The Language of Social Dominance

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#masculinity #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment
Social dominance refers to situations in which an “individual or a group controls or dictates others' behavior, primarily in competitive situations
Social dominance hierarchies influence access to resources and mating partners and therefore constitute a potent biological force binding together social behavior, well-being, and evolutionary success
together with other forms of power, social dominance asymmetries constitute a pivotal concept for understanding social organizations and predicting individual behaviors.
Dominant individuals are often most influential in their social groups, affecting movement, opinion, and performance across species and contexts
Time Code:
0:00 - 0:57 - Intro
0:58 - 1:33 - Dominance is Demonstrated, Not Explicated
1:34 - 2:28 - Know Who You are Dealing With in Every Social Settings
2:29 - 11:42 - The 15 Signs of Social Dominance
11:43 - 13:15 - Outro

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@Forged88 3 ай бұрын

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@loogloogloogr Жыл бұрын

The more you worry about stuff like this the more "beta" your gonna act. Yes everything in this video is true but don't take it too seriously or your just going to feel more anxious just be calm and sincere in general and you'll be fine

@BigTyronie Жыл бұрын

People watching these think they can become alpha sigma dominant or whatever by watching these videos. What they dont understand is dominant men arent concocted in the owner’s head. This is reporting on how they act but you cant go and start staring people down if youre a wet vagina and its not going to go well. I dont understand people and how dumb they are over hierarchical formations. Its like someone can tell you how an alpha acts but it doesnt change that persons status. I see guys in ig and yt on pickup artist type content talking about how theyve been acting more alpha lately at work. 😅 its like no dude you dont get it.

@loogloogloogr Жыл бұрын

@@BigTyronie excactly

@RooKangaRoo Жыл бұрын

One of the few legitimate responses in this comment section.

@mrlaybackvevo264 Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@reudizrreduix1189 Жыл бұрын

Wrong, being aware of your behaviour is the most important way to improve it.

@maciej6525 Жыл бұрын

1. They have strong but relaxed stature and demeanour 2. They make eye contact and stare with anyone they please 3. They smirk more than they smile 4. They touch people a lot more 5. They take up more space and leave more space between them and others 6. When they speak others turn heads towards them 7. When they interrupt people no one dares to argue and they get away with it eaisly 8. People walk after them and not look back 9. They will not hesitate to state or display thier displeasure on something present 10. They talk with deep voice and never overexplain or justify anything 11. When interested in something they tend to subtly demonstrate them by half arasing (not giving a fuck about something we dislike) 12. People around them compete to assist them and earn approval 13. People match and follow thier demeanour 14. They rarley second guess thier decisions and often subtly insistent 15. Thier characters interests and outlooks make them always valuable.

@raghavnegi Жыл бұрын

I love you for this.

@xtopia9758 Жыл бұрын

Thank you good sir

@starship3812 Жыл бұрын

Let say if u&me both are in the same sphere with other people u also watched that video me also. Now the only one guy will be superior the one who will implement it better along with many others things which are not mentioned in the video.

@mrike5651 Жыл бұрын

1,2,3 and 6 I do a lot as a introvert

@aricollado4505 Жыл бұрын

You just describe Homelander lol

@99percent28 Жыл бұрын

Guys remember that you learn in by real life situations and experiences, really confident people haven’t become confident because of watching KZfaq video about confidence

@JaouadsJourney Жыл бұрын

I am just jealous of the production quality you provide sir, I may one day be at that level

@wolfcola6329 Жыл бұрын

Don’t be jealous brother. Be inspired. 0:51.

@JaouadsJourney Жыл бұрын

@@wolfcola6329 you''r right brother, I am inspired by his creation. thank you

@arthurrivera09 Жыл бұрын

@@wolfcola6329 amen

@GucciButNotGuilty Жыл бұрын

Dominant Production Quality

@darkskinwhite Жыл бұрын

if you get the clips you want in the background I could easily do or show you how to do videos just like this

@Christian_Bagger Жыл бұрын

A little something: regarding social approval. Have few friends that you selectively choose. Those opinion about you and your family is all enough to sustain you. Care about others opinions in general in a human sense, but never personal. Only for those who are closest to you.

@BreezeeGreenz Жыл бұрын

The opinions of family and close friends is enough to sustain you. That is so true.

@WiseOwl_1408 Жыл бұрын

Many seem to require 1000s to validate them online these days

@KyxLimitless Жыл бұрын

I watch so many self improvement videos started to hear the same thing over and over best video I’ve heard in a minute with some unique lessons

@MLengley Жыл бұрын

You really target the reason and core reasons... which most other masters and gurus miss... Watching your video for the first time and loving it.

@Testchannel_3 Жыл бұрын

Your clarity of voice and certainty in the subject matter made me subscribe. Keep up the good work!

@kevin.marx_noren Жыл бұрын

Great Knowledge provided! Keep your channel up like this and you will rise to the stars💯

@999waves Жыл бұрын

You don’t know how much I needed this

@masculineleadership Жыл бұрын

I'm an incredibly dominant individual. I'm a fighter, I'm relatively wealthy in my area, I'm incredibly intelligent, athletic, educated etc etc. But when I go to the MMA gym (a current UFC world champ trains there), and as soon as I enter that building I allow my ego to evaporate and I am yes coach no coach whatever you say coach, bowing when I enter or leave the training area, and I am completely humble and free of ego. It's how I learn, and learning is how I enable myself to be so dominant.

@immoran9001 Жыл бұрын

what's your IG brother

@masculineleadership Жыл бұрын

@@immoran9001 @resurrectingand

@robottrainer Жыл бұрын

highly competant and structured list that I mostly agreed upon.

@jonmoller Жыл бұрын

just stop caring about the outcome that’s the only thing you need. Don’t try to be alpha or whatever just don’t have any expectations and just focus on having fun and being yourself and have the mindset of if you loose you loose and there’s another day tomorrow. This will naturally make you more confident and your energy will be alot more attractive. This is why the funny guys most often get the girl because they really do not have a care if people like them or not and that’s what gives them the advantage of creating and figuring out who they are insteqd of trying to be a copy of someone else and gives them the chance to build on that and find out your own sense of humor. If you like yourself you’ll have confident inyourself if you don’t like yourself how are others going to like you. It’s true that you can change and learn new skills but stop trying to be someone else and figure out your own strengths and what you can bring to the world and that’s how you’ll be successful in any area of life. Cho! god bless

@Vwerlg Жыл бұрын

There's no tomorrow! If my life isn't Great then for eternity I will be loser; over and over again. The effort is the reward and the so called "happy" is only a feeling of power increased... More and more desire more. Understanding expectations, inflated ego (from the power increased). Achieving greatness with the sense of urgency: Love of LIFE; the sacred YES, the fear of failure: death, utter destruction of ego, physical pain... Amor Fati, is for me quite hard to grasp, the philosophy that to be in the present moment while desire this greatness is the suffering I have to endure; for as life is balance, and that to desire greatness I have to suffer greatly as well... Life is amazing just thinking about all this. I have more but my thoughts is jumping from branches to branches; but I love it...! For I can discover more!!! More knowledge and philosophy!!!

@AugustDX Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the words of wisdom, mighty sir. I will do just this to become a more powerful individual.

@leonpresentbloggersfitness Жыл бұрын

Bro you just described my current really at the end but never the less I'm still highly self-conscious and lacking confidence in myself.

@abhishekmunda3lol Жыл бұрын

I like being in the position of power but I don't like asserting my dominance on others. It gives a whole different vibe when you know you can fuck them but you choose to be humble and kind to everyone around you.

@subliminalfalllenangel2108 Жыл бұрын

In order for your dominance to have effect on others you need to know how to assert it properly. There is the difference between hanging around with friends and making propositions or proposals. But I think being dominant is more like an instinct or a habit that you do at the subconscious level, not something that you should force yourself to control. It comes with a certain level of wisdom and experience, yes, but it's more like a characteristic than a skill. Edit: yeah, I admit, being dominant can be kind of lonely. People either hate you, gossip about you, fear you, admire you or something. It's often the extreme. I often draw unwanted attention and if I don't act more relaxed people will avoid me. They talk behind my back but won't dare to say that straight my face. May the next life I become a person with a more normal, more friendly personality.

@johnanthony4650 Жыл бұрын

Yes likewise since I follow a saying "the strongest man in the room is the humblest"

@piccolo5346 Жыл бұрын

That's just not reality. If you aspire to be a CEO of a company or even a manager at freaking McDonalds you gonna need to be ruthless and "assert" your dominance.

@Leonhart_93 Жыл бұрын

Humble and kind sounds very off. Firm is always more appropriate, most people don't respect a man that is humble and kind. Some do, most don't.

@subliminalfalllenangel2108 Жыл бұрын

@@Leonhart_93 the firmness, from my personal experience, works well if you are in a professional environment, but not so well in your personal life. A certain level of humbleness therefore is required to "inspire" others, making them think you are a good role model. So in the long term, it's great if you appear to be the embodiment of virtue, even if you are a lying two-face sack of sh*t in reality. Be relatable, but also firm, wise and professional if needed(and we might not even know when to be dominant when necessary. I personally do so intinctively)

@Lordknight13 Жыл бұрын

Alpha and Sigma are two archetypes of Chaotic Extroversion and Introspective Assertiveness, respectively. Alpha is a mindset which incorporates confidence, ability to take risks, take a stand for oneself, leading chaotically with a loud presence. Whereas Sigma is a higher tier of Alpha archetype which is subtle and commands anything with deep observation at the same time working under the radar. Being a Sigma presupposes a position of power which cannot be noticed visually always, rather the presence of such an individual is felt unconsciously. What connects the two is the ability to respect others in different ways. One would give reactions equal to the threat received whereas the other understands that not every time they need to give a reaction. To become either an Alpha or a Sigma is to know your own position in the hierarchy ( what you believe yourself to be, hence it’s about mindset ). Whether anyone wishes to lead with explosive dominance or in terms of a Sigma, operating and leading without actually displaying the extroverted traits.

@anushkagirakaduwa1584 6 ай бұрын

Gold Mine of character Improvement. Thank you for this video.

@Katchauuu_ Жыл бұрын

You really gave some nice insights and profound knowledge of the psychology behind the dominance and what is being a leader, im really grateful for your video.

@fitlife1205 Жыл бұрын

The content is 2nd to none!!!

@abdullahansari6402 Жыл бұрын

End up being impressed by A Dominant person behind the video Teaching being Dominant, Really Well Articulate Video

@kyj0hn393 Жыл бұрын

One of my new favorite channels

@ayoutubecommenter7494 Жыл бұрын

This is the first video I've seen from you but you already won me over. I like how articulate you are besides the level of insight you can give in these videos. I'm curious how could I learn to be that articulate, maybe you could make a video about this topic (if you don't already have one, I will check it after this comment) where you explain how could one get to such a level of speaking and expressing thoughts.

@Forged88 Жыл бұрын

I'll do it soon enough mate 👊 just need to get some topics out of the way first. Since you're not the only one who've requested this particular topic

@Martyn_Wolf Жыл бұрын

Here's how to be articulate - Learn about things by reading (15 mins a day is helpful) and know 20x more on any subject that you're learning about. Write (pen and paper not key pad or keyboard) your thoughts down, write what you've learnt down. Writing helps consolidate it further into your brain. Then record yourself talking and review it. You'll be able to pick up on how you sound, pronounce etc These will help

@ayoutubecommenter7494 Жыл бұрын

@@Martyn_Wolf that's a really helpful advice, thank you!

@Martyn_Wolf Жыл бұрын

@@ayoutubecommenter7494 You're welcome

@albescereteeth806 Жыл бұрын

god damn accurate video. maybe one of the best videos i've watched regarding this subject

@scipioafricanus6320 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for another great video!

@KrowlWalker Жыл бұрын

Can't expect less. Great video as always.

@RooKangaRoo Жыл бұрын

Honestly, focusing on others “external” portrayals is useless when trying to know their dominance. People are dominant not because of the energy that they portray, but by their mindset. You’re capable, because you know you are and you don’t need others to know that you are. I know you mean well and want others to be their best selves, but the confidence always starts from within. External stuff just makes you come off as a Jackass most of the time. Touching people, smirking, taking up space are also signs of a someone who feels the need to showcase importance. Fuck that.

@CaptainPlanet007 Жыл бұрын

You’re displaying feminine energy.

@aumperialism Жыл бұрын

I think you're right. Innately good leaders are egalitarian and they are disgusted by waste. Material or emotional.

@adrian_21055 Жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree. Dominance has to do with ability and strength. Doesnt really matter how you carry yourself.

@holdingspace Жыл бұрын

I agree. dominant people just don't care. don't try to look dominant, that's cringe. just be competent and skilled and people will put you in charge

@RooKangaRoo Жыл бұрын

@@CaptainPlanet007 ok

@Ghost70082 Жыл бұрын

Masterpiece as always brother

@humss1charlesmercado884 Жыл бұрын

what a masterpiece!

@gingerlemon865 10 ай бұрын

This is all true. I am a woman, so I don't use all the masculine aspects, but people follow me. It's incredible.

@jakubecho Жыл бұрын

Love this channel

@tarikjessa3783 Жыл бұрын

exactly we are not in a war we all have voices and because so many people are trying to shout all together no one is listening only fighting

@DeathrowJS Жыл бұрын

This video is a masterpiece

@blockkid5592 Жыл бұрын

Yall can be as dominant as you want. Only thing i care about is being able to physically defend myself. Dominant is a mind set, martial arts are a way of life....

@jacksavage279 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this great content this was valuable to me.

@DarkShaigo Жыл бұрын

Quite an Intresting Video, Great Job as always man.

@reckszkingzactivitiesrkat.4134 Жыл бұрын

Stay consistent at the content your making man , just subbed to your channel ✅.

@juantovar4861 Жыл бұрын

Well,well, respect, and honor, experience, Cautiously, tactical and constency.

@johnathanfowler3158 Жыл бұрын

Good video

@b-rainwash410 Жыл бұрын

Well done

@xtopia9758 Жыл бұрын

I adore this video

@abrahammorales3266 Жыл бұрын

This video is mind blowing!

@user-ef9ek9wk3c 5 ай бұрын

Be yourself, man. If you really want to have real strength, be kind and just. Use your courage for the Common Good. Not to control other people but to unleash the potential within them too.

@handlemeifyoucan144 Жыл бұрын

Amazing video

@Angell_Lee Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@Agbahizzal Жыл бұрын

Basically Don't seek to be liked, work to be necessary. Everything else u said is either a byproduct or a realization from walking that journey.

@BigArch752 Жыл бұрын

I have all these qualities. I just need to work on them to become the superior man I want to be in the future, that's all

@eliaspaiva1192 Жыл бұрын

This video is amazing.

@jesusuvalle Жыл бұрын

Honestly I think some are chosen me for example have always been looked up to and adored, ppl have always been drawn to me and ask me for help. Ppl that envy see me as a threat. Keep in mind this has always happened to me I am just saying some are born leaders.

@LesbianCinemaCircuit Жыл бұрын

As a woman, dominance is a hard thing to earn. It takes time and trust, and most times I must be subtle in the control I display by not showcasing it. Instead I use phrases that give people a sense of choice or that I'm seeking their advice. The commands I give are beneficial to them, so to not listen would be disadvantageous to them. Also I must be much more charismatic, using likability rather than fear.

@Katchauuu_ Жыл бұрын

Great work

@lavvey_kuxx_porsche14 Жыл бұрын

Amazing work bro 👍🏻

@legakattack4771 Жыл бұрын

Bro you actually described me that's crazy

@supersoldierx40 Жыл бұрын

Some people will say just be yourself and don't care and that doesn't make sense if myself is weak and keeps falling for example and being emotionally attached like a child and dominated by other people then it need to change for the better just like a weak body

@iPaulLee Жыл бұрын

Great narration and script

@goldenageofhumanity Жыл бұрын

Thank you Mr. Forged but I dont generally agree. This is a sadly seeing life from a strugling standpoint. Which is fine. We have all been there and even the inclination that you want to help others with this is great. Means you have a kind heart that is willing to help. That is the "dominance" you are searching for.

@lilianmandeya8978 Жыл бұрын

Award winning deliverance

@ZolaniGuyo Жыл бұрын

Amazing explanation. Subscribed🤝🏾

@syedfardin7559 Жыл бұрын

Thanks man🌻

@aumperialism Жыл бұрын

The langauge of dominance is righteous from the mouth of someone who is a facilitator for group potential. That is the rational context in which born royalty saw dominance across the plethora I studied. Otherwise do you know how ugly it feels, looks and ends because it's socio-psychological not just psychological.

@WarriorPrime1 Жыл бұрын

Very informative and on target. thanks.

@sebring2756 11 ай бұрын

Very good video. Legit!

@idrinkwater1124 Жыл бұрын

Bro brought elocution to another level

@richard38618 Жыл бұрын

You obviously don’t drink water

@kashierr Жыл бұрын

@@richard38618 You obviously drink water

@MustafaAlQallaf Жыл бұрын

Audio version of your content would be great.

@nightmarestudios.4833 11 ай бұрын

Good to know,

@eminemstrash2021 Жыл бұрын

They call it social dominance but I always saw it as annoyance that others appear to never really know what they're doing.

@Ace-_-- Жыл бұрын

Really great video, if I may suggest: higher-up a lil bit the casual background music in order to avoid listeners to get used to your voice and making the video feel less monotone.

@seewhyaneyesee 11 ай бұрын

The more I grow, the more i want people to be relaxed around me.

@ElijahNBoffical Жыл бұрын

nice

@rafaelzoiodoido9849 Жыл бұрын

bro, no words. Just fucking loved this video

@TeamMostRequested Жыл бұрын

✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

@alvahdelino67 Жыл бұрын

This might be separate from the video, but to me it means a lot. What should our own self view be? I'm a short man 5'8, and even though I accept that I am short, I'm having a hard visualizing myself as a "little man" who's shifty, agile and whatever would come with that. I would much prefer to be a muscular man, and have some mass on my frame, but is that pointless, since it's not playing to my "strengths"?

@Forged88 Жыл бұрын

First of all, why are you asking my permission on things that you want to commit on mate? You have that desire, then go for it. Why you asking me whether you should do it or not? If you want to put on size and muscle then do it. You have your strengths, then maximize it. When you have weaknesses then work on it or compensate for it with other attributes that you can cultivate. Nothing is pointless when it comes to investing in yourself mate. Stop self deprecating and just do it. Unleash your ego & selfishness when it comes to your priorities. Thinking too much will only delay your progress

@charlie64x2 Жыл бұрын

I’m 5’7” and I don’t get intimidated by taller guys. I used to be really skinny-fat so I started bodybuilding and nowadays I look pretty buff more than 95% of people so… don’t let your mind bring you down.

@charlie64x2 Жыл бұрын

Couple of other things I have in my favor are: I am pretty smart and my money is on point so I don’t envy other people or compare to them in a negative light. But we are the result of our choices and actions everyday so… get on it.

@alvahdelino67 Жыл бұрын

I'm asking moreso in whether its optimal. Kinda like, sure you can play basketball if you're 5'5, but your talents would be much better off at playing some other sport that's less rigid in height requirement. I wonder if that's the same thing for me and getting muscular

@BigTyronie Жыл бұрын

@@alvahdelino67 youre overthinking is not good for your confidence or image. Building muscle is something everyone can do. Its hard. If youre good at it, you dont need to announce it as people can tell.

@sbonohope5452 Жыл бұрын

I'm here

@atazoth_rising Жыл бұрын

These are the traits of someone who THINKS they are the dominant person in a social group. I find the truly dominant person rules from the shadows, and is not easy to spot.

@United_Wings Жыл бұрын

W👌🏼

@jaylynthehippie6535 Жыл бұрын

What show is this

@licansen3331 11 ай бұрын

We live in a society

@vantam455 Жыл бұрын

what show is this ??

@Novastar.SaberCombat 11 ай бұрын

Rich gotta rich. Poor gotta serve. Masters and slaves, baby! 💪😎✌️ If you ain't rich, you ain't SHEET. Stay in your lane. You aren't permitted to exit nor to change lanes, either. Acceptance is key.

@22leggedsasquatch Жыл бұрын

Don't confuse naturally confident with arrogant

@Gh0st_Eye Жыл бұрын

Ypur voice and how you speak is impressive!

@danielmelo1181 Жыл бұрын

My kind of guy

@Mandems96 Жыл бұрын

guys could anyone recommend me books to learn more about social dominance, hand and body movement ? ive watched andrew tate iron mind + body language course which is the only thing im aware of ive also heard of Jesus Enrique Rosas, body language in 40 days Any others please ?

@theone51700 Жыл бұрын

Focus on masculine excellence

@flyzeds63 Жыл бұрын

This is me

@geneticallysuboptimalsurvi3931 Жыл бұрын

This video was full of tough pills to swallow. But great job nevertheless!

@TDiamond777 Жыл бұрын

without my biased opinion on my dominance though i wont really have any

@JorgeRafaelAssis Жыл бұрын

Keep others dependent on you

@sidbanks4277 Жыл бұрын

Dominance doesn’t mean shit in a professional setting, because people only obey because they’re just scared to lose their job or position.

@user-pp9bl5gr1n 5 ай бұрын

Lies it matter the most In professional setting, yea you may have boss or supervisor but you still can have frame and be dominant

@hanslim4031 Жыл бұрын

This makes me wonder if dominant people have friends

@TheMPExperience Жыл бұрын

Are we talking about Health Dominance or Narcissistic Dominance?

@theperfectprogression2294 Жыл бұрын

What are some books related to these concepts?

@atazoth_rising Жыл бұрын

48 Laws of Power

@aminnanas5440 Жыл бұрын

basically me i just can not care about the outcome so i act completely free but also my physics and a good height(183cm) makes people respect me more one of the reasons im quiet good with girls natrually but again i still sometimes fear the rejection from the baddies just need to get more rejections lol but man who cares i know i will outrace any problem in life as i used to so yeah