Kwv, dont be a fool. Koj txiv ib txwm tsis yuav koj, tsis nug koj moo, tsis hlub koj. Tsuas muaj ib tug neeg tu koj, hlub koj, pus koj rau ub rau no. Ua ntsej muag dev nyob npuab zej zog rau ib lub teb chaws rau ib lub teb chaws. Koj rov taw tuaj ntuj rau koj niam. Koj ua phem rau loj niam, ceev faj tsam yuav npam koj li npam koj txiv nawb. Txhob cia kev npam mus ib tiam dhau ib tiam.

Tsi tsim nyog tiv kev txom nyem li os niam tai aw. Pab koj tu siab kawg.

Niag tub ruam Koj txiv ntxub koj Ua Luaj es koj Tseem rov taw tuam ntuj rau koj niam Koj ces npam tas tiam no Koj yeej tsis tau qhov zoo li nawb

Kj txoj kev tus siab g loj npaum koj niam txoj yg kj niam g coj kj lo ua tau neeg tsim txiaj ce kj txiv yeej g lees koj rov qab li ma nrg kj niam mob2 siab 😭😭😭

Tus me kwv, koj txiv lub kua muag tsis hnyav li koj niam lub mog!

Cias nws mus nws mas yog koj hlub koj tus tub nas Cias nwsc ho muaj mus Es ho tus hlub nws thiab koj txawm yog niam los koj twb muaj coob2 tus tub nas tus viv ncau

To the son, go back to your mom. She's the only one who ever loved you. Love yourself, you don't need your "dad" to validate you.

Koj ua niam koj tsis paub koj tus tub txoj kev tu siab. Txhov cheem nws. Brothers and sisters who are in this ugly duckling boat, please be strong!

Koj twb tu siab ib sim neej no es tchob cia koj tus tub tu siab li koj.koj thiab nws tciv teeb meem yog neb li es cia nws xaiv nws os.

Peb lub neej zoo li nej thiab tab sis peb twb tsis rov lawm os

tu siab dhau lawm os tej zaj neej neeg no

Cas tsis tsim nyog li lau. Tub aws yog koj yuav chim thiab tu siab ces tu siab rau koj txiv yug koj, twb yog tim nws es koj lub neej thiab tu siab. Koj xav tias lawv yuav hlub koj tamsi hlub thaum tshiab hlub qhov tau zog noj xwb. Muaj ib hnub twg lawv tsis hlub koj lawm koj rov los ces hnub ntawv koj niam tsis nyob tos koj lawm os.

How can this son choose his loser biological donor over his mother? What an ingrate! So if your half bros don't love you, go to church. No need to choose them or your donor who denied you! Take your mom to church and forget both sides! Omg, the mother suffered for nothing to raise this ingrate! Broke her heart! Your new clan will never accept you either and your donor will die, leaving you alone and unwanted again. Wrong choice, bro! Wrong choice. You will have to regret your choice.

Niam tais aw koj tus tub lub siab nyoos ib yam li nws txiv thiab os pab koj tu siab kawg yog vim li cas nws tsis ntshai npam li lov koj yug tau nws tom teb xwb nws txiv yeej tsis kam yuav nws na koj tu thaum yug tau los txog hnub no es nws txiv na hnub no mam hu nws xwb es nws ho mus lawm na siab phem tshaj plaws li os 😢

As a mom, it hurts you because he is the man who denied you and your baby. As a son, it hurts because he had no dad or siblings to love him. As kids, we want both parents loves and affections. I hope that the both of you heal as time goes by.

To the son, you should love your mom and stay with her. You don’t need to have the half brothers as you have your own family. Instead, you left your mom to a father who never wants you until he cannot have his own son. You should know that this father would never contact you if he has his own son with his wives.

This son, you don't like your step brothers from your mom's side, what makes the step sisters from your dads side any different? They're all step siblings, you get along with the ones who get along with you. It's not that deep 🤦🏻‍♀️

Zaj neej neeg tu siab heev li os

-if the bio dad did have sons he wouldn't even care abt the son. -what makes the son think the other step siblings will love him more than the ones he grew up with? -people who want to fit in somewhere will always be tu siab... why do you care. If they don't want me, less problems, less drama. -love the one who was there for you from the beginning. Never leave them behind bc without them you wouldn't be where you are. -this son is nkim zog

Please come back and update us on how wonderful his new life with his biological dad, step-mom, and step-sisters is. I would LOVE to hear how much they love and accepted him and his family. I would LOVE to see him prove many of us wrong.

Such a sad story. To the son, remember that your mom will always love you most and will always be there for you. Through thick and thin. Your father didn’t want you and all of a sudden he wants you.. that’s a sign already. I’m sorry but you owe your mom. Your half siblings who your were brought up with will love you more that your fathers daughters.

yog nws yug muaj tub ces nws twb tsis nug koj moo ciaj los tuag nws yug tsis tau thiaj yuav koj rov qab kom thaum tuag es muaj tub xwb hlub koj niam kawg

We need to give the right to choose personal faith. One must decide for themself without other's prejudices. This does not mean that information sharing and caring is disallowed. But, it does mean that coercion or conning intentions are unfair. To the mother of the story, let your son go and keep love and respect as strong as ever. He needs to know all of his family, and he will decide what is right for himself. Keep in mind that in the search of understanding and acceptance, we must not give into centric pressures. Our mind must be open, free, and fair. We need schooling if our ethics and morals are not etiquette for social interactions. Please encourage the son to be wise in the journey.

Ua cas peb ua neej nyob es txiv neej yuav ua kom zoo rau nws tog xwb, me tub nkim koj niam lub zog yug koj thiab tu koj hlub koj kawg li, koj yog tus neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws koj thiaj rov taw tuam ntuj rau kj niam mus rau niag txiv dev ntawv vim koj xav2 ua kom khib2 koj cov kwv tij tab sis koj twb tsis paub Tia's yog niag txiv dev ntawv txhob npam ces nws yeej tsis lees paub koj lm, koj ua rau koj niam quaj poob kua muag vim nws mob siab koj lub neej yuav tsis zoo thiab

Your birth father didn’t want you from the beginning. He didn’t care if you were a son or daughter. Your mother suffered a lot raising you without a husband. Your stepfather was there to support your mother, which allowed you to be raised by both of them. Your dad only wants to connect with you, because he doesn’t have a son. Know your true beginning and love your mom. What a stab in her back from both you and your birth father.

Tu siab tiag mloog txoj no. Tsis hais los kua muag ntws

tu2 siab li os lm

Wow!!! SELFISH SON.

As a son I would never care about the dad. As mom I would be very upset too.

To the son, remember who loves you. Don’t hold grudge on your step brothers. Don’t go back to your dad, he abandoned you and didn’t want you. You betrayed your mother. She stood by your side and protected you from the person who didn’t want you. Your father only wants you for his own sake, he didn’t want you when he wanted to have fun. You should love your mother. Don’t be desperate for love, your mother is the only one who loves you.

As the son, it would have been wiser to disown the brothers and the dumbazz father, like they disowned him. He should see the heart ache of his mother, the maltreatment and disrespect the father displayed. He should see the disrespect portrayed by the brothers. Fact is he don’t need any of them and should be faithful to his mom. I would rather save my mom’s tears and heartbreak.

Tu siab tiag tiag li os 😢😢

how sad...now a days we don't need anyone but the one that loves us, was there for us, and will continue to be there for us. this story definitely teaches the sacrifice a mother makes and the lack of love and respect she received in return. it's really such a shame esp for a son who knows tradition

Tus niam tai aw koj tus tub lub siab phem kawg os yom tiag tiag nws tub ua tau txiv lawm tsis ta mus qhov twg lawm los tau Peb li peb niam peb txiv sib nrauj xwb peb cov nws muag twb tsis rov lawm mog

To the son: koj mas tsis tsim nyog koj niam tiv kev txom nyem tu koj li os me tub aw. Koj txiv yug koj twb hurted koj niam neb txaus txaus lawm los koj loj tuaj koj tseem hurt koj niam thiab. Zoo li koj phem nkaus li koj txiv yug koj lawm sub as. Koj saib kev hlub ntawm koj cov siblings thiab koj txiv yug koj loj tshaj plaws dua li koj niam tus uas tiv kev txom nyem yug koj hlub koj tu koj. Pab koj niam tu siab dhau lawm os ntuj aw, niag tub dab tsi cas tsis mloog hais li.

Brother koj tus txiv dev ntawm los yeej Tsi kav koj thiab naj Lwm hnub Tsi muaj nws lawm cov niag muam qus tom haj yam Tsi k koj na

I hope the son comes read the comments in here.

cas koj zaj neej neeg yuav zoo ib yam li kuv zaj thiab sim me neej no ces kuv thiaj li txawj tu siab tsaj plaws li .

💯💯💯

Hais tau zoo thiab tu siab kawg li os

Nrog koj khib mob siab kaws

To the son, koj tsis nrhai npam los? Koj tsis hlub koj txiv koj yuav tsis npam. Vim nws yeej tsis xav yuav koj thaum pib, qhov tam sim no nws ua li ntawv vim nws yuav tuag tsam tsis muaj neeg faus nws. Yog tsis muaj koj niam koj yuav tsis tsheej neeg los laus li ko.

Staying with the biological dad is as bad as staying with the step dad because they don’t even love him either .. he’s old enough , let him chose .. everybody make mistakes in life especially when you young and dumb so let him go find out himself …

Niam ls kuv ngob ngab laj tham nyauj siab miskas los hmoob

Nyob lub teb chaws no . Txhob cia siab Tias me nyuam yuav yu lub taub hauv .lawv twb tsis kam los saib yus . Nws muaj Meka nqa yus xwb os. Mog .

I feel sad for you, because you lost twice to the rotten man who stole your virtue and your son from you. It's wrong of your son to choose his bio father over you when you were the one who gave birth to him and cared & loved him his entire life while his bio father wanted absolutely nothing to do with either one of you. It still blows my mind that your son chose a family of strangers over you and his step-siblings & half-siblings. Did your son not consider that his bio father would have NEVER reached out if he had other sons? The need to be loved by a father was what drove your son to make the decision he made, but he's forgetting that his bio father never loved him, only need him now that the bio father is old. I have a feeling that your son will regret his decision in the future, and will find an even more difficult time figuring out which family he belongs to, especially since he hurt and offended the family/clan he grew up with by leaving them and instead chose the family & clan who wanted nothing to do with him when he was conceived.

Hmoob lub hlub rwj yeej poob ntsejmuag. Lwm haiv neeg tej nomtswv tej ntxhais twb txawj muaj menyuam tsaub.

I would never accept him as my father. Yog koj lub neej zoo ces nws thiaj li nug koj xwb os me tub. Yog koj lub neej tsis zoo nws yeej tsis nug koj moo li os. Es koj yuav coj koj lub zog mus rau lawv noj es koj niam nev.

Tus tub koj yuamkev loj lawm lauj ....koj niam twb tu koj muaj neej tag lawm tsis need any one to love you, koj hlub koj poj Niam menyuam xwb txaus lawm ....luag tsis hlub yus ces yus tsis tshuav luag nqi xwb ....your dad never love you at the beginning already. Koj Niam tug txiv laus2 tau ib pab menyuam txawv koj tau lub neej nyuaj 2 siab los vim nws hlub2 koj tseg koj cia, tiv neeg thuam poob ntsej muag tag vim hlub koj xwb. Pauj koj Niam txiaj ntsim yuan kev lawm.

Mloog ca lub Kua lo lo o hmoob aw

Kv npau taws rau tus tub no tiag2 yog kj txiv muaj tub ces nws yeej g noog kj moo li os lwm hnub kj txiv tuag ces kj haj yam g muaj leej twg

Niam laus aw..kv tus txim mus raug txim lawm es..kv ua lub neej tu.tu..Siab heev kv xav muab kv lub neej sau tuaj rau kj tham ua ib txoj dab neeg thiab os😭😭😭

To the son - Your father betrayed your mother and now you betrayed her too. Imagine how hurt she is. I guess like father like son!

It's very easy for people who haven't been through this type of situation to say don't fo this, don't do that and don't go here and there unless you've been through this treatment from half siblings. It's the kind of pain that you can't just shove aside each time. My biological brother and I've been through this kind of treatment from our step-dad and half siblings from when we were younger and still treated this way at my step dad's funeral and after his funeral.The older we get, the less tolerance we have to continue to allow them to treat us this way. I will not allow this kind of stress to disrupt my life, my sanity, or my husband and kids. I stopped socializing with some of them, stopped going to family functions, and pretended that everything fine to put a show for other people. I defriend some of them on Facebook because they don't deserve to see how I'm doing or watch my kids grow and their accomplishments in life. My brother connected with our biological dad side of family and went back to having that last name.

I’m sure if the son grew up in a loving home with his step dad and step siblings he probably wouldn’t choose this route. The mom can choose to not forgive the dad but she should forgive her son for wanting a relationship with his dad. She even admitted herself he wasn’t loved and welcome by his step siblings and father. The son is old enough to know and make decisions for himself.

Txhob tu siab os viv ncaus aw hmoob tsis muaj kev kawm es thiaj hais yus xwb me nyuam hav zoo yog me nyuam tsim txiaj me nyuam ntse yog koj txawj cob thiab hlub na es kav tsij hlub tsis yog lawv yug lawv tsis hlub Los yus yog niam yus mam hlub niam yuav tsum muaj peev xwm hlub kom tau nawb

To the son koj yuam kev loj kawg nkawd tus txiv neej ko xav tau koj lub zog noj xwb nws tsi hlub koj .vim li cas koj tseem ntxeev siab tau rau koj niam tus yug koj tu koj thiaj loj hlob los laus li ko.

Whether the son goes or stay he’ll still be treated the same by either side 😢the one that will truly love him is his mom and his wife

Like father like son. Not only his dad wronged his mom, he turns around and betray her too!!!😭😭😭 So sad. My heart aches for the mom.

Let the son be the man,since the father can’t be a man!!.Reunited!!!…Amen

Me tub aw yog koj txiv yug muaj tub ces hnub no nws twb tsis nug koj moo os cas koj tsis paub tu siab es koj tseem mus nkag nws lub tawb thiab os yog ib yam li koj niam hais hnub twg tsis muaj koj niam lawm koj yuav ua li cas koj ua mas koj twb ciav koj niam lawm thiab ces hnub twg koj niam tuag ces koj tsis tuaj los tau lawm thiab os vim koj ua koj niam mob siab thiab khib siab tas ib tiam neej os😢

Kev npam nyob qis2 li os hmonb. Nrog Khuv xim leej niam txoj kev hlub thiab lub zog tu2 tus tub hlob.

Tu tu siab os tus niam tsev ntawm zaj dabneeg no. Kuv thiab koj tus tub taug tib tus hneev taw. Kuv thov kom koj tus tub cov kwvtij txhob zoo li Kuv txiv cov xwb. Lawv ruas nyiam Kuv thaum kuv txiv tseem ua neej nyob xwb os. Thaum kuv txiv tso Kuv tseg ces lawv twb tsis suav tias kuv yog lawv kwvtij lawm.

Sister that’s mean your son don’t love you he don’t care about you he care the wrong person that denied you and him long ago let him be he will know someday

Wow koj tus tub no nws tsis txawj xav li. Hais rau Tus tub: koj txhob tu siab rau qhov koj txiv tshiab tsis hlub koj. Vim koj yeej tsis yog nws roj nws ntshav. Koj txiv muab txoj sia rau koj kiag nws twb tsis yuav koj thaum koj luaj lub lwg dej. Ua cas ho tu siab rau leej txiv uas tsis yog tus yug tabsis ho tu siab rau leej txiv uas muab koj pov tseg. Koj xav tias koj cov nus muag no tsis hlub koj es koj txiv cov yuav hlub koj, koj yuam kev deb. Cov uas koj nrog nyob hlob twb tsis hlub koj lawm txhob cia siab tias cov tshiab yuav hlub koj dua. Ua zoo tsam muaj ib hnub koj plam tag ob tog nus muag. Ntxawm li cas los koj yeej muaj koj niam hlub koj. Yog tseem mus raws koj txiv yug ces koj yeej phem ib yam li koj txiv. Koj txiv tsim koj niam thaum hluas nws thiaj tsis muaj tub. Koj yuav tsim koj niam thaum laus ces koj txoj hmoo yuav raws koj txiv txoj. Tus niam tais koj tus tub ko ces khuv xim koj lub zog tu thiab poob ntsej poob muag rau teb chaws xwb. Txhob tu siab muaj ib hnub kev npam yuav poob rau koj tus tub. Nws yeej tsis yog cov noob zoo nws yeej tau nws txiv cov noob phem. Tu siab koj tsis muaj ntaus pov tseg thaum tseem nyob hauv plab. Koj tus tub ces yuav mus ntis lawv vej sub vej sawv xwb. Muaj ib hnub nws yuav quaj tsis los kua muag

He doesn’t deserve a son, period! He denied his only son when you brought it to his attention. And now he wants to claim after so many years? Please!

Hais rau tus tub nawb yog koj xav tau ib lub neej zoo ces koj tsis txhob ntxeev siab rau koj txiv tus uas lees txais koj thiab koj niam neb thaum neb tsis muaj neeg lees yuav neb tabsis tus txiv neej no txais neb thiab hlub los txog hnub koj tseem muab ib qhov nyuag teem me me los ua kev tu siab es rov mus thawj niag txiv dev uas twb tsis yuav koj thaum koj twb tsis tau tsheej neeg yog koj ntxeev siab rau koj niam thiab koj txiv tu koj ces koj lub neej yeej tsis muaj hnub zoo koj txawm hais tau koj los koj niam lub kua muag poob ces koj yeej yuav tsis tau lub neej zoo nawb kavtsij rov mus nrog koj niam thiab koj cov kwvtij nyob ua ntej koj txoj sia tu nawb tsis li ntawd ces koj yeej yuav npam xwb2 li nawb

😢😊😊😊😢😢😢😢😢😢

This is such an upsetting story…if you know your mom is the only one who loves you, why claim the man who denied you from birth

This is so sad. This is a stab in the heart. As a mother, I feel for the mother but I also feel for the son too. The mother isn't wrong for not wanting the son to stop contacting his father and the son isn't wrong for wanting love from his own father ... but honestly if this coward father had sons, he wouldn't dare search for his son that he abandoned. He only wants his son to care and give him a proper burial. It's all about benefits. Sad.

Your son will find out that the family he left you for (his biological father and sisters) will not accept him 100% as he had hoped for. His mother is not their mother, he will still be half siblings except he will be with the father who never wanted him from the beginning.

Pab koj chim qhov nws tsis yuav koj sad me nyuam tsaub hlub2 cov poj niam muaj me nyuam tsaub kawg

Hlub tus niam tais no kawg li os raug luag cem luag ntxub yug me nyuam nraum zoov tsis muaj leej twg hlub. Hais rau tus tub koj txiv yog tus muab riam nkaug koj niam nplooj siab thaum pib hos koj tseem muab riam tsuav koj niam nplooj siab ntsoog zaum ob xav kom zoo thaum koj lub taub hau luaj nrig leej twg thiaj yog tus cawm koj tej zaum yuav npam ib yam koj txiv thiab tsis yog tsis muaj tub tab sis tej zaum yuav poob rau koj cov me nyuam nawb.

Ua rau khib peb cov poj niam dhaus lawm

The truth be said, live your life and not others. With or without....the only man in All hearts should be Jesus...amen

mloog zaj dab neeg no es cas nim g xav tu me nyuam li lm tiag txam ob hnub lawv loj lawv ho khiav mus nrog lawv thiab yuav ua cas 😌

Hais tau tu siab Heev thov hais rau tus tub ntawm zaj dab neej koj tau hlub koj niam ua tus yug koj es txiv twb tsis yuav koj niam n'eb thaum koj tseem nyob hauv koj niam lub plab los lawm koj yuav hlub koj niam tshaj koj txiv vim tias txiv yeej tsis tau tu koj koj txiv foom tsis npam koj tab sis niam foom ces yuav npam koj yog koj twb txom nyem txaus lawm mas twb tsis nyog koj yuav khiav tawm ntxawm koj niam mus kiav xeem li ko yog koj yuav mus los hnub twg koj niam Tuag lawm koj mam mus thiaj yog thiaj tsim nyog qhov koj tu.koj pob zeg no koj niam tu siab mob siab npaum cas n'a koj txiv twb saib tsis tau koj niam muab koj niam dag muaj mi nyuam tag los twb Xav yuav es zeg koj niam tu tau koj loj hlob tiav txiv mam tuaj txeeb koj mas tsis yog lawm koj Xav kOM zoo lwm hnub koj niam Tuag koj twb laig tsis tau koj lawm es puas tsim nyog koj niam tu koj maj hos nyob li koj txiv nav nws twb tsis tu koj nws Tuag koj ho yuav mus laig nws es tseg koj niam no tsis yog lawm nawv koj txiv nws cov tub hlub koj li cas koj yuav li ntawv xwb vim nej tsis koom niam koom txiv nas hos cov nrog koj koom niam lawv yeej yuav hlub koj thiab ho cov ntxhais ua koj yug koj tej zaum yeej hlub koj thiab tab sis nco ntsoo tias yus niam thiaj hlub yus xwb dhau yus niam lawm yeej tsis muaj neeg hlub yus li yus niam thiaj yog yus tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj nyob rau qab ntuj no yus yuav Tuag los yeej tsis kheev thiaj Xav cawm yus xwb tiam tsis nrog koj koom niam yug ces yeej hlub tsis ti txha li thiab yuav tau hlub2 koj niam vim nws ib leeg yog tu koj hlub koj xwb tsis muaj leej twg yuav los pab nw ib tsam los ib pliag li muab Xav los tsim nyog mus nrog koj txiv nyob mus tu nws muas ua yug nws li tus koj yuav hlub yuav tu yuav pub rau noj ces yog koj niam ib leeg xwb hnub no koj ua nws tu siab Heev rau koj li os pab hlub2 koj niam Heev li niam phauj aw txhob tu siab tshuav tsawg tus hlub yus los nrog cov ntawv nyob Fab lwm tiam mam los nrhiav dua tus txij nkawm zoo es mam los tu tub ki dua thiaj tsis muaj kev tu siab li tiam no

This Son needs to remember the reason why his father is looking for him is to carry his head, nothing more. Where was the FATHER many years ago, he's now appearing cause hes old....

Ntuj aw, kev nkauj nraug ib vuag dua ho cia li muaj ib tug tub nyob between koj thiab koj tus hluas nraug lawm los txhob muab khaws chim kom tag nrho ib sim. Koj los xav puag kuv npaum li kuv xav puag koj thiab ces neb thiaj li tau tsim muaj ib tug mi nyuam li no los txhob muab tej ntawv ua chaw ti rau neb ob leeg thiab.

Cov tub zoo li no txawm mus los yeej tsis zoo nawb

Wow!! So sad how your son chosen your ex over you. 😢

The son made the right choice to go back his clan. Issues between parents should not be binded to him. Both parents were selfish then, and still now. But, I am glad he grew up to be a good man. He has a righteous, and strong heart.

Brother, you betrayed your mom. You don't need your dad to complete.

Tus niam tais, nrog koj tu siab mob siab chim siab kawg rau koj tus tub tsis mloog hais. Kav liam tej zaum nws phem li nws txiv lawm os. Yog nws mloog koj hais tej zaum nws lub neej yuav zoo zuj zus mus lawm xwb tab sis nws rov taw tuam ntuj lawm ces ntshe thaum kawg nws tseem yuav tu siab tshaj li nws nrog koj nyob.

Tus tub no tsis paub tu siab li, tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws Tu thaub laus ntawd twb tsis yuav nws thiab nws niam pog thaum lub hauv paus los es thaub laus rov qab tuaj ntxias xwb es cia li muab nws niam pov tseg tsis nthai npam li lau, tus thaub laus los tseem yuav tau kev npam ntxiv ov…

I blame the oldest son, why did he miss this one brother but not his blood siblings? It's all the oldest son's fault.

For the son: tu tub no tsi txawj xav, ca koj twb txawj tu siab siab rau lwm tus neeg npaum kos ca koj ho tsi txawj tu siab rau koj txiv. Koj txiv twb tsi xaiv koj thaum koj niam muaj koj. Yog koj paub tu siab npaum koj mam koj twb tu siab rau koj txiv yog tu thib 1 lawm

Tu siab kawg li os tu me niam tais aw...

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Koj tus me nyuam yeej kawg npam xwb thiaj tas vim nws pem nws thiaj tsis haum cov kwv tij ko

Qhov no yuav hais rau Tus son na vim li cas es koj ho rov qab naw kom koj xav tias yog koj txiv nws muaj tub ces lawv yeej tsis noog koj moo lawm o koj twb tsis muaj nqi rau lawv thaum koj nyob hauv koj niam plab lawm na yog koj muaj nqis rau koj txiv es lawv twb yuav koj niam es koj twb tsis tau ua ntsuag mas thaum lawv yus tsis tau ib tug ces koj thiaj li muaj nqis xwb es yog li cas es koj ho yuav tso koj niam pov tsev es mus nrog tus tsis rau tu thiab tsis tau hlub koj dua nyob na. Koj ua neej rov qab lawm o tus brother aw

Yog sau kev tu siab thaum paub nco qab los lawm ces tog twg txaus siab txais yes yeej qaij mus tog ntawd ntau dua.

Brothers one last comment I'm glad you are with your real father side of the family I know you did it for your children's future that is all that matters at this point. no one understands your sorrow of being mistreated despite your mom holding grudge she doesn't understand that she ignored while that step father and step siblings and half siblings mentally physically and verbally abused your SON. you thought of your grudge think of your son happiness OKAY. Hmong clan pride is evil. Good choice brother for holding your ground you knew the Hmong culture well and the nasty game that why you left to your real father side family. I support you 100%

The grass isn't always greener on the other side, brother.

muab koj tus hluas nraug ntawv yav niag I hlais pov tseg xwb ces yog hauj lwm xwb

Yus txiv roj ntshav twb tsis hlub yus puag thaum lub lwg dej los lawm es txhob vam thiab tos lwm tus txiv hlub yus mas lod? Hnub no txiv roj ntshav tsuas vuag koj vim nws muaj tsis txhij ib yam xwb es puas yog kev hlub.

Good Morning to YOU May From hmoob Australia

Koj niag tub ko thiab koj ce neb ruam ib yam nkau koj niag tub ko es ho txawj tu siab rau cov tij laug ko ua ca nw ho tsi tu siab rau niag txiv dev ko tseem yuav rov qab mu thab niag ntsej muag dab ntawd thiab nebob niag niam tub ko ruam ib yam nkau

Tus me tub koj tusiab yuam kev lawm yog vim lica koj ho rov qab mus ris koj txiv tej kev txhaum ua koj niam tau foom rau koj txiv lawm koj niam twb qhia rau koj paub lawm ne ua ca Koj ho txau siab rov qab mus ev koj txiv tej kev npam kev khaum uakoj niam tau foom tseg rau koj txiv lawm Koj puas paub tia yuav los raug koj ntag rau qhov koj txiv twb muab koj niam neb fau rau hauv av lawm ne ua ca koj ho tsi hlub koj niam tus uas raug poob ntsejmuag vim nws tivthaiv koj xwb e koj ho mus hlub tus niag neeg ua muab koj povtseg lawm koj cov kwv cov muam lawv tsi hlub koj vim nej tsi koom txiv xwb tiamsi koj txiv naj nws twb muab kiag nws cov niag ntshav los puab koj e ca nws hos tsi kam leeg yuavkoj naj ekoj puas muaj siab muaj ntsws naj me tub e hos muab koj niam tso pov tseg Ua ca yuav nkim koj niam lub sijhaum lub zog povtseg dawbdawb xwb tusiab kawg muaj ib hnub tws koj yuav xav txog lig lawm los.

What a disappointing son. Your dad betrayed and abandoned your mom and now you're going back to that traitor. By doing this u have teamed up with her enemy and hurt her even more. I wouldn't want a son like u.