Wow, the way they treated the detransitioner was utterly despicable. They gaslit her pretending her story doesn't happen while she was literally sat there. A complete lack of basic human empathy.

The way they treated one of the detransitioners, Luka, dismissing the issues she brought up about being affirmed/pushed to transition was just heartbreaking. She brought up real and relevant issues about the possible consequences of early transitioning.

"Should Minors--" NO.

It’s crazy how they went from “a child should be able to choose to transition and the opinions of adults don’t matter” to telling the detrans girl that “you were misdiagnosed and it’s your parents fault for not telling you no.” They want it both ways.

I watched that video last night. All 8 of them agreed that kids are socially influenced to being trans bc it is trendy. TikTok is loaded with people claiming to be trans, non-binary, etc. Luka was a de-transitioner and when she told her story, most of the others kinda dismissed her by blaming her parents, doctors for mis-diagnosing her. She flat out said she has gender dysphoria.

I'm a detransitioner, and for a while I HATED my parents because they wouldn't let me transition at 16 or 17, I'm 25 now and glad they didn't let me I was on hrt for a few Years then stopped and turned my life around a but no, MINORS SHOULD NOT TRANSITION it is child abuse

So their defense is to blame the parents who are adults, while at the same time saying it’s the child’s choice. Then who’s choice is it then? Do you trust the child or the adult? Seriously.. smh…

Samantha Lux is a horrible human being. When she said that misgendering was worse than kids lives being taken in the Nashville shooting, I was done. She is not a respectable human and never take anything she says seriously.

Trans: “Not letting the child choose what to do with their body is wrong, I always knew what I wanted, nobody knows ME more than ME! I just had to mutilate my healthy body to get it to look at the way I want, how dare you to not let a child do the same???? 😡😡😡” Detrans: “The doctor manipulated my parents and removed a healthy part of my body because of my gender dysphoria. It caused irreversible damage to my body, I have constant joint pain etc etc etc…” Trans: “I think you were misdiagnosed, it was your parent’s fault. You gotta get a second opinion, honey.”

Shapeshifter and Luka did such a great job even with so much hostility coming at them (im referring to Samantha lux). Luka never raised her voice and kept a calm demonor even after all that has happened to her. She deserves some kind of award

I can't tell you how many times I've heard the "Would you rather have a living son, or a dead daughter". or vice versa. It is so manipulative. As long as it is from the "medical professionals", they are okay with it. It blows my mind.

it’s crazy how they say kids should make the decision to be able to transition but in the same breath say that detransitioner (Luka) was misdiagnosed and invalidated her whole experience

The way they gaslit and victimblamed Luka and her parents was repulsive. These people are incompatible with children.

I understand how these trans people might feel. They grew up all their lives being told they're not trans, but then they finally transitioned and it turned out for the best for them. However, it is disgusting the sheer lack of empathy and dismissiveness they show towards detransitioners when they share their trauma

Jazz Jennings is a great example of a child being put through he'll and still going through it

Commenting on the whole “they weren’t trans, just gay instead”: I know you probably don’t mean _every_ detransitioner, but I do want to spread light on the fact that sometimes it’s just nothing but influence from people around them or trends or mental health issues. For example, while I thankfully didn’t go through surgery or hormones, I struggled with this identity of “oh, maybe I’m actually a trans-woman,” or “oh maybe I’m bisexual or gay or whatever.” When really it was none of that. I am a straight man who had an unstable identity due to my mental health condition, and at the time I wasn’t being treated for it. All of that being said, I find it most common for it not to “turns out they’re actually gay” but rather they are among the majority in being born as they are and being hetero yet having unresolved issues with identity that were not taken care of or groomed or both. There’s a reason why there’s a _huge_ and unrealistic increase of teen LGBTQ+ members. Hope that makes sense.

It’s bad enough that minors are transitioning, but it gets worse with minor drag queens (yes, that’s a real thing).

As a transgender adult legitimately and thoroughly diagnosed with gender dysphoria, I fully agree that medical transition in any form, from hormones to surgeries, needs to be an absolute last resort. We are talking about seriously screwing with body chemistry as well as several forms of irreversible alterations. It's absolutely not to be taken lightly, and needs to be properly established, with the help of a competent professional through long enough therapy to exclude possible overlapping personality disorders, as well as looking into any traumatic background that may drive them to hate their biological sex, but without having the strong opposite-sex body identity that those of us actually suffering from gender dysphoria (and pretty badly so if I may say so myself) have. I'm personally against the growing movement of 'informed consent' -- serious measures require serious evaluation.

I grew up in a homophobic household and my parents didn't like that I was feminine. I thought for a while to be with a man, I had to become a woman for me to feel normal. But as I got older I realized I'm just a man who likes other men and that's okay.

I remember when I was in high school everyone is so susceptible and just wants to fit in never thinking about the consequences, teens shouldn’t have that power without A, some kind of therapy or counseling and B without parental consent if they need consent to get a piercing or tattoo then they need consent to get a life changing surgery.

The correct and common sense answer is: NO!

I wanted a tattoo at 14. Badly. And I thought that you should be able to get a tattoo with a parent signature for under 18's. I turned 18 and realize how horrible of an idea it was! I can't imagine going through something so life altering at a young age like that, especially something as big as a gender transition. I can get if you're an adult, you've gone to therapy for several years (which was the standard way back when, and it was a very small amount of people doing it.), and even try to see how you feel as the other gender via dressing like said gender, then going through with treatment. But kids? No way.

The human body and brain, both are completely developed by the adult age of 25. If you do surgical things BEFORE, you or your body or both DEFINITELY will regret it 😢 it's really dangerous. So I am really happy that you use your platform to help kids and teens not to do such a dangerous step. Bolshoye spasibo, krasotka Misha 🎉❤🎉❤

Coming soon “should minors drink alcohol” 😂

Please keep up these important videos 🙏🏽 Pointing out such things and protecting children is not transphobic.

Woke homophobia, they’re transing away the gay. You’ve done a great response.

"I identify as a non binary!" Woke mob: "flawlessly logical, welcome to the crew, we accept all gender identities!" "I'm detransitioning." Woke mob: "You're a disgrace. We don't want you."

Not only should minors not transition, this practice should be outlawed for anyone regardless of age. A depraved civilization destroying practice.

They treated the detransitioner so horribly…..”you shouldn’t you were misdiagnosed” as if they are luka.

This should never be a debate. It’s the same as saying “Should we legalize P-filia?”

This is actually really sad, is there anywhere we can support Luka in order to spread the message? I want to let it be known that they have our full support

When you said, everyone struggeled their body image growing up...facts of the day. If i were american, I would be one of the detransitioners. I neved wanted to be a boy, but I was a tomboy growing up. I hated my body for the longest time ever, i'm 27, i moved across the world, i lost weight and for the first time in like 15 years, i'm comfortable in my skin and in my femininity. It took me more then half of my lifetime to "glow up" and grow into the woman I was born to be. But instead of saying, I'm trans, I gave myself time, and here I am.

Parents should look after their kids, I can't believe they would hurt them in this way

This is why being an individual loner in school is a benefit, if everyone in my school tried this shit I would have still said no just on the basis of being me.

That one T person insisting it’s saving lives while there’s literally 2 people saying how it hurt them and there’s thousands more. It’s sick how they insist on sticking their heads in the sand. Evil people.

Children transitioning is definitely one of those things that I have had my opinion shift on as time has gone on. Years ago when I was a young teen, I thought that teens transitioning should be allowed because it was important for ones who had true gender dysphoria as allowing them to transition as soon as possible would reduce the chances of them committing suicide. Though this was when the majority of people transitioning had true gender dysphoria and becoming trans to be trendy wasn't a thing yet to my knowledge. In this day in age where teens are being told on TikTok that they should transition because they like certain things, act a certain way, or have some sort of internalized mysoginy for teen girls, it has definitely become an issue. Seems like therapists and doctors in this day in age usually care about the money and getting people hooked on HRT than actually properly diagnosing someone with gender dysphoria. I know there is also the issue of them being too scared to blatantly tell someone that they don't have gender dysphoria and therefore shouldn't transition because they are afraid of what will happen to them and their career if they go ahead and do so. I at this point believe firmly that FTM transitions should require the person transitioning to be 18+ in order to go ahead with it because the effects of testosterone are irreversible and it is a very serious decision to make. Though I don't feel as firmly with MTF transitions. Mainly because certain effects of male puberty such as the voice deepening are irreversible and transitioning younger would prevent that from happening and reduce the feeling of gender dysphoria in the person. I definitely think the idea of forcing all kids to take puberty blockers until they decide if they want to stick with their biological gender or transition is ridiculous because the amount of people with gender dysphoria statistically is very low. Also the fact that MTF transitioning is easily reversable. Biological men with gender dysphoria usually show it pretty early on and are typically have consistent behaviors displayed from a young age. Gender dysphoria is also statistically higher in men than it is in women. Although the amount of FTM transitions have been sky rocketing due to the issue I mentioned earlier of young, impressionable girls being influenced by social media. I do also understand that transitioning is still a pretty major decision for an MTF transitioner. Though there honestly just doesn't seem to be a perfect solution unless gender dysphoria could be 100% accurately diagnosed all of the time. I could somewhat see the age for a biological male to transition being 18 as it's still a serious body modification. Though it would definitely be unfortunate for a biological male who clearly has gender dysphoria at a young age to have to go through male puberty, still be an adult with gender dysphoria, and then finally be able to transition while having an irreversible deep voice (especially if the individual had my deep-ass voice, definitely no undoing a voice that deep). Overall, it is a very complex issue that I don't think has an easy solution for it and I get conflicted about it in my own head a lot.

There's a minor transitioner I saw (f -> m) who still wears dresses and insists that clothing doesn't define them, does nothing male, looks and acts like a girl. This isn't body dysphoria, it's puberty.

I absolutely agree with you. Children don't know what they really want, they will do whatever adults suggest to them.

"Kids have the agency to determine if they need to transition." "Well, your misdiagnosis is your parent's fault for letting you go that route." Oh, look at that! A perfect score from the judges! This year's gold medal for the Mental Gymnastics Olympics goes to... That absolute dingbat right there!

My brother is gay, We knew from a very young age he was, He had alot of trouble accepting it but we waited for him to come out on his own, When He told us, We kind of Joked with him with lines like "No way or This is brand new information" LoL. We teased him in a loving way & let him know we always knew & we love him regardless.. He is not for this LGBTQ crowd who wants to manipulate children though, He stands against it. His thinks that people who transition are people who can't accept the fact they are gay & we agree with him..

Growing up, I was a Tom boy, but the thought "I'm actually a boy" never crossed my mind. If a Dr gives SRS to anyone under 18 (really should be mid 20s) they need their license revoked and charges brought

My twin and my SIL both became trans men in college. Both had mental health problems that needed adressed--eating disorders, traumatic childhood issues, assault from a partner shortly after starting at college...yes, both of them. And both of them realized that they weren't trans men, but were so enmeshed in the 'trans community' that they both decided they were nonbinary. So my SIL has lost her breasts and her voice changed, has facial hair but was still able to become a mother like she wanted to be, and my twin couldn't afford treatment so she just 100% dresses like a feminine woman but gets delight out of humiliating strangers and correcting friends and family when she feels like it.

No one SHOULD "transition".... but adults should be allowed to do it if they want. (as long as it never comes out of tax payers dollar)

My woke friends immediately scream 'transphobia!' at the idea that transitioning a 5 year old might be harmful. They're not interested in having a discussion about it. I fear that in the next decade or so, we're going to see a huge number of young people coming forward about how their lives were totally ruined by gender ideologues. There will be massive lawsuits, etc. I want to believe that when this happens, the woke will finally reconsider whether this is harmful, but I think they will just double down or call it fake news.

When I was 25, after a traumatic experience, I started to develop some kind of obsession with my body and I was obsessed I wanted bigger boobs. I was devastated. I grew out of it after a few years, I am 29 years old now and I love my small boobs. When I think of that time I am like 'wtf was I thinking? lol' I am also a psychotherapist and have been going to therapy for years, so it's not like I was completely unaware of my identity. I know my story is not about gender, but I think it's a good example of how sometimes the way you 'feel' about yourself, it's not set in stone. Being confused about your body and your identity happens at any age. If a grown self-aware woman like me can feel confused about her body and change her mind after some time, a child can only experience the same 10x. I think it's obvious we are always evolving and major life changing decisions shouldn't be taken lightly. I am glad I was too poor to do a boob job because I would have hated it now lol if getting work done would have been part of free health care (I am in the UK), and would have been 'affirmed' so easily like it's done now with transgenderism, today I would have fake boobs merely because of a brief, trauma induced identity crisis. Side note, as a psychotherapist I am scared of ever getting a modern age transgender or non-binary person as a client. I work in private practice and I don't take on clients that struggle with these things because it's unethical for me to go along with their delusions. I would love to help them understanding the real reason why they feel a certain way, but I would get sued so nope. I am not working with them.

“A lot of doctors are more interested in treatment rather than prevention” -- as they’ve done to people with depression, with bipolar disorders, anxiety, ADHD, Schizophrenia, anorexia and many other diseases.

No one can tell you how to feel, that's why your story is so real. 🤗 Respect to all the detransitioners, for having the courage to stand up and be heard!

Samantha Lux has a youtube channel. Sadly to say that any argument against her ideology, she will respond as "Not true" and if it was true, she then responds as "well I have never heard of it" and then moves on. It's like well now you heard about it, what do you think? And she is already to another topic for her agenda.

Amazing that there’s such a demand for a channel where a person just explains common sense. Glad you’re here Misha. Kitty 🐈‍⬛ wants some attention 😁.

you go girl @Misha! It's encouraging to see young people like you have a strong mind to identify what's the truth and what is wrong and, more importantly have the logical mind to debate.

"I have a diagnosed gender dysphoria" "No you don't" The way that person just dismissed and patronized her entire experience as if they know better than a medical professional. Detransitioners are always so shunned out of the community, viewed as traitors or something meanwhile they're actually the ones who came to realization and thank God they did.

As a bi women I refuse to be part of the community, i don’t care if people accept me or not, as long as I accept myself.

It is insane that it has come to this.

Short answer. NO

trans woman who waited until adulthood to transition (despite always wanting to be female since my earlist memories and crippling dysphoria) here: i know it's anecdotal but since transitioning i stopped all self harm forms, and haven't had the slightest desire to self harm since feeling more comfy in my body. as mentioned in the video about the whole internalised homophobia thing, i tried to like men, tried dating them. it was like banging my head into a brick wall. not into it. not for me. only ever liked girls since forever and still only like girls. I don't associate with the community much or go to pride or anything like that. I'm pretty quiet and under the radar. glad i just get to assimilate and live and enjoy life now.

This is the number one problem I have with advocacy. I have absolutely no issues whatsoever when adults make the adult decision to transition if it brings them a sense of peace and congruency. But just because your transition was a success, that doesn't mean it will be a resounding success for everyone who feels the slightest iota of discomfort with being in their own skin and start advocating for minors. There should be space for a meaningful, supportive and nuanced conversation to help get to the root of someones dysphoria, not treat transition as a first-option and dress it up as a panacea that is reversible and relatively risk-free

Misha, I am so happy that you are openly addressing these issues when no one else will. Keep up the great work, you are amazing!

I doubt the whole "I knew I was trans when I was 8 or 10" narrative. They definitely made those claims up just so they can make their story more significant. People always misremember their memories and dramatise it when they can't remember it clearly. That or their parents encourage them.

This is how cults act when they interact with their exes.

No, poor kids.

Gosh the transitioned ones are so toxic, they say surgeries don’t happen to minors but it happened to Luka their responses are basically “well you don’t count” or “we don’t care so we will switch the conversation quickly because we are wrong” I have never seen an actual good arguments for transitioning and this video just backs my opinion, also notice how when the detransitioners talk about their experiences or just about anything the transitioners immediately cut them off and Interrupt them and undermine anything they have said

When I was in college in 1996 at Cal State My girfriend and I took this class called "Human Sex Roles in Culture" - we figured it would be a quick 3 units. One day the professor brought 3 different dudes in to tell us their stories - one cross dresser, one tranny, and one post op tranny. The post op was totally bummed that he did it but he said that he had to be interviewed by 2 therapists and they really made sure he wanted to pull the trigger on cutting it off. He was in his 30s and needed verification from two professionals. Here we are 27 years later.... and the process of going through therapists, and being a grown adult has been thrown out the window.

I really hope these people get the support they need. Thanks for bringing this to light. These videos need as much exposure on as many channels as possible. As mainstream media will happily kick it under the rug.

So, instead of masculine girls who like sports and cars and feminine boys who like pink and dresses being ok, that is not an option. Rather than changing the social structure, we'll lop of perfectly healthy body parts instead. Where is the logic in that? It makes me so angry to see these people tell the one individual "you were misdiagnosed". So because their experience was different from yours, it was wrong? The arrogance!

I was very uncomfortable with my body when my period started and wished I was a boy. Did I go through with it? No! Heck no! I wouldn't make changes to my body if my body was made to do certain things. It would throw the entire system off.

I struggled a lot with the transition from being an awkward teenage girl to being an adult woman. Weirdly I feel much more like myself as a woman that I did as a girl. It probably helps that I'm also a wife and mother so there are clear ways I can know how to live my life.

As a 45 year old man who is a disabled, and single this scares me. I feel so awful when I see this. Is there anything I can do in my area to help out? I feel so helpless and alone.

How are they so confident that Luka was misdiagnosed, but they're also really confident that the current medical system is not doing the same? How many patients go in saying they're trans or have dysphoria and/or dysmorphia and are told, actually you're not. Not every single person with this claim can statistically be affirmed correctly, surely not? Or is it that those people are silent on the matter?

Claiming to be in the "wrong" body, whatever that means, is illogical. You could only deduce that you were in the "wrong" body if you were previously in another body (The "correct" body). Feeling uncomfortable in your body doesn't necessarily mean that you're in the "wrong" body.

They shoulda put Blaire White in this episode

Completely agree with you here. One thing I'd like to point out, that I was pleasantly surprised that you knew that 1.7% statistic was bullshit and even knew the actual number. Most people don't care enough to even do a simple google search. Thanks for calling it out!

Luka: My body is in a very bad shape and I don't know if it still has some of the functions it had before Some of the others: Transition is safe! uhm yeah doesn't quite look like it does it?

short answer no. Long answer hell no.

I couldn't decide what my favourite colour was until my late teens. How the hell do they expect kids to decide something so life changing

Told my dad I felt like I was a velociraptor when I was 5, he didn't let me transition.

Tiktok needs to be banned

The side effects of puberty blockers are actually that those that do it before natural puberty and avoid going through their natural puberty are NEVER able to achieve sexual gratification/satisfaction. With 100% of those who answered saying they NEVER experienced an orgasm. NEVER. They also use this to say "ew, why do you care about the sexual gratification of children?" Not of children, but of future adults who won’t be able to have healthy relationships and will be forced to live a live of voluntary or involuntary celibacy. And even if they find a soulmate, they will never feel sexual pleasure with their partner. As if that didn’t break enough heterosexual or gay couples, it is a BIG FACTOR in life after turning 18

"But trans kids are valid" These people keep saying valid, I do not think that word means what they think it means.

No one should be allowed to harm or remove any healthy organs. Not even adults.

Misha, every time you talked I scrolled down to leave a like, just to realize I have left one already. I'm super agreeing with almost everything you say on this video

Watched it yesterday and I completely agree with you. I also know my closest relations would cut me off if I were to speak my thoughts. 😒

Topic: Social media brainwashes teens to think that they are trans TikTok: Oh crap

If they found their personal happiness truly then they wouldn't need anyone to affirm them, they contradict themself with every other sentence but what they won't admit is no avg person really cares what they do as long as it doesn't affect others or the children who scientifically cannot make rational life altering decisions for themselves.

Misha, you're getting better and better. Very sharp! Very on the spot!

I don't give a F*. Parents used to tell their kids, be careful, don't put your hand on there, you will get burned. Now they throw the kid, the bed and the house on the fire and feel proud how flammable their flesh is.

"NO GOD PLS NO!" - Michael scott

God bless your soul Misha. I pray that more people realize the severity of their modern day thinking. Please continue to be steadfast and share the message that you are. God sees what you are doing and he loves you.

Thanks for putting this out there Misha, hopefully it will help many children from going and mutilating themselves because of this stupid trend.

And then there are women who want to get sterilized but doctors all over say no because of stupid reasons. Even if the woman already has children! Or even if she has bad pain or some kind of issues with pain and her body and a surgery for sterilization would relief them of theur pain!

When I was 9, if they could have turned me into a Stegosaurus I would have been all for that.

What can I say, you nailed it Misha

If kids can't have alcohol,drugs,tattoos or even phones in some parts of traditional countries why the hell should it be allowed for them to get their body parts mutilated. Absurd

how quickly they went from "this doesn't happen" to "it's your parents fault"

“Immediate affirmation immediate surgery immediate profit” that was powerful.

Such an important topic and yet only one side seems to want to actually discuss it.

I never hear the term “personality” anymore. It’s always “gender”.

The answer is no.

Sadly now people debate so simple problems, but other topic that are more important are forgotten like, taxes, federal reserve bank, banking system, education, crime, divorce, foreign policies,mental health..

Imagine treating anorexia, schizophrenia, and body dysmorphic disorder with "affirming care"...

A wonderful job covering all aspects of this issue!