The Root Cause of Carelessness

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Joseph Tan

Joseph Tan

11 жыл бұрын

Alertness is being aware of what is taking place around me so I can have the right responses. The reason why someone can be careless is not that he does not pay attention but he is paying too much attention to himself until he neglects the "signals" of what is going on around him! The root cause of carelessness is not an inability to perform but rather an unwillingness to be alert.

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@that1828
@that1828 2 жыл бұрын
This is so true before lockdown I was a bit careless and I would make a few careless mistakes in exams and I would not know what was best to do in a situation. During and after lockdown it became even worse because I was bored and did nothing and I reached a point where I couldn't do simple tasks.
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@deborahjordahl9040
@deborahjordahl9040 10 ай бұрын
But the benefit of the lock down is that you became aware that you were unaware. I think lockdowns opened a lot of people eyes to the inner work that needs to be done. At least that’s what I noticed.
@rupeshpatel232297
@rupeshpatel232297 3 жыл бұрын
Carelessness comes from being lazy and alertness will bring you some relief but when you miss the point on some cases your memory is only thing that can help you get that back on
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@Jacdagirl94414
@Jacdagirl94414 2 жыл бұрын
I always make careless mistake at work. You mentioned that being bored at work lead to mistake. How to stay motivated in a job you don't really like.
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
You should consider taking an assessment to discover your area of strengths. Then you may want to discuss with your boss how to tweak your job description to fit with your personal strengths.
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@princessdiannacagas6905
@princessdiannacagas6905 7 ай бұрын
I watched this because .....omg my carelessness is too much too handle been suffering from this for years.....like nowadays it gets worse that i forgot some simple things like forgetting to close the door, forgetting to get the keys from the outside
@naomit.s7152
@naomit.s7152 Жыл бұрын
I am in my first year of training as a lawyer here in South Africa. For the past few months, I have been making a lot of mistakes. Recently, the mistakes have become more frequent and even more embarrassing. All of these mistakes are a result of carelessness. As embarassing as it is to admit it, it is the truth. I hope I can develop the alertness to overcome the carelessness.
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting Жыл бұрын
I am encouraged by your sense of self-awareness!
@wavokiaado
@wavokiaado 2 жыл бұрын
I'm the most careless person I know. I don't take things or responsibilities seriously and it hurts me a lot and people around me. I dont know how to change myself.
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
Do you have a trusted person (teacher, parent, friend or relative) who knows you well who can provide honest feedback? Change begins with a keen sense of self-awareness.
@wavokiaado
@wavokiaado 2 жыл бұрын
@@goodmondayconsulting yes. My husband. The most wise, caring , honest person I know. Who bares with me. Has so much patience for me. Teaches me, helps me... but I just dont get it. Nothing seems to effect me. I'm afraid I'm destroying everything. Even my kids. I dont go out or spend money on shopping or anything. I'm just so irresponsible.
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
@@wavokiaado I have a TikTok channel. Perhaps the following video may help. Do not be too hard on yourself, your desire to change by itself is super commendable. vm.tiktok.com/TTPdSKxovk/
@wavokiaado
@wavokiaado 2 жыл бұрын
@@goodmondayconsulting anything other than tiktok? I dont use tiktok.
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@diamondbackdtb
@diamondbackdtb 10 ай бұрын
I have been clumsy at work lately for some reason and its getting me heat from the higher ups. I like hearing that alertness to need is opposite of boredom.
@MontserratIsabella
@MontserratIsabella 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like he was having a go at me Needed that
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@user-en5ze1iq8z
@user-en5ze1iq8z 22 күн бұрын
The amount of resources and time wasted in solving problems that my carelessness caused is enough to establish someone, thanks to me💔. All you’ve said is the truth, I want to change
@dannybenhur6123
@dannybenhur6123 3 жыл бұрын
This video is a masterpiece, and deserves to have more views...
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@lazypawtato8701
@lazypawtato8701 2 жыл бұрын
No wonder, I always get careless in my exams. I really don't know what is wrong when I always double check everything and I can't find any wrong until my classmates tells me that something is wrong.
@malektlili4322
@malektlili4322 7 ай бұрын
It's been 11 years Thank u for these 2 minutes of such a good video
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 7 ай бұрын
You're welcome. Yes, I am surprised that after 11 years, the message still helps.
@Creativeifi
@Creativeifi Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. I appreciate it.
@rustcohle57
@rustcohle57 Жыл бұрын
This was the exact type of video I needed! Short, Crisp, straight to the point and a no nonsense one 💯 Thank you so much, Mr. Tan. This really helped me! 🙏
@msgmamom7625
@msgmamom7625 3 жыл бұрын
I am Glad that i searched for carelessness . This channel is filled with insight..which is helpfull to humankind..
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@SK-tk6bi
@SK-tk6bi Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. Nice video.
@VoiVoiVol-qe7pw
@VoiVoiVol-qe7pw 7 ай бұрын
That's a very insightful perspective! Thanks!
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 7 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@so_dumbshu
@so_dumbshu Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this.
@user-yk5xu8gr1e
@user-yk5xu8gr1e 5 ай бұрын
Why do some people think too much about themselves though? Do you think they are self conscious is any way?
@JohnnyRecently
@JohnnyRecently 7 жыл бұрын
Word to the wise...Now, I must be alert.
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@GeorgeCopperfield
@GeorgeCopperfield 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@POPULARKEY
@POPULARKEY 7 ай бұрын
God bless you❤
@krishanmenon420
@krishanmenon420 2 жыл бұрын
Wow very wise words
@thefrustratedboyy
@thefrustratedboyy 3 жыл бұрын
Very nice and informative I realized this after along time in my life after a couple of failures which changed my life
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@nayrbsworld3048
@nayrbsworld3048 2 жыл бұрын
thanks Sir. from Philippines
@missfit8121
@missfit8121 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I could like this video thousand times
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@chrisp986
@chrisp986 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this
@goodmondayconsulting
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@bethelakinyemi6978
@bethelakinyemi6978 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for htis advice
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 9 ай бұрын
Glad to be of help.
@obednyakeya1959
@obednyakeya1959 5 жыл бұрын
bless you
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@popoolos478
@popoolos478 2 жыл бұрын
thank u!
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@RakeshKumar-hn8cc
@RakeshKumar-hn8cc Жыл бұрын
I'm careless and do not want to do anything. I feel not to use my brain bcoz I think I'm not intersred or I'm bored of it. I started lacking my studies and still not doing well in it. I hope one day I would how to overcome it, by building alertness and problem solving thinking. Thanks, Mr. Tan for your guidance. :)
@dheepica3893
@dheepica3893 Ай бұрын
Solution pls
@abhiram-lt9wo
@abhiram-lt9wo 3 жыл бұрын
Wow simple solution of my years of problems
@goodmondayconsulting
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@FunnyearBrown
@FunnyearBrown 3 жыл бұрын
Vary mindful and deeply thinking points and I absolutely agree with you!
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@lionf7224
@lionf7224 11 ай бұрын
Important
@Bfrtyl
@Bfrtyl Жыл бұрын
I'm a school student and we are having test in school but because of my carelessness I woke up late today and didn't go to school. I want to be careful and attentive in my life what can I do to not become a lazy and careless person.
@arthidayatullah
@arthidayatullah 5 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the 2:57 talk!
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@amylau2569
@amylau2569 2 жыл бұрын
I finally understand why am I so careless at work I think too much about myself and my problems This cause me to be unaware of what I'm doing and what's going on around me How to practice to be alert and not think too much?
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
One practical way is ask questions and understand where people are coming from. Questions like "Tell me more" or "What do you think?" can help you gain a wider perspective. A healthy dose of humility and openness helps much!
@dramaticV7
@dramaticV7 7 ай бұрын
I'm in a very responsible position .but I can't avoid carelessness. I feel like carelessness has born with me now I'm 21 and I'm still having it. I was a top scorer in my school days even the few mistakes I made are all careless mistakes. I have social anxiety and low self esteem because of this. I can't find a solution till now. I just don't want to harm anyone because of my carelessness. It's killing me
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 7 ай бұрын
You are not born with carelessness. Glad to hear that you are a responsible person - perhaps what you may need is a certain life clarity, a renewed focus on what's important. That in itself may indirectly moderate the "carelessness tendency."
@user-yk5xu8gr1e
@user-yk5xu8gr1e 5 ай бұрын
Check for ADHD....this is exactly what happens in cases like yours
@sahilsharma9385
@sahilsharma9385 3 жыл бұрын
Most underrated video .
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 3 жыл бұрын
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@laupeter4594
@laupeter4594 Жыл бұрын
Actually carelessness seems to occur more often as the digital age sets in because we have to work our way around the system instead of working to create the system. The IT system builds in a lot of hidden traps in admin management
@lemlemberhe149
@lemlemberhe149 10 ай бұрын
GBU BRO
@akshatsrivastava2812
@akshatsrivastava2812 2 жыл бұрын
I was wondering about it for a while and pondering the question what's the initial of it and where does it come from! This video was so relatable to what i was looking for
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@ctrey8395
@ctrey8395 3 жыл бұрын
Everywhere I go it seems everybody is careless nobody even speaks. Yesterday at work these two guys that never speak came to my work area and took our work cart and I stood there just waiting. To see if they were going to say something well, I ended up asking what they had going on the other guy he was with was just grinning. The guy said they needed a cart to transport and they were going to use ours I like how they tried to just big boy me and the other guy I was with.And today some white guy asked for a ride to the store on our lunch break. This man got a hurricane beer 24 fluid oz took the whole break to drink it he gone throw the damn beer under my car.
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@w4g6
@w4g6 3 жыл бұрын
If I invent something that changes the way humans live i will refer back to you good sir
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@user-yk5xu8gr1e
@user-yk5xu8gr1e 5 ай бұрын
What are your thoughts on that this might be a case of ADHD
@infj_.
@infj_. Ай бұрын
Maybe I think yes, if it's happening often and often.. just like me😭
@someonenobody973
@someonenobody973 3 ай бұрын
I’m careless about my things I lost my belongings now and then what should I do?
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 3 ай бұрын
For the things that you normally lose, have you thought of creating areas in your home where certain things are always placed there? In other words, when there is a place for everything, then everything will be in place.
@infj_.
@infj_. Ай бұрын
I also keep losing my stuffs, i hate my mind.. i even get forget, what just i did like every minute.
@touchoffairy9975
@touchoffairy9975 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so careless am I mentally ill
@imk03
@imk03 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing point's hatsoff👏👏❤️ so relatable to me..
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@solomonchabungbam2825
@solomonchabungbam2825 4 жыл бұрын
I am a tenth grade student .. I am really careless and it's starting to affect my grades.. I don't know what to do
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 4 жыл бұрын
Is there a teacher you can trust and talk to who knows you well?
@solomonchabungbam2825
@solomonchabungbam2825 4 жыл бұрын
@@goodmondayconsulting yes sir
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 4 жыл бұрын
Begin an honest conversation and be open to feedback. This is the first step to self-awareness and improvement.
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@Coldfront-sg3tt
@Coldfront-sg3tt 2 жыл бұрын
God sent me here
@yousraadly7341
@yousraadly7341 3 жыл бұрын
That wont matter a bit if it from others majority of people are no good/usefull for oneself even if they care on maximum volume. But iwouldnt mind it if myself drags me to troubles it would literally break me easily & thanks to heavens so far myself after heaven is my best friend/support system. ☺😘
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@yousraadly7341
@yousraadly7341 2 жыл бұрын
@@goodmondayconsulting you are welcome but idont use tictok sorry and thanks againg for helpfull clips.
@nirajangurung5831
@nirajangurung5831 3 жыл бұрын
I am also careless and lazy🙂😌
@goodmondayconsulting
@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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@catbilota2492
@catbilota2492 2 жыл бұрын
Tik tok is banned in my country
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@goodmondayconsulting 2 жыл бұрын
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