4:08 waiting o hoping 5:42 perfectionism (negative self criticism) 8:04 going out in groups 11:05 geing a good friend 15:13 blunt sexual intent 17:32 friends whith negatice mindsets 20:44 mass aproching 25:58 rigid world view 29:10settling 32:12 learning techniques

Clothes are on fleek as always

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You’ve helped me accept a certain part of myself James. I appreciate you!

17:30 "Friends with negative mindsets" This one hit me like a bullet ... In my inner circle, shaming each other in a funny way is a way of life (which is very common in France as well). In my heart I always knew this was a shit mindset but I was like : "meh.. Theses guys are my oldest friends, I can't let em go, I just need to deal with it". Time to take action, to move in another city and to build myself a new tribe of positive people ! Thanks you James !

What an incredible town square. Damn that's amazing.

Me being "a 45-years old introverted engineer in Germany" sounds like a worst case scenario now

😂😂"take one for the team"

I like the format of the top ten how it's all futuristic because truly this video is the future and will be life changing to thousands. Can't believe this video is free. Epic knowledge!

Dear James, Thank you for your honest and sincere mentorship. Best, Athos.

this shit was too real 😂

Great video!

thank you so much for sharing that important gift

Thanks so much champ !!!

I wish i had know all this 30 years ago. I have made most of these mistakes, and still no better at it .

Deep and probably life changing.

Been listening to you fro several years, in addition to a number of RP Manisphere speaker. (Have vetted out and don't listen to the over-the-top negative or positive talkers.) But you brein a realy valuabe BALANCED prospective! KUDOS!!

The real KEYS to The Game guys I've learned so far to eventually Win is it's sometimes not what we know , but who we know. For occasionally it is not what we say, but what we say next and how we say it. Every so often it's not as important to be interesting, than it is to be also interested. Sometimes a guy can't make things happen, but let them happen. And it's also better to have a good wing man or wing girl to distract and disarm the obstacles. Because more than likely one of her friends are going to drag our women away because their jealous they aren't going to get laid, or their not getting the same attention, or they're bitter towards all men from what happened in their past relationship with some other guy they once knew. Plus our selected women is going to act like she's not interested when we bring up a bounce or a time bridge because she doesn't want her friends who are with her to judge her as a slut if her friends don't drag her away. Which is why I feel it's easier to attract & seduce a women when she's alone and no other stranger is around listening to what's being said. For rarely is a beautiful women alone. As cooperation is better than competition and Teamwork makes the dream work. But unfortunately most guys out in the field disagree because they believe there isn't enough to go around or they don't know how to distract and disarm the obstacles.

I love your open minded philosophy james!

That's the right guide for me (and any girls who wanna figure out the minds of guys). I wonder how many girls are trying to find advice on picking men on the wrong places...

Amazing because he's right.

Great video! What movies are there demonstrate great game?

Vigo Mortenssen teaches dating.

i really appreciate that background

OK, scenario: You recognize a girl as being not quite the best you can do. What are your thoughts on opening up the relationship or poly vs dumping? Does it still accomplish the goal of letting you continue to grow effectively, or is there some underlying problem with that like how it may effect your psyche to be with them etc...

No.9 No.9 No.9 - Beatles White Album -- got it straight away

If i could hit "UberLike" button, i would do it!

KZfaq fed me a Red Pill video once and I watched a few. I would not entertain that sort of man and see that sort of thing as damaging to men and society. Glad you mentioned it.

I wonder if your tips work with the general population at a worldwide level or if it changes between contries. My guess, many of your tips perhaps dont work in other places. I dont know. But the dont be a good friend for years waiting for something to happen was really insightful to me. Makes sense.

Yeah, James one thing I wanted to say about the "friend"/"good" guy. Well, I'm a "good guy" type and I like the way I am. But please don't call me a liar. I'm nice to a girl, because I genuinely want to be nice to her and build a relationship. I might want to get into an actual relationship with her (from the start or realizing that along the way), but then I feel the need to work on something sustainable. That's why I don't think you can say "good guys" are liars. Really only the "good guys" that just want to have sex and nothing else.

what would be a good number of daily approaches?. I do like 5, sometimes more sometimes less.

for guys with low self esteem based on income or car you drive try the jim rohn method, be more and beat the competition, you must change and not just your surroundings, so you can do some things to make up for what you dont have like a high income or nice car, you can dress better, smell better, talk better, be more excited, be funnier then the competition, have more confidence then a rich guy with a nice car, status or social circle, perception is reality to girls even if you dont have the income or car to back your self up, her subconscious mind cant tell the difference since you have a better vibe going then a rich successful guy, being more happy and more interesting that it blocks her logic into digging for what your income, status, material things are

practice makes better

hello mr jamas , i will move to study in budapest soon , how can i meet you ?

10/10

james its all about not giving a fuck xx

what if all your friends that are girls always flirt with you?? what do you do?

if I was to take a course from u guys i'd have to fly to Europe... any skype mentoring?

29:17 I got it instantly...why?...cause I'm old......but anyway good video. I have been watching too many videos of late with men constantly trashing women...I def need a more balanced approach in 2021

ive got 69 friend credits haha. great vid james

I've tried out some fucked up viewpoints just to shake it up a bit, I knew they probably wouldn't fit but there isn't one that I tried on that didn't give me insight...

suave!

Can you do a video about the famous ladies man Casanova

Unique! lol how did I manage to stumble across this :) Definitely focused and aimed at the poor "mere males" on this planet lol

this dude needs to watch resonance

How do I get over perfectionism? #askthenaturals

35:06 Salzburg is not in germany, it's in austria ;) I know it's an example, just thought I let you know Greetings from germany

Smashes the rear windows with her shoe?? Not possible.

I think I'm over complicating things. He says you can't show zero interest, or only friendly interest, you have to let them know you're attracted to them, but you also can't just blurt out "wanna fuck?" Which I've known for years, but I thought the 'middle ground' place was more complicated. It's not. And it's nice to hear that women often think "I do/maybe/don't" wanna have sex with this guy, almost right away. Sure it can change, but they think that way too. Makes me feel more comfortable with myself. And I think the middle ground is a lot easier than I was making it out to be. Make some eye contact, talk casually, be curious about them, approach with the goal of seeing if you have a connection with the other person not for their number, breathe fully, don't fidget, don't be a yes man, drop just a few compliments, make some jokes. If you can do some small physical contact that's good too. Then *if YOU vibe with them and wanna hang more*, ask for their contact.

no folks its all wrong!. Its actually PERFECT practice makes PERFECT perfect blah blah. This part wasn't really needed . I mean sure you are correct, but its like.. really? HAHA! otherwise. GREAT vid!

I hope she paid for the date and the window damn that guy must have had the best day of his life.

Didn't know that Jim Morrison teaches the art of seduction nowdays...

thanks Jesus

“Nice guys are liars and a-holes.” No we’re not. We’re just existing on a slightly different plane than you! You see, We Never go out to have sex. We go out to share good times with our fellows male and female. You’re right about the pressure and magic, though! Keep teaching that! 🇺🇸⭐️🏀💪🏾

What percentage of his success with women is due to his british/aussie accent?

Unless Aaron Rodgers thew the shoe, the story is bullshit