Re-Parenting - Part 53 - Self-Discipline

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Every child needs to learn self-discipline if they are to succeed in life. For people from Complex Trauma, self-discipline is something they either love or hate. Why is that? What can they do to grow in this important area?
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@Muck-qy2oo 3 ай бұрын

What I have realized after 20 years is that knowing something doesn't do much. It doesn't mean anything at all actually. What one needs is self control. Just knowing that smoking is bad, or sugar is no good doesn't help. My self discipline is horrible! I try to change that since 20 years and I don't get anywhere as I always fall back.

@mtloke5732 4 ай бұрын

I have no problem with self-discipline. My only problem is when others try to discipline me according to their desired expectation of my behaviour.

@katherinedamico4837 Жыл бұрын

God Bless you Tim. You have really helped me heal so much. Self-Discipline for me means loving myself more and more, and to do this work for me. It's helping me in all areas of my life.

@DigitalCasm Жыл бұрын

This one's on repeat. It's funny, being high functioning, and making progress on a lot of things. The thought of discipline as "Doing things when I don't feel like it" and "Persistence is discipline in action" really stuck with me.

@myphonyaccount 23 сағат бұрын

17:14 a lot of this is in my blindspot - i had SOME good limbic inputs for happiness but I was born with a pre frontal cortex design from a BPD/CT/holocaust survivor parental brain hardware blueprint and then programmed with their mentally ill software. So my shame, guilt, lack of self awareness and limbic inputs and inability to self regulate created a contradictory combination of strengths and weaknesses I could not see through or around. Until THCA+CBD+psychedelics over the last 4 years and now, finally, Tim Fletcher's content.

@StaceyDusk 8 ай бұрын

These videos help me feel insane but more sane at the same time because it reminds me of how far my mental health healing has to go, however it also reminds me that my physiology is playing out the way that it needs to in order to communicate to me that there's pain there. Thank you for the step by step explanation of a cycle I experience currently and have struggled with forever.

@robertafierro5592 3 ай бұрын

Integrity is necessary. Its all.about what you do when no one is watching. GOD is watching.

@koyankrumah9857 Жыл бұрын

Tim, you are going God’s work! These videos are so helpful! Thank you Tim.

@SH-ix6mc 4 ай бұрын

This was very needed. Great explanation, including range of issues, and thank you for tying it together to other teachings and steps to implement. I understand now what's going on inside me and what to do.

@alexandrugheorghe5610 Жыл бұрын

Great talk, Tim.

@ChrisOgunlowo Ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏽

@olgakim4848 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Tim, for all that you do. Happy new year!

@anitach5901 Жыл бұрын

All we need its to be happy . That's what God wants from us.

@charging7 4 ай бұрын

Man, you've got a ways to go!

@mrfarax4944 8 ай бұрын

Tim just keeps on giving wow just wow. No one has ever described my internal world so much to my environment changed not because of a plant want or desire but because my internal world changed and that changed everything thank you Tim

@darladiaz695 Жыл бұрын

Thank you!! 🧡

@joshcortezmusic8697 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video, it’s getting me on what I feel is the right path towards conquering some difficulties I’ve been facing for a while.

@kathy1001 Жыл бұрын

Thank you,Tim!!! I'm very grateful that I found your channel only about a month ago. You're the best for teaching on mental health and Complex Trauma. Absolutely the best!!!! May God Bless you 🙏🙏🙌

@deeone5326 Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@RecipesOfHope Жыл бұрын

Thanks Tim

@robertafierro5592 3 ай бұрын

Excellent video!

@alexandrugheorghe5610 Жыл бұрын

Tim, do one of these quotes video once more.

@msgirl01 8 ай бұрын

"They don't see it as an addiction, they see it as a solution to their problem"

@mai-qy9ji 3 ай бұрын

22:00

@myphonyaccount 4 күн бұрын

40:35 self compassion to REGROUP from failed discipline should come from cortex brain NOT limbic brain. otherwise the LIMBIC "self compassion" is to quit.

@Babayaga57898 20 күн бұрын

It explains extremism and aggression in followers of highly ritualistic religion Islam

@alimay967 Жыл бұрын

Ok this is just too general

@alexandrugheorghe5610 Жыл бұрын

I find it useful

@chilloften Жыл бұрын

You can look up one of his needs videos. It is somewhat complex, all of these areas we must be filling our own buckets.

@kathy1001 Жыл бұрын

Not for me

@tmking7483 Жыл бұрын

@@kathy1001 try doing mindfulness first , then do self awareness exercises, then do a inventory of how your stomach feels , like can u feel butterflies sometimes. If u can feel your body then reewatch and see how u feel, this is sound advice_ compassion for sharing our limitations_ I get it

@mollysreadings4845 2 ай бұрын

I'm listening to all his stuff. I'm not feeling this one either. First one I've felt that way about. . .but I appreciate these videos greatly. Maybe I just don't like the idea of self discipline lol