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There will always be someone with more money than you so that’s a game you’re never going to win. Lead with your intellect, humor, personality, game. That’s irreplaceable 💯

I love the way Tom as an interviewer asks thoughtful questions and how Sadia breaks the answers down in a way that's so simple and easy for anyone to understand, take in, and be positively impacted.

I noticed that since I've gone within, meditate and and am more spiritual I want to associate with people of value that I respect within! I'm also no longer attracted to social media and believe in the old fashion way of meeting, in person and in faith. ❤

Respect Sadia for coming from urban family with retaining traditional values and religious principles. Fresh perspective on Dubai bubbles and prestige

The social media has corrupted the definition of "High Value Man or woman". Thank you for trying to redefine it ❤ ( Not to mention the fact that you are crossing a lot of boundaries as a Muslim woman)

Artificial, relationship and fake people. Total truth. It's too late for many.

I love Sadia! You are so brilliant and worth emulating. I love that your insights are based upon the Fear of the Lord. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. I see so much wisdom in your teachings. Keep going!

"in a world where women become like a deity because of their beauty". Sadia, you're out of this world.

I definitely agree with Sadie’s perspective and understanding why she says what she says; where as the American culture will not see it through the same lease as her. Asian cultures, values, and beliefs in love and marriage is very different perspective than westerners. It’s difficult for westerners to understand & accept Sadie’s point of view. My upbringing is very similar to Sadie’s & I completely understand her perspective & why she believes it’s best for her. I’m Asian raised in the US & my environment is mostly whites, but somehow gravitate towards more of traditional Asian side within the family structures & marriage.

Sadia is one of the best spoken women on the Internet.

Arranged marriages have such a low divorce rate, NOT because they don't have problems, but because people cannot get divorced easily in these cultures. Every single arranged marriage in my Indian family has problems, yet they stay married due to social cultural, and family pressures. This is Terrible! About time someone spoke this truth.

This is so insightful, I think having some form of codes stemming from something (religion or something else) and weighing things up helps you stay level headed.

He'd better put a ring on this committed thing fast.......such a gem!

Glue to a successful relationship is knowledge and understanding of one another, not Love.

Sadia, this is your best interview ever! Thank you!!!!

I think what was trying to come across was not to look at it as “limiting your options”, but rather “choosing one option, and leaving the others”.

yes. #1 video with sadia!!! great job you both, lovely questions & discussion.

Great interview, Thank you, I loved the questions and answers!

Oh totally agree on learning to reject. It’s for your own protection!

I love your advice, Sadia. I totally agree ❤

great video, i wish there is more data, we men need more logical and data to make decisions but even without data, I can see how background is so important on relationship

This is every thing I needed to hear today.

LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!

The purpose of a relationship is to give to the other person with no strings attached. Expecting things in return every time we give makes it transactional. Business is transactional: give money for certain goods, products, and/or services in return. Giving freely is vulnerable, but in essence love is freeing and hoping the best for the other person regardless of the outcome.

Hi Sadia , wish you a merry Christmas and God may bless you in every way.. may all your work be fruitful and happiness be always with you.. thank you for being a really nice human being.. take care.. Jesus bless..

Sadia is correct on many things, if I were to add anything, on the "bad women (gold diggers) are attracted to the wealth a man has, and the man is replaceable" until she hits "the wall", I'd make the distinguishment that good women are attracted to the man's ability to create wealth among other things and also contribute to him creating wealth. Also, you see cases of young hot women are attracted to the bad boy/starving artists type even tho they are poor because she sees that he's got swag and confidence/potential so she's attracted to the potential rockstar that he will become. That's something that evolutionary biologist Gad Saad had concluded. Since most women don't want to bet on the wrong guy when they are young and waste their best years, it's much safer for them to wait at the finish line so it is a guarantee. By then, those successful men tends to be older, like 40/50's nowadays because unless they are a young celeb/media influencer, it takes men a while to accomplish and establish themselves. Getting those successful confident 20 year old dudes to settle is near impossible.

Thanks guys for a very good interesting video!

I like that Sadia brings Eastern concepts like arrange marriage, no premarital sex, non-monogamy rich men with multiple wives etc to discussions on online platforms. I think it will help people from both sides, East and West, to be more open minded and understand each other cultures better which hopefully will lead to more thriving, not degrading, cultures.

Absolutely stunning, world class😊

Excellent conversation, Tom is super pro

Excellent interview. 🙏

Sadia, congratulation for 500k subscribers. Only within 1 year🎉.

We are all replaceable, men and women. Nothing is guaranteed to last.

I have always understood the logic behind why Arranged Marriages 💞💞💞 could be a Success but overtime i lost my interest cause i have noticed myself drifting from my societal norms that i can no longer stand it 😔😔😔but i still believe its good for those who still have a Traditional Family values 🥰🥰🥰

Great video

You inspire me ❤

You are 80% right but I found the way (impossible for 95-99% of population). At the beginning- TURN OFF(!!!) social media and cut all contacts coming from tik-tok and another shit or "go away". End of negotiations; You dont like it? Ok- Ciao ;) Love is the glue but Its more complicated than you see ;)

I agree with most of her points yet We should be cautious of one size fits all.

I’d like to hear her thoughts on Anna Bey. She tells her followers that women should be dating different men. Not sleeping but dating to see who would be best in the end.

Very good convo

Excellent points

True happiness is contentment…

Great Content

If it takes money to get her, you are replaceable! So good 🙌🏻

The glue is the duty to each others well being!!

❤ yes!

Osiyo much ❤❤❤❤ to Ms.sadia but I don't think this is a religion thing but a common sense thing because I agree with these things but I'm not religious person but remember in this society having sense isn't common ❤❤❤❤❤ Wydo. big hey to all Islam

This woman is indeed a double edged sword yho!

Thank you, there is audio now

I love this girl

Whats not to like about this woman ? Being from a culture where you value other stuff than sex, and material things I totally understand her. And the thing Sadia said about how things have become I so agree, I've seen this with my own eyes. These so called phones did indeed close the gap between us and people that lived far far away from us, but what it also created a very huge gap between people near each other. I see the interviewer struggled to understand couple of points wich to me seems so easy, the dating several people part, why would I even date a person who has a lot of orbits around her ?

There's different forms of arranged marriages. For example, sometimes the families will just introduce the guy and the girl, and they will only get married if they both get along and both agree. Maintaining both autonomy and values.

I feel like those elements haven't really cultured the people( of overexposure ), I think it is more so of revealing what already has developed. And the point and or purpose of a relationship to me is to bring out the things already inside you.

Sadia and yours still stands whatz dj Suraman am still busy 😇

Love is modern world construct only loosely related to a successful relationship.

Rebellious people now called starseeds. I have so many friends like that and all so me and I can tell that they are multidimensional.

I love you, you are so different

25:40 This is actually the real definition of love tho…..

Sadia I want to be a psychiatrist but you are so powerfull I am starting to seriously reconsider changing to psychology ! ❤

In the ecnomy,it's always about the price setter. In relationships between men and women,it's always about the standards setter. Standards are too materialistic,it's all about money and looks. The 10% of men are getting all the women they can handle,the rest of women are living in a state of delusion,thinking that they are the prize and that they really have a chance with the10% of men ,the rest of men get what they can get or they just choose to walk away.

And here I am... where is my man, my half that will share my values, is honest and kind matches me on many levels and is watching content like this realizing how f* up this society is 😂 i am waiting for you 😂😂😂

Sadia Khan is truly beautiful and sophisticated woman, Mashallah. We need more educated muslim women like her.

The truth of the mstter is, it does not matter if you have many if the qualities women are looking for. If you are confident in yourself,. If you have many interests. If you can fix things at home. If you are not the type of man she dreamed of or envisioned being with. You will become an option for her.

Nevermind the gender, what if someone hasnt dated in 8 years from a past relationship that caused me to have PTSD that has gone unannounced, not diagnosed, not treated. What is the hope of someone recovering and able to date, if they havent in 8 years?

Interesting

SADIA 😍

He thinks marriage is about love. A child of Disney movies, no doubt. It's rare for the love you feel while dating to survive 5 years of marriage. The real love that sustains a marriage develops after the honeymoon period. It's just human nature for relationships to evolve as people either grow or backslide.

Sadia is still unsettled about her views of repressive religion versus uncontrolled mayhem

I met no one since the social media

Tom, you are so cute when you say "I need to be free to be a moron".

its not social media, its anti social media

I also feel like these days people divide values or worth between dating and marriage. Thats why of you see video ob what kind of man to marry; there’s always these things like these Atype of people is fun for dating but less for marriage, B type of people less fun for dating but is the best for marriage. Why that has to be separated? Dating and marriage should be continuous (of course if you’re not the kind who want to marry then whatevever). I feel like people also takong dating and fantasy and marriage as reality. When both is reality. The word love somehow becomes so different in meaning between dating and marriage. Only when you’re married love also means responsibility and loyalty that you have to work on,i do understand that it will differ when you’re dating and married;with kids, and in laws, but the gap that we have now is like so big that sometimes i feel like the love that was said while dating is too light lack of weight. Tho people usually think the other way around like the love has faded out in marriage. It an irony. Cause people think marriage is reality but think of the love in marriage as faded out, and doesn’t think the love while dating was not reality, it’s actually more like fantasy, clouded under rose tinted glass. That’s one of the reason there’s so much divorce, or not marrying because you do realize the heavy responsibilities that you have to take if you were to marry. Afraid of facing the realities of love. Just recently there was islamic scholar talking on how there was no word love being said between spouse/couple but only for God and us in the quran. For spouse/couple, God used mercy and affection. That’s kind of make sense for me so much. That idea of mercy and affection for spouse/couple(in other words not just love but loyalty and etc that we need ro work on)kind of has been wondering around it my head especially as i get older, but what that scholar said just makes it clear for me. (Mind you in not that good of muslim)

I 🖤This woman::Next Life✔️

The horoscope will show

We’re is the rest of this interview

'Don't eat Pork' is actually a rule brought to the world by Judaism, then later copied by Islam.

My partner wants me to delete ig because in the past I talked to guys behind his back on there. Should I do it?

John Gray: "Estrogen makes women emotional, and during stress the female brain notices the problems 10 times more...she feels an urgency to alarm everybody about it. Testoserone makes men much more calm and focused on tasks, therefore hormone testosterone is about problem-solving." Women need probably doing a yoga or Qi-gong to feel grounded so she will not disturb the amn when focusing on his jobs. I was wondering "the alarm state" of mind" probably comes from ancient times when woman tried to keep her new born baby safe and alive, and the brain was probably in the scarecity reaction of subconscious mind program, so she would alarm everybody, please help, my child has a flu, or some bacteria etc so maybe the estrogen hormone craeted such a chaotic state of mind over the generations, I wonder if its genetic thing. Other wise why would the estrogen create such chaos in her mind,10 times more during the stress situation, if its purpose wouldn´t be the alarm system of the mind...please come save the baby from the flu or some virus etc? And men are technical geniuses usually so they realise immediatelly what the baby needs, she knows it too in other ways, but she isnt as technical as men are, when it comes to crisis. So these two hormones probably have its purpose, but we should learn to manage it.

Wow

For the arranged marriage, I like the way Indians do. The parents set up the dates for their grown children but the grown children have the right to choose among these individuals. I am in an interracial marriage, our differences in upbringing, eating habits, norms & values create a lot of frictions/problems in our marriage, children & life even our family background is similar. For examples, I like to try new food but he's a picky eater. I like new adventures & experience but he wants to stay home & do nothing. I expect our kids to excel but he is ok with mediocre. I love people but he hates human. I have growth mindset but he has fixed mindset.

Ms. Khan be giving us the keys.

His take on religious is the most "'I want to enjoy the lust and all the shit of this world rather than recognising that there is a GOD''

If there were 5 Billion women in the world, like Sadia.... how much better, it would be.

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

Now you can be a Psy for the world and make other Psy disposable!! Lol

I need to meet her one day. When can I?❤ I need help I A

I’m a Christian man and married a Muslim woman. And that did not work out well 😅

If she marry (arranged) after going through heart brokes with 3-4 men...is she can built happy relation with person whon she marry (arranged by parents)??

What a smart woman. Sadia Khan is so smart. 👇 if you agree.

If it's big enough, it's going to last.

That man represents Euro civilization at it’s best Lol

Sadia... true INFJ... all the way... lol... "if I saw a p p officer and he annoyed me... I would say what I need to say"

It is too late for too many.

Nothing is random

Great conversation with lots of valid points but can we PLEASE not undermine it with using Wikipedia as a reliable source of science / statistical data 🤦🏻‍♀️

Her last comment is interesting.

Female Jordan Peterson 😊

Such a simplified view of religion he had and he speaks of it like it’s so profound 🙄 try understanding what religion means to different people instead of assuming

The way that you're advising that people walk away is more about revenge, which is not going to help the person walking away. If you walk away, it needs to be for yourself, as a way of providing self love, so that you can heal. Not about how you're going to hurt the person who hurt you! How the other person feels is their responsibility not yours and is frankly non of your business. You walk away to care for yourself not to purposely cause pain to someone else or get some kind of revenge. Those types of mentalities make walking away, an empty win. If you want to really win and feel better then you need to do it for yourself and self love, nothing more or less!