Just back off entirely and continue becoming a better, stronger, more experienced you. Let them contact you but don’t wait for it or expect it. Let life carry on.

It has never failed. Once I have finally moved on and don't give a crap anymore....Every single Ex I have ever had always tries to get back together. This could be from 6 months to 3 years. I tell them all the same thing, "If I wasn't good enough for you then, I am not good enough for you now. Just because it took you this long to figure it out and miss me and appreciate me for the man I am....I am over it"

the reason all this is needed with relationships now is because people have forgotten old school love. People are weak now and always "need their space". ffs. what ever happened to working with your partner and being strong together.

The best thing to do is NOTHING! LET HER GO AND LET TIME WORK FOR YOU!

Timing. Sometimes the right person at the wrong time. Nothing wrong with admitting that. 4 months of NC after a break-up, not a bad break-up just had a lot of mess to sort out in our own lives. Month 5 she reached out. After months go slowly, we were back together. 5 years on married with a daughter and couldn't be more happy with her. We needed that time apart. The key. Space, no chasing, don't ever reach out, move on, let-go, accept it's done. If they come back be mature, don't be stubborn. If you both had something special, then explore it if it feels the right thing to do. All these people "I'd never take them back". That to me is a weak mindset, a weak man. Own the fact you at the time of the break-up needed it. Everything is temporary.

If she amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. Truth is everyone is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for. Bob Marley.

It’s completely normal to react irrational when someone blind sides you, don’t regret it, just clean the slate and don’t contact them, they’ll get over the freedom or single life then if they come back, it’s your choice. Don’t think the worse if they block you, obviously it’s because you mean something, they can’t block you out their mind. Seen it all before. 😄 most women do this crap because it’s hard to explain to a guy without them thinking the worse.. stay calm, and make yourself happy.

Don't want it. Moving forward in life.

I've known for weeks and weeks now that I should have backed off....I didn't go to the extreme but I did develop a fear of losing her and ended up losing her, But I also believe she was going to leave no matter what.

leave it to me to get blocked on everything lol

Dear Chris, I just want to thank you. Your videos have been really helpful. I have followed your advice all the way, and I can clearly tell it's working. I have been in no contact for six days now, and today I recieved sign she wants contact with me. I have been on social media showing strenght, and today she liked a post I made yesterday. This is a confidence boost, I will stay in no contact until she reaches out to me. You are the best Chris Camwell!

You give solid advice! Thank you!

Thankyou so much I needed to hear this..GOD Bless You🙏

My girlfriend asked for space I gave her space then week after she said she don’t want to be with me anymore .that happened 10 days ago. I still feel hurt.its hard

The way you communicate on your videos, and the knowledge you have is just superb! Congratulations keep up the superb words

There is definitely humor hidden in his calmness 😂😂

original and useful. THANKS

I want my ex girlfriend back we are a family and have a 5 year old daughter I hurt every night I miss saying goodnight to both of my girls!😥

This really cheered me up

I needed this. Thank you so much

Bottom line dont try & get your ex back no matter what tactics work been thru it time & time again your just asking for punishment!

Guess I'm out. Lol she block me on everything

You give amazing advice

Who is happy without you let her be happy because we can't force anyone.Just focus in your goal and achive success in you life.After that they will realise what they have loss. I m in the same situation i feel sad but i make my heart strong and Achiving my goals. To show her what she has loss.By the way their are only 1% of girls who love someone by heart. Dont be sad and if she again came to your life don't Accept her anymore because she has left you one time so they can leave you many times. They usses us life a toy.And never change yourself for others be who you are😉

Thanks sir u solved my problem

this guy is good guide...way better than most on the Web *

it workeddd thankss so muchh

The days are long but the years are short. Don’t look back; you’re not going that way. People come and go, and come again, but your life must continue. “Never pass up a good thing.” Trust me, you won’t get another chance, do take them as they come. Your reach must exceed your grasp.

I love u man. U open up my eyes. I learned a lot from u. Ur a good player am not.

I have a not your typical situation regarding this. My girlfriend and I are together for 2 months on our first month, her dad died. It wasnt easy for her and her family since her dad passed away. Ive been trying my best to understand her, been supportive of her and comforting her. All in all everything I was doing so far was okay. It wasnt easy dealing with her because she is suffering from despression. She told me that she knows she has not been there for me, she doesnt mind me as much. Basically she knows her mistake and I acknowledged that. Although as each day passes its really difficult for her and she's really hard to talk to. She doesnt show much emotions. As for example, on our 2nd monthsary I greeted her but she didnt greet me back instead she said " oh shit youre right hahahaha" Truth be told I was hurt by that statement. Slowly I begin to feel less appreciated to her. Questioning myself if I am important to her right now. Until yesterday when we went out, everything was off to a great start. We had some small talk but great interactions. ( take note mjch has changed since her dad died. Our fun and happy converstions in car rides usually end up at silence and small talks now ) Until at a certain point I could feel that she's starting to get annoyed with me and I cant figure out why. So when I had the chance to talk to her after we're done eating at the parking lot inside the car, I told her that Im confused about if im important to her right now. I explained my feelings and she just stood quiet. I drove her home after that but the whole 1 hour and 30 mins travel was pure silence. When we reached her home she asked me why didnt I tell her about what was I feeling before and I explained to her until she told me that she's going to think about it. When I reached home I saw her messaged and she told me if we can talk later and I said yes. At the video call, to sum it up, we broke up. She told me she thought she was ready for a relationship but isnt. She doesnt want the pressure, and guilt, and the selfishness because she cant reciprocate what I was doing for her. I tried to save it but I cant. After the video call an hour later she called me on my number and said that shell tell me something tomorrow. Until the next day we talked and she told me that she doesnt want to be unfair with me. She wants to try again but this time we'll start from scratch. No labels. No promises. Just to get to know each other better. She even told me that it was a good thing I opened up my feelings becausr now she's aware of what im feeling and that she'll try to do her best this time. She also said it's going to be different and she hope that i can be the same way as before. And of course I said that im on board with that. I know the risks and Im hopeful that I could turn our situation around. I love her and Ill do whatever it takes not for us to fall apart.

If it is meant to be it will be. Man you need to be strong and PRAY. Guess what? I'm happy now because GOD loves me, he is always there for us even when no one else is.

This is really so true and makes so much sense. Let me tell you,when a person is TRULY over you they want NOTHING to do with you. And they usually resort to blocking all forms of communication. I'm going thru a rocky patch with my bf, at this moment in time idk if we are technically together or not. It's a long story and I'm not going to tell it here. BUT neither of us has blocked each other and just last night I spoke to him. But he said he needed to "clear his head" so I went ahead and texted him letting him know I will give him space and to tell him I don't want this to end. And I can tell by his words last night he doesn't want me to go either. We just need to work a little glitch out. ..and I truly believe we will. But for now, he has gone quiet. And I won't contact him anymore, I apologized for my wrongs and he knows I want to work things out. ...so now I wait... (and it's so hard!) But this man's words are so true! This was a great, short, direct video, just what I needed to hear

I like your videos a lot.

Chris you are the best

Dude you're a life saver.

Good advice

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THE THING IS TO MOVE ON. THE WORLD IS FULL OF AMAZING PEOPLE TO EXPERIENCE.

I just wrote all 8 steps down from your plan

Thanks dude

Top Video !

And if you need space with someone, say that. Maturity and communicate

My gf broke up with me like 10 days ago... week ago she didnt even want to talk to me, talk about things we should have... later on she told me to give her a space, which i respect, then she made new IG acc cause her first account got hacked and i was one of the first who she followed xD Could this still mean she does feel something to me...?

I’ve always known this guys should always put girls on edge! Give them a bit of anxiety make them feel a bit self conscious.. always maintain dominance.

I've listened to lots of coaches and they all recommend NC like you but i dont remember them mentioning the fact that not being blocked could be one of the best signs. They mention how we can get blocked if we don't back off but not this. As far as ik, im not blocked on anything, approaching 4 months of NC.

This is it, Chief

I got blocked after sending a gang of messages and calls but she unblocked me on text now after like 2-3 weeks I've decided to not send anymore messages I love her but actually working on myself worth sounds amazing and I believe if I work on myself hard enough I might forget about her by the time she comes back

Open communication is the key

I fucked up after the relationship because I was in a very bad spot psychologically. Some people in my position would have contemplated suicide. I had just recently lost my business, lost my work place and a lot of of money, lost my car and my house, all the hard work down the drain and then my girlfriend of two years broke up with me two days days later. I was devastated and I felt I had to cling on to whatever I had left since I lost everything, so for two months straight I kept pestering her and texting her, talked to her family and friends to try to fix things, nothing worked, In the end she started becoming agitated and angry as well as very cold. Despite all this, she didn't block on me on anything and she always read my messages so I guess there is still a chance down the road. It's been 4 months now since the break up, I've been concentrated on re-building my life and honestly thanks to your videos I have been doing just that. As you say, you need to raise your value as a man. Work on yourself and by doing that you build confidence and then naturally women tend to get attracted to you, ex- girlfriends or otherwise.

Then there’s moments she becomes a ghost in my life after she dumped me and tried to put me in her friends zone

I would of loved to give my ex space if she would of told me she needed space instead of waiting till we fight. She’ll be back

She hasn't removed our pictures on fb, unblocked me on messenger. Just spoke to her I was little bit too open but otherwise doing the mirroring and it went pretty well today. I've ordered the book so I am gonna give my all to get my woman back. Anyone else in similar situation be confident you'll be alright trust me!

There is a lot going on in my ex girlfriends life rn so she felt she had no option. For me I’m confident some day we may get back together as for instance she always replies when I message her, she hasn’t deleted pictures or blocked me. I have decided until she is back next September (she is away from December til September) I’m not going to contact her unless she messages me and I’ll see if I’m ready to.

Title makes it seem like we have no choice but hope she takes us back

She said lets call it quits, so I blocked and deleted everything including our shared folder of our precious memories. That really hurt her, she didn't really want a break up. I unblocked her the next day, and I told her the doors open if she wants to work it out. It hurts so bad. Neither one of us had a love this good.

I’ve been broken up with my ex fiancé since August 10. I wanna do no contact but I feel like at this point would it work ? It’s October 24th now. Ugh we still talk every couple of days. Even hungout a couple times but it was very brief. I did the no contact for 5 days and she reached out to me but it sounded like she just was hoping I was ok etc. I didn’t really know where to go from there.... :-/ any advice anyone ?

My girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago, I took that badly for two days and just kept on texting her, however two weeks later we added each other on Snapchat and she usually looks at my stories and texts me once in a while. Is that a good sign?

My ex broke up with me 4 days ago. Nobody cheated or anything, there wasn't any bitterness, just lots of frustration over repeated issues. All communication channels including text, email and social media remain open. I hope that 6 months later we would have another chance at a brand new relationship.

thanks i wish shell be back for me ^ - ^

I was freaking the fuck out but this really helped put things into perspective

ohh thank you so much😊

Note: Ghosting is abuse. Abusers ghost. Have nothing to do with abusers. Period.

Like someone said in another comment - emotions run high during a breakup and it is normal to sometimes react irrationally, and most certainly during an abrupt one or if you are blindsided. If the woman is not being understanding of this or does not put herself in your position, she never cared in the first place and that is why she cannot relate. Let her go

What does it mean when I comment on something I saw her in, and it gets deleted a few days later? She has no real way to contact me either, she is not on any kind of social media that I can find, we also did not get that far before she gave up on me, we were in the getting to know each other phase I'd say, and at the time, she did that about a bit over a year after the first time, and a bit under a year from the second time. Does that mean anything either way, or is the only real way I have of knowing whether or not she'll give me one last chance is by me tracking her down and calling her and asking her if she will or won't?

I tried to messaged her many time then she blocked me

Here's the thing, my girl broke up with me about 1 week ago. She blocked me everywhere but told me i could come home to her if i wanted to talk with her about it. What do i do? We have had no contact whatsoever for 1 week.

You're really good woman like space is truth my jirl is back because I didn't talk to her for a month after she broke up with me it works 😊👍

She said alejandro I'll think about it but we have had a lot of good communication for almost 2 weeks I've been playful and messing around and she keeps reacting good

Most of the time they leave their chanell open jus to see if there is any self improvement to know wether its worth coming back honestly

Hey I didn't no contact properly but my girlfriend is trying to chatting with me.. I heard from my friend she broke up her rebound relationship..but the problem is here I'm feeling she has no interest as much as I want..what should I do ? Sometimes I chat with my ex

What if after I was dumped I was the one to block and delete her from all social media?

What if she unblocked me after a month on facebook but still blocked on her messenger? What does that mean?

In my case I was the one who broke up but I regretted and I begged her to get back together so much that she blocked me but unblocked me after 3 days I haven't spoken to her since she unblocked me. Guess she still wants me to contact her but she's still mad at me. I don't know too much about this she was my first gf.

She has blocked me everything and left me for someone else and put a police order on me. What should i do be nasty?

Don’t chase, replace!

My ex still has photos us us 2 up on her Facebook, it’s been 34 days since the breakup, I’ve been in no contact for about 3 weeks of it but she hasn’t reached out she’s just enjoying life I may think.. is this a good sign?

hey thank bro

You mean that if someone is blocked he has no chance to get her back?

My ex broke up with me just because we now going to college and wanna give other guys a chance so what should I do..

My ex girlfriend blocked me off of Facebook but hasn’t blocked my number or anything so I am backing off completely and giving her space that she needs. Because I am trying to get her back not losting her forever so that’s what I am going to do is give her space that she needs!

My best friend has feelings for me but will never admit it, he keeps denying it, i thought i’d take the 1st step by admitting my feelings but he’s still denying everything, has pushed me away & blocked me on fb but not whatsapp-however neither of us are communicating with the other.i’m not coz for 2 months i’ve been initiating efforts to resolve shit & now he blew off my b-day & didnt come with me to the hospital when i needed him, i’m so disappointed & devastated & don’t know if he’s just acting out coz he’s proud,egoistical,afraid etc or if he’s just a straight up bastard that took me 8 months to see this side?! 8 days no contact & i cant help but think i’m the only 1 crying day & night 😭

It’s been 5 months since the breakup, I did not blow up all her socials gave her space ...we both have been dating other people Communication lines are open, so time will tell whatever will be will be, either way I am working on being a KICK ASS version of myself ☯️

I am the guy who wrote cris that mail in previous video.

She blocked me , and after a long time she is posting on her facebook that she wants me back, what to do. And why did she does that?

I am doing the no contact rule what should I answer if her friend ask me (do you still love her?)?

I yelled at her in my last conversation and figured out she has blocked me everywhere next morning. This is 50th day and I'm still blocked. Though when we were talking, I never initiated texting and she was the complaining for me being so busy all the time. Now I don't know if she's gonna unblock/contact me ever or not. Please suggest if there is something else I should do.

I was surprised.. I did some serious chasing for a couple weeks but I never got blocked. Finally I stopped completely no contact at all. A week later she got ahold of me I went over and watched a couple movies. She didn't kiss me or cuddle up but before I left she hugged me for like 3 mins and wouldn't let go. My friend knew how upset I was because of our breakup and she didn't know him.. He asked her on a date to see if she was interested in other guys and she said no because she was trying to work things out with her ex.. which is me.. I thought it was completely over but I think there is still hope. I just hope she sees me more than a friend. We were in a bad place in both our lives and nit picked at alot of different things until I ended up leaving for a few days then when I wanted to talk she said she needed space. This girl is amazing and we never should have got to the place we did. Even after we spent time together should I still keep my distance?

I think some women don't block the guy or unblock the guy because they love the drama. They like the guy is chasing her and he can never have her.

All the truth. Chill out get better fix your own crap. She cares it’ll work out. Do the work first in the meanwhile

She unfollowed me on instagram. i think so she didnt have to see my stories pop up on her timeline.. whether or not shes got rid of my number i have no idea. No contact definitely sucks for sure, but it must be done

Hey could anybody help me ? She left no means of communication she blocked me on everything literally everything . Is there a chance she will come back?

If she Doesn’t care about me,I don’t care about her either,if she doesn’t text either I . You will find the right person you are great person and you have to think that you are capable to have any girl you want 😉

She gave me a missed call at 03 I still haven't called back

I don't know how to use this last communication method to restart communicating with her. I respect her decision that she wants to be alone and have more peace in her life, wants to get her life back. I just don't know how and when I can restart communicating with her. Is there a right time? Is there a good way on how to do this? No idea.

Once the girl becomes an x it's time to move on and meet someone new 👍

She still has my phone and stuff but after 4 month of nc since day1 two weeks before her birthday she send her mother for her stuff from the apt we lived together for 6 years... i really dont know what does this means... what should i do... this felt like a second dumping and off course i continue nc no happy birthday...but im confused...

I’m not blocked or deleted off Facebook but yet she doesn’t really acknowledge me when we run into each other except for when we’re at the store or whenever we’re out and about not in a social setting she seems excited to see me. It’s weird and I don’t know what to think, lol.

Mine told me 5 times yesterday we are broke up 5 by text and then she asked me to come over. She then stated to my face but keeps complaining she wanted me to take her more places. I don't respond to we are broken up. She wants me to beg and then we all know she will end it Seriously

I cheated and she blocked me on everything really like her but doubt we will be getting back together

What if I did what you said not to do? Sir do I have chances still?