did he take out a loan for shan! GEEBUS!!! lol

@@AG-hc1swthey started out as friends with benefits so their entire relationship structure began differently.

this is why men make me sick because they will pay to max for some women and just do the minimum for others this is why this whole conversation about men not paying for dates is stupid, MEN FIND THE MONEY WHEN THEY WANT U PERIOD. idk i would feel icked by knowing my man did this

@@newworldlord643you find it stupid that men treat each individual woman differently and won't shell out the same for each one, yet your solution isn't to remove the obligation for me to shell out but to standardize it unilaterally.

@@newworldlord643you're weird

She’s the wife… she won the contract

That’s the vibe l got too … but good for her for not settling and taking herself out of the build-a-man cycle

I didnt get that from the interaction tbh. Maybe y’all get a vibe that I didnt

She's talking about ending a 2 & a half relationship with someone else, not Jared.

What’s it called?

Jared just matches the ideal archetype. The ladies come to HIM. Shannon pursued him. He was born with good genetics. Other men can work incredibly hard, go to school, sacrifice, earn multiple degrees, be good people...and they will never be able to match what a genetically gifted guy with a good mouthpiece can do in terms of women. Luckily these ladies aren't a match for me anyway...but in general...his persona of rapper & model goes a long way. Not surprised at all.

​@@blueingreen1717Is Jared a model as well? Didn't know that.

every man loves beautiful women

What do u define as high-quality options?

@@themandinkafamily Judging from their sentence. Fine looking women who may be available to only rich folk, assumedly?

This is a good video idea that I think will help a lot of people I know you didn’t ask the audience (me lol) , but what helped me get out of my head about it is to stop viewing attraction or desirability on a 1-10 scale. If you see yourself as a ‘7’, you’re going to get nervous any time an 8 or 9 walks past your partner. This is an incredibly stressful way to live life. Instead, think of it as a simple yes/no. You’re a yes for your partner. As long as you’re on the ‘yes’ side, you can focus on building other aspects of your relationship that will get you closer to each other than any physical improvement could do.

@@victorias5272 agreed, I view it in terms of “types” either you’re someone’s type or you’re not lol

I guess you have to make yourself comfortable first. Is that what you want? Is the person worth it? Do you have good communication? Can you feel comfortable living your life with someone people may openly desire? Do you feel secure enough for that? Etc

Ima park right here, will be back

Shan yes.

Why is that? He's with you now, right?

Lol after years and 2 babies, you probably won’t care too much.

My ex “forgot” to tell me one of my newly made friend was his long term ex…. I found it out from another friend 😂 he was a weirdo!

The rest of the video is on the other channel

Yeah I swear she used to be prettier but now she looks like every other IG girl since all the work

Plastic surgery

Wigs

Girl it’s not that serious

@@chloecat9095 actually it is lol…I’m actually speaking from experience lol. After my ex cheated on me I left him, and several months later a “random” girl started following me. She looks A LOT like me (he had a type for sure!), we instantly hit it off became friends and much later I found she actually targeted me. She knew I was my exes ex-gf and didn’t say a damn thing! Very awkward indeed and certainly something I feel she should’ve mentioned FULLY knowing who I was. My ex is a micro influencer who used to post a lot about us before the break up so she watched ALL of it and then tried to befriend me. Weird AF and it’s definitely serious…ly CREEPY! She dated him before I did. He actually had told me about this girl in England who he almost married before me! He tried to go back to her after me lol On the other side I have another ex who is an actual influencer not micro and if his ex wife wanted to collab with me I would turn it down! And I would definitely let her know I almost married her ex husband. This industry is super close! Everyone knows each other and it’s very easy to get awkward quick!

@@sunsetfromvenusyou're the common denominator. You're the one feeling creeped out and uncomfortable. You might be right that those girls were purposefully being stalkers and weird but for you to suggest that's the only reason is kinda telling.

She’s light skin

Shan and Qimmah have different attitudes towards money. Before Shan met Jared, she dated a millionaire and realised that a man making a lot of money wasn't a priority for in a partner for her. She had other priorities and a good sex life was one of them. For Qimmah, a man making a lot of money seems to be more of a priority for her.

Because religious and capitalist indoctrination is promoting jealousy, envy, and destructive competition as a means to capitalise on our fears of missing out and fear of isolation. And it has gone on for milennia.

I'm glad someone said it...because that's exactly what I heard.

Maybe her career is bringing her the most happiness, can’t blame her for it. I dont think having children will make me happy, and maybe she feels the same. It’s her life and she should focus on what’s making her happy.. you are only young and pretty for so long. trust me, that’s how most men think.. they just think about their happiness first.

@@Girlwithapurse03 and so do women. That's universal it's not a man thing. And that's fine ppl are welcome to die alone with no kids and husband.

Exactly. Well said

@@Girlwithapurse03 qimmah is an outlier though imo, with qimmah's natural genetics and with how much she works out at her frequency she will be very attractive well into her late 40s maybe even 50s, she can easily maintain her OF subscribers and IG thirst followers well into the next decade, so her career is not a problem, I guess she will have to decide when shes had enough fun and made enough money to want to actually settle down

It wasn’t a recent connection

⁠@@xnaturalbeautyxQhama recalled that when she was with Jared she said to herself she’ll be 30 soon, and she’s 29 now right. So basically Shannon was sharing Jared with Qhama. Even though they have a kid no jealousy at all it seems. She’s even comfortable with her on the pod, Qhama is speaking like she expected her relationship with Jared to become serious long term.

@@xnaturalbeautyx She just turned 29 and came out of a 2 year relationship with Jared?

@@Alexander07211 I thought she was talking about someone else not Jared

@@Joshua-re3xw Shannon: do you know we’re connected in a unique way. Through Jared.

It's excessive. Every post is mostly being half naked and having fake body parts, but you keep it real. Those post accent the surgeries and the unnecessary work that done. Looks distasteful at times. Let' see if she's still doing that at 30,

😂