Story 1: UPDATE 7:54 UPDATE: Is it so bad to take the low road for once? (She cheated on me and I want her to feel like I do) Story 2: 11:11 Fiancée of 4+ years caught doing meth, cheating, and trying pin a baby on me.

When cheaters cry “I can’t live without you” reply with “I can’t live with you”

The first story, he has no more obligation to stay faithful to her, she broke those boundaries, so he can cross them.

“You know what will hurt her more? BE SUCCESSFUL” Ain’t that the truth

The best revenge is rejecting the pos, move on in life and be more successful. That's hurts the cheater a lot more he is much happier and successful without her in his life.

Him: She was kind... Also him: She verbally abused me & changed me as a person.

"It ment nothing" "How long did it go on for?" "2 years" Me: how does that not mean something?

Having a beer with the homies while watching the ex load up her crap by herself is the most Chad of moves. That had to feel GOOD.

Dude in the first story was just her meal ticket. She didn't even really like him. She just likes his resources.

Story 1: Dude she cheated on you for two years until she got caught and you're worried about taking the low road. Give me a break!

Last story, he should have ended it ages before the cheating was confirmed. Even before she started working at that place, she had some serious faults that are unacceptable.

The last story: WTF is wrong with OP? This man ignored all the major red-flags that were out in the open. Then is surprised that she was trying to do him dirty? Make it make sense

Nothing wrong with taking the "Low Road" when it is called for. An eye for an eye and such.

OP in second story deserves everything he got, he saw everything and still decided to stay.

I feel bad for the baby of the second story. But OP, do not contact her ever again. She is not your problem anymore

When a cheater says, "It meant nothing to them," you should always respond back by looking them dead in the eye and, as calmly as you can, replying back with, "It meant everything to me."

I find it funny that the worst point in the first guys story is still better than the best points of my life 😂

The street has claimed another one

First story: I see at least two options. One, say you slept with your friend and just don't. Or my favorite suggestion, turn your back on your ex, kick the dirt off your shoes, and walk away. The worst thing that one human being can do to another is deny access. Or as it's been called no contact. That's about the worst you're ever going to do to her.

Cut bait and run. Don't give her another chance.

1. "I'll give you total access to my phone." 2. "Let's go for marriage counselling." 3. "I'll call him in front of you to officially end it." Completions: 1. "I'll give you total access to my phone (after I've had enough time with it to delete all the messages I need to)." 2. "Let's go for marriage counselling (because I know that marriage councellors basically get paid to keep couples together and they will always side with me)." 3. "I'll call him in front of you to officially end it (after I've already discussed with him on how to make it look like I'm breaking it off with him but will readily betray you behind your back again)."

The second story is every guy's (probably good guys) worst nightmare, reminds me of the Tyler Perry movie "Temptation"

Could the last story guy rant any longer? He's a loser who deserves to be strung along because he doesn't respect himself. If his Gf didn't choose the other guy, he'd still have his blinders on.

The best way of getting through a heartbreak and a hardship, is living a life better than the person who hurt you. No matter what happens, karma will get the better of them.

I would have honestly gone the low rode but not do anything, just call her, have the friend leave the house and kiss me with her watching and thinking something happened lol

How is it low road when he is single?

Nothing OP does will ever even the books. It will never hurt her.

So, he’s sleeping with someone in an open relationship and the key word is “open.” Get my point?

If he wants to go back to sleeping with his friend do that just for fun I suppose. Don't waste time on revenge

Why would you go back to someone who's cheating? Not going back is not taking the low road.

Hell no. Shes for the streets.

In what world would a betrayer ever not do it again...

LMAO The second story sounds like a NTR Doujinshi

Love the reply from the woman. Fact: Living well is the best revenge. . Emotional therapy is just like physical therapy. Its painful, it takes time, but will make you stronger.

2nd story. Their life style ends in 1 of 4 places. Jails, institutions, poverty, and death.

5:20 this guy has never seen what happens when a cheater gets cheated on. The melt down they have isn't for show, because how dare YOU reject THEM. It's effective as it hits them right in their ego. Most often modern cheating is an expression of narcissism and the belief that the cheater is above such concerns as fidelity.

Listening to these stories I caught mine before it happened while she was in the setting up phase I cancelled all convos

the "It didn't mean anything" is so telling. They don't care about the people they sleep with, and are hugely, disgustingly selfish.

Bruh! Story 2 sounds like a cliche ntr hentai. You couldn't have prevented it as even she didn't try to avoid/stop it. Forgive but don't forget, improve yourself and move onwards.

First story, he should do it. He owes zero obligations to his ex since she sank that relationship.

You mentioned the two toxic things my father always told me to watch out for with a woman. When all they want is to get out of their parents house, and a baby. They're looking to trap you, they're looking to use you as a workhorse nothing more.

Can't live without you means she can't live without your money is all

When they say "it didnt mean anything".. ever notice how if you were doing it with someone else it sure as hell would mean something then

man, that greenhouse place sounds awful. can't believe it hasn't been closed down or reported.

OP 2: “Our relationship was very strong and solid” Also OP 2 (in the next sentence): “This very toxic relationship continued for years” Me: If you knew it was bad from day 1 then why would you keep digging/stay and make it harder to leave?!? 🙃 And why would you care about how she used to be when she was obviously this same terrible person the whole relationship?!? 😡 (It’s not OP’s fault but it doesn’t seem like she was ever a good person and OP needs some emotional help because feeling suicidal and responsible for what she’s done to herself (and why she broke up with him) isn’t healthy.)

Geez.. last story is heartwrenching to hear, I don't want to imagine how Op actually feels.. but I wish him the best 👍

*always take the high road, unless you can go low and come out unscathed"-me 2021.

Doitdoitdoitdoeeeeeeeiiiiiitttttt!!!!

You "dodged the bullet" this time bro. Have a good life with someone nice.

My brother got cheated on and when he heard the news his face went blank and just didn't care what happened and told me "life is too short for this shit" they been together for a while and it scared me of how cold he was because he was always a bright extroverted person and to just to brush it off like it was nothing was so unlike him, he probably knew and didn't know how to confront it and prepared for the worst, 2 of my brothers got cheated on which gave me paranoia of committing into a relationship.

Dont sleep on the couch they probably did it on that couch too at least you can change the sheets on your bed

He ruined the story for me😒 I only opened the video for the revenge, but it was all bs

The response to “I’ll do anything” should start with: (Assuming married) postnup that destroys cheater if she cheats again, reveals further previous cheating (list all revealed); requirement victim has no such clause Victim is allowed to sleep with anyone they want, as much as they want, and victim can’t object Cheater writes out and they get notarized a confession of what cheater has done, and their agreement to this, to be used to shut up anyone “defending” them that they don’t/can’t shut up, and to be released on further cheating. Is this extreme? Won’t hold up in court? Yes. That’s not the point. The point is, If they’re going to commit that kind of massive betrayal, then ask for forgiveness and another chance and “they’ll do any thing”, and they won’t even in principle submit themselves to what they were doing to their partner without their consent, then there’s really no point in trying. In any event, the notarized confession is a good idea, along with confessing to anyone that gives the victim any grief about being assholish to the cheater.

Success is the best revenge.

I don't get cheaters who say shit like I can't live without you. Then Die✨

I hate when cheaters say it didn't mean anything because that makes it so much worse. That means they threw away everything for something they didn't care about

“It’s like her hitting you with a blizzard and you throwing a snowball at her”.

Sheldon was right! Relationship-contract!!!!

Dont cross the lines you set up for yourself, doing so to vent or get even will just lead to remorse and deeper self harm.

Story 1: she cheated for half the relationship &🤨🤮

First story: "It didn't mean anything",...for two years. Love it! She can't live without you, fortunately she can get laid without you, so it kinda takes the pressure off. At least you know she can be independent, not all clingy and emotional (until...). Nothing like a friend, that's got your front. Aim high - Shoot low. If you want to hurt her, aim for her insecurities. There's no way to measure a person's emotional pain, so don't worry about that. If she sees you with FWB in any context, the pain will last a good long while. Update: Simped out.

"With the boyfriend's approval of course" like that would mean anything.

i would personally test them, i would ask them to donate a kidney if they really were sorry. then dump then. living off one kidney shortens your life, you waste years of my life, i'll waste years of yours.

Red flag when it takes 6 YEARS to get engaged. :/

WTF is wrong with that last guy? He knows she’s cheating but he still wants to move in with her?

These videos make me wanna stay single.

it usually doesnt hurt as much for women when they see their partners cheating, i dont mean the nature of the cheating or betrayal and how much it would hurt, what i meant is the physical concept of it, of how someone defiling what was once yours, it hurts far more to a man’s pride and ego than to a woman’s, which is also why women wouldn’t usually care about a man’s body count and men would often get turned off by how many guys a woman has been with, seems sexist but its true, thats why women forgive more than men, so getting back at her by sleeping with another girl wont cause the same pain you get when she cheated, best revenge for that is ignoring her, getting together with someone way better and being happy with that person, its the sense of loss and what could’ve been is what would cause more pain, at least, thats what i assume.

Two years my brother.So sorry,dude.I hope you overcome this.I wish you well.

In every story you hear ``go to counseling``. It sounds like these stories are written by MCs who are worried about their business more than anything else. As far as I'm concerned, going to MC is like confirming that you are unable to solve your problems. It's like admitting that MC is smarter than you. I choose to lead my life and solve my problems by myself, and thus far it worked great for me.

The way I see it, they made the rules and you're just following them. Granted that's as long as you're not married.

BRUHH F for my man

The advice about being successful after being cheated on is the best advice of the bunch. Women cannot stand having money and success waved in their face when they can't have it.

when they say it meant nothing, they're really talking about your relationship

Any clue HOW BLESSED YOU ARE ? evil is being CLEARED OUT OF YOUR LIFE ! count it as JOY

Story 1: she'll do anything in the World to fix it, until she doesn't want to. Then she'll cheat again, or baby trap you and take everything you have or ever will have for the next 18 years plus alimony. And if she accidentally yells physical abuse, you'll have to couch surf the rest of your life.

The second story, it unlikely to have changed anything even if OP was there in Mexico during those few months that he mentioned. He potentially could have delay the cheating and drug addiction for a few months but it unless he was going to stay, she was about to going on that path soon after anyway. The only thing he might have been able to do to avoid that is if he managed to also pull Rosi out of that place. However, I'm not that sure if that would have been a good idea either. It seems that their relationship was toxic even before the cheating and drug addiction.

Unpopular opinion the second story the guy deserved it. It’s so tiring how some people can’t see sh*t right in front of there face

So for 2 YEARS it didn't mean anything? What's he supposed to say "Ok, well finish up, I'll go in the kitchen and make some sandwiches we can share whem you guys are done."

1 thing I don't understand? Why would you need to know about the whole truth ? What's the difference between f**King 1 dude and 10 dude ? What's the different of ONS and 10 years affairs ? If you can accept it and open your relationship .... do it ..... if not , why would you need to know ?

Story 1, it's one thing to cheat, but it's a supervillain-level of disrespect to bring another guy into the boyfriend's house and smash in the boyfriend's bed☣️☣️☣️☣️☣️

Wow, the Reddit comments to the first story were absolutely great advice. These few comments were better than therapy. Pure gold (to ME, because they 100% applied to my specific situation)

This stuff be making me wanna cry... sh.. hurts

Self succeed and WIN your best self back.

Two years.?! Wooooooow. And she wanted another chance.? lololololol

For the second story, op should prioritise himself and his values first. Getting verbally abused or being ok with being with a cheater is big red flag for his mental health. It's good he started therapy.

Cheater? No it's a traitor. Cheating is when you break the rules at a game or sport. Traitor is where you betray someone.

How can I cheat for 2 years and then have a mental breakdown when you're caught?

Lmao. The second story. When the guy closes his eyes, all he can see is....... Tony.

After 2 years cheating her choice was made up 2 years ago when she started cheating 2 years , your relationship is finished get on with your new life learn from that past relationship and in time look for new relationships when your ready !

Story one. Never drag others into your drama.

for the first story, don’t revenge cheat, two rights don’t make a wrong. she considers you as a meal ticket, if you break it off, you’ve broken your GF down. Like the first reply, she didn’t love you, which is why you should just cut her off and give her nothing. she won’t care if you cheat, but she would care if you cut off her resources

OP so glad to here your doing better. So I had a great friend and his girlfriend did the same thing to him & they were talking about getting engaged. So when he caught her cheating this is what he did 1, asked 2 of her friends to go with him to a jewelry store to help pick out the stones for a custom made ring. Gwr favorite flower was Rose's so he had the store design the ring. So he showed the friends the drawing of the ring. The stones were cut into the shape of a rosettes and rose. The main stone was a diamond cut into the shape of a rose., with the smaller stones cut into rosettes being his & her birth stones. And the ring was 18 carat colored gold. He swore her the friends to secrecy not to tell her about the ring but they did and she was bragging about the ring to everyone. Then on Christmas in front of everyone he gave her a ring box she opened it saying YES,YES, I'll marry you. But when she opened the box it was her house key. And all the other gifts he gave her was all her items from his house. Then he gave her grandma a necklace that was you guessed it. It was 18 carat color gold with the rose diamond and the rosette stones in his and the girlfriends birth stones. He said he didn't want the customized cut stones to go to waste and as the grandmother was very supportive to him he had the design chang to a Necklace for the grandmother S the grandmother in the soon to be ex girlfriend birthdays were in the same month same birth down. He then said he won't be with a cheating girlfriend. So every time the grandmother wore that necklace the exgirlfriend was reminded of what she lost. And to add to her mistake when the grandmother died she left the necklace and other items to the guy.

For every "Tony" there is an even better "Tom".

"She would even go so far as lying about being on the pill," and you stayed with her? Men really need to start calling that shit a deal breaker. Contraceptive sabotage is disgusting.

"she loves me and can't live without you" so end it.

For the first story, guilty conscience would just drown out everything she’s telling if I caught my girl in bed with someone else

Op should be happy is is out of this toxic relationship. Its a blessing. I es aped the most toxic women i have ever met after 1 1/2 years, now, 2 years later, i habe met the nicest, cutest, understanding, kind and loving women ever. And we‘re up for our 2nd anniversary

First story: in many ways it will be easier for you to walk away from her, because you will always see that vision in your head of your wife getting railed by that guy. And you will never be able to forget it. So knowing that you have to walk away, you will be absolutely resolute.

A road is a road, don't be picky as long as it takes you to your destination.

when she said it didnt mean anything....has been cheating with that guy for 2 years with the same dude...