Hi :D

ship in europe plz 😭

What's the bottle of perfume u have

I paused the video at 7:32 to read the entire post “re:trouble getting over wife cheating” however I cannot seem to find it anywhere?

Where is the link?

Oh god ! :( poor baby

Bro that’s literally heartbreaking

That physically hurt me.

🥺

This is the only thing that made me cry out of this entire video haha, I am a huge HUGE pokemon nerd and I understand how connected you can feel to a pokemon and I feel so bad that he never got to form a connection with and raise a rowlet of his own, I still remember my first and favorite starter to this day

Not sure describing her as a human being is accurate. Calling her what she is would get flagged.

@@briansullivan5908 Just an fyi, she IS a human. She is also a mother. When we avoid calling horrific people “people” or “mothers” then we are actually not taking it seriously the severity or reality of the situation. There are evil humans and evil mothers. Let’s use the right words. Because that’s why this hurts so much.

​@@briansullivan5908 to deny that this is an evil human, only allows us to overlook other evil humans. We can't distance ourselves from this in that way... It may not be comfortable, but the source of all evil is humanity

@@sserpentchic1342 no one is denying she evil. Just not calling her human.

@@asmrtpop2676 words mean nothing deeds show who we are

We see where she got it from

@@BEEDRILL303 exactly what I said. Grief is complex, but come tf on.

@@BEEDRILL303 that’s what I was thinking when she said they had a problem with him. They’re probably mad at the bad light their family is in and can’t blame their parenting for raising a entitled piece of sh•t

my daughter was in a terribly relationship with a guy and his family never acknowledge the trauma brought into our lives because of what he did to her. I can't figure it out. My daughter is happy to let the children by him be a part of their life. I am all for it also but I get so bugged that they look at us like the bad guys. I have already forgiven them in my heart but until they actually start understanding, that forgiveness needs to be addressed, it's just formalities for now and that is sad for the children. We could all progress and enjoy each other so much more if they would just acknowledge and talk about what happened. I think that is so important. This situation for Jason is crazy and not to sound too flippant but the apple definitely didn't fall far from Brandy's family tree. I get why she has no sense of remorse or regret.

I honestly do not even understand it. Like they can’t just back off? She killed the kids!!! I am so confused. She must’ve been really abusive. From the manipulation with the cheating, “i LiVe WiTh No ReGrEtS”, using the kids as pawns that will remove her lifestyle benefits with divorce/custody/child support so she KILLS them! this woman was so abusive and actually psychotic.

Obviously though ? Why was this comment even necessary?

@@becertain.1987 they are just trying to show their sympathy. Your comment is the unnecessary one

@@becertain.1987 Because it still happens?? What a weird response…

it mainly just one parent

@@becertain.1987 are you stupid?

She is the person who raised the monster named Brandi

Thr apple usually doesn't fall far from the tree.

That probably helps explain how they raised someone sick enough to do such things, tbh. I often find it hard to understand how these families stand beside the monsters they helped make. My heart breaks for Jason. I hope he's able to heal one day, if that's even possible.

@@boondocksdragon8959yo admit that their children are monsters would be to admit fault within themselves as well. Probably unwilling to accept it.

@@jocelynlyons8250 Very true; but to deny it when she murdered two entirely innocent children, their grandchildren, is a level of evil I can't wrap my head around.

And he deserves to have a family! He will always miss his eldest kids and he may always hurt, but at least he can use that pain for love in his younger children.

I hope he's truly happy and that he remembers his kids as the wonderful little being they were, not what was done to them. He's beyond strong, he's hopeful.

And it's a very loving thing for his late children's memory. He will be pouring out his heart for children again ❤ He's a very loving father

The heart he must have to not have hurt her that day.

no cause as soon as she showed the gravestone i was literally sobbing. what happened is horrible

Especially since he didn’t divorce her immediately instead of waiting over a year and going to Reddit… this could’ve all been avoided. She cheated on him, not only would she get nothing in the divorce, but odds are she wouldn’t have gotten custody either.

that tombstone absolutely destroyed me

@@MechanicaDyadica But she manipulated him, she used the kids as pawns . You can’t even blame him, she would have killed them regardless. Let’s not victim blame

@@MechanicaDyadicathere was no way for him to know that was going to happen. he just wanted support and advice about how to handle the situation. who would have expected her to go to extreme measures over that ??

Not surprised tbh. I was cheated on for 8.5 years and people knew. People I thought were close friends of mine knew. They knew. And even after I knew and left? They said I was in the wrong. They knew.

@@asmrtpop2676 I'm so sorry...why tf would anyone do that? let alone to their closed ones. idk if they're stupid asf or just pure evil.

If he left, she would have to ask herself why she didn't. And she didn't want to do that

​@@asmrtpop2676Friendship is a lie, thank God I have non.

That part baffled me maybe she was the shady type herself to even think her excuse was reasonable to cheat EVEN if that meant with her man like wtf the worse part for me that made me want to literally puke was her forcing him to apologize to the neighbor in order for him to have his kids living with him again.

It is possible that she tried stabbing on the side of her neck (which doesn’t have as many arteries and is a little bit harder to sever), but even then, your statement holds truth. I can't tell whether she was being really passive with her suicide or was indeed trying to gain sympathy. Most likely the latter, though it could be both..

I thought the same thing

I kinda wonder if her original plan was to pin it on the kids father, similar to what Chris Watts tried. Like "he killed the kids, then he turned on me, I killed him in self-defense" so she needed some "evidence"

If you can mu*rder two kids with 81 stabs you have enough energy to do it to yourself. Lots of people claim they tried to commit s*icide or considered doing it after m*rdering someone. It’s because it seems like a mental break and it seems a little bit less bad than- you know- seeing your own two children as objects to destroy because you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Yes. She's a psychopath.

Where did you hear about that harassment btw? I wish I could send them(the ex-in-laws) a message and tell them to go fuck themselves

@@s.uleika I misunderstood the comment saying they knew about a recent harassment, like they had recent news on Jason's life.

Yea like dude, what a messed up family indeed. Do u guys hv no shame? No guilt? No sympathy at all??? I cant with some ppl sometimes

He should sue

I'm genuinely confused how Jason didn't see all of this when he was getting to know Brandi and her family, at some point they should've shown their true colors :/

@@irisnomo in most cases of abuse it can take years for someone to show their true colors to their partner, but even then I don't think anyone would have foreseen her killing the kids, especially since she didn't have any prior history of violence towards herself and others. yes she was selfish and completely shameless but there are plenty of people like that who have never killed anyone

@@theresanoelle fair point, how I wish those kids ended up with a better fate

@@irisnomo They met, got engaged, married, had a kid in a span of 5 years where abuse and manipulation can start out unnoticeable for years until the abuser feels like their victim won't leave. Then when they do try to leave, they may include to children which is what she did when she told them that daddy was kicking her out.

It must be why Brandi never had any thoughts of regrets in life.

Totally agree!!

possibly, but everyone has a conscious choice on how to react & what to do

Yup. Very much like Scott Petersons mom and Casey Anthony’s dingbat parents.

Doesn’t matter how your parents raise you…. Most people could never fathom killing their children, consequences irrelevant. You naturally love your children more than life, you don’t hide a knife in your sons room and know all night you’re going to kill your kids because you’re getting divorced. She was evil through and through regardless of her parents.

My wish for her is horrible things for eternity... nasty nasty nasty

Just saying!!!

Same. All I can think of is my 4 year old and this is making me sick I almost wish I never watched it.

I still feel bad for this one time, back when my son was a baby & fell asleep on my lap just before my sister brought me some microwaved leftover ravioli... He was a few mos old, was prone to gassy fussy spells. And he finally got comfortable enough to doze off on that sticky, hot day - you know as a mom, you gotta do whatever it takes to help your baby during their baby problems. Sometimes if you move them too soon when that sleep was hard to find in the first place, they wake up more miserable than before. So after a long day with my crabby little doll face boy, I was really hungry. I realized, all I consumed in this day was coffee & I decided to eat while he was snoozing. And a couple bites into this meal, a hot ravioli slid off my fork & landed on his bare little tummy 😭 and he started bawling immediately. It wasn't quite molten so he didn't actually have a burn on his skin, thank God, but it was still a very hot meal (also he was diagnosed with sensory processing disorder at age 2, and temperature is part of it 😢 so after learning this, his intense reaction makes so much sense. This hurt him more than it could have hurt my nephews). I still remember this like it was yesterday, and he's 6 now. Watching his face change from that restful, peaceful expression & turn straight into pain and stress. The sharpness of those cries, when your baby feels a kind of pain they've never been through. I felt like the most selfish jerk & dumb slob ever. I just hurt my baby, and it was for nothing. I felt horrible & couldn't forgive myself even though it was an accident, because of how stupid and unnecessary that injury was. Just to know that I caused him injury because of my own carelessness- well, if any of my friends came to me this upset over dropping ravioli on their baby, I would have assured them it doesn't make them a bad mom or a dumb person. But... This is MY baby, & I induced this new, really bad pain for him after a long day of pain. If that's what it feels like for a mother to accidentally drop a hot ravioli on their sleeping child, HOW the hell could a mother even begin to carry out a plan like this horrific crime I just heard? Like, on any child period - but especially the very same sweet, innocent children she carried and brought here?! I would chew my own leg off my body and drag the bleeding stump to get to him & try to save his life. And I legit can't imagine any life for myself in this world, if he's been ripped away from life by anything. It's terrifying, but also important to remember that these kind of people really are among us 😓

She is no mother… she is but a demon, a monster. A mother wouldn’t do that to her kids. She took out her rage on her poor defenseless babies! We live in hell! 😨😰

Same here, it just showed how much he loved, cared and was present as a father. I am so happy he is progressing and healing bc he out of everyone in this case, actually deserves it.

Right, it's a huge red flag if you meet someone who basically paints themselves as a mary sue and has never felt any guilt over anything. If someone tells you they're never in the wrong or at fault, run in the other direction. It's very dangerous to feel no remorse.

That jumped out at me, too.

So true. My baby cousin is 8 and he is the light of my life, I would do anything for that boy It makes me terrified that monsters like that exist out there and his mother is Terrible already! Thank God his father has custody and he's safe with him.

i know. i would defend and protect any kid i know so it’s absolutely insane you could even think of harming one of your OWN children

“Rare good men.” Men and women and equally as horrible.

@@tayiastrain3432 he’s a man, not a woman. so yes he’s “one of those rare, good men” like what is your point

@@kphoria1009 "rare" implies that most men aren't good, that's a sexist thing to say. Completely undermines the rest of the message in the original comment. It's also worth noting that we don't know what OC defines as a "Good man" and that people don't lose any actual value just because they don't fit into your arbitrary, subjective worldview.

@@person-in4ipjeez you’re pressed lol

@@person-in4ipsomeone killed their kids and this is your biggest problem? Lol

I've heard this story a couple of times from other creators. This is the first time hearing about who the victims were.

The fact she also “tried unsuccessfully to stab herself in the neck” tells me she didn’t actually want to die, she probably just wanted sympathy

@@BabyBoy_Milo yup just a cowardly attempt to make herself a victim too

I can pass out with just 2 pills, completely allergic to something in them. I can't take them at all and function in any capacity.

If you (successfully) fight through that drowsiness/tiredness it is possible to get high and hallucinate if you've taken a considerable amount of benadryl. But 1. you have to take a lot 2. it is VERY hard to fight through. I doubt Brandi knew any of that.

Right?!! She’s super casual about it like it’s nothing lol

@@leandradozier968 as someone from missouri, this kind of thing becomes routine as a rain storm. Its really not a big deal until it is.

@@treemarie213100 I’m from Kansas so I get it

such midwestern mentality. we love to see it

I slept through one where a neighbor's home was destroyed. I woke up to my family blowing up my phone. When you live in a prone area you realize its pointless to stay afraid. Im glad i was asleep.

I wonder how she feels knowing now that Jason has moved on and have other kids.

@@nafeesaumar2889I hope she knows

Oh she most definitely manipulated them. Also the apple doesn't fall far from the tree usually. The parents are probably crazy.

Cool no one cares

Winfo at my school was about a month ago! I hope you have a good time

Enjoy your evening friend🎉

aw thats so nice! have fun :)

awww have fun and be safe :)

Also, I spent most of my childhood in Indiana, and so this feels particularly close to home for me. (Same with the issues with the in-laws after such a massive crisis, unfortunately. Sigh.)

The way he talks about always taking advantage of special moments with your kids because you never know what the future will bring is SO close to home for me!! Also, the part about never leaving a loved one without saying you love them: I have an old friend who once got into a huge fight with her mom, and before her mom drove away she screamed "I hate you!" at her mom. Her mom was killed by a drunk driver shortly after that, and now my friend has to live the rest of her life knowing that the last words her mom heard from her were "I hate you." I can't even imagine, and hope I never have to. But I guess my point is that as rare as it is, stuff like that actually does happen IRL, and so we should all try to remember that.

Me too

She also did not hit them 40 and 41 times. That is part of the old playground rhyme about her, but it is not accurate. Andrew Borden was struck 10 times and Abby Borden was hit approximately 20.

So glad I'm not the only one bothered by this inaccuracy.

Yeah buuut she was acquitted on the grounds of the jury "not believing women were capable of such levels of violence." Not saying you're wrong, just that it's certainly a curious and interesting case

​@@mylastduchess9998video maker has just been listening to the kids rhyme instead of doing research on it by the looks of it /:

​@@low-key5512There was also no evidence that she did it. It's not like she only got acquitted because she was female. 🙄

My moms friend had a girlfriend who he tried to break up with and she stabbed him in the back. While in the hospital from said stab wound he proposed to her. They aren’t together anymore but that was weird

Fuck, I am sorry for your loss, wish justice gets to him in whatever way necessary.

May I ask… I hope I’m not being rude… why it was considered self-defense? As that can be a hard defense to make especially dependent on the stage, especially with a weapon that isn’t a gun. I’m sorry for your loss, no matter what happened. That’s inevitably painful & confusing & we don’t want to accept the culpability of the person we love. My uncle murdered my grandparents with whom I was very close, as they lived on 20 minutes away from my childhood home, the act occurring in their home. He never showed signs of mental illness before but it turned out he was in severe psychosis, totally detached from reality, seeing & talking to non-entities. He realized what he’d done, tried to end his own life, & called the police to report what he’d done- on the recorded call he was still talking to entities not there. À young rookie cop (23 y/o) got afraid & shot him dead even though was unarmed & was surrendering while bleeding out himself. He hadn’t realized what he was doing was wrong at the time he did it- he thought he was saving them & then could revive them via something gruesome he’d read about in a book, something I won’t repeat. I have grown up hating that officer - though I think it was better that he didn’t survive - it I still blamed the officer. I still love him & forgive him too & I wonder if I’m just in denial or at least to some degree. But it’s much better than being angry at & hating him. It’s very confusing when it’s loved ones k in my case it was life’s ones on both sides. It ruined my childhood & destroyed my family for over a decade, still affecting us immensely of course, even though it’s been 18 years. I suggest you go into therapy ASAP & stay away from TC. I turned to TC, as did my sisters, as a trauma response, trying to figure out what could have happened, what exactly was going on in his psyche. I shouldn’t even be watching it now as it’s ultimately NOT HELPFUL. It’s almost a way of reliving the trauma so I recommend you turn off the TC videos & go talk to a professional as waiting to deal with trauma makes it SO MUCH WORSE LATER, even more difficult to deal with & heal from (even though there’s no cure, there is indeed healing). If you have family around you who is supportive, then lean on them. I didn’t have that. I had a family suffering all at once but separately, like we were all on the same ocean but in different lifeboats, attempting not to drown. My father became absolutely absent, my mother abusive & out of her mind, even taking me to the crime scene / the house while she cleaned it as she herself NEVER should have done. However, her 11 y/o shouldn’t have been her support system. Very scarring. Anyway I’m babbling about myself: I’m sorry: I know you are going through a great deal right now: so not to block the grieving process, I again recommend you see a therapist ASAP, use the support system you have, talk about it, & get OFF true crime content please!!!! It’s re-traumatizing yourself; you’re doing it unconsciously. I need to click off too & shut up. Take care of yourself. You’re not alone in your pain & confusion (I imagine) as well as your anger & resentment. Be gentle to yourself, more than anything else. Be patient with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Validate your feelings but don’t let yourself LIVE in them. Healing is not inconsiderate to the person you’ve lost; he’d want you to heal & take care of yourself. Remind yourself that so you don’t feel guilty if you are ever laughing or feeling better momentarily or consistently more over time. I felt like that me betraying my family - as well as others I’ve lost tragically. But no, they wouldn’t want that. Hold onto happy memories & the happiness you experience from now on. Life is too short, too full of suffering already. All we can do is wade through the pain to take reprieve in the instances of happiness so we don’t drown. Last time, get off TC content or you might end up like me “trauma dumping” on a YT comment under a TC video during which you babble incessantly so that no one will read it anyway. Then feel embarrassed about it later but not remember precisely where you posted it. Story of my CPTSD life on the internet with TC content.

Got off on self defense.... Stop lying to yourself your cousin wasn't fully a victim

@@kastynm.9004 Stop assuming you know the truth, people with money and power can make the law bend to their benefit.

​@@a.evelyn5498 Hey, I read all of this. The lack of formatting made it a little tough but hearing your perspective was worth it. I think your heart is in the right place and I definitely feel for you as someone from an abusive childhood household trying to heal as well. The lifeboat metaphor reminded me of Bojack Horseman, you might like it. The episode Free Churro is a masterpiece, "All three of us were drowning, and we didn't know how to save each other, but there was an understanding that we were all drowning together." The whole show is like 'it may not be as good as therapy but it sure will get you thinking about life and trauma while also making you laugh too'

no literally i was on the verge of tearing up

Omg i adore lazy sooo much

Bless you. I’m sorry that happened to you and your brother. I’m also glad you were then raised by caring people. 💛

How awful to know even someone like that.