My dog. My dog is named Sally. ♥️🦄

I knew it Heather ! I knew your beard didn't lie about it ! ! ! Thank you to have lockleared my day on ! ! ;)

Why do we never talk about ambiverts. I’m introverted in certain circumstances but If I feel comfortable and safe I am somewhat extroverted. Thx FJ FOR ADDRESSING THIS. I’m definitely ambivert.

Hi Frank, which of the three types fits the best for you?

I dont understand functions

This is SOOO true

My INFJ friends feel this way, but I’ve noticed that it isn’t quite true. One in particular is completely confident in his perception of others but is often wrong.

@@sydneymallone5933 I know someone like this. They are always so off on their judgements. Really rude and annoying person.

@IHysm DammitimmaD yep lol

TXT,the brightest STAR in the universe it’s lonely 😔

same!

Me too i was always the extrovert i think acting classes helped with that. But i realized i didnt have good people around me so i became introverted because of it. When im around good people the extrovert comes out because I feel relaxed.

me too!! It took me some time before I realised that I subconsciously talk more or be more goofy when I know that it can be awkward otherwise and that it might help lighten the mood a bit and make people feel more comfortable, but if I am in a group with 2 or more extroverts then I leave the job to them and go back to just sitting and observing everyone. :)

Wtf ive always decribed it as a "turn on" button for extroversion

same omg, it's great to know that it's a normal thing to do

Me too….

Hahah relatable. I'll seesaw between silence and then just outpouring.

Yep

Lol I overload me with information. I'm not trying to hurt others like I hurt me 😂😂😂

Yes... I always get that..."slow down I get overwhelmed" lol

I can relate so much to that !

same here!

Same

Me too!

I think I just found my long lost twin

Right like I can relate to all three types. It crazy

I have an identity crisis everyday because I’ll wake up and wonder if I’m an infj or a wannabe infj who happens to be an enfj.

Oh....you commented my inner most feelings before I even fully recognized them.

I don't know about having a crisis over it. I kinda like it. I was always a floater and got along with everyone. But I didn't change, I just sorta "spoke their language" but said my own words and opinions. I love it. Makes me endlessly curious about people, which is probably why people think I'm highly extroverted.

LMAO me this whole video

I bought an ebook on how to be a human on Amazon lol

Cassandra M lmao

When I was little I asked my dad if there was an instruction book for life. He said the Bible. I believe in god but that wasn’t what I meant, I mean how to do the day to day living haha

@@cass8330 haha oh man

@@charlie5115 umm Chile- it’s not “sæd” as a word it’s “Tšæd” as a word (Which is why the T is capitalized) 👁👄👁, but no I’m not aware-

THIS!!! I have to straight up tell my family to back off when I come in the door. I love them, and I know they want to make small talk, but I have "small talked" all day long. It's like asking a maid to clean, or a painter to paint, or a chef to cook when they get home. I need some time to decompress. The worst part is that I feel guilty for decompressing because I know they love me, and that's why they wanted to "small talk" in the first place. I'm an INFJerk and I hate that about myself sometimes.

Lol essentially

omg thissss

I think we have a natural good capacity to adapt to people and situations.

Same

Awwe, okay I know I'm late to reply, but just do it! I'd feel important and valued if my friend came back, I would have also missed them everyday and talking it out to the fullest extent is what would make me feel that we both gave everything to keep the friendship. I hope your friendship workes out!!! God bleee

Here as an INFJ to say... she probably didn't really mind, unless you were _way_ off with your style of friendship

@@JacobGrim I luckily wasn't, I talked with her a lot. She knows how I meant some things and read my behaviour right. I'm socially awkward sometimes 😅 I'm happy ( and lucky ) she can read me so well. She's amazing 💕

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@@danika9411 That's beautiful 😊💙

OMG THIS IS ME

Me too! I feel more comfortable!

YES

I do this too. Probably seem snobby, but then make me feel comfortable around you then..?

Exactly

Raising my hand, “guilty”

Same here! hahaha

My friends call me a scholar.. But I am not

same. i dont talk alot, sometimes my friends think that i dont talk at all, but once u get me going in a convo, i become extremely talkative

I am just apologizing on beforehand, and usually, they say it is okay. Sadly sometimes I get a lot of shit for it hahah. I also either get comments, like "Why do you talk so much? or "why aren't you saying anything?" And then I am just put in this conflict of what I am supposed to do? I guess Philosophy has helped me there, to just go the Golden middle-way between two extremes as Aristotle said. I talk and respond, but also listen to what people are saying. It is apparently working so... i guess my 22 years of trial and error i have finally managed to get somewhere. I don't want to imply anything or bother you Bjorn, but are you perhaps Scandinavian, like Norwegian perhaps? It is the name you see as Bjørn is Bear in Norwegian. Another reason for why I know this is because I grew up in Norway. It might just be a coincidence hah.

I think I'm a INFJ I'm not pretty sure yet, bc i take two times the same test, it was pretty large and was a recommended for a friend who say that was trustworthy, so, I made it, two times, and the same answers, so I look up for more information and oh my surprise, the majority information I got was for the inbevert, or introvert type(I don't know how to write it, sorry, English is not my native language.) And I'm like...I CAN talk to other people perfectly I'm just...not connect, like, I can listen to you and pretend I care about in what you saying, but if there isn't a connection, I'm just pretendig listening, but, if we are closed I would talk to you about almost everything, and of course, some times I have this conversation with myself where I'm talking deep shit in my mind.

One time I was at work and I was really bored so I started dancing and I thought it was fun, asked my friend to dance and everyone stopped and asked it if was high. Normally I'm a pretty quiet person and keep to myself. People would describe me as a quiet kid in school, but then I just have a sudden need to talk at the speed of light to literally anyone or do something I absolutely would never to in a normal state of mind and sometimes I have to fight so hard to restrain myself because I know after five minutes I'll regret it so bad.

I'll randomly say like a quote from a movie. Then go back to whatever task I was doing. It's like a random burst, hiccup...thing.

Ditto

The infj I'm talking to was surprised I see the same things he does and always have. -enfp

This is exactly what I was thinking. Our base stays the same but I think these subtypes could be a sliding scale. I was introverted INTROVERTED younger but now my introversion is very low. I look like an extrovert to other types at most times. I was with an extroverted sensor for 18 years so my theory is that pushed me to use that function more. I do still need to rest and retreat sometimes though.

Correct..

Yeah I can honestly relate to that. After getting out of high school I became more extroverted.

aashna yup I agree

Shit that's true

😂😂😂

Poor Timmy.. 😔

@@TaunellE he got what was coming to him 😤

I think, Timmy is just so misunderstood...

But seriously, wtf, Timmy?

Im that way with my dog we just be having full conversations

Yes, everything you just said rings true for me also

Oh, yeah, small groups of friends - the only way to socialize! Throw in just one non-friend and I have to shut down and just listen especially when I know the person thinks less of me or likes to talk. Fine, have it.

I’ve had other MBTI people say, “But you’re so personable and friendly! I would never guess you’re INFJ.” Yeah, well, I can do that for a few hours, but then I need a day or so to recover. It’s nice to see other people turn on and off.

Same. I don't dislike people, in fact I like being around them. But hells, I need my alone time or else I'll go insane! And I definitely prefer my close circle of family and friends to acquaintances or strangers.

Same ! Commication is huge for me. But Commication in general. I need to talk to get out of my head. Or what I like to call "the battle" that goes on inside my head. The two debate teams playing ping pong with endless streams of thought. And than there's my need to commicate with really close ppl whom I love so that don't feel I'm ignoring them. They have needs too and I feel we should all be in the know of each other's needs.

JadeCeci please don't call me out like that ⚰️

hey stop it... hahahah.. on point.

😥

INFJ T+, INFJ T, INFJ T- I grade myself on a curve 😆

@@mariek.474 😂

Yes, exactly!

ANFJ (Ambivert)? 🤣

Hi I'm a social introvert with social anxiety:D

definitely! I can be social with no problems but still love my alone time more than anything

@@Psychenfj Im p sure he got that and he was just stating like a better term for it

Might want to make sure you’re taking one of the more reliable tests too, 16 personalities is not always the best source. Learning the functions is a must too.

Ambivert and introvert INFJs shouldn't be opposites... Maybe one of you is mis-typed? I'm an introverted INFJ, but I mis-typed as INTP for years because I didn't know myself well enough to answer tests accurately.

​@@justinb9612Do you recommend a reliable test? I've been wondering which test I could take to be sure of my type.

@@mongoose9851 thats my problem too. i took already 5 tests and i got 2 infjs 1 intj and 2 istjs

Wait til she finds out Hitler was also an INFJ, it will ruin her day.

So accurately stated! THIS was exactly my life experience as well🙌🙌🙌.

I relate so heavily to this!!

does anyone know how am i supposed to turn my introverted thinking , Ti or introverted intuition, Ni back on?! 😭😭 ive gotten so used to being the extrovert infj for like my whole life and like now i feel like i’ve lost..? or idk just how to activate it??

🙂💔

The only people I make definite plans with are my immediate family. Everything else is a maybe. My family made Mondays Family Day every week when I moved out because they never saw me. I go to work, home, church, and Family Day. That’s it. Haven’t been grocery shopping since March. It’s too people-y in Walmart.

Same!

This spoke to me

Feels like I wrote this about myself 😂

Alana French - haha a true introvert if I ever heard one. 🙌🏼

YES omg... especially growing up in a big loud family where I’m constantly fighting to be heard... it’s just a reflex to try to jump in, def have to work on that haha

I have the exact same!!

I am sooo guilty of this! It's just I have so many comments on what somebody is saying to me and I know I'll forget all of them by the time they finish what they're saying...

Yeah I’m guilty too 😞 I unintentionally cut people off or guess the word they were going to say next cause they were going slow. This might also be cause I have ADHD idk. Anyways I somehow found 2 introverted best friends that make me bold. :)

I wish there was a way to interrupt you in the middle of your comment because I already knew where you were going with it. :)

I would call me a middle INFJ, though that might just be my need to make everything even and balanced lol. I try not to gloat when it comes to me being smart, and I know this will make me sound full of myself, but when my teachers keep telling me I’m smart, I joke around and act like I’m confident. I’m sort of not confident, but I hope that my mask helps to make me truly a bit more confident. If I had that then I’d be pretty well off.

Wow. This is crazy, because this exactly how I am.

Painfull isnt it? Being alone, left behind, hated, despised, even if they tell u they love u and will never leave u. U just cant trust them. Not in the sense that they will understand. Not in the sense that u can put into words. The mask u put on everyday, every morning hurts u more and more. U try to take it off, but it sticks like thats the way u want the world to see u. The smile, quite, good listeners type.

@@Sweeps, you just described me word for word. It's reassuring to know there are other INFJs like this. I was going crazy thinking that there's something wrong with me, lmao

SnowAngel0303 One of us! One of us!

How funny... Im reading my own story line! I can understand you very very well.. And u know.. Wot u gonna heading towards next? Something interesting gonna come in ur life and u gonna realise Why you have done all those things in the past and wot was that all abt and everything under the universe ❤️. Happy to see such a person atleast in a random comment section

Me too. Same EXACT story. 😂

Same!!

bruh xD

Nice lol

👏👏👏

I appreciate you

😂😂

I RELATE!!

Yeah the subconcious Ni is going nuts like WTF IS HAPPENING - Whereas Fe is like EW sally is screwing everything haha

Yeah the subconcious Ni is going nuts like WTF IS HAPPENING - Whereas Fe is like EW sally is screwing everything haha

Yeah the subconcious Ni is going nuts like WTF IS HAPPENING - Whereas Fe is like EW sally is screwing everything haha

Does even an issue w a person become a THING? Is that why we get so upset? Ex: Dad dies of alcoholism...we go insane trying to figure out alcoholism? Or the emotionally unstable mind?

I love supermarket line conversations. Then I can leave!

I'm just a teenager but this is quite similar to what I imagined my future to be

Also guilty of this 😆

Guilty of filling in other people 's sentences

YES I came here to say the same 😂 always laughing at jokes before the punchline 😅

Same here

Welcome to the Club 😂😂😂😂😂 If I'm the one in your shoes and the person telling is a girl "Cringes Expected" too as male package of being INFJ 😂😂😂😂

for moi, is enlightening & condemning...lol

Because we're bored of talking about nothing.

This is so me right now 😂 #selfpartnered

The absolute truth ..

They must date INFJs, much easier

Homer Jay Simpson Good ide! Thank you 🙏 😄 Live Long and Prosper ✌

Jupp this is Me also! Feel you 👍👍👌✌

Thank you 😊 which one are you?

@@JESUSLOVESYOU219 You're welcome! I think I'm an ambivert (erring a bit more toward the introverted side). What about you?

Violet Moxley ohhh same here x

I think you can see & understand from your test results, there are percentages listed, my introvert and judging scores are almost 100 percent, 80 percent intuitive, while my thinking and feeling scores are almost the same or balanced, so sometimes my results are intj or infj 🤔🤔🤔

Thank youuu

😂❤

Same he just described me

Hehehe 😁

Oh, so guilty of jumping ahead in conversations.

Aah this jus hurts cuz I think it might be true, pff I’m still smart dafuq u guys talking about haha

Tracy Jekyll he said that and I literally turned to an invisible camera like 😬😐 haha damn! I already know, but hate to hear it coming externally as well as just internally as usual haha it’s just so hard for me to listen through a whole shpeel with ppl when I friggen get it, just get to the point! And to be fair, it’s not necessarily an act when our intuition is usually right. Even before people realize it themselves! But who has the time to unscramble that type of insight to someone who would never understand. It’s hard enough to unscramble it to myself!

have you met LiJo

That is because he plays as everyone

@@jj.jaypeg that's what us INFJ do lol

@@dotdashdotdash they once make a video together, it's on LiJo's channel

so why I am don't like how he talks? ;-;

Me too. Especially if you are thinking of doing something different and important yet they are there telling you about something you know where is really heading

I get angry with myself because i don't wait and listen. Its like i have a talk show and i know all the answers. I have great friends btw.

I have ADHD friends and they tend to do that a lot. So I think it's definitely playing into it.

Same:)

I am kinda ambivert ENFJ, and when I read the INFJ details I was like, hold on, this isn't right, why is this one accurate as well.

Lol ambivert infj w adhd here too. I've always wondered abt type correlation w adhd, cool to see anotha homie

I'm INFJ with ADHD and it often gets into collision with my traits. I'm trying to be organized but it's too much for my brain.

Bethany Gardner honestly me with my parents 😩

Me too, always ask the person yes I got that , the key points plzzz🙂

Oh my gosh! Yes! It is so annoying to me when a person goes on and on and I already got their point in the first few seconds and have my answer ready! I’m just impatiently waiting to give my answer and wish they would shut up long enough to hear it!

Yea I like bullet points.

it happens to me when my brother speaks about his minecraft's quests

I agree, I’m an INFJ & a very guarded person but, I’m open & bubbly if I trust you.

@@221BSam ditto 😊

💯

We’re interested in people and our problem isn’t social anxiety as Frank was saying, it’s the overwhelming, draining information you get from being in social situations. If we’re not overwhelmed we enjoy company. So I guess with family and close friends we already know a lot about them, how they’re likely to be feeling, this isn’t coming at us as new information to read. That’s what I’ve assumed is the difference anyway.

Yes, this, exactly. I’m super outgoing and boisterous with people I know well. But it takes forever to get to that point.

I’m the same as you. I’m a INFJ-T Heyoka Empath.

I relate so strongly to this.

Same situation with me

Ihaveachancenow

@@roisinnigcrainn7722 ialmostgaveupyesterday

@@criss3619 yousavedmylore

He has the look that's for sure. ♥️

The eyes are always killing and ressurecting me like a thousand times throughout a short ~10 min. video

Word

His eyes are eyes...? I don't get it

@@mama_5830 Do you see the emojis? I think it's supposed to mean his eyes are very expressive.

fr though. for some reason i just cant seem to trust anyone i meet, even my 'close friends'. i give them bits and pieces of my life, never the whole thing. idk why but no one seems like they would understand or care and it just makes me feel better if i dont burden other people with issues im facing. but at the same time i feel shitty if they dont check up on me or realise that something is going on, because its so easy for me to tell if someone feels a bit off. so because of that i end up wanting someone who can see under the lines and i get upset if my friends dont. totally get my expectations up(completely my fault) and get dissapointed in the end. like TF is wrong with me, dont be wishy washy, stick to one thing. you cant have both. :(

Omg this is in all honesty one of the most relatable comment I've seen out here and it does make me feel a little relieved to know I'm not the only one feeling this way :and doing stuff like that :""D

I hate it when I'm in a group, peole are talking, there's a newbie and they're being left out!! I'm just the same - have to make the stranger feel comfortable in a new situation, even if I'm in the same boat!!!

@@melaniebowesman-jones6056 YESSSSS OMG :000 wow hello xD

Thank you!! Me too but hubby has been convinced for years that he’s an introvert and I’m an extrovert because of this. Recently I said, dude you’re not an introvert and he reevaluated and came to the same conclusion as I have. I’m also glad he’s talking about the bell curve. I’m so tired of everyone thinking it’s one or the other. It’s a sliding scale and can move throughout your life.

Mood! It matters so much!!

yyyyyyyyyyyyyep!

We can adapt tho. I think when we asses the mood, we can adapt and be more extroverted.

Gotta remember that there’s 7 billion people in the world and we are all different in our own unique ways

good, its not only me, but it confuses me.

I feel a little less strange, seeing someone behave so similar to how I do!

hahahahahhaha same gurl, same!!!

Now that you mentioned it, I felt bad to the people I converse with~ 😅

Not me... I’m the one listening for 20 minutes... seriously hurry tf up like talk so slow and I have work/life to do. I’m super patient... to a point! 😏

The chameleon thing...I've been accused of not having a personality because it just started running together like a sloppy rainbow.

I agree 100% for me it depends on my mood mostly

Agreed except secretly I typically see myself as a smartest person in the room.

I agree, I can also prepare, mentally, for an event with lots of people

Yeah, I've been calling myself a chameleon for years now.

Slavomíra Nemčíková too good

I thought the same. I will definitely be using that.

At first I was thinking that responding to this was too much in the way of extraverted sensing for me to do and then I thought, “no- I must validate these beings. They are my people. And together we can take a stand.”

Same. I hate it so much, just let me live in my head please, thanks.

Slavomíra Nemčíková this is my answer to every zoom meeting I’m being asked to join......

What book did you read about INFJ?

Same!

I'm very aware of that time stamp myself BtheLightas so as a result I've been working on social fillers for when I'm completely burnt-out. My favorite social filler is laughter alongside smiling. I'm not gonna say it's easy because when I'm exhausted I feel low-energy to the point where I need to take a nap 😴 but in those moments I make sure I become the best actor I can be in order to carry my weight as an adult in a social/professional environment. Filler laughs and smiles can be used every other sentence to show that you're interested in the conversation and that you're listening. If you have any questions lmk I have alot of game when it comes to this topic.

It me

Jessica Thompson Me too!

That is the most INFJ sentence I've ever heard... I'm intrigued

@@tiaa2078 🤣🤣😉😊💖

@@sandraholding8456 💖

Bestwordseversaid

Dude, all the time! I got this bs at work right now. I can read situations so fast its like yep...i see this is going south. Someone at work is intimidated by me cuz i was the quiet hard worker that nobody saw coming. Worked my way up and this chick is pissed cuz by not kissing ass i got where i needed to be. She resorted to saying straight to our boss i was talking shit about her. Funny thing was, all my coworkers tell me im too QUIET all the time and that im pretty much doing my job and not yackin. When my boss approached me with this crap i was very confused. She kept saying i hate her and i never said anything. All i said was, it would be nice if you would do your job instead of ditching me to do it for you and you kiss the bosses rear as im doing both our jobs. She started giving me dirt looks, literally finding more ways to avoid me, and she started saying shit to my boss who caught on what she was doing. Im literally waiting for the 2nd random wtf is going on with u two. I got to a point where i went full on shutdown. Stopped doing as much and wouldnt do her stuff, started getting defiant, and rly not talk to anyone or got snarky or sarcastic, or rebelling. Yaaaa. There were alot of unfairness towards me and once i throw down i had it, i got the oh your talking smack. So, can an infj be intimidating? Some say i am and some say im just a little teddybear. Odds be in their favor upon approaching. Lol but rly tho.

@@snoozebutton23 I think that since us INFJs don't say a whole lot all the time, when we do and we have something to say that's kind of blunt, everyone acts like it's a big deal when it's really not lol

Tfs wrong with u?

exactly the same for me!

Why is everyone so deaf? Do I need to yell for people to hear me? Like screw off, I can hear whispers.

Help me. Im surrounded by loud people and it drained me.

Same, same

So relatable.

ikr !!

Same, that's why I have more extro friends

i can relate haha

You might like hanging out with a ENFJ. We're social butterflies who love being supportive. They'd try new stuff with you while also giving you space when you need it.

Tri S honestly same 😅😅

Oh god I feel this. I recently went through a rather humbling period and am realizing just how often I’m a moron. And then accepting that because perfectionism is a freaking disease

same

literally me

Felt that, I have a small group of friends but we are always going out and having fun

@@andifone2484 same here. Got a small circle of buddies that enjoys hanging out.

@@abrahambeadner7696 you sound like a dope guy

What do you mean by nurture?

​@@post-humangod2575 One's upbringing, the environment they grew up in, and how they have ended up choosing how to act in different social situations based on their life experiences. Seriously recommend you to go to CSJ's channel and watch the first 2 seasons.

@@post-humangod2575 exterior factors

@@Lucky-ed4pk give an example please.

Looks like comments containing CSJ's name won't be visible to anyone so I had to edit and abbreviate it lol. It's all good tho, he's just kinda controversial around here.

I think its important to realize though that you dont always know where its going and that no matter how confident you feel in your Ni, you owe the other person a sincere listening ear especially if you are initiating THEM to talk to YOU. Im more of an introverted infj and my cousin is more of an ambivert. If she can tell there is something wrong she'll proceed to ask me(typical infj needing to be the therapist and confidant which is absolutely fine), I'll start talking, she'll jump to conclusions, and because half the time her conclusions is actually nothing close to what im actually concerned about and because i hate being misunderstood i shut down. Then weeks later when she realizes what the actual problem was she gets mad at me for "being secretive" and "not letting her in". I've sort of decided to look for a listening ear elsewhere because being misunderstood is the bane of an infjs existence and when an infj thinks they are are right, there is no convincing them otherwise; they'll have to discover it for themselves which is why i dont try to talk over her and re explain myself when she jumps to conclusions because in her head her conclusion is absolute. I know i do this sometimes too when friends ask for advice and I've also been proved that my "hunches" are not always right. Ni works best when you actually take in all the information first. When i listen to everything that has to be said, only then am i creepily accurate at predicting what can/will happen.

If my friends needs to rant, the don’t usually need me to actually listen and I tend to zone out. If they are asking for advice, I have to force myself not to disassociate. Human interaction is not my forte. But my friends like asking for advice. It’s easier in a message because I can reread until I’ve gotten everything down and they got it all out in one go.

This is so me 😂😂 I know it’s rude to assume and I can hold myself back, so most people think I’m a good listener. But really my inner dialogue is coming up with ways to solve the other persons problems etc wondering why they can’t see the obvious. But at the same time I can understand them and put myself in their shoes and empathise. But again at the same time I just wanna go back to thinking about myself and “who cares about anyone else” but then I wanna help them but usually that’s to boost my own ego? Ahhh I just contradict myself so much 😂

i find it almost painful to listen to someone talk about what i already know

1000% yes. I don't interrupt people because I don't want to look like a know it all..i just see where it's going 5 seconds into the question and know how to tackle it. The faster i can address your concern the faster I can move onto the next concern. I always worry people get mad when I interrupt. I can't help it because I already know what you're thinking.