Together 29 yrs, Then I Caught Her w/ Her Boss A Day Before Our Anniversary... Surviving Infidelity

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DDay was 10 days ago 1/29, I won’t forget that day now either cause of the day after, our anniversary. Since then I have been reading a lot of posts on this sub. It has been helpful to know I’m not the only one. Now I thinking posting what happened will help me out. It’s going to be long cause I think details matter and I’ve been playing it over and over in my head everyday.
Our story. Been with my wife 29 years, married 26. I’m 51M, her 49 F. Two grown kids 24S, 22D. Meet in college, dated, feel in love, married, and thought what I believed was a great marriage. Did a lot of things together, talked all the time, communicated about things that were troublesome, both of us had successful careers that we both supported each other in along the way, great love life, maybe not as often as when we were younger, but just as passionate.
Story 1:
Caught wife cheating day before anniversary
Story 2:
Done Deal
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@redditoutloudrelationships1430 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1: Caught wife cheating day before anniversary Story 2: 10:45 Done Deal

@ashleyyoung796 3 жыл бұрын

I hope that there will be an update on both stories soon. I want to know what happened with both OP's.🤔

@jaymanikandan4661 3 жыл бұрын

I hope op devorce her, I want an update on both the story

@davidbrown7589 3 жыл бұрын

I am 63 years old and I don't pretend to have all the answers, but one thing I do know is that; being cheated on is the most painful demoralizing thing any woman has ever done to me. Every exclusive relationship I have ever been in, she ended up cheating and lying to my face, with a smile and an "I love you". I always hear women talking about men, saying they can't keep it in their pants. Quite frankly I have found the exact opposite to be true, they are the ones that can't keep their panties on.

@elp141 3 жыл бұрын

@@davidbrown7589 good one with the panties

@GinHindew110 3 жыл бұрын

"You cannot do that to him" Wife can betray the husband but wont betray the lover, and after that she asks for a reconciliation

@Dustin81 3 жыл бұрын

He already did that to himself.

@unknownchannel3141 3 жыл бұрын

The amount of cold blooded lack of human empathy is still surprising to me

@tenshiseikatsu7788 3 жыл бұрын

She was a dimwit. HAHAHAHAHAH. Humans have evolved to the point where our shamelessness is sky high.

@samsmith4242 3 жыл бұрын

@@tenshiseikatsu7788 hey, don’t lump me in with these people for being born with no shame. I still have standards

@ByrneMOwens 3 жыл бұрын

A slip of her tongue revealed her true love, and it wasn’t her husband. I was so relieved to see that he did go through with calling the other spouse.

@mr.valentine5072 3 жыл бұрын

This man did it right. Recorded everything they said, contacted the other spouse and sent the evidence.

@jonathanheffernan110 3 жыл бұрын

He is some man to be fair.

@thecookinestkid401 3 жыл бұрын

Sha! Savage!

@TheRumpelstinskin 3 жыл бұрын

I find it a little incredible that th AP actually told him the name of her spouse and gave him the password of his phone tbh

@thecookinestkid401 3 жыл бұрын

@@TheRumpelstinskin Me too! I mean, what did he think OP was gonna do? Follow him on Snapchat? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@tmetito3535 3 жыл бұрын

@@thecookinestkid401 he was scared he know him could rip him in two.lol

@hld3738 3 жыл бұрын

49 years old and ruined a 29 year long relationship. Hopefully the husband isn't suckered into reconciliation. From the way he writes I don't get the feeling he will, but who knows.

@delmanpronto9374 3 жыл бұрын

i have a feeling she's had many such encounters throughout the 29 year long relationship.

@Urbansilverback 3 жыл бұрын

Just goes to show you. It doesn't matter how much time you invested. When they want to return to the streets they are gone.

@delmanpronto9374 3 жыл бұрын

@@Urbansilverback love is dead in the 21st century. unhealthy casual sex is all that's left now.

@usneod9329 3 жыл бұрын

@@delmanpronto9374 you are absolutely right ! I work at a well-known college in California and it is unbelievable how this generation treats their sexuality like it's just another bodily function . Wonder how that'll work out for them !

@delmanpronto9374 3 жыл бұрын

@@usneod9329 i left the college environment about a decade ago. i heard it's become much worse since.

@zoe9190 3 жыл бұрын

That is quite literally one of the smartest things i heard a spouse do upon stumbling upon their SO cheating in the act. Obviously it sucks they were cheating, but you have undeniable proof to help you remove yourself from her. This is her mess, she gets to deal with the fallout of infidelity

@ashleyyoung796 3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you on that one, Let her deal with the fallout of infidelity and watch her dig herself a bigger hole.

@blacklight1104 3 жыл бұрын

OP had a willpower of steel not to immediately pound the AP and cast out this garden tool. Most people would go red and send the AP to the hospital or go into a crying fit in disbelief.

@jessedunn254 3 жыл бұрын

given that there wasn't any changes in her behaviour that wasn't her first guy. it was her norm to do...

@Symphonia30 3 жыл бұрын

Op is so savage but in a good way

@dragonstouch1042 3 жыл бұрын

Can we also give it up to his best friend who immediately took on the role of support flawlessly

@donkndave7811 3 жыл бұрын

"Don't drink poison just because you're thirsy. " Profound.

@stonemason848 3 жыл бұрын

He`s still a SIMP thinks she`s still a good gal. DOORMAT!

@grizbear4115 3 жыл бұрын

THIS IS THE MAN I WAS LOOKING FOR!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 He took 0 BS and exposed the AP as well in one fell swoop! GODDAM

@ava-lc8gd 3 жыл бұрын

never take a cheaters bs, but OP in the first story is a boss no doubt

@csilla3085 3 жыл бұрын

OP in the first story ended up reconciling with his cheating wife.

@akshaykumarjha9136 3 жыл бұрын

@@csilla3085 i read it too. Really sad how a mighty man ended up folding.

@noirking6138 2 жыл бұрын

@@csilla3085 noooooo are you serious?! Wow! He’s really going to regret that.

@csilla3085 2 жыл бұрын

@@noirking6138 yeah, I was rooting for him to move on and leave the cheater in the dust but he chose to reconcile 😐

@donkndave7811 3 жыл бұрын

Omg, this is the best cheating story. Bless the friend. Bless the dog. Bless the betrayed man.

@RJH_LIL 3 жыл бұрын

@@wildkatarn7141 can you send the link?????

@mugwithnocoffee2572 3 жыл бұрын

@@wildkatarn7141 I hope that guy got tortured in the prison

@Symphonia30 3 жыл бұрын

At least this cheating story actually has a fitting resolution.

@bepolite6961 Жыл бұрын

@@Symphonia30 Ah no. I heard the full story ages ago. He takes her back and even adds a luvvy dovey paragraph about how much stronger their love is since he forgave her. Not what I expected, but there you go. Sorry been so long can not find the link.

@rajakghosh6602 3 жыл бұрын

If after 29 years wife can't be faithful what's the point of getting married? There's is absolutely no need for any person to go through this heart ache and despair. There is no need to get married.

@insideAdirtyMind 3 жыл бұрын

people do cheat (I would better say betray) ... it does not matter if you are married or not

@passionproject568 3 жыл бұрын

@@insideAdirtyMind Yeah you're right. It doesn't matter what's the status, married or not, people stray from their lover. Being married just makes it even more complicated....

@JohnSmith-wx9wj 3 жыл бұрын

@@passionproject568 Exactly. Also, I always tell people not to become a house spouse no matter how much money their partner makes. You never know.

@passionproject568 3 жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-wx9wj oh yes, I hear this from my mother all the time. Always have a job of your own, always have a secret saving, always have a plan b, and so on and so forth. The most radical thing she ever told me was get tested and ask partner to get tested too. Is that as wild as I think it is? What do you think?

@JohnSmith-wx9wj 3 жыл бұрын

@@passionproject568 For STD's? Maybe. If you're in each other's presence constantly I don't see the point, but upon becoming serious I don't see a problem.

@blacklight1104 3 жыл бұрын

It makes me smirk when people brag about their 5-year, 8 or 10-year relationships. This story right here proves that not even those are safe. Hell, the other day I watched/read a story on similar channels such as these that a 60-year old cheated. Fricking 60. Imagine that. Then you got people cheating on their spouses while husband/wife is out working, on their anniversary, their fricking wedding day or the night after the wedding, with close friends or someone he/she claims they're not attracted to no less. It really solidified my decision not to get married or even enter a relationship.

@novacanenovacane7032 3 жыл бұрын

Its definitely unnerving.

@piyushsharma3991 3 жыл бұрын

Just pump and dump.

@Dustin81 3 жыл бұрын

Also it doesn't matter how much money you make since a millionaire found out all his kids aren't his.

@andreisonso1538 3 жыл бұрын

Fuk dis bro. I'm afraid where my relationship is going now in the future.

@ThomasSDavis-mc9of 3 жыл бұрын

EVERY relationship will come to and end. But only one side gets the cash and prizes. Let them continue walking the streets.

@ThePurple628 3 жыл бұрын

The friend in the first story is such a real one. The dog is also such a good boy to his human. OP if you ever see this, I'm so incrediby sorry your wife threw away everything you had for another equally trash person. You deserve far bettter and hopefully your kids have your back as much as your friend does.

@kidkratoski3778 3 жыл бұрын

"Don't drink poison just because your thirsty." Perfectly said.

@dromance879 3 жыл бұрын

The second guy is so dumb wtf. She clearly doesn’t love him, he can clearly see it but won’t accept it. Cheated on him and walked all over him but still gives her second chance. He needs to learn to love himself and know his worth. Pretty sad too many guys are like this.

@SuperAfroManXD 3 жыл бұрын

It was so cringe to listen to. "I love her so purely, that I instantly forgive her literally admitting to cheating on me in her journal. No, guys, she's a good person even though NOTHING I've said has contributed to proving that."

@jgw5491 3 жыл бұрын

That's why victims stay with abusers. "But I love him/her!!" Cheating, just a flaw. Physical abuse, just a flaw. Controlling, just a flaw. They think that turning off their brain the name of love is "true" love. ~shakes head~

@daviddelaet8116 3 жыл бұрын

In my mind she was an angel...she still is! What the actual fuck is wrong with this guy!

@Frightmarelordofthenightmares Жыл бұрын

He's sadly blinded by his own love😞

@LilAnonomus 3 жыл бұрын

Damn he handled that like a beast.

@ashleyyoung796 3 жыл бұрын

He's a madlad beast. A 1000 Kudos and respect for that man standing up for himself.😁👍

@piyushsharma3991 3 жыл бұрын

He really inspired me to start hitting the gym

@LilAnonomus 3 жыл бұрын

@@willg1088 your comment reminded me to check up on this guy and damn he's been on a hell of a journey. I won't judge him if he decides to try again with her, seems like both of them learned a lot from this mess. Who knows what will happen down the road.

@thanosontherise7164 3 жыл бұрын

Damn the 1rst story was crazy who knows how many other men or women she's slept with.

@ashleyyoung796 3 жыл бұрын

And how many diseases has she caught over the past years?

@delmanpronto9374 3 жыл бұрын

she's an expert deceiver. that's why he didn't see too many red flags. total sociopath.

@TheMsmith77 3 жыл бұрын

She was probably the town bicycle 🚲..

@ashleyyoung796 3 жыл бұрын

@@TheMsmith77 They all rode her to town.🤣

@hunggamerofficial3252 3 жыл бұрын

@@delmanpronto9374 Well, from my experience, i would say there are two types of whamen with Red Flags nowadays. One is what i call "Visible Red Flags", whom you can expose so easily because they're not good at hiding anything. The other is whom i called "Invisible Red Flags" because they are very good at hiding stuff deep inside their closet and it's very hard for you to find out. The way of calling those types, i made them up myself, but the experience from the cases was exactly like this man in the video. Whamen are exactly the same regardless of which country they stay

@jerrychicks2420 3 жыл бұрын

29 years of marriage done for nothing. Smmfh

@johnrynkiewicz1607 3 жыл бұрын

#1 Finally, a novel where the hubby dealt with the situation like a man. Congrats to the novelist who wrote this. Update, please.

@PetalBugABoop 3 жыл бұрын

Yeaaahhh I can't help but feel this was fake. Especially since there were no signs, yet there were times for her to sneak out. I... just don't feel this is legit. Really interesting story to listen to though.

@joelrasdall7662 3 жыл бұрын

@@PetalBugABoop 100% agree. This read like a "what I wished I'd done" post or something like that.

@ricardocarmona5210 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah it's fake!!!

@csilla3085 3 жыл бұрын

husband from the first story ended up reconciling with his wife.

@wildkatarn7141 Жыл бұрын

STORY 1: The whole story gets BRUTAL afterwards. Turns out the boss was blackmailing the wife to cheat...& she is only one of the FEW women he did this with. After finding a "shark lawyer" & hiring a PI, they found out the boss was a abusing nearly half a dozen women the same way, even getting one of them pregnant & ruining a few other marriages. The STBXW, AP's wife & other abused women matched to his business, got in contact w/their HR department & got him fired on the spot. He's dodging court appointments, gone thru two lawyers that quit him as a client & is most likely in prison for everything now.

@kos2919 3 жыл бұрын

The situation in story 2 is my biggest fear in relationship. I'm a tall scary looking guy and yet I'm sappy for beautiful relationship, the typical "happily ever after" stuff. This kind of betrayal will be earth shattering for me.

@appeljuicesurf 3 жыл бұрын

it all starts if you dont respect yourself and put your gf over yourself.

@jgw5491 3 жыл бұрын

Just don't turn off your brain. Don't live in paranoia, but if a red flag starts waving, quietly investigate.

@dividedpersona 3 жыл бұрын

Just don't be a simp. Have respect for yourself if it ever happens, and walk away.

@devnotes00 3 жыл бұрын

First guy definitely handled the situation a lot better than most, especially catching the other husband in the act

@TheCrimebaby 3 жыл бұрын

Savage, beautiful man. Am proud of this stranger, so very proud

@TheCrimebaby 3 жыл бұрын

@@willg1088 Wait, what?

@ryankelly8077 3 жыл бұрын

Damn, if this storyline actually played out detail-for-detail as it was written, then I genuinely feel so sorry for the husband... I couldn’t imagine experiencing something like that

@SalahP.Secondz 3 жыл бұрын

The heartache of one sided love. Been there but made me completely cold hearted and wise to the ways of the world. I wish these guys the best.

@Nangbia 3 жыл бұрын

first story :you are a champ man

@LEXXIUS 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1: Wife: "I'm so sorry..." Yeah riiight. Sorry for yourself being caught cheating. It's always the same: fake remorse. Cheaters have only their own interests and benefits in mind.

@columkenn Жыл бұрын

Oh, she's very sorry. She was only cheating for 9 months!!!

@sosamma090 3 жыл бұрын

The guy in second story saw the red flag that the cheater loved the attention from other guys and still got into relationship with her. He had no one to blame but himself. Also, she definitely had physical affair with multiple men

@valerinesterov6163 3 жыл бұрын

29 years ... Are you f@cking kidding me. This is half of a life in some countries. Jesus that's pretty sad. I fell really bad for him. Why would you do this to someone and even after that to tell them "I love you" ? People are disgusting. I don't want to be in a relationship or marriage. F@ck all of that bs I will walk alone. 🥺

@UltraG4 3 жыл бұрын

The dog was such a good boy he kept quiet and all, protect him at all cost

@bobbyhinner3225 3 жыл бұрын

Holy crap the first guy was amazing. He recorded it and informed the other spouse all right away? Damn. That was a great move

@heatherv3417 3 жыл бұрын

That man’s friend is amazing, he’s the kind of friend you hold onto for dear life

@teepssenju3411 3 жыл бұрын

Man what a top friend. I honestly can’t say if I have any friends that’ll do that for me

@turtlehead6880 3 жыл бұрын

Last dude "home of the free and the land of the simp" 😂

@jordandennis6794 3 жыл бұрын

Monster simp

@mcleod56ify 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1 -yeah I would’ve did the same thing when exposing the ap and wife and I like how they always try to protect the ap like f their feelings

@TheyCallHimTheTops 3 жыл бұрын

Dude, hearing that shit. I can’t believe this guy let them both leave the house alive.

@rustyreese4006 3 жыл бұрын

@@TheyCallHimTheTops it's not worth going to prison for. Why fight over something that has no value any longer? I get the emotional reactions, but emotions are misleading without logic behind them. I had an ex ask me why I was just going to walk away, and not fight for her. I told her that she proved to be of no value to me when she decided to screw around on me. I don't know if she ever figured out what I meant, but I haven't seen her since then so who knows.

@piyushsharma3991 3 жыл бұрын

@@rustyreese4006 did your ex seriously say that like wtf dude ?!?!?

@Dustin81 3 жыл бұрын

@@rustyreese4006 Fight for what? The relationship has been already nuked at that point. She should have fought for it by brushing any suitors aside.

@jamarr27 3 жыл бұрын

I like the first story, but the second one..... how do you read her journal, and see that she's clearly obsessed with these dudes and not realize that she really does not want you?????? How is there even a second chance after that?

@piyushsharma3991 3 жыл бұрын

And to sum up her emotional cheating by saying that "sHe hAs fLaWs" lol.

@dividedpersona 3 жыл бұрын

Dude was simping hard.

@akoilngas1215 3 жыл бұрын

"...the girl of my dreams..." is a chick who lies to you, is looking to get railed by at least two other guys, is emotionally connected to them, and who does things that she knows hurts you and your relationship with her. You talk about love, but this isn't healthy love. You know that, so let's not pretend this is about "purity." If this simply was about purity, you'd still be with her. This is about disrespect and a one-sided relationship. You can't be with her and have any self-esteem. Glad you're out.

@severepayne72 3 жыл бұрын

1 - MAN it sucks, but to record all that, the confession, the threat to the guy and of telling the AP wife thats hardcore, but actually its kinda the best way then the AP wife can't deny it happened, reality smacks you in the face, great way to handle it i thought, she see's her husband in the pink bathrobe or whatever, lol i would have sent him home to his wife in that bathrobe, only give him his drivers license when he leaves, tell him he can get the his clothes and wallet from OP wife lol, she cant make up any excuses to the kids, even putting the chair in the door, great story anyways

@Symphonia30 3 жыл бұрын

Best cheating story, both the wife and her affair partner suffer some serious consequences. And Op is a clever man for what he did

@thereapingsloth5665 3 жыл бұрын

crown to the king of a friend that no questions asked came over to help you

@adamwilliams4928 3 жыл бұрын

Good God, the second guy was so infuriating. The thing that pissed me off the most, is that he went through all this bullshit before. The more I listened to his story, the less it sounded like love and more like an unhealthy obsession.

@bickybhattarai6195 3 жыл бұрын

The 1st guy was amazing. Given the situation he did a damn good job. Hats off

@mctwisp7175 3 жыл бұрын

THAT LITERAL CHAD REALLY YELLED "SURPRISE" UPON SEEING HIS WIFE AND HER BOSS GET IT ON JKSADGFASFA

@AllieOopsTK 3 жыл бұрын

Friend in the first story is the real MVP.

@tonysr1983 3 жыл бұрын

Guy from the 2nd story is gonna take her back with open arms as soon as she calls him

@daviddelaet8116 3 жыл бұрын

Didn't she say she could kill someone and he would still love her. If I had his picture, I would have it printed on a doormat.

@ramiroorozco8974 3 жыл бұрын

@@daviddelaet8116 😂😂😂

@strikeforce1500 3 жыл бұрын

1st story: Gotta love cheaters "it was killing me inside", "it didn't mean anything" , freaking w*ore. Second, the boss is oblivious as hell lmao. OP, you did the right thing to tell the wife about the cheaters. She ruined a 20+ years of relation, she (well, both) ruin their families, and would had continue cheating if you haven't find out. Your friend is the real mvp and tell your kids. 2nd story: "fantasies",sure. OP, you did the right thing, sooner or later she would end up the relationship, or worse, cheating. Do not take her back and don't contact her. This may sound wrong, but you are lucky that you didn't have kids or married to this woman.

@bobsponge8539 3 жыл бұрын

Finally an OP that isn't a doormat

@Jxfjfjbfkv 3 жыл бұрын

That’s one great best friend. Friends won’t let friends go down the drain, if they can help it.

@salaciousBastard 3 жыл бұрын

That was savage with the clothes, recording, and wife facetime. Absolutely savage.

@roymustang9059 3 жыл бұрын

Staying SINGLE is the best way to go & happy to be single. I'm a young man in his late twenties with associates degree in nursing and a bachelor's degree in information technology so I've been single pretty much all my life because no one would go for someone with autism lol I got no issues being single at all. Most of my brothers/friends from high school and college are divorced with kids or currently having baby mama' problems aka paying child support. As I watched them deal with their exes...and hearing other trifling back-stabbing shit like this makes me not want to get involved in a romantic relationship with any female or anyone. Friendships are fine and sex life is good as a single man.

@blacklight1104 3 жыл бұрын

I always thought I was missing out. Now I see more clearly. I'm missing out on all the heartbreak, stress, and drama. Pass and no thanks. We'll live.

@phoneicad1887 3 жыл бұрын

Iife is about taking risk

@blacklight1104 3 жыл бұрын

@@phoneicad1887 not every risk is recoverable. You may gain experience but you lose important time, resources, and important relationships committing to it. Life may be unpredictable most of the time but it doesn't mean you should say yes to everything coming your way. The inverse is also true but you gotta balance your choices since all the consequences falls on you.

@telluhwatboy 3 жыл бұрын

Red flags when I hear “I’m 6’3” and workout”, and op was calm and made all perfect decisions.

@Diortelon 3 жыл бұрын

Stories like these spike my fear of commitment. I'm quite reserved with my emotions and only devout myself when I feel there's something truly special, which has been pretty far and between. I've only been in love three times my 24 years of life, and my current relationship is great. But then again, these kinds of scenarios blind-side you. Just imagining something like this happening to me makes me not want any relationship whatsoever. You never know when someone you consider as the love of your life will betray you in such a vile manner that forever taints your capacity and willingness to love, and all because of an affair.

@bluemenace04 3 жыл бұрын

This is exactly why I have serious trust issues and I make it known I don't trust anyone. If I have the slightest doubt in any girl I have an interest with, no relationship at all. Surprisingly I've been with this amazing lady for 8 years under the condition she never breaks my trust, not even once.

@Symphonia30 3 жыл бұрын

I heard a lot cheater stories here, but the first story is the best, because this one actually has a proper conclusion and justification. Op, you are savage, but in a good way. Good for you for what you did. Take time for it yourself, and get those toxic people out of your life. Don’t ever feel sorry for what you did, they deserve it. If there’s one thing about cheaters it’s the fact that they’re not sorry they cheated they’re sorry they got caught.

@daviddixon1175 3 жыл бұрын

The fact she was more worried about the other cheater ,rather than broken hearted husband,is even more powerful answer,than amount of time her affair was going on,when it gets to the stage ,that they're comfortable bringing the guy home,you know it's much more than sex,you don't have to be genius it's over, NEVER give anyone a second chance to apologise,it's AMAZING the things people will do for an orgasm,what they KNOW they will lose & dramatic consequences,& completely change of life,but their selfishness is all that matters

@murdock94 3 жыл бұрын

I really hope we get an update on the first story.

@outlaw8113 3 жыл бұрын

Update on both stories please and thank you for everything you do

@okirrama3587 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1 what u did to your wife's AP is savage

@RomTheVacuumedSpider 3 жыл бұрын

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. I’m so proud of this man.

@slaymyface1357 3 жыл бұрын

Moral of the story, always have a homie who will be there for you

@dgracey01 3 жыл бұрын

2nd Story: Textbook example of Plan B provider.

@daviddelaet8116 3 жыл бұрын

😆🤣

@meruem1920 3 жыл бұрын

Facts its just disgusting and disturbing

@stephoncox5778 3 жыл бұрын

wtf is love worth when girls get bored if you love too long or too much? Nothing! Both of these stories prove that.

@beatsfromsoda 3 жыл бұрын

Underrated comment

@simhanssens7331 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1: hey man, atleast you have a friend you can TRULY rely on. Cherish him with your all! Can't imagine what that's like though.

@thomasmacgruber6701 3 жыл бұрын

If I ever walked in on that, I would be in jail for murder.

@MattJDave 3 жыл бұрын

Remember, if you build yourself and open your heart again, don't open it to just anyone. Remember that people exist primarily to satisfy their own urges, and there are more psychopaths and sadists out there than you might think. The better option is to never open up to anyone.

@dkadkins6545 3 жыл бұрын

2. When someone tells you who they are believe them.

@GLoLChibs 3 жыл бұрын

Never understood why cheaters always try to cover up when they get caught in the act.

@adamantlyadam5201 3 жыл бұрын

Kudos to his friend. Way to look after him in such an emotional time.

@absongwachiwa8448 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1 is from the movie adulterers 🤣🤣

@abiolakoleosho7056 3 жыл бұрын

This might be the best one I’ve heard

@je24nn 3 жыл бұрын

I love this channel ❤

@jaystef1627 3 жыл бұрын

The buddy from the first story is a solid friend. He just showed up and got the job done in the best way. A good friend and a good dog will get you through hell.

@jesusolguin5896 3 жыл бұрын

Bro the first story, i feel really bad for the husband, but what put even more salt in wound for was when he described that his dog was there knowing and sad

@MsAnimefan95 3 жыл бұрын

Man, what a true friend OP has.

@Golfing422 3 жыл бұрын

For the second guy, this is the issue with princesses. I was married to one for 15 years. I was just an average Joe and I was a fool to go for a trophy. It cost me 16 years of my life. I should have been realistic and stayed in my league and fell for a great person. My life blossomed with a terrific partner after I moved on. I don’t need a trophy to validate my place as a man, matter of fact, when I see average Joes with trophy’s I just chuckle inside remembering how terrible it was.

@0crowz 3 жыл бұрын

listning to this i started crying ...

@fscorpion678 3 жыл бұрын

Story 1 OP had a straight up joker moment lmao

@4loops43 3 жыл бұрын

Remember it wasn’t the first time she cheated, just the first time he caught her!

@adolfoarancesjr9221 3 жыл бұрын

1st story: it is just your turn, man, it is just your turn, you had good memories of your loving wife in the past 29 yrs your married to her, now the one in front of you is not the one you married, she is a totally new person inside the shell of you wife, tell your kids of what their mother have done and be done with her, be free, my friend, be free to live a healthy life, take a vacation to a distant place, cool off for a month or so, cheating wife will be a nightmare in the past and will fade in your memory in due time....

@miriamanderson6146 3 жыл бұрын

Oh, my gosh! Awesome! Not the pick me up guy dancing around and never letting go even with a destroyed self respect! Wow!

@mitchsorenstein630 2 жыл бұрын

"One time thing" decides to defend the Ap when OP is about to snitch to Ap's wife.

@appeljuicesurf 3 жыл бұрын

story 2: NEVER tell a woman your weakness, she will use it 100% against you. i would have said to her, if you want to leave go ahead, i wont fight for you to stay. its called self-respect and you might learn that when you are getting tired of getting pushed around.

@LadyLeomon 3 жыл бұрын

While re-watching this video a thought occurs to me ... what did the boss think was gonna happen when he gave OP his passcode? I’m sorry but while I feel unending sympathy (and respect) for OP during this whole mess I can’t help but laugh at the boss’s stupidity! Hope his ex-wife took him to the cleaners 😂😂😂

@mythrul9362 3 жыл бұрын

every time they get caught up they’ll throw you some ass lol never fails

@nathanchlysta9849 3 жыл бұрын

That friend is an awesome friend

@radisfat3rotar488 3 жыл бұрын

How can reddit be so generous and twitter be so toxic

@blackmagician7645 3 жыл бұрын

😄Happy anniversary! I got you infidelity with my boss! You got me divorce papers? Oh- How sweet..

@deanfisher5017 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly like the vows she made when you two were wed; "IT DIDN'T MEAN ANYTHING!" Cannot envision any Karma severe enough for those two MORONS (SWEET FAITHFUL "WIFEY" & BOSS}!

@J.royfrmtheburbs Жыл бұрын

That's the best friend you can ever ask for

@mathewhaynes3691 3 жыл бұрын

He said: I hope she fights for us?! Wtf No respect for you bro. Neither her or you for yourself.

@BarryObaminable 3 жыл бұрын

Never believe tears in a case like this. They are just sad they got caught. They will say anything to make it go away.

@martintinajero9140 3 жыл бұрын

They deserve whatever Karma has in store for them Hope the husband makes an update of what happens.

@dotcom8555 3 жыл бұрын

2nd story was similar as mine .. love someone unconditionally and they just treat like option

@nicolepenkwit6530 3 жыл бұрын

Respect, that he could do all this so collected. I would be crying like a baby, screaming insults like a banshee, throwing things around like King Kong and just would be ......took all the secrets of my partner and lie to him and try to heart him with this weakness about all I could, so that can now be the one heart.

@mememachine5378 3 жыл бұрын

Friend in the first story is the realest homie known to man😤

@DaddyDynastic 3 жыл бұрын

The guy from The Second Story is basically just getting what he deserves at this point since he refuses to learn the lesson the universe keeps violently shoving down his throat

@bawstonbredbeantownsfinest5249 2 жыл бұрын

Story 1, never let a friend like that out of your life thats a true friend.

@gannicusfinch7068 3 жыл бұрын

2nd story: "I threw myself into that relationship . . . every bit of my heart and soul, I poured into it. I committed to being the best I could for her." Well, there's your problem. What she wanted was a complete ash whole who wouldn't throw water on her if she was on fire.

@akoilngas1215 3 жыл бұрын

No, you're wrong. She wants both. She wants the tingles with the ash, but she also wants to be able to come home, barely able to walk after the pounding ash gave her, to have OP hug her, care for her, tell her he loves her, maybe get married and have kids. Provide that lifestyle she thinks she deserves. That's how some women live their best life.

@rustyreese4006 3 жыл бұрын

@@akoilngas1215 if she wants that, she can find herself a pimp to support her in the off hours.

@dre10blood 3 жыл бұрын

Swear. Never satisfied.

@shaycormac5027 2 жыл бұрын

Women were not made to be in the workplace. I don't care if you think that's "sexist", I WILL die on this hill.

@ryno9508 3 жыл бұрын

how people still do this in their own home is amazing

@tonymobley4156 3 жыл бұрын

Second story. You don’t love her. You love the idea of who you want her to be. You can’t possibly love a cheater that causes only pain and humiliation in your life. Brother, you deserve to be loved as much as you want to love the right person. Don’t settle for hurt and pain. It can destroy you. You will get through this. One step at a time. You only fail if you quit. It’s ok to be discouraged. It’s ok to feel bad. But keep moving forward. Find friends as loyal to you as you are to them. And we will be here for you.

@HumanSagaVault 2 жыл бұрын

Damn, one feeling i dont want to ever feel is to be cheated by my spouse, someone that I love so dearly, just thinking about it gives me goosebumps. And for OP to catch them right in the act. that must have been some excruciating pain he is feeling. I feel to everyone out there who got cheated on, i hope healing and to be able to move on from it. T_T