things i wish i knew during my teenage years

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so yes this is a part 2 to another video i made in the past. i could honestly make this into a series if you guys wanna see one. but yeah these were just things i wish my little self would've known. tbh i don't actually remember if anyone actually told me these things before. i don't think anyone did lol. i mean it would be kinda weird to just suddenly have any adult give you these major life lessons. or would it? idk. ok now i'm just thought dumping. i do sometimes think if whether i'll still be the same person as today if someone told me these things when i was younger... hm. i guess we'll never know.
but i really hope this video was helpful to you guys. i also hope i didn't repeat anything from my last video lol. like yeahhhh i could rewatch it but i literally will cringe myself out LMAO so imma pass. anyways i will see you all next week! love yaaa
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@jjj_hehe Ай бұрын

There’s a quote that I read that really sticks with me “No matter who you are or what you do, there will always be someone who doesn’t like you but at the same time, there will always be someone for you.” As a people’s pleasure, this helps remind me not to go overboard as not everyone is going to like me

@Koi_light Ай бұрын

Real!!!

@zmartwychwstaniepoety Ай бұрын

new via vid dropping is like getting hope to continue living

@Anli.dong1207 Ай бұрын

Totally agree!! ❤

@auchfernweh14 Ай бұрын

@@zmartwychwstaniepoety i agree !!

@Koi_light Ай бұрын

Real

@isabelleisaksson9221 Ай бұрын

✨Time stamps✨: - having a focus point <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="88">1:28</a> - don't put someone on a pedestal <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="155">2:35</a> - having flaws <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="227">3:47</a> - give everything a day (to think things over) <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="298">4:58</a> - communication is key <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="341">5:41</a> - being "weird or different" <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="397">6:37</a> - dealing with hate <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="549">9:09</a> - how others perceive you doesn't change who you are <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="602">10:02</a> - not having a "purpose" in life <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="635">10:35</a>

@kalliopik9889 Ай бұрын

thank youu❤

@the_serene202 Ай бұрын

Thanks, but I didn't get the "focus point"😅

@Kitkit759 Ай бұрын

⁠@@the_serene202 when she says have a “focus point” she means when stuff is changing around you, focusing on something that’s constant will help you deal with that change easier

@the_serene202 Ай бұрын

@@Kitkit759 ohh now I get it thx lots !😊

@arveala Ай бұрын

as a 16yr old thank you so much for saying ”how others perceive you doesn’t change who you are” and that life doesn’t really have a purpose other than happiness. your videos always help me a lot & i’m so grateful to have found them

@user-jt2uc8tt8k Ай бұрын

This video is really smth

@gymnocalycium4486 Ай бұрын

The thing about not needing a purpose is such a good point omg 😭

@Whoaaaa___ Ай бұрын

The celebrity one is so real esp for Korean idols Its like... Theyre human like everyone, nothing special😭

@miskatunjannat1599 24 күн бұрын

yes

@Sarah-ti3yr Ай бұрын

Your perspective on not having/needing a life purpose is actually so refreshing. i've never heard anyone put it like that

@derinstt Ай бұрын

Via,can you make a video about comfort zone? Like I am curious about how you got used to going to the gym or how you continue things when you are anxious instead of just giving up. Love ya

@valkyriejournal Ай бұрын

I love this kind of videos because it kinda helps to heal old wounds. I’m 25 now but some things from my teenage years haunt me to this day. And hearing someone sharing their experience being the same as mine is… refreshing? Helps to think “wow so that’s normal and nothing to be ashamed of!” So thank you very much. ♥️

@Koi_light Ай бұрын

Same!!!

@Jay-wo6lu Ай бұрын

Finding your videos actually helped me so much with my insecurities, thank you so much, I love you!

@mangosagoo Ай бұрын

Timestamps for you guys and Via [<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="705">11:45</a>] [<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="745">12:25</a>] things that apply to via doesn't mean it applies to you!!! [<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="95">1:35</a>] --> you need a focus point when change is happening [<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="155">2:35</a>] --> everyone is just a human and has the same ending, you know nothing about your celebrity crush. don't put them on a pedestal [<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="223">3:43</a>] --> flaws are a good thing [<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="274">4:34</a>] --> take in flaws of your friends [<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="300">5:00</a>] --> give everything a day [<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="352">5:52</a>] --> communicating solves most things [<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="374">6:14</a>] --> friendship takes time to build [<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="419">6:59</a>] --> just be yourself and don't worry you're too 'weird' or 'odd'. don't hide your authentic self [<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="572">9:32</a>] --> no matter what you do there are always gonna be haters. you gotta be relevant to be hated on. [<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="645">10:45</a>] --> you don't have a purpose in life. you can build your own if you want to, but a purpose in life is not mandatory so it's okay if you don't have one

@halahlo8046 Ай бұрын

THANK YOUU❤❤

@olliestale864 Ай бұрын

taking in personalities is so real bc i used to imitate my fav youtubers so often it felt uncanny

@Idgafyaar Ай бұрын

Ong this is so real

@itan._ Ай бұрын

Itadori?? what are you doing here?!!

@Mari_Chae Ай бұрын

As a 14 yr Old you started to change my mental mindset to love myself more! Thank you Via!

@asapbaby9275 Ай бұрын

You made me understand something that was so simple and obvious, but because of a person's tendency to do things or be something "expected" in different departments of life, we completely forgot that we're only human. It's as if mistakes aren't even possible. Being a teenager is like a baby opening their eyes for the first time in the "real world" where changes are constant and we don't notice we are part of it. I'm so glad i discovered you Via, your awareness and down-to-earth personality touched me.

@imfiy_ Ай бұрын

just 13 minute of via feels like 5 minute... I might need a longer version just to hear her talk♡︎ (she makes me laugh and it feels like someone is finally talking to me personally)

@Koi_light Ай бұрын

Same 😂

@Ondrpavlina Ай бұрын

Am 16 and I found so much comfort in your videos I struggle with anxiety and you really helped me to look at it with different perspective, Ty so much for being here 🩵🤍

@LordAlexander-x5s Ай бұрын

I found via a couple years ago with her "I have no fiends" short / reel / tiktok and I'm really happy to see her learning the same things I have in my own journey through life. From what I'm hearing I think she must be doing better and the future looks bright.

@sighsai2804 Ай бұрын

PLEASE make this into a series!! I love watching your videos whenever im journaling or doing my skincare because it feels like im listening to an old friend giving an advice whenever im tired or just done with life

@Koi_light Ай бұрын

I agree!!!

@sophiaschronicles990 Ай бұрын

Via is my comfort creator for real

@Koi_light Ай бұрын

Same!

@Maryamaliii Ай бұрын

I’m 16 and I have no friends so I started KZfaq so that I can start a community and share my life with people ,but you inspired me to post so thank you 💗🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

@a.sdutchman Ай бұрын

I love these part 2 updates to your past videos. It shows how much you grew 💛

@amiqqst Ай бұрын

Via is my free therapy

@Koi_light Ай бұрын

Literally!!! She amazing!!

@torcia4179 Ай бұрын

I don’t understand how could people hate u via , you are litteraly so clever and perfect . Every time im upset im coming here to watch your videos beacouse it’s always makes me feel so comfortable . Thank you for being here

@ibmn1l Ай бұрын

i love your talk vids - they rlly are relating and calming.

@Koi_light Ай бұрын

Same!!!

@lilywithonel5392 Ай бұрын

im so glad i found your channel. generally i don't get 'inspired' by other people but watching your videos just teach me to relax a lil which is super helpful. even when you're just taking yourself out on a solo date it's really healing to see someone just want nothing more than to simply just live life. keep doing what you're doing as its amazing!

@iona8973 Ай бұрын

hi via! this video was posted with such immaculate timing. something happened between me and my girl bsf and i thought we would have a falling out because of it. thus, i gave her the silent treatment and made everything super uncomfortable between us. but when i was watching this video it really reminded me of the importance of communication and the fact that i am well overdue an explanation for her. thank u so much for this, it really gave me the strength to talk to her again.

@ParulTiwari-fb2kq Ай бұрын

So, I am starting my college this august and honestly I am so anxious about it cause yk it's a huge change for me school to college, so my older sister advised this one thing she said "I know you'll manage the studies but the most imp advice I can give you is that make friends wisely" And that is stuck with me and for me I feel grateful because you have actually changed me a lot (in a good way) Thanks via, I adore you 💗🌷

@langajaxa Ай бұрын

Via is funny and lovable she make me feel very comfortable and relatable watching her videos .WE ALL LOVE YOU VIA

@Allison-rm9to Ай бұрын

Dude you helped me sm. I’m 13 (ik I’m young) but you definitely helped me a lot. I started journaling my thoughts I also dropped all my toxic friends. I’m gone through sm and I’m so proud of my self❤.

@noorhussein7073 Ай бұрын

I agree with you about not taking advices from anyone that is actually true by experience,& I always ask my self is this person tryna give me some advices actually living the life I want to live!

@LunarWind99 Ай бұрын

Always love your videos ❤️ I can't wait until we're all older and we can look back and think 'gee, things weren't as bad as they seemed' or 'the solution to being happy was so much closer in reach than I ever could've realised' 💕✨

@auchfernweh14 Ай бұрын

via, you have helped me so much with building confidence as well as helping me figure out who i am and figuring out who i want to be. thank you so much for your videos 🎀

@Koi_light Ай бұрын

Via!!! I love your vids 😭😭😭 I had a mental breakdown again today!! You honestly help me become my best self!! I can’t thank you enough for being such an amazingly and inspiring human being!! I’m forever grateful!!!

@sejin_seo_10 Ай бұрын

omg i was downloading some of your vids so i can listen to it outside and i… omg i miss you so much❤

@cheurah Ай бұрын

i wish i found ur channel sooner aagggh T_T ur genuinely my fav comfort channel ever like i love ur content so much ive never felt safer than seeing ur videos 🥹💗💗

@moonlovezstarz Ай бұрын

ilysm via ur videos r so comforting

@poncisdw3692 Ай бұрын

I'm a teenage girl and I relate a lot to the subjects you talk about in your videos. Especially the fact that we all try to fit in when we are young and the feeling of guilt and fear that comes when you do anything. Sometimes you feel as if everything you do is wrong or like you could've done it differently. You also feel lost because you don't have a strong sense of identity yet. In the end, there is no right way of doing things, you just experiment them. The thing that helped me the most was figuring who I was, by fiding what I liked to do, what was truly important to me (friendships, family, hobbies etc...) and putting less pressure on myself, I'm still young. I already figured out by myself some of the things you mentioned and that makes me happy.

@miffyz. Ай бұрын

I'm a high schooler, and i love your videos sm I, especially these ones. I take in as much advice as possible 😭💗

@itsjade_foryou Ай бұрын

i love ur vids via they r really relatable 🫶 they have helped me so much don’t stop what ur doing ilysm 💗

@opal_afterlife Ай бұрын

i'm 17 and i've been watching vias vids for months now and they're usually all so inspiring and relatable but the "not having a purpose" point really threw me off for me, having a purpose is one of the most liberating things i have. sure, working towards my goals is tough and yes everything i do is for that purpose but i could never idly breeze through life like that. my purpose it what guides my decisions and steers my focus, my purpose is something that motivates me to get out of bed, to go to college, to get a job i believe that you don't have to have a purpose to be happy, but gliding through life with that specific mindset of "i just want to be happy" is such a waste of potential that's all, do better

@JoyEmpress Ай бұрын

Hi Via! 🤍 Your vlogs are always comforting and like hanging out with a friend

@Llula0513 Ай бұрын

Hey Via, I discovered your channel few months ago thanks to this first video about teenage years. I relate to you a lot about the things you share in your videos ! This community really feels like a safe place ✨

@Tanghulu_s Ай бұрын

Seeing this in my teenage years is so comforting, ur like my big sister 😭💗

@Estriena Ай бұрын

today and tomorrow is gonna be a great day if via posts ☺️

@chaezuu Ай бұрын

Thanks you so much for this via again and yesssss please a series of this will be soo good ( for my life) cuz whatever u have said just made me question myself like what am I doing? Your advices are the best which is helping me a lot though my Teenage luvvvu a lottt 💕

@HARU-ek1oq Ай бұрын

Looking back there’s always something you wish you could’ve done differently in the past but just remember you did the best thing you could at the point so don’t blame yourself too much on something no matter how you regret about it❤

@rey_svt Ай бұрын

Your videos are super relatable and therapeutic, keep it up please❤🙏🏽

@StChiara123 Ай бұрын

Via's outfits are always so good! Please start telling us where they are from! Like I never know where to find nice long dresses and in the last clip your dress was gorgeous Via! And your shirt from today was so pretty! Please give us fit checks! Also your advice hit hard, thank you!

@lararodrigues1360 Ай бұрын

Me at my almost 20 year old birthday watching this, I'm still lost lol

@chiwamini2329 Ай бұрын

Honestly bro Via literally is soo relatable because honestly yeah I dont know who I am or my personality and I always try to fit in and I am definitely not very communication type of person so since I watched her video I'm gonna try to be more communicative

@asty2661 Ай бұрын

"Whenever my flaws come up in a relationship or whenever I feel extreme shame. so hence I become very avoidant." OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SAYING EXACTLY WHAT I'M FEELING😭😭♥♥

@-Sooyasoo- Ай бұрын

No matter what kind of day I'm having, when Via posts I feel like I have someone to share the happiness with ❤ love you,Via!

@Seya._.Brown001 Ай бұрын

so real on give stuff a day bc something that may have affected you and could make you react badly probably wouldn’t have the same affect as you waking up the next day with a fresh start

@CrazyBirdo Ай бұрын

I LOVE WHEN YOU UPLOAD OMGGGGG!! wee teenager from Scotland here and your videos make me feel sm better for being “behind,” when social media really warps your perception of who you should be and when, when in reality you should probably just be worried about just now. Thank you for feeling like the big sister I don’t have ❤❤❤

@sapphics4hozier Ай бұрын

teenager from scotland as well , who also feels behind !! im so glad im not alone in that experience 😭

@sapphics4hozier Ай бұрын

i always get so happy to see your posts ! thank you for uploading this , you and your videos always made me feel extremely comforted

@mimino_codingbee4313 Ай бұрын

We love you for being this realistic and relieving us through let us know it's okay if we don't have a purpose.

@Gofittwice Ай бұрын

Omg yessss YESSS I watched the other video maybe 10.000 times. So happy for a part two

@Leobooki Ай бұрын

Happy Sunday Via ! Def missed you ! ♥️ today better be sweet to you !

@anxjy 21 күн бұрын

The idea of not having a purpose is so life changing… I’m gonna think about that. Thank you Via!!❤️

@darya351 Ай бұрын

Literally having purpose in life is stressing like no, my purpose is to make my ice coffee and enjoy it

@your.average.octoling 22 күн бұрын

you should 100% do a podcast. these tips are so genuinely helpful and couldn’t have come at a better time, and i can just imagine how awesome it would be to listen to a podcast of yours ❤

@Noah-Deborne-634 Ай бұрын

your videos are litteraly making my life so much better

@cloudybillows Ай бұрын

no bcs the way your videos would've helped me soo much in early middle school and still help me now (going into my second year of highschool!) love u and ur content always viaaa

@Choi.Eunhaa Ай бұрын

Yesss Via posteddd, your vids are like a gift to my soul gurl, keep going strong

@user-gu6rj8oi1z Ай бұрын

so happy to get to see a new vlog of yours 🫶🏻

@ch.09h93 23 күн бұрын

For me being alone or around ppl i dont like in middle school make me really know who i am what i want and how to not be influenced by others what's reaaaaalllyy helped me in high school to have a healthy Friendships just by being who u really are cause when we find our selfs alone we change our ideas and thoughts just to fit in what making us overthink and make ppl getting bored of us and just look for someone intersting so be who u are and dont hesatat talking about what bothers u , ure the most important so put ure self first

@Probbly Ай бұрын

Im lowkey happy i understood that before adulthood and before these videos. It's so refreshing peopl think similiar to me

@bluerain-w9d Ай бұрын

I’m so grateful for all of your advice ❤❤

@twinkycharm8138 Ай бұрын

When i heard more ppl, to constantly made me stress about thinking, "What's the purpose of my life?" Via comes and says, "Don't have purpose is gives you the freedom of," Do whatever you want! You go live your best in life that's it makes you happy go just do it". I will always love to see editor via scenes, showing those bts in very funny way ♥ Also, Its more like video of friend, not the traditional way of motivational influencers.. Everything makes sense and relatable 😍

@blck-yara7164 Ай бұрын

girl ilyy, you're so comfortable to watch

@AkebiaCuebeiMomin Ай бұрын

this helped me alottt, i would love to see the series if you made onee

@maira4118 Ай бұрын

whyy do your videos always make me cry, i love you Via

@user-lv4ep3sz9f 20 күн бұрын

I had a pretty overwhelming day yesterday, both good and bad, and when I woke up this morning I could barely hold myself together. I knew watching your latest video would help me stay grounded AND comfort me. Thank you via💗 and yes, as long as you feel that it is what you would like to do, I would enjoy these specific types of videos along with the others.

@luvfrom_tixa26 Ай бұрын

i was just going thru some shit and after 20 mint she just posted this and all my worries and stress was gone.....thats how miracles work, via is a goddess for real..love u via ❤

@dianaencinas7554 Ай бұрын

please make this a series, i love you tysm for the advices 🥺🤧💕💕

@k4ayl3333 Ай бұрын

before watching this, I just wanna say that I was feeling sad yesterday and I really was waiting for a new video from you lol so that's good

@f.a.r.a.a.h Ай бұрын

your videos sometimes make me open my eyes to things, it's incredible. never stop, Via!

@therosecolored Ай бұрын

a fresh breath of air this sunday! thank you via ❤

@inesadmi3136 Ай бұрын

J'ai attendu plusieurs semaines juste pour pouvoir regarder toutes tes vidéos d'un seul coup 😊 J'adore ce que tu fais et le courage que tu as, me donne envie d'avancer et de sortir de ma zone de confort. Bonjour de France 🇨🇵👋

@user-rf3ck1cm5j 6 күн бұрын

Woww I can relate so much. What you discuss in your videos are often things that cross my mind and I often think about. Thank you for making this video. I now feel like I’m not the only one who views things in this way. Via, you’re such a helpful person to many 💞

@smeraldo77 Ай бұрын

I’m turning 17 soon and often feel scared of changes when growing up. I constantly fear for my future now that college apps are near but this video helped me look forward to change in a positive perspective :) tysm Via !!

@torichan8202 Ай бұрын

Girl you are so pretty, your sense of style is so cute!!!!!!

@Yapper_princess2011.official Ай бұрын

I actually started watching you like a year ago and I kinda knew you were gonna blow up cause you are so wise and funny so yea this vid is also amazing btw 🥰

@nada-sv9fx Ай бұрын

im literally turning 17 this September and this girl i found on a random day and random hour is just changing my life into the better, i literally have fixed myself into a better way with those amazing episodes, i appreciate via so much and i love her so much, please don't give up!!

@lordofeverything9305 Ай бұрын

Well I'm 21 and alr know most of things you said but smh its soo comfy to hear you saying it out loud ^^

@malak-ex2kc Ай бұрын

You dont know how much i love your videos🫶🏼 i started watching your videos from the one called alone in ny and you grew so much!! Happy about that you deserve the world😭

@Jena.334 Ай бұрын

Your videos are what comforts me daily so much, you're like that big sister who is truthful yet soothing about life and it's struggles, love you so much Via, hope you have an amazing week 💗 💗💗

@hbonyxmidnight5 Ай бұрын

I love your videos during my time discovering myself after wasting my highschool years. ❤❤❤

@nihahanum6204 Ай бұрын

I'm grateful for finding your channel, sis ❤

@hehejinono Ай бұрын

Via you're my comfort youtuber, I'm glad you exist to give everyone great advice ❤❤

@mayonnaise8669 Ай бұрын

Im so happy i found ur account you've helped me so muchh ❤

@diamond46919 Ай бұрын

My next sem is startung in a few days, and your words gave me some insight :) Thank for being amazing as always We lob you ❤

@AmyHurter-yv2ul Ай бұрын

Thankyou via for all the advice❤️at the moment as a 16 year old I'm struggling to find a purpose in life and struggling with myself but your videos always make me feel better🥰💓💓💓ily💕

@chuucake Ай бұрын

i missed your journal entries Via♡♡♡

@anaverse0_0 Ай бұрын

I'm honestly obsessed with the fits!! I live for these videos 🌷😭

@chuucake Ай бұрын

i really admire and appreciate you a lot, Via ♡ thank you for all that you do 🩷🌷

@enayaahmed9200 Ай бұрын

i once had a panic attack and actually have really bad anxiety but i hid it from my friends and close ones for so long and when i finally told them it actually felt so nice!! i was so afraid for no reason 😭

@sunghoeeebnd Ай бұрын

I’ve been watching ur vids since ur first few vids and I can believe how far you’ve made it (honestly I can bcs ur so good @ what you do). I’m so proud of you viaaa💗💗