Dearest Kelly and girls, letting go is exactly as you are saying. My mother and my husband passed at home and in Hospice, respectively. While keeping them comfortable is always our first concern, they are trying to hold on for some event, person, sign. My mother passed the day after my eldest brother's birthday and I know she held on until the next morning just to not "cloud" his day. My husband waited for his daughter and grandchildren to arrive. Ray may be waiting for you all to whisper that it's okay for him to go and you will love him always. Maybe he's loving the sight sight of the wonderful puppy. Thank you for sharing this impossible chapter in your lives, Kelly. You are teaching us all how to love in the divine manner: selflessly. My heart is with jyou. Katherine

When my dad was placed on hospice care, one of the doctors came in to see him for the last time and when she left she told him "I wish you a gentle journey." That is what i wish for Ray...a gentle journey. ❤

Holding you up in Prayer Kelly. I’m a retired RN and worked several years in Hospice. Giving Ray your permission to change his Residency to Jesus is very powerful. For all of you. Ray wants to hear yall will be ok. Allowing that release will give you all Peace with the time you have left together.

Kelly your bravery gave me the courage to write this note to you. After watching your last update I began praying for Ray and you and your girls. I served 20 years as an Army medic during the Vietnam war, as an LPN, and then as a medical evacuation pilot - pain and suffering as always been a part of my life. I lost my sister to cervical cancer just before her 40th birthday so I know how it feels to lose a loved one. But as a mother I can't even begin to understand the pain you're going through! Continue to be the brave and loving mother you are and know that Ray will ALWAYS be with you!!! Keep taking videos and pictures so that years later you can continue to experience the emotions and love you are sharing as a family. May God be with you forever and ever Amen - Mary in Texas

Kelly, I applaud your bravery and strength to be able to provide us updates on Ray. I understand this must be the single hardest thing you have ever experienced. We are all behind you 100% and love you and your family. May God's strength and comfort be with you always.

Ray, you are always going to be your mommas hero. Kelly, we are here crying with you. We are all praying. Much love to you all.

As hard as this is to say, may Rays passing be peaceful. His journey has touched the lives of thousands. He will forever be remembered by those who new him and for those of us who got to know him thru your videos Kelly.❤ Never give up on a miracle💞 Kelly, as a Mom, you never want to see your child suffer. With all of my heart, you and the girls need to tell him you love him and it's ok to go. He is waiting to know you all will be ok when he is gone. You will be doing what is best for him and that is the greatest gift you can do for him. All my 🙏🙏🙏 go to you and the girls❤

Willow is a beautiful ❤️ dog ! Ray is waiting for you to let him know that is alright to go home and quit suffering ! It is hard to do ! We will keep Ray and you in our Prayers in Jesus Name Amen !

I really can’t even imagine what you all are going through. I woke up at 2:30 am on January 1 compelled to pray for you. You will get through this. May God’s peace cover you all.

I’m a retired RN who spent much of her life in pain. I fractured my hip twice as a child and no one believed me. I was punished because I couldn’t walk. There was a single nurse who intervened for me, and I remember looking at her through my 11 year-old-eyes and thinking, “I’m gonna be just like you.” And that’s what I did, for 50 years. Ray is so lucky to have a loving mother like you. Even if you can’t relieve the pain, you can be there for him. May your higher power hold you and your children in his arms like a bunch of flowers, surround you with love, and sing thee gently to sleep. Love and peace, Suzi Lindsay

Willow is absolutely adorable ❤ I have no words Kelly 😢 My heart is breaking for you. God bless Ray as he transitions. May he go in peace. May you, Ray and the girls have the ability to find comfort. You are loved and prayed 🙏 for.

I’m so, so sorry. I lost my 32 year daughter and only child 2 years ago. It still just seems so surreal. I’m glad you have your faith to support you. And it sounds like you have a lot of local support as well that does help some. Huge hugs.

My heart goes out to you Kelly. Nobody can understand how hard it is to loose one of your babies unless they have been there no matter how meaningful they are. I lost my daughter May 2022 and she was 47. I still have melt downs that come and go but rips your heart out and you will have that hole in your heart for the rest of your life. 😢 I will pray for God to give you the comfort you need that only HE can give.💔

Dogs are gifts from God. I got mine 8 years ago after my husband died. I named her Willow. She has been a constant source of companionship and comfort ever since. I truly believe your Willow was divinely sent to you and Ray for the same purpose. Thank you Kelly for your bravery and for helping countless others by sharing your story. God is with Ray, you, and your girls as are all of us who are inspired by you to be strong, positive and better people every day. My prayers are with you all. God bless.

As a former hospice nurse, Ray is going through his own grief. Let him know that it’s not a sign of weakness but of strength to know the end is near and to allow his last days to be comfortable. Let him know you and the girls will be ok. He may need to hear that. And hearing if the last thing to go. Talk to him, even when he’s unresponsive. He’ll hear it. Don’t forget to take care of yourself. This is so unfair. Your family has my prayers.

Kelly, If he loves the Lord and you know he is ready. Give him to the Lord and tell him it’s okay. Prayers for your family and for Ray!

Thank you for continuing to update us even though these videos are so difficult for you. That prayer vigil was so moving. It shows Ray his life was meaningful and the crowd is only a portion of how many others that weren’t there, but were also impacted by him since he was a public servant. Willow is such a beautiful gift and that she brought joy to Ray. Praying for a peaceful journey for Ray and all of you ❤

My heart aches for the pain you're having to endure throughout Ray's cancer journey. No mother should have to go through it. You're stronger than you think you are. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you and Ray during this time. Sending love and hugs ❤

As a Nurse and a mother I’m so sorry. He is waiting to hear from you that it’s ok to go, he sees that you and the girls are in so much pain that he is trying to fight to stay alive for you all. Let him know it’s ok. 💕🙏🏻❤️😘

Ray needs to know you will be ok! He needs to hear it even if he isn’t responding dear. It’s so important and even tho the hardest thing you have done in your life, you will be so glad that you did this later down the road❤

SO very sorry. Such sadness. Uncomprehendable.

I'm praying God will take Ray peacefully and quietly into his loving new home. His short time with us has enriched the lives of so many, his work here is almost done. May he slip gently into his new life. Continued love and prayers Kelly for you all. ❤🙏 from 🇮🇪

Willow is adorable. Maybe Ray is waiting for you to tell him it’s ok for him to go. My sister, after battling for 10 years told my father she couldn’t fight any more. He told her that it was fine for her to go. Hardest thing he has ever done but she went peacefully. She was 44 when she passed. My heart goes out to you and you all are in my prayers. ❤️❤️❤️

So sorry Kelly. I lost my son 18 years ago. There is no other pain like losing your child. Prayers for you and your family.

🙏🏻Deepest and sincerest condolences🙏🏻

As a hospice nurse I understand what you are all going through. My heart hurts for all of you. Ray is truly a strong man and you have helped to make him the fighter and man he is today. The hardest thing you will have to do is give Ray permission to go. I cannot imagine how that feels as a mother. I had to do this with my mother. Know you guys are not alone, you are all being lifted up in prayer and love through all of this. Thank you so much for sharing your heart with all of us. ❤

As a former Hospice Nurse I share the feelings and agree with the comments of so many others here. We know you feel our empathy and our sympathy of the struggles you are all going through and that you feel our love and support. And I hope you know that we will continue praying and holding you all up through this journey and beyond with so much love and compassion. ❤❤❤❤

Kelly, I have been a sub of your channel for a few years now. It is because of people like you who have given me the courage to start my own channel. I no longer do diy crafts, but I have taken my diy craft skills and crossed over to my dollhouse miniatures. I share those skills and materials used for diy crafts with other miniature artists. I want to Thank You from the bottom of my heart, for being you, for sharing your craft, and for having the strength to share Ray's journey in your most vulnerable chapter of your family's story. Being a mom of 3 and Nana of 2. I can only imagine the immense pain and devastation you must be going through. Please try to remember and always carry with you, as hard as it is to fathom this senseless ordeal that has been handed to you and your family. Ray was put here for a purpose and now must return as his job here on earth may have been filled, the bigger job is still to come. The most important job, the most valuable job a man can receive from our maker, the great spirit. That is to be your Angel. Ray has been chosen and you will be one of many that walk amongst us all, as a mother of an Angel. As hard as that will be to take in and process, hold your head high and walk with pride, knowing that your son has been called to guide and protect you and your girls, while your journey continues here in the physical world. He is in the beginning stages of this process and preparing the transformation of becoming your Guardian Angel. I know there is a fine line between the emotions and stages of grief and strength and stability. It is so easy to be consumed by those overwhelming emotions and stages of grief. When the time comes, you will be greeted with the energy and presence of your new Guardian Angel, that will be with you always. It will replace all your pain and sadness, all your anger and every emotion and stage of grief that is to come. This energy will fill your surroundings with light and love, and you will know that it is your Ray of light, your Ray of hope, and every breath you take will be Ray. Bless you, Bless Ray and Bless your girls. 🙏❤️ 🪽 🕯

You and your family have been in my thoughts since your last video. I’m so happy to see Ray made it through the holidays. My father died of cancer in 1988. I truly believe he held on so he could get through my parents anniversary, but he was struggling. I finally sat beside him one evening and held his hand and told him he could go, not to worry about my mom, that my brother and I would take care of her. The next morning he passed away right after she left the room to get coffee. I believe he was worried about my mom, much like Ray is worried about you. I don’t believe as a parent you can easily tell your child it’s ok to die, but you can let him know how much you love him and that you will be ok, if that is what he needs to do. Much love to all of you.

Im so glad Willow makes Ray smile

I’m sorry for your loss, praying for you and your family, Kelly. It’s hard when your children go before you. I lost both of my sons. God will heal your broken heart. You’ll have your memories to get you through. God bless you!

I can’t even imagine what you are going through. Once you’re ready let him you’ll be okay and give him permission to go. Easier said than done. My thought are with you and your family and I hope Ray is as comfortable as he can be.

If you haven’t already, Kelly, tell Ray what you just told us: it’s excruciating and heartbreaking for you to see him continue to suffer; you don’t want him to fight to hang on because of you; when he’s ready, it’s ok to give up the fight. I believe he will pass from this misery to a place of such love, beauty, and light that we, as mere mortals, can’t even begin to comprehend! ♥️🙏♥️

Kelly as hard as these updates must be for you, I appreciate you taking the time to do them! You and yours have been in my thoughts and prayers for sometime and will continue to be there. I wish you strength and peace and healing in the days to come.

Kelly, please tell Ray that he has affected my life very much and I continue to pray for him, you and your family. Ray is such a strong young man and I admire his strength. God bless him, you and all your family. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

I offer my heartfelt condolences as your son battles cancer. Your unwavering love for him is evident, and I'm here to support you and your family throughout this challenging journey.

Kelly, I think you are the Angel. You have done everything you could possibly do for Ray and your daughters. I'm so glad the prayer vigil was there to give you just an inkling of how much you are loved. I pray for Ray, you, and the girls too. Holding you in prayer, Laura.

Willow is adorable, I couldn’t think of a better gift for Ray. I pray daily for Ray. May the Lord hold him in the palm of his hand and give him peace.

As a mother to a son my heart goes out to you!!! I will keep you in my prayers!!! Ray is an awesome son and he is worried about leaving you and the girls!!! I'm praying for peace comfort for you all!!! In Jesus name amen!!!❤❤❤

Willow is so cute, I love her color. All the dogs are wonderful .great gift for Ray.

The hardest thing a Mom has too do is love her child enough to let them go. Telling Jennifer to pick up her wings and 🕊️ fly, was the hardest, but a moment I will always remember. You will always cherish these moments. Our hearts and prayers are with you all.

I can never know the depths of your pain unless I am faced with losing one of my children. But I can understand it and right now I am feeling your pain. It is everything in me not to scream out WHY?! right now. How strong and selfless of you to share your story. And remember it's ok not to be strong right now, it's ok to not be ok right now. And you stay there and take all the time you need. Prayers for you, Ray, and your family.

He will leave the bonds of this earth knowing he was loved. He made such a positive difference in so many people’s lives..more than most people do that have lived many more years. May God give you strength here on earth as he wraps Ray in his loving arms during this transition.

Willow is a lucky girl to have fallen into this loving family. Praying for much peace for you all. Thank you for sharing. This story has touched so many hearts.

From one mom to another mom is the biggest hug I could possibly give you. You and your family are truly amazing. I think Ray is an amazing, strong young man.

Oh Kelly, as a mama I hurt for you, my heart is breaking for you. Please know that even though we’ve never met I adore you and your family and am holding you close to my heart and in my prayers - ever single day. Yesterday I spend a few hours working on my bullet journal and I binged your videos. I wondered how you and Ray, and the girls are doing, then today the update. Thank you for updating us, I can only imagine how agonizing it must have been for you to make this video. Kelly, you are loved by so many, let Ray know that we are here and we will be there for you. We will cry you until you feel strong enough to walk, then we will hold your hand until you feel steady on your feet again. We won’t let you fall. We won’t. Much love to all of you. Hugs! ❤❤❤

My heart is so broken for you and your family Kelly, You are such a strong and amazing mother.

Willow is so freakin cute as for Ray he's in GOD'S Hands prayers are still coming ❤

Yes, Ray is hanging on for you, because of the love you have given him, he is returning. No matter what the rest of this journey is, you have shared so much with us, and shown such courage, honesty, strength, and great care. You and your family are amazing, and no matter what, THAT is your family! Amazing. .. Willow is a beautiful addition, and is a very lucky dog. She will give your family so much joy!

I can’t begin to imagine what you and your family are going through! Even listening to your update brings tears to my eyes! Prayers! 🙏

All those people as well as your cyber community are here for you and your girls as well..we care for your Ray and your entire family…my heart is breaking..all we have is prayer and love to give you

I am so terribly sorry to see the pain and suffering your son and family are having to endure. I only hope that Ray can accept that Gods plans are not always ours and that God alone can provide the comfort all of you need. May He hold you all in the palm of His hand.

Willow is an angel to your family. As a disabled retired RN who worked in long term I have told individuals it is okay to go and be at peace, your family will always keep you in their hearts. My heart is breaking for you. Please know there are so many of us keeping you all in our prayers. I’m on a limited income and wish I could help you out financially. What I am doing is going back and watching your videos (while cleaning I just let them run), if I didn’t like it before I am doing it now and leaving “prayers” as a comment, o and watching the ads. My understanding is this will help your income from FB. Every little bit will help & I hope others here will do the same. Prayers and love for you all

I lost my brother to this same cancer! He was more like a son to me than a brother! My love was so deep, but knowing he was going to a better place, with no pain ,no more suffering, I was able to let go of him! Oh the grief and pain was there , but with Gods help we were comforted by HIS strong arms. Praying for you all!

I am so so sorry for the loss of your son. May your memories give you comfort. He was lucky to have you as a mother and you were lucky to have him for a son. Bless you all. ❤

Sending prayers your way! Ray is a fighter. What a wonder mother you are. I know you are proud of your family. Hold on to each other.

I started watching your videos a long while ago. We all watched as you kept encouraging others while going through your own losses and difficult times. We got to know you and your channel became more, than what brought us to watch in the beginning. Like others that have commented here, you, Ray and the girls are in our thoughts and prayers. You have built a community. Much love from many who care deeply about you. Although we have never met you in person, you have shared so much with us. God bless you and comfort you as you and your family navigate through this most difficult of times.

Infinite amounts of prayers for Ray, you, and your girls are being sent up, not only for his comfort but for peace for all of you. I have to add though, that I'm including prayers for his father. No matter the circumstances of your divorce, he too must be hurting and grieving over his son in his own manner. My hope is that as this tragedy continues to unfold you can lean on and be supported by each family member. Please give Ray and extra hug and kiss from his prayer warriors in Florida. God bless each of you.

Kelly praying for you all. It has to be the hardest thing to see the pain and know there is nothing but to love your son that you can do. Stay strong and know you all are not alone. Hugs

Kelly..Thinking of you and prayers. I am a parent that lost my son David in June 2021. He was 40 years old. I do understand the emotional roller coaster that your on. I am so sorry for the pain you are experiencing. I will continue to pray and may you find hope, strength and love thru those that love you. We are here🙏🙏🙏🙏

As a mother who has lost 2 daughters 1 to a brain tumor at 24 my heart breaks for you! I know the feeling of watching your child suffer and in pain. I finally had to tell her it was ok to let go that I would be ok. That was the hardest time of my life, and the only way I was able to get through it was to lean into my relationship with God! My other daughter I lost when she was 39 with 4 kids, it was a car accident again my heart broke! I’m raising her children now. It’s so hard to be strong for everyone around you so they won’t worry about you so I pray God peace that surpasses all understanding be with you and your family. And that you will comforted by his love and grace. From one mother who knows all the pain you feel. And I’m so sorry. You are in my prayers 🙏

Praise God for Ray's Strength, hope, grace.

Kelly, I just want you to know you’re not alone. My prayers continue for Ray, you, your daughters and all family and friends. I pray for peace, comfort and healing for all of you. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

My dear Kelly, I know the hardest thing as a mother is to watch her child go through this detestable disease but even harder is letting them go. My daughter’s journey was 16 months. Like Ray, her cancer was so aggressive it took over her entire body. I know she was fighting because she worried about her daughter and myself. In the end, the whole family gathered at her bedside and told her how much we loved her and it was ok for her to go, that we would be okay and within a short time she left us. You and the girls will find the strength to tell him it’s okay. You are all in my daily prayers and thoughts. Much love and huge Gus to all of you.

The hardest thing to do is to tell someone you love that it is okay for them to let go. God bless you, Kelly. And God bless Ray.

I'm praying for Ray and for you and the girls. I'm in tears over the "I wish you a gentle journey" comment. It's so perfect... Sending you a great, big virtual hug...and loads of love.

I pray your son is born again. He will go straight to the arms of Jesus. May this give you and your family comfort 🙏 ❤️

Kelly, you are such a beautiful example of mother’s love. I can’t imagine your pain and the emotional journey you are walking through. Ray knows your love is, and will always be with him. God has you and your family in his hands. What a wonderful thoughtful gift Willow is. God will give Ray the strength to let go.. in His time. My prayers for peace are with you💕

Willow is adorable. Animals are such a comfort. I’m so sorry to hear that Ray is having to fight so hard. I’m praying for him and your whole family. May God give you all the comfort that you so desperately need right now. Lean on God and never stop praying. ❤️❤️

Kelly, I'm so sorry, cancer is evil! I lost my husband to it a couple years ago, but I can't imagine losing a child. I'm so sorry Ray is suffering, I will be praying for a peaceful passing for him, as heaven is waiting for him.

Kelly and girls, know that my prayers are going out not only to Ray but also to you all. There are know words that I can say that will help but just know there are so may of us send love and comfort to you. Will continue to watch and rewatch you channel to help you out. Kelly remember you are not alone. May god give you the strength you need in this time.🙏

Thank God Ray made it through the holidays! He is so strong, as are you! I can't imagine what you are going through, my heart is breaking for you! I have been praying for Ray ever since you let us know last year! I will continue to do so. God bless you all!!!!!!❤

Willow is a beautiful fur baby ❤ Kelly you’re so brave to give these updates. Sending love and light for your family 🙏

You are such a strong, loving and wonderful mom! I know how much you love your children and Ray knows how much you love him too! You continue to all be in my prayers!❤

Love the beautiful furbabies How precious ❤

Crying along with you Kelly as my son is on hospice with brain cancer. My heart goes out to you. I agree with your statement about feeling this isn’t my life. It’s something we never would want anyone to have to experience. Continued prayers for your family.

Willow is as perfect as can be! Oh my gosh when you picked Winnie's head up to kiss her it was so funny how she just plopped her.head back on the pillow. Kelly, you are such an AMAZING, STRONG Mom and Ray is so blessed to have you as you are him, whether it is in this life or another he will ALWAYS be with you, protecting you and the girls ❤

Kelly, I am so truly sorry for the pain that Ray is going though. I am so sorry for the hurt that you and your family are experiencing. I pray that God will show you his presence as you all are on this horrible journey. I pray that God hold you all in his peaceful loving hands and give you all the love and peace you all deserve.

I cannot even imagine your pain and worry at this time. Sending you all my love and support. You have been an amazing source of strength for Ray and you girls. Prayers to you all. 💕😘🙏🏻

My heart goes out to you during this incredibly difficult time. I can only imagine how hard it must be for you to see your son go through this. Please know that I'm sending you all my strength and love.

Dear Kelly, thank you for sharing your update with us during this difficult time. It is so hard watching someone you love suffer so much. Cancer is such a cruel disease. I lost my parents to it, Mum within 6 weeks and Dad from Leukaemia. Perhaps Ray is holding on to get as far away from the Holiday season as possible for you. The vigil was a beautiful sight and I was glad that Ray could see and hear it. My thoughts are with you and your family as Ray says goodbye to you all. Love and peace from Down Under 😘💕🥲🕊️🙏🇦🇺.

Sending lots of love and prayers for God to give you Kelly and Ray, Kala & Abby Peace and to comfort all of your hearts! We Love you all very much ❤

My mother’s heart grieves with you Kelly😢 A son owns his mother’s heart! I’ve followed you since before Ray’s diagnosis and through out your journey. My prayers are genuinely with you.❤❤❤❤

Kelly, Ray and you and the girls are consistently on my mind and in my heart. I wake up in the wee hours of the morning and throughout the night with all of you on my mind. I always take the opportunity to pray for all of you. This is a reminder to me how important Ray is to the Lord. He has people praying and standing vigil on Ray's behalf. You're running on auto pilot right now. I know because I've been there. I'm happy you brought us this update, it guides me in my prayers. Always, always thinking about all of you. I wish there were words that could ease the pain for all of you but I know there are none, just, support and prayers. Love and hugs for every one of you my friend. God will carry you, Ray and the girls.

I been a dog trainer for 49 years this coming February. For years, I've trained therapy, service and emotional support dogs (yes, ES dogs because people don't like to see out of control dogs in public places and have the owners pull the ES card). Having a breed like this, is a big thing for your family as they have a knack for picking up emotional upset and can better sooth you. Some breeds, it's hit and miss if they will hide or go to you during times of stress. So my point is, even though you are going through the worst experience of your life, you were turning away from what you needed. A pup. You finally were forced to see, and even more so by the name...see that YOU AND YOUR FAMILY...... need this puppy. She will be a part of your road to healing. Let all of your dogs do what they do, but especially this one since it has golden in it. Even puppies can recognize the need to comfort. I've show my very masculine husband your last couple of videos, he or we found out his mom had colon cancer and from the time of diagnosis, we got 3 months. Surgery, chemo,radiation....a bust. It started as an abcest on her appendix and a Dr drained the fluid. He didn't remove the appendix of send the fluid to a lab. A year later, that abcest had spread cancer cells or mutated and spread. She had a hot swelling with a raw sore. It was a mass on her appendix working from inside her body to breaking through the skin. I don't know why she didn't see a Dr sooner. By then she had stage 4 colon cancer and it was everywhere. They had to remove most of her intestines. Our kids were grade school age so it was rough and it affected their personalities a lot. I didn't want my husband to relive the horror, but to see that others go through the same and worse. We never want to outlive our children. We prayed together for you and your family. I pray for the Lord to give all of you strength and to wash his love over you. 🙏 ❤

Continued prayers for peace, comfort for not only Ray but all of you and definitely no pain for Ray. Gods will be done. We love you all Kelly. We send tight hugs and love from Texas 🙏🏼🤍🙏🏼

Im so sorry! I know how hard it is to watch someone you love suffering with cancer. Im so happy that you have so much support and that everyone came to show Ray how much they love him!

As hard as I know this update must have been, I truly appreciate it. I have your family in my thoughts daily. Willow is absolutely adorable. What a precious gift for you to give to Ray. I wish for peace for your whole family.

We can all relate as humans, but those of us who are mothers know exactly how much you love your child and We're all crying and hurting with and for you Kelly. Youre in an impossible position and i can't give you advice, but i want you to know you're never alone. Ive thoroughly enjoyed watching you DIY, but maybe there was always a bigger reason for your channel. Maybe God gave you us for this agonizing time in your life. Take advantage of that gift. We are always here. Much love to you, Ray and the girls. ❤

Absolutely adorable puppy❤ my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family may Ray find peace and comfort in Jesus name.

Kelly your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers! Keep fighting ❤

Girl I am breaking with you. My 29 year old son was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer with metastatic disease to brain, bones and liver. Everyday is a battle. It’s the most gut wrenching thing I have ever dealt with. Prayers my friend as a fellow momma with a child with cancer 😢❤️😢😢

Sending prayers and love. My husband passed away from cancer 4 years ago now and I'm still on the grieving cycle. Every day is a new day with unexpected experiences. I just take it one day at a time and stay strong for my kids but I don't hide my grief from them either. It's definitely a new normal once they're gone. 😢❤ Tell him you wish him peace and that he can go and no longer suffer. I'm so sorry you are going through this. It's unexplainable. 💔

My prayers lifted for you , Ray and your family

Lifting You & Ray & rest of the Family up in Prayer. PEACE BE STILL.

Sorry Kelly for what your family is doing through. We lost our son just over a year ago to brain cancer. There is nothing worse than watching your child suffering. I know Ray loves you, l remember how well you took care of him when he had covid. The day our son got his diagnosis the first thing he said was what is this going to do to my mom and dad. At the end hospice called us in and said he probably won't make it through the day He fought for 5 more days until we called the hospice chaplain to come and pray for him one more time. I held on to him and told him it was time, he finally took his last breath. I pray for you for I know what you are going through and what you will be going through after

My heart is so heavy for you Kelly.... Please tell Ray it's okay for him to go....that he will always be with you no matter what... You and Ray and the girls deserve peace and love.... I Respect you so much as a Mother.... You are truly the definition of the word MOTHER... MUCH Love and Respect... Carla

Kelly, I'm so sorry for all you are going through. My prayers are with Ray, you and your family. You are an amazing and strong mom. I wish I could give you a hug. I sit here in tears hearing the update on Ray. My love and prayers are with you and your family ❤🫂

My heart is so sad; I am continuing my prayers for all of you. Know that for every candle shining in your home from those neighbors and friends is multipled by each of us out here! God bless you all

Willow is beautiful! We pray for Ray, you, and the girls EVERY day!