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Never date a woman who talks about her private life on the internet for random strangers to see.

Never put a woman on pedestal, she will take you for granted and treat you like dirt.

The only thing necessary to turn an average human being into a monster is to give them no boundaries.

Is it wrong for me to say that Kevin should seek professional help immediately?

The adage: "Treat your girl like a star, she'll treat you like a fan" applies here. So very true.

He is a mega beta. He threw his life away to be pathetic - full time.

Never be Kevin

It’s not my job to teach an adult woman how to maturely handle herself. That was her parents job.

The divorce for that guy is going to be BRUTAL. She is going to take him for everything he's worth. Apparently he's a surgeon.

I find the expectations of women I don’t know to be ridiculous too. At a hostel, just 2 hours ago, a strange woman came up to me whilst I was eating corn chips and just held out her hand expecting me to give some to her. Another time one dumped her bag next to me and asked if I could look after it. No polite requests, just demands. The list goes on, and they’re so surprised and offended when I say no. They really walk around expecting men to be their servants.

She reminds me of my wife when we just met. She was malnourished as a student, because her mother didn't teach even simple meal prep. She lived off cookies, boiled rice with canned pineapple and macaroni with sugar. Her mother felt that a modern woman didn't need to have to cook, at all, ever. It made her daughters deeply dependent on others to provide. So, I taught her how to cook. After that I waited a bit to see if she'd stick around for me. She did. Now she's my wife. Weekend cooking is still my domain.

it's time women learn to take care of a man... DRIZZLE DRIZZLE

These are spoiled children, not mature women.

Modern women want to sit on their imaginary thrones while expecting to receive the perfect relationship on a plate and not lift a finger.

We're not meant to live problem-free lives.

You just know that when Kevin gets his once-a-month starfish experience, she's thinking about every other guy but him.

That is called a slave.

That IS NOT an adult woman...

"Beauty fades, skills dull, knowledge is forgotten, but STUPID IS FOREVER!" -- MR

Dating a adult child

When I first got with my late wife over 20 years ago she was extremely sheltered. I was an army brat so had a very different upbringing. She came from a very traditional asian family, it was just family events, private school and church. Her family were great people but they over protected all their kids. My wife had never moved more than 5 minutes away from the house she was born in, driven more than 40 minutes away from home, never repaired anything, never pumped her own gas, never done anything that required adrenaline, etc. By the time she passed away a few months ago she had a Harley Fatboy, dirt bikes, quads, camping, hiking, fishing, could pee in the woods, could change tires, change her own oil, she'd drive 11 hours to a different state to visit family, had traveled, could do basic household/car repairs, etc. I never made her do anything but if she was willing to try something I'd show her what I knew. She developed a love of learning new things. She was very happy person, all her cousins (large extended family) would constantly 'ooh and aah' over all the 'wild' things that she could do. Her cousins are in their 40-50's now and still have so many fears in life.

Treating your partner like a queen needs to be a special thing, not an expected thing. The goal is for both partners to be CAPABLE of doing everything. Then they can divide tasks.

Jesus... I'm only 30 seconds into this and the crystal ball is telling me that this is a guy who will get cheated on.

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

My mother was like a toddler. I was emotionally "parentified." I was responsible for HER behaviour. If she had a tantrum it was my fault. My dad would throw me under the bus so she would scream at me instead, essentially using me as a human shield, his tiny, disabled daughter.

I bet Kevin carrys her boyfriend's bags when he stays for the weekend

They are Super Sized two year olds...

Never put someone on a pedestal because that means they are looking down at you

He's not her man, he's her servant.

If a woman asks you to peel an orange for them, she failed the orange peel test.

First girl must be exaggerating. Can’t believe any relationship could work this way, including in gender reverse.

My favourite was Terry Pratchett. "Make a fire for a man and he will be warm for a night. Set him on fire and he will be warm for life"

I married a "Daddy-Do-It" woman. She'd sit around idle, waiting for me to finish a 12 hour shift and then ask me "what's for dinner? I'm hungry." If she folded some laundry, she deserved applause and help putting it away. Meanwhile I'm doing half of the housework, all of the cooking, all of the shopping, work twice as many hours as her... and get the "I need a massage" routine at the end of the day... because... she had a hard day... complaining for 3 hours that she had a hard day.

It’s too much in 30 seconds.

R.i.P Kevin

I did not expect this sponsorship

My brothers ex wife used to put his socks and shoes on before work. He was shocked that people thought it was pathetic and not awesome.

These kinds find each other and they soon reproduce. And the cycle continues.

Again we're not seeing the accountability on the parents. Thanks for pointing that out.

She WILL cheat. Assuming she’s not already. She will tell him the cheating is his fault and he will believe it.

My wife panicked the other day because she dropped our daughter off at school and she got a flat tire. She busted in the back door crying and yelling. I asked her where's your van? She said I left it and walked home. I asked her "why are you crying?" I'll go fix it for you but you don't need to cry about it. She freaked out at me and filed for divorce.

The problem is that I lost bunch of my friends because they have similar interpersonal dynamics within their families while I keep my masculine frame. It just becomes unsustainable. And over time I lose respect to men like that.

This woman is a child. She is sooo lost its embarrassing

When I was looking for a mother to bear and raise children, these types were tested and tossed.

That orange test, WTF? "You passed!" Talking to him like a dog you just got to do a trick. How are these childish games not immediately driving the guy away?

With reciprocity, no problem to be nice and caring. It’s actually a good test to see how they behave in return.

I have a friend who is like this… he even supports the mother of his gf. But every time I talk to him he is sad and then he forgives her. This is his third relationship that this happens, I believe he likes this.

The less you do the better it is. Women do NOT appreciate anything. NO MATTER WHAT YOU HAVE DONE.

I'm so glad someone else viscerally HATES Queen/Princess expectations. Every time I see a "Princess" license plate or decal. And I abhor 💩 tests. We used to call it "trying someone, and it was highly frowned upon. The girl that was always "trying" her boyfriend had obvious mental challenges and was deemed unfit for dating when the word got out. Speaking as a father of two grown daughters, I never served things up. They hated talking to the counter person at McDonald's, so I made them start with telling waiters what they wanted. I challenged them regularly and told them about the nasty things in the world, and also taught them situational awareness. That's one of the most important things to teach girls. Pay attention. They've already avoided two potentially dangerous instances because they saw them unfolding and did the Snagglepuss. Exit, stage left.

So true on the "she starts expecting it" and "if it doesn't go perfect for her". My partner was going through depression and so I stepped up more and more and more in doing most everything. But after a couple months of this, the more I did the more it was no longer considered specially for her in her mind and it was just expected or "Your supposed to do that", when I did special level things. And if I planned a day centered around her, the smallest inconvenience or frustration, she would latch onto and tell her friends the day was horrible because of something that took up 2min in an otherwise perfect day, even if I had no control over the minor "problem" at all. The more I did the more I was made to feel less of her equal by her.

That commercial came out of nowhere 😂

I went to high school with Miki so it is incredibly surreal to see her on one of your video thumbnails. But I'm not too surprised

This is society wide. Not just concerning women. As a society, we've become so soft, with so few real challenges, we're making up conflicts to fill the need for difficulty.

Idk how but even as a 21 yr old girl not even in a relationship your channel is very helpful. I feel your advice towards your male viewers is just general life advice about human nature and self respect/boundaries and it helps me a lot; as well as understanding what tendencies to not normalize or emulate to cultivate a healthy relationship for the future. Also your reaction is entertaining too lol, Thanks Alexander

A woman came to me because she was having issues taking the peel off of a banana! So I took the banana and showed her to take the banana from the opposite end that she was holding it from and squeeze it till it splits open then peel it! I handed back the rest of the unpeeled banana and said "Here you go, now you will never have to ask anyone for help with this issue again" :)

that is a child, not a woman

This woman literally exists as a grown child

This video hit all the points on the head. Great illustrations. Great summary.

They call you man child for playing videogame for 2 hours after your 8 hours shift. Meanwhile she spends a cumulative 6 hours of her day in social media, can't cook and egg even to save her life, can't peal and cut an apple, and apparently it turns out that they don't even know how to tide their shoe laces... Talk about irony.

Drizzle drizzle.

You can always understand how much a woman respects her man the way she speaks about him. Everything she listed the guy dies for her she just take those things for granted and doesn't appreciate it for a minute. While these women will also come on social media and make videos if the guy doesn't bring any flowers or does things they want him to do. There's a remarkable distinction between a woman says what she wants and what she responds to.

Gents, these are some amazingly-GOOD examples of what men are expected to do and what they really have to do to maintain a long-term relationship. It is beyond unrealistic.

Even if they both legitimately enjoyed these stupid behaviors, ask her, "Do you imagine he would still kiss your toes when you're in your fifties, sixties, etc?" I imagine toe-kissing wouldn't be enough at that point. Things would have escalated to an impossible degree by then, but of course the relationship would have ended well before that point.

Kevin will be cheated on and left very soon.

Hmm , all I heard was " ..Kevin will always apologize first no matter whose fault it is , his obviously " Of course, the Man Mistake even when he is possibly in the right.

Your rant about "Treat me like a queen" was great! I was busting a gut laughing and cheering in agreement at the same time!

Women will be ungrateful if she expects u to treat her perfectly all the time.

She's lying, This is click bait or she knows the meaning of Quid pro quo.

Infantile adults require service. "Service to others" individuals serve without expectation of appreciation-- especially from underdeveloped others. "Service to others" is superior to "service to self"; though, people who serve do not buy into entitlement. Spiritual growth models.

Eventually, he will stop this nonsense, and it will trigger her to leave him claiming he doesn’t love her anymore. Setting these expectations you can't maintain and shouldn't have to begin with will destroy your relationship.

Coddled like a little child.

Modern women have the mental fortitude of a child.

Now- he peels her fruit and ties her shoes... imagine when he finds his self-respect and a woman who actually sees him as an equal person. Imagine how her world will implode.

Treat her like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan.

"Do better!" Yes, so constructive. "There's no money in any of this." Ah, there we go! So I should treat you like a hoor? Great. No more gifts; money is on the nightstand; once I finish, you eff off.

I can confirm this. Two Chinese women I dated told me their previous partners had cut up their food for them. One of these "women" liked to play badminton and we had a game together one night. When I beat her she threw the shuttlecock and then the racket at me because her regular bf (who she was cheating on with me) used to let her win al the time.

I had an ex that would run out of gas occasionally. Eventually I said to her, look at the flipping fuel gauge. What do you think E and F stand for? She said Enough and Finished. We pissed ourselves laughing. She did have a good sense of humor.

She selected a lover to replace her dad's care for her?!!! Yuck --My husband takes care of me; he fixes everything, works hard, he challenges my views, when I'm sick he's supportive & steps up! --Bcuz he's so incredible I WANT to do MORE for HIM!!! I'm constantly thanking & praising him; joking about how easy he makes things look after I've been attempting to do it myself for a week(he makes jokes or brushes off my praise), but I wish he'd ask more of me & I've told him that❤

Adult man ties an adult woman’s shoes…. There are a few times when it can be acceptable and not a red flag on the man’s or woman’s part…. 1) there is some physical infirmity on the woman’s part, 2) woman is holding a sleeping baby and they don’t want to disturb the baby, 3) … can’t think of another that doesn’t seem completely emasculating

"Her Brain will atrophy" - LOL

I always watch Alexandre video for the ads 😄

what incredibly weak men

It is hard to get the whole story in one clip. The first woman would do well to mention some of the things she does for him every day as well. It’s fine to do little things for each other every day as long as it isn’t totally one sided. She could also say that she hates filling the car with gas, so he does it MOST of the time.

How do those women have no desire to be self sufficient? I can't imagine feeling so entitled. Someone does a lot for you, how is there no desire to reciprocate?

Soft guy era. Drizzle drizzle 😂

Women say many lies, just to impress their sisterhood.

Hopefully you made bank on that ad, because that was wild 😂

Watching that valentines day argument definitely triggered my disgust response...hard. It makes me want her to suffer greatly. At least the guy seemed to be coming to his senses.

It's early, quickly, tell a joke! The girls in the clips. Phew! That was close!

This adult woman is still a child! Kevin should leave.

Beware Kevin, she's gonna leave you when she thinks she can do better.

She forgot to say he was dumb

Kevin needs a good divorce lawyer and a couple nights out a week with the boys. Kevin is THE EXACT type of man who enables and perpetuates this nightmare ad infinitum.

Kevin and anyone like him: 1. I implore you, have some self-respect, bro. If you don't respect yourself, she certainly won't respect you - which is already evident from the video alone. 2. You could do A LOT better. This girl is taking advantage of you and she knows it. That alone makes her a low quality woman. Don't pursue low quality women. You'll suffer terribly for it. Better to be alone than with a low quality woman. Get out asap.

This is the best video I have seen in awhile. Spot on commentary

Some people are too nice for a world with users and parasites.

Nah, I want king treatment. Drizzle Drizzle

We need to bring shame back into society.

A woman I was dating told me on our 5th date what she REALLY wanted - it all came out, she wanted material things, and "to be spoiled" and "I want to be treated like a queen" - to which I said, "Well, a lot of Queens get beheaded". She didn't expect it but that was our last date.