why i had no friends

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yep this is an update to a video i made 10 months ago. a lot of you guys related to that video hence i wanted to make an update of things i learned recently. i stood by the things i said in that video since we should not feel ashamed or not live our best life just because you don't have friends. again, making friends is hard. it's not an easy thing to do especially if you never had many friends growing up. it can be quite scary to navigate friendships since it requires you to be vulnerable. that was something i significantly struggled on. but i came to terms that this was something i needed to face. i need to be vulnerable and i will maybe be hurt but i think it'll be worth it. because some people are worth it and i'm tired of being scared to love things because i have way too much love inside of me to not give it to others.
i hope you all enjoyed this video and found it helpful. i love you all and i'll see you all next week.
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@vampycatt Ай бұрын

having no friends has its benefits but it can also be very lonely

@via.ilyouu Ай бұрын

yes exactly this

@Leon10ll1 Ай бұрын

Being lonely is good buttt feeling lonely!! Ughh is killing mee

@balticrevolt2552 Ай бұрын

@@Leon10ll1 it'll get better

@ibmn1l Ай бұрын

this is so true

@jayatichakraborty9319 Ай бұрын

Yeah it's true even i also sometimes feel lonely but I think it's better to feel lonely rather being in a toxic friendship

@keekeekakakookoo Ай бұрын

dude i just start realizing that i don’t need to drop someone at the first flaw i see. they show up how they want to show up; i should accept that. i forget that all my friends accept me for exactly how i show up and i should take more value into that.

@via.ilyouu Ай бұрын

you have no idea how happy i am to hear this

@hamkaokay Ай бұрын

Via li is like the honest person u need cuz no youtuber speaks the truth

@TokyoGirl-nj7pj Ай бұрын

@c4ttie_1 Ай бұрын

*Frrr*

@Estriena Ай бұрын

ISTG NO WORDS CAN DESCRIBE HOW MUCH I LOVE THIS WOMAN‼️

@GraceSiaNyuma Ай бұрын

we love you viaa

@Cherry_stan Ай бұрын

real

@YvelletMia Ай бұрын

This is literally my comfort place

@Cherry_stan Ай бұрын

mine too

@im_just_vidu Ай бұрын

I like the "healthy disagreement" point. As you said it's impossible to not have a disagreement in a long friendship. If friendship is a healthy one, we just love them despite flaws ❤

@Bluburyy Ай бұрын

Byebye world my therapist is here🎀

@uyennguyenmaiphuong9310 Ай бұрын

I have friends but I feel like I could never show them my true self, even to my closest friends whom I often hang out with. We talk about work, boss and colleagues at workplace, interests, life goals, career, movies that are all the hype at that time or any latest news etc. But I never share with them about my pain, my loss, my struggles, my mental health. I feel like people only want to be around positive people, and if you show any sign of weakness or negative thoughts, you will shoo them away. Growing up, I soon released I’m my only friend. The only person in the world who could understand me. People just don’t understand, and it’s impossible to make them understand. I don’t expect my friends to understand, but I do want their compassion and that they don’t judge me for the decisions I make for myself. I love my friends, but I will never show them my true self.

@karenvo9230 Ай бұрын

Maybe you should try opening up a bit about your struggle then see how they will react about it. If it's so insensitive or disregarding of them, at least you have the answer for yourself. I've been through the same situation w my ex and it was so lonely, but at least I got the answer and I went away. 😊

@DoraSalvarezza Ай бұрын

If that was true (that showing one's true self with the personal struggles etc will shoo everybody away) then no Goth would ever have any friends, ever (:

@Maniyaac Ай бұрын

I could relate to this so well, could never open up about the struggles no matter how much I love them for being with me.

@bluenoodlenow Ай бұрын

i can relate to you. in the video, via talked about if you show your weaknesses then now they have something against you, but they'll never actually do anything to harm you with that information. it has happened to me, subtly but, if i tell anyone anything, later on they'll joke about sensitive topics or blame me for it etc., so I've stopped. it's really hard to keep my struggles to myself and not tell literally anyone i feel like i might explode, especially bc i often get in a really talkative mood and overshare then regret later, bc i barely ever talk anymore and when i do it's totally filtered. I'm not encouraging you to do the same, i still don't have a good answer too. i guess I'll just meet new people and do something different, act differently, and, in the future, hope they will love me and be happy to have me around. i feel you.

@uyennguyenmaiphuong9310 28 күн бұрын

@@bluenoodlenow Hi, thank you so much for your reply. Your words warm my heart. I feel you too. We are all trying to be mentally stronger every single day. Right now I live by one principle. Do not overshare. Keep things to yourself. Do not show any sign of weakness, vulnerability or negative thoughts/ feelings cuz as I said, people just want to be around positive people, and as Via said, some may use your weakness against you. I’m now 25 and I wish I had learned this sooner. I know my principle is extreme, but I don’t know really. I haven’t figured out life yet, I don’t know what is the best way for me to live, maybe I will change in the next few years, but for now this is how I live. I moved to a new country that is Germany, met a lot of new friends, new colleagues. This is how I have lived ever since moving to Germany and how I will continue to live if nothing changes. I also feel like I might explode if I can’t open up to someone. But from my many experiences in the past, it’s still very much better to keep it to myself. I always regret telling my friends about my extremely dysfunctional family, I regret it so bad, so now I don’t do it anymore. I keep my mouth shut. Deep down I still wish I could have someone, a friend or partner whom I could open up to, tell them about my pain, my loss, my struggles without feeling like I’m such a burden to them, but that means breaking my principle. Idk, I think if someone chooses to open up to me first, then I might open up to them. All I know is I would never tell them 4 following sentences: 1. People have it worse than you. 2. You’re overreacting. 3. I’m suffering too, but I’m not like you. 4. Just think positively. That’s what people have said to me and it really hurts. I promise to myself that I would never say that to anyone if they choose to open up to me. Thank you for reading. I wish you all the best, I hope you stay strong mentally, and I hope you can find someone whom you can trust and love you for who you are.

@CallmePrincess78 Ай бұрын

Via's channel is so comforting

@omg.pslino Ай бұрын

How tf does Via express my own thoughts better than I do myself? She's the queen out here

@jennnz_ Ай бұрын

Thank you Via, I just felt very lonely with no people that truly understands me. I feel like friends are something I could never have because people don’t like me. Then your video popped up and this feels like a sign from the universe. Thank you ☺️

@i_love_rescue_animals Ай бұрын

@jennnz_ You can have friends! If I can have friends (I can be difficult, at times), you certainly can. ❤‍🩹

@addie4692 Ай бұрын

god i love u so much, when i was at my lowest girl I'm not even exaggerating u pulled me from that. so very grateful for you.

@am0ram4rillo Ай бұрын

literally same, idk why i didn't discover this yt channel earlier😭❤️‍🩹

@lilycat8702 Ай бұрын

I'm struggling with my trust issues because a lot of my friends in the past were fake, and now even if i make a new friend i just know they're not gonna stay with me, so i just keep myself away from people even though i feel so lonely but i don't want to hurt my feelings

@via.ilyouu Ай бұрын

i struggled with this and even now i do. it’s hard to trust people when you’ve been backstabbed in the past. but we need to remember that not everyone are the people who hurt us. trust me, there are good people are there. and ofc there are shitty people out there. but to build true and meaningful friends, we have to be vulnerable and let people in 🤍

@nikuvv Ай бұрын

same exact reason :(

@carinhia Ай бұрын

Via, you are such a good person. I’ve been dealing with having no friends i guess for 3 years now. And you can’t even imagine (ik you can) how hard and f*cked up that is. You feel bad, but don’t have anyone to talk. You cry, but don’t have anyone to share your feelings or show them. Believe me, my depression’s main builder is this. When I saw your first video, having no friends, it triggered me a little bit tbh. Because I didn’t want to face something that I feel guilty about it. I feel like “you are the reason you don’t have friends.” And trust me, as a person who always makes herself guilty, convicted, tells herself that you are ugly, you’re not enough for anything, you can’t do anything at all, it’s so god damn hard girl. Whenever your eyes are full, also my eyes are full. We might faced totally different situations but at the end, i think it’s a little bit similar about feelings that we feel. I have never said to myself “I’m proud of you, I’m proud of what you have been through and still here, still breathing and still have hope, things to do.” but I can tell you this with my whole heart. Congratulations for your effort for living. I mean it. Never forget that your power of dealing with all of things is something that not everyone can do. I appreciate for you, for you existing. Keep going. I wish you best, with my whoole heart. Even though we are sooo so far away from each other. (This girl lives in Istanbul 😂😂) ♥️♥️✨

@vinuthnasaisri7601 Ай бұрын

you're so sweet

@veronicagabrielli8253 Ай бұрын

Completely off topic: every single video this human posts has the best face cards. Her face it's just so pleasant to look at.

@mikyahperry8121 Ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing 😭 her color palette that’s she chooses as far as clothes and makeup is so nice to look at

@angelc8re Ай бұрын

i've recently almost lost all my friends and i have a lot family issues and every time you surprise me with a video that warms my heart and make me feel better and move on thank you so much via 💗

@lou-xr5rz Ай бұрын

you make so many people feel less alone, i hope you know that. as a kid i never learned how to be open around people. for the last few years i've been working really hard at it, trying to be vulnerable around them, because that's how you make deeper friendships. and-it's hard. and i'm uncomfortable with it, but it's necessary stuff. 'short term discomfort for long term peace.' thank you via. let's keep going. sending love.

@harrieha5604 Ай бұрын

from my notes app - "I know love exists because I love and I am not special" thank you for the video!

@user-gy6lf7rr1s Ай бұрын

Via is literally such a genuine human and her just living life makes me wanna keep living life as someone with anxiety ❤

@_Brea_ Ай бұрын

I don't want to trauma dump, but lately ive been called annoying 4 being an extrovert, so, ive been keeping to myself and to see this video pop up just made me feel supported and related too. Tysm Via!

@babygurleatsschickennugget6431 Ай бұрын

i think via saying that inevitably you'll find flaws in your friends and that being normal was an eye-opener for me. i think i have this mindset of where i can't have good friendships until i am perfect and i fit together with another person perfectly. but now i realize that being different is ok, it's what makes you and others unique and that it's ok to have disagreements because in the end it's still a friendship both parties cherish. thank you sm via !!

@ParulTiwari-fb2kq Ай бұрын

Oh via I have to say this, I used to have like 0 friends in highschool and I used to blame myself because I thought it was because of my personality or something so this helped me 🌸

@haha-xh6ve Ай бұрын

One thing I can take from this video is the need to vocalise yourself and being able to be your vulnerable self. In order to build those really good friendships. That is something I've picked up in myself, I don't like being vulnerable or showing true self. Could a a fear of judgement thing

@Learning-ej3mr Ай бұрын

Badly Wanting to be independent when facing bad circumstances is so true we see depending as weakness but "Having friends is not a sign of weakness, having friends is great ❤"

@beewitchingnz Ай бұрын

as good as it is to be able to make peace with being on your own, we are social animals so it is important to make friends or connections of some kind (they dont have to be really close friendships, it is hard to make friends!) this is something i struggled with a lot early in adulthood.

@ahndeul Ай бұрын

i love how we can see via grow throughout the months through her videos - it gives me hope that i can become a healthier person too :)

@tx0621 Ай бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to hear pretty much everything you said was so me. I’ve realized that I’ve just been so afraid of the steps that it takes to have long term friendships that I’ve let good friends pass me by. It can be scary but it’s definitely necessary sending you lots of love 🤍

@Pepperminte Ай бұрын

Tysm Via genuinely this video could not have come at a better time, your advice and journal entries are helping so many people even if you don't realize it

@Emsjrr Ай бұрын

RELATABLE. Thanks for this video ! I really needed this… You’re a beautiful person ❤️❤️

@user-ox6dx3tp3l Ай бұрын

sis this video healed me so much this defended me to not to have a bad friendship i was just begging that one girl to stay with me but now i am healed and i now i just will do friendship with those who are loyal w me tysm!!❤

@-Sooyasoo- Ай бұрын

Via's videos keep telling me that i can be okay on my own and you've helped me soooo much in loving myself Via! *sending the best hugs* ❤

@BeltaiefYasmin Ай бұрын

i just love your energy your journey with therapy evolves day by day i think that having no friends can help you have a break of people of their toxicness i don't mean that there aren't good people out their as you said but the problem is when you are soo nice and kind to people they turn out to be back stabbers and i don't reallly want that to happen and i couldn't find that one friend who understands my flaws and whom i feel comfortable with but thank you for your pieces of advice and your soothing videos it really helps to continue by journey to accept my flaws and other peoples

@notkaitachibanalive Ай бұрын

Every time I reflect on something you post a video related to it!!! Also you also always talk about what I talked to myself about and this is why I love your channel

@intrnetbaby Ай бұрын

not even kidding i’m incredibly grateful for these videos. it really changed my perspective on things because i used to be like you

@selinaxiang9421 Ай бұрын

I need to thank you for posting. I was in a bad place when I came upon your channel and I have never stop watching since then. Your message always touches my heart. I’m really grateful for your videos and for you to share your experiences with us. Thank you ❤❤

@izzy516 Ай бұрын

this video was exactly what i needed rn. I also have a problem with avoiding and having a fear of opening up so this helped me a lot thank you 🙏

@Nicole24689 Ай бұрын

I am so happy for you. It’s seems like you have grown so much and I can relate with you so much because I do the exact same thing I leave instead of communicating. I am trying to get better. This video has really helped me realise my own tendencies in relationships. I am still so surprised that I can relate with you so much I actually got so emotional watching this because it explains how I am.

@riizeboyz_ Ай бұрын

i literally NEEDED this video rn, all the things u said were like a slap in the face and it’s made me realize so many things abt myself and my flaws in friendships. i love via sm😭

@VarnikaSingh-ks1hg Ай бұрын

honestly I love you and your vids so much! everywhere you go you just seem to take us along with you, and you're so completely honest with us in a way no one else is. your vlogs are sooooo much comforting❤✨🥺

@nino-lg2pp Ай бұрын

i wish i knew what topics to bring up w my therapist to get to the point of growth and trigger the needed self-reflection that you have gone thru! i followed you during your independent year(s?) and your journey has been incredible to see + you're so good at explaining things and similar thought processes that my avoidant self thinks too 😭😭 i'm so glad you were able to put yourself out there + actually truly find good friends!!

@red_cherie Ай бұрын

I AM SO GLAD I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL ILYSM 💗

@Maniyaac Ай бұрын

I always get overwhelmed and burst into tears when I think about myself- I distance myself from people who show me love before things get serious and for them to think that we're close. I really have no idea but as said in this video I'm scared or not good with the long term friendships. Finding flaws in people is the secondary for me but I always tend to match the people's energy to feel included but internally I'd be crying to be left alone. It feels like shit when you don't know how you feel. Thank you so much for the video It was so relatable and yet comforting to know that there are people like me who feels the same. Listening to you will always be a therapy love youuu❤

@user-ru4xk1dt9i Ай бұрын

Yay I’m happy via posted I used to have 0 friends the few years ago and that really made me so sad but these two years I’ve had many new friends at first I was so happy cause like I have more than 10+ but actually now I’m starting to feel like it’s the same without them i go through my depression sessions alone nobody cares or asks while I’m here giving them all my love and support but like they will never text me if I don’t text first .they are nice people they’re the best I see the way they talk to their friends and comfort them while they don’t even bother to ask about me so yeah they’re good people but just not for me lol it hurts

@marchenjoy Ай бұрын

This was a really nice and encouraging video, Via!! I think through the last year, I’ve also learned the value of real friends you don’t have to put up an act around or people I end up masking and become a people pleaser around :’) I’m happy you’ve found this love and confidence for yourself and your friends now!!

@AngGe2243 Ай бұрын

Thanksss, Via. This video came out just as I was about to have another breakdown and cry how awful I am due to another overthinking sesh lol(still gonna cry and journal about it though). Thankss for being here and sharing this to us. ❤🥺

@shrishtisingh3364 Ай бұрын

shes just like a really warm hug when things dont feel right

@alwiya2492 Ай бұрын

The timing of this is perfect. I still don’t have any friends, but I’m in the process of trying to trust and open up to my family as of right now. They want to help me out of this deep dark hole that I’ve been in for years, but I’m afraid they’re going to see me struggle and start giving me tough love. Here’s to hoping it’s smooth sailings from here on out 🌊✨

@m1sty_57 Ай бұрын

Via, thank you so much. You have helped me through some of the toughest times in my life, and taught me that it's okay to not be okay. Even though I'm still really struggling with friend and family issues, I feel a little less lonely every time you make a video. Because of your videos, I decided to live my life for myself instead of only for other people. It can be lonely without friends, but everything has it's benefits, and taking care of yourself can actually help you meet more people

@CrazyBirdo Ай бұрын

your videos literally force this sense of comfort on me that it’s okay to be a lonely teen and it’s okay to not be okay, your videos make me feel validated and I swear I’ve watched like all your videos you’re my favourite channel atm ❤❤❤

@AvaD2626 Ай бұрын

Via you’re actually such a hidden gem omgg. Your channel has helped me sm u don’t even know and it’s just so comforting

@diemondschein Ай бұрын

You're helping me so much with your videos, now I feel safe to change and try new things I've always wanted! Please, keep posting, you are helping a lot! Wish you the best!

@khadijanedhal4735 23 күн бұрын

Literally everything u just said is so relatable, i feel like u said everything I've been feeling 💗💗💗

@vc2585 Ай бұрын

I resonated so much with your I Have No Friends videos, and I learned so much more about myself through this video. You are such a gem, Via!

@Eri27-bg4hx Ай бұрын

I'm so happy I found your channel ! I am hooked ! Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. You are a delight. 😊

@MonikaDaddarwal Ай бұрын

thank you for being so raw. that's the only way ppl should be, imo. so, thanks, Via. it's good to find that on yt.

@fkrm143 Ай бұрын

Bruh, girl you are literally me

@cherrysws_ Ай бұрын

shes all of us

@fkrm143 Ай бұрын

@@cherrysws_ that’s why we are here

@cosmi. Ай бұрын

I’m going through something like this rn too, im so glad you post videos like this

@orionyoyo3427 Ай бұрын

I've been a subscriber for a while now and I mainly like your solo trips. However, once I started tuning into your other videos like this one, it made me realize many things. The inner thoughts I had hidden away for my facade to the world came out when I watched this. It hurts and at the same time feels like a burst of fresh air to finally hear someone say the words out loud and to say it's okay and it's hard to be vulnerable. It makes me feel not alone and with your advice and actions to do to gain friends, I feel like I have a better grasp on how to do that. Thank you Via and thank you for telling your thoughts and for helping those who are stuck in this corner.

@user-vr7em4dd8f Ай бұрын

I recently discovered your channel, and your videos are so comforting and relatable! Currently studying outside of my home country, and sometimes I feel alone in this world and get depressed easily. Just wanted to say these videos help me so much, thank you Via💗

@huhh6969 Ай бұрын

Man I love you so much. This is the exact topic I’ve been struggling about since a few days. My scl just started and I started talking to new people in my class and she actually mentioned something really briefly that she thinks I overshare sometimes and perphaps I should really try to be happy with myself. Watching this video made me realise I overshare because that’s my subconscious attempt of protecting myself against ppl. I overshare and if anyone reacts badly, my brain signals me to cut them off. Obviously this only leads to people taking advantage of my vulnerable side. I relate so hard to be scared of ruining a friendship. I m scared that me struggling with depression and mental health issues will ruin stuff. I hate people seeing me with flaws like that. But as you said, if they’re my real friends, they’ll love me with all my flaws. You’re right, I also never give my true 100% with my personality because I m always in a defensive mode with new people. Tysm via, you don’t know how much I relate to your videos and found comfort in it as a struggling 15 year old. Things are slightly better now as a 16 year old, but I really love these videos of yours.

@__irenic Ай бұрын

I want to say that I really love you!!!! I've learned a lot from you!! Thank you for this video, I realized where I was going wrong and how I can improve myself!💗💗

@chiaradileo2491 Ай бұрын

So grateful for your videos, very relatable ❤ hope the channel keeps going!

@Cherry_stan Ай бұрын

I looove your energy in this video!! I'm very happy that you're feeling better and this video has helped me realise some stuff, so I just wanted to thank you

@edaerenler8322 Ай бұрын

It so weird to listen to you sometimes because you are the thoughts that I keep for myself. I see myself in you 🥺

@Jjj-nq6lp 18 күн бұрын

binge-watching your video. you make me feel better and valuable. thank you !! sending much love xoxo

@georgiana3127 Ай бұрын

You said something in this video that uncovered my mind and solved the problem, thank you!

@nouspls98 Ай бұрын

Thank u soooooo much for this, I really needed this 💗 Could not have come at a better time 😊 Also: would love a video on how to make new friends, healthy friendships in general

@Choi.Eunhaa Ай бұрын

I lost a group of friends because they were being really agressive towards me and I never have like close friends so I tried my best to communicate but a friendship is always 2 sided, if you try your best to fix the relationship and they dont care then its over, you did your best to fix, but its 2 sided, if they dont care then its not gonna work. I love you videos Via! keep going strong! you are like a friend I can listen to while doing things

@pipelinep7nch 15 сағат бұрын

im watching this at 1am while struggling to get my hair out of its rat nest and drinking pepsi. this video was so oddly comforting and i'm so grateful you're making videos like these, i find a lot of your content genuinely very motivational and helpful and it's been getting me to do more stuff that i try to avoid lately like cleaning my room, basic 'taking care if myself' things, etc. and i really just wanna say i admire the way you put things into words and i'm so thankful you're making such cool content, you make it feel like i'm actually being listened to and talked to by a close friend, love you via !!! 🤍

@ibmn1l Ай бұрын

new Via video!! i love your talks so much, they are reassuring & relatable. i love the topic of friends, i currently don't have any but do seek true friendships

@alishaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Ай бұрын

thank you via!!! i always watch your videos and feel so seen.

@sumerrbliss.28 Ай бұрын

You are saving my life girl😭💅✨ you're an angel🧚‍♀️🎀

@Monioka Ай бұрын

Any time I try and communicate hard things I always regret it and think about it all night long and the next day. Even if they took it well or not! I always regret it and I hate it because it should be normal and healthy.

@diamond46919 Ай бұрын

I LOVE vias growth :) "I feel really good looking at your progress, if people can change i can too!" Is what i think looking at you Thanks for being so real

@M1KQ. Ай бұрын

YOU INSPIRE ME SM LIKE I PUT YOU FOR MY HW "make a ppt about a person who inspires you" AND MY TEACHER ABSOLUTLY LOVES YOU

@Anaiyahs Ай бұрын

Omg I’m so happy I found this video so soon I love your content!!

@auchfernweh14 Ай бұрын

i didn’t know people felt this way too, this video helped me so so much.

@heyhey8684 Ай бұрын

I love how real you are!!! I relate to ur struggles!!

@superlyobsessed Ай бұрын

I love this update, glad you're doing better ❤ as a fearful avoidant can definitely relate :')

@loveamara. Ай бұрын

via is literally so me coded💞🎀

@stephenkicinski6776 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much ❤ I’m facing these same challenges and you are so encouraging ☺️

@nittilathamothran8371 Ай бұрын

This was so helpful via, will always be a devote follower of yours

@Gofittwice Ай бұрын

Omgggg you posted again Girl I loveeeee your videos ❤❤❤ they are so comforting 💞

@andrewquinonez9803 Ай бұрын

Making long term friends has always been a struggle for me. And like you pointed out, I would wear a mask sometimes in these friendships and I wouldn’t feel as happy as I should and then it would make me shameful when I’d want to be myself. I’ve learned to enjoy being by myself but now I’ve learned to be my more genuine self with people I would see as wanting to be good friends with. Life’s too short to worry if 1 of 7 billion people won’t become a long term friend! Anyway thank you for being my virtual therapist (will get a irl one soon ofc lol)

@lindahanduong Ай бұрын

Your channel is literally so relevant to my life. I found it hard to find true friends and people who really care about me. I’m usually alone most of the time, people are only there for me when they need something. When I got slightly older, I found a real and true best friend that accepts me for me and stands up for me and helps me to be a better version of myself.

@rina4169 Ай бұрын

Sometimes I feel like I do good at managing my thoughts and emotions alone but watching your videos made me realize we’re alike in many ways. Because of this, you’ve inspired me to go seek therapy bc I don’t actually have my stuff together and that’s ok I just need to stop pretending i do and talk to someone! ❤❤

@emoapsu Ай бұрын

Hey Viaa, i just wanted to say that i love your videos! your videos always make me think deeply and i get so much comfort from your videos. anyways, love ya!

@kavyacreativity5927 Ай бұрын

Heyy via!! whenever I am feeling low or down and just don't have the energy to do anything I watch your videos and it relaxes me out and helps me understand my emotions. Love you and your videos!!!

@rrxxhh1 11 күн бұрын

I love your videos because it make me feel comfortable

@user-du2pm4ev6c Ай бұрын

I love you via ,I just felt very lonely with no people,that truly understands me

@sweetth00th91 Ай бұрын

Via is genuinely such an empathetic person, I adore your videos and they've helped better my mindset so so much !!! They help me realize that being different **isn't** a bad thing and they help me love myself more than I realized

@yaseminsdiary Ай бұрын

i relate to this video sm. i had a friend group which i felt unwanted when i was with them and i couldn’t get myself to talk to them because some of them always dismissed my feelings. i believe that i can speak my thoughts and feelings very well if the other person is also willing to listen and on the same page as me. knowing this i think most of the people in the friend group don’t have secure attachment and are not mature enough to make a genuine constructive conversation. that’s why i left the group chats without even saying anything. maybe that wasn’t right either but i don’t want to explain myself to someone who just tries to make themselves look better every time and just tells me i overreact. then last year when i saw your other video i was having issues with the same friend group. i’m glad it is over now and i can move forward.

@isaamaandaa Ай бұрын

*lovee your content, via! appreciate how honest you are.* ✨️♡

@superquiz6357 Ай бұрын

Via with your wonderful videos you literally became my therapist, I feel so much better with myself thanks to you. Keep it up💪, lots of love from Italy♥️

@sesameseed5598 Ай бұрын

watching this video literally felt like i was watching myself speak but through via, i very much relate to everything she said…! i’m seventeen, recently finished my first year of university, and i made absolutely zero friends. at first i blamed those around me but then i realised i kept pushing everyone away before they had a chance to get close. my “i don’t need nor want anyone” mindset was so strong it hurt. my birthday is in four days and i was planning to spend the entire day alone. after watching this i’m thinking maybe i should invite a few friends that i’ve gotten close to recently to celebrate the day with me! lots of love via, you’re helping the people who watch your videos in more ways than you could possibly imagine

@itsjustaliyah Ай бұрын

ever since i found via, life seems to somewhat make more sense. Also i found the fun in being pretty and enjoying alone time so thank you for being like the older sister i never had