I learn so much with your videos and love to share them. Thank you.

"they don't have a script writer." LOL that's fair! I don't either 😂

We really don’t realize how awesome our husbands are, when we put all these worldly expectations on them. The real romance starts when you stop! ( In the average marriage)

This was such a beautiful letter ❤️ and such a wonderful reminder of truth. I see where I have taken my husband for granted instead of appreciating the million little ways he is so good.

What a fantastic reminder! Great word. I have struggled with 'entitlement' in the past but God has really helped me to see it and make changes.

I appreciate the contrasting examples. It gives me something to look at. Thank you for this video.

Beautiful sister❤️

First view and like again 😂 I’m always scrolling through as soon as you upload.

"Can I get it all in one package"?

God bless this woman and you too April for sharing this email! We were discussing this very issue the other day! Trouble is hollywood, romance novels, societies ideas and pagan holidays (lets not forget where these holidays originated and they used to be very sexually perverted, despite now just being days of indulgence and commercialism) have warped our perspective as to how husbands, relationships and marriage should be. We build up idols of who we think our husbands should be or what marriage should be like. In truth when we adopt these ideas just like the woman in the email said, we are so ignorant to how wonderful our husbands or marriages really are - that often we are loved and all our needs are provided for. When we draw back to the biblical prospective and we are abiding in truth we see the blessings, satisfied , secure and content in God’s love and provision so that we focus on loving and doing what we can to give in relationships instead of what we can get from them. Also God has opened my eyes to see that in some ways when I wanted to be fussed over and have all these romantic things in truth I wanted to be worshipped! In turn I would worship others! In the end you end up ship wrecked, an emotional wreck, feeling unloved, ugly, unwanted and destroyed! These days and these idolised ideas of what relationships should be always lead to pain, disappointment and disaster. The best thing I ever did was abandon these days and societies ideas altogether, after all we are to hate the things of the world and be clean of any of it’s philosophies, practices etc. Now I am so free and secure in God’s love. Everyday is about Him and serving Him and loving others. I forget about these pagan ‘high days’ and holidays because I am too focused on living for the Lord, worshipping Him and directing all worship to Him. Also when we are abiding in Him - He often brings our failings and bad attitudes and behaviours to light - even a thought that is out of step with God’s will or Spirit is rebuked and it leaves us contrite, humbled and more concerned about how we fail God and fail others so we are not pointing fingers at others or as disappointed with them as we would of been, instead we are more patient, long-suffering and merciful to those around us - grateful for God’s patience , long-suffering and mercy towards us. Denying self is being content and grateful even when others forget you or you are neglected, dying to self is being focused on the welfare of others before your own, dying to self is when you are happy when others are honoured and you aren’t, dying to self is when you are content no matter the situation and lastly dying to self is when you don’t itch for attention. Valentine’s Day despite no longer being about sexual immorality and choosing a sexual partner for the next 12 months, is commercialised and indulgent. We are called to have modest and temperate lives. We should be more concerned with the plight of our brothers and sisters over seas who are imprisioned, starving, discriminated against and persecuted. I struggle to even face three meals a day knowing they might only get a piece a bread a week! A couple of months ago I stood at the supermarket with a broken heart as I watched our groceries (that were very basic) go along the belt towards the checkout assistant - here I was having vegetables, flour and many staples and yet even when our brethren get aide from ministries like Barnabas aid is is just maize and rice. I stood there thinking I should only be eating what they are eating but with chronic illness I know I would get very sick. May the Lord have mercy on me because I am weak!!!!! How can we complain about not having the trimmings in life and being made a fuss of when some of our sisters have people ambush their homes in the middle of the night in Africa. Their husbands and families brutally murdered and houses burned down? Yet they are graceful, forgiving, not complaining and forgive and pray for their enemies. They have the heart of Christ! Sadly they put many of us to shame and I am grateful that we have the internet these days to report on their situations and their testimonies so that we don’t continue in ignorance and can snap out of ‘victim mode ‘ which society encourages us to adopt. Many married women don’t realise how blessed they are to even have a husband, many are on their own, no one to protect or provide for them at all and only have the Lord as their covering, trusting in His provision, protection and provision in other ways. May we all draw closer to God and live for and love God with all our hearts minds soul and strength instead of the world’s philosophy of me, myself and I. May our focus and love of Christ flow out into the world in loving and serving others, denying ourselves, as a witness to the world of truth and the heart of Christ. God bless you dear April and your ministry - your page is a wonderful forum to bring encouragement and much needed edification in these perilous times! Sending much love and many blessing to you, your family and anyone who reads my comment. (I keep forgetting to check out your blog April and when my budget permits I hope I can get a copy of your book too )

Believers have to stick it out if they know it is of Christ. Mark 10:9 “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.”

Happy birthday in advance mam... And thank you mam for Sharing your idea ❤️

Sounds boring