I agree! (I don’t have counselling anymore ) It sucked

Oh wait a school councillor

Same. I mean in the opposite way than what I assume's happening. The school councillor is great but because we have government funding (yay Australia) my parents put me into other counselling and ngl she doesn't even know the difference between sexuality and gender identity and she makes me feel really iffy after every section.

How I have understood it, if you are bi you can still like more genders than just male and female. But you still look at the genders in different ways and you may feel more attention to one gender than others. But with pan you just don't look at genders the same way and you are attracted to all the genders the same way. I might be wrong 🤷‍♀️

adesso.laurenzo Omg thank you sm i didn’t think you would reply and you actually have helped me alot

@@BowAndAro wait, for the past few days I have thought I was panromantic ace but reading your comment makes me think that I’m bi-romantic ace

i am INCREDIBLY late, but omni is actually the term when you are attracted to multiple genders, but with a preference. pan is when you’re gender blind, and bi is when you’re attracted to 2 or more genders

Hey I went through that too but I will support you know matter what 🏳️‍🌈 from you pan friend💖💛💙

I hope they never accept u

@@etanoll4179 wow, I forgot I wrote this comment! Thanks for reminding me this exists, but seriously I'm not that hurt by some KZfaq anon wishing me bad luck

I know you wrote this awhile ago but hope everyone accepts u and here's a way to look at the people who are transphobic = they are just scared of u c: have a good day fellow internet person

@@etanoll4179 why are you at this video, nobody gives a shit what you say, so stop wasting your time here and spreading hate

@@maple22moose44 nobody cares ab ur opinion either

hi! i know i'm a bit late but if this is still happening, my advice would be to talk to them about it. either drop subtle hints that them trying to rush you makes you uncomfortable, or just be like "hey guys, i have something i wanted to talk about." and let them know that you want to take things slowly, one by one and that it feels uncomfortable to be rushed. if they don't respect that then either talk to them even more clearly about where you're at rn, how you want to progress at your own pace and how you're feeling, or tell them you don't want to talk about the topic of gender identity/ whatever kind of identity it is, or if things are really bad, just cut them off. i know the last option is a harsh and hard one, i know what it feels like having to cut off someone who you trusted more than yourself. but as cheesy as it sounds, things get better over time. and hopefully things don't get that extreme and your friends respect your feelings and don't try to rush you anymore. I hope you're not still in this situation, and sorry for the late advice haha hope you're doing well! if you need to talk, i'm always here :) stay safe!!💕

@@b1llie thank you very much for the advice! I will keep that in mind.

For some people, when to come out is clearer than others (say, if you think you have an unsupportive family and you finally get out on your own). And it also depends on what you come out *as*. Say, if you're nb but you don't care about pronouns, you could practice all other aspects of your identity without having to formally "come out" to anyone (this seems close to my own situation). If you're bisexual, it may never come up. Or maybe you meet someone who you think might need the comfort of knowing they're not alone. There are more reasons than just public assertion to come out. Just always come out for you, and try to come out when it's safe.

@@imaginaryguide1895 tysm!

I kind of have the same 'problem'. A lot of afab non-binary people seem to always have been androgynous or always felt wrong in being a girl, while I had no problems with being called a girl and was quite the girly girl as a kid. I never dressed super androgynous (though I also don't wear skirts and dressed because they make me uncomfortable) and all of those things made me really question wether I actually am agender or wether I was making it up.

Yeah same

hi! for anyone who's struggling with this, here's what I think. you can be a non-binary person even if you didn't have similar feelings of dysphoria/discomfort or were very happy to be a girl/boy as a child. feelings and emotions can change over time. what matters isn't the past, it's the present. it's how you're feeling right now. even if you were extremely masculine/feminine and were happy to be a girl/boy, you could change to want to identify as a different gender later on. from there on it's simply finding whatever label makes you the most comfortable, IF you want one in the first place ofc (no one is obligated to putting a label on themselves, it's all about whatever makes you happy and feel comfortable~). ofc your feelings aren't made up! follow those feelings and be whatever you want to be :) there are lots of different genders out there so do as much research as you can! sorry for the late reply but i hope this helps! stay safe everyone💕 if anyone needs someone to talk to, i'm here!

Some ones that I like are Alex Karma or Carma Tristan or Trystan Haiden and Ashe I hope this helps you :)

Aaron could be one

Any Fruit (Lemon, Apple, Grape, Pomegranate, Kumquat, Ect.) Would Be Good.

@@cxconutstarrs1279 T o m a t o

Hi! I am a cis- woman so please please let me know if the names don't feel right I do not mean to offend, I just like names. I looked into some cool options on nameberry.com. Some cool ones that sound Hannah adjacent are Hale, and Hayden. The name Hannah is Hebrew meaning Grace. The name Zain also means Grace if you wanted to keep that connection.

Did I ask

@@hipposquad1876 that's rude plus they weren't talking to you and we don't need your opinion on what someone commented

@@hipposquad1876 stfu 🙏

I am not part of the LGBTQIA+ community but I do support you all and I do have friends who are bi... 🌈

Kellen could be a good name

My favourites (Yes I'm European) are: Alex Asher Arson Charlie Keith and Kenny

Did you already told her?

@@chrisiscool I told her I was genderfluid and ace, she didn’t take me being ace lightly and it feels like she doesn’t even care about my pronouns, but I currently think I’m pan (I haven’t told anyone yet) so I’ll probably come out to her again soon lol

Well there’s sexual Attraction and romantic attraction so maybe you are sexually attracted to girls but not romantically attracted to girls.

as the previous reply said, yes, there are different kinds of attraction. perhaps it could be that you're more sexually attracted to girls than you are romantically. and other things to think about could be whether girls/people of other genders are as attractive to you as the gender you're most attracted to. or comparing how exactly it is that you're attracted to them compared to whatever gender you currently feel like you are definitely attracted to (iF you have one, cause ace's and aro's exist~). or perhaps you have certain genders that you are specifically more attracted to (inclusive of non-binary genders). and as for a sexuality like pan, i guess think about how you view genders when thinking about relationships. pans are basically gender-blind. as for lesbian as well as other sexualities, consider whether committing to a long-term relationship or marriage just isn't your thing, whether that's for boys, girls, and anyone of any gender. sorry if this reply was a bit all over the place, i'm sleep deprived and starving lol. and the most important thing is to take your time!! don't rush, just go at your own pace~ if you have any more questions or just need to talk, i'm here any time :) stay safe~💕 ALSO! do lots of research! there are tons of different sexualities out there, make sure to properly explore! and if it makes you uncomfortable, don't feel obligated to have a label at all. not everything needs to be perfectly clear with straight answers and specific labels. all that matters is that you're being your most authentic self, and you're happy and comfortable :)

It's not childish at all. Don't worry.

Mine is the Daycare attendant from security breach

Are you gay now 😂?

car. bean. sock.

Paper/Parchment Compass Bean Bee Tree

sky Rain Sock Bean

Moss is a pretty good one

@Cloudypaw My Name's Lemon :0

Hi Alex, fellow ace person here with some (hopefully decent) advice. 🙂 It can be really hard when people don't get it, especially because asexuality is so misunderstood in general. If it comes up in conversation and you have the emotional space for it, you can try gently correcting your friends with evidence from your own experience, e.g. "Actually, I've been talking to/watching/reading about a lot of ace people online, and while some of us don't have sex, there are plenty of asexual people who do!" Your friends not understanding isn't fun, but it doesn't necessarily mean you have to leave them right away. Give them some time, I'm sure this is all very new and confusing for them! If after a while it's clear that they have no interest in learning about you and correcting their ignorance, then it might be time to distance yourself. And in the meantime, keep yourself open to forming new friendships as well with people who will love you for you! Good luck! You're going to be brilliant. 💜

@@kaisolacegames tysm :))))) this was great :)))) my friends seem to be pretty accepting, now, though, even if they don’t understand. i cant thank u enough :))

@@andii- I'm so glad! 😊

@@kaisolacegames okay yeah i came back to this video for no reason wellllll it turns out i was overthinking it and they support me lol

@@andii- So glad to hear it!

Omnisexual? So it's basically pansexual but with a preference.

L = lesbian G = gay B = Bis3xual T = Trans Q = all together + = other s3xualities, genders and romances that aren't in the name

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