DON'T BE A SILLY WOMAN! Game is real. PERISCOPE SESSION by RC BLAKES

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@karynn.7050 6 жыл бұрын

"There is a presence about a wise woman, that a player won't even approach." Amen this is truth.

@mel3760 6 жыл бұрын

Karyn N. Amen!!!!! Men know who they can take advantage of. They don’t just approach everyone. They seek out the silly woman

@ettaphil9586 6 жыл бұрын

Karyn N. Amen so true.

@soystef 5 жыл бұрын

Sooo soo true. Living testimony here.

@crystalgrose 5 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!!! True!

@DreaMing718 5 жыл бұрын

Karyn N. Yaaz, lmbo they us at all costs

@RestYourHeart703 5 жыл бұрын

I was a silly woman bc I was naive thinking other ppl had the same heart as myself. But once I “came to myself” I use this as my lesson to never return. Today I was walking into a building. This young guy had just came out of the building when he saw me coming. He turned right back around and opened the door for me. I smiled and said thank you. This has been happening more now than ever before. Why? Bc I feel my own power through God! I’ve worked on so much the past year and a half. I’m so grateful!

@crystalgrose 2 жыл бұрын

Amen Sister! 🙌🏽🙏🏾

@NikkiCastillejo 2 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰👑 God bless you Queen

@nonhlanhlamaribe7050 2 жыл бұрын

Yes u deserve it

@vondriabrown7670 2 жыл бұрын

Amen and I’m doing the same thing

@darawatkis7084 Жыл бұрын

I’m here getting back to my senses myself. I too wasted time trying to see the good in people and thinking my love would change them. Boy was I wrong. Lesson learned. ❤️‍🩹🙌🏽

@imperialshugar754 5 жыл бұрын

It takes my breath away to hear a woman say - you can't even hold on to a man. If she was smart she would know it's His Responsibility to hold on to Her.

@ButterCookie1984 4 жыл бұрын

Very interesting point!

@ewura3397 6 жыл бұрын

I can't be a silly woman in a sick world. The world is sick, I need to guard myself. Thanks pastor

@crystalgrose 2 жыл бұрын

Amen Sister🙌🏽🙏🏾

@SadeSherrisXO 7 жыл бұрын

Soo many women are victims to this broken mentally. They sadly allow these men to use and abuse their bodies and resources at their convenience.

@crystalgrose 2 жыл бұрын

So true Sister ✅

@jerrika27 Жыл бұрын

They are lost. It's a CURSE! If God did not choose you the cycle WILL repeat!

@tokilupenadz3560 6 жыл бұрын

I embrace my singleness...unless I have a whole man to complement me I am not in a hurry. You are my virtual dad...thank you so much

@crystalcormier3148 5 жыл бұрын

Tokilupe NADZ Amen Sista!!! I embrace my singleness too. The reality is this. These so call men today are playing too many games and I am not the one. If I wanted to play games I can do that with my neices and nephews in the sandbox at park somewhere. Nobody ain't got time for da B. S

@beverlyadams9090 4 жыл бұрын

Good

@firesign4297 4 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👍👍

@Tabby.cat2 6 жыл бұрын

You cannot stop a man from sleeping around!!! But you can definitely leave him!

@michelle2152 5 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@Shay4YourMind81 4 жыл бұрын

krs1 True!

@dutchessofcreativity9397 4 жыл бұрын

True let them go

@isgromance2012 3 жыл бұрын

Incorrect, remember part of a man sleeping around it’s bc there’s silly woman that allow him too.

@basimahknowshow 3 жыл бұрын

Sure can

@bettyantiquebootique 9 ай бұрын

Does anyone come back and watch this in 2023? ✋🏽I do! His teachings has come along way and I'm still here listening and marriage is going great! Thank you Pastor Blakes! ❤

@kaprecepetty470 3 ай бұрын

2024🎉

@ladawndempsey 6 жыл бұрын

I was a very silly woman, BUT GOD Changes things. I give God all the glory.

@DOTMH_1 6 жыл бұрын

Ladawn D Amen.

@marianawhitaker7001 6 жыл бұрын

Ladawn D you're not alone. many ladies suffer from childhood abuse that damage their emotions.

@SJ-dx1ud 4 жыл бұрын

I lived in shame for years. I believe God delivered me from toxic marriage. 20 years of my life.

@australian.2722 4 жыл бұрын

This hit me also.

@shygoy456 7 жыл бұрын

I admit I've been silly woman. I'm not angry or mad. I accept this truth and I appreciate you bringing the truth. Please continue sharing the precious,truth searing message from the word of God. Thank you

@kiechawnbush8162 7 жыл бұрын

Shy Goy I have been silly too. I accept responsibility for my past.

@xaviersanders1553 7 жыл бұрын

Shy Goy we all have..selah n ahman

@ingridbynes1206 6 жыл бұрын

Shy Goy Amen! All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. I have been silly in the past as well. But, I am fearfully and wonderfully made. God told me that wonderful are his works! I am thankful for Pastor Blake‘s message. It has been reinforced for me as I move on from my divorce. I actually married the man who dishonored me and had a child with him. For 17 years, I dealt with mental, psychological, and emotional abuse. But, God has delivered me from years of pain and confusion. But, I learned to forgive and to remain faithful as a woman of God. He has removed all bitterness, resentment, and strife from me. I now operate in peace beyond understanding, and I have been able to help so many others along the way. Praise God from whom all blessings flow. So grateful!

@lesliehill332 6 жыл бұрын

Been there done that too.....

@soystef 5 жыл бұрын

me too. bless you

@beneficialfrequencies8907 6 жыл бұрын

I tell these men no you cannot come to my home My daughter is there.... I Don't want a man that is married.. would rather be alone.. Now I focus on getting right with the almighty .. focus on getting my finances right... Work on my business... Work on my own healing... I have two failed relationships behind me No more silly women for me .... I have been alone for two years meeting many dumb men who want everything but give nothing... I am now a Queen.. Ty so much for your works Sir.. Enjoy your videos immensely.. 💯

@Cee0215 3 жыл бұрын

Yes🙏🏾

@carolynwilliams4926 3 жыл бұрын

You must live in Atlanta.

@beneficialfrequencies8907 3 жыл бұрын

@@carolynwilliams4926 no.. Live in London 🌹

@brandynicjones 2 жыл бұрын

Yes God 🙏

@crystalgrose 2 жыл бұрын

Amen Sister!!! That’s right ✅🙏🏾

@user-fm7vg4dv1k 3 жыл бұрын

When u walk in wisdom and no nonsense u get branded as a mean and bitter woman, well I'd rather be considered that then a silly, used up doormat of a woman

@miranda2216 3 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾🙌🏾

@wandasantillo1678 6 жыл бұрын

I wish churches would address these issues. Thank you for addressing real issues.

@CharleneB178 6 жыл бұрын

Wanda Santillo I was thinking the same thing! Churches need to speak on this! Thank God for Pastor Blakes😊

@tammymanor2136 6 жыл бұрын

The church don't teach us that

@lizancampbell992 6 жыл бұрын

Your so right , they don't speak on relationship, other than no sex before marriage.

@ms.lisabailey1491 6 жыл бұрын

Me, too. I wish I had heard this after my husband died and especially after my mom died. I mean hearing from my church family in this tough way. My mom surely was one who didn't mind telling anyone this!

@DIAMONDGIRL57 6 жыл бұрын

I learned more in the last 10 lectures I have listened to than I did when I attended church the last forty years!!! Thank you so much for these valuable lessons!!!

@lorijohnson1746 7 жыл бұрын

In my case, my ex used to be very sneaky almost undetectable. But God. He maintained the same work schedule, etc. Always came home. I found out he was a narcissist Psychopath to add to that. I tried to leave because of cheating, lying and him trying to kill me by poisoning my food and spraying antifreeze and mixed chemicals in my sleeping quarters. I went to the hospital 6 times. But God. Praise God! I am alive and I escaped! Glory be to God! I fell free and I know my worth! Living testimony! God will restore!

@bornagainchristian3742 7 жыл бұрын

Lori Johnson God bless you for your story. I hope you came out much stronger in Jesus name.

@lorijohnson1746 7 жыл бұрын

R. Efila

@cynthiaworkinprogressjenki1157 7 жыл бұрын

Lori God is good so glad your out :)

@lorijohnson1746 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@lashawnward1306 7 жыл бұрын

bless your heart💙

@anabautista8071 2 жыл бұрын

Marks of a silly woman: 1. She entertains men who are creepy (unstable, uncommitted, living lives loosely). She lacks judgment / discernment. 2. Silly women lets him creep into their personal space. 3. She allows him to lead her into bondage.

@everydaistyle 6 жыл бұрын

"He don't even have a house." say that pastor!!!!!

@daniadropspearls 6 жыл бұрын

I am grateful for a man exposing the game.

@crystalgrose 2 жыл бұрын

Yes indeed Sis!!!!! I appreciate Pastor Blakes! He tells us what many of us was never told.

@sexyava5280 7 жыл бұрын

God sent me to watch this because I was a silly woman. Thank you for your rawness. I needed this

@Reikimakesmehappy 6 жыл бұрын

Ava Harvey me too

@islandgirl01 5 жыл бұрын

Mee three!

@najmaabdulahi7545 4 жыл бұрын

I also was a silly Women but now God saved me 🙏💃🏽

@Giftis2sing 2 жыл бұрын

So was I 🙋🏽‍♀️…..but no more!!! I’m taking time for me now. Listening to more videos by Pastor Blake’s. And taking the time to heal ❤️‍🩹.

@earhustler2639 4 жыл бұрын

“It’s amazing how a PHd of a woman can be led by a GED of a man.” (drops phone...)

@marymesk577 3 жыл бұрын

PHD WOMAN IS BEING LED BY A GED MAN WHO WANTS TO LEAD HER TO THE B.E.D. SORRY JUST LIKE USING CAPS

@SweetCaroline9 5 жыл бұрын

lord Jesus where was this man when I was in my twenties. I needed ALL this teaching. I'm older now, I have learned. I'm saved, celibate, secure and content being single. Glory to God!

@kristiecolleen2373 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being the father that some of us women needed

@loveloving9935 5 жыл бұрын

Amen and Amen to this

@TriceyTrice 6 жыл бұрын

"The truth may hurt, but a lie can kill"...thanks Pastor for your honest teachings!

@prettybrown6201 4 жыл бұрын

Say it again!

@katrinabeatty4372 4 жыл бұрын

A lie can kill if you do not use the wisdom of God to stand up and get everything God has for you. That would include leave that clown behind.Lol

@isgromance2012 3 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!

@mizzlowkey11 6 жыл бұрын

25 of age..My father was in & out... so I didn’t get a Real talk with my father & my mother wasn’t no better.. just a lost girl... NEEDED THIS ‼️🙏🏽

@crystalgrose 2 жыл бұрын

♥️🙏🏾

@lindaturnergray1855 2 жыл бұрын

I was once a silly woman, but not anymore. I'm single now. I'm following GOD, and I'm learning to love myself. I thank GOD that he delivered me from that situation ship. GOD led me too your channel. Thank you RC Blakes Jr for sharing this knowledge. Please keep teaching us what GOD has laid upon your ❤️.

@JadeScorpion31 6 жыл бұрын

I wish I would’ve learned this prior to getting out on my own in my mid- 20’s. I grew up so sheltered that I didn’t know much when I got on my own. Having this knowledge would’ve saved me a lot of heartache, strife, pain, loss, and time. Now I’m picking up the pieces at 36. SMH

@crystalgrose 5 жыл бұрын

This message was so good!!!!! You brought up a good point sister about being sheltered. I think some parents (although well meaning) shelter their children so much that we are sometimes unaware because of not being taught. Some well-meaning parents thought that if they protect us, we will not experience those things. This is true in some instances, but in some, being sheltered made us vulnerable, unknowing, and easy to sniff out by not so good people. It's okay to have some street smarts - we need to know what's going on, and what to look out for.

@Dina_Darling 5 жыл бұрын

Jahsmeen NunyaBiz It’s OK and could’ve been worse. At 59 I am just waking up and I say, better late than never.

@Sunshinestarryrose 5 жыл бұрын

Me too but my brother being a dealer and player and my sister being ran through and ending up an addict is the only thing that saved me....

@naemack1441 5 жыл бұрын

It's never too late

@brandynicjones 5 жыл бұрын

Girl I’m 40 just now figuring this all out

@stefaniejohnson4657 5 жыл бұрын

Abandonment and rejection issues from an absentee father clouds our wisdom and we chase the absentee parent's shadow. We don't know what a true, loving Male leader looks like. Silly=trying to fill voids deepened by low self esteem. Thank you. Found your channel recently and been binge watching ever since. You are a God Shot ❤

@soystef 5 жыл бұрын

"When she finds the right man, she will submit naturally"...Deep. I KNEW this all along in my last relationship, but didn't want to admit it to myself or my partner. Definitely life-affirming words...

@mikafishet8043 2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@brittneyberry4934 6 жыл бұрын

My heart was broken recently due to the very behaviors you spoke of here. Everytime I feel vulnerable or feel like I'm missing the abusers I gave my heart and body to. I immediately say plead the blood of Jesus and watch one of your videos. I have a playlist with only you on it Pastor it's named motivation. I feel empowered and a peace comes over me. The tears fall but I keep listening. Thank you for wisdom Pastor.

@louiseottley4995 4 жыл бұрын

Remember you're not alone hold on to god

@lady2luuvly Жыл бұрын

We in the same boat sis i hope all is well now

@Zarasha1 6 жыл бұрын

This reminds me of this well educated women who married a man who killed his former pregnant wife. This educated women knew this man pass and still brought him into her home where she shared with her two teenagers. After getting married, a few years later she had two babies with him. She wanted to end the relationship. The man slashed her face up, shot the teenagers dead, and locked the two babies in the garage with the gas on and killed them. She was so desperate for love and lost everything but her life, and have a big slash on her face to remind her daily. Very heart breaking and upsetting story. In court he showed no remorse or guilt. They asked him if he had anything to say and all he had to say was only God can judge him. As women especially with children we have to be extremely careful in who we bring around our children. Put your kids first.

@shontaythomas3296 6 жыл бұрын

I remember this Sis & yes it was sad

@tstyles9690 6 жыл бұрын

Zarasha1 Interesting and Sad

@islandbeauty1290 5 жыл бұрын

Im so glad Im reading these comments. I can relate to it all and glad I escaped a narc with PTSD. No telling what couldve happened if I wouldve stayed and constantly starting fights with him because of his lies. reading stories like this keeps me from going back.

@blessedbygod1658 5 жыл бұрын

Sadly this happened in my former town of Michigan....Praying for women that are willing to settle for a piece of relationship rather than what they truly deserve...respect and love... I truly thank God for delivering me from the wrong men out of my life.. I thank him for positioning me to being by myself and finally being content until he decides Im ready for another relationship. . #imdonewithbeingthesillywoman!

@schoolwork232 5 жыл бұрын

This is just the saddest case ever! God have mercy!

@vickierenee6741 6 жыл бұрын

I was a silly woman once.

@AdventuresOfBillAndMia 6 жыл бұрын

Vickie wilson So was I. So many of us can attest to this. But thanks unto God who gives us the victory!

@CharleneB178 6 жыл бұрын

Vickie wilson we, all were at one time Sis..the key word is "one" time..so, blessed that I've woken up..remain strong! Let God continue to lead you..

@DIAMONDGIRL57 6 жыл бұрын

I was a “silly woman” so many times I can’t count! That was then; this is now!

@Yampcg 5 жыл бұрын

Me too😞

@ericaashley2447 5 жыл бұрын

Vickie wilson me too

@libwest9541 5 жыл бұрын

I was a “silly woman” for six years to a boy with a beard. He used and abused me. After catching him with another woman in our house, god showed me the light and, I left. Thank you pastor for this message

@laguilera1118 4 жыл бұрын

I've been a silly woman and wasted many years of my life on a clown. I'm glad I found your channel, Pastor. You speak the truth I need to hear. Thank you.

@crystalgrose 2 жыл бұрын

Amen Sister!!! ♥️🙏🏾

@latrellestewart173 7 жыл бұрын

Women that allow men to creep into there homes are week without self control. God please help!

@contrinadurant9846 6 жыл бұрын

That is true. The world sees a woman as having no value if she has no man. I believe different. I haven't been in a relationship in years and I am happy. I've went out on first dates with men and see the game and they don't get a second date. Before I decide to give a potential man a chance, I ask God my father. He made this man and knows all about him. I trust God.

@AmaLoveGoddessTV 4 жыл бұрын

Contrina Durant a year I should be glad at the ones who ghosted me after one date then. Protection

@ncchia 6 жыл бұрын

Wow. This is the most difficult bullet to bite. I guess I should thank the creeper to guiding me to you. This has given me so much clarity💕

@RCBlakesJr. 6 жыл бұрын

Nicole Kay 🙏🏽😊

@alexandramonaco5499 4 жыл бұрын

😔 as i almost caved today to my ex. He was on his way and thank God i opened this. Canceled that mistake real quick! Wow. I almost just made the biggest mistake! Thank God! Ill be in the word all night and a lot more again.

@dg3017 7 жыл бұрын

Boy was I stupid. Thank you pastor Blakes.

@a64381 5 жыл бұрын

No u wasnt stupid just misguided from the teachings and guidance from parents and the society that like pastor said in a other video this world builds a guy to be a narrastics and a woman a empath to basically cater to the man and put them before ourselves no girl your not stupid we just brain washed and or operating from a wounded subconcious

@carolynmerritt7100 5 жыл бұрын

No, you were not stupid, maybe naive, but you live and learn.

@AliciaDeeLopez 5 жыл бұрын

Stupid is what Stupid does 😂 Then God! 💖 Bondage No More!!!

@SJ-dx1ud 4 жыл бұрын

@@a64381 Thank you for saying this!

@cubbiesmith4505 6 жыл бұрын

young ladies need to stop getting pregnant with the silly thoughts of having a baby will make the relationship better.

@AlexandraDebbrosse 5 жыл бұрын

Cubbie Smith That’s one of the bondages he is talking about!💯

@DynamicallyDC 4 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾🙌🏾

@naana0207 5 жыл бұрын

That’s one thing l have never been. I always had standards but l faced pressure and was called boring and too strict many times but l am so happy now hearing this that l have always stood by my standards

@nolasaintlady9 5 жыл бұрын

Broke financially, broken spiritually, terminally ill, homeless, domestically abused, verbally abused that's how far I let it go. Thank you so much for this, this is the one that I needed. God bless you!

@lb6902 3 жыл бұрын

I pray that you are in a better position now

@tstyles9690 6 жыл бұрын

UNTIL WOMEN KNOW BETTER WOMEN WILL DO BETTER.🙏

@pampearson2010 7 жыл бұрын

Pastor. I admit...you was talking to ME!! At first I was angry, but then I realized that what your preaching is character building, and developing my spirit for maturity. This is what I need to hear REGARDLESS of how much it hurts!! I am going to start hanging around strong powerful women that don't take no crap!! I am in my 40s. I wish I would had listened to you in my 20s when I was really screwing up and needed to hear the truth about my role in being a silly woman back then. Thank You RC Blakes JR.

@fatmanasir6691 5 жыл бұрын

Pam..that message seared between the division of the soul and spirit,bone marrow 😂😂.I was hurt at first too..cos I have allowed too much BS for too long....it ain't too late.Sometimes to speak into your life to heal&grow in God

@vitareid 5 жыл бұрын

"Maybe you're a dog catcher." lol! I hollered!!!! Pastor Blakes keeping it real ... keeping it 100! One of the the best discussions ever! My mom used to say to us all the time, "No one can ride your back unless it's bent.

@BrendaBaBoom 4 жыл бұрын

I admit it ... that I’ve signed out and put my spiritual self on the shelf to be a SILLY woman to entertain some knucklehead. Lord have mercy.🙏🏾

@AdrianSemiconscious 6 жыл бұрын

A man saying he plays women because they allow it would be like if I said I pick-pocket the blind because they allow it. If a man is only good around a good woman then he is not noble or righteous in the slightest. There will always be loose women in the world, always has been, and always will be, and a man can't use that as an excuse to be a dog. He's either a dog or he isn't, no matter what type of woman is in his company.

@angelaknox 6 жыл бұрын

Upgrade Journey agreed.

@mb5857 5 жыл бұрын

Upgrade Journey ....preach!

@gsababy 5 жыл бұрын

Right! He’s on a great path. Both sexes need to be addressed. One side alone is never to blame.

@carolynmerritt7100 5 жыл бұрын

Exactly, that statement takes all responsibility off the man for his own behavior and places it on the woman. This makes her responsible for a grown man's behavior. No, that's not going to work.

@elsachimwani5018 5 жыл бұрын

Decency says don't take advantage of the gullible vulnerable! The gullibility & vulnerability is not the woman's fault but a conditioning of the background that has robbed her of virtue! Abusive relationships at home or at work steals virtue from children and they grow up to be silly women because their mothers remained stuck in abusive narcisstic marriage unable to make decisions to cut off ties with these sadistic individuals for husbands! Please!!!!!! Pastor with all due respect, we have a lot of work to do to change this thing!!! Thank you!

@SlimCoolinATL 7 жыл бұрын

Game is real! stay afloat. stay ready! Stay Queening!

@JohannahArrington1908 5 жыл бұрын

My father gave me the game from when I was mere child. Thank God for great fathers. Now my husband and I are training our offspring.

@honeylatte6928 4 жыл бұрын

I was pressured for sex but I made up my mind I wasn’t going to lay with everybody I dated. The more I said no the more aggressive they would get an then I knew that’s all they wanted. A snake can’t hide their fangs forever.

@lildebWorld 7 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU LORD FOR DELIVERANCE!! THIS WAS PART OF MY PAST. I THANK GOD FOR HIS GRACE AND MERCY.

@joycelynthompson7244 5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@conchettam6861 7 жыл бұрын

46YRS.old ...and going to wait for Jesus....2 send me the right man....💓💕💞Single and praying....for my godly man!!

@THEMANIFESTDIVA 5 жыл бұрын

Oh how I love this man he reminds me of my father.. I miss him so much.. when you have a father like this in your life it’s hard to be s silly women because daddy has already molded you!!!👏🏽🤷🏽‍♀️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🥰 💯

@hawaglam540 4 жыл бұрын

My daughter is 17 year old and fatherless. I bought her your book "Father Daughter Talk"...she says that it has been so helpful with understanding this complex issue, and continuing to build her self esteem. Thank you, thank you, thank you...thank you for being that truth that so many of us women to hear! May God continue to Bless and keep you and your lovely family🙏

@Karsyn_Marie Жыл бұрын

Good mommy

@rebirthed1274 6 жыл бұрын

Just dumped a silly boy who wanted to force me into a relationship. He is uneducated, a drunk,a smoker,a blasphemer,narcissistic....I jumped & WALKED AWAY....Didn't even waste my prayers on that SILLY BOY To ask God & stuff, truth was in plain sight...all I needed was God, intelligence, self control & discernment.Praise GOD

@loveloving9935 5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@truesoul7899 7 жыл бұрын

In Jesus Christ’s Holy Name. Amen. LORD GOD I hold up Pastor Blakes, his wife Lisa, their children, and all in their circle that are contributing to this Awesome, Powerful, Loving, Peaceful, and Needed message to be sent out to women who have not had the privilege of knowing this secret knowledge which is being shared. Bless them with your protection spiritually and physically that your Truth may be Glorified. Because in Truth is Eternal Freedom and who Christ sets Free is Free indeed. This is a Blessing that cannot be stopped. Only in Jesus Name may it continue to succeed. Amen and Amen.

@karinaveler3301 4 жыл бұрын

You have changed my life when it comes to self love finding you sept 11th opened my eyes so much that Sept 13th i left my ex of 5 years. I realized I was being a silly woman and I have such more intelligence than that! Thank you for guiding me like an earthly father that i didn't have that privilege but Jesus has brought me through so much and I wear my scars with confidence I didn't break with all the darts the enemy has thrown my way by God's grace I am saved..

@brittneysawyer4885 4 жыл бұрын

I feel anyone jumping out of this video just weren't ready to hear the message of your truth. Acknowledging the issues before us we would rather sweep under the rug and addressing them is a challenge but necessary for our growth. Such a powerful message in this one!

@truthexposed839 6 жыл бұрын

I had to learn the hard way myself, how I wish I knew this before I opened the door to the devil.

@ChanelleNovosey 7 жыл бұрын

Woooo you got in our butts with this one!! lol but it was really GOOD, POSITIVE and motivating!!! Its tough love and I can only speak for myself but I really needed to hear that.

@RCBlakesJr. 7 жыл бұрын

Chanelle Novoséy Thank you.😊

@tb8810 6 жыл бұрын

Chanelle Novoséy Lol, you're speaking for me as well. Fell in with someone that wasn't even my type of guy because I didn't want to be single. I did get something good out of it though 2 of the best friends I've ever had, he has 2 wonderful cousins that are unbiased and true friends. That is what I believe God led me to people I can trust.

@mattiehill5954 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so many women have been used up by these kind of men thank you for your knowledge this has helped me with dealing with relationships that mean no good please keep helping woman understand thier value and worth this is food for the soul thank you very much

@tstyles9690 6 жыл бұрын

Best advice coming from a Man. Im 48 I wished I got this Advice n Teaching early on in life. I grew up watching my Father cheat. I once fell Victim because my Mom told me that all Men cheat. As I began to Love self and know my Worth I refuse to Settle. Im Single n Celibate and Im Content. Thank You Mr. Baker

@coolgamer2950 6 жыл бұрын

I love it teaching.. God bless u

@Minister_LaShawn 5 жыл бұрын

I used to be a silly woman and even married an “ignoramus”,lol. I tried to blame God for my marriage ending but God put me in check quickly. This may be TMI but I’ve been abstinent over three years and if God has someone for me, great. If not, that’s great too! I have my joy/peace back & won’t compromise for any body🙌🏾

@cassmon28 5 жыл бұрын

I love him so much. He's changed my mentality so much this last year I've listened to him. I still have my problems with liking the wrong men, but I'm not so quick or even inclined to pursue foolish things that will drag me away from my life vision. Thank you Pastor

@j.d.9378 7 жыл бұрын

pastor Blakes thanks for telling the truth, I've had to learn this process the hard way, but am glad and happy to say I'm no longer in a battle of this nature anymore. Thank you for telling this to us in your videos.

@animerexy9088 7 жыл бұрын

I have chosen not to date, I'm to much of an emotional person. I don't have time to date a bunch of men I'm putting my trust and everything in God, I have run into to many bad men. I will court a guy and be his friend but I am only going to date my husband and I believe that God will let me know when I meet my husband along the journey. If I trust God for everything in my life why wouldn't I trust that he has a husband for me so there is no need to date .

@nickz632 7 жыл бұрын

Tina Fox have to listen to his def. of dating. dating for data/ dating for discernment... it is a non sexual non romance discovery of anothers soul I forgot wat episode its on went on binge

@AdventuresOfBillAndMia 6 жыл бұрын

Tina Fox Sis!!! I’m telling you! It is possible! I am a witness firsthand. Last year I had finished dating someone who was not any good for me. I already knew what he was trying to make happen but I shut him out. Long story short. In the beginning of 2017 I purchased a promise ring for myself, dedicated it to my relationship with God, prayer over it and told God that I did not want to date. My heart would only be open to forming Godly friendships or courting. Well October rolled in and I was commenting on a post and a few other people replied to my comment. My present day fiancé was one of the people who replied to my comment on the public post. For the month of October I ignored him, overlooked him and was chatting with another Christian gentleman that I soon had to cut off for being too forceful and controlling. All the while my present day fiancé simply would wait on me to respond to him. I literally would go days without response to him. One day in November he said something to me and God whispered ‘Look.’ I looked at him again and realized that he was standing there waiting to change my life. We pray together every night before we fall asleep in our separate destinations. And now we’ve begun to pray together in the morning when we wake up. God has blessed me with a future husband. I asked him why he waited on me and I ignored him for a month and he said “I knew I was going to love you forever on the very day I saw your comment on that post. Although you overlooked me for that time I knew that God was helping me because love is patient, love is kind, love keeps no records of wrong.” Boy. Oh boy. God set me up.🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m all embarrassed. Thought I wanted to stay single. I was so happy there on my own. Now I’m even happier with him hanging around.

@abbagirl8819 6 жыл бұрын

Tina Fox Be encouraged!

@oziuzoma1817 6 жыл бұрын

i agree 100 percent.no dating!

@soystef 5 жыл бұрын

Beautiful story, thanks for sharing! May God bring together more relationships like this.

@andreaquinatajohnson561 4 жыл бұрын

Seeing this for the first time- I was married for 12 years when my husband passed away. I was only 35 at the time, and 6 years later I met a man that I've thought to be God given. I realize now 3 years later that this man has and is PRESENTLY doing all the things you are speaking sir! I have married him and thought that if applied all the things I learned from my first marriage as it was successful I could help him be better. I was a foolish woman! My light bulb has literally just clicked on in the last week and its like a shining light of Clarity. I can't apply what I've learned and what worked from my first successful marriage as this man DOES NOT want be a husband, friend, and partner. Some of the comments and the things you say RC Blakes Jr are hurting my feelings... BUT, I know my "SHIFT" is set and ready to go. No more will I be the Silly Woman who allows my foolish husband to keep me Bondage. Thank you for all your very very true opinions and guidance.

@kemiadetayo7896 4 жыл бұрын

A woman will find it easy to submit to a man who is worthy!!!!! THANK YOU Revd!!!!!

@dona_grace 6 жыл бұрын

You Spoke Volumes Sir...I love it. And I wished I'd heard it at 10 and not 40..

@batabatuta768 4 жыл бұрын

me too

@suzannechadwick7842 7 жыл бұрын

I was a silly woman, and I paid the price, I was almost murdered. since then I have turned my life over to Lord. love with intelligence yes, no more creeping into my house. thank you so much for keeping it real. strong message here. Amen. all so true. I think it was because I was molested as a child by my stepfather. exactly, how much do we sacrifice???? no more silly woman here!!!!

@squarebizz498 5 жыл бұрын

Much respect. Peace and love sis.

@asaunderse436 5 жыл бұрын

Pastor Blake, thank youuuu for these words of truth. A much needed area that many of us, particularly me, needed. Sometimes truth is hard to accept. But rejection if truth makes one the more silly and unwise. Again, many thanks for imparting and sharing. I love following you. Keep sharing

@fitness4life0328 5 жыл бұрын

Ain't nothing better than a LESSON with LAUGHTER! I LOVE THIS MAN! TY!!!!

@shirleywright2172 6 жыл бұрын

What you allow, will continue.

@oliviajones3213 3 жыл бұрын

I'm a silly woman

@kwanzialpha1350 6 жыл бұрын

Nobody has ever been so real with me Paster,r Thanx you for being the father i never had . Am now done with walking around blind everything now makes sense since i started listening too you

@ginab.4605 7 жыл бұрын

I'm 37 and am just getting over being a "silly woman". Knowledge is key!This was needed and thank you for sharing!

@mrs.bernard5415 4 жыл бұрын

THIS RIGHT HERE IS ONE OF THE MOST EPIC MESSAGES BY PASTOR BLAKE!!! WE CAN'T WAIT TO MEET YOU IN TORONTO 2020. GOD SPEED😘

@Godslady01 5 жыл бұрын

Please Bishop don't stop doing these teachings. Sooo many of us need these teachings!! This cut but I truly needed this. I needed this sooo bad. You are a blessing to me and these teachings are setting me right. God bless your honesty and frankness. The truth is such a blessing. Imma dust my lil self off, pick up my face, put on my big girl draws and move on in God. God bless you Bishop.❤❤❤

@tilwakamanning4950 7 жыл бұрын

I WILL say it again.....that FATHER DAUGHTER TALK book bless me bountifully!!! Great read......

@tressajo 7 жыл бұрын

Such necessary teaching whether folk want to hear it or not.

@queentinadoire6931 5 жыл бұрын

Yes. The truth hurts.

@thandekajwara9990 4 жыл бұрын

My spirit is renewed , my eyes are open and my heart is protected 🙏❤️

@KrystleLaughter 5 жыл бұрын

You cannot be a silly woman in a sick world. 💯

@missqlalah 6 жыл бұрын

Tell it Pastor Blakes! I've had nothing but clowns & GED men in my life until 2 yrs ago! I was silly but I'm so glad I started listening to God & waited on Him! My last relationship was with a malignant narcissist & I had enough! More churches need to speak on this & make men & women accountable for their soul ties.

@chumieoctober6921 2 жыл бұрын

Definitely 🙌🏾♥️

@azizifoster6242 7 жыл бұрын

this man is good! I have played this like 3 times.....

@latanyajackson80 6 жыл бұрын

Azizi Foster Lol so did I 😄...

@queentinadoire6931 5 жыл бұрын

Yes Azizi. He is a light in the darkness.

@millybadze2117 5 жыл бұрын

Azizi Foster i totally agree!! His teachings are soooooooo sound!!!

@nelzg5819 4 жыл бұрын

" A lil boy with a beared" lmao.. this truth though is sinking in DEEP

@ramahh979 5 жыл бұрын

Wow! You're so on point! Some of it hurts, but the truth will make us free! Thank you so much for addressing the type of man that we SHOULD Be looking/submitting to and the vetting process. I've been saying this for years, but get screamed at and labeled as bitter by the silly "look at me" type women and pimp syndrome men.

@biggieshorty 6 жыл бұрын

Preach... AMEN. I am so tired of these women, validated by having a man around and by men period. They need GOD and men like you to tell them to get busy living instead of dying.

@mandyl9108 6 жыл бұрын

If you can't say amen, say ouch... AMEN & OUCH!!! Im so glad I came across your videos. Thank you!

@lady2luuvly Жыл бұрын

I don’t know why the women dropped out but I’m 46 and I needed to hear every word of this!! Thank you Bishop you are a gem. I ordered your book

@nicolefields3853 5 жыл бұрын

God bless you Pastor Blakes. A male friend of mine turned me onto your videos. I have been watching some each day. Letting go of a narcissist, breaking soul ties...... Deep teaching, so needed! Searching for the love and God purpose in my own life! ❤

@j.d.9378 7 жыл бұрын

I love you too, Pastor Blakes for telling the honest truth sir.

@crystalgrose 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being my "KZfaq Dad" Pastor Blakes.

@crystalgrose 2 жыл бұрын

@marjan💋 🙏🏾♥️

@Heiswithher 4 жыл бұрын

This was so necessary. I entered into a marriage to a narcissist and was a silly woman due to lust just got divorced and its really time to raise the bar. You said nothing wrong we need to hear this.

@lnh9885 4 жыл бұрын

I know, I know I'm late, but I'm just now starting to watch you. Man of God, PLEASE keep speaking truth to light! I'm a woman who NEEDS the butt naked truth! Straight laced, with NO chase! I appreciate YOU ❤️🙏🏾

@reddqueen9722 7 жыл бұрын

this aint nothing but the truth pastor lord i needed to hear this i wouldnt necessarily call myself silly but ive definitely been tricked a time or two. simply bcuz at the time i thought i needed a man to complete me but after countless times of being hurt i woke up now if hes not God sent i will remain single and honestly right now im enjoying the single life dont even want a man right now.

@Gigi-td5rm 6 жыл бұрын

Please obey God say what he wants you too don't be scared of what anyone will say thank you

@treasuragift5165 6 жыл бұрын

Pastor really am seriously crying throughout this video, I feel am more of a silly woman, my life is really messed up just because am a silly. Wished I could start over again but don't know if it's possible. Crying so hard because you're just talking to me.

@FiiireLight 2 жыл бұрын

This message really convicted my spirit (whooped my silly behind spiritually). I will be silly NO MORE! Thanks, Daddy Blakes! 🖤🤍

@lisawilson6787 6 жыл бұрын

I first would have to say hello my name is Lisa I’m 45 and my goodness your that Dad I’ve never had!!! All the messages I’ve heard from you has been so real and honest and I appreciate you to my highest power! Danger this was so needed goodness! Thank you!!

@inquisitivemind8672 7 жыл бұрын

Exceptional message, one many of us need because we've either been there and care not to go back to that or we haven't been there and need to be warned. You are right on all accounts. It is spirit breaking to go through being the person that was led astray or watching someone you love who you believed was so smart degraded to a level of stupidity that no degree or title could rescue her from.....i think if we had a passion for freedom more than a passion for passion, we would walk in the right direction, with our mind, brain and spirit intact. Good messages especially at 5:59, 16:36, 17:39, and 25:37, very good. 👏

@btfields323 3 жыл бұрын

Just stay single. Too many shenanigans out there!

@yashiraonque3932 4 жыл бұрын

"You disconnected your brain... From your life!" Hahaha

@erickajohnson5208 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this message. Came alittle late. I knew better. Dealings with a guy for three years, should have ended way before it started. Dealing with the repercussions of my actions over a guy had no business being with.

@cooksous 6 жыл бұрын

“Maybe you’uh dog catcher.” I hollered. No, in all seriousness... nothing but respect and appreciation for this message. Good wordddd! 🙏🏿 The lightbulb came on for me just a short time ago. So, #exsillywoman ☝🏿Thank you, brotha. I’m glad I stumbled across your channel. God bless you.

@Well_Woman_WORD_Woman 5 жыл бұрын

So true! Very convicting😔 I'm typically am not a silly woman. I went into a season of silliness. I allowed myself to get "weary of well doing" due to years of taking care of a chronically ill spouse. I because tried and bitter. The enemy creeped in and I fell for it. Now I healing from PTSD and a broken heart. Thank God that HE doesn't allow the enemy to "snatched us from Jesus' hands." God redeemed me from this narcissists. I thank God for my Pastors and you preaching the Word in and out of season"!!! Praise God, Silly Season is over!!! LADIES LISTEN TO THIS MAN! IF THAT MAN YOU'RE WITH IS DOING WHAT PASTOR BLAKES IS SAYING, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!