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@sadiapsychology6 ай бұрын
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@SeanHillofficial8 ай бұрын
When parents are dysfunctional the children will be also. When a moral character father is not in the home the children will suffer and grow up without the discipline and courage they need to succeed.
@ubuntuber16198 ай бұрын
but what if were doing self parenting?
@SeanHillofficial8 ай бұрын
@@ubuntuber1619 due to some circumstances some single parents don't have a choice therefore they must do their best.
@John_the_baptized8 ай бұрын
I don’t know if it’s my phone, but the captions were way off. I’m only a few minutes in, so I dunno about the remainder
@Carlos.Rivera8 ай бұрын
Not your phone nor internet
@hunter74able8 ай бұрын
After watching most of your videos I believe staying single is the healthiest option for most people. Way to much mental health issues out there. Thanks for the great advice.
@pupplylove30037 ай бұрын
😂😂 right!
@sandortibornenagy7 ай бұрын
The healthiest option is having a family around you.
@LC_H7 ай бұрын
It's the heart of people that has spiked the divorce rates and corrupted dating... Nothing more, nothing less. We now live in a unhealthy society that teaches us to tolerate, excuse, accept, adjust to, or ignore wicked/corrupted/toxic behavior. It has conditioned humans to no longer have empathy for one another (the heart has become cold). We are entertained by people's pain, and have sorrow when they succeed. To change marriage and dating for the good... we must go back to addressing evil and evil morals. We now call good evil, and evil good.
@Sergioespitia8 ай бұрын
Very valuable information 🙏🏼 thank you!!
@Towanda-xq2xg8 ай бұрын
It is all how you are raised, if you do haven't been given the tools to be a successful human, or in the circle of unkindness and loving people, you be have no idea. Seek those things in person that do, bring their brokenness to that person life, the cycle continues, and lets stop this! Yes, only when I take action fearful or not, to change, move forward and let's go! 👪👪👪👪👪👪
@StelinaJustice7 ай бұрын
The only thing that i would add is that neglect is a very strong form of abuse, esp. in children. I like Sadia because she also gives examples of real life situations/people in our Western societies.
@nelupe777 ай бұрын
This lady is so smart and gorgeous. Exactly what my doctor prescribed 😊
@margiestephens72818 ай бұрын
Can not turn off closed caption appearing words said. It is not necessary with clearly-spoken words. Thank you. It is “distracting”. Excellent discussion by the way !!!!!
@JorgeHernandez-oh7xv8 ай бұрын
When I stop listening to the red pill stuff and understand that Pearl from pearly things is just for entertaining, my mentality change
@sall.90647 ай бұрын
Such an intelligent conversation!
@kimstrandberg95298 ай бұрын
I agree with most of the content here however I do think that marriage is different today. It’s no longer a requirement for women to survive as it has been throughout history. That now means that marriage has to be mutually beneficial to both parties and that’s a relatively new concept. In the past (women being homemakers and mothers and fixing the house and home for their man with little expectation outside of said husband having a job that pays the bills) is rubbing up and causing friction with the new world where women can decide if they wish to marry or not, can decide if their career or having children is the priority (or both). Couples now have to weigh the cost of raising a child in this stupidly expensive world, that’s currently in a state of tumult and bc as women we can support ourselves financially, we can make choices out of desire and not necessity. It used to be that majority of men could typically find a wife just by virtue of being a man with a job. Women’s requirements from men are changing and I think a lot of men are understandably confused because they were raised to believe one thing and the reality is now different. We are that “pivot” point and it’s messy.
@jayc3420098 ай бұрын
I don't want marriage because divorce is very bad for men, women are incentivised to divorce their husbands because they are rewarded for it. i don't want children either because i have witnessed first hand how women weaponise children against their own fathers. Most men observe how husbands/fathers are treated and see no benefit in it.
@-glitch-81958 ай бұрын
Yup. That’s why I think it’s silly that men still apply old expectations like, “all I need is money & she’ll stay.” Not really. Having the ability to work has opened up women the opportunity to leave unfavorable situations. Before, men literally needed to breathe and women were allocated so it didn’t matter if he was a vile person or not. That’s what pisses modern males off.
@jayc3420098 ай бұрын
@@-glitch-8195 "Having the ability to work has opened up women the opportunity to leave unfavorable situations" - incorrect, alimony, child support, did. The government siding with women in divorce gave women the opportunity to leave. If women were not rewarded in divorce, they would have less incentive to divorce. Men are "pissed off" at the rigged game that advantages women at the expense of men. Women breaking up families because they "feel" like it at that exact moment, the husband indulges in alcohol to cope and the children end up hating her. You really think men are the "vile" individual in that situation? Women never seem to take into account men's point of view, you only care about your own selfish needs.
@jayc3420098 ай бұрын
@@-glitch-8195 Also another point, women have always worked. It isn't a new phenomenon, heck women even invented beer.
@budbas8 ай бұрын
I might agree, but the beauty is everyone can have any expectation they seems fit for them, regardless of what other thinks. By saying that, we are seeing the marriage rate falling down recently and there we are.
@SquidSquish6 ай бұрын
I love Sadia so emotionally and physically beautiful
@johntessier72486 ай бұрын
Thanks for this nice talk you both
@AR-kz4zg7 ай бұрын
Reminds me of Paulo Coelho's book, "11 Minutes" - have you guys read it? It addresses this concept of intimacy and what people are truly craving - it's not the physical connection alone
@deborahostmo8 ай бұрын
thanks for new upload
@Happy-Me.7 ай бұрын
BPD and Narcissism is on the increase! The ticking time bomb that we allowed to happen!
@FlatStella14 ай бұрын
yea, what a true words about my ex.I suspected that boosting ego from law sell esteem looks like that, thanks for confirmation
@grand_air_trine_astro7 ай бұрын
My ex called me horrible names every single time he was called out on inappropriate behaviour with other women. Than later try apologising and negating the seriousness of his verbal/emotional/psychological abuse. He was well s***ed, looked after, I was his peace, loyal, faithful, complimenting, non-clingy. NOTHING…WAS…ENOUGH!!! These men are wounded beyond recognition. Also they feel justified that it must be the woman’s fault. After that no healthy woman can compliment a man like that. All respect is lost. Nearly 60 he is still chasing skirt…mind he is an ex alcoholic and cocaine addict. I’m nothing like that. I peacefully accepted I’m more at peace and prosperous on my own. As I am financially secure, built a solid reputation he was only taking away from me. Oh and I’m an ex UK, Scottish, Gibraltar etc bikini champion and he dared to complain that I do not look like that anymore 😂 I’m a size 10 with healthy curves. I saw the women he’s been messing around and will not say anything out of respect.
@jessiesheldon-huffey18247 ай бұрын
Good for you! Sounds like you dodged a bullet when you got rid of this guy. I am amazed at how technological advances have really hurt relationships between men and women. There are so many men at there who don't understand what relationship faithfulness actually means ( ie. No checking out other women, porn, flirting, etc. )
@shirleyvargas11177 ай бұрын
A lot of people look for validation and love outside of themselves and then get so pissed off and bitter when they don’t find it, but to even try that with themselves or to be the first in their inner circle to be that way… god forbid is what they think 🙄 they would rather be mean to others to make themselves feel better.
@misslorettariley5 ай бұрын
I'm from America and my parents share the same tradition of living for the kids. We have to distance from some relatives because of the hatred. But, to say the least, we have traditions here too. Just only when two individuals agree on how they'll raise their children. I really appreciate her outlook, it's refreshing to find individuals like minded wich is rare. And I'm not Muslim rather, Christian background.
@stewvaardt73768 ай бұрын
The answer to your first statement - Another question : How would a global elite effect long term population reduction without being seen as genocidal maniacs by the masses?
@kmeellah8 ай бұрын
There was soo much peace
@BarlowJacob8 ай бұрын
This is great
@gregcorken66678 ай бұрын
Sadia your insight into relationships is deep and instructive, you are a whistleblower for modern women's permiscistive sexual behaviour, keep revealing the truth!! 🤣
@muma65598 ай бұрын
That's true Greg... however in times past men were highly skewed in this direction, they were the ones cheating, it's just that the pendulum has swung the other way. It's horrible of course. A lot of women are doing horrible things these days, especially mums. By the way it's spelled promiscuous.
@SamanthasUniverse7 ай бұрын
@@muma6559Especially Moms? Why Especially Moms and where are you getting your data to know this?🙄🙄
@muma65597 ай бұрын
@@SamanthasUniverse yes, very sadly and unfortunately. Sorry, I don't have time to provide data for you
@jessiesheldon-huffey18247 ай бұрын
Hi Greg. I totally agree: huge problems in relationships now due to promiscuous women and men who consume porn, escorts, etc. The lower the number of sexual partners, the increased liklihood of relationship success.
@ubuntuber16198 ай бұрын
i say unto myself..women are good its just that im attracting only the damaged,daddy issue, baggage lot, i just need to work on that part inside me and external reality will automatically change.
@sheimahamalouksouilah46587 ай бұрын
Amen!
@tamanazainab19097 ай бұрын
this whole time I have been admiring you, and also thinking you were my favorite Bollywood actress.(laradutta). I was thinking wow she has stepped up her game more good for her. And you are a completely different person the divine sent my way. my soul loves you.
@arkangelarkangel13027 ай бұрын
It's funny because when I was younger I thought ... wow relationships are so hard... but now that I'm old ... I see relationships are so easy... why do so many people make such a huge stink about it.😂
@Shima857 ай бұрын
Pain hurts and pleasure doesn’t, therefore, in every way people tend to cleave to producing pain to prevent pain (“briefly speaking”). Not being taught to expect troubles in life tend to cause people to handle pain painfully. Hurt People Hurt People, instead of provoking the heart to nurse people from inflicted pain…
@sarahosinovsky40257 ай бұрын
I love Sadia’s podcasts. They are well balanced. There are many poisonous views and women vs men. In “real life” I see lots of normal marriages and just raising children; or just normal partnerships. They are boring and no one covers them. Anyways, I like how she cuts through the games, and is upfront about effective communication.
@Noqqin5 ай бұрын
At least that's what they seem on the surface. You have no clue what those relationships are really like behind closed doors.
@user-lh4dx2os4o8 ай бұрын
why you are so beautiful and intelligent!!
@troysmith68744 ай бұрын
I luv the way Sadia says, 'Mm hmm'. It's incredibly, um, alluring.
@EvergreenKidsPiano6 ай бұрын
The only thing I disagree with Sadia is that we LIVE for the children. It invalidates all the childless human beings on this planet. I disagree with that. I hope our lives don't have to be reduced to legacy. Your life can be full of purpose and love even without children. Or even children that die young? Do they not have great meaning or purpose? Our society needs to validate all life. Not just children or fathers or mothers.
@sadiapsychology6 ай бұрын
Anything that doesn’t involve loving others and caring for others is a pointless existence
@Manolo89497 ай бұрын
Sadia, you are way too smart, fast thinking and talking lady you even eat some words......sweet,,,,
@abdolhamedsharef29245 ай бұрын
Love that❤
@theadmiral46257 ай бұрын
You always clip your vids at the cliffhanger lolols😘
@shirleyvargas11177 ай бұрын
In response to his turn off to somebody working on their shadow self, it shouldn’t matter if it’s a turn off to you who cares, what matters is if it works for that other person if they’re getting better, so what if it’s a turn off, should matter that they are getting betterand that should be a turn on. If there are a potential mate.
@reveobscur7 ай бұрын
Clip ended where it derailed a bit in my opinion and this is one of the few things I don’t agree with Sadia, it takes as much as three generations to be forgotten completely as a person.
@Garfield-oc8iv4 ай бұрын
Where can i watch this full podcast?
@barbaroslar22357 ай бұрын
may one day sister Sadia will wear the crown that the best women that walked on earth have wear like Maryam, Khadijah, Aishah and Fatimah R.A. and be with them in the highest Heaven Firdaus.
@deenaddict66257 ай бұрын
May اللّٰه guide her and us🥹🤍
@nebsFTW7 ай бұрын
There is something terribly wrong with the captioning. Fix the tech problem please. Brilliant video; the captioning is literally from a different video.
@How.Dare.You.8 ай бұрын
This podcast is turning into a date 🤭
@ninhbac048 ай бұрын
She's married
@Trav-eller8 ай бұрын
He defo seems into her.
@megja18128 ай бұрын
@@ninhbac04no she’s not
@pupplylove30037 ай бұрын
They would make a great couple! She definitely was flirting lol
@Trav-eller7 ай бұрын
@@pupplylove3003 She would eat him for breakfast 🤣
@businesskingpin66497 ай бұрын
Good morning beautiful hair New York
@JennaLeePrince7 ай бұрын
It’s KUYA 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️
@jacobphukan70236 ай бұрын
Interest breaks up..Not love..
@Shima857 ай бұрын
Affirmations don’t work for me either. I need a critique-to-value ratio from a woman that loves me and sacredly marries me.
@dewantamanik85408 ай бұрын
How can you define "red flag" in a relationship? Can I say that "red flag" is the internal quality of a person. In relationship there are also "challenges" such as parent agreement to your partner, different religion, that need to overcome to get the relationship work. Are all these also considered "red flag"?
@zoi75827 ай бұрын
Maybe if the guy constantly tells he will marry later just leave 😅he needs to man up also religion should be decided before hand
@anthonys55682 ай бұрын
Sadia. Your advice is for the rich of Dubai and not for regular people.
@A...N...666XQ8 ай бұрын
Sadiaaaa...
@ITunThein-xu1bl7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@muma65597 ай бұрын
I have hope to God that in the resurrection people will have babies on this restored, peaceful earth... Acts 24:15
@petrasili56877 ай бұрын
New ship
@einMaedcheneben7 ай бұрын
Dear Sadia What is yout stance on In-laws? My husband wont move out with me as he feels guilty if he left his parents. Its a cultural thing but in his case also a family thing. His brothers dont bother helping financially and I am losing my mind with his parents unappreciative, mistrusting and unfair behaviour.
@carlospicasso6998 ай бұрын
Money!!!
@NoyKeosouma8 ай бұрын
🥰🥰🥰
@Mr.Monaco947 ай бұрын
She is great and a very smart lady. It's a bit sad though to see such an intelligent woman not able to apply the same medicine to her personal love life. It's like seeing a nutrionist or PT who is a fat ass that gives amazing advice on how to eat and stay fit. In other words do what I say, don't do what I do - shouldn't you be the very first person to benefit from all this amazing advice Sadia?
@mariac62807 ай бұрын
I thought the same as well 😮
@Mr.Monaco947 ай бұрын
@@mariac6280 It would be funny if it wasn't so tragic but in the end that's what being an influencer is all about. And if you can make GBP400 an hour giving "advice" that you can't internalize then even better....🤣
@dreamlove3615 ай бұрын
Maybe this îs the only way helping others By sacrificing her personal Life. Anyway shes not that old she has time for everything.
@michaelgenova50075 ай бұрын
Does wearing a ring on the ring finger unethical for American girls in their 40's ?
@user-sg3yx6eu4g8 ай бұрын
If saudia was in the matrix, i wonder would she take the blue pill or the red pill.
@LeoIsaac-hn1yp6 ай бұрын
She's .good got one.. .you made buddy felt ..like Einstein..lol
@carljcmjk86098 ай бұрын
No one can tell you really how these things work
@piotrekmajkowski54228 ай бұрын
After divorce you will know who is real predator.
@jessicahitchens69265 ай бұрын
Yes the lawyers and the disgusting corrupt legal system. I call them vultures. The new system we wre under is actually called Communitarianism. Its legalising CRIMINALITY.
@codeforce55567 ай бұрын
The mistake that Sadia is a making is that she doesn't understand that human aren't perfect, they are flawed creatures, example,you could try to address your problems, what if your partner doesn't,you can't control everything,life is 50/50,a coin flip nothing is certain or guaranteed,all most hope to be luck,but few seldom are😅
@JadeOregano7 ай бұрын
You checked all of these boxes and still get cheated on 🤦♀️ conclusively, If they are not yours, they are not!!
@johnwalsh5188 ай бұрын
Fem narrative, this is exactly the game they are playing.
@joehernandez62608 ай бұрын
Impressive dynamic shadow work advice from human unhealthy behavior between both sexes for healthier relationships ❤❤❤ . . .RESPECT ✊🏼
@tigerdank56667 ай бұрын
Sadia get turned on @2:40 lol
@AishawithanEye7 ай бұрын
Uh. Couldn't the reason you can't find a meme about men being awesome is because the women who'd make them are with their man and could just tell him so? I don't see a lot of women making memes in the first place either. The internet is still far and large a man's world.
@boombeesharkful7 ай бұрын
Interesting video, but Sadia is a woman and this is a very BAD place for men to seek advice. I have 5 sons and my advice (amongst many other pieces of advice) is to never consult a woman on how to be a man.... they just haven't lived it for the 50+ years a mature and well balanced man has. I don't want to be entirely negative about advice from Sadia as her commentary on the many destructive aspects of behaviour of modern men / relationships e.g. pornography, are very perceptive and genuinely useful. Anyway, "connection" is a very feminine trait that is NOT primary for men. Men need PURPOSE! and that purpose must be focused outside themselves. It is outwardly focused purpose that is the male expression of Love which provides benefit to friend, family, community, country, etc. From there, a man will automatically attract admiration and respect from women (as in real women, not self-absorbed narcissists) which is the real desire men seek. Obviously, a wealthy man (or any man for that matter) who spends money for sex will never get admiration or respect from the women he pays for and this is probably very painful. Our society teaches men to seek wealth and power, but when that is achieved and the women don't show respect then pain and confusion will be very real. Not sure the younger generation have watched the movie Scarface, but Tony Montana sums up this attitude perfectly with the quotable quote... "First you get the money, then you get the power, and then you get the women". For some reason, too many generations of men (in the West) actually glorify this behaviour despite this movie depicting very real negative consequences of such attitudes
@jessiesheldon-huffey18247 ай бұрын
Very wise comment. I know your observations on Connection being more important for women and Purpose being more important for men is absolutely true as this is reality in my marriage. I have just accepted my husband is not a talker and that is ok, he is a hard worker and loyal. I do think Sadia has great advice for men and women but you are right that she will not have the same insight as a wise man into the lives of men. I also don't understand why so many men listen to "pearl". She just pays lip service to what men want to hear with a snipet of truth here and there.
@boombeesharkful7 ай бұрын
@jessiesheldon-huffey1824 Yes. agreed. Pearl also has some interesting insights, but woman bashing is getting a bit too overcooked. I guess it generates views and money, but doesn't help with positive advice on improvements.... well not enough.
@jessicahitchens69265 ай бұрын
The man either wants to invest or not. It's that simple. They either choose wisely or they don't. If both people don't have the same morals and standards you are incompatible. Most marriages end due to incompatibility and of course the sick society doesn't help matters.
@user-tc7fb2pb6j6 ай бұрын
Geggy geggy placees clubs
@lushawnbrown72816 ай бұрын
Some men don’t know how to receive compliments or praise. I told my spouse thanks for making the bed baby and he shoved it off saying that’s not a big deal. That was just a big turn off for me.
@christinec26255 ай бұрын
Take the win and don't complain
@geena-g-7775 ай бұрын
Once you’re dead who is going to care Sadia ..
@FakinJax7 ай бұрын
crazy how the dudes agrees to everything she says, but being a YES man is a big no no🤣🤣🤣
@jessiesheldon-huffey18247 ай бұрын
He is only agreeing because she is speaking wisdom. I'm sure if she came on telling lies, he would respectfully disagree.
@tyronebee7027 ай бұрын
Is there any pod where you aren't highlighted and concealed up to the gills? Is consistent makeup a crutch for being in public eye? Just curious...
@essies42947 ай бұрын
If she was bare faced you’d call her unpolished and unprofessional.
@buggy897 ай бұрын
10:22 15:20 22:43
@johnwalsh5187 ай бұрын
Don't worry plenty good women in Asia I know I married one after leaving the crap in the West.
@SamanthasUniverse7 ай бұрын
Happy for you! I hope more males follow your lead.
@LordDoma-jg6og7 ай бұрын
Both these don't live in the really world, 1 marriage is an exchange of resources of intimacy ,2 love from women for men is always based on resources /usefulness 3,experience shape the individual, trauma cannot be resolved,its what shaped your personality/ preferences,basically fighting your personality, you won't win 4)talking charges nothings, humans are imperfect creatures with flaws😑 not sure what game ,self-help guru's are running, (a dream world)no one is perfect, 😂
@GregoryMarrufo7 ай бұрын
At 3:45 she really said “The ego has to find ways to defend itself. We need to defend our Ego because we don’t have pure self love and self esteem.” Whatever guy did a number on her, she sure is making you all pay the price for it… 🤦🏽♂️💀💀💀😹
@rotaxrider7 ай бұрын
Pro Hamas Narcissist
@jrgb99457 ай бұрын
The camera needs to stay focused on her face-not his-for fuck sake.
@FranksLair7 ай бұрын
This lady is living in the 1700’s . Old school gender stereotypes. Yuk
@ROBOTRIX_eu8 ай бұрын
@ConsciousFX7 ай бұрын
Then when you disagree with this narcissist, she stalks your account to see if you’re married and then reports your account like a traditional narcissist lmao.