Amen sister

@CamronLummus-mx6zj you’re clueless

@@donh1572 Camron also edited his reply a few times. This person is triggered that women can choose their values over a man. I wonder why...lol

@CamronLummus-mx6zj Men can compete among themselves all they want. Sadia's statement is about a woman's choice. In some cases, it's better to choose none of the men if they don't meet your values.

@CamronLummus-mx6zj yes, beta males do all the time for low value women

Why is there a competition? What are they competing for?

​@@TheAffluentDon Who said it's a competition? You must be a male. It's not a competition, it's a fact that she educated, well informed, wise, intelligent, and knows how life works. She is also very articulate and a quick thinker. All positive attributes. It's not a contest, it's just a fact.

When he attempted to justify why it's ok for men to have high body counts, I felt I was listening to a 15 yr old instead of a fully grown men. I find it both amazing and amusing the mental gymnastics some men engage in to sell the idea that some of their bizarre behaviors are ok. It was very satisfying to see how she completely and utterly dismantled his misguided interpretation of why men do things they do. 😉

Completely agree with you. A high body count is not worth bragging about, rather you are a man or woman.

Women demand that men have a body count. Try to be smarter. No women are looking for a virgin. How do you think you become good at sex there genius? This woman is a own and is often completely wrong. She's alone and telling everyone what a relationship needs. Nice try.

32 is very young I am not sure men are mentally mature before 40

@@BaiMengLing Even at 60, most men are still immature.

I want to believe this but it is not true. That narrative? pls squash it! It will set humanity back. Look at what Dr. King accomplished and Malcolm X before 40?

The interviewer was squirming! Real conversations with desire to understand improve our quality of life.

Teach! The one night stand mainly teaches him what he wants- she is a teacher! Watch diary of a ceo. The neurologist explains why men made children with many different women. Times have changed but ppl are using old ways to justify promiscuity and wreckless appetites! Indeed selection process is warped.

Exactly! Men keep saying they only want women that are "pure" but they are so quick to get mad when women don't sleep with them. 🤷‍♀️

And them go to a prostitute and say all women are whores

@@bluebutterfly5062 They want to think they are the special exception but it makes them uncomfortable anyway because they know how someone acts with them is probably how they act with others.

@@ashtynrose1906 yeah right! They get annoyed at us because we're apparently "waiting for our perfect prince charming" but they are also *dying* to be that man for the girl _they_ chose!

I loved how she put the pregnancy problem.

Yes correct and it makes us vulnerable to STDs too. Why should risk our health for their frivilousness

​@@soniathegemini1593and potentially finding he has babies/children he doesn't know about. He will also (we all do it) compare you as a person, your body, and your ability to give him pleasure etc... to however many women.

A key Who open any door is a master key, if a door is open for anyelse key is a bad door. Is not same for men s3x for women

Women and men we arent the same

@@andresandres1557 you're right, but we should all be in control of our own bodies, and not sharing intimacy with anyone who strikes our fancy, or it cheapens it.

It is not a phase......it doesn't go away.

I never have either.

Same I have a lot of self love a respect for myself. Why would I let someone else disturb my inner peace.

I think that was very silly of him to say. The average Joe and the average Jane do not have a hoe phase cause they're working or busy with their lives and trying to pay their bills and meeting with friends and family and don't care for a hoe phase. People seem to glorify sex. It's not that big a deal tbh. Not for everyone. Most people get on with one person and that's that. Most people aren't curious about random strangers out there. Genuinely think some of these people are living in some weird dream world.

@@aishaarshadalam3412 ‼️‼️

But it's nothing new... men have always followed their eyes.

@@seagreentangerine2065 you sound butthurt because you're unattractive

The others are idiots who can only keep banging on with their single line.

Another huge problem in our society generally. We don't listen to learn.

Good observation....Sadia has great active listening skills...it's what makes her a good counsellor

Very true.

I’m an emotionally intelligent man. I’ve noticed that there is only room for my emotions when they are convenient for the woman that is asking me to be emotionally intelligent. And that any emotional labor I do that is not for her convenience, or not something that she specifically asks for, that either goes unnoticed; or when I’m saying something that is not favorable, that shit gets used against me and it becomes how she feels about what I said, and not about what I said.

@@zeevwolf13 I often think about this. I remember studying in university a course named Criminal law and frorensic mental health. Evey study ever made clearly shows that women are by far more emotionally intelligent than men. Most studies are also backed by statistics based on criminal behavior (take a look at which gender commits almost all of the most violent stuff). Given all this data, could it be that even when a man think he is being emotionally intelligent in the way he chooses to deal with a situation, he is actually wrong? I think more people need to be aware of the disparity of emotional intelligence levels between genders and become active learners on the matter.

@@diana.290 First you trivialize (deny, disrespect) my experience as a man, then you use red herring unnamed sources to attack my experience as a man, and last you reverse victim and offender by implying my experience as a man is “wrong.” Essentially you’re “stereotyping,” “shaming” and “devaluing” a whole gender based on what you recall from a class involving studies on criminal populations. Tactically sounds like DARVO to me, and not surprisingly delivered covertly which aligns to my experiences. Thank you for providing evidence to support my experience that when I say something that is not favorable to how a woman feels, that shit gets used against me and it becomes how she feels about what I said, and not about what I said.

​@@diana.290 you're making a generalization error. It could be possible that in a given situation the man is being more emotionally intelligent than the woman. Averages are based on individual experiences, and they may not explain every single interaction between every single man or woman. It's important to ask for more information rather than immediately shutting down the argument. I've seen loads of people simply quote a statistic and think that proves their point, when in reality the truth is a bit more complex.

@@zeevwolf13 If you're really as emotionally intelligent as you claim (and I don't know you to say you are or aren't), at some point you'll understand that everything you mentioned about your emotional intelligence only being appreciated when it goes in a woman's favor only shows that you and said woman were not compatible. It's not a matter of "women only recognize/appreciate emotional intelligence when it's convenient for them", it's about YOU carrying youself through life situations with empathy, self-regulation and the like, regardless of how others react to it.

@GemmaLaurelleAdventures, thank you for holding up that mirror of truth. ❤

Lmao “finally a woman with brains”. I hope you’re picked today

@@knowvilleknows1075 not sure what that meant but …same to you.

Is it really that surprising or have we been trained to think it’s a rarity?

@@trewloveofficial I think that morals in general have gone out the window making it rare to find. Each generation gets more and more loose. Hardly anyone waits until marriage anymore. It’s common for people who don’t even know each other to just hop into bed with each other like it’s just a casual act of pleasure. This is only numbing people’s emotions. The more easier that men have access to sex the less they value the right woman when she is presented to them. We value what we work hard to get but will take what is easy. Instant gratification usually wins. And the rest of the rare woman have to compete with the easy ones.

@@BeautiHacks couldn’t agree more

Yes me too! Because she speaks the truth straight up, an intelligence that’s not even debatable

I wonder, you are still single ?

Keep doing you sis, thats your superpower. You are who you attract, position yourself in the right enviroments and the high value man will come.

​@urbanvoice5323 She might still attract low value men as a high value woman but if she discerns wisely she'll avoid "falling for" the low value men.

You're a spinster.

that's deep ..

Men follow. She brings a powerful alternative perspective.

@CamronLummus-mx6zjYou sound insecure and like you're in no position to lead anyone. Like a captain paranoid about mutiny

@CamronLummus-mx6zj. lol get over it. Heal 😂

Exactly!!! Women often align with little resistance! That’s why they have fallen for all the lies they have been told. They practice what is immoral and project it back to the man trying to make him be at fault as women continue to drag other women down with them. Beautifully put!!

Lol, I was surprised to hear that question too. Sadia handled it elegantly though.

Probably couldn't imagine a beautiful woman having a masters degree too

@@faiabadi Not saying she really has a degree, also because she really doesn’t talk much intellectual sense, to be honest. But the only way for a psychologist to qualify as such is obviously a university degree. I rather question the intelligence of the interviewer here than hers, but the truth is she just prefers to be a social media celeb instead of having substantial knowledge of the subject matter once you dig deeper…

😂

Do you really think that a degree makes someone qualified? There are moral and immoral psychologists, good and bad ones, don’t you think? A degree doesn’t make anyone qualified. I’ve seen plenty of doctors, nurses, electricians, teachers in the wrong profession and completely incompetent. Being a professional at something doesn’t give you capacity or a food character, the same way having a child doesn’t make you a competent parent.

Are you talking about escort....?

As long as you remember never to give up your values for anyone, no matter what they tell you. If you know it's not for you, or it is, stick to that. Good luck👍

Also you probably don't have a very high smv. You should choose a mating strategy that match your attractiveness

Yes,I feel the same.I feel sorry for girls whom feel like they had to sleep as many as possible to find someone.They have been manipulated.

This is so spot on

This. So many men don’t know what it means to be emotional and vulnerable and connect on a deeper level. Same with women. I think this is the root cause.

This is the problem, youve grouped all men in this category. And in honesty its men who you like, ordinary average men get ignored too.

The men you describe are unhealthy men who have not healed themselves or integrated their masculinity.

Agreed. The 1% earners are NOT high value if they are sluts.

I agree

not in this echo-chamber/social media world. i mean real talk id take cathy from starbucks over many IG girls. IG girls are really not that special man. Like I know what surgery and make up is. it's not that special. I like jerking off to it, sure, but i wouldn't find many of those women attractive as a life partner. if i was a rich dude with attachment issues i can see how i'd potentially be bored by cathy but idk. all the people who are in this youtube echo-chamber are OBSESSED with status. Including Sadia. I understand status matters to us all, but some more than others. this whole sphere on youtube is not really real life. a lot of it kinda makes sense and stuff but all of these people are far more superficial than the average person. i've been around sex workers, they're just people. i didn't find myself any more attracted to them than cathy from starbucks. dont go too deep down these rabbit holes, they're very empty.

A great video, made me rethink a lot about my time there. Big fan!

What is holiday romances ?

Dubai is a place for rich men. That’s why supermodels flock to Dubai - to get those oil sheikhs. But I am assuming other men are invisible just like they are anywhere in the world

You think this pathetic boy is in the top 1%? 🤣

So true girl!!

Good men are everywhere, but they are earning an average of 50K a year not 500K, and they are not flashy. When you get realistic and start dating men earning around average, you will find the good men showing up suddenly Aka dial down your hypergamy

@@patrickmcfly3264but what if the woman is making 100K?

@@patrickmcfly3264Oh please, broke men are the most abusive because they have nothing to lose. Good men dont exist either. Men tell on themselves all the time. Whenever a guy does something nice for a woman, other men will say "he just wants sex". The average guy doesnt even believe in being nice for the sake of being nice

Lool no. Maybe the ladies should manage multiple relationships with attractive men with values and they should be good. And it’s good for the men too. How does that sound?

What s stupid islamic nonsense.Bore off...

@@deezed6478It sounds perfect to me!

@@Emptytopfloor 🤣

You don't know what high value is, it's NOT being promiscuous!

Agreeee..

I find you you very quality woman

WHY ARE YOU POSTING A THUMBNAIL WITH HIS PHOTO IN YOUR THUMBNAIL???

@@freddiestranger9783 because I love her

*You have such a large following por your 'mental advice' ...but, I am sure your attractive genetic code in display has nothing to do with it.*

I love Sadia! We have a very similar personality and I obsessed with psychology (and when she said “knowing too much is difficult I felt that” She is beautiful, smart humble, fun, vulnerable, wise, passionate, open, kind, firm, calm, even tho her anxious attachment style still effects her due to her parenting growing up as I am the same, but the thing is aware and she is not beating herself up for it! people like her make a difference as people who lean more anxious will the only once in my opinion, that try to fix this broken society without the shame and guilt judgement!!! Future psychologist in the making! 🙏🏻🧠❤🔥🥳

Thank you so much appreciate you