what do you mean let her go with love. What did you do in that situation

@@lilgustav5065 Letting her go freely but still instilling in her mind that you still love her, that way she will instantly chase after you because you let her go without even trying to stop her when in fact she knows that you love her in the first place. A woman's mind is complicated and is very hard to comprehend my friend.

facts dude! I never got to the point of dating this girl I liked who came onto me first. I rushed the attraction process when quarantine happened and became too available and she lost attraction for me. I tried making it work for many months and little over a week ago I told her I see a future with her but I need to focus on other things in my life but no matter what happens if we try rekindling our attraction for each other I wish her the best regardless. She said that was confusing and so far I've heard nothing from her trying to initiate conversation with me yet. She occasionally watches my stories on Instagram but that probably means nothing. I like this girl and I hope she reaches out while I've been working on myself but if she hates me and never wants to talk to me again that sucks but I'll be fine no matter what the outcome is

@@Ianocity lol man, focus on your own shit. Stop caring whether she likes or doesn't like you. Give yourself a favor and live a carefree and interesting life. Post interesting stuffs that you do in your IG or whatever. Girls will eventually flock when they see that you are high value and man enough to live alone without other's presence.

@@oobibab9572 for sure man! I've been focusing on myself and feeling really good lately. She'll eventually hit me back up I know it (plus I used Chris' action play guide as well so that only increases her chances of getting back to me and wanting to try things again) and if she doesn't it's really no big deal. I had a life before I met her lol

FACTS!

Especially with re attraction process..

ivydude13 shit is fuckin painful

Woah! That struck some chords. That’s too deep. Women think like that?

So do I treat her like hematite?

@@airhoo0806 lol

she breaks u, you dont text her. reason doesnt care

She wasnt for you then. Hounding her wasnt going to make her come back either. Its a hard pill to swallow, but she just didnt want you bro.

You didn't understand the advice then. The point is to actually not give a fuck if she ever messages you back. That's whats attractive. A guy who genuinely doesn't need a girl is 100x more attractive then some guy waiting for her to come back.

Why the hell would you want a girl who doesn't want you????? Where's your pride? Where's your self-respect? The advice Chris gave IS solid. Move on to someone who DOES want you. She did nothing wrong in rejecting you. She is FREE to love whomever SHE chooses. You can't force that. It's her right. Move on.

Dude. Can't you tell that it's a joke? "Space and International Space Station"

@@justintimbersaw3934 Oh?...I know what ISS is but your "joke" does come across as sardonic sarcasm.

ignore it.

ignore her

zunkwind wise question bro

that should not be your concern stop being weak

You should be looking to pump someone as well. I'm in the same train of thought as you, but I am looking to branch out to other options. No use in waiting forever.

That's the problem with your mentality. She hasn't moved on and even If she has, you need to see yourself as a high value individual who can get any girl he wants including your ex

That shouldn’t be your concern you two are not together, but if you really want your ex back and you happened to get her back one thing you should not ask is what happened while you were broken up. If you want a healthier relationship.

Cut contact

If you really think that's the problem, then you shoulda had a V8

English -10

I'm in the same boat!

You need to find out

Then let her go

Ej Graham it's not too late. You just need to go no contact ASAP and follow the advice in my videos.

She hasn't blocked me on everytinh and I'm unblocked from the one I was blocked on and I've gone no contact since last night, however I sent her a text saying I'll finally stop bugging her before I went no contact, I dont know if that was wrong to do :/

Chris Canwell She hasn't blocked me on everytinh and I'm unblocked from the one I was blocked on and I've gone no contact since last night, however I sent her a text saying I'll finally stop bugging her before I went no contact, I dont know if that was wrong to do :/ .......btw heres a fact but I don't know if its essential (she was telling me from two days before that is better i leave her alone, she didnt say we should break up thats all she said, that its better I leaver her alone, but I didn't and two days later it ended) THANKS AND PLEASE REPLY

Sry man. Hope she's coming back to you.

Any news bro?

She likes you

Come on man value yourself a little bit! Dont contact her or send her messages at all , just move on with your life , if she left you on purpose then she's not good for you anyway , not to mention that no letting her pull away isn't gonna help either and you'll most likely gonna come off as creepy , move on my dude !

@@reviewrustyitalianasscrack9996 thank you, I have. Its been to long to keep waiting for the same girl..

Be a man

Odds r low

Odds r low

then that means she's not the one..

That's exactly why you cut her off dude. She does this because she thinks she can screw around with other dudes while keeping you in her orbit as a backup.

Faraz Ankalgi bro don’t say sorry stay calm and don’t ever say cuss word to a woman cuz that’s gonna make u appear weak, just back off

@@fouinylantigua5701 thanks brother I'll do as u say... good advice

I recently went through this and I said some mean things to my ex and cussed at her, she broke up with me and blocked me for a few days, I’m a Music artist so I made a song about her and poured my heart out, she unblocked me after 8 days so I sent it to her, we’ve been talking ever since, it’s starting to get better every day, we’re starting to joke around more and I’m working on Re attracting her right now and I’m following the strategies of these videos, I’m staying busy and not responding so quick, I take 30 minutes to an hour to respond and every now and then I’ll respond immediately so it doesn’t seem obvious, but I’m also stepping out and doing new things and staying on a mission, work out, go hang out with friends, do something different, change your look, grow a beard or get a tattoo just completely switch it up, and every now and then I’ll send her pictures of the new things I’m doing and it seems to be working so far, but the key is that you have to actually be doing things and you have to re attract her with different things, never bring up the past if you already apologized, good luck

@@TKZmusic legendary advice

Be as busy as you can, less free time you have, less time for thinking about it

14 days is nothing

@@The_Darrell after 30 she just msg me i was so happy but now she is becoming more disrespectful what should i do i cant understand her mood swing she was the loveist person i know

@@lucifergamingzone1000 this is very similar to my story, although for me it was 40 days. It's crazy how much a person can change. My ex was the kindest, and suddenly she's ice cold and incredibly mean. And the funny thing is I always treated her like gold... She even told me nobody has ever treated her nearly as good as I did. I'd suggest going no contact indefinitely... it's really the only way to truly know if they really care about us and truly want us back. If they don't reach out and be open to working on things, than good riddance... someone who truly loves us would not act like this towards us.

if she dumped you hell no. if you left her then ok

@@mynameispaul718 she called back 4 months later.

@@mynameispaul718 Nothing. Listen to this guy. Do your thing. If she comes back great. If she doesnt come back even greater. Good luck!!

@@mellowyellow2957 so what happened after did it work out

Move on.

@@hernstv that's easier said than done

@@hernstv that's easier said than done

@@hernstv that's easier said than done

I totally agree with you. Like chris said on his other video, you can chase her which is a fatal mistake. she would perceive you as weak and needy or just leave her and get busy with your life.