How narcissists spread spiritual diseases

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The Royal We has helped Millions to escape the grip of narcissistic abuse. Here’s a deeper look into what narcissistic abuse looks like and steps to heal from it:
Narcissistic abuse looks like:
Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often show little to no empathy for others, making it easy for them to manipulate and exploit. Narcissists use various tactics such as gaslighting, love bombing, and devaluation to control and dominate their victims.
Common Tactics Used in Narcissistic Abuse:
Gaslighting: Making the victim doubt their own reality and sanity.
Love Bombing: Showering the victim with excessive attention and affection to gain control.
Devaluation: Undermining the victim’s self-worth through criticism, belittling, and emotional neglect.
Isolation: Cutting the victim off from their support systems to increase dependency on the abuser.
Triangulation: Using others to create jealousy or competition, keeping the victim feeling insecure.
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse
How to begin healing from narcissistic abuse:
Understand that you have been enduring narcissistic abuse. This awareness is the first step toward healing.
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Establish No Contact or Low Contact:
Limit or completely cut off communication with the narcissistic abuser. This helps you gain emotional distance and begin your healing journey.
Rebuild Your Self-Esteem:
Engage in activities that boost your confidence and self-worth. Surround yourself with supportive, positive people who value and respect you.
Educate Yourself:
Learn about narcissistic abuse and its effects. Knowledge is empowering and can help you recognize patterns and avoid future toxic relationships.
Practice Self-Care:
Prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, adequate sleep, and mindfulness practices can all contribute to your recovery.
Set Boundaries:
Develop and maintain healthy boundaries in all your relationships.
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@Admit-Audacity 4 ай бұрын

If Satan cannot break you, he sends along a narcissist in his place….

@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142 3 ай бұрын

Really ??? 12:44

@anitanash7777 3 ай бұрын

@@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142YES, really🎯

@user-uz5fw3ko5e 3 ай бұрын

Damn! So well put

@marlagodette5166 3 ай бұрын

True dat

@staceyphair5326 3 ай бұрын

Now that’s eye opening.

@moonlightshadow2664 4 ай бұрын

Narcissists also love and relish to kick you when you're down. They love to attack you when ,for whatever the reason, you're at your weakest. They're actually evil.

@Eva-zs4tt 4 ай бұрын

Yes, and hate it if you are happy for a moment.

@43warriormode98 4 ай бұрын

So TRUE

@kimberlielawrence369 4 ай бұрын

Yes Beautiful that's because they can't reach that high 😅 That's why the best defence is offence, to literally rise up to where they can't reach you any longer. Trust me, its easier said than done & I never thought it was possible, but when you're up high enough, you can actually forget about them completely 😅 it's AWESOME 🎉❤ 🥰 ✨️

@deeprollingriver52 4 ай бұрын

Then DO NOT BE WEAK. REFUSE TO BE DOWN. Stand up like a warrior. When you learn to do this, Heaven will open up.

@jenniferalves6808 4 ай бұрын

and when you're succeeding and doing well, they'll remind you of every single real or perceived (ie: completely fabricated, or something THEY did) transgression you made in the past, even if it was decades ago-bring up something they did last week and the spiritual narcs will tell you to "be present" in the most passive aggressive, self righteously hostile manner possible. I wouldn't call them "evil" unless they're in positions of great power, then yes, they're the sickest evil, zero remorse or empathy for anyone else. It's like some kind of dark dense sickness has been unleashed into the world, and those with weak mental and spiritual immune systems are completely infected.

@christinevandenberg8 4 ай бұрын

I'm in the bed right now in hermit mode. Sending love & healing to those in need. We are all one. ❤

@shannonmcginnis8838 3 ай бұрын

I send you strength, sweet sister. You have a God given gift that this spirit hates because they cannot possess it themselves.

@maximalzufrieden1349 3 ай бұрын

Also hermit mode after another mean narc attack of my ex a few days ago. This is torture. Evil. Big hug to all survivors.

@honestandfair1572 3 ай бұрын

Get strong pull out of it ❤❤❤

@lavictoria27 3 ай бұрын

🙏🙇‍♀️

@nevaehbest2309 3 ай бұрын

❤

@johnwhite6312 4 ай бұрын

1) Oppression 2) Desperation 3) Bitterness and resentment 4) Broken spirit ABSOLUTE TRUTH

@IntuitiveGoat 4 ай бұрын

I was looking for you. ❤ Thank you

@Magamomma22245 4 ай бұрын

@Donna Andrews

@JuliannFlavin 4 ай бұрын

RUDE. Make your own KZfaq channel instead of piggybacking on a Creator and hijacking their video that took extreme hard work, effort, time and money only to have it "time stamped" by some "editing" donkey. How would you feel if someone did this to you??? it's like you're saying "Don't bother watching the video, here are the main points." "You're welcome everyone" thinking you are "helping." NEWSFLASH - you're not. You're selfish and rude.

@marytaylor9504 4 ай бұрын

Oh God! Create In Me A Pure Clean Heart!!!

@marytaylor9504 4 ай бұрын

@user-nq9qp4ht4u ice written out all these scripture verses you have given! Thank You for your input!!! Go With God and Be Blessed!!! 28:45

@heatherwagar5868 4 ай бұрын

The diabolical nature of these people is incomprehensible to someone with a good heart. I am still struggling spiritually. God help us all

@allyettiene1730 4 ай бұрын

Same here😢

@marilynb6645 4 ай бұрын

Try to find a relationship with God, Not Religion, Relationship & a spiritual counselor. I have come a long way with this after being to a Narc for 37 years

@allyettiene1730 4 ай бұрын

@@marilynb6645 Yes hope is in Jesus Christ 🙏

@TheFusedplug 4 ай бұрын

They attack Empaths that's what we are Empaths but now we are EMPOWERED with the knowledge

@jenniferrosteski3955 4 ай бұрын

It's hard to accept that our 20 year marriage is coming to an end(quietly quitting it), it took 20 years and two teenage daughters to find out that I have been sleeping with THE enemy. That this is why I am at the point of suicide. I feel so trapped I can't go anywhere I don't have a job anymore and I don't want my daughters to think that I am the bad guy, for not only leaving their father, but leaving them with him. They do see how poorly he behaves but they still love him because he knows how to charm them. I am grateful that I understand that this is what is happening and I am working very hard on my path back to our Lord and Savior, God. It's just so hard to be around him lately now, that I know exactly what he is, and what he is doing to me. I actually feel physically sick when I'm around him and feel anxious when he gets home😢....I always thought that I am the problem in all of this and that my family is in this nightmare because of me. I grew up in a very unloving dysfunctional and now knowingly Narc home. I was always desperately looking for any kind of true unconditional love and desperately taking any scrap thrown my way. Here I am again, 53 years old emotionally drained and weak again, trying to pick up the same pieces of myself.. It is no longer about having hope. I am building up my faith that I am on the right track and where I need to be for now. I will be free one day.

@vanashridubey3372 4 ай бұрын

So True! Only Narcissistic abuse victim can understand this...

@richardkennerly7801 3 ай бұрын

Absolutely, I can't it happened to me

@Sagittarius12-2-77 3 ай бұрын

❤

@Victoria-tc5cm 3 ай бұрын

100%!! Facts

@darlenealessio7609 2 ай бұрын

Only only those that have the regrettable experience UNDERSTAND

@lilac624 14 күн бұрын

True

@marlenelindsey7638 4 ай бұрын

Others to them, even their children are nothing but “supply”.

@mrdeshonline 4 ай бұрын

I have stopped giving my mother the supply

@ryanlewandowsky2077 4 ай бұрын

Especially their children

@BrittLu13 4 ай бұрын

So sad but 100% accurate

@mikelockhart5528 4 ай бұрын

It’s a hard pill to swallow when you learn about this. Most children are brought up, believing that family is everything, honor, your mother and father, be a peacekeeper. These are all noble things….. BUT…. These things do not apply to narcissist - they are used as weapons by them. It is 100% simple. They know that you believe those things and they use them like a battering ram.

@mrdeshonline 4 ай бұрын

@@mikelockhart5528 what makes me stock to my evil mother. "Children obey your mother".

@user-nv8po4py4s 4 ай бұрын

Satan's demons need a body to work through. Know this and pray them out. Amen

@fena1931 3 ай бұрын

Narcissist are evil soul parasites ...

@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142 3 ай бұрын

My God ….❤️

@linda7279 2 ай бұрын

You cant pray them out if they enjoy their demons and wont let them go.........and they do...

@fena1931 2 ай бұрын

@linda7279 but that is they're problem, ... pray for those creatures at least once is because we empaths are empaths ..

@carolgarrett9479 2 ай бұрын

Could you include instructions for HOW to pray them out? Thank you.

@saty4772 4 ай бұрын

The lord is close to the broken hearted and he saves those who are crushed in spirit

@Beautyforashes791 4 ай бұрын

Jesus came to set the captive free

@joycebutterworth5335 4 ай бұрын

Amen! Greater is He that is in us, than he that is in the world, and narcissism is demonic, so when you are weak, the Lord is strong. You can make it through! I’ve been with my narc 50 years, but discovered the covert narc 13 years ago, and I am a survivor. Thank you Jesus! Thank you Lord! With God all things are possible!🙏✝️☝️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@joycebutterworth5335 4 ай бұрын

What the government is doing now in these end times days is the same as what the Narc does, which is called Stockholm Syndrome. People are being controlled with the same symptoms the narc can do to the victim. Our Only Hope is Jesus Christ, because the world is coming to an end. They can destroy the body, but God can destroy both body and soul and cast you into hell, the lake of fire.

@joycebutterworth5335 4 ай бұрын

If the Lord only becomes strong in Jesus, the narc 😈 knows they cannot take Jesus from you. Our hope is in Jesus Christ, not in our demonic narc. Your strength comes from the Lord when you are weak… Press on!🙏✝️☝️💪🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@amybrown8613 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@LastMinuteMinistry 4 ай бұрын

No wonder I am so tired all the time 😭

@karenmason4912 4 ай бұрын

Me to

@mariad3431 4 ай бұрын

It goes beyond just physical tiredness...it's emotional and spiritual exhaustion also

@LastMinuteMinistry 4 ай бұрын

@@mariad3431 You are right.

@iopakayalo3459 4 ай бұрын

I am sorry, dear. Went through the same abuse too and for 15y, I couldn't place my finger on it but am seperated 4y now I'm healing. Self education helps alot too. Please look up Prof. Sam Vaknin as well. Sending you much love and light. ❤❤❤

@freevideos051 4 ай бұрын

Check your diet too, have a great day

@deeprollingriver52 4 ай бұрын

I don’t care anymore about his silent treatment, the arguments, his jealousy, etc. I JUST. DO. NOT. CARE. I’m retired and have money, AAA, Medicare, friends across the state. I’m a solo female camper. I go without him while he sits home planning for the Apocalypse. According to him, I’ll go camping, the world will end, and I’ll regret not making it back home to him. What a joke. I have mastered the art of solo camping with my dog. It’s a joy and a pleasure to be in nature. Rain or shine, I’m happy. When he starts his abuse, I load up the SUV, my equipment, and my dog and we’re off to have fun. I’m gone sometimes up to two weeks at a time. Traveling across Texas. No contact the whole time. One time I returned home and he came out screaming and angry. Without a word, my sweet dog and I just got back into the SUV and took off again. I saw him in the review mirror shaking his fist. I was beautiful. The next time I returned, he didn’t say a word. I’m selling all my stuff and I’m going away forever.

@OneJennifer247 4 ай бұрын

I am so happy for you. I can't wait to be free❤ I know your dog is happy too.

@mysterydiaz5302 4 ай бұрын

Strong and smart woman….excellent!!

@anasimoes2487 4 ай бұрын

Stay strong and safe you are brave 🙏trust in God

@thefilmarchivesofdrmichael4443 4 ай бұрын

Wonderful, you won’t have a single regret. ❤

@miownleyhope2473 4 ай бұрын

Girl, I couldn't quit laughing at your post. Not in a rude way, but just picturing it is so inspiring😅😅😅 You go girl!

@wk1810 4 ай бұрын

The "bitterness and resentment" part hit me HARD. So true! Seeing no return on your investment yet having to accept part of the blame for making a bad investment. It's the shame which brings the bitterness and resentment -- the profound shame of having been so careless with your heart.

@rhondaroberts2223 3 ай бұрын

Your statement hit me in the heart.😢 So true...my absolute anguish knowing that I chose to be with this person for the past 18 years. He's not verbally or physically abusive, but he has NEVER touched me in 18 yrs of being married. I feel so broken and worthless.

@Solov_d444 3 ай бұрын

Acceptance of the situation, learning of the lesson and better choices in the future can be healing!❤ sending much love and healing!

@machglass 2 ай бұрын

There is zero shame in innocence ❤️

@Lynn-wf3ys 2 ай бұрын

“so careless with your heart” yes… 😢

@kittensugars 4 ай бұрын

I felt that murderous spirit...he was verbally violent, and stood over me and screamed like a lunatic....and then ran away, saying he had to get away from ME. Cripes. 6 years of this. I escaped almost two monhs ago. I still cry daily, but I'm surrounded by people who actually love me now.

@santiMedina14 4 ай бұрын

MATTHEW 11: 28-30 - Come to Me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest. Says the Lord JESUSCHRIST Blessings.

@kaylaschroeder1 4 ай бұрын

There will come a day when you don't cry anymore. It will become a memory of nightmares, but you will also love and appreciate yourself more for how you endured, survived and began to grow stronger again in yourself. 💙 Wishing you the best on your healing journey. It's not linear. It'll be wavy for a while. You'll be alright. Blessings.

@TrudieTiger70 3 ай бұрын

Keep your head up. It will get better. I promise

@eugenia-divinecasey2755 2 ай бұрын

God bless you, I pray one day I can help other women realize this before I did 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

@Pattistar23 4 ай бұрын

He was the most karma ridden toxic person I ever met cloaked in charm and bs- he used many to try to destroy me and outside of shining I asked God the archangels to step in on my behalf and that was the key to my shift… they literally should be charged with attempted murder

@darleenmcbride8900 4 ай бұрын

Oh I can't count the time's I've said this exact same thing.

@user-oe2jt2oe2j 4 ай бұрын

I agree😢

@user-bn2st5kx8h 4 ай бұрын

@@darleenmcbride8900me too

@sarahbouckhuyt538 4 ай бұрын

Me too 😨

@brandyclouse1017 4 ай бұрын

YES YES YES I did die...I do not know who I am & who or what I'm turning into. Most days, I do not like me anymore. I'm having violent thoughts that I've never had before "HIM" I have numerous suicidal thoughts that is all new to me. I've NEVER ran from conflict because I always tried to find a way to help the situation become positive. I've also noticed I'm having problems remembering anything before "HIM"

@cassmartinez-lo5it 4 ай бұрын

Healing takes time. And I can't go into a relationship until I am healed again

@NickeyVamp 4 ай бұрын

That is the best thing you could possibly do for yourself, because without the healing of self, you’ll find the same kind of partner again I know this from experience much love for healing and light for you

@lauriemorales7605 4 ай бұрын

Same. But I'm in so much emotional pain 😢

@CynthiaCaresse 4 ай бұрын

Through my last narcissistic relationship i ended up in an emergency woman’s shelter, through the shelter i was able to get my own apartment. It’s the first time in my life im living alone, no housemates or partners or siblings just ME. I’ve never gotten a chance to know thyself in this way and i have taken this time to develop a disciplined practice around health, healing and spiritual development. At first it was very difficult to be alone, but in no time at all i felt so grateful to be alone. A few hungry spirits have tried to lure me out of this space, but i was surprised at my own strength to see them for what they are and graciously say “no thank you”. I refuse a relationship (even new friendships) until i feel i know thyself better 💛

@Victoria-tc5cm 3 ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯! I'm feeling like the next one would be worse😢

@Fenali3 2 ай бұрын

Facts.

@lilyflower6511 4 ай бұрын

19, yrs married and in middle of divorce. He was soo detrimental to my health and our children's health, that the judge ordered lifetime restraining order for the 3 of us and gave me custody. The judge put him on a registry for violent offenders against women.. thank God the judge saw through him and how destructive he was to our kids. Free and healing now, it's still hard after 3 years separation

@kitty.k1924 4 ай бұрын

Courage ! It's a long recouvery but you are lucky you got your kids. I lost my whole family 🐘

@Gain-Health 4 ай бұрын

Similar … 10 years raised our children alone … 10 years lived in hell with him … 2+ years … Been working on healing … Finally the clouds are lifting I lost my family too He’s turned my Son against me … and abandoned our daughter who is a mess and so much for me to love unconditionally… as I’m afraid … she’s a budding narc too … there is nothing easy about this … and no real ending either …. Your only Choice is to become a warrior of self love

@kitty.k1924 4 ай бұрын

@@Gain-Health It really is like (The never ending story ). He turned my only son against me also and stops me from seeing my grand children. But when i hear your storys i feel less lonely✨🌎

@attractarattigan3574 4 ай бұрын

Stay safe & well

@caramelapple4053 4 ай бұрын

@@kitty.k1924❤

@TheChapeaumelon1 4 ай бұрын

Hate and resentment will kill you, whereas anger can save you.

@Solov_d444 3 ай бұрын

Angered transmuted to passion for happiness and a calm nervous system! ❤

@Labradorite1 4 ай бұрын

Imagine having been given the gift of life and use it to exploit other people aiming to take advantage of it. Great video, thank you.

@kimberlychristine9284 4 ай бұрын

That's a great way of looking at it. God gave them the gift of life and they use it to be cruel to others. What a waste of a gift! 😞. I'll never understand these narcissists.

@user-wh2bs9tp4y 4 ай бұрын

That’s what I was thinking last time I was talking to him. Imagine being born so beautiful, so talented, so athletic, so intelligent, so fearless with such a great deck of cards from the start, and the only thing that brings you joy is seeing the confusion and defeat on peoples faces while you’re torturing them with mind games. While the victims are unsuspecting people just trying to care about you. So sad 😞

@From-Hurt-to-Healing 4 ай бұрын

Narcissistic abuse is a heinous crime.

@leaoleary1601 4 ай бұрын

Don't have to imagine I live it

@leaoleary1601 4 ай бұрын

I'm sorry what I mean is my daughter uses my grandbabies as leverage against me

@4207SumiB 4 ай бұрын

Resentment and bitterness did make me sick and I allowed myself to be used and abused. I am glad i recognized it!

@alwayspeace898 4 ай бұрын

forgive yourself and make sure it doesn't happen again stay away from people don't love themselves narcissist r ppl that r miserable hates themselves. u must learn yr lesson or it will for sure happen again cause sadly we live in a world full of unhappy people. Corinthians 5:11 But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people.

@helenwarren5217 3 ай бұрын

I became suicidal and relapsed.I lived but I will never return to my prior state of mind.Thank God I made it out.

@user-to6nk8sf6u 3 ай бұрын

@@alwayspeace898😮😮😮😮😢😮

@kathleenwharton2139 4 ай бұрын

I was suicidal most of my marriage to a narcissistic man who belonged to a narcissistic church. God Saved and Freed me from Both of them! 😊❤

@wolfgang7812 4 ай бұрын

3:46 God save us from all from narcissistic people from all walks of life (Ameen)

@kathleenwharton2139 4 ай бұрын

@@wolfgang7812 Amen! Amen!

@SuperReznative 4 ай бұрын

Jesus ,the Holy Spirit, read the word of God, meditate ,on the Wisdom within the pages. Puttingg on the full armor of God

@mrdeshonline 4 ай бұрын

"narcissistic church"🤣

@kathleenwharton2139 4 ай бұрын

@@mrdeshonline It is Not funny Asshole.

@jennifermerva9538 4 ай бұрын

I was blind but now I see.😊 Thankyou

@fearless7989 4 ай бұрын

I've always said that "desperation" is the primary feeling I had for so long, during/after growing up with them. Being in the world completely alone, now, also causes desperation. God is good. He sends me what I need. ❤

@jue-jp1vg 2 ай бұрын

I was abused by narcissistic parents and narcissistic teachers who literally isolated me in empty rooms for hours on end, it's taken me over 20 years to start to understand the damage these creatures have done to my soul.

@ginaesrar9945 4 ай бұрын

I have clung tightly to my spiritual beliefs. My spirit was very sick. I stayed alone to heal. I'm grateful for it, but very sad as to how sick my spirit really was. I only know how sick it was because of the phases of healing I have gone through and the phases of that horrible FOG lifting.

@leethomas8839 Ай бұрын

Gina you look nice

@marytaylor9504 4 ай бұрын

Only God's Holy Spirit can heal restore your Broken Spirit. Break the chains that bind.Release the hold A Narassist has on you!!!

@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142 4 ай бұрын

THOSE NARCS ARE CRAZY ‼️And they love it ‼️ 1:38

@Portia620 4 ай бұрын

I don’t tolerate any bs now and dealing with it again in a highly toxic disorganized systems. I don’t play and we just leave! No more bs

@sll110 4 ай бұрын

me too, leave those hopelesx Garbage

@sll110 4 ай бұрын

@user-qr2nl1cj9i 3 ай бұрын

Same NO BULLCRAP ever again

@helentucker6407 4 ай бұрын

Im so shocked by how many narcissistic figures have been so prominent in my life! Thank you for this information. 👍 ❤

@jacksg1809 4 ай бұрын

Oh Helen me too ...do we have a "light" continuously on ...and how do we turn it off?

@Soo_Blessed 4 ай бұрын

They look for us people with our temperament good people

@novadomena3309 3 ай бұрын

i have had between 10-15 (family, bosses, colleagues, "friends")...it is epidemic. Reasons behind are negative soul attachments, interest economy, doggy dog life style, selflessness turns into greed, androidization of society = digital society (Archon's strategy)

@teresa28ist 3 ай бұрын

You can't turn it off you have to confront them. Let them know you awe them. Call it out as it is

@sharonbice7490 2 ай бұрын

I hear ya plain and loud. 😢

@K.j.h.279 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for this. I shut down, a breakdown, couldn't function move or eat, it's taken lots of meds and a lot of alcohol and an awful divorce , but now I'm me again, no drink , not ill.

@NickeyVamp 4 ай бұрын

I am currently going through this, and I am looking toward the future reading. This comment gives me real hope. Thank you.

@tresmegetit369 4 ай бұрын

Just diagnosed with RA and I have been living with an abuser. The body is the creature of the mind. I regret waiting out to see what would happen. It has cost me my health. Now i am limited in another way. I have trapped myself in my body, my painful body. Please, learn to not wait. You are worth an infinite amount. Remember that.

@melaniegaspar 4 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry. I got ra too. It's awful

@johnwhite6312 4 ай бұрын

Me too😢

@dollpartz4u 4 ай бұрын

What is RA?

@tresmegetit369 4 ай бұрын

@@dollpartz4u rheumatoid arthritis

@jnooyen9076 4 ай бұрын

Recognizable, me too Reumatoid Artritis, Auto- immuum. Run if you can!

@faithispower7 4 ай бұрын

This was probably the best description of how narcissistic abuse insidiously affects the victims. This is so powerful, Thank you so much for this. I know at least 10 people who need to watch this so they can begin to heal!

@estelled389 3 ай бұрын

Profoundly

@leethomas8839 Ай бұрын

Those dimples are amazing

@forestsnow6508 4 ай бұрын

I am severely alone. I am starting to like it 😉😊

@BrianKlumker 4 ай бұрын

I am severely alone also for a long time now and still crave validation from narcissistic parents. I understand that this will probably never happen and remain bitter and resentful because of it

@amandam4148 4 ай бұрын

Hope is what keeps any addiction alive. Let it go 🎈

@nadimjamal7367 4 ай бұрын

Real Hope is rooted in God, it's not codependent. But hopium is addictive.

@maryvelneelemantenaya2092 4 ай бұрын

@@nadimjamal7367- YOU WIN ! The dictionary needs to get rid of Bootylicious and replace it with the "Hopium" !!

@narishaloflin9314 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for that, Amandam4148! I never heard anyone connect hope to addiction. It's so TRUE! I've been holding onto false hope...& that keeps me tied to a narc. Thanks for opening my eyes! ❤

@ScoutMcGovern-vd1rx 3 ай бұрын

Hope + trust = disappointed and betrayal. Especially, with these emotionless encounters with a stranger,you didn't know at all. And he will be like that with anyone. Repeatedly!!

@i.am.navkaur 2 ай бұрын

That’s soooooo true. I drank for ~25 years and the day I let go and stopped hoping, I was free. No more drinking to numb.

@user-vc6sk7jc5g 4 ай бұрын

Amen!! By the end of my 36 year relationship with my high school sweetheart who is a covert narcissist, I was so sick . I was in a wheelchair, loving in complete darkness (literally) with a series of eye infections. After two years of being in and out of the hospital 24 times, I went blind in one eye and had to have it removed. The pain I endured those two years was like nothing I’ve ever experienced(and I’ve had three child births) I found out my narcissistic husband turned to his female boss as ‘support’. I finally found a sexual text that gave me my out. I ran like Kevin said. I was oppressed spiritually for all 36 years. I escaped and had no contact for 2 years. I am recovering, reclaiming and rebuilding by living with my parents and diving deep with God again. HE is the answer to my healing. Thank you for explaining this so clearly Kevin

@user-vc6sk7jc5g 3 ай бұрын

@@erin6220 thank you for your response. We all suffer at the hands of narcissists. I’m sorry you were suffering, but I am so happy that you have figured it out at your young age. Most important thing is to learn what it is in your personality that was attracted to a narcissist. When we, look at ourselves and change, then we change our future. It was the best gift I could give my adult children and myself. I wish you all the best in your future endeavors. Respect Courage, strength, and wisdom.

@Sezfluffy 4 ай бұрын

My narc Dad destroyed his family but I think due to my faith I survived it x

@frodoggbooboo 4 ай бұрын

I hear you. Same happened to us.

@staceycook6404 4 ай бұрын

I hate to even say it but realizing my 23 yr old daughter is a narsasist ,it has been hell being abused by my own kid has been so emotionally confusing , just now this last year cutting ties for my own sanity I have to if I want to live and be there for my other children ! Having a narsist family member is one of the hardest things to go thru , 🥲

@Shilpa91000 3 ай бұрын

How did you survive it?

@river1304 3 ай бұрын

46 year old daughter of a narc father, breaking free. I am now honoring my soul and respecting myself. Working through the self-hate, parenting myself. I thank god that I saw the light.

@deborahshankovich8442 4 ай бұрын

None of this was available in my day. anybody relate?

@Briakoi 4 ай бұрын

Always look forward boo

@randy_cbc8811 4 ай бұрын

If you're near my baby boomer age, and saying that Narcissism was not recognized nor well understood as it is today, you are spot on right, Deborah.

@helentucker6407 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely agree, so much more information available to us all these days. I was born early 60s and so much changed 👍

@lafter8655 4 ай бұрын

yes ma'am, in the 60's I was being groomed by my 2 older brothers for the 2 narcs I had children with, they set out to destroy their own children in order to get even with me because I left them, their entire family were narcs. one actually promised he would do just that If I ever left. She is such a mess I can't even help her. just like him. fortunately he met an early grave!! she still worships him, sad sad sad,

@brennadickinson2920 4 ай бұрын

@@randy_cbc8811 Apparently Narcissism is a spectrum and we are all on that spectrum. I think we are in denial of that and don't want to look at ourselves for fear of what we may find. But there is a huge difference between 1% narcissism and 100% narcissism. Toxic narcissism is deadly and about control. Love bombing by someone you hardly know is a red flag.

@andi879 3 ай бұрын

It’s very heartbreaking when your narc husband (40 years married!) abandons you physically, emotionally and spiritually, but still has the facade of being such a “nice guy” to everyone else in his life. I have been hoping his heart would change for four decades! I’ve developed high blood pressure, autoimmune issues and have pre-diabetic symptoms; on meds for all three. He has now convinced our 3 adult daughters that HE is the victim. So I’m estranged from my daughters and also our 7 grandchildren. He’s divorcing me, telling everyone that he’s tired of MY CRAP. The irony. I’ve gone through some unbelievable emotional suffering and yes, trauma, as a result of all the narcissistic’s classic evil behavior and actions. Through counseling, I’m learning to change my mindset from grief and sorrow to thankfulness that he will be gone, Lord willing, and I will finally be in peace.

@whoisimani44 2 ай бұрын

Have hope in God to heal and deliver you!

@i.am.navkaur 2 ай бұрын

God bless you on your rode to a better life. Be gentle with yourself.❤

@MarkieMcG. 4 ай бұрын

Having boundaries and standards is their kryptonite. Have a line you won't allow to be crossed. Don't be unwilling to walk. They only understand LOSS.

@Chrss977 2 ай бұрын

👏 me currently….inset boundaries and drew the line…and he now says I am manly and cold and dark and he doesn’t like it

@jenniferalves6808 4 ай бұрын

I knew someone like this for almost 25 years, it's such a huge relief she's gone. Beware the spiritual narcissists who preach about "love and light" and use spirituality as a weapon against you. Be honest, have faith. I can assure you, those who stir the shit pot end up licking the spoon. RUN!!

@TheChapeaumelon1 4 ай бұрын

As soon as my mother SAW that I finally SAW THROUGH her imposture, she destroyed my reputation, severed my from my whole family and tried to send me to a psychiatric hospital. That's how crazy their resentment can become, that's how hard they feel the need to destroy anyone who can expose them. I had to run to another country to escape her tentacles...

@estelled389 3 ай бұрын

So sorry I went though the same trauma. May God Give you the strength to heal.

@PhyllisLandry-yz7ud 5 күн бұрын

@@estelled389help I’m new to healing ❤️‍🩹 my mom and I are no contact I’m heartbroken yet angry

@DaveMasters1121 4 ай бұрын

I went through discard back in 2007. I had no idea about narcissism and I had to pick myself back up. No one could understand, even I couldn't understand why a man who gave me nothing could make me feel so low. I was so confused and did everything that discarded victims do. Looking back, he did the hoover, but luckily I was not interested anymore.

@gloriacoleman7012 4 ай бұрын

It can be SILENCE NO AFFECTION LOOKING DOWN REGARDED AS NO VALUE.

@margaretcantlon9960 4 ай бұрын

😢

@margaretcantlon9960 4 ай бұрын

Yes, the Silence! Night after Night. 😢 As if I didn't exist. I left. Took awhile but I made new friends, who cared about me. Caring giving, Reciprocal friendships. Take your time, Watch what people Do...before you trust what they Say. Bless your Journey 💜✝️

@gloriacoleman7012 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Margaret it means a lot when others know what you are talking about my son and I had to move hundreds of miles as he would have ruined our lives..@@margaretcantlon9960

@4207SumiB 4 ай бұрын

Just got MYSELF out of a 6+ years relationship. I am on the road to recovery. I knew something was wrong, was missing and I finally figured it out. This person was acting in the same manner as my ex who was also a narcissist. At least, I was still strong enough to pull myself up and away. I am being my authentic self again Hope deferred can be a killer! Thanks for this video.

@miriamhavard7621 2 ай бұрын

You are of HIGH VALUE. Their silence is a blessing in disguise. You don't have to listen to their abuse. 💗🌺

@RonSafreed 4 ай бұрын

I had a narcissistic father & younger brother & both abused me, my mother & baby brother & a pastor of a church & he really adored my narc. father & kicked my mother out of the church!! Then as a young man in my early employment I was around so many narcissistic workers & bosses!! Then working in a business with my baby brother, the narcissists we encountered!! I am 68 & have various health issues!!

@christyviolet926 3 ай бұрын

Ugh, that church 😢 Shame on the churches that allow themselves infestations with narcs, destroy spiritual experiences & leave them with oppression!

@user-nh8ou4jc7b 4 ай бұрын

I have 2 siblings. Our father trianguled the 3 of us. We don't have a good relationship. I decided to walk away in order to preserve myself. It's hard because it's not what l want. I'd rather have my siblings in my life, but they are manipulative, secretive, deceitful. Our father died last year. It was a mess. Mentally, l wasn't in a good place. I grieved a lot, for the death of both my parents. I also grieved for our non existent siblings relationship. I gave up the hope for them to be the ideal siblings, because they can't be. Their mindset is different to mine. The word family means something different to everyone.

@karenzupanic718 4 ай бұрын

I hear you…my father the same with same # siblings and was estranged from mother because of lies told about you. Then Married one..watched the lies, experienced the word salad, the unreliability, gunna nature (gunna do this, gunna do that, but nothing gets done), the torturous divorce process, the isolation and losing both ‘families’ from lies told about you. More peaceful on own with pets. Also, if you have clutter issues, (and I add weight issues to that) it is a trauma response (thanks to crappy childhood fairy for that insight), not you. It buffers you from anyone getting close. You don’t invite them to your messy home…and are always ‘tidying up’, never tidy.

@sharonrichards5203 4 ай бұрын

Appropriately expressed . . . anger is an emotion of self respect.

@elizabethtucker6433 4 ай бұрын

God please help me to allow your spirit to deliver me from bitterness so I can move forward in Christ my husband is a covert narcissist. I am called and chosen of God. I please o lord help me as you only know my issues and needs. 🙏🏼😭Help all of your children in Jesus name

@ellenarnett3527 4 ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏

@Dale-ei4sm 4 ай бұрын

Jesus is a one word right now prayer I call on him all day Jesus ❤

@fordfairmont3472 4 ай бұрын

I was "raised" by a narcissist, he was violent, spiritually and verbally abusive. This continued into adulthood, having my own children made me reaslise how evil he is. I cut him off, i began to heal. A year later i split with my narcissistic wife, i had already mourned the death of our relationship, the day we separated an oppressive weight lifted from me, I'm now married to a "normal" person who loves me and is at peace with me. I resonate with your message.

@antoinetterandall2124 4 ай бұрын

▫️Excellent PERSPECTIVE ▫️Excellent TEACHINGS ▫️Excellent APPLICATION of the SCRIPTURAL references.

@SharonMessage 4 ай бұрын

All caps is shouting

@antoinetterandall2124 4 ай бұрын

Hi Sharon: It is my sincere hope the manner of my writing style did not cause you any distress. My intentions for using caps was for the purpose of emphasis only. Respectfully, Antoinette

@jatins4966 4 ай бұрын

@antoinetterandall2124 , Firstly, God bless your kind heart. 2nd, learn to be ok with offending others sometimes. 3rd, the bald man in the video is telling some deep facts like he always does.

@antoinetterandall2124 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Jatins for your kind words and support. You have read me well, as a general rule, I do not like offending people . . . and this is the first time that anyone has ever - openly come to my rescue. Thank you. I really appreciate it. You have made my day. Have a great day. I love this channel and the unique perspective presented. I will continue to watch and I will look for your posts in the comment section.

@user-ft4ub2yk7y 4 ай бұрын

This is all so ve4y true. Married for 58 years and beaten down so badly that I believe if I had not left when I did I would have died within a year.

@user-un9qn4zo6c 4 ай бұрын

❤

@taghazoutmoon5031 3 ай бұрын

58 years is a lifetime

@user-ft4ub2yk7y 3 ай бұрын

@taghazoutmoon5031 Sadly yes it is. I stayed for my family but they no longer seemed to care. I left.

@teresaorth7832 4 ай бұрын

Oh, how I needed to hear this tonight. God used you to speak to our hearts. Blessings!!! Thank you !!!

@gatheringbeauty8722 4 ай бұрын

Genius Kevin. Thank you for applying scripture to these difficult painful situations. The truth is the real answer.

@ellenarnett3527 4 ай бұрын

Yes, it is! Ask God to help you “Seek first the Kingdom of God” (His reality) and then listen for His input, constantly, and He WILL show you what is true.

@amandapryar4675 4 ай бұрын

I've been abused by a NARC since I was 6 years old; I got married, divorced, and then met Narc number 2 at 32 years old; I'm now 63 and last year I ran; I don't think I have very much time to heal and know what its like to enjoy me as a free person, after 32 years living like a prisoner in my own home isn't something I thought I would escape, but I did it and now the hard work is now beginning; I have anxiety attacks and I rant at myself and tell my self that I'm pathetic, I'm useless, why did God create someone as useless as me; that's the hardest part of healing, you have to learn to love yourself, and that's my mount Everest, and I'm climbing it naked; at 63 years of age I'm hoping to be able to walk, drive and do other things without asking for permission. Any victim KNOWS there are good days and bad days but I hope WE ALL get to the top of our Mount Everest. My Narc never beat me, but my spirit IS sick, in fact I've wanted to die many times over, but I can't say anything because I'm being watched by my family, which sometimes feels just as bad.

@gloriahuffman6612 4 ай бұрын

I understand being watched, which silences you. In severe cases you are “disappeared” from the family, & the bad guys badmouth you in your absence. Silencing you and disappearing you come from their murderous impulses. They want to “kill” you in order to make your story die, leaving their lies in its place. Why? To make the bad guy(s) look good and make you the bad guy. They maintain their own status of goodness by “disappearing” the badness of the bad guys, so that their reputation stays unsullied as they associate with the white-washed and they disassociate from you. If this sounds convoluted, it’s because it is. (Th3-7th-24-0137E)

@missfreshair 4 ай бұрын

I pray for the healing of your spirit 🙏🏼💛🙏🏼

@warangel4389 4 ай бұрын

You are free - God will not leave you. I’m 63 as well. I escaped in 2015. You will thrive.

@stevenclark5682 4 ай бұрын

Great Spirit will restore the years those demon narcissists destroyed. UBU

@AmandaPhoenix7 4 ай бұрын

You need deliverance. Repentance, baptism, and born again with Christ. These creatures are demon possessed and they transfer demons onto us. May God bless you and set you free 🙏🏻❤️

@kimberlychristine9284 4 ай бұрын

This video is so spot on. I've had hope for years that if I just acted happier, nicer, if I became who my narc parents wanted me to be that things would get better and they'd treat me better. As an adult who's researched much about narcissism, I've learned that they will never change. To be in a relationship with them is making me sick spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. I'm saving up money to see a therapist but I'm pretty sure I have CPTSD. I've also struggled with eating disorders restricting food and binge eating disorder for the past 11 years. I have adrenal fatigue as well. I've realized no contact is my only option to heal and become the real me.

@garyeberle62 4 ай бұрын

Yaassss…sooo spot on, we know it! Great comment. Peace e light to you!

@sandrawelch4893 4 ай бұрын

I'll be damned if I'm going to be sick I rebuke that! Because I am God's kid.......

@dannmurray1199 4 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this sad realization. Healing and encouraging thoughts for you.

@sll110 4 ай бұрын

ME TOO

@sll110 4 ай бұрын

I have very very serious CPTSD, but It's all my faults let Demons into my life!!

@darylgreen3881 4 ай бұрын

🙏 We Will continue to Bounce Back.. like a cat.. land on there FEET!💪🤠

@The-Illuminator-m5l 4 ай бұрын

The scene from The Matrix is a powerful analogy as it suggests that our spiritual well-being affects our physical and mental health, as they are all interconnected. If the spirit is unwell, it can affect our physical and mental health. This would call for holistic healing to address spiritual issues along with treatments for the physical and mental.

@Sezfluffy 4 ай бұрын

Yes reiki is amazing too.

@meloworx221 4 ай бұрын

“It is the soul that is hungry, not the body” Caroline Myss and many other spiritual teachers have pointed at the spirits authority over physical health. Being spiritually healthy guarantees physical health, but being physically healthy doesn’t guarantee spiritual health. Most physical and emotional ailments begin in the spirit, or our energy systems depending on your terminology. Everything is spiritual in origin; everything is a manifestation and expression of the spiritual

@editbajkai2083 4 ай бұрын

This is killing also , any possible way with their words , acts . They kill you , destroy somone life is killing .

@dannmurray1199 4 ай бұрын

I love how you use Biblical references. What better examples and words of wisdom from the most compassionate, wise and loving teacher to ever walk the face of the Earth. Thank you for extending his work.

@FancyTruth1 4 ай бұрын

Praise Jesus

@philu4621 4 ай бұрын

Man I've been thinking of those same words lately I just feel spiritually sick from being infected by these narcs.

@ckl5801 4 ай бұрын

Powerful teaching happens in this video!!! My heart is resonating with the spirit of TRUTH and the truth will set us free!!!❤🎉

@Portia620 4 ай бұрын

This happens in churches and they use others and when vulnerable too!! Money is at church not God!

@randy_cbc8811 4 ай бұрын

Yes, you have to get out of churches who are not following the Lord. Who are preaching and living a "different gospel" from the one in the Scripture.

@Leah_Olson 4 ай бұрын

Yes it does happen, especially the opression.

@nicholecornes1915 4 ай бұрын

No paying tithes is biblical 😊

@sarahodom7091 3 ай бұрын

I'm Christian and believe the Bible, and love Patristics and early Christian writings, but churches can be dangerous places, and people using twisted scripture. And sometimes about the social aspect, not God. It seems that every time I've met somebody who makes a big show of how Christian they are, they hugely stabbed me in the back.

@beckysafe7990 4 ай бұрын

Wow never heard this before; dealing with a narcissist causes disease??!! This just spoke volumes to me. My ex hubs and son are both Narcissists~ I’m Exhausted physically, mentally and emotionally, my body is in so much pain (I wake up tired) & I feel empty inside from Giving and giving of myself so and receiving nothing in return.

@KATHERINEGWRIGHT 4 ай бұрын

😪 I’m an empath married to a frighteningly dark narcissist. I’m physically ill now from all the abuse - panic attacks, horrible anxiety, stomachaches every day. I had a bone marrow transplant in 2018 and my father was convinced that my cancer was a result of all the abuse I live with. I’m scared all the time. Working on getting out of this horrible situation. I don’t think I’ll ever trust a man again and that makes me so sad.

@theanonymoushelpline7248 4 ай бұрын

With GOD all things are possible. Find a trauma based therapist and a somatic therapist to release the trauma from the body. It’s stuck energy. That icky feeling is stuck trauma energy that needs to be released. You’ll love again but it will definitely take a very patient & empathetic man

@theanonymoushelpline7248 4 ай бұрын

And please leave this person

@theanonymoushelpline7248 4 ай бұрын

Your gona be ok. You are safe and loved and have the strength that the hood lord gave you. We are warriors. You will get through this transition and GOD will send you support.

@KATHERINEGWRIGHT 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for the kind words 💝

@shaylalasalle4817 3 ай бұрын

Your father is right. All diseases come from emotional trauma

@jennifs6868 4 ай бұрын

i totally bounced back, even though my health is now reflecting some major stuff. but wow! i cannot believe how happy i have become after 7 years of FREEDOM!

@Sezfluffy 4 ай бұрын

I totally understand the oppression of the spirit, it lifted when I went to university .

@chantalishimwe4090 4 ай бұрын

I wonder when I will be free from this veil that covers my mind and thoughts since when I was hit hard by narcissist abuse. I feel I lost myself, can't recognize me!

@GeriRogers 4 ай бұрын

You can do it!! I did at 70 years old after 50 years of living awful hell!!!!

@chantalishimwe4090 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for your encouragement. My first step was to at least give a name to what I went through from childhood. I don't know what should be the next step as no contact to aging parents is almost impossible. People would consider me as a monster and their smear campaigns have been so painful in the past. Moreover, despite going low contacts, they are dominating my thoughts. How can you stop living in the past?

@patriceroach6373 4 ай бұрын

Look up your beautiful attributes choose all of the ones that are you that's who you are!

@emma-kp8vz 4 ай бұрын

Your first step is to walk away from them, trust me. Then the next step is to start learning to heal, then start following your own path!

@emma-kp8vz 4 ай бұрын

Your first step to stop living in the past is to remember it and make sense of it. You have to first recognise it, not ignore or try forgetting it happened. You need a therapist trained in this to help you deal with it and make some sense of it, then learn from it, and start the healing process. It's takes time and alot of mental energy, but the end result is worth it. Iv Been there, but it can be achieved and it does get alot better x

@43warriormode98 4 ай бұрын

This is so true !!!!!!!!!!! So TRUE .......I was near death ....and it was 2 years of asthma maybe longer ...could not breathe ...constantly on a nebulizer...felt poisoned and may have been ..but toxic people can posion with words too ...yes spiritual disease !!!..you're so right ...I got to this point of bitterness and resentment...i had never been so spiritually bankrupt!!! You have helped me GOD SEND❤God bless you...I'm now in constant warrior mode ..armored ..silent as a dove and smart as a serpent.....🌬💨🔥👊🙌🏻💪.....spiritual sickness that made my physical body so ill ....I was fighting for my life! Literally...this narcissistic round is with my adult daughter ...she's all of them IN ONE ...and my hardest to see the true colors ...and they aren't pretty...

@43warriormode98 4 ай бұрын

My spirit was dark and once again I shine ..Amen ❤

@trumpeterswan4177 4 ай бұрын

Hey Sister, love to hear from another survivor! Very similar story, and now 100 percent healed and happy, thank you Jesus!

@aliciaoliverez9196 4 ай бұрын

That is me right now! My husband is an alcoholic and dose a lot of verbal abuse and than is so loving when he's not drunk! But my spirit is noum! And he doesn't remember what he's said to me! Help.

@ast1476 4 ай бұрын

@43warriormode98: *Wow!* Ihr Kommentar könnte 1:1 von mir sein! Sie beschreiben es perfekt, wie mein Leben aktuell ist! Hatte einen Tumor und eine Blutinfektion und Atemnot. Ärzte wussten nicht wo es herkommt! ~~~ ABER jetzt heile ich und richte mich wieder auf! ~~~ Alles Liebe für Sie! Wir sind stark und die Narzissten können uns nicht besiegen! ; )

@salettamyers8845 4 ай бұрын

They remember- they tell the honest to God truth of how they feel when they have their liquid courage- full armor beautiful one💙@@aliciaoliverez9196

@missshroom5512 4 ай бұрын

I had to let go with my own Mother after decades of hoping. The ruminating is the worst part of holding on. It took me having to have a raise my own child to really realize I was wasting my time. Good luck to everyone out there. It is a worth while process to let go.🌎☀️💙

@stevenclark5682 4 ай бұрын

Come out from among them(narcissists,demons,devils)!!!

@rikkibowman3196 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely true. My narc ex triggered my awakening , it was incredibly traumatic.

@Mom4cool 4 ай бұрын

Healing from full blown narcissistic personality disorder/sociopathy is challenging. It requires a level of self honesty that I have not been able to achieve in spite of 48 years of therapy, 12 step programs, and inventory. Denial is strong in a person who was a victim, became a perpetrator then reverted back to victim. Taking responsibility without beating up on your self is another gem.

@randy_cbc8811 4 ай бұрын

Gosh, well, bless your heart and be encouraged because at least you're trying, which is more than most can say.

@patriceroach6373 4 ай бұрын

Your going to make it ! God Deliver This Beautiful Soul 🙏 Right Now In The Name of Jesus 🙏 AMEN

@patriceroach6373 4 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@ellenarnett3527 4 ай бұрын

And ESSENTIAL. Do Step 4 objectively, without self condemnation; asking God for His total help, and the courage to keep looking at whatever He shows you. He doesn’t want you to be consumed with guilt. He wants your freedom from every lie from the Pit which you were believing 🙏

@jenniferalves6808 4 ай бұрын

You're the very first person I've witnessed with NPD who has owned up to it and is working on it, and I've been interested in learning about narcissism and personality disorders for 10 years. You deserve to be encouraged. Believe me, if you're taking responsibility for your actions, you deserve hugs and not to feel down on yourself. You're exceptional.

@shadowivy 4 ай бұрын

Despite all the deliverance prayers Ive gone through this realization of Spiritual damage feels surreal. For years Ive been conditioned to minimize everything that happened. This year suddenly everything collided into flashbacks I can’t seem to heal from

@ellenarnett3527 4 ай бұрын

Keep turning to God for your healing, for HIS regeneration. for the renewing of your mind. Be patient (it takes time to process it all), steadfast (standing completely firm in your grasp of God’s reality, as He reveals it to you), and teachable (see Psalm 143). 🙏

@shadowivy 4 ай бұрын

@@ellenarnett3527 Thank you so much for these affirming words of encouragement. It truly is a process . The Lord is so good🙏💐

@kristenmarie9248 4 ай бұрын

@shadowivy , the minimization, and then the realization, and flashbacks! I know that currently. The 💡🤯 moments where you put 2+2 together! It's challenging, and yet a relief to figure things out even though it's shocking to realize what they were capable of. 😮

@lisalisavirgowarrior7606 4 ай бұрын

My medicine is Prayer, Frequency & Lots of Laughter.! 😊❤

@karenmason4912 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much , I just came across you video now and I now understand why I am the way I am, my husband is narcissistic and I am a very loving , caring and giving person and he is only for himself from looking at pornography after just getting married , always staring at other woman, and denying it , when I confronted him he would swear at me and make me feel like I was the bad person ,He now has dementia and I am having to look after him , I am so tired and drained of energy , I am 65 young and he is 76 , we married in 2015 , I am very Spiritual and always Praying for others who are suffering and I am Praying to God to help me have a better life and to be able to meet someone one day soon who would love me sincerely 🙏🏻

@Vulture-88 4 ай бұрын

I pray for God to relieve you of him, in Jesus name.

@LS-ek1fd 4 ай бұрын

Nursing home….drop him off m, get some rest and go live.

@EC-yd9yv 4 ай бұрын

🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️Run ..as fast n far as you can from these creature. do yourself a huge favor plan your escape Now.! 🕊️💛🙏✨

@MHLivestreams 3 ай бұрын

I've managed to break free of the demons, and feel so much healthier all round. Having strength in belief, and, trusting your inner guidance is extremely important, letting go of the nonsense is so liberating. It took years for me, but I'm sure it can be done sooner with proper awareness of the scenario. Healthy self-love is the answer, loving oneself enough to not put up with it. Good luck, everyone.

@agnesh4489 4 ай бұрын

My mum was never so nasty to me as when I lost ( killed by a fox)my beloved she -cat, that I had bottle fed since she was a tiny baby... I really understood then... She pushed me towards the edge. It worked. I attempted suicide 6 months later. But, never to have any more contact with her after almost 60 years of abuse. It can take a life time to understand that your parent is an actual monster 😢.

@mysterydiaz5302 4 ай бұрын

Yes….it took me a life time too🙏🏻

@dollydavis7156 3 ай бұрын

It took me 48 years 😢

@anastasiapritchard6024 4 ай бұрын

I cured me. They just made it so I couldn't ignore my issues anymore. I'm not giving them any credit.

@kaylabryson1932 4 ай бұрын

I have left 3 yrs now and I’m still physically beat up… but spiritually & emotionally I am happier than ever ! Just want to heal from painful illness I got in a 35 yr covert narc marriage.

@kathymcmc 4 ай бұрын

Sugar, my narcissistic husband died and my doctor's couldn't diagnose an illness for 10 years. It broke my heart that he had ruined my life and he wasn't even here anymore.

@ledbygod2533 3 ай бұрын

They come in the form of obsessive friends as well.

@hadenough89 4 ай бұрын

The narcissist died 3 yrs ago,and I'm still not well. 25 yrs of abuse. I've isolated myself. I see no one unless absolutely necessary. I don't talk on my phone, and I use to be the life of the party ,they say. I have knots in the base of my skull. My brain feels like it's on fire at times. I've lost hope to feel better.

@ginaesrar9945 4 ай бұрын

I am self empowered even when struggling, my ex-husband couldn't ever let me enjoy my strength or anything that made me happy. Now in our divorce, he can't stop himself from trying to take my resources, he can't stop himself from trying to oppress me in the courts. I need opportunities for complete financial independence, but I've really built something, know I'll make something out of it soon. I'm so tired of using my energy fighting him, when I could be using it for so many other things. I work part time, work isn't even work because my job is just my job, but divorce is taking so much away from really going for things related to my highest good. I get so disgusted at times.

@kristenmarie9248 4 ай бұрын

I understand. I have experienced this. Hopefully, it will be over soon for you so you can move forward with your life. ❤

@tooakki 4 ай бұрын

I can attest to this, Im born of Malignant Covert Narcissist Mother, it's no joke.

@pamfreeman2370 4 ай бұрын

Where were people like you when I needed answers 50 years ago, 30, even 20 years ago? 10 years ago? I am a void!

@kristenmarie9248 4 ай бұрын

❤ You are worthy of love, and acceptance. Please remember your worth. Tell those dark spirits to LEAVE.

@rubybegonia7052 3 ай бұрын

Pick up your pen and start noting.

@ronyalemerrill 3 ай бұрын

My Mother was an A+ narc. I went no contact 6 years ago and am still physically recovering from decades of abuse.

@kevins5833 4 ай бұрын

I survived an extremely toxic relationship with a narcissistic woman. I had never before been with this type of female before, before I discovered what I was dealing with, I had a small basal cell carcinoma appear on my nose for the duration of our 2 1/2 year toxic relationship. I asked God to show me who she really was, God woke me up in the middle of the night, I drove to her house and found her with another man at 2:00AM. I broke up with her instantly. After the breakup, I was so relieved to be away from her lies and gaslighting, that the Basal cell cancer literally healed and disappeared. Stay away from toxic people, they will indeed make you sick and toxic as well...

@jdoc7627 18 сағат бұрын

Depleted, dizzy, hard to drive. Be very discerning about social settings. Stay away from excess narcs… recover at will. Thanks K!

@dianaballiet3661 4 ай бұрын

Love your videos. They are always timely.

@GeriRogers 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this validation. This happened to me but I found myself and my God again !! ❤

@patriceroach6373 4 ай бұрын

Amen

@jasonhebert4310 14 күн бұрын

In the big book "“Resentment is the number-one offender. It destroys more alcoholics than anything else." Acceptance and forgiveness are the answers

@MayaChadalavada-nz7qg 2 ай бұрын

I was so sick I almost died. Two months after leaving the sadistic psychopath my health got better and better. Two years in now and 98% of my health issues are GONE!

@lanovia3838 4 ай бұрын

omg I;ve watched so many youtubers about spirituality and narcissim but this guy is so different. Never heard of what he's saying before (spiritual disease, increase power by a narc on his own)!!!!!!!!!! this channel is a revelation!

@debraelramey5254 4 ай бұрын

Well, this certainly hit the spot. Nailed it brother. All these years I've suffered oppression at the hands of a bitter, angry, soul. A verbally abusive narcissist. Thank you for this succinct identification of the problem.

@alansonchurch3000 24 күн бұрын

I have either forgotten or discounted MYSELF or MY ROLE in this oppression. Thanks for JAGGING my spirit and understanding!

@glenbutler9611 3 ай бұрын

Praise God for your sharing these revelations. Narcissistic abusers attract themselves to giving, compassionate individuals; then play on their guilt when they are called out. No one is ever emotionally or spiritually safe around them. One must have discernment of the Holy Spirit to steer clear of them!

@jacquelineglitter4328 4 ай бұрын

I don't yell, bully, insult or gaslight people and I won't let anyone do that to me. I have many narcissist in my family and I've walked away from all of them except one.

@jacquelinepace189 2 ай бұрын

Narcissists are caught up in the worst of all the devil's snares: the LIE. Nothing is true about them. Only God can save them, no one can help them directly. Please pray for them and for their oppressed. Let's respond with love to their hatred, like Jesus did

@andicastro1203 4 ай бұрын

I have been suffering from what I thought was depression. But I told God that I am happy and to please tell me what is wrong with me. He gave me the word “oppression” then You immediately popped up on my screen. So thankful to God for sending you to me. 19 years of being married but not living with a AAA narcissist. He was an educated man but chose to drive long distance trucking.. I wonder why!

@kpf2014 Ай бұрын

Thank you for this. No one has explained to me what was happening to me and what he was actually doing the whole last 10 years but this is it. He studied my hopes and dreams and then promised to move where i wanted and even went to the schools and trainings and sabotaged it all. Discarded me upon selling our family home and he had someone else on the other side of the country and remarried after 30 years. He waited until last child went off to college to lure me, promise me, isolate, and abuse to the point that I left - he was “victim”. After 3 years of healing and no contact- i am seeing that i actually am the person that won her life back. Thank you so very much for this. I am so grateful. 🙏

@nancybrand3629 4 ай бұрын

If you can make a plan to leave, please do that before your soul is completely destroyed

@Eva-janeMiddleton-xu9lk 4 ай бұрын

The thing with hope. I believed it would improve. They throw you crumbs of affection at the point of you pulling away. I needed to be with a npd to be healed from the trauma In my family of origin. He mimicked 1 of my parents. I'm no longer broken beyond repair. It's a difficult job to recover but it's possible.❤

@kristenmarie9248 4 ай бұрын

"He mimicked one of my parents." Omg. 💡 wow. I had an epiphany when you said that. Thanks.