Reasons Why You Must Give Them Space
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2 жыл бұрынThe idea of giving an ex space and time after a breakup can be terrifying and can make you wonder if you will lose them for good. In this video, we discuss why space is actually crucial after a breakup and how space can help you get your ex to reconsider the relationship.
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@CoachCraigKenneth 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing feels better than making real growth while you’re in no contact. Do those workbooks 30 minutes a day 🙌💪
@mikea1534 2 жыл бұрын
What are the 30 min work books exactly sir?
@saraadsit-smith8816 2 жыл бұрын
Can you discuss what to do when the dumper won’t leave you alone but also doesn’t want to work on anything and just says “Idk” and keeps mind (& physically) f*^#ing the dumpee? I’ve blocked and unblocked him so many times the past few months that my thumbs have calluses.
@mikea1534 2 жыл бұрын
@@saraadsit-smith8816 he's crazy, probably has BPD or something, my ex girl has that and she kind of did the same things 😆 🤣
@marti7229 2 жыл бұрын
She walked away a month ago,after 4 years and engagement.She already has someone else.. what do i do?Please tell me
@mikea1534 2 жыл бұрын
@@marti7229 replace her with someone younger
@judith3608 2 жыл бұрын
If someone does not appreciate your presence give them the gift of your absence
@AlexFarleyMusic 2 жыл бұрын
Also if you over appreciate someone's presence, they will give you the gift of their absence.
@bossmanebz 2 жыл бұрын
I'm on day 55 of no contact and whenever I feel the grief I put on one of your videos. It makes me feel so much less alone with my struggles
@Shon9tilR 2 жыл бұрын
Always keep busy. Do things that make you happy to get your mind of this person.
@andonir.6320 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@israelmendoza5262 2 жыл бұрын
Im also in no contact but i dont really count the days. I got tired of counting. Also makes me feel sad.
@bossmanebz 2 жыл бұрын
@@israelmendoza5262 yeah I stopped counting too dude, been about a year
@bossmanebz Жыл бұрын
@@Afternoon99 It was a 2 year relationship, I became co-dependent as a result of my bad mental health following the coronavirus lockdowns / being indoors all the time, which was a sharp contrast to when I used to be extremely extroverted, outgoing and social before the coronavirus, it changed my personality and it turned them off. Been working on myself ever since and haven't reached out a single time, just doing me, and laying low in a private life ☺️
@judith3608 2 жыл бұрын
Self respect is MY reason for giving him space.
@gailyhanna510 Жыл бұрын
Read this today, and it puts it into perspective. In our silence, comes tremendous GROWTH. *A seed grows with no sound, But a tree falls with a huge noise. Destruction has noise, but creation is quiet. This is the power of silence.*🙏💞
@Troy12-fitnessmodel 6 ай бұрын
So true. Love this!
@Kal.El1 2 жыл бұрын
Love cannot exist without respect. The two go hand in hand.
@ResidentOfTheAbyss 2 жыл бұрын
If they ask for space, give it to them. To me when they ask for space, it means they aren’t fully committed to you, and have their other intentions elsewhere. It’s either you’re with me, or not with me, nothing in between.
@jahleelx9270 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Give them their space. Permanently.
@carterwatson1949 2 жыл бұрын
this is very true what happened to me
@lousunny5682 2 жыл бұрын
Some people just don’t understand it until they have it.
@dwocelot6913 2 жыл бұрын
you are correct. 'I need space' means I'm trying to figure out an exit strategy
@manyhats3846 2 жыл бұрын
I think so also.But just maybe there is something we do not know that would validate the needing distance thing question.
@emmalynrae592 2 жыл бұрын
Giving space always work with men. With women it’s a hit or miss. I know because I’m a woman and I’ve always learned to live without a man when we don’t talk because I don’t long for them anymore. Women are wired a bit differently. We look back most the time on past relationships and see how unfairly or bad we were treated whereas men look back and remember all the things they took for granted.
@-1nterruption-960 Жыл бұрын
Not always true. If the man was generally a good man and she shares beautiful memories with him, they will miss him like any other relationship. Sge said it herself were had a good boyfriend. Me and my girlfriend broke up because we bickered. It wasn't even anything serious but the bickering was the last straw at the time for her so shevcalled it off on whatsapl. I even offered her my kidney at one time (since she requires a transplant) luckily shes getting one from her brother since my bloodtype was incompatible. If anyone is being taken for granted it was me. There was no toxicity in the relationship just silly bickering and she still broke up. She has to miss the me. The relationship and what we had has has to be important to her. It was 2 years and 3 months together. Women aren't robots. They forme bonds, attachments, and longing just like men do. What do you think
@emmalynrae592 Жыл бұрын
@@-1nterruption-960 yeah I agree to a certain extent. I think it’s just important to remember that women think very differently, we really do tend to look back more negatively on relationships. Even if it’s not entirely true, even if the man was a good caring person to us. We still reflect on the negatives more than the positives. And We do it because We know that looking back on all the “good” doesn’t help us move on. It hurts more.
@-1nterruption-960 Жыл бұрын
@@emmalynrae592 even still there wasn't anything severe that occurred in the breakup. Just silly habitual bickering. She loved me so much and was very attached. I mean so attached shed say at times she wanted us to just combine into one. Such small things like that shouldn't outweigh all the good stuff. I'm pretty certain that she misses all those good things bc I generally was very good to her. This no contact phase is heart wrenching. Are you trying to say none of that matters and that these coaches on here are wrong about being able to get her back
@emmalynrae592 Жыл бұрын
@@-1nterruption-960 you see but this is what I’m talking about…you is an example of men looking back on a relationship more positively. You see more bad than good. But for your ex, she unfortunately saw more bad than good. Because why else would she breakup with you? Silly bickering doesn’t destroy a great relationship it just doesn’t my friend. There was obviously a lot negative in her experience than yours. And most women are like this. I think the only reason a woman comes back to a man after dumping him is because she couldn’t find better. Not out of missing or deeply loving a man. She simply couldn’t find better and wants to go back to what’s easily available.
@-1nterruption-960 Жыл бұрын
@@emmalynrae592 she told me herself that the reasons she broke up with me are because of the bickering which led to arguing, and feeling as though she was being blamed for everything and as if I acted as though she was the only one with the issues. I had issues too but I will admit I'm guilty of not acknowledging this as much. She was very attached to me and me to her but unfortunately she couldn't take the arguments any longer. She got exhausted of it and I regret that. I and people that know her also think that the stress from her upcoming kidney transplant made the bickering fuel to the fire. It was a big recipe for disaster that I just didn't catch before the breakup. You have your opinion but I do strongly believe that a woman can miss a man for all the good qualities he has. I know she misses alot of those things about me. There was no abuse, no cheating, nothing of that sort. Just issues we had to work out. Believe me she laid out in a voice-mail those exact reasons I described. She even said in fact that I was a good boyfriend and she was a good girlfriend and that we had a good relationship. You cannot tell me that a person won't at some point miss the good things. She experienced so many things she never did before with me and loved me for it. Unfortunately I screwed it up with how I handled our conversations. This can be fixed. Your view is negative and I've spoken to other woman who do have the belief that it's possible to miss someone even if you broke up with them. You dont know the intricacies and dynamics of the relationship me and her shared. Theres so many variables and sometimes people do make mistakes in breaking up with someone. They can come to the realization that things were pretty good and mistakes that were made can be resolved especially if the bond was strong enough at one point. How else do couples get back together? What you're pretty much saying is that there's little hope of getting someone that considered me the love of her life to come back and that what all these coaches on here are saying is complete bullshit in other words. Sorry but you're wrong. If you don't think it's possible why are you even on here? To say good luck pal, she doesnt miss you and is not coming back? Every relationship and breakup and the couple and their own personalities involved are unique and different. There's no one universal truth for everyone. It's possible to reattract a woman and remind her you're the man for her especially if you've worked on the things that pushed her away and made her feel the need to breakup. Showing her that I've understood these things I was doing wrong and fixed along with presenting an even better version of myself to her is probly all it takes
@noahmosley8320 2 жыл бұрын
Anybody else just feel like space just makes it easier for them to move on because yes they grief & are still upset but to me like if you never see or talk to somebody it sounds like it’d be easy to not wanna come back
@k3r0r019 2 жыл бұрын
Day 11 no contact. It doesn't hurt that much but it's the emptiness and loneliness that is killing me now
@myark7528 2 жыл бұрын
26th day of no contact and my x called to check up on me 😄. He said he was wondering why I've been so silent lol. No contact is definitely hard but it works I did not think he would call but he did. Whenever I feel sad during no contact I watch your videos and they give me strength to go on with no contact. I feel I got this! And that's how I've managed to do no contact. He did not ask to meet me or anything I kept It short and sweet so I'm starting another no contact until they decide what they want to do 🤣 as for me im healing very well and I'm not waiting for them. I'm working on myself and I don't miss them so much like I used to. Thanks to this channel I've learnt so much ❤
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur1375 2 жыл бұрын
That's great! Any update? I have a question. Do you think you were doing well beause he reached out to you shortly after the breakup?
@israelmendoza5262 2 жыл бұрын
Are you back together?
@nova12332 10 ай бұрын
What did u answer when he asked that?
@gsotoaz 2 жыл бұрын
Craig, this video talks about EXACTLY what I am going through right now. I have honestly listened to this video 5 or 6 times already, whenever I’m feeling myself feeling weak and wanting to text or look on his social media I’ll watch this video to remind myself of the importance of space and the importance of taking care of myself first. Thank you for sharing this.
@zachtolchin3320 2 жыл бұрын
I love getting the new videos on the weekend. Thank you guys for all the amazing work and videos!
@crking36 2 жыл бұрын
You guys are always on time, with the right topic at the right time......my heart is happy!!!
@rayray1623 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, these videos and workbooks are helping with no contact. It's hard as I do miss them a lot.
@M.K.B.1133 2 жыл бұрын
You got this- success will be at the end of all this pain. I’m in the same boat
@rel0302 5 ай бұрын
Im on Day 124 of no contact. Staying strong. Ive got to admit something though; NC works as i genuinly feel like im on the right path with life, but im not happy about it, not yet at least. I think the true strength of NC is pushing forward even when it doesnt feel best or positive. No matter how difficult, how much you cry or want to, know NC IS working. Craig, margaret, and victoria help keep me strong during these hard times. ❤
@niveks2384 2 жыл бұрын
It’s been 9 months of NC and I feel hopeless. Sometimes I do feel like she will reach out but with how well she’s doing on her own and spending time with her friends, it feels like she just forgot about me.
@israelmendoza5262 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe you havent cried or grieved yet. Thats why you're still holding on her coming back. its better to process the emotions so you can truly move on without the distractions of dating attractive girls when you're still attached to your ex.
@tigerlily6298 Жыл бұрын
Any update?
@AllenB-mz5vl 9 ай бұрын
I hear you, I'm at 8 months
@marinusmourik9494 2 ай бұрын
Hi, is there any progress? Did you have contact already? I don't dare this process, I give her space but try to stay in contact. If it takes so long,as you say,I've the idea that they're moving on with their lives. @@AllenB-mz5vl
@ponokunishima1 Жыл бұрын
I too wish I had found your channel sooner, then I could have worked on all of my issues, be a better person and boyfriend, then I wouldn’t have gone through this breakup.
@fitforfreelance 2 жыл бұрын
This is such sound advice!
@cfisher864 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this guy is amazing, I was going through a tough time and dealing with a break up just recently and by watching these videos I'm able to live and let go without having any contact, it's only been 4 days but I feel great now, great words from a great coach
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@buchanan012 2 жыл бұрын
It's all so different. I dumped a girl, came back multiple times, dumped another girl, came back twice. I was dumped and begged and pleaded and cried, she reached out multiple times (though we didnt get back together). another girl dumped me and I chased chased chased, that didnt work. Another girl who I thought was the love of my life left me for another and I never heard from her again. I was dumped recently by an anxious and I'm not sure wether or not she will reach out. She can't stand being alone, so if she's not talking to someone new already, she will be soon. I'm not holding out hope, though I feel like I did do some things right. Look, all you can do is work on yourself and get to a point where you're indifferent to them coming back. Let them go. If they loved you enough, they will reconsider. Blow them away. If they never reach out, then just accept that some people are just not meant to be, no matter how strong your bond was. Be the best version of you for you. Things will fall into place as they are supposed to if you truly love and accept yourself.
@princessafanwi7026 3 ай бұрын
Thanks so much. Space works like magic
@diamantpower3432 6 ай бұрын
50 days of no contact, I watch your videos and endure all this
@saniyawasim3011 2 жыл бұрын
Wow I needed this
@M.K.B.1133 2 жыл бұрын
Craig!! Did you see me driving past your house? I do like the new curtains by the way. Seriously, this was great and although it stings… it is much needed. It hit home when you said respect yourself enough not to convince them not to leave. Ouch! Guilty. I’m 3 days no contact… feels like an eternity but I had to do it. My heart can’t take much more abuse.
@georgepanagiotou8673 2 жыл бұрын
Crazy how after almost a year of not speaking I still care and get tempted to reach out. I wish I could just let go
@HonestTraveller 2 жыл бұрын
3 years here buddy and she crosses my mind still. But you have to just wish them the best and love yourself.
@georgepanagiotou8673 2 жыл бұрын
@@HonestTraveller I feel u man, appreciate that. But man it’s been tough.. I figured by now I’d be better but I’m having a hard time lettting go
@Amctothemoon 2 жыл бұрын
We all do but you got to move on
@HonestTraveller 2 жыл бұрын
@@georgepanagiotou8673 it does get easier. She reaches me out all the time via text and I ignore them all. As I don’t want that pain again. They always come back.
@georgepanagiotou8673 2 жыл бұрын
@@HonestTraveller in my case she ended it, And never heard a word since.
@tanka93 2 жыл бұрын
It's hard to give my ex space because we have a son together and we still do things as a family.
@AdrianMartinez-ho6db 2 жыл бұрын
What made my empathy go away is the second I found my ex left me for another man and lied to me bout it. Don’t even bother with relationships fellas. Focus on ur own peace, making money, and just leveling up at every stage.
@marti7229 2 жыл бұрын
she walked away after 4 years,engagement,broke up a month ago.Today she moved in with someone else.Im totally destroyed
@njasanie23 2 жыл бұрын
Been 2 years since I’ve given her “space” I think it’s way beyond space now
@jahleelx9270 2 жыл бұрын
U haven't moved on yet?
@agbordaniels 2 жыл бұрын
Giving them space does not guarantee they’ll return
@miklo5641 2 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t work all the time she wanted space ended up finding out she was seeing someone else had to been the whole time had to find out for my self she ran off with the dude to another city and oh yea we where engaged
@woooffbetweenFlairandJlethal 2 жыл бұрын
@@miklo5641 most women will do this when they want to break up. They can't break up without already having someone in the background. They want to keep you at the back burner if things don't work out with the one they left you for.
@nathanalbidone2273 Жыл бұрын
Great video.. thanks
@adrij4961 2 жыл бұрын
I’m on day 170 of no contact. I’m starting not to care anymore, even not want her back. It is a bit upsetting that she never reached out to me though
@tigerlily6298 2 жыл бұрын
It is so upsetting. In 2019 we went almost 9 months before I gave in (drunk!) and texted
@gsotoaz 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sure that’s hard. But we can’t control other people, even it it feels painful
@murderah17 2 жыл бұрын
Adri - never means never...always a chance with an ex. Women take longer than guys to realize it
@breatheliveandthrive7404 2 жыл бұрын
when they want space, open your kitchen door to allow someone to sneak in. Space is a pretext to break up.
@katiebennett650 2 жыл бұрын
Great video ☺☺☺
@GlassOwl84 2 жыл бұрын
I have the workbooks. Which are great! I just wish I could afford the coaching. My ex lost romantic feelings for me and told me to move on. (We broke up 2 years ago and he wants just friends.) So I know changes won't affect him or change his mind, but I'm still doing the workbooks.
@CoachCraigKenneth 2 жыл бұрын
You never know what will happen in the future! Either you’ll hear from him and be ready or you’ll meet someone new and be ready. But either way, do it for yourself! ❤️
@chicharitofan24 2 жыл бұрын
Hey guys No contact worked for me she has been reaching out to me but I’m not sure if I want her back now she contacted me 3 months after the break up
@ponokunishima1 Жыл бұрын
It’s been 68 days since the breakup and I still just have to think that my ex girlfriend just needs space, even though she told me that we’re done (at the time of the breakup). We hade a great 5 and a half year relationship together and I have to have faith that she’ll be back.
@alexforce9 Жыл бұрын
soooo...how its going? Together again?
@toniortiz819 Жыл бұрын
Yall get back yet?
@ponokunishima1 Жыл бұрын
@@toniortiz819 Nope and I’m ok now if we don’t, part of it had to do with the father having us go places, even when places were opening back up and we were being cautious.
@tanyatalks295 6 ай бұрын
@@ponokunishima1 how about now? just curious since your last comment was 10 months ago.
@ponokunishima1 6 ай бұрын
@@tanyatalks295 Still trying to put myself out there, however I am on dating apps, but I just need to have the courage to approach girls and just make small talk. Thanks for checking up on me, I appreciate it a lot.
@ErmeticoItaliano 3 ай бұрын
I learned your intro and every video I am talking with you that every relationship is different .. etc 😅😂😂 We are struggled let me said just this and also a big thank you for your videos !
@satyabratbhol8057 2 жыл бұрын
I was on day 14 when i heard my ex lost her grand dad, I had to call her .. couldn't be ignorant about that. But i think it broke off my 14 days NC period. Well I have started my no contact again after wishing her good luck 🤞 PS - I am a non-native speaker
@TheOsiris66 2 жыл бұрын
I made a mistake texting my ex's sister today to know if my ex was happy with the new person she's living, and when she told me that they looked happy together I felt devastated...I felt a huge anxiety attack, and that my hope of her coming back to me just vanished completely. I'm watching your videos Craig because they help me a lot to lower that anxiety...thanks. 👍
@lousunny5682 2 жыл бұрын
Hey it’s ok. Just let it go. We all learn what’s best for us one way or another. Of course they are going to seem happy. I’ve had my ex’s mother say he seemed happy while I was shocked dealing with PTSD from what happened in our relationship. It doesn’t mean they are actually happy though. We all think and remember. But of course eventually we all move on too. I unblocked him on FB the other day and saw he restored his FB and had profile photos with his new gf. He cheat on me with female and male prostitutes. I just look at her and think, she doesn’t truly know him. That’s what I see in him. I never knew him. And I deserve better. We all deserve better.
@TheOsiris66 2 жыл бұрын
@@lousunny5682 thanks, I'm doing my best not to fall apart and to keep going...only, it's really hard to get up each morning knowing that the person you love is with someone else...I wish I could go back in time and had taken better care of her 😔
@manyhats3846 2 жыл бұрын
I understand. I secretley hope my ex is missing me or he is not getting along with her. Then realize its not so.I care still,therefore I really dont want him un happy.So I tread on hopeing to find love again.
@menslifelessons9981 2 жыл бұрын
Stop being a beta my man
@josephconradie5935 Жыл бұрын
Hey mate what is the update did u guys got back together
@dancingcloud8557 2 жыл бұрын
Why do we even consider taking them back? I was down this rabbit hole hoping for return...however how trustworthy or how much do they even care in the first place if they broke up with us?
@clairesanders1742 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, giving space helps!!! 🤗
@marinusmourik9494 2 ай бұрын
I think space works but silence I'm not sure about that.
@outroseok Жыл бұрын
back watching these videos again, a year after my 6 year relationship I decided to hop back in the dating scene thinking I was ready (clearly I wasn't) and now I'm heartbroken again. I let my anxious attachment style completely ruin this relationship and despite it being much less than 6 years like my previous relationship it still hurts all the same. I really think we would've lasted a long time if I didn't push him away.
@CoachCraigKenneth Жыл бұрын
Do my workbooks! Or Creative Healing Course. Break the cycle
@Beatlemaniac1983 2 жыл бұрын
Do monkey branchers grieve? The breakup in case of a monkey brancher happened for the one who switched for another relatiopship once they decided they want that other relationship, that was when they started to mentally and emotionally detach from you. It doesn't even matter who did the breaking upping, the monkey brancher is actually the dumper.
@PricelessBinkey1337 2 жыл бұрын
They grieve the relationship the moment it starts. Thats what the relationship is. Its her not being able to let go.
@PricelessBinkey1337 2 жыл бұрын
But more seriously, often times they emotionally break up before the actual break up.
@bch5758 2 жыл бұрын
Monkey branching.. it really breaks my heart that someone can do this to another 😔
@PricelessBinkey1337 2 жыл бұрын
@@bch5758 tbh, id take monkey branching over half of the shit i know these girls play. At least with that my role in her life is over then. Im free. There are far worse fates than a simple break up or even a monkey branching. Far worse fates than death. I can promise you that.
@in2TheAbyss_ 2 жыл бұрын
Coach Craig .I have a question does no contact work in marriage. My wife is dead set on leaving right now. It was a rocky relationship up and down. But I still believe in it. She said she’s done and nothing I can do will win her back. I did text her a bunch after she told me that she didn’t want to be with me anymore I begged and pleaded. I did the hand written note thing as well. She is already talking about buying my house from me and everything. The reason she left me was because she gave me chance after chance to change some things about how i communicated and she finally is now saying I want out. I’ve tried reaching out but she is so cold at this moment. I have no ideas what to do.
@carterwatson1949 2 жыл бұрын
ive been giving her and i space for the past year or two now and its finally feeling right too just visit her and try and see her and catch up for abit i ended things with her because i felt i had no choice but too... she eventually started giving me my space but not a single day goes by i dont think about her shes my first love.
@romaniamyland6191 10 ай бұрын
you ended things with her... and now "not a single day goes by i don't think about her. she's my first love"... why did you ended up then?!
@tonyrossi3814 2 жыл бұрын
My ex wife didn’t ask for space, she told me she just wanted to be friends only. I told her I wasn’t interested in being just friends at all, but if she changes her mind to call me and we can talk. She said that’s all she had to offer and bye. I’m scared she’s gone for good this time.
@agbordaniels 2 жыл бұрын
She knows you’re scared to lose her hence this game
@tigerlily6298 Жыл бұрын
Any update Tony?
@mariotibbrine1 2 жыл бұрын
if they want space give them all the space they want be in someone else's space permanently.
@joshp146 2 жыл бұрын
What if you took them for granted and she said she felt distant and didn’t even feel that much of a difference after breaking up and she wants to be just friends now ? And she’s already seeing someone else already in a rebound 3 weeks after the breakup ?? We broke up 2 months ago . I’ve been in no contact for 3 weeks now . We dated for 9 months and this girl was head over heels for me and used to be crazy obsessed about me. How do I go about this ? Best way ? No contact orrr what do you suggest ?? I love her so much and want her back . I already sent her a love letter bad a phone call and long text message a couple weeks after the break up but she wasn’t having it . How do I go about this ? Thank you for your time if you could help me out that would be amazing
@cocokiwi1998 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video I’ve been struggling a lot with this. My boyfriend told me he needed space because he has depression. I tried to text him 2 weeks after the break up but he said he wasn’t ready. I’ve been watching a lot of video about depression and break up. The relationship was great and what’s making this harder is that he is a good guy and treated me well. He posted some stories and it made me angry. He posted more since the break up than during the 6 months we were dating. I’ve blocked him from my story and stopped stalking cuz it was hurting me too much. It made me second guess what he said. I cant stop thinking he will find someone else. He told me to not wait but I was so emotional that I told him I wanted to wait for him. He told me he was open to talk to me again when he will be ready. But Im not sure if this is going to happen and the hope is killing me. I have a great circle of friends and family, ambitions, project and everything but it is so hard to tell myself that I will be okay without him. Im in a point in life where im ready to invest in a relationship and I wanted to be with him. Some days im thinking a 100% he will come back and then I overthink and think he never liked me. I’m gonna continue watching your videos and hopefully time will help me to stop thinking about him.
@lexifresh1552 2 жыл бұрын
Update?
@gsotoaz 2 жыл бұрын
I stalked my ex on social media too to see what they were doing, but ultimately it just makes you feel worse and keeps you obsessing over them and what they are doing, etc. you can get into a bad cycle of it.
@romaniamyland6191 10 ай бұрын
don't even look back once....
@MCitra Жыл бұрын
My biggest fear for not walking away (which i want to do all the time because i actually value me more then before) is that he will just go to a new woman. And that makes me so scared that i do not walk away, and fight for us. The fear of him going or being with another person is to high. And i dont even know why.
@nadijones660 2 жыл бұрын
What does working on yourself mean? What do we need to achieve? Less insecurity? More gratitude...? How can someone tell that we really worked on ourselves, after one meeting?
@israelmendoza5262 2 жыл бұрын
Try watching more of Craig's videos, its there somewhere. If you want a more tangible proof of progress in "working on yourself", i recommend the knowledge worlkbooks. I just finished workbook 1 and i feel accomplished. Try it.
@dannycolwell8028 9 ай бұрын
The energy you would normally pour into a partner, financially, emotionally, acts of service, etc. Do that for yourself. Spend time on your hobbies, spend time with family, friends, throw yourself into work, and if you’re the type, go do your exercise. Take yourself on dates, go see the museums or go hiking by yourself or with friends.
@nicolewelage4190 5 ай бұрын
How do i get the workbooks?@@israelmendoza5262
@HolisticMotion 2 жыл бұрын
I had a mistake in my order and I see no way to correct this or contact you. How do we reach customer support?
@carolynwedge6144 22 сағат бұрын
I love your sayings and wisdom of exes. I believe if you ate in this kind of situation you just didappear, sta d aside and see where they ate coming from This belaloney of lets be friends is a power trip on the behalf of your ec. They ate selfish grown up brats not caring a bout anyone.s feelings but their own. When you dont contact them Give rhem space you ate doing yourself the biggest favot goi ng. Words are cheap but sile ce and action says it all. Thans coach graig.
@pacgam6310 2 жыл бұрын
How do you handle finances with someone who doesn’t want to be married anymore. We are getting divorced soon but there’s still things like belongings at my place, and bills like phone and insurance that we still have together. We speak but it’s more of a necessity on her part. I would love a response, please.
@carlosnavarro4410 2 жыл бұрын
Trying to hang in there but get a lot of depression and anxiety
@Officialmeyomiwood Жыл бұрын
He just didn’t want to continue relationship bc how I didn’t respect me, and I overthink and I lost me and he wanted me to think of me and he just needed space but it’s hard
@TheCloser2023 2 жыл бұрын
Most importantly if you never had a chance to apologize during the break up or after it and the last thing you did left the bad taste in your ex's mouth how can you correct that so there's no roadblock it's been 9 weeks in no contact and I have not heard a word
@sharondavis8596 2 жыл бұрын
My husband left me two 2 month ago, I went no contact for 45 day then I text him to come and get his things he came today he thought I was not here, he said he is done he is going to pick up his things tomorrow, I ask if he wanted a divoice he said if that’s what I wanted to do, he does not want to work on the Mariage I am so hurt, I want my husband back, should I do no contact again, he said he is done is broken hearted
@lucm2308 2 жыл бұрын
My ex and I were back on talking terms after 4 months. Now all of a sudden they said they cannot be friends with you or be in contact with you... I am in Sydney Australia and are currently in week 8 of a serious lockdown and it’s very difficult to hear that from my ex.
@mitchelljack1590 2 жыл бұрын
I’m also in Sydney, and I’m also four months post breakup… but my ex won’t reply to me at all… I feel your pain
@lucm2308 2 жыл бұрын
@@mitchelljack1590 it’s awful right
@mwww12310 2 жыл бұрын
@@mitchelljack1590 I'm in Sydney too and going through the same thing. It's only been one week so far.
@animalcrossingbones 2 жыл бұрын
I got a message about my cat today. Amazing
@CoachCraigKenneth 2 жыл бұрын
I told ya 🤷🏻♂️
@animalcrossingbones 2 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth he gave some dry replies so back to NC lol
@gooneekim4072 2 жыл бұрын
@@animalcrossingbones how many days after you got message?
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
@@gooneekim4072 Hello the do you need help to fix all kinds of problems in your relationship including getting your ex husband girlfriend boyfriend crush within 48hours??????
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
@@animalcrossingbones Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp
@XDOZzz 2 жыл бұрын
Can you say it is self destructive if people chose not to grief their “finished relationship” and move on to a next source for Love and Limerence within a rebound?
@airikr01 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. You need to work through your breakup if you want to have a genuine, healthy relationship the next time
@XDOZzz 2 жыл бұрын
@@abdurllerabdurller2774 how about NO
@emmalynrae592 2 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s extremely self destructive. Because they become a ticking time bomb...and when they explode, their new “rebound” person is gonna be the one who gets hurt next. Then that person looks back and is finds themselves at stage 1 of the breakup process because they were too busy distracting themselves from the breakup to grieve and move on in a healthy way. They hurt themselves and they hurt the new person they convinced to be with them right after a breakup.
@KimoGotIt 9 ай бұрын
We’re still together and she told me I’m smothering her she need space so now I’m trying not to reach out even though she said we can keep texting. I’m only 5/7 days in and I’ve reached a point where I can let go lol but I won’t, unless she doesn’t come back. Then I’ll just go to the next girl
@gooneekim4072 2 жыл бұрын
Did no contact work after 9 months
@cheese6413 Жыл бұрын
can u give them space like if they are starting to pull away even if you have not broken up?
@tonyrossi3814 2 жыл бұрын
Am I the only person not driving by my ex’s work, home or stalking her social media?
@bch5758 2 жыл бұрын
Is there any relevance when you ask them to return your stuff - they say they will but don’t? My ex g/f still has my house key.. 😳
@marionisabelzipperlephd6041 2 жыл бұрын
Change your locks
@prestondaniels4494 Жыл бұрын
My situation is a little different. We had a rough month. My insecurities had flared up all the way due to something I found that made me heavily uncomfortable. We've communicated and apologized to each other. There was something that happened in her life recently that caused her some trauma and emotional pain(not due to me). But she told me she wanted more emotional intimacy and she had been closed off but she started to open up and not reject me anymore. But she stated that she doesn't look at me with the same fervor anymore. I'm feeling that it's because of the excessive and overwhelming amount of emotions that we had both gone through thus passed month. She said she wants to miss me, and we had a conversation today, she said she wants space-no contact, for at least a week. For her to process her own emotions and deal with things she could work on. I said I'd honor her request for space and no contact. Even though I am uncomfortable and anxious about it. I don't know what to do at this point. My emotions and everything I've said to her about how I feel has been genuine. I'll take this space to just pour into myself. I told her the door is open and she can choose to walk through or not. I also asked her that during this space, if she finds someone else a better fit, or that she doesn't want to be here anymore, to kindly pay me that respect and closure because I would do the same. I have hope. And even if this doesn't work out. My heart is still open to love. I have informed her as well, that because it wasn't explicitly stated that she isn't leaving, I'll remain exclusive to her until informed otherwise. I've done my best to always communicate and show up whenever I can. Good luck with love y'all. We all deserve it.
@janef4701 7 ай бұрын
My life right now exactly. How did it work out for you?
@kimmiedill2625 2 жыл бұрын
Going on 5 months nothing from him yet staying strong and keeping beautiful .. 🤷♀️
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
Hello the do you need help to fix all kinds of problems in your relationship including getting your ex husband girlfriend boyfriend crush within 48hours??????
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
He is indeed a problem solve contact him!!!
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
+12
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
04
@fernandocabanillas8133 2 жыл бұрын
How does this work when you share children? No contact isn’t a realistic option
@mattymobbs5125 2 жыл бұрын
What if its not your mistake but they tell you 2 more on why do they get so nasy and say stay away even tho you have kids there please
@nikiarnold5991 2 жыл бұрын
My ex started a relationship literally 40 feet across the parking lot from me with my old friend. As long as I dont talk, text, or message in any way, does this still count as no contact? Or is it just to close? Thank you
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah that is basically no contact. Her, being physically nearby does not change the fact that you do not converse with her in any possible way.
@manyhats3846 2 жыл бұрын
Ooooh! Just continue to play dumb ,go about your bussiness even if its a charade. As much as possible dont give her the comfort you are still around.In the long run that wouldnt help she wouldnt even notice in her distractions.Sooner or later beau diddley will get his fill and shell notice the lack from him.Work out on your muscles,get a macho do,get a few duds that a masculinly sexy ,walk the walk,......keep your pride.Im sorry I also am hurting........someday we will be the one!
@almz323 2 жыл бұрын
How long will it take to wait?
@oldgoat5589 2 жыл бұрын
My wife decided that she hated me, and left three months ago. She left our cat, and our Collie dog. Nothing since, not even asking about the animals, which she purported to "love". Mind you, not that long ago, she said that about me, too...
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
Hello the do you need help to fix all kinds of problems in your relationship including getting your ex husband girlfriend boyfriend crush within 48hours??????
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
He is indeed a problem solve contact him!!!
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
+12
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
04
@Soulsearcher187 2 жыл бұрын
How do I know he became an Ex. I am confused , even though we have not been talking for 4 months I think is this a break up or has he left me for good. Oh when I asked him before non communicado, he put the blame on me saying it will always happen from my side. But frankly he made my life a hell. I couldn't take it anymore I think he did making my life a hell on purpose but I need to know Is he my EX or whatever 🤔
@mikea1534 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah its an ex ,learn all the red flags for your next relationship. Be kind but be attentive to words actions and body language.
@manyhats3846 2 жыл бұрын
Is this like a psychological guise. No contact. Like people with addictions need to stay away. Is love an addiction.The old adage distance makes the heart grow fonder. You ever notice we complain with our loved ones but either through break up or death we start thinking and talking about them and only good things.That means you truly cared.Some its out of sight ought of mind.Never was any love. So can love be an addiction.Perfume pheremones I swear my perfume I wore for years men were there! I did have a very cooporate attitude life of party......sorry for getting off track.
@amansguidetolifemynobs2669 2 жыл бұрын
It's works our for me I got my ex lover back within 48 hours I can help you out whatspp him to know how
@amansguidetolifemynobs2669 2 жыл бұрын
chat him up
@amansguidetolifemynobs2669 2 жыл бұрын
+12048082234⏭️⏭️
@sunshineq4496 2 жыл бұрын
How can you give your ex space when you live with them and he wants to treat you like a friend and use me but because I want to be with him I give him what he wants?. 🥺
@danjumatiga4586 2 жыл бұрын
Hello it's works I can't believe i am with my lover back after many years of break-up whatzapp him now for help
@danjumatiga4586 2 жыл бұрын
Text him now he will definitely help explain how it's works +1 8 1 8 8 5 1 1 8 4 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@miklo5641 2 жыл бұрын
She wants space by 👋🏼
@mumteancosmin166 2 жыл бұрын
We argue she told me she needs time, so i start no contact, after 2 weeks told me she wants to break up, shes feels calmer without me, then she blocked ME.When relief stage really started? Any chance to miss me with time if i go into no contact?
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
Hello the do you need help to fix all kinds of problems in your relationship including getting your ex husband girlfriend boyfriend crush within 48hours??????
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
Contact father right..away Text him now through whatzapp
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
He is indeed a problem solve contact him!!!
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
+12
@cyrusphilip980 2 жыл бұрын
04
@dndndndhsjsns5168 2 жыл бұрын
How long has everyone been in NC thus far? I’m on day 60 💪
@agbordaniels 2 жыл бұрын
92 for the second round of no contact, wonder if she’ll come back this time around.
@dndndndhsjsns5168 2 жыл бұрын
Is this your second breakup? It’s my 2nd the first time she texted me after 3 months
@marti7229 2 жыл бұрын
it does not work.. tried no contact.. we were together for 4 years, was engaged.Broke up a month ago, today she moved in with someone else
@dennisray8904 2 жыл бұрын
Day 4 😭
@tigerlily6298 Жыл бұрын
@@agbordaniels Did she come back?
@jeffreyyeo 8 ай бұрын
8 weeks and not working
@jardenevenerable490 2 жыл бұрын
Margaret looks way younger! What happened?¿¿???
@TheBoss-il6on 2 жыл бұрын
Okkkkkkk 5:39 watching this vid. And guess who called……. My ex ……. This people know what they are doing ….. my respect…. To them …. Just follow their advice and almost warranted it will happens as they said …..
@SallyM-hi1mh 2 жыл бұрын
No way! After how long?
@aidarhoads4296 2 жыл бұрын
If he wanted me he can contact his daughter how I'm in touch with. We were together for 3yrs and it's been 11 months. He told ppl lies about y we broke up. I never told anyone the real reason.
@aidarhoads4296 2 жыл бұрын
@Micheal rakute ty I'll try
@aidarhoads4296 2 жыл бұрын
@Micheal rakute not enough numbers
@aidarhoads4296 2 жыл бұрын
Oops ty
@leonardodicaprio3470 2 жыл бұрын
@@aidarhoads4296 whatzapp him
@chrismitchell7856 2 жыл бұрын
At the breakup I stupidly told my Ex that I’d wait for them if they changed their mind. Will this affect her coming to terms with the break up if she thinks I’m always going to be there?
@locoyanes 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think, no matter what you said the result still the same. She broke up with you, as much as it sucks and hurts you gotta give them space. Don’t reach out, focus on yourself with moving on/working on yourself. Like couch Craig says “feelings are like clouds in the sky, they always change” give time, time and just go no contact/no reaching out and focus on yourself king.
@chrismitchell7856 2 жыл бұрын
@@locoyanes Great advice bro, I appreciate that
@manyhats3846 2 жыл бұрын
I told my ex .....it must be nice to know ill always care. It does give them added reassurance that we certainly dont have. Not really fair for us.I think we say this to leave door open.But do they deserve that.What are we .....chopped liver.No..we are prime steak!
@zuhaabid2514 2 жыл бұрын
😍
@Ichigo_Tensa 2 жыл бұрын
It's been 3 months since our breakup.... Why does she still have me on social media and share her location with me? Her friends also see what I post on social media.. meaning before I block everyone...
@Idontknowhoiamanymore 2 жыл бұрын
I hate my ex
@danjumatiga4586 2 жыл бұрын
Text him now he will definitely help explain how it's works +1 8 1 8 8 5 1 1 8 4 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@danjumatiga4586 2 жыл бұрын
Hello it's works I can't believe i am with my lover back after many years of break-up whatzapp him now for help
@tigerlily6298 2 жыл бұрын
Why? My ex seems to really hate me and I don’t know why
@Idontknowhoiamanymore 2 жыл бұрын
@@tigerlily6298 Did you do the breaking up or were you broken up with?
@tigerlily6298 2 жыл бұрын
@@Idontknowhoiamanymore it was a situationship for 3 years.. he was in love at start he decided I let him down and started withdrawing..Now we go between not talking (as we both trigger each other) I give him love/try to show it yet he seems to hate me
@watchtvatmyplace6691 2 жыл бұрын
❤💕💖😎👍
@GlassOwl84 2 жыл бұрын
I love your ID name. Watchtv... lol
@watchtvatmyplace6691 2 жыл бұрын
@@GlassOwl84 Thank you :)
@imthebest7290 2 жыл бұрын
Why would you want to spy on an ex!? You’re going to get hurt. You’re going to see them with someone else. Just unfriend them and delete their number. Tell them that you don’t agree with the break up then cut all contact and focus on your health, fitness, career, relationships, and goals
@davemaurer7341 9 ай бұрын
They are not grieving when they are with a new man..... cmon man....
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