Margarita, can you plz do a post/podcast about how to raise kids so that they will have normal attachments to their future partner. ❤ Thank you 🌹

6. Grouch (Nagger) 5.Ms Convinient (the why should i?) 4.Pick me (i do what they/he want) 3.Hot girl (transactional, in own her timeline, know what she wants ) 2. Ride or Die/Team mate (respects partner , smart, she is there in the unit) 1.Her- the Queen (free, knows how to n make herself happy, taking all the juice of this world 😅 you are enegmatic, incredible, black cat, not desperate, gives energetic value, boundaries, joy etc.

I swear you are changing my whole outlook on life. I used to be very lonely even in my relationship and feeling like I’m not enough for him for years. But it all changed after weeks of listening to your videos. Now I find joy in being alone. Seeing myself as a powerful feminine woman is such a special and comforting place to be in, I’m anxiety free for the first time in my life. Thank you for being the mother I never had, as a 21 year old with anxious avoidant attachment style, I totally needed this. I finally feel like I’m in my essence and others can feel it too, you literally changed my life. I started as a people pleaser and now that I don’t need that validation, I’m finally free.❤

Virgo mother has posted♥️♥️ You deserve a million subscribers I swear you transform the way I think and act in a span of couple videos

Interesting video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

Currently am caught in between the I don’t need it, Hot girl, grouch and Queen. It just might depend on my hormones and cycle honestly 😅

I’m resonating with number 1, At age 46 (level 46) My children are grown up, one left home, Im divorced and single, Running a successful business, I work the hours/days I choose, I have a wonderful social life and also have strong boundaries in relation to my solitude. I avoid drama and can’t accept elephants in the room, I don’t have high expectations however I have requirements in my professional and personal life and if those needs can’t be met then I seek higher guidance and often solutions revel themselves. I’m a fiery passionate person, I need to feel things, I can’t repress my emotions and we shouldn’t have to, Being grounded, responding instead of reacting is a super power it’s a beautiful way to express ourselves. Some might find it confusing or it may make them feel uncomfortable, That is because when we embody our natural state of feminine energy we become a mirror shining a light on what is hidden, We disarm negativity. Embracing who we are and allowing our light to shine is such a luxurious feeling 🥰✨🙏

Margarita honey, you don’t know how much I love you . The way you talk , the words you use , above all your knowledge, wisdom and perceptive . Don’t change , there can only be ONE YOU

absolutely love all your content. The way I LAUGHED when you mentioned the dog barking and the working two jobs to support the bf with the garage band LOL. you are simply the best. Love you Margarita!!

Awwwwww so many videos these days. So grateful ❤

I freakin love you 😂 .....if i ever make it to Australia im looking u up for a tea time lol ur the best! Have a great day ❤

I see the “I don’t care” woman in myself, simply because you cannot force anyone into a relationship with you. To some extent, having a relationship with someone is not only up to me, so I can’t hinge any huge feelings on something I genuinely can’t fully control. I think it’s important to admit that. It might be insanely important for me to have a partner, and I also might never get one. To keep my sanity, the importance must lower in some way.

I feel like I’m the ride or die but without a partner.. guys can feel that I am almost everything they ever wanted and then they get scared.. basically I function as “the hot girl” but when im alone, which is 95% of the time, I’m her. When I’m with anyone I like I feel like they don’t see the real me.

So much clarity in this! Thank you

Can I just say how much I freakin love you lol. I’ve been silently watching your videos, I purchased your book through Audible (and yes I still plan on buying the hard copy so I can make notes inside). BUT SIS!!! You always come with the tea, the RIGHT tea and I love it💕

The intro though 😭✨🎀

I absolutely love this! Thank you!!

Amazing as always, thank you 🙏

Love your work, Margarita.

Margarita!! Love this video, probably my favorite. Thank you ❤

I love this sm, you articulated ideas I’ve discussed with friends so nice to hear someone else saying it ❤️❤️

I LOVE your energy and your style! New sub ❤

Thank you 🫶🏽This video really validated the light towards I'm gravitating to, I hope all of us get to " become her" 🙌🏽 for context I'm a ride or die teammate I recently broke up with ex who was a grouch. I was mesmerised by her confidence because I had just come out of an abusive relationship with a man. I really acted like a pick me for her for 2 years (I'm a bi woman).

Dear Margarita, I love your content ❤ Im reading your book and it gives me so much peace and wisdom- THANK YOU for following your souls calling and sharing it with the world ❤

I love listening to podcasts that push me to be my best self and to live to my highest level! Can't wait to read your book! Thanks Margarita!

Thank you Margarita ❤

Perfection, dear Margarita!!!!! 🥇🎀🌟

One of my favourite videos!!! Something I am going to be working towards.. Thank you, you Queen ❤

This is the most awesome of all your videos. Thank you for all the time and love you put into your work.

I first thought i was number 4, but im between 4 and 3, and wanting to get to 2. 🙏 thank you ☀️❤️

This was so very well explained and easy to understand, thank you Margarita ❤❤

Margarita, great video! Authentic, very structured, with a clear vision what you want to convey

Thank you! Great information!

I just went and picked up your book from kmart and can’t wait to read it 😍

I am stuck between 2 and 1, thanks for this wonderful video, its really so insightful and deep and thanks for the tips on gow to become "Her" ❤

Thank You🌱

Really enjoyed your video !! For me I realized that being ''her'' is easier when I am in a safe space, aka at home with no one seeing me/her. One of the biggest challenge for me is to stay true to myself even in public !

I loved your analysis! I resonate with the characteristics of each category!❤

Incredible video with high value knowledge thank you Queen ❤

Margarita, I simply love you and your book ❤ warmest greetings and a big Thank you for your work from germany ✨🌺

Liked this one very much. Thank you, señorita Nazarenko :)

Lisanını bilemedig halde İzlemekten yorulmadım ..Margarita Muhteşem Annesiniz

Margarita, you are absolutely wise woman in the most feminine way! The way you put it all into structure, into words is amazing! Thank you for sharing your mindwork ❤

I'm constantly switching between 2 and 1, on bad days I fall into 3. But I'm working on becoming her, slowly but surely 😌

Im 18 and being type 2/1 and im so excited for further journey!!

Thank you ❤️ you’re a God send

I love you so much Margarita! You're my soul sister ❤ I'm stuck between 2 and 3 and once in a blue moon I feel like ME! A.k.a. HER! So I'm right there with you beautiful! And I'm along for the ride to truly find that No. 1 rank in the essence of my true amazing feminine energy flowwwwww girl

Golden ✨✨✨✨ I understand completely

You’re a gem💕

thank you so much

I,at 35, found out how much I act like my mother that I used to looove sooo much and deeply,but has done me sooo wrong and has hurt me very much in my childhood up until 19,when I moved out. After loving her sooo much,and needing her deeply but didn't find that love and care in her,I started to resent her in my teens and I started to feel sorry for my dad,and she saw me as her enemy. I ended up marrying at 20 w a man that is HER in all the ways and I started to see that I was acting like her, because even though I judged her, she still is my feminine role model in life, without realising. I now realised that even if I cut down one of my arms,no one would care or feel sorry for me. I used to shout and cry, because that's what she would have done if she felt unseen,but I now know that no one cares and bother to be better just so I won't be feeling hurt. I have to know who I am all the time and do things because I want to and how I want,not because the other person would think different about me if I do things in order for them to feel comfortable. Sorry for my english, is not my native language.

Thanks

So cool! I was Ms Convenient throughout most of my twenties and then a Pick Me throughout my long term relationship which in my head i thought i was a ride or die. That relationship ended. I am now in my hot girl era and have been for months. It is very fun here but I can def see myself getting stuck here which I do not want--and I can feel myself getting sad and longing. I am 34 and ultimately I want to get married so I am trying to work on that at the moment. Thank you so much for this!

Love you Margarita!! If some day I have a daughter she will have your name!! ❤❤❤ thanks for your wisdom!!

I'm 1 & 2. I do for the family unit, but squeeze every bit of joy in life 😊❤

Several last months, i became this number 5 girl. I know i want a relationship, but the fear and trauma keep me from my authenticity. And now i'm her.

One of your bests😘

I am a 2 and know that for sure if I want to be a 1 I need to ignore the societal pressures of what a women should be ! Defo working on this

I’m not a psychologist but I would be so bold to say that women will jump either to 3 (hot girl) or 4 (pick-me) depending on their attachment style (avoidant and anxious, respectively). As a recovering anxiously attached person, I feel I have graduated from a 4 to a 2 as I get more secure, and am working to integrate fully into my ultra magnetic 1. I almost feel like 2s could be split into 2 categories - one for the avoidant and one for the anxious, and represent a partially integrated version of self. The 2 you described sounds like a former anxious attachment, and perhaps there’s another fragment for the previous hot girl.

Great video

I still love watching your videos, not that I'm in a relationship now or sth like that😅 but I want to become "her" as well, life has too much to offer to be in a desperate state of wishing and hoping all the time.

You've fixed me mother 🙌🏻

You are soooo amazing !!!

I'm so happy! Not knowing exactly where you were going I for sure thought I was pick me girl, but I am definitely more of a 2! Definitely team mate, loyal, but know my worth! Shooting for that #1 spot! 😎

Thanks for the good content. :)

amazing.

my best channel ❤

Margo❤ it just 22nd extand the course!!🙏🏻

6. The Grouch/the Nag Woman -Ask yourself how can you humanely be always right? 5. Why Should I? Indifferent Woman -Work on authenticity : your own wants and needs 4. The Pick Me -Do not think what they want, think what do I want? Especially in love -Learn to say no 3. The Hot girl/Mistress/ FWB girl -Think about are you happy pass surface level -Because you’ll end up not getting what you truly want 2. Ride or Die /Teammate She doesn’t always do 50/50 but sometimes does. Knows her boundaries but sometimes fall short. Smart & Secure -She still believes “doing” has results 1. Her💎 -She’s free, she’s full of feminine energy. She knows how to make herself happy ♥️ You don’t “do”, you be

Definitely in the hot girl category! Proud of me ❤🎉

Please make video on abundant mindset

Plants and animals dont pay to live here, maybe we should start there❤Thank you M❤

Loving content about high value women and feminine energy 😊❤️

I think it’s interesting how you rank the hot girl under the ride or die. The ride or die aligns with a pick me in my opinions - or the cow as you call it! Great video as always!!!!

I am her ❤ the queen 🦁

I love this woman 🥹🫶

Im Her!!

I always feel uncomfortable when a man does something for me and I see "intentions" behind it. I've taken notes and I'll start rn. TY

You're hilarious. I love you

Looks looks looks looks calmness kindness.

Margarita where is your journal from? I could do with one that looks like that

Love your sweater😅 where is it from?

Currently #2 ✨💖😭

I am in a second category in a way but it is not that I don't want a life partner. I do but I want to find myself first. I'm already 31 but I feel like a want a partner with certain values and goals and even though I have achieved or striving to achieve some of those goals I feel like I'm not that person yet and I won't attract what I desire at this very moment. Hope that I will reach that point one day though

Omg 😂😂 love it

I just love you sooooo much You are my faaaaaaavooooriiiiite KZfaqr

Omg I work with number 6 the grouch. This woman is a maniac and a real pain in the arse 😂

iloveyou Beauty Queen Margarita❤

I think I’m #4 the pick me😅 I can’t wait to level up🥰

I LOVE YOU 💕

Can you please elaborate on something you said in level 2 about her not picking a billionaire or someone bombastic to invest in?

This hurts 😢😂😢trully

My mom is #6 and my dad is scared to leave her but is also brainwashed and in denial that she is a narc :/

i watched twice the HER part im just lacking in enoying myself and flowing this happy energy to others ... in all other im naturally her

I feel like i fall into more than one category

I went from number 2 all the way down to number 5,slowly going down to 6,but I have to slap myself and wake up and own myself, reclaim myself, because I tormented myself for decades

"But I"m not going to let it derail me, okay? Dog." got me😆😂🤣😅😆

💜💜💜💜

Wow

I am her but I still have little anxious that put me back sometimes. But I am happily working in it 😊 SHE lives in the moment and has inner peace that none can destroy bc she knows how the universe and human beings work. That’s why she can let be. And that’s why she can absorb everything. She decides what/who she puts in her life and what or who not. She can read energy’s even from things not even people. For example she knows intuitively what’s right. For example I am an engineer and sometimes I just know the solution even if I can’t explain why. I go with flow. It’s like being connected with everything.. even with machines. It’s about seeing life as something holy because you understand the importance of life. And also how fragile life is. So you need from a man protection and safety. You understand the differences between all beings. Difference between energy, existing, being, doing, the reason why, you just know the answers. For sure not always but then you take your time to figure it out. And not in a harsh way. You take it serious but easy at the same time. It’s like being a philosopher in 15 century 😂❤ a full vibe. And you see people are jealous or mad and don’t understand you. But it’s okay because you understand them. It’s like you are the mother of everything. You are not mad me cause you understand. But you also have your boundaries that no one can cross. Or else she is gone. And it doesn’t matter who you are she is gone. She will feel the loss but know how to handle herself and the situation. If not she will get help. She asks the universe and waits for an answer. ❤