not to have children. Because speaking for myself I take this role very set and it’s a LIFETIME ROLE. My question is why do mothers put down women who choose to not have children?? After all multiple children at some point is a choice!

I never wanted kids and still have no kids. I'm 34. Life is peaceful babes 💖💝💝

Found out I suffer from CTPSD/SOCIAL ANXIETY/BODERLINE DISORDER (Narcissist mother gaved me) Have autism/ADHD MAKE THIS MORE HARD

It’s all these constant fears and anxieties what gets to us. It’s difficult and with it

Mom of 2. It's not that I regret the role (and of course not my actual children!), but I did underestimate how all-consuming and exhausting it would be. If I could go back, I'd still want kids. In fact, I still want one more! But it's MUCH more soul-shakingly difficult than I thought.

..........the more in my healing journey exactly 💯. It is a NO for me!!!!!

I am 54 years old childless woman…. I do, however, have anxiety and fear every day for children that I helped care for. I helped my sister raise her children I was both hands-on and financially the “dad” Because unfortunately the deadbeat dad just wouldn’t. I do not regret helping my sister - But I can tell you that was the hardest 20 years I can imagine. Being a parent is no joke - It is an all-consuming undertaking and not everybody’s up for that. I thought I always wanted kids For a while, I was really disappointed that I didn’t have my own, but then I realize the universe needed me to be there for my sisters kids…. I’m willing to bet more than half of these child free women have children in their lives. Children they love and care about and worry for…. I have an incredibly anxiety about my nieces and nephews, and they’re all adults now I can’t imagine the level of anxiety that both of my sisters must feel.

Thank you so much for the honesty ❤❤

I felt that , when my son is staying with someone else i cant have any other thoughts besides is my baby gonna come back to me and it really is a burden and down right heart breaking , cant even enjoy the small amount of free time , but when hes there constantly im so exhausted and mentally tdraindd and want time for myself

"[we dont regret mother hood, we just regret everything about motherhood, everything that comes with it]" sooooo motherhood?? you regret motherhood?

All I can say is, us mothers are built different, thanks to our kids. One must be one to begin to understand ❤️

“This shit is ghetto “ 😂😂😂

15:44 😂 not “I shan’t” Anyway sha, I’m rethinking the whole motherhood thing

It’s hard, but it’s fun too!!! Lol!!! I’m only 3 years in so… I had my kid late in life so I don’t feel that way… I literally love it… Even when it’s hard… lol But, I’m old, so I don’t have nothing else to do…

The young women in the blk tanks they are rite after each other lol...she is me...this is why I didn't want another child...after the 1st 5 yrs of raising my son I knew I was not cut out to have any more children...they are expensive and time consuming ...there was soo much I didn't have and I felt bad bringing my son in to that....but as I look at it all even if I had Oprah money I may have stayed child free...there are a few made for hulu movies i would like u ladies to check out, they are baby ruby, and clock.....when I say these movies are a visual of what these women are speaking on.....I am sooo glad this convo is coming to the table...cause I swear I thought something was wrong with me cause I felt like this at a young age ....Thank u ladies yall just don't know

I knew having kids was going to be hard I waited until my mid to late 30’s. I now have an autistic child which I was not at all prepared for you have to work extra hard and most of the time I have a lot of guilt for not having more patience. My husband is the type of dad that needs to be told what to do and he doesn’t understand you have to give 110% when you have a special needs child and yes it’s exhausting and yes I have so much anxiety because of his disability. I love me kids there’s just so many things that your not at all prepared for and I feel with the pandemic it heightened a lot of parents anxiety.

Seeing the mom to by god kids go from a single mom to a married mother. Where she says its was easier single then its was being married and single. Just breaks my heart😢

Yes we know you love your children, you'd be a bad mother if you didn't. Just be honest about the pressures, regrets, etc.

I need help. We need help. And I don't regret having my kids, but I regret NOT KNOWING ANYTHING.... about Healing Myself on a Spiritual Level, BEFORE Having children. 💔

My husband and I had two back to back and it is HARDDDD. We love them both dearly but with little to no support it hit us both like a brick wall and damn near ended our marriage. I thank God every day I got a man with a brain and we both changed for the better, got our shit together financially and we are happily waiting a long ass time before having another. We are enjoying working on ourselves together, bettering the lives of our existing children first and then if everything is right for us, we will have another in the future. Parenthood is tough, babies take more than they give by nature and that is not their fault but god damn am I glad people are doing their research and thinking before having kids because all babies deserve a good loving home

I’ve come to a point in my life that this decision has been put on me because of my partner wanting to start a family. He has all these big emotions for about it like he really will be happy being a father and to me it’s like I can care less about having a child. I thought one day I’d feel that maternal need but I cannot feel it within myself at all and I’m thinking I’ll end up having a baby just to please him but I really don’t want one and I’m scared to speak up about this. He got so mad when I told him I was afraid of childbirth, he took it as an attack on his person when it’s my own personal fear.

I completely regret being a mother Never wanted children but got trapped by a evil demon Narcissist I wish so bad time could go back and remove my uterus fr

I love your content you are my sister in my head ❤❤❤

Lmao sounds like I’d only be a good dad then. Teach what I can and whatever happens happens.

Honestly even sometimes I feel like it’s understandable to regret the child itself. I have alot of chronic health problems and will likely rely on my mother for support for the rest of my life. Sure, neither of us asked for me to be born this way but I would not fault her for feeling even a little regret for not going on birth control after my sister was born, for staying with my dad or even for going through with the pregnancy if that was ever something she considered considering they where about to separate before discovering she was pregnant again. I also had alot of behavioral problems as a child and was a complete nightmare. Listening to stories of my own behavior at even 8 years old is downright shameful, I’m really not sure what switch in my brain flipped and when but I’m glad i didn’t stay like that. Still, most parents don’t sign up for this role with the expectation that they’ll be caring for their child for until they die. If alot of parents of disabled children knew ahead of time that they would never had the freedom to spend time on their own ever again because their kid wouldn’t ever move out, I bet at least a few parents would’ve had second thoughts. I’d still be hurt if my mother said it to my face, but if she thinks that way I’d understand.

I relate !

The all consuming thighs are called love. There’s a children’s book that is called, “The Old Lady that Named Things.” And the point of the story is that when you love someone you have worried feelings, you have to be vulnerable to loving them. So if we close off our love for the reason of the thoughts and worries that would be to not give love to anyone. Not just children.

sounds like these women are having "buyer's remorse" . i mean i get it - there are certain things that you just don't and won't know until you actually do something. but I also think that the anxiety of being a mother is different depending on the sex of your child. boy moms probably feel different anxieties than girl moms.

The first video is annoying. I can't take a conversation seriously when everyone sounds like Alvin and the Chipmunks

I do recognize that mothers have a level of overall anxiety that I do not have yet.

I just worry that coming out in the open and telling the world that you regret motherhood. The Internet does not forget and you will mess up your kids if they come across this video. I am all for speaking your mind but maybe hide your identity if you are a mum...this is sad.

saying "most moms feel that way" is not accurate.

Be honest are you mentally and emotionally and physically able to handle your emotions and a whole anothers emotions. Cause kids dont understand their emotions. I barelly know mine. How am i going to teach my mini me about theirs. People always say have small humans. But they never talk about people who dont want thrm being forced to have them. Then treating thrm like shyt. Or disposing of them in horrid ways. If my mental health is shyt what makes you think this small human will not suffer. Dont do iy if your not ready people. Cause its better to not have them and do no harm or have them and now one more human in society that hates themselves, or the world.

Do you regret becoming a mother Maria? I think it can be a lot of work and tiring if you don’t have adequate help. For women who can afford it, have someone come & help with cooking & cleaning so you can enjoy cuddling your baby & eating warm meals you didn’t have to slave over. For women who can’t afford, pray & talk to your husband about seeing if you can share the cooking & cleaning responsibilities. Ask a friend if she can come over & watch your baby while you clean & make lunch for them & do the same for them. If you have family close by, ask them for help. Maybe 1-2 days per week or a week long per month. What I really hear are tired moms who feel like it’s too much work. What it sounds like to me is that they don’t enjoy all the work & I don’t blame them. It’s too much to work full-time, clean, & cook. I work full-time (from home) & homeschool. I am married as well. We do not have a cleaning lady. Some things that I have done to not feel overworked are the following: - Cook large crockpot meals for two days worth of dinner - Cook two large meals per week so four home cooked dinner meals come from mommy. - Dad makes one large meal for two nights since he commutes & leaves at 6:30 am and is in traffic going and coming home from work. - I homeschool during breakfast. I make a simple breakfast. Scrambled eggs, warm up organic pancakes, & wash fresh fruit. 10 minutes maximum. - For lunch, I make 5-10 minute meals. Sandwiches, Chicken nuggets, Grilled cheese with fruit & ready cut carrots. I homeschool during lunch again for 20 mins & then take a 20-30 min fun walk with my sweet children. They collect flowers for me. Blow kisses at me. Hug me & tell me they love me while we walk. Show me the birds. ❤️ - When my husband comes home, he takes a shower & nap. Then he takes the girls on a bike ride or the park, so I can have alone time. 🙏🏼🙏🏼 - We always eat dinner together. Then take a family walk. Then watch a family movie for 30 mins. - My husband handles the bedtime routine - I do the girls laundry & mine. My husband prefers to do his own & helps with bedding. - My husband cuts the grass, takes out the trash, vacuums, & makes weekend breakfast & sometimes weekend lunches. My husband fixes our cars and does all DIY home projects. My husband goes grocery shopping. My husband loads & unloads the dishwasher & cleans the stairs. My husband cleans our cars and takes our girls to ballet! ❤️ - I clean 3 bathrooms, our master bedroom, & steam mop the floors. I homeschool two different grade levels. I teach them math, reading, history, health, and all other subjects. I take the girls to swimming class & play dates. - The girls clean their rooms & playroom. After 6 years old, I hand those responsibilities to the kids. They must pick up all their toys & put them away. Kids are not allowed to make messes on first floor. 😂 So, I only do light dusting and steam mopping there. - The girls & my husband help with folding laundry. They love to help me! 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️ We chat & giggle about things. - My husband gives me alone time when he takes the girls to ballet, goes grocery shopping or takes them on bike rides or to the park. - I give my husband alone time when I run errands with my girls 1-2 times per week. Some days are so exhausting but it’s not my girls. It’s this life of constant working. I would have to make meals even if I wasn’t married & didn’t have kids. Working a full-time job can be mentally draining. The days I am off work, I feel as free as a bird. I have 3 days off & our entire house is clean for this weekend, so I will just be enjoying our family. 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️ We do eat out on days we simply don’t feel like making anything. My husband finally got onboard after a couple years of marriage. 😃 My mother-in-law & sister-in-law didn’t help Bc they said it was junk to eat out. 🤨🧐 I don’t want to convince women to want to be moms because I had a mom who didn’t enjoy it & it hurt me. Thankfully, I am the opposite. Initially, I didn’t ever think about having children. Just never thought about it. My husband wanted 5! I bargained for 1! 🙈 Until I became a mother, I then wanted a second child. Now, I want a third but because I work & homeschool I don’t think it’s wise. Being overworked is what I hear these women not liking and that makes sense. Oh & I only use disposable compostable plates & silverware so that I have easy clean up after meals. 🙈🤩🤩 Wishing all you ladies the best!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Women are not allowed to say how they really feel. Period. Let alone, share how they feel about being a mother. People are so quick to judge another person and then tell them how they are doing something wrong. Let's stop that for a second, and really try to listen to the other person. It's called active listening. Guess what? We all have regrets. And there are women and men who regret being a parent. Sadly, though, they cannot share their regrets on this topic because of the backlash and judgment they'll get from so called family and so called friends. As humans, we make mistakes. And sometimes those mistakes end with a pregnancy. Yes, I said it. Some pregnancies ARE a mistake. Pregnancies happened with and without contraception. Some pregnancies are due to a criminal act. Some even happen on purpose, but only to end up as a mistake or a regret (ex: I wonder if the mothers of Hilter, Jeffrey Daumer, Charles Manson, and Richard Ramirez felt any regrets?). Sometimes women experience post partum depression. Which for years, they had to suffer in silience because of the backlash and judgment they knew they would receive if they said, outloud, how they trully felt towards their baby or being a mother. Because apparently, being a mother is all rainbows and sunshine, and how dare you say anything other than rainbows and sunshine. I have seen several of my friends go through post-partum depression. It is a dark place to be in. Here's another nugget of informaiton: NOT EVERY WOMEN SHOULD BE A MOM! That's right, and we should be more understanding and empathetic to women when they realize they made a mistake. Let's help them find a solution. Even is that solution is giving up their child. Because that might just be the best outcome for the child. That is, if we are really concerned about the child, and not punishing or shaming mothers.

Women do choose this life tho. Its alot.

I’m a mom of one and I love it ! I also want to have more kids 🥰. My daughter was not planned and I kept her because she deserved mercy,just because I could conveniently terminate the pregnancy didn’t mean I ought to. Having this baby taught me to grow up. I realized that I love to work and I discovered this efficiency and resourcefulness deep with in me. She is the best thing I have ever accomplished she is flawed, and so am I. But she’s perfect to me nonetheless. I love the responsibility, I love to be in charge and doing things with her it is exhilarating. Children have their own way of seeing the world and it’s refreshing to see the world through their eyes. I thank my lord Jesus for sending the greatest love I have ever experienced beside his. I’m grateful to be of service for this utterly important job. I have a mission and I am entrusted to better society by raising a good and generous person. Honestly all the sacrifices feels okay compared to the reward 😄

What’s rewarding about mother hood

Don't have children if you romanticise being a mum. Its hard, its not easy and definately not for everyone. I love being a mum and zero regrets over here. I had my baby at 35 so i made sure i did all i wanted to do. Most of you had babies when you were too young that's why you are bitter

I rather be a submissive wife than a mother. Honestly

8:55 girl says “Worser” she not even educated and she don’t be having kids . That’s not even a word

The filter that you used to save time is horrific. Instead of focusing on the valuable insight that these mothers are providing, I was turned off by the fast-paced chipmunk voices. Terrible decision on your part to do that, really ruined what could have been an incredible experience.

Yes there should be lots of shame. Getting pregnant for approval to catch or keep the man. Or thinking your life will be filled with love because you can have a baby. Disgusting.. then the baby comes and its not the way you wanted it to be. Women are selfish and manipulative at the core. Never fooled by all these happy mummy posts. The regret is when they do not receive the status and feelings they were expecting. Nasty!! These poor children coming into the world through selfish women who was only thinking of self.

Great video! And also I love your accent, I could listen to you talk for ages.

I worry about mY Dad and mY cat sO don't tell me I'll "never know" I know and I say NO THANKS to Motherhood in these times at least

where is The video?!

My oldest daughter had seventy four seizures between 15 months and 6 years and that was like sticking my foot in hell. So many hospitals stay as hospital visits. Medications Vita barbecue hurricane drug dub. I finally had to stop giving her that because she was like a zombie. We had to move to another state to get her out of heat so much and I would do it a 1000 times over to have had her and her is wonderful. At least it was for me. Don't listen to what other people say about motherhood. Every experience is different.