You can use the PUA community's strategy of "stripper rules". Essentially you have to get her not to think of you as a customer. Not easy. I was not able to do it myself, but some other guys have succeeded.

That's exactly why I don't go!

Get an escort. The ultimate goal is sex. Why would someone spend 1 hr on lapdance. That's just dumb. I can understand 1 or 2 lapdance, but 1 hr. That's krazy. Must be the booze

Could've got a blowjob for 80.00 $. You went in your 30s and your 60, so 30 years ago 80$ was 155$. You Could've easily got a blowjob for half and hour from escort.

Shut them down. Nothing good comes out of these places.

Because the most naked woman is naked but the sexist woman in a strip club is the one with her clothes on strippers also look hot showing up for work in their street clothes porn stars are always hot wearing gowns at the porno film awards.

A strip joint with cheap food and beer? Never, ever have I experienced that!

@@noodler696 Keep searching

Either way it's a front, you are being fooled by a front, either the sexy dancer front, or the girl next door front. Sometimes things are obvious. They are only there to exploit you and take your money.

@@user-th3ll8rl7i Clearly.

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If she didn't ask you the she didn't want to dance with you. It's been ten years Craig, get over it!

She doesn't dance for anyone she doesn't want to*

Entitlement at its finest. 🤣🤦🏾‍♂️💀

THEY WERE LYING FOOL

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weirdo.

Age DOES matter, and no they are not all flowers

That will take half your stuff and leave you for some other guy and you have to pay her every month and there is nothing you can do about it if they decide to to that to you.

Damn God buddy what women are you talking to; none. Lol...naw, I hear ya, just listening to her she is captivating. Shes a doll baby.. Not that she's the sexiest thing alive by far...only see her face. I can definitely see myself spooning with her. Like so many other things in this universe....they may have a dark side😮😮...and feelings may change...or just be aware.. approach with caution..

Weirdo pervert...

I HATE your response!... I!..wanted to post a COOL observation like this!😫............basterd!......three years late.....😏

You said it OakLeavesAndOnions. Last time I was in a strip club as in 1986. My present sweetheart, she's a couple years older than me, I'm 66 and well heeled. I need to curl up with a lady atleast 1/2 my age because I feel 25. Thought, what's a man my age have that a young woman would want but my money. Thanks for your video.

"As I get older ..." Nicely written!

I’m an older guy, can’t say I’ve had much luck with the ladies, because when I was in school I was too interested in my education, when I graduated, I went pretty much straight to Alberta where I was a drunk so too interested in my next drink, then I was involved in terrible road accident, became Brain-Injured so here I am 28 years later, but I did have sex with a prostitute while I was in my drunk phase

Very true

lol....She "understands" you because you have MONEY... younger guys dont have money and are always broke

Their just taking your money.

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why didnt it work out?

@@bevs9995 That's almost besides the point. What matters most are the memories of the people you loved, becomes some day all relationships end, be it one person moves on or dies. All that are left are recollections of the dreams we had.

@@bevs9995 His wife couldn't learn to get along with her. **cough**

@@bevs9995 It didn't work out because he ran out of money for tips4tits!!!

@@bevs9995 He ran out of one dollar bills.

They loathe men, but love the mans money.😂

Often the case, but not always.

Laughing and taking the money 😀 Really stupid game.

I've had some long-term relationships with some of these girls.

sin good sure Jesus you tell savoir and city in David a

@@benmcfarren6337 English, please. Or at least accepted syntax.

lol simp

It's ironic isn't it, sometimes it's not all about sex, us guys just want to have a pleasant non-judgmental conversation with a lady once in a while. Get things off our chests, and yes a bit of ego-stroking is also nice ( how many of us get compliments from our other halves), and even perhaps some good real-world advice. Prob cheaper than a therapist too 🤣🤣

@@benmcfarren6337 Sin is a religious term for breaching religious rules. It has no relevance to immorality which only relates to what harms others. There was no harm in the story you responded to.

Sometimes they're right...although I watched an old guy go down on a stripper right at the main stage once so really anyone can get lucky with the right girl. Looked like he was eating dinner...

@@skoparweaver7692 Yes, I got lucky with a stripper once but not IN the club. After tipping a sweet lady $5's all night she asked if I wanted a private dance. Yup. During the dance she commented "You're not a regular are you." Nope. "You travelling on business?" Yup. "Staying nearby?" Yup. "You alone?" Yup. "Want some company later?" Yup. "Great! But I'll have to give the babysitter $300." No problem. 👍 I gave her my number and after the club closed she called my room and came over. We had a great time. Now, I don't drink and that might of had something to do with it as I was probably the only sober guy in the club at the time. Also, it pays to be generous. 😁

@@skoparweaver7692 I got lucky in a strip club once. Well, not actually IN the club but after. I always tip $5's. Let's the ladies know who has the money. As I mentioned I'm 65 and have a bit more funds usually than younger guys. A sweet young lady must have noticed and asked if I wanted a private dance. Yup. During the dance she commented "You're not a regular are you?" Nope. "Travelling on business?" Yup. "Staying in a hotel locally?" Yup. "You alone?" Yup. "Want some company later?" Yup. Then she said "Sounds good but the babysitter will need $300." No problemo. So I gave her my hotel and room number and she called after the club closed. We met and had a great time. Now, I don't drink so it might have helped that I was probably the only sober guy in the club but I don't know. Felt like I was in Vegas.

@@skoparweaver7692 The entree was bearded clam I presume?

"we got more money. I usually tip $5's" what an oxymoron lol

Pfffffffff

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🤣🤣🤣Must have made your day.

Hell yeah! Better than I got today. It's a start.

Damn bro, you are WINNING!

ha ha

LOL

Bad-girls appreciate Nice-Guys

i see though this was not born a female.@@perfectsplit5515

@@perfectsplit5515 ?????

Take advantage of what you've got while you have it. That window is fleeting.

Looks like i was off.

...nor do they have the experience to properly take care of any offspring they create while spreading their seed. #thetruthhurts

Properly manage their money lmfao. This is coming from a Guinea, who pi$$'es his money away on strippers.

It's 2024 champ, many young women outearning young men, and once he does have money he's usually considered "too old".

@@coiledsteel8836 A 21 year old with a 20 in his pocket has the same buying power as a 50 year old with a 20 in his pocket. Besides, so long as the cash is flowing, strippers really don't care about age.

I heard this one woman who joined a sugar daddy club. The only reason she joined was because all the guys that she dated were always broke. She went where the money was.

They would all rather not work there doing that. But no other job offers the kind of $$ that it does.

I'm also an older guy 66, and I spent my whole life dating strippers and married 2 of them. They were very goodlooking brunettes, but we're very promiscuous. They loved black guys, and I didn't mind at first, but it really got out of hand. Both of them got viscious in divorce court. They put me through hell. I went to prison, convicted of being a child molester, because she took videos of her son kissing my feet while she gave me head. She brought him up gay and she charged guys money to have sex with him. I never did! She had videos of him doing that and she belonged in prison, not me. I had to move out of state and change my identity. She took me back and gave me a weekly allowance. I been told I'll be dead if I ever rat her and her black crack dealer boyfriend ever rat them out. Now I have a choice of 3 options, accept my new life as a homosexual slave, go the rest of my life homeless and broke, or spend the rest of my life in prison!! Oh well, my destiny has will be chosen on April 6, the day of my gay rebirth back in 2014.

Unprofessional creep.

A man with a beautiful car and a large bank account is like the equivalent of a gorgeous woman. A man with no money and no car is like the equivalent of a very ugly woman.

I was the boss of a good many high school girls at my first job, and even though I was only 1-3 years their senior, they like that authority all right. You have some pretty good stories there, but if I had to sum up the girls, I would say for those that showed any interest, on the whole they REALLY showed interest. You know, like leaning their breast into your body, or running their hands all over you. Coincidentally enough, one of them, one of my worst handy girls, was supposedly a stripper while in high school. If she wasn't, she sure seemed the type. My worst case was a girl that closed with me for only one night, as I was supposed to give her a refresher course. Oh boy, did she want to freshen up! I would say she had to be in the top 5 of looks I've seen in my whole life, even in that lousy uniform. What was her trick? You know, sometimes I think girls make a pact with the devil or something, and none of their tricks work, so the next girl in line tries a new trick, but she pulled one surely from the depths of hell. Consider, for example, my senior year in high school, one of the cheerleaders sat behind me and first day started groping my shoulders, neck and arms. Weird huh? I was so damn puzzled, what the hell brought that on (emphasis on hell)? To this day I'm not sure. She seemed to do it at first to make a football player that sat to our right jealous, but he and I talked about it, and then accused her of it, and as far as I recall, never admitted she did it for that reason, but we all laughed our heads off about it (I actually saw her taunting him once when she was doing it🤣). She kept that crap up ALL YEAR anyway, and the teacher completely ignored it. She was a pretty nice girl, and we got to talking but she never seemed like she wanted me as a BF really. So prepare yourself, like I said, this will get worse, when, the one-night girl story will unfold below.... Yes, a cheerleader groping me all year, what could be worse? Why of course, doing the opposite, but instead, always, and I mean always, she was standing literally one inch from me at all times, but never touched me. At first, I thought it was just the latina way, but I never met a latina, and I had known a few, that ever did anything like that, even if they may be more outward. But as the night dragged on, she wasn't letting up and I had to pray through two severe temptations I had, to jump her bones in some way. I finally started facing reality, she wanted it, and she wanted it BAD. One of the things that aided me not giving in, was the fact I was told she had a fiancé in the army overseas and no way I want to mess with somebody else's girl. When we closed, we were entirely alone, and there she was an inch away like always, and then I thought of a diversion to keep us both busy beyond what we had to normally do. Hilariously, this resulted in the cops coming by, while we hid underneath some tables (place was locked up) and still laying on the floor, she was still an inch away. Wow, that's dedication🤣. She was a good worker, but in more ways than one. I'll tell you, even to this day I've never met a temptation so bad than that standing that close and not touching; it's really wicked. I had to literally back away from her before I moved, for fear I would knock her down. I just never thought of asking her to back away, I guess because I just thought it was a latina thing for quite a while, and when it obviously wasn't, well I let it go on for too long to stop it, in a sense. I'm just glad she was there for only one night, because I certainly couldn't let that continue. This was so strange and completely out of the blue, I have to wonder if somebody hated my guts and this was all a setup to fire me. This is doubly so when you consider our franchise for the most part frowned on the opposite sexes closing together (getting out around midnight or even as late as 3AM). I sure wouldn't have minded closing with my GF, but she never closed anyway and did shorter part-time stints.

*sigh* I wish I could have had beautiful daughters because this means I could have slept with a *still young beautiful woman and not only leftovers and scraps or prostitute/mail order bride*.

Yep. Same.

Your in luck, I am willing to let you know how well they do on stage!!

Just wait until they get their onlyfans page

Agreed, strip clubs were never really my thing, and I've somehow always been attracted to women slightly older than me even at a young age. But when I met my current g/f of 6 years, her twin daughters were 17 (yes I said twins- fit division 2 volley ball players at that) and after getting to the know them over the last 6 years, my brain just won't let go there. Even though they are not my biological daughters, I lost the ability to look at anyone even closer to their age and think anything remotely inappropriate.

Did you get any???

Simp

@@mistersniffer6838 That was not my intention.... but yes I did! lol

@@BryanKalentek Uhm, yes, we go to the strip club to see pssy so we can decide on the color were gonna paint the living room?????? Glad you figured out what a nudy bar is for!

Why don’t you just pornhub it like a normal guy.

Lots of self control lol

And what do we need??

I think a lot of people in our society are deeply lonely and touch-starved. I don’t know how we’ll fix that, but we will need to fix it.

@@oakleavesandonions771 I think what's happened is, in laws have invaded the marital home. It's too easy for them to call everyday on different phones: landline, cellphones, etc. Then, they send emails, texts, etc. They show up unannounced, make party plans and then show up late, and basically are just too interested in "being there all the time" when they should just stay home and read a book. Books.

Well you talked to them enough to be in 3 relationships. So thats not the issue. Get a therapist. They will help you figure out why you attracted them. Because you were the main character in all 3 relationships. Not blaming you but it's unconscious why you attract cheaters. Also if you tell someone don't do this to me bc I had it done in the past- that is exactly what they will do. I don't know why but it's true. Keep past relationships zipped up tight. We grew apart is all they need to know. Bc as soon as you tell them, they will start looking for those things. Don't do it. It shouldn't take that long to figure out. Any therapist who wants to milk you for years toss em. Also look up childhood ptsd fairy on here. Lots of great advice.

they were obviously clueless.

​@@sal78salnormal well-adjusted women don't become strippers. It's not hard to imagine some of them being stuck in that lifestyle with few options.

​@derek96720 They don't want to be rescued. They don't feel trapped. She knows she has a long list of guys that "will take care of her" she has a life outside that club. She might be married if not she probably has a boyfriend or 2 she lives with or just has a lot a boyfriends. If you meet her in the club. The chance of her dating you for anything other than money (no future) are probably zero. That makes you a lucky guy. There are so many things people can do for employment now. She's got options. If you date a stripper She is gonna want you to treat here Like a sunday school girl. And that's how she'll act because she'll have her stripper life. You won't be a part of. Where everybody treats Her like a stripper. And where she is. She's never gonna be the sexy slut for you. Maybe once. She's gonna be out there doing it every night for strangers. She won't you to treat her differences though. Trust me.

Yes. And a lot of men cannot fathom that a woman has her own life: Goals, friends, family, hobbies, interests. No, she is just dreaming of you giving her the chance to be locked in your house, be your sexslave and maid .

yeah, she's not telling you the whole story

Have a 69 year old lady friend...works out an hour everyday, looks 40-45 tops. Still has the best butt I've ever seen. She could hit the stage and be a headliner.

Your hairy butt hole is God's work!😉

Agreed. I don't go to strip bars where I can't touch. Cheap feels for tips are right up my alley. Had sex with many, also.

It’s fun. One of my best friends is an older gentleman. Not only is he wise, he’s got a hilarious sense of humor. :)

​@@oakleavesandonions771 Trump is a criminal and scams like Publishers Clearing House sell lies so protect yourself from all the bad organizations out there .

and are you a real chick.@@oakleavesandonions771

She knows where her bread is buttered 😉

My house keeper always cleans and does the laundry with a smile and good attitude. My two ex wives never did.

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lol Dude, a great way to attract a lot of dancers to hang out with you is to have some food handy. Those pole dance moves burn a lot of calories, and we do a lot of them on any given night. I remember having moments with food that bordered on religious experiences lol

I looked down at my plate and said what the hell? I was hungry to lol. Just had to order another plate. That was 28 years ago in Austin Texas. @@oakleavesandonions771

I WILL GIVE YOU A TALE....

That’s kind of awesome. Like, those stories totally exist. Even young/old romantic relationships that aren’t toxic exist. I was actually thinking about doing a video on exactly that subject. I have young people in my life that I absolutely adore and very much enjoy spending time with. But I understand that they have their own life journeys to go through, and I would never want to interfere with that. Sounds like your cousin made a good friend.

Why couldn't he just find a woman his age and become good friends? Oh get it, he wants young women with super good looks. Totally understandable.

Maybe, just maybe, he found her to be an intriguing conversationalist and he had a wife. Maybe he didn't. If this had not happened she would not have had 40+ years of blissful marriage to her husband. I am in may seventies I don't find women, that interest me, willing to date me, my age or younger. They were both content with the arraignment.@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855

I've been hundreds of times over the years and the atmosphere is way safer than a regular nightclub. I've seen plenty of fights in nightclubs and beat up a dude on one occasion. At the strip club the chances of seeing somebody get a beating is way lower.

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to really appreciate the playful energy of my younger male coworkers. There’s something very comforting about being around young people. I think they help remind me that I’m not dead yet, lol.

it's a common occurrence to be kicked out by the bouncer if you decline one woman for another and the first woman finds out. lol

I used to go to Baby dolls in Euless Texas when I was 15. I could drink and party.

I'd like to hear them. It would be interesting from a guys point of view going to a club.

morbid curiosity? Same😂

Seriously I had the same thought. This is stupid.

We all got played. She seems to be good at it as most strippers are. She’s lying through her teeth though. I’m sure she accepted plenty of “Big Daddy” offers over her long tenure as a sex worker. The gig is up, fellas. She’s no different than the others like she’s trying to portray to KZfaq for clicks. Pathetic. 🤣

Yeah. I was way too young and inexperienced to know that at the time. Definitely a good PSA for all the gals out there.

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_A career in lap dancing?!_ *What?!?!*

@@floogelhornzzz4770 You attain financial freedom sooner & no fear of AI

If you don't mind me asking? What country were you born in?

@@lieugebo805 islamic Republic of Iran

@@hr5581 That's indeed as shitty as they come