Remember: If she didn't want you in her PRIME... DO NOT wife her up in her DECLINE.

Women in their.... 20s "Don't talk to me!" 30s "He talked to me?" 40s "Hey! I'm talking to you..." 50s "Here kitty, kitty..."

I'm 38, and I dress like a bum most of the time (crippled arms makes it hard so I have to wear loose, easy to put on garments like big shirts and track pants). I'm never creepy, but I've been polite to young hot girls in the pub, like "Excuse me miss, could I borrow this seat? You're not using it and we need an extra one" and I regularly get "Ugh I have a boyfriend, creep" style responses. I'm not gay, but I love pointing at my best friend and going "Me too, sugar, don't flatter yourself".

I can't help but feel like they felt entitled to men just giving them attention.

She started out saying “the ones who have no chance with you”. Now she wants to know why everyone stopped pursuing her. Could it be her entitled, solipsistic, demeaning “better than you” attitude? She crapped on good guys and Now she is part of the “where are all the good men” movement.

I'm 32, I honestly don't wanna date women my age mainly because they still see themselves as a young 21 yr old that's still entitled.

Imagine having so much free social validation that you are surprised when random people who you barely, if at all know, (you might even actively try to avoid getting to know them), don't go out of their way to wish you well. They take it very well, but damn, it really shows the difference between being a man and being a woman. (At least when it comes to the social aspect)

Every time I go on vacation, I see couples where the girl is acting pissy and unhappy, to ruin the man’s vacation and ruin the relationship. The poor guy doesn’t get it and he’s trying to cheer her up, she’s having none of it. She’s unhappy, complaining, targeting his fun and happiness. I’m soooooo glad I’m alone having a great time with no wet blankets near me!

Honestly, I've dated awesome girls who weren't much beautiful, but were interesting, independent and contributing human beings. You realize that's better when you are talking to a gorgeous, stunning woman and she's dumb as a rock

I had a good female friend in undergrad tell me her mom told her one time that you don't notice all the attention men give to you until they stop. Ouch. I think a lot of women can take it alright if they haven't based their identity on their looks alone. For the really attractive women who age out of their looks, it can be a brutal and crushing realization that they're no longer young and beautiful.

As a women over the age you are absolutely correct! Luckily and thankfully I found my forever guy at 18, he was 27 - we were married 40 years. Now I’m just in the waiting room - waiting to be reunited with my first and only love!

If you are looking for happiness outside yourself, you are looking in the wrong place.

6:00 "I like helping women, and yet ironically, I'm called the sexist, yet they're the ones using women as pawns in their social agenda." Spot on!

Well, no girls wished many guys out there a Merry Christmas. You will not see them posting a TikTok about it.

A woman wants a man who has a good job, education and salary? Perfectly reasonable. A man wants a woman who would give him the best years of her life? Be called sexist. It is just another double standard.

The wall is invisible to women, the epiphany dawns on them when the man they want go for younger hotter girls.

Many women don't realise how severe the drop off of guys wanting to have a relationship with them is because when it happens they still have the attention of guys that just want sex.

Men utilizing their dating strategy: *perverts Women neglecting their dating strategy: *queens

When did they lose their looks? Did they ever once consider that it's their personality that drives men away? Ladies, if you get a lot of attention from guys but they don't stick around, i'm willing to bet it's your personality that needs work.

I'm 30 and I don't care about dating anymore. I'm having a better time just living my life then worrying about women all the time.

You’re spot on. It wasn’t until I was in my late 20’s that I started to find dating easier.

I also found it interesting that they recognised the fact that it was do do with their looks and not their personality.

To all the young men out there, watch these kinds of programmes and be warned by older men such as me - born in the 1970s. It might be frustrating as a young man to get into relationships, as it was for me, but if you play a long game and work on yourself, to be the best version of yourself, by the time you hit your late 20s-early 30s, the situation will have completely turned around and YOU will be the ones doing the rejecting. Stay strong and believe in yourself.

So the moral of the story is…Q: what is worse than putting up with pesky and annoying attention from boys you will never get with? A: Not getting pesky and annoying attention from boys that you would never get with.

I'm not dating, but I'd rather date an "ugly" girl in her early 20's over a former super model in her 50's+. The amount of single mothers who are 30+ are disturbing.

When a woman says she can't find a "suitable" man, she really means she can't find a $$$uitable man.

The very notion of a “no fault divorce” is absurd. Name another (Contract) that puts your entire life on the line, including your finances, your home, your children. She’s incentivized not only bring nothing to the union, but to commit perjury and fraud to rob you for any or no reason. The Marriage “Contract” needs to change. Abolish “No-Fault Divorce” or marriage is done !

They atleast don't lead you on. I knew a girl and everytime we went out we kissed, hugged etc but each time i tried to escalate she stopped me. I thought no big deal i'm not going to push her especially when she told me she got raped in the past and needed time to open up. This kept up for months, each time she said i have to have patience wich i did. I didn't date anyone else even when i got the chance cause i was in "love" with her... Long story short, she met someone else, i learned she had sex with that dude in the first week of knowing each other and dropped me like i was nothing. She came back to me, i gave her another chance (stupid i know) and she tried the same thing again. I just walked away, wich hurted her (probably cause her validation/attention left) Never heard her since. Never waste your time guys, if things don't escalte after 2-3 dates just walk.

This must be the most difficult thing for a woman to deal with in life. I suppose peaking out would apply to anyone who has to depend on their looks for companionship with others. A man has to endure an awful lot of pain from rejection from women throughout his lifetime, but, unless he's a male model or escort, he doesn't necessarily have to contend with the same wall issues as women. In some cases, men can actually look better with age (at least to a certain point beyond when women peak out). So I guess I'd prefer the usual heartache of a little rejection over crying in front of a mirror because I saw a gray hair.

Thanks for reinforcing facts what most women actuality won't talk about nor admit, ever

I have met women that aren't considered the most beautiful, yet beauty is really only skin deep. A truly kind, accepting, and a beautiful person inside, becomes beautiful to their partner. Ladies focus on becoming a great partner.

Mothers used to tell their young daughters to "not mess around" and find a "man with means". So the daughters would have "dalliances" with young men, but are looking to slightly OLDER (as minimally as possible!) men to catch their eye in the hopes of having HIS loyalty, his child(-ren), and being financially secure. Nowadays Mothers aren't the loudest, most important, voice for daughters... their peers are. Their teachers are. Their role models are. Their friends are. Social Media is. And THEY will tell the daughter whatever THEY want her to do, not what's in her best interests, and they'll do it with a smile, hug, and wink, as they deliberately ruin them for their own selfish reasons. Unfortunately, their young age makes them malleable and impressionable, and they mostly have little experience to tell them that they are being played FALSE. So they listen, do as they are told, and rage at the world (and ALL men) when it doesn't work out in the "happy forever" they pictured their future to be. Those daughters who see reality and through the lies and manipulation, they seek what they CAN for themselves even if it goes against the narratives they are fed. And they end up having the greatest chance of success in securing a "good, hot, s*xy, man" (yes, they do exist!) and a happy life. They just have to be mentally strong and stand against the brainwashing, they have to educate themselves on reality ALL BY THEMSELVES, and make as few long-lasting mistakes as possible (i.e. remain CHASTE until they find a partner they want to be with forever and feels likewise towards them). The young "pups" are fun, hot, and make them feel good when they're interested, but they have yet to find themselves and their career, yet to be ready to settle down, and young women are falling for THEIR promises and lies, giving them themselves utterly, and being cast aside as the best LOOKING guys have lots of other women they want to "try out". It's disgusting behaviour by men - I totally agree - but deluding yourself is never going to end well. That's the reason women are supposed to be "picky", not so they can end up pregnant with a man's child who wants nothing to do with her as he had his fun with her. Then they say "the fun times are over and I want a happy forever" and mostly the top-quality men aren't interested in taking on those burdens when they have single, "un-baggaged", thirsty women throwing themselves at them who are much more appealing for building a future with. That's REALITY. Any woman who doesn't understand that is likely in for a whole WORLD of hurt as they are looking for a partner whilst TOTALLY BLINDED and they will end up trying the WORST of men and regretting it.

My favourite years, as a man, were between the ages of 28 - 33 because I started to put the work in when I turned 27. My skin was immaculate, and my hair was razor sharp. I overhauled my wardrobe, and changed my diet to put on more weight (I was skinny). I had to brush up on my small-talk too, as women make terrible conservationists - as they possess zero sense of humour and don't like sport. They really are very different from us. I now realise why I received so little attention from 18 - 27. It wasn't just a case of me not possessing the guts to ask out women... it was the fact I was practically invisible to the opposite sex. I didn't even have a girlfriend at school. I'm now 42, and have already passed over my genes, so I know my family tree will continue. I'm still not ready to settle down because I'm still playing catch up for all the years I was side-lined. And although I'm not obnoxious, I will admit, there is no better feeling than refusing a woman's advances. And believe me, when they're over 35, they are thirsty as hell.

He speaks the truth. I met my bf when I was 19 (he was 20), we started dating after a year of being friends, 8 years later we are engaged and happy.

I'm 32 and was dating a 19 yr old a few months ago. Despite the fact that she was mature for her age and one of the most self aware women I've ever known, I have pretty much resolved that I will never date anyone who isn't at least 25 ever again. Lol. The maturity gap was just too wide.

Always happy when this channel post. I know I'm about to receive insight.

The main thing to remember is that womens desirability peak is pretty early in the life while ours comes much later. Its not just career and money, but also experience and LOOKS. Most men will look way better in their later years than in the 20s when you could barely grow a beard.

It's over for oldcels.

Dating between 18 and 25 did suck. Once i was 25, super fit and confident, women started hitting on me left and right; and im average looking. Then once i got married.......getting hit on even more by women 20 to 25 yrs younger than me. Granted im not really interested at this point, but interesting none the less.

After high school, I had no problems attracting attractive women. They were just not long term commitment qualified. After 10 15 years of dating and not finding women I was attracted to mother and wife material, I just gave up. Later in life I discovered the manosphere and everything I experienced was validated, I felt like I made the correct choice and stayed a bachelor.

So true Alexander. Another thing woman needs to know is that when we as men find a young woman attractive and can get into a long term relationship with her, provided she stays sweet, kind an attentive, we will see her as the same beautiful young woman we fell in love with, even into the elderly years. Its almost like, in our eyes time froze, and she will be beautiful, as she was, forever. Ive had a long term relationship in the past (10 years) and she was as physically attractive to me the day we broke up as she was the day we met, even though she put on weight and got wrinkles. On the other hand I had stunningly beautiful girlfriends back in the day, and seeing them now 10 or 15 years later.......well I wouldnt have a piece of that fat wrinkly old cow, in fact I wondered what I was attracted to in them in the first place. Ladies, lock him down when you are young, stay faithful and plan to grow old together. And remember 30-35+ years old you are becoming invisible. a 50 year old guy can get a girl in her early to mid 20s, why would he go for your old, fat wrinkly ass? Think about.

My seventeen-year-old daughter took me out to dinner about a week ago. Our waitress was probably around 19 or 20 and very flirty. My daughter even commented on it saying she was working hard for that tip and I shrugged it off as that. Nevertheless we had fun with it and I was overly flirty right back. At the end of the meal when she brought us our to-go boxes her contact info was written on the inside lid of mine. Also I'm 46.

Wow, if "slightly below average" had a picture in the dictionary, these two girls would be it. And even they have that MASSIVE sense of entitlement, knowing that men are just lined up for a shot with them. These two! Just....wow.

I dated a 25 year old girl when I was 38. It was great! But, I did get some dirty looks from younger guys and girls. However, her parents loved me because I treated their daughter like a lady. They were upset with her when we broke up. Ten years later, she told me that she missed me and wanted to be with me again; I blocked her number.

Never give a vvoman free attention or respect. Attention and respect must be earned.

When a woman asks: "Why can't I find any good men?", I always answer: "Check your friend-zone. How many 'good men' have you friend-zoned?"

when they say 'accept me for who i am' i tell them 'I dont have a million dollars, but i have a heart of gold.'

Mother Nature blesses women. Father Time takes it all away.

It's kind of like the solar system. High value men/chads are stars, women are planets, and orbiters are moons. Don't settle for being a moon

You are my favorite dating coach. I feel that anyone who watches you can see how much you care about both sides and desire success and happiness for others. All this based on facts, stats, and graphs. Stay wholesome and kind.

It’s called rejection ladies. Hope you enjoy the taste cuz you’re gonna get more and more of it every day you age, your beauty fades and your bitterness grows. You earn your outcomes through your choices. Be better.

Great positive advise for both young men and women Alexander. Keep up the good work and glad to see your channel back.

"How long have we been ugly? Was it the whole time or is this new?" It was the whole time dear. You want a brand new Ferrari but only have a used Corolla budget.

I'd have to disagree about taking it in good humour. It clearly bothers them more than they are letting on. But yeah, I bet it would suck losing value incrementally as they do, although there are alternatives to relying on youthful looks to provide value.

The irony is that older men benefits younger women far more: Those men are more stable, mature, have more money, are likely debt free, etc.

Literally half the SINGLE men I know, even super hot employed guys. Half have ZERO interest in women. List of goals of most of these guys. 1. Play video games 2. Work out 3. Improve career 4. Hang with the boys 5. Watch a movie or tv i have little interest in at all 6. Floss my toothless cat (joke) 7. Reconsider women in 5 or 20 years.... or NEVER Feminism is WHY. Most say.... young women do NOT value men And old women are to difficult and not worth it and still dont value men

My experience of women changed seismically when I began to regard all women as being of zero value to me, however beautiful or attractive. Almost like flicking a switch, I have been chased ever since. The more I don’t give a @uc#, the more girls pursue me. Not interested in pairing up, but to all the guys who suffer emotionally thinking about how women don’t value them, not caring fixes everything and gives you the power.💪💪💪🥰♥️

Every woman I knew and grew up with who waited to settle down or thought "its okay I'll marry when I'm 30" .... ended up never being able to marry. They are miserable. Bitter. Childless. Every woman I knew and grew up with who looked for her long term partner in their late teens and early 20's .... are still married and together with their partner decades later. Women get suckered into thinking men will wait to marry them in their 30's and 40's. lol. It always fails. If a woman hasnt hooked a quality man in her early 20's and is on the path to long term relationship, she's screwed. And I've learned over the many years that if I see a woman who is 30+ who is single, I know immediately shes got some major issues. She's got emotional, or psychological or sexual issues. She'll have a bad temper, lots of bouts of rage and emotional outbursts, is combative, doesnt know peace and calm.

"He ages at a consistent level" What an incredible achievement, how does he do that?

Is it really worth the competition? Most modern women will just cheat, divorce, emotionally manipulate, never let you see your kids etc. it’s time to just forget about it and spend your time accomplishing your own goals in life. Maybe a women comes along, if not don’t sweat it. Achieve what you want in life first. Women are second.

This is a video that needs to be shared

Ever since i hit my 50s and started shaving my head i have been hit on by girls in their 20s all the time.

I think part of the reason many women *insist* other women wait until their thirties or later to try to settle down and finding a man is because they're trying to justify their own mistakes, if they can convince others to do the same then it somehow makes them think they made the right choice even if it only ruins more women's lives.

It's always a choice to stay in the friend zone. You don't have to. You can just leave.

Glad to see you got your channel back.

It's like my grandpa always said: looks don't last, cookin' do.

Sometimes it's not your looks that makes someone unattractive....it's their personality.

3:30 there's a lot of women that when hurt lash out at men and take no accountability when they themselves failed to take action or did something that worked against them.

I got chatted up by a 20yo girl on the street when I was 37 and we were together for about four years. Best relationship I've ever had tbh. Far better than the older women (35 - 40-ish) that I've dated since - no kids, no expectations, little baggage, just more fun.

This girl isn't too bad Her looks might have declined but she's faced reality without bitterness, that's pretty good really Nothing worse than being with an embittered person

“The ones that have no chance with you.” That one statement shows how arrogant and entitled they are.

Looks always fade. Build character....It lasts. 😊🙃

I had a friend who had the boys/men in her orbit all the time, and was super irritated when she didn't have them, but treated them badly ie. got what she could out of them, but didn't respect them etc... It was really uncomfortable, and she didn't want to hear that it was wrong, mean, or inconsiderate to give them false hope. I didn't meet my husband until I was 29, and we got married when I was 31 (long story short, we lived on different continents) she continued to have trouble for years afterwards, as she was high maintenance, demanding, unreasonable, unkind, judgemental about the men she dated, and selfish etc... It was actually really sad. She did get married eventually when she was in her mid forties. I say good luck to them both.

OMG is this how women think... i send a message to female 'friend' on a holiday and they automatically think i'm hitting on them... this explains alot... where does this narcissism come from

LOL, it was usually some grown ass losers who would date the prettiest girls in my high school too. I had some much older women hit on me through my older 20s and I was kinda creeped out by it.

14:16 men…you best years are ahead of you…if you put in the work. Use those 20s wisely. Take this from a 36 year old 🖖🏽

Alexander, these days some of us just Go Our Own Way, being in the historical 60% who dont reproduce (no idea what the numbers are today, probably more like 70-80%) is quite likely a choice men made seeing the abundance of low quality woman out there, not to mention the massive risk a man takes on today even having casual relationships, they juice aint worth the squeeze and woman made it so.

During those 'lean' years as a young man (18-25) when dating is very difficult (unless you are 'high value') focus on hitting all of your marks: physical fitness, career/job training education, hobbies, friendships, finances/avoiding debt. Identify the things that you know you do not want to have to worry about down the line so that when you are fully settled, you can cruise.

Anyone who'd say that my looks have peaked clearly never met me as a teenager.

The wall has no sympathy. XD

The game is rigged, gents. Just walk away.

Dunning-Kruger version of SMV.

This was a really good one Alexander loved it

Alexander you are so DAMN RIGHT all my life I have always kept my social life 19 to 24 years of age. DAMN it you are so right what I always and I do mean always at the age of 23 years they have always wanted run wild and only to find out exactly what you are saying. Unfortunately for them they've put mileage on their bodies and I have no desire to be bothered with them.

I'm in my mid-30s and the one and only group of women actually hitting on me is 18-22 year olds (on the street, grocery store, at uni, etc.). Why would I even date older when that would mean I'd have to put in effort on my own?

In college my friend was dating a girl, he was 21, his girlfriend was 21 but she also dated a 35 yr old who bought her a car.

I'm a late bloomer. Men only started paying me any attention as I got into my late 30s.

just saw the girl i was dating in 2013. thank god i'm single rn

Lol I looked ok in my 20's but I look far better at 35 and get far more attention now than I did back then.

When I was in my 20's most women my age were just not interesting or interested in dating me, so I dated women who were a few years older than me who had a small bit more maturity.

Are these women even aware that every single orbiter is a potential ticking time-bomb that can snap at any time? Playing with desperate and lonely men is like playing with an agitated cat.

OOOOhh I know PLENTY of women that look better at 35, than at 22. Some look a lot better after shedding baby fat and their natural features make them more attractive. IMO

Women in her 18-25 (lots of options): i'm strong and independent!, i just sleep around occasionally when i'm out clubbing other than that i don't need a boyfriend. Women in her 30-35 ( not many options): I want rich handsome men! I don't sleep around for nothing. Women in her 40+ (very low options): I'm a loser :( I want sex! Give me anything, i don't even care about money.

There is nothing wrong with women in their 30s or 40s, if they're still with the guy they met when they were around 23 to 26. Unfortunately most young women give their youth to someone else. A bad deal for many men out there.

110% of my time and energy goes into my life's work. It is the primary reason I was put here on this earth and I am doing what I do best. There are no women around me. I am no longer chasing them as something I need to make me complete. Ive never been happier.

A lot of people just message every one of their contacts on holidays. When they get messages back, they keep them on the message list. Many of these ladies mistakenly believe these messages are coming from orbiters, and may think themselves above messaging back or simply maintain too little contact. Eventually people update their contact lists without the less responsive people included. In other words, I think much of this is self flattery rather than genuine orbiter interest, and reduction in these messages is mostly from their own neglect. As they lose interest in this perceived flattery, they naturally neglect these contacts, and by their own doing, the contacts drop away. Were they to treat the contacts they don't perceive as orbiters in the same way, those too would likely disappear. In truth, it's much more likely that their looks aren't at issue, but rather their interest in maintenance of less important relations has waned. This, highlights another common phenomenon, one where women often perceive male value as less as the women gain life experience or lose the simple emotional zest of youth. That, in turn, reduces the mutual interest. Thus, while "the wall" certainly has a physical attractiveness component, there is also an attitude component that in many cases is the larger issue.

Alexander, I agree that woman hit their phsical peak in their 20's. However I would contend that they dont hit their emotional and intellectual peak until they are 30. At 30 a woman is smart, wise, mature and worldly. She is still beautiful. However she is now in her best position to choose a good man. A woman in her 20's is likely to choose poorly. Just curious if those parameters are included in your assesment? Also, LOve your content and your positive voice. Keep going.

Do women realise that an expired lottery ticket does't have the same value as a new one?

So glad you got your channel back.

DiCaprio a quality man is like calling a Yugo a luxury car