MOST DETAILED guide to choosing a partner | Based on relationship science

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Shridhar LifeSchool

Shridhar LifeSchool

Күн бұрын

I’m Shridhar, a Counseling Psychologist. Relationships are a lot of work, but that work can become smoother if we can choose the right person for us. Watch this video to understand what attachment is and what relationship psychology suggests about minimizing the chances of ending up in the wrong relationship with someone.
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0.00 Intro
0.41 The problem
1.07 Why attraction is not a good criterion?
3.00 Halo effect
4.14 How to prevent attachment to the wrong person?
4.46 Understanding attachment
7.50 First recommendation
8.08 Second recommendation
8.27 Third recommendation
8.40 Fourth recommendation
8.55 Fifth recommendation
9.47 What are the assessment criteria?
9.56 Approach to take with the criteria
11.22 Division of criteria
11.44 First criteria
13.05 Second criteria
14.42 Third criteria
17.01Second category
17.18 First criteria
18.00 Second criteria
18.29 Third criteria
19.17 Fourth criteria
20.31 Fifth criteria
21.29 Sixth criteria
22.01 Bonus principles
22.05 First principle
22.29 Second principle
23.03 Third principle
23.22 Conclusion
22.34 Need counseling from Shridhar lifeschool?

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@SR-mv2mf
@SR-mv2mf Жыл бұрын
I ruled out so many red flags that I ruled out everyone
@Shridharlifeschooling
@Shridharlifeschooling Жыл бұрын
Haha. Well single life can be good too :D
@newlife4503
@newlife4503 Жыл бұрын
@@Shridharlifeschooling yeah really..
@sizzlingschumi9005
@sizzlingschumi9005 Жыл бұрын
@@Shridharlifeschooling please make a video on single life for people entering or above 40s and road ahead with no marital prospects...
@SR-mv2mf
@SR-mv2mf Жыл бұрын
@@Shridharlifeschooling hmm maybe but it’s very lonely you don’t even have an emergency contact
@veenak1000
@veenak1000 Жыл бұрын
😄
@abhiam18
@abhiam18 10 ай бұрын
The importance of a single life can only be understood after getting married. And hence the single life is understated.
@Dora23Jan
@Dora23Jan Жыл бұрын
When he says; run away when partner treats you inferior! And he is absolutely right.😂
@raisa_cherry33
@raisa_cherry33 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@SumonAdakpbx
@SumonAdakpbx Жыл бұрын
Avoiding the wrong person is far better than finding the right person. I hope people understand it sooner. You won't die if they who you think to be right don't come to you. You might think of dying if they who seem right at the beginning come and later leave you.
@shilpirana9568
@shilpirana9568 Жыл бұрын
we should avoid the wrong ones while searching/waiting for right one
@SumonAdakpbx
@SumonAdakpbx Жыл бұрын
@@shilpirana9568 The first one is a priority, a necessity so that one's life doesn't become a living hell. The second one could be a luxury, a wish fulfilment even without which living is possible and even better with social services as people need knowledge, awareness, enlightenment, spiritual susceptibility more than a significant other in the time of growing number of humans vs resources.
@poonambairagi2809
@poonambairagi2809 Жыл бұрын
best advice🤗
@SumonAdakpbx
@SumonAdakpbx Жыл бұрын
@@poonambairagi2809 thank you🙏
@NEEL681
@NEEL681 Жыл бұрын
So, Looks is not a actual criteria to choose the right partner...
@shwetabhagat4482
@shwetabhagat4482 8 ай бұрын
Attraction is most important. Always remember that. You are choosing a romantic partner n not a flatmate, guardian or just friend. Attraction is not always looks.
@mswr3351
@mswr3351 7 ай бұрын
True… Attraction is more towards personality and how we feel with the person.. if we are attracted to someone we can spend 5-6 hours easily.. however if we r not attracted we can’t even tolerate the person more than 1 hours.. I feel we are even attracted to our friends.. there r ppl who we can’t even talk to
@Terahydron
@Terahydron 5 ай бұрын
in genz lingo vibes
@Stealthy007
@Stealthy007 Күн бұрын
Attraction will be lost in time, but compatibility will be there rest of the life - it not you can ignore attraction but there need to be balance between both
@jenab3560
@jenab3560 Жыл бұрын
I trusted my brain the first time and my marriage still failed. Second time around, I'm trusting my gut feelings, and so far so good. There are challenges, but we love each other enough to make it work. I think love is the foundation you need, and the commitment that you will stick through.
@makeupbyavnijamwal3700
@makeupbyavnijamwal3700 Жыл бұрын
What should you choose love or money for marriage?
@jayeshbhagat4754
@jayeshbhagat4754 Жыл бұрын
What's ur suggestion for how to choose partner
@kobinsadvance
@kobinsadvance Жыл бұрын
@@jayeshbhagat4754 You both should share the same belief system 80% of the time.
@theaditxys
@theaditxys Жыл бұрын
In your case it's was hit and miss scenario, and it's doesn't prove anything.
@marythomas2353
@marythomas2353 9 ай бұрын
Those days love conquers all. Today, compatability conquers all.
@Realestatetamil
@Realestatetamil 8 ай бұрын
1. Attraction not good thing select partner 2. Assement first attachment later 3.Avoiding red flags way more important than collecting green flags 4.2 categories are important to assess person Relationship outcome levels High important traits Relationship outcome level 1) Positive it protects you from tough situation if they have 2) synergy of dreams and desires Ask their short term, middle time,long time goal check cohesive with your goal , it shouldn't be opposite end ,if its it again red flag 3) negative How well both of you managing emotion during conflict? To solve problem Through listen to partner Accept mistake Try to resolve Dont allow High negative emotion Inability to resolve conflict High important traits 1.Equality of status Rules for both of us 2.Unconditional respect Are they treating you with respect 3.high priority for you and your Relationship 1st priority it determines how much time and energy they are giving on you 4. Loyalty Are they loyal to you ? Know their past ? Why they will be loyal to you ? 5. Commitment Are they saying I will break up ,or they have some tolerance 6.honesty and transparency Are this person is liar
@Terahydron
@Terahydron 5 ай бұрын
attractiveness is not bad but it should be reciprocated. else sex life will suffer. i have had two girls confess to me but I didn't find them attractive. now after many years, I do. so a woman is fine if shes shows equal interest in you
@arijitsahoo1589
@arijitsahoo1589 9 ай бұрын
We can't say that taking time to choose a partner always leads to successful relationship, so many relationships are successfully going for years with their acceptance in maximum 1 week only if they had really met their perfect match , it’s like a magical bond that never breaks❤😊
@pragati__dhami
@pragati__dhami Жыл бұрын
Just two days back, I got cheated on by someone who was looking for all these traits in me whilst himself being an absolute pretentious man with a habit of compulsively lying. This video is truly amazing tho. And when Shridhar says “don’t forget your deal breakers”, it hit home. It’s no shit. Before going into that relationship I was well aware of my needs and boundaries but as soon as I caught feelings, everything started to become hazy. Anyway, it’s sad we can’t undo what’s already happened. Although I am deeply hurt right now, I know I will be fine in a couple months/years. If anything, this was a huge lesson for me. Love and strength to anyone else who is going through the same pain right now. Just know, it wasn’t your fault, you’re not alone and this too shall pass❤️
@bts1true792
@bts1true792 Жыл бұрын
This too shall pass
@GlimpseOfJoy2022
@GlimpseOfJoy2022 Жыл бұрын
Yes ...it's very hurtful
@GlimpseOfJoy2022
@GlimpseOfJoy2022 Жыл бұрын
Coz we are loyal at their back but later came to know from years he was cheating u
@Crispr_cas9th
@Crispr_cas9th Жыл бұрын
Don't worry u will be fine..
@pixie89
@pixie89 8 ай бұрын
Yes. And you're doing great. Stay strong
@phaniraj5142
@phaniraj5142 8 ай бұрын
Most of time we don't or can't choose our Parents, Teachers, Boss, wife and friends etc in life...but we feel and proudly believe that we have chosen one...
@ericgideon7400
@ericgideon7400 9 ай бұрын
basically communication is the most important skill in relationship and marriage
@Jagritidhariwal
@Jagritidhariwal Жыл бұрын
Saw a thousand videos on dating, but no one has explained the stuff precisely the way you did. Thank you so much for this video✨🌸
@saswatupadhyaya410
@saswatupadhyaya410 Жыл бұрын
Watch @shwetabh gangwar ,u will find other perspectives as well 👍
@aakash950
@aakash950 Жыл бұрын
@@saswatupadhyaya410 that will confuse her
@thewierd_thewonderful996
@thewierd_thewonderful996 Жыл бұрын
He makes men specific videos
@advaithhegde5553
@advaithhegde5553 Жыл бұрын
Relationship outcome level: 1)Positive 2)Negative 3)Desire of outcome High Importance traits: 1)Equality of status-feelings,wishes etc. 2)Unconditional respect 3)High priority for relationships and you. 4)Give higher attention, and are loyal to you. 5)Ask the reasons for every answer they give. 6)Commitment for life.
@RajeshSrivastava-fr7qz
@RajeshSrivastava-fr7qz 8 ай бұрын
भौतिकवाद भोगवाद बाजारवाद स्वार्थवाद गलाकाट प्रतियोगिता "मेरा जीवन मेरी मरज़ी मेरी ख़ुद गर्जी" के दौर मे इंसान का खुद से रिश्ता सही नहीं है तो भाई दोस्त पत्नी सन्तान ससुराल के साथ क्या खाक सही रहेगा.......
@stelinethomas3580
@stelinethomas3580 Жыл бұрын
Very very useful & explained in a way that's easy to digest. Absolutely loved the content & structure
@MrunaliniPatil98
@MrunaliniPatil98 Жыл бұрын
So perfectly explained. Amazing !!! This is giving 100 % clarity
@Sayantan365
@Sayantan365 Жыл бұрын
Sir, most of your videos are superb, but this one is gold. Take a bow. I wish we had something like this earlier..
@raginisharma9302
@raginisharma9302 Жыл бұрын
What an Amazing Video Sridhar- this comes at the right time and your first point on attraction was so apt. Loved watching the brilliant tips. Thank you 🙏
@sadafperween6865
@sadafperween6865 Жыл бұрын
Omggg!!how well u explained and covered all topics !!I have watched tons of video regarding this topic but couldn't find as informative as this video.lol❤️🤗
@sohinisaha597
@sohinisaha597 Жыл бұрын
I have been thru a failed arranged marriage. I can vouch for all that you have said to be true. But will add one more point, not giving in to attachment stems up from having a high self esteem. No amount of knowledage will work otherwise. To be able to love yourself alone and not only when validated in a relationship.
@drnaishadhpatel4399
@drnaishadhpatel4399 9 ай бұрын
Explanation is top notch....i have suffered all those things in toxic relationship...you have to be mentally strong to overcome trauma and rejection...and i after few years i not regret my decisions
@shreehoney8738
@shreehoney8738 Жыл бұрын
Trust me …you are such a amazing person sir ..thanks a lot for giving such good content …🤟😀
@MoulyBhatt
@MoulyBhatt Күн бұрын
This is one of the best relationship videos I have watched in a while. There are not very many resourceful videos for south Asian culture in mind. Kudos to you!!!!
@taherin.patel7
@taherin.patel7 Жыл бұрын
Wow this is just wonderful ♥️ I just wish i could have watched this vedio an year back, I would never had given a chance to a toxic person! Love your content💕keep making this , the world needs you!
@mightyguy079
@mightyguy079 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@GS-um6ww
@GS-um6ww Жыл бұрын
Good analysis.. Mostly decisions are impulsive .... One need to learn commitment....Temperament suitability is to be checked
@riachowdhury518
@riachowdhury518 Жыл бұрын
Very good advice. Clear and easy to follow. Thanks for this video.
@katyhodea9229
@katyhodea9229 Жыл бұрын
Very well sketched and super professional. Thanks
@sujeethaca
@sujeethaca Жыл бұрын
Attraction is very important in a relationship.. It is very difficult to form a connection without attraction.
@Shridharlifeschooling
@Shridharlifeschooling Жыл бұрын
We can learn to reduce its importance. Not zero. Just less.
@Sona77.
@Sona77. Жыл бұрын
Attraction will spark your interest but it won’t maintain the relationship.
@jigarrajani7948
@jigarrajani7948 Жыл бұрын
Very true,if attraction isn't important why do you need to have a relationship with a girl/woman ,this guy is just stupid
@loveshell007
@loveshell007 Жыл бұрын
In my experience, attraction can develop over time. Like u find a guy visually unattractive at first but then you start finding them cute once u get to know them.
@pallavi6939
@pallavi6939 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for useful tips.. Actually I fell in toxic relationship ignoring Red flags & bearing consequences now. I have 2 teenage daughters who need this message to find genuine partners.. 🙏🏼
@priyaak8273
@priyaak8273 Жыл бұрын
Ultimate speech sridhar sir, ur good in knowledge talks, i really liked ;helped me alot this video 🙏 ❤️💚💛💙💜thank u
@gargi3553
@gargi3553 Жыл бұрын
This is really the best video on choosing a partner I have ever seen Thnq soo much sir🙏
@riyarose4514
@riyarose4514 Жыл бұрын
The way you explained…hats offf…Thank you
@amrapalibhagat1111
@amrapalibhagat1111 4 күн бұрын
Believing in your gut feeling or intuition is the most important thing. If something is not feeling good just walk away. Attraction is very important if I don't feel attracted towards my life partner ,I can't get into physical relationship. Premmunshi ji bahot hi khubsurat baat kahi hai " vivah ka adhaar prem hona chahiye,agar nahi hai to woh sharir ka vikray hoga". Isiliye attraction hona bhi jaruri hai.
@ajeetalbert91
@ajeetalbert91 Жыл бұрын
Rules for men: 1) Know yourself and be honest in expressing yourself! Don't try hard to impress! You cannot be that impressive person lifelong. Don't put efforts in this phase where you are trying to getting to know each other! 2) Similar ideas or common goals with respect to finance means your relationship has already scored 50% marks. 3) Excitement fades, monotony prevails and committment only saves. Stay committed to your partner! This is where you need to put in efforts. You will experience a different version of love when you just start caring for each other and be peaceful with each other's company. 4) Choose your partner who is attractive for your eyes but not for the society's standards! Physical attraction is essential to engage in physìcal relationship, especially if you are a man. You have a visual stimulus that triggers the neural system and makes your little boy stand. You cannot fake to make your partner happy. 5) Accept that you cannot have it all. Be a little bit of stoic here!
@VG-ew4cn
@VG-ew4cn Жыл бұрын
I'm really stuck at the 6) points you made. Physical attraction is important because as a man I need to feel excited about physical stuff. Any guidance on how to look at this requirement in an arranged marriage? Two girls with almost the same nature but one is okayish looking with a good salary and the other is good looking but has an average job. I should be looking at long-term stability as well but at the same time confused if I can ignore the looks.
@Rayis4444
@Rayis4444 11 ай бұрын
@@VG-ew4cnPhysical attraction is important but you need to understand what physical attraction is for you, it could be a tall guy, short guy, fair, dusky, curly hair, straight hair, etc. But do not rely on the social standards of looks- fair only, tall only, etc. Find out what your heart truly desires and what you truly like.
@random_person_on_internet
@random_person_on_internet 9 ай бұрын
@@VG-ew4cn no you shouldn't ignore looks It is the only thing makes a man fall in love with his wife Choose the girl whom you find attractive Salary of the girl have less importance You need to love her first Otherwise you will fail to love her and then she will have to live a miserable life where her husband doesn't feel any kind of attraction for her It is most painful situation for women ( coming from a woman)
@bhawnakushwaha0403
@bhawnakushwaha0403 11 ай бұрын
Fantastic video.U just cleared all of my doubts..❣️
@dontwatchmyvideos11
@dontwatchmyvideos11 Жыл бұрын
I will always be grateful that I found your channel 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@gausiakhan35
@gausiakhan35 Жыл бұрын
Your videos are so insightful..can relate to it so much❤️❤️
@roamingwithsubhom
@roamingwithsubhom Жыл бұрын
Thank god I came across this video ❤️ I'm 26 and single. I hope I will find someone better 😌
@overthemoonflorist9135
@overthemoonflorist9135 Жыл бұрын
You are a gem who saved so many😢 i really wanna thankyouuuu. I have tears😢 thankyouuuu so mucchhhh ❤
@123lsa
@123lsa Жыл бұрын
Amazing work sir! This has helped me a lot. Sometimes we just forget the red flags and just get connected because the opposite person is attractive but I understand the importance of not letting go of the red flags! Thank you
@Queen.himshi
@Queen.himshi Жыл бұрын
Amazing. This is really very helpful. Thankyou..
@sudeshnadutta8055
@sudeshnadutta8055 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this valuable suggestions. Really very much helpful.
@manishaambwani1571
@manishaambwani1571 Жыл бұрын
Perfect video...on how to choose a partner or a life partner.
@riyaraj3963
@riyaraj3963 Жыл бұрын
After reading the caption, I am forced to comment that we have no clue but it is not us who chooses the partner. It just happens.....btw you are doing a good job👍
@gowthamibala9384
@gowthamibala9384 Жыл бұрын
I am grateful that I can consume this entire contact free. This video has a great deal of information that will retrospect your every decision.
@meghasa8416
@meghasa8416 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ❤. It's a beautiful video. I watched this at the right time.
@princyruhamah2846
@princyruhamah2846 Жыл бұрын
I would definitely tell after watching this video... It was a complete plate with all dishes ❣️
@sahajsinghsethi1816
@sahajsinghsethi1816 Жыл бұрын
Very very insightful video sir. Thanks for making this video.
@dollymaini7565
@dollymaini7565 Жыл бұрын
I really want to thank you for putting out this video✨
@BeTheBull12x7
@BeTheBull12x7 8 ай бұрын
I have never come cross such best video. Super work.
@Jayantgosain
@Jayantgosain 9 ай бұрын
Wow!!! You just saved me brother. Thanks a lot.
@uditjoshi1407
@uditjoshi1407 Жыл бұрын
Excellent choice of subject!
@siddharthpathare2
@siddharthpathare2 4 ай бұрын
Upto the mark explanation, really a psychological, scientific and rational approach. Thanks clearing thaught process.
@srivinay3382
@srivinay3382 8 ай бұрын
That honesty line is 💯 correct.. one cannot find peace when the situation is like we need to assess the other person's words everytime like a detective By the end.. we want to be a partner not a detective ✌️
@renukatandi5979
@renukatandi5979 9 ай бұрын
After watching this video I subscribed your channel. I liked too much this video. You explained everything clearly which will helpful in the way of choosing someone perfect ❤️
@beats_hit
@beats_hit Жыл бұрын
Posted at perfect timing, thank you 🙏
@dharmilshah9367
@dharmilshah9367 20 күн бұрын
The Best video on how to find the Life partner. Thank you so much for such Great wisdom ❤
@Stoic_Paatthh
@Stoic_Paatthh Жыл бұрын
Very very true,each and every word is worth understanding Many of us don't find red flags, sometimes our parents also do hurry,all they say,sab theek ho jaata hai, But avoiding the wrong person doesn't mean we have to fight back,amecabily partners should get separated, but in our indian families, after marriage specially, couples don't get separated amicably, specially lady has to fight for her rights, that's the irony
@priyaraj9518
@priyaraj9518 Жыл бұрын
So true.
@dishaverma2409
@dishaverma2409 Жыл бұрын
Best vedio in this matter well explained.. thankful that i came here
@RASHMISINGH-re5hj
@RASHMISINGH-re5hj Ай бұрын
This is the best video I found on this topic
@inamullahqaisrani6049
@inamullahqaisrani6049 Жыл бұрын
Amazing work brother.
@neelamsolanki7348
@neelamsolanki7348 Жыл бұрын
I cant believe... This is absolutely True
@typicalmovieactingantariks1650
@typicalmovieactingantariks1650 Жыл бұрын
The best video on this topic ever
@meghadave9363
@meghadave9363 Жыл бұрын
I think some level of attraction is required in a marriage. Otherwise it feels like a business partner
@meditation8905
@meditation8905 Жыл бұрын
True without attraction I don't think u love someone unconditionally .... it's not a different kind of love ...not a friendship ... looks don't matter
@Deb_deCoder
@Deb_deCoder 9 ай бұрын
mrrg and relationship are wymn's business.. it's kind of transaction.. where men have to pay like a fool while she may or may not have s3x
@debashreedebasmita1724
@debashreedebasmita1724 Жыл бұрын
There is nothing bigger than destiny
@jenniferthomas8173
@jenniferthomas8173 Жыл бұрын
Wow Amazing topic, thank u sridhar sir,
@uditjoshi1407
@uditjoshi1407 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video message!
@erumkhan8796
@erumkhan8796 2 ай бұрын
OMG just amazingly described ♥️
@debbiefloresbrown5317
@debbiefloresbrown5317 10 ай бұрын
Love cover everything. Nobody perfect every person has red flags just depends who you love enough to tolerate everything.
@shaikhalmas1001
@shaikhalmas1001 5 ай бұрын
Its Really Helpful Brother. THANK YOU 🥰
@rajneeshkaur2781
@rajneeshkaur2781 7 ай бұрын
OH MY GOD… This is need of the hour.. ❤❤❤
@leenajoshi1341
@leenajoshi1341 Жыл бұрын
Best n amazingly explained...
@donahalder8731
@donahalder8731 Жыл бұрын
Spent the best 23 mins of my life
@brittelska1449
@brittelska1449 Жыл бұрын
I have ignored physical attraction and dated based on other qualities (reliability, consistency, attentiveness, good listener, thoughtful etc) and resented the lack of attraction the longer we were together until they started to actually repulse me. Two have still ended up to be narcissists. Really hesitant to take that advice again.
@VG-ew4cn
@VG-ew4cn Жыл бұрын
So you mean physical attraction is much more important?
@meditation8905
@meditation8905 Жыл бұрын
Solely Depends on person .. if he or she is a good human being no need of just advice .
@pixie89
@pixie89 8 ай бұрын
Same here
@asmitabharati4956
@asmitabharati4956 8 ай бұрын
Couldn't agree more, been there😢
@renu653
@renu653 7 ай бұрын
Agree
@ravishingtwinkle3811
@ravishingtwinkle3811 5 ай бұрын
As I work on myself, I am attracted to values in a person, also how loving accepting they are to themselves
@pavangrandhi
@pavangrandhi 9 ай бұрын
Very well explained, thank you
@priyakamboj1261
@priyakamboj1261 Жыл бұрын
So far the best video on this topic, how easily he summarised and explained alllllll the concepts. Loved it
@satvikkhare1844
@satvikkhare1844 Жыл бұрын
Feel lucky to be born in the era of KZfaq where this kind of precious information is available at my fingertips.
@hemlatarawat3474
@hemlatarawat3474 Жыл бұрын
Ultimate Sir..❣👌👌very informative..👌🙂
@smitasharma8977
@smitasharma8977 Жыл бұрын
Very accurate Thank you so much
@shasha4083
@shasha4083 Жыл бұрын
One of the best video I ever watched
@shivanipateriya5150
@shivanipateriya5150 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, this is very helpful.
@laxmirawat1588
@laxmirawat1588 Жыл бұрын
Amazing video ever I have found. U r great
@CuriousAboutTravel
@CuriousAboutTravel 7 ай бұрын
I would say this is the Best video on choosing a partner
@meghagoel36
@meghagoel36 Жыл бұрын
Very informative video.. please make more videos related to this
@pallavikar7896
@pallavikar7896 Жыл бұрын
God bless you Shridhar 🌟
@srishtisaini5434
@srishtisaini5434 5 ай бұрын
Well explained and dispart lot more clarity.
@subodhgautam649
@subodhgautam649 11 ай бұрын
Excellent...very first rate video...💯✔️💯✔️💯💯✔️
@kaberigomes2117
@kaberigomes2117 Жыл бұрын
Using logical tool to solve feelings like love, is like taking knife to a Gun fight. 😅. Obviously you are correct Sir. But even dating coaches make simple mistakes, because no one, can truly make correct decision, when overwhelmed with emotions.
@naveenjose7710
@naveenjose7710 Жыл бұрын
But emotions will die soon.........Logic and rational thinking is always correct. Imagine if bullets are emptied,the gun is waste.But knife will be still useful.
@kaberigomes2117
@kaberigomes2117 Жыл бұрын
@@naveenjose7710 The point is. No one can take logical steps when overwhelmed with emotions. And you will fuck up the relationship yourself at one point in time. You cannot make a checklist, to stop yourself from falling for wrong people. It's the part and parcel of the dating process. You will never know they are right or wrong, before the moment of test comes. If this was possible, psychologist would give certificates of traits a person has, to make dating and selection of partners easy. Even they can only guess what a person is, or will behavior in the future.
@naveenjose7710
@naveenjose7710 Жыл бұрын
@@kaberigomes2117 Yeah.There is nothing wrong with following emotions.In a relationship if the other person truly loves you or values you both can change their behaviour pattern for mutual interest. But sadly,if one follows emotions like pure lust , body shape, colour, beauty.Love from these emotions fades away and will be problematic in future.
@kaberigomes2117
@kaberigomes2117 Жыл бұрын
@@naveenjose7710 We are straying away from the video. Just answer me this question. Will you now like a girl but leave them after going through this checklist recommended in the video. Plain and simple answer.
@naveenjose7710
@naveenjose7710 Жыл бұрын
@@kaberigomes2117 After some life experience not only girls,even with male friends one will do checklist and interact carefully. Last month I even rejected sex offer from a married lady doctor who is in my neighborhood. Careless relationships come with heavy price later.
@neelamsolanki7348
@neelamsolanki7348 Жыл бұрын
Each ans every word makes so much sense
@fictionalworld4531
@fictionalworld4531 Жыл бұрын
It’s almost impossible but worth it to try.
@sheelaashok9008
@sheelaashok9008 Жыл бұрын
Superbly explained
@PreetiSingh-bh1ff
@PreetiSingh-bh1ff 7 ай бұрын
You explain very well.. if we talk a person for 4,5 Times, slowly we feels connection ( sigreet habit) but it doesn't mean we are competable . Nice 👍 explanation,nice research 👍
@srinuemani
@srinuemani 8 ай бұрын
Wowww..great video to move on from my ex 😅❤..thank you soo much.
@pushpalatamohan5632
@pushpalatamohan5632 7 ай бұрын
You speak wonderfully sir . I watch your videos as they are very interesting . My daughter is MS OBSTETRIC AND GYNECOLOGY . Selecting the right person becomes difficult when you have two to three choice .Dilemma to choose . Arranged marriages very difficult to decide because very less time to assess. Ultimately it is big gamble i feel as a mother of a girl. Whatever homework one does risk remains . Only God helps us if our karma is good. I cant stop admiring your personality sir .
@swathirathi6981
@swathirathi6981 Жыл бұрын
Such brilliant principles
@souravdebnath1584
@souravdebnath1584 Жыл бұрын
You speak as much as a man can be perfect. 🎉
@nibeditasharma2665
@nibeditasharma2665 Жыл бұрын
I dont think calculation can make a relationship work..but may be help in getting better..without emotion a relationship is just a,deal..
@namamyborthakur5731
@namamyborthakur5731 Жыл бұрын
Wow.... Amazing 😍💕
@nikhil8187
@nikhil8187 Жыл бұрын
Quite a researched content. Nice!
@elinacooper9627
@elinacooper9627 Жыл бұрын
He's a psychologist and a consultant what research do you think he might have done... Lol
@swapnasahukar4854
@swapnasahukar4854 Жыл бұрын
Blessed to this channel 😀
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