Woman Acquitted After Killing Romantic Rival with an Ax | Candy Montgomery Case Analysis

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Dr. Todd Grande

Dr. Todd Grande

2 жыл бұрын

This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Candy Montgomery?
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@JohnH204
@JohnH204 2 жыл бұрын
Just an appalling decision by that jury, 41 whacks with an axe is NOT self defense!!!
@AnnieBoBannie421
@AnnieBoBannie421 2 жыл бұрын
Betty was completely innocent. That was 1st degree murder.... I just don't get the attraction.... she's very unfortunate looking so I'm not sure how she worked people.....
@Flamsterette
@Flamsterette 2 жыл бұрын
Lizzie Borden definitely wasn't doing self-defense.
@roxyjohnson5112
@roxyjohnson5112 2 жыл бұрын
I was shocked she got off. the poor family
@mindy5206
@mindy5206 2 жыл бұрын
@@AnnieBoBannie421 It's called personality. Have you ever heard of it? People have affairs with people who make them FEEL a certain way.
@nanettevalencia4243
@nanettevalencia4243 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed! What a bunch of worthless people on that jury
@suzannefernandez470
@suzannefernandez470 2 жыл бұрын
What a nightmare. Candy is a mental health worker? Now I've heard everything.
@annkeany6602
@annkeany6602 2 жыл бұрын
Right! I couldn’t believe that either fn 😜!!!!
@djg5950
@djg5950 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine getting mental health advice from her and then finding out about this case ? I'd be dumbfounded.
@magmasunburst9331
@magmasunburst9331 2 жыл бұрын
More people need to study the theory themselves. Doctoral level psychoanalytic theory is not as difficult as medical subjects that require biology. It's a fascinating study and if you just keep up with it you can learn a lot of it on your own.
@jlbaker2000
@jlbaker2000 2 жыл бұрын
Seriously. The ironies of life!
@pwallace5359
@pwallace5359 2 жыл бұрын
That’s almost as disgusting as her getting off Scott free .
@dlead9801
@dlead9801 2 жыл бұрын
"Taking baby from a Candy" might be your best one-liner to date
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
That really WAS Genius! Dr. Grande is just excellent!
@notremembering
@notremembering 2 жыл бұрын
Agree. Another great one from Dr, Grande…..
@showducky81
@showducky81 2 жыл бұрын
I haven’t laughed so hard in a while!
@lou70x7
@lou70x7 2 жыл бұрын
I was like "DAMN IT GRANDE, HOW DO YOU DO IT! "
@kristin2798
@kristin2798 2 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard!
@aislinn3611
@aislinn3611 2 жыл бұрын
People do a lot less than Candy and get long prison sentences. Crazy that she walked free.
@Mangzorz
@Mangzorz 2 жыл бұрын
For real. Weed possession gets time in jail or prison, but she axes someone 41 times and gets away scott free? Insane
@aarondavis8943
@aarondavis8943 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mangzorz We have to save people from destroying themselves with drugs by locking them up in places where drugs are freely available. Why can't you see the logic in that?
@emkay888
@emkay888 2 жыл бұрын
Things were different in 1980. Juries gave more weight to hypnosis & mental health expert witness testimony even though they knew much less than we know now. I think they made up for their lack of knowledge with grandiosity and cockiness to impress juries but that’s just my opinion. I’ve heard of other cases from 40 years ago that had strange outcomes but this one takes the cake. And Candy’s tight perm might’ve had some strange power over the men on her life and the jury.
@edniitacuhhh7054
@edniitacuhhh7054 2 жыл бұрын
That's the judicial system for ya
@isitoveryet9525
@isitoveryet9525 2 жыл бұрын
@@edniitacuhhh7054 of course the outcomes will be different lol Different states have different laws…there’s different prosecutors, judges, jurors etc Idk why people act like every trial is created equal, or act surprised when different cases have different outcomes
@teresamckeown5594
@teresamckeown5594 2 жыл бұрын
I just watched the Hulu dramatization of the Candy Montgomery story. I was STUNNED when she was acquitted. Equally stunned that it took her husband 4 years to divorce her afterwards. That poor baby cried all day long until she was hoarse.
@lydiapetra1211
@lydiapetra1211 2 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with you.....
@susanlucas1125
@susanlucas1125 6 ай бұрын
Makes me sick as well..she is a social path
@laur131306
@laur131306 2 жыл бұрын
What made me personally believe shes a sick monster, besides the obvious, is her hugging Allan and Betty's daughter while she was being told her mother was dead all while knowing she did it. There's something deeply evil and sick about that to me.
@ILikeRTC
@ILikeRTC 2 жыл бұрын
It was really just self defense
@CarolineWolterHall
@CarolineWolterHall 2 жыл бұрын
@@ILikeRTC I think so.
@DylanRomanov
@DylanRomanov 2 жыл бұрын
I literally said out loud “what an evil lady’ the child actor was phenomenal
@laur131306
@laur131306 2 жыл бұрын
@@DylanRomanov yeah she is absolutely terrible. And just got to...walk away. Its insane
@wolfslullaby
@wolfslullaby 2 жыл бұрын
@@ILikeRTC 41 times...??
@maggieryan6988
@maggieryan6988 2 жыл бұрын
I am so disgusted with that jury. At the very least Candy could have run to her car. And to leave that little helpless baby. Candy is a dreadful person.
@sharonhainline589
@sharonhainline589 2 жыл бұрын
Maggie, that poor baby girl was probably dehydrated, dirty, and exhausted because for hours no one tended to her needs.
@lindsayeller8649
@lindsayeller8649 2 жыл бұрын
It really depends on what the evidence was and how it was presented to the jury. There have been so many cases of jury trials that would have been decided differently had the jury been shown ALL the evidence.
@MAT-xh3cl
@MAT-xh3cl 2 жыл бұрын
@@drbqqq1433 That definitely doesn’t make them (the jury) immune to error. Plenty of innocent people have been exonerated after initially being found guilty and a lot of guilty individuals have walked free. Sometimes it’s a matter of incompetent prosecutors/defense attorneys, other times it may be due to loopholes in a broken system, and there are times where I’m sure some of the fault lies within the jury which is made up of imperfect people capable of making mistakes. This should come as no surprise considering how flawed the US criminal justice system is. Sex offenders often receive less time than non-violent offenders struggling with addiction. The jury finding her innocent doesn’t mean anything in my opinion. I don’t personally believe that beating her over 40 times with an axe was self-defense and that seems to be the general consensus. Poor Betty didn’t even die til the end.
@CarolineWolterHall
@CarolineWolterHall 2 жыл бұрын
@@drbqqq1433 Lol. Exactly!! 👍
@CarolineWolterHall
@CarolineWolterHall 2 жыл бұрын
@@MAT-xh3cl What a double standard ~ lol. So it’s okay for Depp to lose his mind, because the top of his finger was sliced off? He became deranged painting the walls in the dripping blood and when that ran out, he used red paint. But this woman couldn’t lose it after Betty chopped off part of her toe with the ax? Hmmm? 🤔
@lucianf89
@lucianf89 Жыл бұрын
I am utterly disgusted by this case. It's sickening that the show "Love & Death" tried to paint her as the victim!?? Candy is a deranged psychopath.
@Miss.RubyGame
@Miss.RubyGame Жыл бұрын
I hate that TV series
@maritaweihtag1463
@maritaweihtag1463 9 ай бұрын
True
@HighFrequencyGuru
@HighFrequencyGuru 8 ай бұрын
I agree
@NishaDoe
@NishaDoe 8 ай бұрын
Agreed. Just watched that series. They victimized a monster
@billylain7456
@billylain7456 2 жыл бұрын
Having worked in the criminal justice system for a number of years before retiring one thing I learned us to never be surprised at what a jury might do.
@TheSouthIsHot
@TheSouthIsHot 2 жыл бұрын
What is wrong with people? TWELVE people acquitted her? How is it possible?
@lostandfound5145
@lostandfound5145 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheSouthIsHot juries are often not given all the information in a case. Totally depends on the skill of the lawyers.
@lostandfound5145
@lostandfound5145 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheSouthIsHot I mean think about it, with decisions like OJ being acquitted and that cop in the Floyd trial being found guilty, it all comes down to the lawyers, the social feelings of the times, and what evidence the judge permits. It’s rarely just in the justice system. But it’s the best humankind has created thus far. Sadly.
@TheSouthIsHot
@TheSouthIsHot 2 жыл бұрын
@@lostandfound5145 It honestly boggles my mind. And you're right: "It's the best humankind has created thus far." Thank you for answering!😍
@99kdaniel
@99kdaniel 2 жыл бұрын
@Billy Lain I've seen this outcome myself. There have been many trials since Candy's where the defendant was acquitted.
@robbieburns3564
@robbieburns3564 2 жыл бұрын
"Alan couldn't believe that another woman would find him sexually attractive." Yes.
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha 😂
@martyal
@martyal 2 жыл бұрын
Probably a good reason for that.
@kenesha3490
@kenesha3490 Жыл бұрын
He look ugly
@bethwhite3936
@bethwhite3936 Жыл бұрын
Best comment on this post lol
@HighFrequencyGuru
@HighFrequencyGuru 8 ай бұрын
Allan was torturing Candy he knew what he was doing
@synthiamcbride7194
@synthiamcbride7194 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine going to a mental health counselor in Georgia for marriage counseling, then discovering your counselor had committed adultery, had killed her ex-lover's wife by beating her 41 times with an axe handle, and had left a then-motherless infant unattended for hours. Finding that out would pretty much destroy any confidence I had in any mental health counselor.
@Whol3NothaL3v3l
@Whol3NothaL3v3l Жыл бұрын
I'd be suing the agency! You come in to get treatment for anxiety and then find out you've been advised by an axe murderer😱. Oh HELL NAW
@KrystyneY
@KrystyneY Жыл бұрын
Axe handle? .she didn't hit Betty with the handle. She hacked her up with the blade
@synthiamcbride7194
@synthiamcbride7194 Жыл бұрын
@@KrystyneY you're correct. I mis-listened.
@just-a-fella3212
@just-a-fella3212 Жыл бұрын
I am a counsellor specialising for the last 6 years in psychosocial assessments, prior to that specialising in forensics, men's anger/violence, youth, relationships, terminal illness, and psychiatric conditions. Some of the worst psychopaths I have met are among my own colleagues. The psychology/counselling/psychotherapy industry is infested with psychopaths masquerading as society's good and caring people. The worst hide among those society trusts. I expect one day in the future the lid will get blown off the psychology/counselling industry and the public will find out how morally corrupt it is.
@armelleaymonin8907
@armelleaymonin8907 Жыл бұрын
Amazing example of a malfunctioning justice system and absurd mental health counceling services. Your analysis of the case is brilliant. Candy might kill again, given her brutality. She is only concerned by her own needs.
@rejaneoliveira5019
@rejaneoliveira5019 2 жыл бұрын
“Unable to stop thinking about her odorous collision with Allan…”😂 This is the most planned and mechanical relationship I haver ever seen, only to render an unfulfilling experience…🤣😂 I know this is an exceedingly tragic case, but I have to admit that the humor was on point. I don’t know which one I like more, the humor or the analysis. 🙌🏼 Thank you as always Dr. Grande, I hope you have a restful weekend ahead.❤️
@johnlopez9014
@johnlopez9014 2 жыл бұрын
70’s smell, hits different😂
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnlopez9014 Maybe it smelled like teen spirit. Lol
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
Great comment Rejane! Agree 💯%!
@missmiss6516
@missmiss6516 2 жыл бұрын
@@shayb413 nevermind
@Ckom-Tunes
@Ckom-Tunes 2 жыл бұрын
‘My mental health counsellor is literally an ax murderer.’ Perfect!
@soskika419
@soskika419 7 ай бұрын
😂
@Star-hk6gc
@Star-hk6gc 2 жыл бұрын
There had to have been some serious rage to ax someone so many times. An ax is heavy. Repetitively lifting up and going back down would become very exhausting! The jury got this one very wrong!
@futuretimetraveller8677
@futuretimetraveller8677 2 жыл бұрын
@@Countsploogula any woman hacking someone 41 times with an axe will be tired unless she normally worked out aerobically regularly in fact try throwing 41 punches ---if you don't workout regularly you will be breathing hard wielding an ax is more difficult than throwing punches
@Star-hk6gc
@Star-hk6gc 2 жыл бұрын
@@futuretimetraveller8677 even a man would have difficulty. An ax is awkward with that long handle.
@Whol3NothaL3v3l
@Whol3NothaL3v3l Жыл бұрын
Candy's jury was made of bubble gum
@violetmoon6233
@violetmoon6233 Жыл бұрын
That definitely sounds like pure rage 😳😱
@lifesquandered
@lifesquandered Жыл бұрын
@Future Time Traveller IKR?! I know this is an old post, but dang, 41x? There's a reason that people always swoon over hyper-masculine guys chopping wood in ads and movies. They're always cut.
@BrowneyedDiva
@BrowneyedDiva 2 жыл бұрын
I remember reading a book about this case a while ago. Betty was extremely insecure, had issues with her weight and quiet. Candy was the opposite, well liked in church and social activities, but bored, wanting some excitement. I really think Candy was insane, hiding in plain sight. In the book right after she killed Betty she went home, showered, bandaged her toe then went to a church function. When she heard they found a bloody footprint, she took hedge trimmers and cut up the flips she wore into a million pieces.
@arosem7142
@arosem7142 2 жыл бұрын
Do you know which book you read?
@BrowneyedDiva
@BrowneyedDiva 2 жыл бұрын
Evidence of Love: True Story of Passion & Death in the Suburbs. Really goes in depth about this crime.
@Exorcist364xs
@Exorcist364xs 2 жыл бұрын
@@BrowneyedDiva very interesting yeah she’s crazy. I could not imagine as someone who speaks to a mental health therapist, it blows my mind that she became a mental health counselor. I feel safe with a Dr who has several degrees on his wall. It doesn’t cross my mind oh he got off for murder!
@_curiouscat_2686
@_curiouscat_2686 2 жыл бұрын
Clearly not too disassociated to forget about her shoes. What a bad jury, not even a manslaughter verdict.
@donnacasavecchia3121
@donnacasavecchia3121 2 жыл бұрын
@@_curiouscat_2686 Yep! She lied and covered up her crrime. She put on her "church lady"mask. She was not so "disassociated" that she did not think to do that. Image was everything to Candy. She wanted to maintain to standard in the community. And in her loveless,sexless boring marriage because that was to her advantage.
@laur131306
@laur131306 2 жыл бұрын
I've read the book and researched this case thoroughly. I believe candice was a sick and selfish woman. All she cared about was what the trial did to her image and how it was an inconvenience to her...nevermind that she brutally murdered a woman. She even let her husband believe that her multiple affairs were HIS fault. I believe she got away with murder.
@laur131306
@laur131306 2 жыл бұрын
@Millicient Aspinet that's what it sounded like. She had this whole persona she maintained and it was fraudulent. She wanted what she wanted, and she didnt care how it may hurt other people. Even after the trial she genuinely thought things could go back to normal and that "everyone was ready to move on". It was truly insane how out of touch she was with the fact that she slaughtered a woman and called it self defense because Betty said "shh".
@Mangzorz
@Mangzorz 2 жыл бұрын
What's messed up is she got away with it and has been able to change her name and establish a new life for herself. Apparently she is a mental health counselor? Just awful
@richland1980
@richland1980 2 жыл бұрын
@@laur131306 Agreed, excellent post. The only thing I would add is allegedly Betty said "shh". There should be extreme skepticism about any self serving tale Candy spun.
@habeebahs.2956
@habeebahs.2956 2 жыл бұрын
To kill someone,(especially in that manner), proves that the Candy killer never had an image to begin with, at least not a good 1. She just had everyone fooled.
@pagalmasala
@pagalmasala 2 жыл бұрын
Think I read the same one…ugh…
@stephenhoffman753
@stephenhoffman753 2 жыл бұрын
"Taking baby from a Candy" -I am still laughing at that one. This episode was very amusing, as well as shocking!
@jlbaker2000
@jlbaker2000 2 жыл бұрын
He's very clever. And I love the dark humor.
@winterwilliams3618
@winterwilliams3618 2 жыл бұрын
I know I love his dad jokes. So endearing and funny!
@onemoreday1550
@onemoreday1550 2 жыл бұрын
Our Justice System is Extremely Broken
@orangemangas2465
@orangemangas2465 2 жыл бұрын
Seems to be locking people up just fine.
@lisaperry5999
@lisaperry5999 2 жыл бұрын
Yes it is
@1428elm
@1428elm 2 жыл бұрын
A perfect system does not exist
@orangemangas2465
@orangemangas2465 2 жыл бұрын
@@1428elm what about the solar system?
@The_Whimsical_Stenographer
@The_Whimsical_Stenographer Жыл бұрын
nicholasdurso1227 but the perfect storm does.
@Lollita23
@Lollita23 2 жыл бұрын
Can you imagine her being your mental health counselor and then finding out what she did?!🤯 unbelievable she walked free. What an idiotic jury!
@amandamccormick5009
@amandamccormick5009 Жыл бұрын
Every ex addict wants to be a counsellor. Every person struggling with mental health, hopes they will be counsellors one day when they get better. Do you really feel that ppl who have suffered something should never counsel in that area? What next? Someone who lost children becoming a grief counsellor? Absurd
@Lollita23
@Lollita23 Жыл бұрын
@@amandamccormick5009 Absurd is definitely the word I’d use to explain your logic. Of course it makes sense that someone with experience in a certain area in life would be able to counsel others. This lady hacked someone up with a Fucking AX. She’s batshit. How you don’t see that should worry you.
@peavette
@peavette 2 жыл бұрын
28 sure looked old in the 70s.
@spazmonkey3815
@spazmonkey3815 Ай бұрын
Depends on the woman.
@motherfricker-unlimited9650
@motherfricker-unlimited9650 2 жыл бұрын
“taking baby from a candy” omg my 2 brain cells could never have come up with something that genius…. ily dr. grande lmao
@fittomakeup9890
@fittomakeup9890 2 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard when he said that.
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
Wasn't that THE BEST!! Agree 💯!
@imtired6104
@imtired6104 2 жыл бұрын
"His brain was like a kid in a 'Candy' store" -- Love, it, thank you Dr!
@adda312
@adda312 2 жыл бұрын
Woman: kills other woman because she got triggered, gets off on murder charge Same woman: let me go be a mental health counselor
@elizabethcompton738
@elizabethcompton738 2 жыл бұрын
She's a MARRIAGE COUNSELOR!
@adda312
@adda312 2 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethcompton738 how 😖😖
@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki
@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki 2 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethcompton738 We have an entire Psychology dept. like that in our main University.
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 2 жыл бұрын
Not guilty? Her story is ridiculous. As you described the interactions, I had a hard time not laughing, then it stops when I hear how violent & crazy some folks are. Great points again. Thanks Dr G😊🧡🧡
@cottontails9003
@cottontails9003 2 жыл бұрын
Hello, it's 1am Noah, seems to think sleep is over rated 😂😂
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 2 жыл бұрын
@@cottontails9003 Oh no. Hello dears...Noah go to dreamland love!!😉🤗😑💕💛💜👋
@bthomson
@bthomson 2 жыл бұрын
Bonding time! Much love sent your way!😍
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Zena!! Great comment here, couldn't agree more! Hope you're doing great love! 🥰
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 2 жыл бұрын
@@shayb413 Hi Shay😊Thank you so much. I'm well thx. Hope everything ok with you 💛🌻
@basedandbiased
@basedandbiased 2 жыл бұрын
Couldn't have axed for a crazier woman to compete against.
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha! 🤣 Good one! 🪓
@miriamhavard7621
@miriamhavard7621 2 жыл бұрын
😐😑
@leylamoody3177
@leylamoody3177 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! What a lucky break for Candy that the jury found her not guilty. That is completely wrong and so sad for that little baby to grow up without her mother. Excellent analysis, Dr. Grande! ❤️
@louisewilliams4676
@louisewilliams4676 2 жыл бұрын
@Leyla Moody and Betty also had another child a 5year old girl
@tod3msn
@tod3msn 2 жыл бұрын
This is just a tragedy slowly unfolding. People meet other people while married and eventually get divorced and then marry. It happens. But affairs are just like walking on hot coals and so many things can and will go wrong. This was just a total mess.
@TaraSmallss
@TaraSmallss 2 жыл бұрын
I’m shocked that she got away with this. The fact that she didn’t even get manslaughter, or something, is astonishing
@jhanes3791
@jhanes3791 6 ай бұрын
Only in Texas ....
@juliepeterson6639
@juliepeterson6639 2 жыл бұрын
As a true crime freak, I can honestly say that the book about this story, scared me more than anything I have ever read. It’s one that has stayed with me for many years! Horror at its best and worst.
@lydiapetra1211
@lydiapetra1211 2 жыл бұрын
May I ask what scared you about it so much?
@danielleminerva4525
@danielleminerva4525 Жыл бұрын
I mean was the book written by the best novelist in the world? Was it the same story we are hearing here? A woman who has no other incidents in her life and does something crazy one day? Yeah it’s very crazy to murder someone like that but ok that’s it? Nothing else to her story? Besides a weird boring affair? Why no mention of her being mentally I’ll her whole life and being a weird creepy woman who was bound to snap one day? Where’s the backstory? Was it her mother they mentioned literally for a half a second? I had absolutely no time and was given no reason to care about any of these people other than just nodding my head like ok wow 41 wacks with an axe that’s crazy. But it also made no sense. Why be mad at or kill the woman she already screwed over by having an affair with her husband. I’m still puzzled and trying to understand if she was really that in love with this guy? Seemed she could care less either way. I don’t understand the obsession with this case. and Jury’s get it wrong literally ALL THE TIME so why is everyone so surprised exactly?!
@smithontwins
@smithontwins Жыл бұрын
Candy seemed to be craving control her whole life. The type of person who likes to have an affair with someone's spouse just because they feel they have the superior ability to make someone else's spouse bend over backwards to please them. Against all odds, the situation with Allen & Betty turned to be a 'humiliating' incident for her. She probably didn't have any intention to kill Betty but I wouldn't be surprised if she threw passive aggressive attacks towards Betty just to 'win' the game. Betty snapped and attacked her, not necessarily with an axe (no one could give a good explanation how come the lens of her sunglasses found near the place the Gores kept thir axe). Candy (who hated Betty for her success with Allen in their marriage counseling) attacked Betty back with an axe. That's the most likely scenario I could think of.
@Miss.RubyGame
@Miss.RubyGame Жыл бұрын
​@@danielleminerva4525your comment has some inconsistent questions sorry what is your point? She just said she found this case creepy who in the whole world wouldn't find it creepy??? The woman went insane once? Her total life was insane.. Religious people are insane that's the point.
@HighFrequencyGuru
@HighFrequencyGuru 8 ай бұрын
Same
@BunnySlippers82
@BunnySlippers82 2 жыл бұрын
41 whacks with an axe is not self-defense, so I'd really like to know what the jury was thinking. It's these kinds of verdicts that worry me about the intellect and logical reasoning of some people.
@lisaperry5999
@lisaperry5999 2 жыл бұрын
Rage and anger not self defense
@HeavenlyChainsaw
@HeavenlyChainsaw Жыл бұрын
It is self defense. She lost control because of trauma event with her mom. She had a right to be pissed because Betty was attacking her .
@wayasaunooke3424
@wayasaunooke3424 Жыл бұрын
​@HeavenlyChainsaw we have no idea what Betty did. You take the word and story of an axe murderer, and a mother who left a baby for hours. Clearly you're not a good judge of character, good grief.
@HighFrequencyGuru
@HighFrequencyGuru 8 ай бұрын
@@wayasaunooke3424facts
@HighFrequencyGuru
@HighFrequencyGuru 8 ай бұрын
@@HeavenlyChainsawwhy do you believe Betty was attacking her I’m just curious how you know this piece of info….like who told you that?
@morticiaheisenberg9679
@morticiaheisenberg9679 2 жыл бұрын
RIP Betty. Candy is insane. Who fights over a man who isn't even any damn good. Lol. Seriously though, this is the unsexiest agreed sexual encounter that I have ever heard. Cheaters are garbage people anyway. Poor kids are without their mom.
@laur131306
@laur131306 2 жыл бұрын
I believe her whole issue was losing. She didnt want Allan according to her...but she couldnt stand to lose.
@lostandfound5145
@lostandfound5145 2 жыл бұрын
@@laur131306 right, she lost and she took it out on Betty. Candy’s marriage sucked and the marriage retreat didn’t work like it did for Betty, and Betty was everything she really was not. A good wife. And Candy hated her for it.
@jessgal76
@jessgal76 2 жыл бұрын
All I kept thinking was man, the 70s were rough. Candy was the most middle aged looking 29 year old ever.
@cherylthompson2731
@cherylthompson2731 2 жыл бұрын
@@jessgal76 You mean The 80s...The crime happened in 1980.
@actuallytyler8262
@actuallytyler8262 2 жыл бұрын
@@jessgal76 i literally had to rewind when he said 29... I was like, you just said 39 right?
@robertahubert9155
@robertahubert9155 2 жыл бұрын
That was about the dullest love affair. Certainly nothing to kill over. It sounded more like a comedy than a love affair but murdering someone is no laughing matter. Can’t believe she was found not guilty. A mental health counselor the story just got more crazy
@andreaalvarez3001
@andreaalvarez3001 5 ай бұрын
Ella se ve psicópata
@luxeford547
@luxeford547 2 жыл бұрын
I totally get her odorous collision. If someone doesn't smell right it just doesn't work.
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
Haha this is very true! Maybe it's something about the Pheromones! Lol
@davidwartski7213
@davidwartski7213 2 жыл бұрын
Candy really went all Lizzie Borden on Betty, didn't she? Including the number of "whacks." Lizzie was also acquitted. "Lizzie Borden took an axe, And gave her mother forty whacks; When she saw what she had done, She gave her father forty-one." Lizzie's escapades were also immortalized in a really great song by the Chad Mitchell trio. Shut the door, lock and latch it, here comes Candy with a brand-new hatchet.
@millabasset1710
@millabasset1710 2 жыл бұрын
Lizzie Borden was innocent though
@mookiess
@mookiess 2 жыл бұрын
Mark S issue with that is her innocence was on the jury's belief that since she was a woman, she couldn't have been capable of doing the gruesome deeds. She could've been falsely accused, but there's no doubt that the jury was heavily biased, given that it was an all male jury as well.
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
Great comment here!! Very smart! 👍
@millabasset1710
@millabasset1710 2 жыл бұрын
@@mookiess She was a small woman contrary to popular belief of her being big, a woman her size can't open a man's skull with an axe like that.
@mookiess
@mookiess 2 жыл бұрын
Mark S makes sense from a biological viewpoint that the damage done on the corpses seems to surpass the capabilities her small stature could've done, but i've been proven wrong myself so i personally view size as being less important in stuff like this. There's other factors that could've played a more major involvement--adrenaline and sheer will/hatred can do wonders when it comes to the human body.
@gangels796
@gangels796 2 жыл бұрын
I suspect that Betty threatened to expose Candy's affair with her husband to the church. Being so self-absorbed in what people thought of her, probably motivated her rage. Besides the cause of death, which was horrific, I will never forget how she just left Betty's baby in the crib. Great analysis as always, Dr Grande!
@Petitedelight87K
@Petitedelight87K Жыл бұрын
I totally agree….
@HighFrequencyGuru
@HighFrequencyGuru 8 ай бұрын
Ooohhh good one this sounds plausible
@JessHull
@JessHull 2 жыл бұрын
What a great and insightful case analysis. I just watched the miniseries about Candice 'Candy' Montgomery. The one thing I was hoping you would discuss is her eventual occupation as a mental health consular. How does one go from literally axe murdering someone in such a violent rageful manner to being a mental health consular? I would not want to take mental health advice and help from someone who has previously been an axe murderer. Perhaps you could address this on your podcast.
@margaretr5701
@margaretr5701 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, that fact shocked me!
@KM-ok6pk
@KM-ok6pk 2 жыл бұрын
Yesss!!! So bizarre!
@harley8680
@harley8680 2 жыл бұрын
My High School gym teacher killed his wife this way. Axed her to death in the front yard and their young son witnessed it. He is serving life for it.
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
Something a little off about MANY High School Gym teachers, but that is just on another level CRAZY! Bet that really shook your town, very disturbing!!
@heidiheisele8608
@heidiheisele8608 Жыл бұрын
How tramatic 😭
@ScottAllenFinance
@ScottAllenFinance 2 жыл бұрын
I love the very thin, straight, and symmetrical strip of desk visible at the bottom of the video frame! Attention to detail is one of Dr. Grande's calling cards!
@We_Are_All_Vultures
@We_Are_All_Vultures 2 жыл бұрын
I think you're seeing things
@mjnc3672
@mjnc3672 2 жыл бұрын
"Taking baby from a candy". You're killing it Dr Grande, in a manner of speaking.
@margeebechyne8642
@margeebechyne8642 2 жыл бұрын
I remember when this happened. Such a total lack of justice. The jurists in that town were jokes. And the mental health people who testified were too. What a vile woman.
@gracebryant1817
@gracebryant1817 2 жыл бұрын
And then the darley routier case. She was convicted because she had a little bday party at her sons’ gravesite. Makes zero sense. I don’t believe she killed the boys but Candy admitted she killed Betty.
@Rabbitsarewonderful
@Rabbitsarewonderful 2 жыл бұрын
I love these case analyses by Dr. Grande. They make me thankful that my life is boring.
@glennthompson1173
@glennthompson1173 2 жыл бұрын
Don't you just love spontaneity? This couple had to think hard on the pros and cons of an affair?
@bthomson
@bthomson 2 жыл бұрын
Selfish and stupid imo!
@maryjanerx
@maryjanerx 2 жыл бұрын
If she had known the sex was going to be bad, do you think that would have influenced the decision?
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
And they still decided to go through with it, which seems a little strange. Affairs are usually a poor decision people make while caught up in a moment- this seems so cold and methodical, not really worth it. If you're going to be bad, at least make it worth it?? 😂
@johnsemailstash
@johnsemailstash 2 жыл бұрын
The baby from a Candy is a top gag 🤣Nice one Doc
@roscluaran
@roscluaran 2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant analysis as always, Dr Grande! You really nailed it. She was looking for the fantasy from romance novels and that simply just does not exist. It was murder and overkill at that. Thank you for your commentary on this absurd case.
@NASAastronautStep-Mom
@NASAastronautStep-Mom Жыл бұрын
Hold on there. Great sex is real and can be better than anything you can read or fantasize about. I know a woman who would drive three hours one way just to spend one hour with a man and it took the three hour drive back home to cool her down.
@lorrainehutter6677
@lorrainehutter6677 2 жыл бұрын
"baby from a Candy" Admit it doc, that line is the whole reason you did this video.:)
@Patrick_Bateman11
@Patrick_Bateman11 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I could hang out with Dr.Grande I sure hope the people in your life appreciate your dry humor Cause you crack me up I actually love channels that just tell the facts which is rare and you do that But I'm always ready and excited for the usual 2 quips you ad But this one you through in a few extra lmao " Kid in a candy store"
@garyacker7388
@garyacker7388 2 жыл бұрын
Your right buddy, he's great 👍.
@TheFakeyCakeMaker
@TheFakeyCakeMaker 2 жыл бұрын
Taking Baby from a Candy 😄
@Patrick_Bateman11
@Patrick_Bateman11 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheFakeyCakeMaker I know that one was even better but I left my comment before I got to that joke lmao
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯%!! There is something different and better about Dr. Grande's videos! For one thing, you can learn more in a few minute video from him about a case than by watching an hour long documentary, he pulls out just the most interesting and relevant information, and lays it out so well with Genius Analysis. But my FAVORITE part, like you, is the dry sarcastic humor, it's the BEST! I'm a total Grande Groupie I guess! 😂 Also, where on EARTH did you come up with that screen name my friend? 😂🤣 ✌️💖
@lsrose
@lsrose 2 жыл бұрын
That was priceless!
@elizabethhamm5320
@elizabethhamm5320 2 жыл бұрын
This is the second topic that I have suggested in the comments section that you have done a video on. I love that you produce so much content and that you are always taking suggestions. You have the best channel 😊
@nancykay4128
@nancykay4128 2 жыл бұрын
When Candy made that pros and cons chart that she reviewed with Allan I was shocked! - this showed how their shallow and calculating schemes directly led to murder and pain for those closest to them
@salsaaaaaaa
@salsaaaaaaa 2 жыл бұрын
She took her frustration out on betty and realized the weight of the situation and forced herself not to bare the reality of what she did and she did not want her life to be disrupted so she forced herself to desensitize essentially turning herself into a monster. She more than likely realized that what she had done at this point including leaving a crying baby of the mother she just cheated on her husband with and murdered while she was babysitting her child, was a terrrible vile thing and it probably took a toll on her emotions and mental state. She willingly buried those emotions so she could convince herself and her little world that everything was fine and would carry on like normal.
@kimberlygabaldon3260
@kimberlygabaldon3260 2 жыл бұрын
So she killed Betty over a man she didn't even want. This is beyond sick. I would think that Candy would have a duty to retreat, if she was able, because they were in Betty's house. I would feel differently about that if the fight were taking place in Candy's house.
@isitoveryet9525
@isitoveryet9525 2 жыл бұрын
You’re assuming she killed Betty over Alan…? Maybe she didn’t want her husband to find out. Maybe she lost it bc Betty dared to confront her. Maybe they did start fighting, & then Candy just went into narc rage.
@elizabethcompton738
@elizabethcompton738 2 жыл бұрын
@@isitoveryet9525 Candy's husband knew about the affair. He found a letter Allan Gore wrote to Candy breaking off the affair. Betty was the only one in the dark.
@kimmyfreak200
@kimmyfreak200 Жыл бұрын
ego...
@krissyhenderson4089
@krissyhenderson4089 2 жыл бұрын
this happened in my home town. I graduated high school in 2016 and we had two different murders between students fighting over girls while I was in school. The whole area has been crazy for a long time I guess
@The_Whimsical_Stenographer
@The_Whimsical_Stenographer Жыл бұрын
Don't drink the water.
@RebelTheUncanny1
@RebelTheUncanny1 2 жыл бұрын
The look on your face when you said she became a mental health counselor was smug gold lol.
@tymtraveller
@tymtraveller 2 жыл бұрын
"Taking baby from a Candy". I'm not sure if I should boo or congratulate you for the quip. Maybe both? 🤣
@EricDodsonLectures
@EricDodsonLectures 2 жыл бұрын
Boo him while you're laughing.
@amandalynn9774
@amandalynn9774 Жыл бұрын
Her behavior after the murder is what’s very troubling to me.
@kimmyfreak200
@kimmyfreak200 Жыл бұрын
have u seen the clip of candy with a tv crew...her stare absolutely freaked me out to my core....scary lady
@The_Whimsical_Stenographer
@The_Whimsical_Stenographer Жыл бұрын
That speaks volumes.
@micheleshively8557
@micheleshively8557 2 жыл бұрын
I read the book about this when I was about 20. I'm 60, may be wrong on the date but it's been a long time ago. Has haunted me ever since. The movie made about it was very good too. Thanks for your take on this one
@Throatzillaaa
@Throatzillaaa 2 жыл бұрын
Do you know the name of the movie? When I mentioned the title of the video to my bf just a few minutes ago, he responded "Did they make a movie about that?" Lol
@micheleshively8557
@micheleshively8557 2 жыл бұрын
@@Throatzillaaa murder in a small town? I think
@moonstruck562
@moonstruck562 2 жыл бұрын
@@Throatzillaaa yes, I wanna see it now.
@alexandracash8106
@alexandracash8106 2 жыл бұрын
"Taking baby from a Candy." Best Dr. Grande joke ever. I half expected him to laugh at that one himself! 🤣
@kojikunthepittie7452
@kojikunthepittie7452 2 жыл бұрын
Lumberjack competition…Dr. Grande, your humorous analysis never disappoints! Rest in peace, Betty.
@theresacarter2093
@theresacarter2093 2 жыл бұрын
Soo glad to hear you talk about this crazy case! Been watching and waiting for you👍🏻❕ Don’t understand the verdict after her admittance ⁉️ Listening to you now!! Thanks for all of your wise input& knowledge!! ♥️ Your Channel ♥️‼️
@austingreene9367
@austingreene9367 2 жыл бұрын
This is the most organized affair, I've ever heard of. "Next week good for you? Oh I have a dentist appointment that day. Let's just start cheating on the 29th."
@TheSouthIsHot
@TheSouthIsHot 2 жыл бұрын
😄😂🤣
@Cactus_hug
@Cactus_hug 2 жыл бұрын
The humor in storytelling with a dead pan face is what makes this channel. 😂👍🏻
@weshenry7208
@weshenry7208 2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande, I have to say your presentation is incredibly refreshing compared to a lot of other shows out there that focus on the lascivious nature of the crime details. While I am interested in forensics as a subject, they are rarely addressed respectfully as a science. Your straightforward approach is appreciated and respected, because you do not insult the victims, and you address the case with an open curiosity towards the perpetrators. You have a gift, and I thank you.
@brenda9228
@brenda9228 2 жыл бұрын
Interesting perspective. I’m on the 2nd episode of Hulu series. Jessica Biel’s a great actress/producer so I can’t wait to see how she conveys Candy.
@danielleminerva4525
@danielleminerva4525 Жыл бұрын
So what did you think? I thought that was the most boring and all over the place flat series ever. It literally did nothing for me.
@nickborrrego
@nickborrrego Жыл бұрын
You know things are about to get crazy every time Dr. Grande mentions moving to the timeline of the incident.
@krystanoelll
@krystanoelll 2 жыл бұрын
I listened to a podcast about this case and I think if anyone suffered mentally it was Betty. She had just had a baby and was really stressed out with that and with suspecting her husband having an affair. It’s like she finally snapped when Candy showed up at her house and she was able to confront her, but I guess we will never be able to confirm this.
@kiyakia
@kiyakia 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I agree to an extent. Most people don’t seem to think this way though, which makes me think - in a way that Candy’s story could be true. Candy would be more inclined to try and cover up her part in it. She did a terrible job obviously, but If she had called the cops right there after the Axe encounter and claimed it was self defense, no one would have bought it. People still don’t believe her to this day. The over kill of 41 swings of the axe is hard to defend, but like I could see with all the adrenaline running, and pent up rage how it could happen. Like if someone tried to murder me and I was able to get the upper hand I could see how I could loose it and go in for the overkill. It’s definitely possible and shouldn’t be written off just because of the brutality of it. Humans are capable of some dark & awful things. It doesn’t matter if you think someone is a “good” person or a “bad” person. You throw someone in a crazy situation they have the ability to act equally crazy. I can’t find it anywhere but if the show was accurate that they charged her with first degree murder, the prosecution dropped the ball. Nothing about this crime seems premeditated to me. They could have gotten her on second degree or manslaughter. Considering she admitted to the crime and anything she did to “cover it up” was super sloppy and not well thought out. We only know one side of the story though, and because of this - there will always be doubt. I honestly don’t know what really happened no one actually does. I am not ruling anything out, but I can speak to what seems logical to me. I do think it says a lot that Candy didn’t go off and continue to bludgeon more people to death. If she was just a homicidal maniac, then she probably wouldn’t have been able to suppress that for the rest of her life. Betty didn’t deserve such a brutal and tragic fate, she deserved respect and some mental health help. She was clearly suffering- no matter what actually happened that day. As for Candy she should’ve stopped once she gained control of the situation. (If we believe her story) If this is how it happened I can’t blame her for having an extreme reaction to almost being killed. I think it takes more than just “jealousy” to invoke that kind of rage in a person. This case requires a level of nuance that most people on the internet aren’t capable of. People forget the way the laws are written to convict someone of a crime you have to prove “beyond a shadow of a doubt” that they are guilty. As far as Candy being guilty of first degree murder… there’s nothing but doubts in my mind about that. 2nd degree, there’s some doubt but it makes sense, as far as manslaughter- yeah she definitely did that & it was voluntary. If people are pissed she got off completely without any charges they should be mad at the prosecution.
@moniqueloomis9772
@moniqueloomis9772 2 жыл бұрын
@@kiyakia Sure, Jan.
@kiyakia
@kiyakia 2 жыл бұрын
@Krysta Briley what podcast did you listen to?
@barbarabonnette2705
@barbarabonnette2705 Жыл бұрын
I think that both women suffered from mental health issues. That doesn’t justify murder but you can almost see how this was a perfect storm. Crazy people do crazy things.
@onemoreday1550
@onemoreday1550 2 жыл бұрын
What?? Our justice system is broken.
@scottricci5063
@scottricci5063 2 жыл бұрын
No it's not, just inconsistent. Some of the innocent got to prison, even executed, and some of the guilty go free. But mostly the penitentiaries are full of people who need to be there.
@jhozthron4415
@jhozthron4415 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, i could see a logic in it if she hit her once or twice with the axe, but hitting her 40 times, come on.
@JC-sg5uo
@JC-sg5uo 2 жыл бұрын
I think when there's a case such as this one in which you have a verdict by a jury that makes no sense, you have to figure there are a combination of factors: Candy's lawyer must have been very effective, the prosecutor not so much, the defense expert witnesses, the facts of the case (there's got to be more to the story that was presented), and the jury's attitude/feelings toward the defendant and victim, how the judge presided over the case.
@annal7364
@annal7364 2 жыл бұрын
Dr. G, what I appreciate about you is that you constructively criticize the inept representatives of the field in which you are an expert. Calling out a peer in any discipline is one of the most powerful ways to expose poor practices and encourage outsiders to adopt a healthy skepticism.
@davidsmarrt4049
@davidsmarrt4049 Жыл бұрын
“Taking baby from a candy” I hear your sneaky puns Mr! 😂😂😂
@h-lorolltide92
@h-lorolltide92 2 жыл бұрын
I agree 100%. I was shocked she was found not guilty. I haven't asked in over a year, but please do Christopher Porco case.
@lisaperry5999
@lisaperry5999 2 жыл бұрын
Great choice
@crose8570
@crose8570 2 жыл бұрын
‘Yeah...Candy’s a total nutbar, 100 percent, in my opinion. Who does that ??? But you Dr. Grande, have unquestionably knocked it out of the park with this one..’👏👏😁
@celestialknight2339
@celestialknight2339 2 жыл бұрын
“Odorous collision” LOL! 🤣🤣🤣 Funniest phrase I’ve heard all week
@71DLM
@71DLM 2 жыл бұрын
A few of the jurors were friends of the defense attorney. The jury foreperson was the defense attorneys daughter’s coach.
@ter131
@ter131 2 жыл бұрын
I know. Its unbelievable. I have seen multiple cases in court that left me saying, " uhh what?" 😳🙄. Doesn't give me unconditional faith in the justice system. Its actually scary. In my opinion. Lol Thanks Dr. Grande!
@amandalynnsaucy6356
@amandalynnsaucy6356 2 жыл бұрын
" Odorous collision " THIS MAN IS GENIUS! 🤣💯✔️
@burningmarl5664
@burningmarl5664 7 ай бұрын
" she wasn't happy with her husband. She didn't need a second one.". That was hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@dammar117
@dammar117 2 жыл бұрын
Mental illness or temporary insanity or permanent conditions whatever should not be a reason to exonerate a criminal. On the contrary, it's even more worrisome, because that means that they can do it do it again!! ANY murder is the result of insanity and mental illness.
@burntblonde2925
@burntblonde2925 2 жыл бұрын
This series on Hulu was so fascinating. Jessica Biel did an amazing performance
@kimmyfreak200
@kimmyfreak200 Жыл бұрын
the Ax scene blew me away...it was so friking crazy...so well done
@burntblonde2925
@burntblonde2925 Жыл бұрын
@@kimmyfreak200 Agree!! The whole series was fascinating
@bonniemagaddino651
@bonniemagaddino651 2 жыл бұрын
Didn’t understand the verdict in this case ThankYou Dr Grande for explaining this very sad case of injustice
@pageribe2399
@pageribe2399 Жыл бұрын
I remember when this happened, but I didn't realize Candy got off. Mercy! (Barbara Hershey played her in the movie of the week)
@cherylthompson2731
@cherylthompson2731 2 жыл бұрын
"Murder in a Small Town" was a made-for-tv movie that aired in the 80s. It starred Barbara Hershey.
@208_treasure6
@208_treasure6 2 жыл бұрын
Yep...I remember that movie.
@juniejams3729
@juniejams3729 2 жыл бұрын
Good morning 🌞 love your videos.. have a great afternoon
@garydomaz1849
@garydomaz1849 2 жыл бұрын
This is insane. A judge has the power to correct a verdict made by a jury. I think this case is an example where that judicial power should have been exercised.
@bobross1829
@bobross1829 Жыл бұрын
LOL no they do not. Juries decide guilt and innocence. In America a judge has no power to find someone guilty if a jury says she is not. They can find someone innocent if a jury convicts, but not the other way around.
@garydomaz1849
@garydomaz1849 Жыл бұрын
@@bobross1829 you should research it. They can if there’s legality they can use to prove their stance.
@bobross1829
@bobross1829 Жыл бұрын
@@garydomaz1849 I am a lawyer and no it cannot happen ever. That is why you have a right to a jury. No judge is allowed to veto a jury acquitting you in America.
@FancyFace515
@FancyFace515 2 жыл бұрын
This is the saddest case, but the commentary is hilarious!
@stewarln52284
@stewarln52284 2 жыл бұрын
Just watched the whole mini series in one sitting last night. Great timing as usual! 🎉 Thanks Dr. G! 😊
@fifilafleur5555
@fifilafleur5555 2 жыл бұрын
Whoa! Terrifying stuff, Dr Grande!
@hellohsaytin6813
@hellohsaytin6813 2 жыл бұрын
Can you please analyze the case of Sylvia Likens? She was a young girl tortured to death by a woman and a group of kids over the course of months. The kids began as her friends. I am curious to know your thoughts on how something like that could happen! Love your work Doctor!Thank you ❤❤
@lilas1959
@lilas1959 2 жыл бұрын
I visited Sylvia’s grave in 2020. She’s the most visited grave in that cemetery. God rest her soul. I brought her cookies since her father used to call her Cookie. Someone left a painted rock that said “You Mattered.” She did. What a story. Poor girl. They were monsters.
@sarahalbers5555
@sarahalbers5555 2 жыл бұрын
OMG. That story had me in tears. Brutal and impossible to understand. Wasn't she called "The Concrete Angel"? I would appreciate Dr. G's insights on this crime also.
@lulumoon6942
@lulumoon6942 Жыл бұрын
@@lilas1959 Great suggestion. As someone bullied throughout my school years, it put things in perspective for me... RIP Lovely girl Sylvia ❤️🙏💞
@benbarrow7637
@benbarrow7637 Жыл бұрын
@@sarahalbers5555 the ‘concrete angel’ was Junko Furuta, a Japanese high school girl who in the early 80s was tortured and killed in a manner unfortunately very similar to Sylvia’s - though in this case it was a group of fellow male students who kept her hostage for months, while their parents apparently did nothing. She eventually died and was buried in a barrel filled with concrete, to make the body disappear... It is another simply terrifying story.
@KathrynHilliard
@KathrynHilliard Жыл бұрын
Brilliant analysis. You were brave to call out other mental health providers who contributed to this miscarriage of justice. Candy should be behind bars.
@Hatbox948
@Hatbox948 11 ай бұрын
This will give my age away, but I remember this. It was a huge story in Dallas, TX, and happened around the time the movie "The Shining" came out.
@wendychavez5348
@wendychavez5348 2 жыл бұрын
I have personal expertise with dissociative reaction, to a lesser degree than Candy supposedly experienced. I got into an argument with my first love, and suddenly I felt like I was hung by the collar on the top hinge of the door behind me. I watched myself beating on his shoulders--I couldn't feel myself doing it, nor could I stop myself until someone knocked on the door. At that point I jumped back into my body, threw the door open, hugged it while I sank to the floor, and refused to let go of it from fear of what I might do next. This is, I believe, the first time I've heard that term (I have memory problems due to a rainstorm brain injury, so I may have repressed knowledge of the term) though it makes perfect sense to me. This doesn't mean Candy necessarily experienced such an episode, only that I have, and partially understand situations that might trigger it. I found it quite frightening, and willingly spent a week in the secure ward of a local hospital after that happened.
@wendychavez5348
@wendychavez5348 2 жыл бұрын
After reading some of the other comments here, I agree that she should not have been acquitted. Even if she were not guilty due to mental incapacitated, she was a danger to herself and others, and clearly needed treatment and monitoring.
@phdtobe
@phdtobe 2 жыл бұрын
I believe that a TV movie was made about this story, possibly starring Sally Field. Edit: Candy was played by Barbara Hershey in the 1990 TV movie “A Killing in a Small Town”. Good movie!
@doloreschansey9556
@doloreschansey9556 2 жыл бұрын
That is wild that she could be scott free after having landed an axe in someone 41 times. Good lord.
@red_five3325
@red_five3325 2 жыл бұрын
*(Quickly writes "Candace Montgomery" in the Death Note)*
@meowgid
@meowgid 2 жыл бұрын
"It's like taking baby from a Candy." And I'm dead. 🤣🤣🤣
@jamescarrington5521
@jamescarrington5521 2 жыл бұрын
I remember this case quite well and I remember reading about it in the newspapers; interesting and troubling case, for sure. "Not guilty" was the wrong verdict; a final verdict of "manslaughter" was far more appropriate here. As such, this was indeed a miscarriage of justice. As for mental health professionals who do not believe that dissociative personality and dissociative behavior is real, I can tell you, IT IS REAL. I was married to a woman who, unbeknownst to me prior to our marriage, had been severely abused by her first husband and she had experienced YEARS of EXCESSIVE, gross mental cruelty at his hands (I met him several times, and I had no doubts as to his character) this man was a nut case with a classic mother's complex, and he had the emotions of a pre-adolescent; illness of any kind was somehow....belittling to him. As his mistreatment of her progressed over the years and she began to weaken and exhibit the classic signs of emotional neglect and abuse, psychosomatic illnesses, and an eventual nervous breakdown, he began to stay out all night and carouse with other women, having one affair after another until she would finally muster the courage to divorce him in 1980. However, by then the damage was done and irreparable, not only to her, but to her 4 sons as well; many years prior to the divorce, a psychiatrist had told her that if she didn't get away from him and get her kids out of that environment, she would actually be contributing to the emotional damage that would undoubtedly happen to her children, and they would become just like their father. Well, she waited too long to get out, her mental health suffered horrifically, and INDEED, those boys all became younger versions of their callous, sociopathic, overtly narcissistic father. By the time we were married, I didn't know any of this, but as time wore on and she once again fell apart mentally, the damage was tremendous and quite obvious to me, and it was around this time that she would basically flip out, often for DAYS at a time, and then have absolutely no recollection of any of it. She would smash things to pieces and pretty much demolish the house; she'd call me terrible names, accuse me of doing bizarre things; I was a real estate agent at the time, and she would throw my briefcases, full of sales contracts, into random dumpsters and I'd have to replace them numerous times and draft new paperwork for my clients to sign all over again....she'd wreck my car repeatedly and not remember doing it. At first, I didn't believe her and I thought it was an act, but as I really began observing her and asking her questions, I soon realized that she truly had absolutely no memories of her wild and destructive behavior AT ALL. One afternoon, in the middle of one of these days long episodes, I don't know what made me ask her, I think it was because she kept calling me by her ex-husband's name and something told me that mentally, she was back in the late 1960's for some reason, as she was saying things that were relevant to that time period. So, I asked her what my name was, and she again called me by the ex-husband's name; I asked her what year it was, and she gave me an angry, incredulous look and replied, "It's 1968, you dumb ass!" This was, oddly enough, the year she would always revert back to while in these dissociative states, so I assume something monumental occurred to her at that time, but I would never find out what that event had been. I'm no mental health professional, but I know dissociation when I see it because I lived it for 10 years with my ex-wife. This is indeed a very real thing!
@jasonmims5057
@jasonmims5057 2 жыл бұрын
This statement is shows awful affect abuse has on the human psyche. Ive been watching alot of true crime videos on KZfaq and i get annoyed with comments saying abuse is no excuse for violence. It just shows that society still doesn't understand the power of mental illness. People process trauma differently. Some people can overcome the affects of abuse without turning violent themselves and go on to live productive lives but there are some people that just can't because the abuse they suffered destroyed them.
@shayb413
@shayb413 2 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a VERY hard way to live, I'm sorry you had to go through that. And I'm sorry SHE had to go through what she did. Sometimes this life is cruel and hard and doesn't make a lot of sense. I hope you've been able to move on and have a calmer, more peaceful life since then! ✌️💖
@jamescarrington5521
@jamescarrington5521 2 жыл бұрын
@@shayb413 Well thank you for that, and yes, I've been able to move on and not allow the abuse I suffered from her to define my life OR me. We divorced in 1995, and she disappeared from everyone's radar for several years before eventually resurfacing. I received a long letter from her around that time, which I still have, and it was basically an extended apology for everything she had put me through, but really, she never had to apologize to me because I really did understand her; I never held any of that abuse against her. I knew she was deeply, deeply troubled; I just had to get out because she tried to kill me twice, the first time was with a chef's knife as I slept (if my Bassett Hound hadn't stirred and awakened me, I would be a statistic now!) and the last attempt she made, she had a 9 mm semiautomatic pistol up to my head while I had been sleeping, but due to the rustling around she was doing because her hands weren't strong enough to pull the breech all the way back for a bullet to drop into the chamber, I woke up, whereupon a struggle ensued while I wrestled the fully loaded gun from her hands. Yes, I came away from that with some VERY serious PTSD, which I got professional help for. I truly loved her, and I will always love her unconditionally, odd as this may sound. She's deceased now, she passed on about 8 years ago now, I believe....but there isn't a day that goes by that I'm not reminded of her in some pleasant way; I will forever remember that other woman I fell in love with and married so long ago now, the person she once was before all of that happened, that beautiful soul who loved children and animals. I will never forget that petite, soft-spoken, gentle lady who got herself so severely sunburned one day because a tiny puppy, the runt of a large litter, had just gotten comfortable in her lap and fell asleep as she fed him puppy formula from a dropper, and she couldn't bring herself to disturb the little guy so she could move her chair into the shade; THIS was the lady she truly was under all of that trauma, all of her prescription drug addictions, and all of her many personal acquaintances with pain. God rest her soul, always and forever.
@pineapplesyumyum
@pineapplesyumyum 2 жыл бұрын
I love getting here this early. I am a dr. Grande super fan. Lol
@puspavelai8353
@puspavelai8353 2 жыл бұрын
Unbelievable verdict. But I guess her strength, in overcoming her axe armed attacker single-handedly wowed the jury?
@miranda13c
@miranda13c 2 жыл бұрын
It’s still completely insane to me that Candy got away with murder.
@cottontails9003
@cottontails9003 2 жыл бұрын
The affair seemed like a business, not spontaneous. I also agree Candy was guilty,it defines imagation she was found not guilty after she struck her 41 times. I do believe she had no consequences for her actions. She walked free , after striking another woman too death. Thank you Dr Grande. Excellent analysis and sad topic.
@robbieburns3564
@robbieburns3564 2 жыл бұрын
That's what I thought. LOL. I don't know if it's the way Dr Grande explains it or if church affairs are just generally business-like and agreed upon with a open psalm handshake.
@cottontails9003
@cottontails9003 2 жыл бұрын
@@robbieburns3564 lol it appears that way.
@ShawnKWHumphrey
@ShawnKWHumphrey 2 жыл бұрын
This has got to be the most boring affair on record… escalates pretty quick at the conclusion though. Of course Candy became a councillor later on. Classic Candy.
@DynacXevious
@DynacXevious 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t handle this, I’m doing dishes and listening to this in my headphones and growling as it it’s gruesome I hear ”like taking baby from a Candy” and I’m crying on the inside as I’m choking on laughter. The puns.. the PUNS 😭😂😭
@roselortega6758
@roselortega6758 2 жыл бұрын
I saw Hulu series and was shocked when was found innocent. A killer set free. Our judicial system really messed up. Omg
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