What does it feel like to be old and alone?

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Channel 4 News

Channel 4 News

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The charity Campaign to End Loneliness says that one million of us are already suffering from acute loneliness, while two and a half million over 60s fear they could end up similarly isolated.

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@thomaswhite4231
@thomaswhite4231 5 жыл бұрын
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone" Robin Williams, actor
@evieered441
@evieered441 5 жыл бұрын
Thomas White , thank you for this comment.
@phabebarcelona863
@phabebarcelona863 5 жыл бұрын
Yup
@jamiabell7900
@jamiabell7900 4 жыл бұрын
That's so sad
@50haywood
@50haywood 4 жыл бұрын
So True
@rubiecon6425
@rubiecon6425 4 жыл бұрын
Woman and close freind and close family memeber who just are selfish and use u instead of encouring u
@3DSgeek
@3DSgeek 8 жыл бұрын
this isn't just an old persons problem, there are people of all ages who spend most of their lives alone.
@geniemeadows5122
@geniemeadows5122 8 жыл бұрын
+3DSgeek ....very true I have spoken with young ones who are just as lonely.
@geniemeadows5122
@geniemeadows5122 8 жыл бұрын
+3DSgeek ...it's just old people cant afford the net or know how to work it in some cases.
@sweetsugar1014
@sweetsugar1014 8 жыл бұрын
+3DSgeek You're right. But, it's different. Young people have the energy, strength, and livelihood where they can go to church often and socialize, go out with friends, etc. Old people are not as energetic to get out often. And many of them don't have the money to go out on the town, gas in car, or movies, etc. So, they stay home often yet do not have anyone there to keep them company. And a dog or cat is good to have, but can never substitute another human being.
@nicolewalden4754
@nicolewalden4754 7 жыл бұрын
Sweet Sugar 101 100%. U hit the nail on the head. 👌 🕊 💖
@becautious5658
@becautious5658 6 жыл бұрын
yes! loneliness sinks in the ppl of all ages...I know of ppl in their 20s, 30s, 40s and 50s who are busy on whats App but do not cultivate friendship with neighbours or family members ...be your best friend and keep a pet...go for volunteer work. ..
@Pisces3139
@Pisces3139 3 жыл бұрын
I’m alone but not lonely.... I enjoy my own company....my books, a good movie, puzzles....etc. No reason to be lonely. Life is good. And I’m 81.
@nubbyrose87
@nubbyrose87 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. I enjoy my pets, plants, movies, occasional shopping, exercise, coffee, other things as well.
@onatarabandrui8375
@onatarabandrui8375 3 жыл бұрын
I agree🥰
@sharmishthach685
@sharmishthach685 3 жыл бұрын
Old age loneliness is something else. Young age loneliness is not the same as old age one . Old people can be happy alone too.. but their body and health issues are a matter of concern and sometimes they loose mobility too. I know cz i work in an old age home .
@alexanderedwards1269
@alexanderedwards1269 3 жыл бұрын
Channel 4 don't find people like you interesting, unfortunately.
@nubbyrose87
@nubbyrose87 3 жыл бұрын
@@sharmishthach685 I’m in my 60s and have some mobility issues. I think the fact that I still have health I make sure I don’t waste a minute failing to enjoy things that can bring me some interest, fun, simple pleasures like coffee, cleaning the house, cooking. But I understand what you’re saying. I think the fact that i have interests - dance, plants, pets, etc. keeps me learning and focused on things besides being alone. Talking to people such as you also helps me feel like i am in touch with others even if its only a virtual visit or conversation.
@TheSenija
@TheSenija 3 жыл бұрын
I think her main struggle is not being alone but being without her husband.
@pamelaanderson8899
@pamelaanderson8899 3 жыл бұрын
I’m exactly like her. I lost my husband that I was married to for 40 years, and I miss him so very much, But! Loneliness can be deadly. When you don’t have someone to talk to, you start thinking that no one cares if you live or die. No more family, and no friends to turn to, because you’ve moved and haven’t made any friends and really, you are afraid to go out and meet people, because your protector is not there. And you don’t trust strangers. You will never truly understand loneliness unless you have been there yourself. And yes, her husband filled all of that, now he isn’t there, and loneliness sets in. It’s all one package!
@TheSenija
@TheSenija 3 жыл бұрын
@@pamelaanderson8899 I am So sorry you've lost your husband. Actually your comment helped me see the bigger picture, thank you. I've been married for only two years now and I cannot imagine my life without my husband. Your comment really made me think about what would I do if I was to loose him. Its not something you think about when you are in your 30s. You are So right about calling it the whole package. I guess when you loose your soul mate you loose a piece of your soul as well..
@paulathomson3534
@paulathomson3534 3 жыл бұрын
I bet her husband made her feel special..loved and cared for..they could talk about so many good memories together..and without him..all that is gone..my grandparents were very lucky..never ever left alone..heart breaks every day for people alone 💔 good idea maybe to live in a complex with other people in the same boat..xx
@sueb6662
@sueb6662 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree they were together all the time they went shopping together hard breakfast lunch and dinner together to being alone all day it must be hard for her poor dear.
@johnearthheart4614
@johnearthheart4614 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, losing someone you love can be devastating.
@laurelbozman6997
@laurelbozman6997 4 жыл бұрын
Better to be alone than with people who really don't care about you.
@unitedstatesirie7431
@unitedstatesirie7431 3 жыл бұрын
The HOLY BIBLE says we will suffer on this earth. The LORD GOD JESUS suffered and so will we.
@jimmyfortmoller4293
@jimmyfortmoller4293 3 жыл бұрын
If you care about your children, they will always care about you
@user-sn3ek4vj2j
@user-sn3ek4vj2j 3 жыл бұрын
@@unitedstatesirie7431 when ya make the DVD to what ya said let me know! And did ya ever stop to think some people dont have the funds to keep their business going? Smh.
@user-sn3ek4vj2j
@user-sn3ek4vj2j 3 жыл бұрын
@@jimmyfortmoller4293 that's so far from the truth!! Some adults just dont want to deal with their parents when they are elderly. Its pathetic.
@jimmyfortmoller4293
@jimmyfortmoller4293 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-sn3ek4vj2j depends of how they have been educated. Making kids is easy, educating them is another thing.
@In_time
@In_time 5 жыл бұрын
There is no age requirement for this feeling😞
@triplesixgoblin5246
@triplesixgoblin5246 5 жыл бұрын
in time true that, man
@imperfectcortez7749
@imperfectcortez7749 5 жыл бұрын
I feel alone from birth till now 😏
@shawtatl
@shawtatl 5 жыл бұрын
This, my dear is the truth
@leatherface1136
@leatherface1136 5 жыл бұрын
Well, they’re closer to death than we are. So the feeling of loneliness only increases by the moment...
@mylifeinsweden575
@mylifeinsweden575 4 жыл бұрын
true
@Livetoeat171
@Livetoeat171 3 жыл бұрын
There are many many more people than we think that are actually alone and don’t speak to anybody for long periods of time.
@chanelgez2146
@chanelgez2146 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@birdlover6842
@birdlover6842 3 жыл бұрын
Most people love to be alone. It is uncommon for people to like to be with people hence extroverted. I am unfortunately one of the extroverts and all alone. I am suffering. I would be overjoyed if introverted, but not by the virus, etc. Sorry I have intellectual disability so issues expressing self and writing.
@lnlself1117
@lnlself1117 3 жыл бұрын
@Amy Woehler WHY😂😂😂😂😂😋
@lise-annedore8935
@lise-annedore8935 3 жыл бұрын
@@birdlover6842 Many people, like you are lonely. It can be a sad, long day. I pray that you get relief from your loneliness. I find if I start make phone calls to people, I receive more calls back, usually. I'm grateful to know that I am loved and treasured by a great loving God. All can turn against me but I'll be ok if he is with me in my heart. You are not forgotten.
@danitagoins4574
@danitagoins4574 3 жыл бұрын
You’re right, and it’s incredibly sad. I am utterly alone about 98% of the time..even before the pandemic. That has made it worse than normal. It’s very strange to think that I used to always have a houseful of people and many, many friends.......but a serious illness, loss of home to fire, and a few other things, and life as I knew it was gone.....if I had a magic wand I would wave it. I thought about trying to start a friendship club in my town....just not sure if anyone would be interested. You know, just someone to play games with, talk to, walk with, dinner.....or even just sit and talk. Shoot, I would be happy just to have someone to buy groceries with! Prayers for all of the other lonely folks of all ages. I am 57.
@kathleenquinn6053
@kathleenquinn6053 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 70, I've lived alone for years. There are days where I am lonely but most times I am fine. Prefer living alone then with someone who just makes you miserable
@norrylorry9249
@norrylorry9249 2 жыл бұрын
I won’t make you miserable mom, oh sorry! Can you be there for me?
@mantazrahaman9935
@mantazrahaman9935 2 жыл бұрын
I miss my grand parents.. They died when my elder brother. Was 1 yrs old
@MombasaKENYAAfrica
@MombasaKENYAAfrica 2 жыл бұрын
@Kathleen Quinn Hello,hope this finds you well..Am Vin and would like us to be friends and on your free times we call video call we talk out our problems hence becoming friends ... Thank you and be blessed
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hi, Kathleen! How are you doing? I hope you are fine and staying safe. Sometimes we all need time to feel lonely and you get to neutralize it as time goes on. Where are you from? Hope you don't mind me asking.
@UN1VERS3S
@UN1VERS3S Жыл бұрын
I have an 82 year old grandma. I know she suffers from isolation and loneliness, but she doesn't want to accept it, and everytime she always say she's happy and fine but everynight, we can hear her cries in her room. She also has a little bit of narcissism. How can I help her?
@Mrs.TJTaylor
@Mrs.TJTaylor 4 жыл бұрын
I’m old and widowed, disabled, alone and loving it. (I do miss my husband.) At my age I’ve learned that people pretty much suck, myself included. :) I read a lot and do a bit of gardening. I sew. I have a sweet dog. Life is good.
@rachelwilliams3108
@rachelwilliams3108 4 жыл бұрын
Lol! Yep, people pretty much suck!!! Its tough to find someone who has a sense of humor. My husband had me rolling on the floor at times. He passed away and I am dismayed at the lack of laughter I've encountered in people.
@Mrs.TJTaylor
@Mrs.TJTaylor 4 жыл бұрын
Rachel Williams Mine too! Funniest guy I’ve ever known, just the way he looked at life and himself. I smile when i think of him. And sometimes I burst out laughing remembering things he said or did. You and i were so lucky!
@garyroger7291
@garyroger7291 3 жыл бұрын
@@rachelwilliams3108 but can any one fill that space that has been left by your husband
@garyroger7291
@garyroger7291 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mrs.TJTaylor do you still have hope of finding true love maybe theres some one that can be the one you need
@margalitvanbergen6620
@margalitvanbergen6620 3 жыл бұрын
I love a good conversation, but most people talk such rubbish. Hello - byyye 💨💨 🔰🔰👓👞👢🌳🌳🌳🌻🌞🌹
@nab.7250
@nab.7250 4 жыл бұрын
The fact that a clock is ticking in the background is terrifying.
@yasseromar2592
@yasseromar2592 4 жыл бұрын
There is an old poetry says " One's heart beats,always a reminder to him that life is minutes and seconds .
@Whatbitcoindidofficial
@Whatbitcoindidofficial 4 жыл бұрын
yes, it is terrifying but also a comfort, we know it doesn't last forever.
@Name-ps9fx
@Name-ps9fx 4 жыл бұрын
When I was young, I stayed with my grandparents. They had a loud clock, similar to the one in the video. They would sit quietly tick, tock...tick, tock...it bothered me, but if I said anything they’d tell me to go outside and play, or else be quiet.
@TheMrfoxguy
@TheMrfoxguy 4 жыл бұрын
@@Name-ps9fx sounds like your grandparents didnt like you.
@Leo29568
@Leo29568 4 жыл бұрын
@@TheMrfoxguy Sounds like they were too old to play or engage with their grandchildren. My parents were both under 52 when they became grandparents and they were always doing something with their grandchildren or driving them around to different places and having fun with them. Their last grandchild was born when they were in their late 60s and they were still very active grandparents. I guess it also depends on individual grandparents.
@debbierabe1756
@debbierabe1756 3 жыл бұрын
I dont mind living alone. Once in a while , a family member or old friend stops by or call . What I do miss is hugging. A real sqeezy hug, we all need them.
@lilywhite1481
@lilywhite1481 3 жыл бұрын
That is true! I haven't had a hug in 6 months. I miss a normal hug too.
@jahvairclark1650
@jahvairclark1650 3 жыл бұрын
@@lilywhite1481 here, hugs 🤗 kisses 😘 😘
@JahannamHellfire
@JahannamHellfire 3 жыл бұрын
I'll be your friend
@jahvairclark1650
@jahvairclark1650 3 жыл бұрын
@@JahannamHellfire ok then can we talk on WhatsApp??
@sherrys.2259
@sherrys.2259 3 жыл бұрын
If you move to Ojai, there is a guy that stands at the Farmer's Market offering free hugs. People go once a week for a hug.
@lilianaarbelaez3586
@lilianaarbelaez3586 3 жыл бұрын
And with Covid I am sure that seniors are feeling lonelier than ever :(
@birdlover6842
@birdlover6842 3 жыл бұрын
I sure am affected. I have smothering anxiety and sadness.
@rondarawson6236
@rondarawson6236 3 жыл бұрын
Yes this is very sad
@amorypeace
@amorypeace 3 жыл бұрын
😔😢
@Yours_Truly_Rima
@Yours_Truly_Rima 3 жыл бұрын
@@birdlover6842 Oh my dear, please don't be sad, my heart becomes heavy when others hurt. I just want you to know that somewhere someone is probably thinking of you, someone that you have impacted in some way, shape, or form, and you don't even know it! Our mature population is often so gratuitously scrutinized, it's not fair! I just want you to know that I love you and I am sending my love and prayers your way. Please smile, although you might be by yourself there are angels with you. And who knows, quarantine might be over sooner than you think and we can finally engage in proper human interaction. Don't lose hope in human nature, just yet. God bless, my love. - A sixteen year old girl
@gerryjohnson294
@gerryjohnson294 3 жыл бұрын
In retirement homes, they are locked in and I am locked out.
@christophertacitus9011
@christophertacitus9011 8 жыл бұрын
It's not just old people. I'm middle-aged and know no one at all, often go weeks without speaking to anyone except store clerks and bus drivers.
@chipsandkebabs
@chipsandkebabs 8 жыл бұрын
+Christopher Tacitus I wish you all the best
@susan196three
@susan196three 8 жыл бұрын
+Christopher Tacitus
@geniemeadows5122
@geniemeadows5122 8 жыл бұрын
+Christopher Tacitus ...its good you have the net, imagine those who have only the radio and tv that would drive me nuts and perhaps being infirm or obese cannot go out either. I am lost rather now too as my kids have left home, it's not too nice, can be crippling and we only get like 5 months of decent weather if we are blessed so it's a long horrible freezing lonely year each year. Still, we are the final generation now to Jesus return so I try to think of that all the time.
@geniemeadows5122
@geniemeadows5122 8 жыл бұрын
+songster117 ...it's hard to join clubs if you aren't the mingling type and have no money to go places, also clubs are limited and clicky groups can be vile. Also some oldies who couldn't walk so well could have a problem. It is much easier said than done.
@nikhilsukumar23
@nikhilsukumar23 7 жыл бұрын
True no one talks about middle aged or younger people who are also alone. In cities people are lonely too. People have to have friends nearby that's the sensible way but it's hard to find friends these days where everyone is young and busy.
@helenboula7488
@helenboula7488 5 жыл бұрын
Im 73 and i have the most wonderful daughter on the face of this Earth. She will never let me go into a nursing home period the end. I thank god for het everyday. I must have done right when raising her. She loves me and im do blessed
@goatamongsheep4296
@goatamongsheep4296 5 жыл бұрын
Right on !! you were a great parent.
@BlueSky-cb5wx
@BlueSky-cb5wx 5 жыл бұрын
@@goatamongsheep4296 It is not only how you raise your kids. Some parents did excellent raising their kids and their kids love them very much, unfortunately, they also have to work to raise their own families, and is not possible for them to take care of their parents 24/7, especially if they have especial needs.
@Amateur_Pianist_472
@Amateur_Pianist_472 5 жыл бұрын
Helen Boula I’m guessing you don’t need constant care. If she works and you become paraplegic then the story will be different.
@koriribarsosio4174
@koriribarsosio4174 5 жыл бұрын
This is wonderful to hear
@rebeccafrost5542
@rebeccafrost5542 5 жыл бұрын
#35 👍. I'm nearly 60. My older sister and her husband informed me they instructed their two children to put them in a home. I like their attitude. My time is up. I don't need to tie others down. Leave me to professionals. Nevertheless, I salute ur daughter's position!
@helened6896
@helened6896 Ай бұрын
I'm Helene, who posted here 3 yesrs ago. I'm almost 74 years now. I'm just as active and so thankful for all of the beauty and blessings in my life. To Oscar here, who commented to me, thank you kindly. I feel that as people get older, if they can relate well with a mate, and they meet a kind one, it's never too late to remarry. I have a a friend whose dad remarried at 86 years. I think it's wonderful. And also beneficial in the times we live in. I'd like to also see people in their 80's and 90's live in a senior building, if they feel too alone. I moved into a senior property almost 3 years ago. It's secure and we look out for each other and have nice activities. We are well cared for. I believe that is what lonely seniors need. There are senior HUD properties with very low rent. I'm in one. My rent is amazingly low... God bless each dear one who visits here. I pray your latter days will be sweet.🌹
@sharonsparks900
@sharonsparks900 14 күн бұрын
You’re lucky to have found a place like that.
@pepper1188
@pepper1188 3 жыл бұрын
Loneliest I've ever been was married to the wrong person. I.adore being alone now.
@beautyofgray1054
@beautyofgray1054 3 жыл бұрын
i agree!
@singingchef23
@singingchef23 3 жыл бұрын
So you chose wrong and you double down? Why not chose correctly?
@pepper1188
@pepper1188 3 жыл бұрын
@@singingchef23 Apparently a lot of people choose wrong since there are so many second marriages and divorce. Besides it's not about choosing wrong ,we live a long time and people change. My grandparents were married for 50 years and they both had affairs so there's no easy answer
@taniadolphy5122
@taniadolphy5122 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you're happy 😊.
@kathykennedy7277
@kathykennedy7277 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree!!
@adidip
@adidip 8 жыл бұрын
it is not only older people..loneliness has no age.. this made me cry
@barbaracovell
@barbaracovell 6 жыл бұрын
thats so true i get lonley and im justover 60 but been without a man for years
@jackanthony976
@jackanthony976 6 жыл бұрын
But if you are young and half way decent looking and healthy there is always a glimmer of hope that you will meet someone. But when you are old, you will never meet anyone ever again.
@1994g0
@1994g0 5 жыл бұрын
Not true.You can meet other old people.They`re out there.
@jackanthony976
@jackanthony976 5 жыл бұрын
I'm old but why would I want to meet other old people? I'd rather be alone.
@1994g0
@1994g0 5 жыл бұрын
Why?
@richardhudak685
@richardhudak685 5 жыл бұрын
BEING ALONE IS TOUGH BUT BEING OLD ALONE N SICK. IS A NIGHTMARE
@morganamarvel7075
@morganamarvel7075 5 жыл бұрын
The sucker you are the more you are abandoned. It's no coincidence the two happen at once.
@tamradawn1732
@tamradawn1732 5 жыл бұрын
Very true
@alexandramedichi4668
@alexandramedichi4668 4 жыл бұрын
Richard Hudak not necessarily.. lots of centurions have lived past the actuarial age by taking care if themselves.
@jacobsinn7939
@jacobsinn7939 4 жыл бұрын
Richard Hudak OKAY BOOMER
@MariaSantos-nz4sz
@MariaSantos-nz4sz 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree with... Im 55,alone for many years....
@america9704
@america9704 3 жыл бұрын
She's only been alone the last two years- many of us have been lonely our whole lives even surrounded by people.
@michaelbaldwin5495
@michaelbaldwin5495 3 жыл бұрын
I have been a loner most of my lifetime.Alone in old age is entirely different failing health more years behind then in front.😢
@america9704
@america9704 3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelbaldwin5495 yea, doesn't seem right. We have been "robbed"(?) of our legacies. Basically orphans.
@leannesmith5818
@leannesmith5818 3 жыл бұрын
That's a different matter
@america9704
@america9704 3 жыл бұрын
@@leannesmith5818 Not totally- more contextual.🧐
@longwhitemane
@longwhitemane 3 жыл бұрын
But it's not the same thing is it? If you are lonely when you are surrounded by people you can make a choice to reach out to those around you. But these people, including me, have no one around to reach out to. We are forced to be alone unless someone reaches out to us. Let's face it, it isn't popular to reach out to irrelevant old people is it?
@Lifecoachcanada
@Lifecoachcanada 3 жыл бұрын
It’s a society problem. Unacceptable. The older people deserve the BEST. They did everything for us.
@susanlauper1472
@susanlauper1472 3 жыл бұрын
thank you! I believe that we are getting what we deserve and sometimes it is not pleasant!
@mvzv3913
@mvzv3913 3 жыл бұрын
Nope they pushed their own children away, that’s their choice
@esmeraldar9981
@esmeraldar9981 3 жыл бұрын
we would not be who we are if it wasn't for them im scared of this
@magicslave3066
@magicslave3066 3 жыл бұрын
and we are all going to be there one day!
@lilywhite1481
@lilywhite1481 3 жыл бұрын
@@kaiserchief9319 It is not always 'you reap what you sow'. I have always been good to people and raised my children with much love and attention. However, now they never have time for me and I hardly ever see them. Only once per year or so.
@bodhitsal7638
@bodhitsal7638 5 жыл бұрын
It's so painful to see her crying from within.
@dragonnaturallyspeakingsup8959
@dragonnaturallyspeakingsup8959 4 жыл бұрын
really...
@anthonypoole6417
@anthonypoole6417 3 жыл бұрын
It is. Its a good thing to have empathy for others.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hello, there! How are you doing? Yes, Elderly people have so much to share with us and that is why we also need to show them the love and care they need in their life. Where are you from? I hope you don't mind me asking. I love cats and dogs. Do you like pets around when you are lonely?
@bodhitsal7638
@bodhitsal7638 Жыл бұрын
@@prestonsmith9824 hello.. I'm from India. I'm good. how are you doing? And yes I love pet animals.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
@@bodhitsal7638 Okay, that's good, where in India are you from?
@gjalameda6686
@gjalameda6686 5 жыл бұрын
Breaks my heart. I too live alone. I'm in my sixties and have no one, it's very hard. My faith in Christ and my little dog help.
@skyelovesjesus0144
@skyelovesjesus0144 5 жыл бұрын
GJ Alameda with your Faith in Jesus and the relationship between you and him. You are never ever alone. He loves you more then you could possibly imagine. Praying for you that the love of our beautiful God saturates you and fills you up. Not one second goes by without him knowing exactly where you are and how you are feeling. He will never leave you nor forsake you, which means you are never alone. GOD BLESS YOU =)
@Shofargirl1
@Shofargirl1 5 жыл бұрын
My Faith in Christ is everything. My JOY, Peace, not lonely at all. THE LORD JESUS is everything.
@nca1668
@nca1668 5 жыл бұрын
There are many of us GJ. You are not alone!! 💕💕💕
@Linda-vx4fn
@Linda-vx4fn 5 жыл бұрын
Me too. I'm 69 and live alone and can go days without seeing anyone. But although I occasionally long for company, I never feel truly alone, because the Lord Jesus is my best Friend and constant companion. He also reminds me of things out of the blue that I had completely forgotten: the other day it was: "Check the oil in your car." I dismissed it at first because I felt sure there was enough. But it kept coming to me, so I did, sure enough it was very low! I topped it up before I set out. Sometimes its; "Pay your power bill." I would think, "Oh? I thought I had!" So I'd check and sure enough I hadn't. Its the little things that Jesus does for me that lets me know He cares - and there are a great many of them - and some big things too! Like he healed me of cancer in 1992 and surgery was cancelled. Id prayed for myself and went back tot he specialist and the result was I did not need surgery. He is a wonderful friend.
@bthehuman6240
@bthehuman6240 5 жыл бұрын
Start a blog. Go to a strip club. Do Zumba. Learn a new language. Fucking bake. Write a children's book. You can do a bunch of things alone
@TheGirlnurse
@TheGirlnurse 3 жыл бұрын
I’m old & enjoy being alone. When you have the Lord you’re never really alone.
@lisaellis2593
@lisaellis2593 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@AndySaenz
@AndySaenz 3 жыл бұрын
After a lifetime of dealing with people and all their nonsense, sometimes you need some alone time.
@Donkeyriderwhitehorsefighter
@Donkeyriderwhitehorsefighter 3 жыл бұрын
SO TRUE!!!! Amen. Ask God to come into your life your home, you’ll be amazed with the things he will reveal to you!!! Start with a simple prayer ... Our Father.. then pick up the Bible and read the Word of The Most High and his promises. Have faith and BELIVE . God bless!
@jahvairclark1650
@jahvairclark1650 3 жыл бұрын
@@lisaellis2593 amen 🙏🏽
@jahvairclark1650
@jahvairclark1650 3 жыл бұрын
Still find you someone to live with ?
@billfarley9167
@billfarley9167 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 87, wife passed 10 years ago and I live alone. My children all grown up and visit occasionally, my grandchildren at the same time. Those are great moments, icing on the cake! To me, loneliness is a state of mind that can be neutralized by enjoying your own company, creating a circle of like friends for getting together once in awhile, joining an organization that you enjoy, keeping healthy both physically and mentally, getting a good night sleep and eating healthy. The group of men I associate with volunteer in the community to make items like bird houses, outdoor furniture, benches, serve meals at a local public school, do projects for non-profit organizations and service clubs, etc. They buy the materials, we manufacture and assemble/paint/stain/whatever. We enjoy giving back to the community because it benefits the community. This gives us a sense of worth and allows comradeship among our friends. The key is to not stay at home gradually deteriorating both physically and mentally. As individuals it's our personal responsibility to get off our butts and become involved. Sitting at home pining away is not helpful.
@code-52
@code-52 Жыл бұрын
Well said....if one actually enjoys other people and is lonely.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Well said. We do all things through Christ who strengthens us. I hope you are fine and doing great. Just a brethren who support the elderly and create ways to make them feel okay all time. Do you have any elderly who need help and support?
@tequilaloversufi3363
@tequilaloversufi3363 Жыл бұрын
I’m single
@dorothy1
@dorothy1 5 жыл бұрын
Loneliness is a plague. It happens to all age groups. It happens to those who just don't deserve it. Loss from death, betrayal from those you thought you could trust. I'm middle aged and alone because I stood up to abusers. We just have to carry on.
@debrarowley4447
@debrarowley4447 5 жыл бұрын
Dorothy: Enjoy your life and if that means enjoying it alone, then so be it. Do not be afraid to be alone. It can be a wonderful state. Frankly, people are selfish and cruel and being alone helps you avoid a bunch of crappy people who only care about themselves. Carry on and be happy being alone. It is not unusual to be alone and many people are and they find happiness just as much as those who are around people all the time - which would drive me crazy. Also, and this is a fact, but most people don't give a damn about you or anybody but themselves. So, rejoice - read what you want, think what you want, walk where you want and live a good, healthy life, alone.
@nemo7782
@nemo7782 5 жыл бұрын
It's not a plague, it is a choice. A plague conveys that it comes unbidden. It doesn't manifest that way in all cases.
@itsme-ih2cx
@itsme-ih2cx 5 жыл бұрын
@@nemo7782 WORD!!
@phabebarcelona863
@phabebarcelona863 5 жыл бұрын
101 per cent
@judygwen3977
@judygwen3977 5 жыл бұрын
@@nemo7782 It is certainly not a choice, at least not in my case. Betrayal by loved ones, the death of friends and relatives. Helplessness due to illness or injury. And when you get old you find out there are very few left who care, if any.
@cloakofanonymity
@cloakofanonymity 4 жыл бұрын
Not just the old. Many an abused child out there. Since the age of 6, I too know what it's like to be alone.When a mother or father fail you as a child, you will always know the feeling of loneliness.
@ednaperhach2769
@ednaperhach2769 4 жыл бұрын
I grew up the same way honey , I'm sending you a hug , 💕 can you fill me .😘💕✌️
@museumtoezichter
@museumtoezichter 4 жыл бұрын
Same for me:raised by mother alone but recieved double love of her 🙏🏻but one of the parents missing scars a child forever
@alexandramedichi4668
@alexandramedichi4668 4 жыл бұрын
Tropic-Al yes.. I wonder how a lot of us survived as small children.. many parents were not present either in the father or mother role.. and s a lot of us had to raise ourselves.. besides many being cruel.. abusive and mean.
@snakechrmr6398
@snakechrmr6398 4 жыл бұрын
You only always feel loneliness if you love to play the victim. I was abused as a youth, raised by a divorced mother that had very little coping, people or maternal skills. And this was in a time that child abuse and parental alienation weren't talked about. Probably some of the wrong things I did as a teenager were lashing out at the bad hand life dealt me. But by the time your in your mid to late 20s it's time to quit playing the victim and start playing the survivor.
@megcurtis4361
@megcurtis4361 4 жыл бұрын
@@snakechrmr6398 Well done I say.
@glenisvaillancourt3295
@glenisvaillancourt3295 3 ай бұрын
I’m 74 and have been beyond busy all my life- as a single parent I worked full time to support us . Now I live in a small apartment with 43 birds ! They are the best company ! I’m also agoraphobic! I love my life !
@AC-hi4ni
@AC-hi4ni 3 жыл бұрын
It actually feels like a curse sometimes. I'm 65, living alone since 62 and I can tell you it feels like I'm the only person on the planet sometimes. No words to describe how debilitating....crippling, loneliness can be.
@Dan-di9jd
@Dan-di9jd Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that but I've been feeling that way my entire life and I'm only nearly 40. It sounds like you've been in a relationship of sort, so at least you have that to go on but for me, and perhaps some of us, we never found someone and instead have to live life in isolation from everyone else despite the fact we try to find someone but can't.
@sharongrama5200
@sharongrama5200 Жыл бұрын
I'm 65 myself and just lost my husband 2 years ago. I live up in the mountains in the woods and somedays it does get really lonely. I have my dog and 2 cats. I watch a lot of tv to keep my mind occupied so I don't think so much about being lonely. I've joined widows groups on Facebook to talk to people who know what I'm going thru.
@markheneghan3804
@markheneghan3804 Жыл бұрын
When we live alone, is an invitation to Our Lord. “ I will never leave you orphans”.
@lindapowell2397
@lindapowell2397 10 ай бұрын
I understand exactly what you're saying. 😢
@cgreen777
@cgreen777 10 ай бұрын
But society lies to young women. Telling them how wonderful life will be old and childlesss.
@brudyboy58
@brudyboy58 4 жыл бұрын
I love being alone. After living in a toxic relationship for many years, living alone has been a wonderful blessing. I would never consider having another relationship. I can do what I want to do when ever I want to do it. I can pursue the things that I truly enjoy. I can go so far as to say that getting married was the single worst mistake of my life.
@shellanon4212
@shellanon4212 4 жыл бұрын
Oh Honey, don,t let him do that. He stunted your life. U r missing so much. Go see a psych..
@msr1116
@msr1116 3 жыл бұрын
I went through the same experience and eventually realized that being partnered up is too confining for me. It's far too much work and I tend to attract possessive types who become emotionally suffocating. I'm happy to go it alone, without someone constantly breathing down my neck. When I need some contact with people I'll grocery shop, stop in at Dollar Tree, chat with neighbors or go online.
@msr1116
@msr1116 3 жыл бұрын
@@shellanon4212 .....my ex brother in law's first wife found a bf not three years into the marriage. She divorced and remarried immediately and left behind a stunned and reeling ex husband, along with his family of origin. He did seek therapy to discover why his ex did this to him. My advice would have been to just ask her, since only she could explain her motives, and she may very well have. But this entire toxic family of his only sees and hears what they choose to. Much later, her reasons for dumping him became crystal clear to me but I kept them to myself.
@sianmegginson8110
@sianmegginson8110 3 жыл бұрын
Your so right.
@stn7172
@stn7172 3 жыл бұрын
@@msr1116 So why did she dump him?
@oc4515
@oc4515 5 жыл бұрын
This brought me to tears. Bless their hearts. I’m very fortunate to be so introverted and very content with my own company. I prefer to be alone most of the time. I can’t imagine their pain. I just want to hold that ladies hand and tell her it will be alright.
@phabebarcelona863
@phabebarcelona863 5 жыл бұрын
Perhaps there should be more TLC or better funding for the isolated elderly or youngens for that matter. Whereby a services like the befriender could call in at least once day to say hi or good morning how are you. Loniness is painful alone is much different As Alone is more of a choice whereby loneliness happens if you get drift. Imagine those who are house bound or bed ridden. Perhaps family members if un able to visit could call in daily just a puick one, Hi Mum dad auntie uncle or grandma.grandpa U.ok? "Just saying hello loveU bye Idk" something like that. Perhaps could ease some.of the pain, that loneliness brings. Id to.think that perhaps Ive cheered some.one up When I go shopping I often say hello :)to people idk. Many of which are elderly Nd they are quite chatty back to me, who knows maybe there the ones who live alone):
@diamondstar1200
@diamondstar1200 5 жыл бұрын
But it won't be.
@gloriamaryhaywood2217
@gloriamaryhaywood2217 5 жыл бұрын
If people can't take time out of their precious day to check up on their own living-alone parent or grandparent then It just doesn't get any frigging Sadder than That! I wish I lived near these lovely old people. It would be an honor to visit with them and hear all about their lives. What excellent company and great stories to be heard. It's crushing to witness the sadness and longing in their voices. We have turned into a very self-absorbed and cold world. Too busy posting on social media and the like to give a Damn about anybody else. Very SAD indeed!!!
@sheilaorangd1967
@sheilaorangd1967 5 жыл бұрын
I work very hard and I put took care of three children by myself I had no time to myself I had a friend and I was married at one time my husband died and then I had a friend I had supposed to marry him but it didn't work out because I just about pick the same man that I married and had three children from him and I didn't want to get into that situation again so I work work work until my children will finish with college I worked a few years after that and I really didn't need anybody that was worth spending my time with our time is so precious and I'm a very giving person giving of my time of my kindness of conversation and sometimes you can find people that they are not deserving of a kind person so it's better just to cut them loose and do by yourself be by yourself and love yourself and that's what I do am I lonely no am I alone never because I have God his son Jesus and I'm never alone someone is always calling me I don't know if as I get older well I have that much company I don't have a lot of company in my house because I don't cook like I used to so I'm very happy because I have people around me as a child I had people around me as a teenager I helped my mother raised her to not raise our children but take care of her children and I never had a life of my own because I was always doing so now I appreciate the Meltdown I appreciate my time alone I appreciate I can go to my bathroom whenever I want to I appreciate no one wearing my clothes so these are all the things that I appreciate and I am not lonely I live alone but I am not lonely
@sheilaorangd1967
@sheilaorangd1967 5 жыл бұрын
One thing that I want to tell everyone is that you have to thank God if you believe in a god that he has given you whoever you were with for the time that you were with them and think of the happy times think of the times that you laugh your smile how you might have loved him or her and that's how I get along sometime to I try not to think about the bad times and I just thank God that he gave me the strength to get through the bad times and that I can tell others or younger people yes we did at bad times everything wasn't good all the time but we live through it it wasn't easy all the time but we lived through it
@AJKRSINGH1950
@AJKRSINGH1950 3 жыл бұрын
Loneliness starts creeping in the day you realize your friends are not around. Your relatives have abandoned you. Now you are on your own . Its sad but it happens to the best of us
@elviravina9589
@elviravina9589 3 жыл бұрын
Living alone isnt my choice but a destiny. I"m scared that the time will come then i realize that i am old and all by my self.
@Beily268
@Beily268 3 жыл бұрын
Agree .. its a sad filling
@JJ-iq8mi
@JJ-iq8mi 3 жыл бұрын
I work with old people. People who've been widowed, outlived their children or whose children have emigrated. Marriage and kids doesn't mean you won't end up alone.
@daisycocoa2557
@daisycocoa2557 3 жыл бұрын
If u don’t want that take steps now to change your path
@robertziegler7168
@robertziegler7168 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Elvira greetings from 🇺🇸 am robert chatting from Baltimore Maryland I could be a friend trust me I mean no harm
@mantazrahaman9935
@mantazrahaman9935 2 жыл бұрын
I miss my grand parents.. I'm always praying for them may Allah grant jannah
@irenaresman5138
@irenaresman5138 4 жыл бұрын
I am old and alone and I enjoy it. For now. Time for conversation with my soul.
@saranagh7097
@saranagh7097 4 жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@joseesteban9285
@joseesteban9285 3 жыл бұрын
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@joseesteban9285
@joseesteban9285 3 жыл бұрын
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@edwardmarsh4127
@edwardmarsh4127 3 жыл бұрын
Hello
@Isadorka1
@Isadorka1 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. The best time - your thoughts can go in any direction :) and they do. You can do whatever, whenever, wherever.
@rockalliance8815
@rockalliance8815 5 жыл бұрын
I miss my parents. Tears flowing tonight.. take care out there.
@resnonverba137
@resnonverba137 4 жыл бұрын
Rock.. - So do I.
@lalolion4470
@lalolion4470 4 жыл бұрын
I miss my parents together...tears
@autumxxleaves4186
@autumxxleaves4186 4 жыл бұрын
Have things improved??
@bluespruce679
@bluespruce679 4 жыл бұрын
Rock Alliance.... I understand. I'm very sad and miss my parents also... especially my dearest best friend in the whole world....my sweet mother. We were very close, and in her final years, I became her caregiver. So, I was present when she left this world. Life is hard, then gets super tough. I would have probably taken my life by now if it wasn't for Jesus Christ. Praise God He saved my soul in 1990....and I've never looked back. It's why I'm still here, after losing my wonderful mother. He is my hope, my life, and my strength....and He is my reason for living....my life is different now....losing my mother knocked me off my life's orbit, and slung me way out into unknown territories. But, I'm still here.... because of Jesus. And, yes, I miss both of my parents so much... especially my mother. I understand where you are at. God's love to you and Shalom. 💖🕊️💖
@aledjones5083
@aledjones5083 3 жыл бұрын
LALO LION Me to mum went 14 years ago and Dad last year I spent all my life with them and work at home on the farm and now on my own I walk around the farm without them like a lost lamb I am never unhappy and the memories are always good ones but the loneliness is the true killer and the uncertainty of the future which make things hard and the locals think you are fine but they have no idea what it is like but I go out to work 7 days a week just for the company ❤️
@sheilahammond3140
@sheilahammond3140 3 жыл бұрын
I know that a pet cannot replace the warmth and comfort of a human, but it helps a lot. Having a cat waiting at home is a great comfort, and once a bond has been formed with a furry creature with awareness, they become like family. Even a little bird can fill that lonely gap, if you allow it to. Animals do need some care and attention, and for some elderly people they may find that bit too much to cope with, but if they are able, especially if there's someone willing to help if needed, it can be such a blessing.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hello, Sheila! How are you doing? Yes, pets can't replace humans for sure. What is the name of your cat? I love cats and dogs too.
@extemporaneous4545
@extemporaneous4545 Ай бұрын
I hope you have a backup plan for your pet if something should happen to you, and someone to check in on you daily so that your pet doesn't starve to death if you should die.
@user-en8wd7bw4l
@user-en8wd7bw4l 12 күн бұрын
Oh I don't know. I love my 2 dogs more than any other human save one....my son.
@RepentAndBelieve1437
@RepentAndBelieve1437 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously my heart breaks for everyone feeling so alone😔
@joeburkett8861
@joeburkett8861 3 жыл бұрын
You don't have to feel that way there,let's get to know each other !
@ilikebutteredtoast2677
@ilikebutteredtoast2677 8 жыл бұрын
After watching this I applied to volunteer at LBFE. Instead of saying how sad this is, get up and do something about it. I found it sad, and instead of feeling sorry, I decided to volunteer to help these people.
@marylinelai8073
@marylinelai8073 6 жыл бұрын
I Like ButteredToast I do that too in my country !
@myfrugalraggylife7104
@myfrugalraggylife7104 5 жыл бұрын
Well I don't know what country you live in, but I tried to volunteer to visit older people, but the hoops that you have to jump through just put people off - so many checks, references, etc. etc., I realise that in these days (sadly) great care has to be taken with this sort of thing, but it has just gone over and above, and people just won't volunteer anymore because it is a deep invasion of their own privacy, you are made to feel like a criminal, when in fact you just want to help. I, and others I know, just gave up.
@ThePattibeth
@ThePattibeth 5 жыл бұрын
That's a good idea
@janefriel6895
@janefriel6895 5 жыл бұрын
Does this organisation exist in N Ireland.?Thank you in advance.
@lindaleelaw5277
@lindaleelaw5277 5 жыл бұрын
I eat out, cheap at family restaurants. They treat me like family. but sad. all over. This not a quality of life
@helened6896
@helened6896 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 70 years, living alone by choice and loving it. But I'm very young for my age and very healthy. I know how blessed I am. But I also feel for the elderly who are sad and lonely and have no one to care for them. I'm very active and that makes a huge difference. I'm real involved in emailing, texting, talking on the phone, and projects around the home. I've also been called to Christian service and am still very active with others, teaching and counseling and giving. My mom passed away this year, who was living with me for the past 3.5 years. Although I had lived alone for 24 years prior to that. My mom would have been 99 years this Oct 2020. She was very mobile and mentally alert. She took care of all of her own needs with the exception of cooking and laundry. We have great genes and my siblings are all over 70 years. We're all very active and healthy. I do thank God for good health and an alert mind. When we have so much, we need to give thanks every day.
@oscarwilliamson1264
@oscarwilliamson1264 3 жыл бұрын
Helene D,you deserve a better man 😍😍😊😊🙏🙏🤙
@MargueriteFairProductions
@MargueriteFairProductions 3 жыл бұрын
I'm with you. I made a choice about my life after my second divorce. I live alone, I'm healthy, I take supplements, probiotics, healthy foods and exercise. I find people who share my interests which is filmaking and webshows, and I've never looked back. Too many people think you can only be happy with other people constantly around. Not me! I like my own company, have a great relationship with creator and I'm good! You can't sit around feeling sorry for youself and not taking care of your health! On my 71st birthday I was on set with my cast and crew having a lunch celebration for my birthday! Now, that's the way to age. I'm 72 now, and I do not take one medication!!!!
@ughh3822
@ughh3822 3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful lady
@nakclahan6445
@nakclahan6445 3 жыл бұрын
Health is our 1 happiness in life be thankful if we are healthy
@blueforest2927
@blueforest2927 3 жыл бұрын
You are wealthy with that as it is...you sound fulfilled..stay happy and content just as you are ! !
@ellnine66
@ellnine66 3 жыл бұрын
When I'm alone, Im never lonely. The only time I've ever felt lonley is in a relationship, when I needed them emotionally and they weren't there. Ive since gotten over that, but learning that really made me look at what I invest my emotions in.
@Yours_Truly_Rima
@Yours_Truly_Rima 3 жыл бұрын
felt
@ellnine66
@ellnine66 3 жыл бұрын
@@Yours_Truly_Rima ? Yes, felt. I dont feel lonely in relationships anymore, and I'm married now. I make no one my entire world because if they leave or die, they will take my entire world with them.
@chloereed2434
@chloereed2434 3 жыл бұрын
This is why I'm single you explained it perfectly
@nurse580
@nurse580 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. Everyone is different and I don’t think some of us understand what it’s like to have a lifelong happy relationship to lose it. I don’t as I’ve never had a good relationship. Saying that obviously these people are doing nothing but sitting and waiting for something or someone to fill the void which is their big mistake. They never planned for the fact that one day they might be alone. I think that’s naive and unrealistic
@lynlane2520
@lynlane2520 3 жыл бұрын
Choose a Filipina woman.They are loyal,or i should say the most loyal wives bcoz they hAve conse culture.
@lorenzonotarianni1667
@lorenzonotarianni1667 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know why I felt compelled to watch this. Lived my entire life as a loner, dedicated to study and work and at 54 a single middle aged boring man. I can envisage me sitting there alone sipping tea and reminiscing on what might have been. That was my short sharp n sorry story shared. Say that while drinking beer ! Greetings from Italy.
@mariapianapolitanodemajo1285
@mariapianapolitanodemajo1285 3 жыл бұрын
Caro Lorenzo, stessa storia a 24 anni.
@rosem5041
@rosem5041 3 жыл бұрын
Well its never too late to marry👍
@robertziegler7168
@robertziegler7168 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Lorenzo greetings from 🇺🇸 am robert chatting from Baltimore Maryland I could be a friend trust me I mean no harm
@alvinoji7058
@alvinoji7058 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Lorenzo im 30 single,,, contact me if u can im in the same situation we can be friends
@Lauren-vd4qe
@Lauren-vd4qe 2 ай бұрын
ask God to send you a friend or a spouse!!
@jeanneschwartz8663
@jeanneschwartz8663 4 жыл бұрын
I am 83, and I have found my faith in Jesus has helped me so much. I keep my mind active studying the Bible and praying. I find word games and puzzles keep my mind active. We cannot give in to it as far as possible.
@rajubaba6961
@rajubaba6961 3 жыл бұрын
Good👍
@terrorgaming459
@terrorgaming459 3 жыл бұрын
Find faith in allah
@laubesonia9191
@laubesonia9191 3 жыл бұрын
@@terrorgaming459simply god...not important the religion....if you write in english just say god...if you speak to a arabic you tube say allah.....sorry for my english....sonia....
@robertziegler7168
@robertziegler7168 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Jeanne greetings from 🇺🇸 am robert chatting from Baltimore Maryland I could be a friend trust me I mean no harm
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hello, Jeanne! How are you doing? Yes, Elderly people have so much to share with us and that is why we also need to show them the love and care they need in their life. Where are you from? I hope you don't mind me asking. I love cats and dogs. Do you like pets around when you are lonely?
@isisemkeb
@isisemkeb 5 жыл бұрын
I have an 87 yrs old friend. Most of her friends are dead. Two of her three children are dead. Her now only daughter has not spoken and visited her in nearly ten years. We go out at least twice a week. We speak on the phone every day. We like spending time together. My mum is no more. She is like a parent figure for me. We complete one another. She needs me, but I need her.
@amorypeace
@amorypeace 5 жыл бұрын
Michelle B I am glad you are helping your friend. God will bless you👌👍
@isisemkeb
@isisemkeb 5 жыл бұрын
@@amorypeace - I am really lucky to have her in my life. She is a mother figure in my life. M'y mum left 11 years ago last week. Still missing her so bad.
@lutwamafrank1882
@lutwamafrank1882 5 жыл бұрын
Michelle B that's not her daughter coz u can't spend all that long time without visiting your only and lonely mom no way
@isisemkeb
@isisemkeb 5 жыл бұрын
@@lutwamafrank1882 - Sadly yes. This is real on 2018. On her case she misses her daughter si much and there is just no way I can replace her. I can only be there. My mum had to be in a specialized center. My dad and I were there everyday to every other day. Out of the 100 persons on that floor she was one of the very few having visitors (less than 5%). Go find out, ask, read. It is unreal. I did not know of this situation. Not everyone is like you and that is unfortunate.
@lutwamafrank1882
@lutwamafrank1882 5 жыл бұрын
Michelle B some our parents wish they had a miscourage coz wat is that thing that can make me forget myself parents esp mom .but thanks for comforting her
@daisyl8572
@daisyl8572 3 жыл бұрын
It's heartbreaking to see how many younger people don't dedicate time to the older generation. I go spend time with my 83 year old mother DAILY. I don't take it for granted. It's my top priority. I bring her food, help with chores, keep her company, make conversation, take her on outings, make sure she's healthy and has everything she needs. I don't understand why everyone can't find the time to care. My heart breaks as I watch this video.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hello, Daisy! How are you doing? Greetings from Preston hope you are fine and staying safe. Where are you from and hope you don't mind me asking.
@starlightdreamer1999
@starlightdreamer1999 6 ай бұрын
Daisy, people could find the time if they really wanted to . They are selfish in my opinion
@johntate5050
@johntate5050 9 ай бұрын
Some of us enjoy being alone. I can't stand most people.
@normamcmanus1139
@normamcmanus1139 6 жыл бұрын
Am 56. Feel like a society reject. God bless all those who feel alone and lonely.
@koriribarsosio4174
@koriribarsosio4174 5 жыл бұрын
💗💗
@supaman7832
@supaman7832 5 жыл бұрын
Norma McManus Blessings 🙏👆
@wheelman1236
@wheelman1236 5 жыл бұрын
I can related. I'm 26 years old and people who I thought was my friends has forgotten me. Big virtual hug for you 💜
@joycemuscat2965
@joycemuscat2965 5 жыл бұрын
God bless you too my friend💛
@bluespruce679
@bluespruce679 4 жыл бұрын
Norma.... You are naturally funny! Made me smile and bare my teeth! You are not a society reject! You still in your 50's? Spring chicken! Oh...and your name...Norma. That's the sweet, precious name of my own beloved mother....she was very, very sweet, kind and a natural clown....she loved to "make 'em laugh!" I think you're the same way...your comment about feeling like a reject made me laugh! You are a lovely gift to all here, and I'm positive God has blessed you with a rich sense of humour! Carry on, my friend. 🌺🕊️🌺
@nickfriend3629
@nickfriend3629 4 жыл бұрын
....An old saying I made up, “I'd rather be alone on a desert island, than be alone in a crowd.“
@meredithbenjamin6694
@meredithbenjamin6694 4 жыл бұрын
Iright iget that. I been in groups where the friends are with others. Your still alone.
@nickfriend3629
@nickfriend3629 4 жыл бұрын
@@meredithbenjamin6694 .....yeah, my friend, it sucks, time to find new friends is what I do. And there's nothing wrong with me btw. Just arrogant self conceited people out there.
@meredithbenjamin6694
@meredithbenjamin6694 4 жыл бұрын
@@nickfriend3629 yes thank you. 🤗🤗🤗
@nickfriend3629
@nickfriend3629 4 жыл бұрын
@@meredithbenjamin6694 🥰
@bearclaus2676
@bearclaus2676 3 жыл бұрын
True words. Thriving and densely populated citys are well known for breeding lonely people.
@nancyjohnson5810
@nancyjohnson5810 3 жыл бұрын
One is Never alone who has opened their hearts door to Jesus. He's my best friend, truly.
@silva2787
@silva2787 3 жыл бұрын
How about god ?
@annethomas2744
@annethomas2744 3 жыл бұрын
Amen to that, Nancy!!
@kafizola5695
@kafizola5695 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@mamaTspeaks
@mamaTspeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@letakeokuk5446
@letakeokuk5446 3 жыл бұрын
Praise God🙏🏾
@deenababie
@deenababie Жыл бұрын
I am 53 and living this way. I miss my spouse and my family. After a catastrophic event ruined my health and career, I now am mainly alone. Coping and even keeping your home tidy or bothering to cook is draining. There is not much assistance for anyone in these circumstances at any age. The changes in the world have added to this issue. As a teen I worked in a donut shop that was open 24/7. Three old widowed men came in twice a day and sat at the counter. They came once mid morning and sat for a couple hours, then they returned later in the evening till they were tired enough to go home to sleep. I loved talking to them about their lives. They were blessed to have a place to even go. Now nothing is open past 8 pm so I sit and think about those little old men from over 30 years ago and ponder over how dammed lucky they were to even have a place to go out to where there was LIFE happening. I sit alone mainly. When my neighbors TV goes off at night across the street, I feel it. There is even a small comfort when they are in their living room with lights on and watching their tellie. When they shut it off, I sit and miss LIFE as I once knew it. I wonder how to cope if this is what remains for the rest of my days. Today I am trying to cook and making a lemon pepper pork loin with carrots and potatoes and I wonder why I even bother. There will be no one to say it was good or even that I over cooked it. Dating sites have proven to be filled with unsavory souls and I am preparing myself mentally to just DEAL. I wish it was different and have 1/18 faith of a mustard seed that it will change. If it never does, I just must cope. Nothing else to do but cope. It’s likely why I looked up info about it today.
@alfredleo5128
@alfredleo5128 Жыл бұрын
👋Hello
@rodneycaupp5962
@rodneycaupp5962 Жыл бұрын
I have 1/18 of a mustard seed for my life to stop getting worse at age 73. I was elated to see and talk to my 93 year old neighbor after months of winter. My dear old Dog has a Mass on her chest. I can't stand it..., LIFE !
@sam-fc9ky
@sam-fc9ky 8 ай бұрын
Youre not alone and boy is that tiny mustard seed Huge
@Lauren-vd4qe
@Lauren-vd4qe 2 ай бұрын
ask GOD to send you a spouse or a room mate
@MH-dm4qc
@MH-dm4qc 3 жыл бұрын
I’m only 22 years old and I’ll go weeks with out speaking
@Ginattan2010
@Ginattan2010 3 жыл бұрын
When your so called friends are seemingly like your enemies. Dumping them and being alone with God is the next best thing. I talk to God all the time. I've never heard him say anything but I'm finding out that God is a God of action, and not words. I guess words are cheap. Everything is good!
@michaelangst6078
@michaelangst6078 3 жыл бұрын
@JCT I made all my money from poker, sports gambling, stock markets and smart real estate buying and selling... I didn't speak to barely anybody outside of my family up until I was 26.
@Isadorka1
@Isadorka1 3 жыл бұрын
I talk to myself all the time. It gets odd when I do get out in public and do it. :)
@ceooflonelinessinc.267
@ceooflonelinessinc.267 3 жыл бұрын
Me too. I am 30. All girls rejected me. SO alone. All day. No friends. Never had a kiss, a hug. I am also uneducated, why have almost no money.
@michaelangst6078
@michaelangst6078 3 жыл бұрын
@@ceooflonelinessinc.267 I'm 34, I am financially successful, have had a few girlfriends, and I. I hate myself everyday for how blind I was in the past with women, and letting them leech off me without ever showing any real love back. Now I hate everybody and everything to the point I am just gambling every day for entertainment.... whether I win or lose thousands everyday, I don't care.. I have 0 desire to even try to get a girlfriend naturally, or even paying for one anymore..I have No desire to ever try and meet any male friends either.. Don't think getting with a woman who is with you because of your resources is going to make you happy in the long run dude
@hlwatts9979
@hlwatts9979 3 жыл бұрын
The older I get the more I realize that loneliness is my future...
@ekr66
@ekr66 3 жыл бұрын
Yep, i understand.
@robertziegler7168
@robertziegler7168 3 жыл бұрын
Hello watts greetings from 🇺🇸 am robert chatting from Baltimore Maryland I could be a friend trust me I mean no harm
@snjvrd
@snjvrd 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, its better to end it all before it gets unbearable....
@snjvrd
@snjvrd 2 жыл бұрын
@aafiq_ badblood you will have to end it all before you reach that stage.....
@jarjeguzman5676
@jarjeguzman5676 2 жыл бұрын
@@snjvrd shut up
@scottbrandon6244
@scottbrandon6244 Жыл бұрын
There is commonalities between the Japanese elderly experience and these Brits. In Japan, after decades of a busy life as salary men or workers and also raising children, the retired are put out to pasture. The loneliness must be terrible for those who were so integrated in Japanese society. I have known many foreigners who would practice their Japanese of seniors since they had the time and patience to talk for hours. In Canada there is a new program where university students live with widows and widowers in their home and interact each day. It helps the student financially with affordable housing and the senior with some discussion over at least one meal per day. It appears to be a success.
@tonistokes1790
@tonistokes1790 3 жыл бұрын
You don’t have to be older to be lonely. There are more people living alone than ever before and we are not meant to live alone. I don’t know how I would get by without KZfaq videos to stay connected with the world. Although there are many days where I go without talking to anyone. I am a 61 year old widow who retired for medical reasons. Family and friends have their own lives, although I have one friend I speak to each week and I am grateful to count her as a friend. We do have to find ways to engage with the elderly to enhance their lives.
@back2the80s
@back2the80s 3 жыл бұрын
I’m in my early 40s and never married. Not by choice. Just nobody seems to want me. It would be nice to have a companion that cares but hasn’t happened yet. Just failed relationships. I have a small family but not close to anyone except my Mom. My siblings we aren’t close either. My aunt that I was close too died recently which caused me a lot of pain and still trying to heal. What little friends I have I’m lucky to get a phone call less than once per week. They act like they don’t care or need me at all most of the time. It’s tiring emotionally and mentally to be alone
@ashleyb719
@ashleyb719 4 жыл бұрын
You know whats worse? Being with someone you can’t stand or having to be a caretaker.
@joseesteban9285
@joseesteban9285 3 жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/osx9qpWiqszPj5s.html
@michellee2990
@michellee2990 3 жыл бұрын
I would rather be completely alone ( though it can be painful ) than to be with someone I'm unhappy with . I agree with your statement.
@arunkhanna2990
@arunkhanna2990 3 жыл бұрын
Or,having an abusive caregiver. People who are just after your money or your possessions.,family included.
@Livetoeat171
@Livetoeat171 3 жыл бұрын
What’s wrong with being a caretaker? Not only are you not by yourself and alone, but you are caring for someone else which actually should make you feel better about yourself.
@BungleZippie
@BungleZippie 3 жыл бұрын
@@Livetoeat171 that sounds a bit like codependency, but I agree with your general view.
@chrismullan7191
@chrismullan7191 8 жыл бұрын
i visit a older neighbour few times a week, we have a good chat and cup of tea, i feel better for my visits, and the lady i visit has a smile by the time i leave.
@ravenhill_the_cryptic_of_1968
@ravenhill_the_cryptic_of_1968 6 жыл бұрын
keep up the good work! many people need it now.
@RealityContradiction
@RealityContradiction 6 жыл бұрын
Chris Mullan Bless you.
@marylinelai8073
@marylinelai8073 6 жыл бұрын
Chris Mullan I did that too at an old lady's home, she was so happy every time i met her, now she's with the Lord, she was alone & poor but she was always so joyful !
@alaitain
@alaitain 5 жыл бұрын
Chris Mullan >> I agree, I do the same thing...
@jessestewart169
@jessestewart169 5 жыл бұрын
Your awesome.👍
@AaronMetallion
@AaronMetallion 3 жыл бұрын
The irony that I'm 27 and relate to this. I've struggled with impermanence in my friendships, never had a lasting relationship, my family lives abroad, no one calls my phone. Being introverted is probably a gift that has kept my loneliness at bay though, and given me a natural adaptive edge to thrive in my own company. A life without hobbies / talents / learning will inevitably feel like the above.
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@FransceneJK98
@FransceneJK98 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been lonely all 33 years of my life so I’m used to it. You find comfort in your own isolation
@robertziegler7168
@robertziegler7168 3 жыл бұрын
greetings from 🇺🇸 am robert chatting from Baltimore Maryland I could be a friend trust me I mean no harm
@lucascoelho1995
@lucascoelho1995 3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@multilangcoder8723
@multilangcoder8723 Жыл бұрын
Lonely means you don't like being alone, what are you even trying to say
@ALLINKNOTS
@ALLINKNOTS 5 жыл бұрын
There’s a big difference between alone and lonely. I’m alone a lot, but I don’t feel lonely- I like it.
@Redstripe921
@Redstripe921 5 жыл бұрын
same with me
@1goldenshell
@1goldenshell 5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@alexandramedichi4668
@alexandramedichi4668 4 жыл бұрын
ALLINKNOTS that's good to hear.. me too..
@nebod1556
@nebod1556 4 жыл бұрын
Me to ...I just mix with people when i work ...the rest mostly alone and enjoy and happy ...
@debraa.155
@debraa.155 4 жыл бұрын
Loneliness is a state of mind. I grew up in a family of 7 and felt alone. Parents worked 7 days per week and there was no happiness just neediness. No love, trust or security. Now I prefer to be alone since I don't trust anyone. Sadly, my family are those I trust the least. I choose not to be a hypocrite any longer.
@icyivy2424
@icyivy2424 4 жыл бұрын
Oh I know that... I ditch half of my family too Good riddance
@purpleviolet207
@purpleviolet207 4 жыл бұрын
My family isn't close and I have friends and neighbors who I like better. Everytime any relative comes to visit they always want to borrow money. 💰
@spimentel562
@spimentel562 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@spimentel562
@spimentel562 3 жыл бұрын
@@purpleviolet207 😅😂😂
@julievaughan310
@julievaughan310 3 жыл бұрын
I am heart broken but they all think it funny
@joankersting2358
@joankersting2358 3 жыл бұрын
I’m never truly alone, God is ALWAYS with me.
@GraceDollesin
@GraceDollesin 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@lolalove4837
@lolalove4837 3 жыл бұрын
Godbless you ❤
@robertziegler7168
@robertziegler7168 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Joan greetings from 🇺🇸 am robert chatting from Baltimore Maryland I could be a friend trust me I mean no harm
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hello, there! How are you doing? greetings from Preston hope you are fine and staying safe. Where are you from l hope you don't mind me asking.
@macmarles3243
@macmarles3243 Жыл бұрын
I gave up on people because nobody wants to speak to me or hang out with me. I just isolate in my apartment now and I'm not even old, though I'm 32 and have physical disabilities and chronic pain and am autistic. Nobody wants to be around me or be my friend. It's lonely, but that's the way it is. Tried to make friends for years. Just doesn't work. It's better to be by yourself. Don't worry about making friends.
@Lauren-vd4qe
@Lauren-vd4qe 2 ай бұрын
go to your local evangelical church and join their groups! theyre very friendly and have LOTS of groups! and outings and social things to do!
@dominickbundy6429
@dominickbundy6429 5 жыл бұрын
I love living alone and being alone too. As long as lave a beloved dog or cat next to me , I’m good to go..I like people but only on my terms. But when I’ve had enough of them. I must retreat back home again to recharge myself. Feeling lonely must be awful. .I’ blessed to have never been that way as I can remember....
@wandajames143
@wandajames143 5 жыл бұрын
Animals are so lovely
@emilybailey4457
@emilybailey4457 5 жыл бұрын
I couldn't be happy at all without my animal companions...God bless them!!!!!!
@sistyugler
@sistyugler 5 жыл бұрын
@Dominick Bundy, I am exactly the same way. I don't get what being lonely means....never did.
@amberkarim9239
@amberkarim9239 5 жыл бұрын
I love being alone I have always gone to movies alone I don't have to worry if your with someone they If they like the movie most of my life I have enjoyed my moments alone
@dominickbundy6429
@dominickbundy6429 5 жыл бұрын
trudy karim Me too !
@julienetherton5914
@julienetherton5914 4 жыл бұрын
my heart goes out to them..... my husband left our home for “someone he liked better” ten years ago..... Am still not used to being alone, now our children have their own lives. I long for the rush to get dinner on the table and loved faces coming through the door, but that will not happen any more. Fortunately my son found me a companion, Alfie.....a dog who is now my shadow and comes everywhere with me. I would recommend older people to get a little dog....it doesn’t have to be a puppy, many older dogs just need someone to love them and keep them company, as do many older people. Vet fees in UK can be helped through charities, it is a wonderful thing to see two oldies from different species looking after each other, a win win situation, for both. Alfie makes me smile, gives me hugs and makes me go out for walks, all wonderful things.
@AnthonyTolhurst-dw1nc
@AnthonyTolhurst-dw1nc 4 жыл бұрын
There it is . . . .
@lillyshield6187
@lillyshield6187 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Julie, have you looked into befriending in the UK? It might be worth looking into if you are interested in meeting new people! Just be sure to choose a company who do background checks on their volunteers
@jeanettea12345
@jeanettea12345 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, good advise Julie. I have two pups here (not mine but I inherited them). They give me something to care for now that all my 1st family is gone and children get thru their own lives-jobs, family, their own health etc.
@nacholibre1962
@nacholibre1962 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you, Julie.
@billashbrook3014
@billashbrook3014 4 жыл бұрын
Good 4 u
@70something.89
@70something.89 6 ай бұрын
I'm in my 70's and have lived alone for 20 years in an isolated cottage in the countryside and I can honestly say they've been the best years of my life. Some times I don't see anyone for weeks apart from the Tesco delivery drivers. I love it. That said and I do understand people who lose life long partners suffer terribly from loneliness.
@thesamson1091
@thesamson1091 3 жыл бұрын
I lost my son to in the military and lost my mother last year and my father to i always pray to the lord every 🌙 night because i know i will see him when my time comes
@tricias7494
@tricias7494 5 жыл бұрын
Margaret is dressed so beautifully! Classy lady.
@titalinda8515
@titalinda8515 4 жыл бұрын
It so very very sad to see old persons so alone at the end of their life. I am LatinAmerican, our culture is family and friend oriented. We are always on the look out of our old family members. It is not well accepted socially to send the elderly to a home, unless it is absolutely necessary because of a specific family problem. I am a widow, I am 75 years old, when my husband passed away, immediately one of my children came to live with me. My son comes to lunch every sunday with his children or takes me out for lunch. When my mother became old, and she was very indipendent, I moved to an apartment in a building next to hers, she had the keys to my apartment, my husband and children loved it, and she would come every morning to read our daily newspaper and have a cup of tea. Thank God we are always concerned with our older family members.
@shellanon4212
@shellanon4212 4 жыл бұрын
I thought this sounded like u Tita. It,s me, Shilo. I am glad u have family who care. I do not.
@titalinda8515
@titalinda8515 4 жыл бұрын
Shell anon . Hi sweetheart!!!! I am sorry your family is not lovable with you, as you, such a wonderful person, deserve. How are you doing???
@shellanon4212
@shellanon4212 4 жыл бұрын
@@titalinda8515 I am fine. More snow today but the last 2 ft. Mostly melted. Did u get your mobility back? Are you all better? I thought you were from the states Tia. Your English is xcellent. I did get a text from my daughter on my birthday yesterday. Am 74! I am in the far north in Idaho she lives near Sacramento CA.
@SRBOMBONICA86
@SRBOMBONICA86 3 жыл бұрын
That's beautiful
@titalinda8515
@titalinda8515 3 жыл бұрын
@@shellanon4212 . Hi sweetheart, I just saw your messages again. How are you doing Shilo? How has this awful pandemic affected you? It’s my birthday today, 76 years old.... wow.... never expected to be this old, but things are alright, thank God. Hope to hear from you. Much love!
@ithacacomments4811
@ithacacomments4811 Жыл бұрын
The "Village Movement" is a nationwide movement to help older adults age in their homes. In my area we are called "Love Living at Home." Once a senior becomes a member, they can access all the benefits of membership from rides to the doctor, grocery shopping, handyperson assistance, etc. We are seniors helping seniors!
@chrissycar2511
@chrissycar2511 3 жыл бұрын
A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling. Psalm 68:5
@lise-annedore8935
@lise-annedore8935 3 жыл бұрын
Amen... Thank you Lord for never leaving or forsaking us. Please comfort the lonely ones! Give then your hope.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hello, Chrissy! How are you doing? Greetings from Preston hope you are fine and staying safe. Where are you from? and hope you don't mind me asking.
@virginialpinon748
@virginialpinon748 4 жыл бұрын
I'm alone I'm 86...I pass the time on you tube....reading...I'm an avid reader always have been. I do watch tv if there's something I want to c. Not just mindless stuff...in summer I walk. Cant as much as I used to...I have couple friends. Younger than I. They're mostly 60s. I have sisters in my faith. If I need ride I can get it... it relatives I seldom hear from..its sad. On summer I sit on balcony a lot. I've always enjoyed a front porch now I'm on 9th fl..I still enjoy looking at traffic and people. There's a community em in my senior tower but I usually dont mingle...it can be like a small town...u have be careful. Yes I do wish I'd hear from relatives more...but they're not responding single for my happiness...I try to set goals. Like one wk I plan to clean drawers or closet. I find things to do. But yes..I'm tired and wish I were young again lol. But this is where we all wind up. Waiting just waiting..dont ever forget. Your creator...He knows. Ask him for what u want
@TheKim369
@TheKim369 3 жыл бұрын
Virginia, I hope you are doing well. How about a little joke? A man walks into the Dr. with a carrot rammed way up his nose. The Dr. looks up and says, Oh my God, you're not eating properly! Keep taking care of yourself, and staying current - I noticed you used lol, good for you!
@robertziegler7168
@robertziegler7168 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Virginia greetings from 🇺🇸 am robert chatting from Baltimore Maryland I could be a friend trust me I mean no harm
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hello, there! How are you doing? Greetings from Preston hope you are fine and staying safe. Where are you from? and hope you don't mind me asking. Just checking on you and hope you stay safe too. 🕊️🕊️✌️✌️🤗🤗
@greenleafkratom
@greenleafkratom 6 жыл бұрын
jeez, ticking of that clock sure doesnt help that situation
@divinesignatures6225
@divinesignatures6225 5 жыл бұрын
Actually, ticking clocks are comforting.
@naturelady65953
@naturelady65953 5 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same, that tic toc has got to go
@bluecasey270
@bluecasey270 5 жыл бұрын
I love ticking clocks but this comment really made me laugh
@TallSilentGuy
@TallSilentGuy 5 жыл бұрын
Dubbed on for effect, I imagine.
@Williamjclopez82
@Williamjclopez82 5 жыл бұрын
greenleafkratom Just to give a little sense of the harsh reality.
@ilianadiaz8039
@ilianadiaz8039 3 жыл бұрын
It’s very good this video was made, to share with others the pain and desperation some people feel when they are all alone. We must be sensitive and gentle to the people we know are alone, as this lady lost her husband after an entire life time of having him in her life. We must offer kindness and help those around us without family or living alone as much as possible. Honestly, something must be done about this huge problem, it’s not humane to forget about our seniors, just because it’s easier for society, or because they are old.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hello, liliana! How are you doing? Greetings from Preston hope you are fine and staying safe. Where are you from and hope you don't mind me asking.
@LadyCoyKoi
@LadyCoyKoi 3 жыл бұрын
Goes to show that even if you have kids, it doesn't always mean you'll not be alone. I saw this all of the time. When it really hit is when you see or witness it first hand in your own neighborhood. Back when I was a substitute teacher, there was another substitute teacher who is an elderly man who got a stroke three years ago and he was all alone in that hospital bed. I visited him in Saturday, a day consider time spent with family, especially those at hospitals. Traditionally in my family,if someone is at hospital there is always, always, someone there to keep that person company. To see him at hospital all alone made my heart break. I am use to the idea of keeping company to the elders, especially during a frightening time like surviving a stroke. I saw a family visitation at across the hall and thought to myself, "How sad that I was the only visitor at hospital at that time. A co-worker. Where are the family?" I don't know why. Something within told me to visit him. To show him there is still some good in the world. It is hard to explain properly why I visited him, but to see him in that darken room alone made me cry within. If I gotten sick like that I had a sister and mother who visit me constantly and made sure I was never alone, especially with a frightening episode like a stroke. 😥I visited my grandma constantly when she ended up in the hospital constantly due to heart complications. It was just something you do. Keeping someone company does a lot to the mind and spirit. Never underestimate that. Even turtles seek out company.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hello, juci! How are you doing? Greetings from Preston hope you are fine and staying safe. Where are you from and hope you don't mind me asking.
@tammywoodallmyott7950
@tammywoodallmyott7950 Жыл бұрын
My kids no longer have time for me 💔💔
@billn.1318
@billn.1318 3 жыл бұрын
True story: I was reckless in my early 20s. No sense of respect for anyone other than myself. I was selfish, bitter and filled with animosity towards those who wronged me. I moved to an apartment building and next door was this elderly woman. Probably in her early 80s. She greeted with a smile and every morning she would sit outside and say good morning to anyone that walked by. I would start my day at 7am and come back at 5pm and this woman would still be there. She asked for my name and she would always "good morning!" and my name afterwards. A month later we would start talking and I'd make small talk. One night, after a night of partying, I went home and saw my neighbor, this old lady through her kitchen window and she was still awake and watching tv. There was nobody there but her. I knocked her on door, she opens the door and I asked her why she's up so late. The first thing she said was "nobody has ever knocked on this door for 8 months". I laughed and I told her I was just curious as it is late. She asked if I was hungry, I said "yes, I am going to make some cereal when I go to my kitchen". She laughed about my cereal statement. She says she made dinner for herself earlier but could not finish. She asked if I wanted some food. I said ok. She told me to come in and eat on the dining table. She prepared left over meatloaf and potatoes and to this day - that was the best meatloaf dinner i have had. As I was eating, she asked where I was from. I asked where she was from and we basically spent 30 minutes talking about her family history. She has 3 children and they live out of state. They only visit once a year. Her husband used to work at a mill after fighting in the pacific in WW2. She was a kindergarten teacher and retired in the 1990s. Her husband passed away 30 years ago. I'd look at the pictures on the wall, her family, grandkids, places she used to visit. She spent most of her days sitting outside and watching the news and old shows at night. I thanked her for the meal. When I walked out the door she said to me these words "This has been a wonderful night. Thanks for stopping by, come by again soon". I went home, I sat on the couch and realized something - The world actually has some nice people who care about others. Each week this old lady would make me these amazing cookies. She would also sometimes bring me over food (all my money went to rent and i was practically living on cereal, bread , peanut butter and ramen). I finally got a chair and sat next to her out front of the apartment and we would have saturday morning coffee. I was even lucky to get more food for sunday brunch as she made them! She made coffee on this percolator (which made really good old school coffee). Then one day, the ambulance came and picked her up. Weeks went by and she has not come back. A woman and a man stopped at her place and started moving things. I went out and asked who they were and she said they were her children from NY. They suspiciously asked me who I was and how I know her and I told them I am her neighbor, I have coffee with her every weekend. They looked at me and said "Yeah, thats strange.. my mom does not do that with anyone. You sure its her?" They jokingly laughed and said that was not her at all. I asked what happened to her and they told me she got hospitalized, had a stroke and disabled with 50% memory loss. I asked which hospital and I told them that If I showed up, she will know who I am and that I was telling the truth. Surprisingly, they invited me that evening to see her. The son opens the door of her mothers room. She was sleeping. I pulled up a chair and sat near her. Her son was yelling out loud to her mom to wake up. I didn't like his gesture of how she woke her up. I just had a bad vibe towards him. She woke up and I was the first set of eyes she looked at. She raised her left hand and held mine. She said in a slurred speech "How are you" and said my name afterwards. The children were shocked. Pure shock on their face. I had a little smirk seeing their faces. The son said she hasn't said much since her stroke. She started talking and talking but were all slurred that I could not understand most of what she said. I got the ok to visit her whenever I can. I'd come by and have coffee (but no coffee with her). Her children gave her the family album and saw pictures of her when she was young and I complimented how beautiful she is - then and now. She really was very pretty in her 20s. Her husband was a handsome man and this man had that grit look. For a mill worked, the man looked like hed been working steel for years. Her speech started to get better and I would help her pronounce the words. Three weeks later, she got the ok to be on assisted living. Her kids found an ok assisted living place. I was allowed to visit of course. 4 months later, I found out she passed. She had another stroke. The son stopped by and dropped off something for me. Old books, pictures, really old furniture and decor. Last but not least, i got the darn percolator to make coffee. I said my thank you and the son told me to make sure you clean the percolator and open it and clean it well before you use it and for me to wait until the weekend. I waited 4 days to make a cup of coffee (it was on a weekend). I opened the percolator and there are two pieces of paper. One was a check and the other was a note. Out of respect, I checked the note first. It says "Mom wanted to make a coffee and baked goods shop back in the 60s. The book contains recipes from what she was going to have for her shop. The shop never came about because she had kids and could not open the shop. I am sure you know what to do. Thanks for everything. You made her last year a wonderful one". I read the check and it was for $30,000. The check says "For the coffee shop". I found out she inherited a fortune after her fathers passing. A trust fund was given to the kids.The kids decided to give me this gift (which was a big deal, the kids were really wealthy and did not trust anyone outside of the family circle). 1 year later, I opened "Black Forest Cafe" in california. It thrived and learned about how to run a business, trial and error and made some of the best pastries, cake and home cooked meals. I made all my coffee in percolators. If you are reading this, your success to best coffee is using a percolator. The business stayed opened for years. I eventually sold the business just right before the 2008 recession. I gave the $30k back to the family but they refused and gave it back to me. Instead, I kept the money and saved to plan on opening another coffee shop.
@plumeria66
@plumeria66 3 жыл бұрын
Bill, what an amazing and touching story! I am so glad you knocked on her door and got to know her. You kept her company made her feel like someone cared. You did good with the $30k! You fulfilled her dream to open the coffee shop. It’s so good her kids recognized how important you were to her. She left this world being touched by you. And you became a better person for it. Blessings.
@svetaru4859
@svetaru4859 2 жыл бұрын
Great story 👌
@Th3BigBoy
@Th3BigBoy Жыл бұрын
This story cuts deep. Thanks for sharing.
@Mangalok
@Mangalok Жыл бұрын
Wow
@user-vt4zc8oi6p
@user-vt4zc8oi6p Жыл бұрын
BEAUTIFUL SOUL THANK YOU FOR SHARING ❤
@NothingMaster
@NothingMaster 5 жыл бұрын
Heaven forbid their family members should dedicate a bit of their precious time to bringing some happiness and company to their lonely lives. I remember, when my grandfather was alive and lonely, I used to visit him often and get him to tell me about the most interesting and memorable events in his long colorful life. Talk about some incredible family and otherwise life stories; better than most novels around. That experience turned out to be among of the most enjoyable, meaningful, and life-enriching moments of both of our lives; and I still relive them with great fondness. We all have a lot to share with, and learn from, our elders - they are a wealth of knowledge, wisdom, and experience, abandoned in the age of virtual reality.
@susanhavens1660
@susanhavens1660 5 жыл бұрын
I am 61 now. I have enjoyed the company of older people all my life. I wish more people were like us. I find that people look through me often as I were already a ghost. Young people today don't value older people nowadays. They want us to go away and die.
@LaDeeDah
@LaDeeDah 5 жыл бұрын
your comment is one sided because you don't know if their family tries to get them out. A lot of older people want to stay caged in their house and comfort zones. Even people as young as 60 start to become rigid and anti social. They don't want to try anything new. Everything is 'in my day' so if they have that mindset and want companions on their times they have to wait until someone can sit in their house with them. We can barely sit in our own homes because of work and kids and responsibilities.
@johnnyaingel5753
@johnnyaingel5753 5 жыл бұрын
TRUTH every word i agree with you god bless you
@Jennifr1966
@Jennifr1966 5 жыл бұрын
My husband is ill and won't get better. He really wishes our daughter could be here. She feels badly, but her husband doesn't want to move near us.
@annmitchell4663
@annmitchell4663 5 жыл бұрын
@@LaDeeDah Sorry..not all ppl over 60 are rigid and anti social..Lol,I travel on my own (Dream holiday in Santorini in a few weeks) and always meet lovely ppl, I love going out whenever I get chance,were not all anti social. Many older ppl have no family or friends to spend time with and many older ppl don't feel safe going out alone with so much crime 'out there'. If you go abroad especially to Spain ect,older ppl are out and about in the evenings because they feel safe.
@teribradshaw-milling3164
@teribradshaw-milling3164 2 жыл бұрын
They need to get those two lonely people together!
@alfredleo5128
@alfredleo5128 Жыл бұрын
Hello
@kathleenmacdonald5511
@kathleenmacdonald5511 3 жыл бұрын
One of my biggest fears when I was young was being abandoned and alone. When it happened I was still relatively young. Now I am 60 and quite used to being alone that I don't feel lonely. It helps to have the internet to connect and to have pets, especially if you are retired. Keep your mind and body active and you may feel less lonely. Come to think of it, my fear of abandonment was so great when I was young that I didn't go after the man I really wanted because it would hurt more to lose him. I married twice and both to men I could tolerate losing. That is a sad admission but I do have a serene, peaceful life now.
@tonyahrrold8273
@tonyahrrold8273 3 жыл бұрын
A man is here to solved your problem, do you believe
@robertziegler7168
@robertziegler7168 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Kathleen greetings from 🇺🇸 am robert chatting from Baltimore Maryland I could be a friend trust me I mean no harm
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hi, Kathleen! How are you doing? How long have you been living that lonely life now? Do you think is better to abandon the elderly who does not have children? We all need to play the role of assistance to each other and the elderly who lack relatives, love, care, and affection.
@kathleenmacdonald5511
@kathleenmacdonald5511 Жыл бұрын
@@prestonsmith9824 easier said than done. I don't like being alone but it is better than being with people who use you and abuse you, even supposedly caring neighbors. I am sure anyone who has gotten to their 60s (like I have) know what I am talking about. There are no earth angels walking around looking to share their love with lonely little old people. I share my love with whoever needs it, giving charity and hope as needed and many times it turns out badly. We are not living in some Utopia here on earth. These are evil times and my best advice to the elderly is to learn how to work a computer and entertain themselves at a safe distance.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
@@kathleenmacdonald5511 You said it all, but we still have good people despite the evil days we lived in now. You have to create a safer site to connect with your loved ones and the Christian body or group you belong to. All those activities will keep you busy and active all time. You can get yourself a pet cat or dog and make them your best friends too. You can also take some time for a walk with your pets. What are the social activities you love most that keep busy? Do you read books like stories or history? Where are you chatting from? Hope you don't mind me asking all these questions. I love your word and idea, I think you have a good sense of humor and you are also intelligent in what you said. How are you a believer of Christ? I don't mean bringing religious beliefs into it though. Hope to hear from you soon.🤗🤗🤗 Stay safe as always✌️🍀
@isaacs2539
@isaacs2539 5 жыл бұрын
You can tell she genuinely loved her husband and misses him. Not very common these days.
@j.e.7028
@j.e.7028 4 жыл бұрын
Why dont these two meet for tea,surely someone could arrange that
@JenTays
@JenTays 4 жыл бұрын
As a society we should prevent this from happening. As people we have a duty to find out who we are and develop ourselves while younger. Every person should live for some time on their own while younger. These people are dependent on others and cannot live by themselves so we should be able to care for them Same as with homeless people, it shouldn’t be happening, care of others needs to be our priority as a society
@marktwain380
@marktwain380 4 жыл бұрын
There must be thousands of cells of loneliness spread around the country, maybe even within walking distance of eachother. I would like to see town authorities, and communities and neighbourhoods addressing this. There has to be a way of easing the state of being alone for those who are suddenly plunged into social and emotional isolation, particularly those who are living well into old age. No one should have to endure loneliness, that is ridiculous in our already overpopulated societies!!
@joseesteban9285
@joseesteban9285 3 жыл бұрын
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@BungleZippie
@BungleZippie 3 жыл бұрын
Because that would be logical.
@BungleZippie
@BungleZippie 3 жыл бұрын
@@marktwain380 Grief and loss is part of it. Reality is tough. However, it has to be said that people choose to wallow in self-pity a lot of the time. There are things you can do whilst you have your mind and ability to get around. Two lonely people, but they sit by themselves and don't meet up? Join groups or seek to live elsewhere. If you don't do something then how can the problem be solved?
@patsultani9988
@patsultani9988 3 жыл бұрын
This is just heartbreaking. I just started my job as a carer and unfortunately many of them don’t have family and friends to visit them every day. Specially in this difficult times of COVID-19 they are more alone than ever. 🥺💔
@DX-d
@DX-d 3 жыл бұрын
There’s no difficult times, the virus is fake.
@patsultani9988
@patsultani9988 3 жыл бұрын
@@DX-d One of my elderly customer died of COVID-19 last week!, It’s not fake.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hi, pat! It feels sad to see the elderly go through this in their old age. Have you ever been lonely before? Where are you from? Do you have any elderly who those not have relatives in your neighborhood? How do you show love to the elderly in your neighborhood?
@aashish2590
@aashish2590 3 жыл бұрын
I m so lucky that I realised so early in my life that we need to be at peace and contented with ourself..it should not be dependent on presence or absence of a company...i believe being lonely is a blessing in disguise especially when it comes early in life..like in 20s...
@ajennimoto____3122
@ajennimoto____3122 3 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more.
@radharcanna
@radharcanna 3 жыл бұрын
That’s so sad. Loneliness is the curse of modern society.
@lisajohnson6351
@lisajohnson6351 3 жыл бұрын
It’s always been a problem. People need someone to tell their secrets to...or just to love.
@carolhewett3756
@carolhewett3756 3 жыл бұрын
If she has a granddaughter where are her children. Im 71. My grandparents were first generation Europeans and few of the elders lived alone. They either lived with family or had family within walking distance. This is serious problem for modern society.
@sufibaba9801
@sufibaba9801 5 жыл бұрын
And yet everybody avoiding talking to old people that's a shame.
@NoName-pu5ls
@NoName-pu5ls 5 жыл бұрын
You are right, An older gentleman lives up the road from me, I was walking by one day with my dogs and he loved them, so I will make it a point to go past with my dogs and stop by and speak with him more often. Maybe I will even allow him to keep one of my dogs over night sometime if he wants too. for company.
@A.D.540
@A.D.540 4 жыл бұрын
We even already started not to speak people in our own age it's not just old.
@alexandramedichi4668
@alexandramedichi4668 4 жыл бұрын
Sufi Baba I do not avoid talking to old people.. I welcome their wisdom and life experience they share.
@athensmajnoo3661
@athensmajnoo3661 4 жыл бұрын
Try living with 91 year old 24x7,
@lindauribe6872
@lindauribe6872 4 жыл бұрын
From the time I was a little girl I talked to the elderly and befriended them. I was an old soul and now am a old soul.
@TM-kh7el
@TM-kh7el Жыл бұрын
It’s sad. I live with my 75 year old mom and I couldn’t for the life of me understand why she is so clingy. I hated it because I prefer being left alone. But now I understand 😢 I will try to do better.
@iwanttosleep5053
@iwanttosleep5053 Жыл бұрын
I'm Glad that your trying to be better please don't ignore your mom. Have a nice day
@London-zx6yk
@London-zx6yk 3 жыл бұрын
The damnation of a long life , to see everyone leaving you behind.
@bbygrlpt2
@bbygrlpt2 5 жыл бұрын
My mom is 73 yrs old and lives with me. Shes divorced and has noone else. Theres no way I would leave her to be alone and fend for herself. I cant believe theres people in the world that leave their old relatives let alone parents/grandparents to survive on their own.
@judithsmith8014
@judithsmith8014 5 жыл бұрын
I guess that is one way to deal with her. She lucked in with you "looking after her." I am not needing anyone to "fend" for me, 73 is not "old" unless she is either sickly or has not cared for her health and well being. I did not throw my husband away - he died many years ago and I then faced life with courage and enjoy the so called challenges. There is a whole system out here that caters to older people and if one is normal and healthy it's great. We do not need any more tax payer's money taken for unnecessary public servants to get cushy jobs pretending to "Look after lonely people". It has to stop. Perhaps your Mother is too dependent, you say she "has no-one else", that's odd because she has known many hundreds of people during her life and they are all out there still. Getting old is NOT the problem that some people are led to believe. Getting 'free' money or manipulating others is the fashion and that is wrong.
@JustMe-gs9xi
@JustMe-gs9xi 5 жыл бұрын
bbygoly2, yes,, that is the way it should be
@Ladybug-uf7uh
@Ladybug-uf7uh 5 жыл бұрын
Your mother is among the blessed. Your loyalty is remarkable.
@shannon2748
@shannon2748 5 жыл бұрын
My aunt's husband died and she moved in with her son and his wife. I figured she would. Sh is in her 80s and has never lived alone. Her daughter died in her 50s in 2015, and now her husband just died on Christmas Day:((( her son is all she has left.
@bettybi1308
@bettybi1308 5 жыл бұрын
Your mother is so lucky having you. You have a heart full of love. Great done!
@blacknbougie8021
@blacknbougie8021 4 жыл бұрын
I like being alone. I was so relieved when me and my ex broke up.
@billychandler995
@billychandler995 3 жыл бұрын
That was amazing..even me..these days..i prefer being just myself in everything. Being alone is better than that of having huge amount of duties and responsibilities. Thought the joy it brings having companion is priceless but at the end of the day you'll be left alone is nothing
@angelajane1038
@angelajane1038 3 жыл бұрын
@melanated misfit I like my own company Time goes so fast
@See-if_I_care
@See-if_I_care 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@dynastyjones6778
@dynastyjones6778 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@robertoducusin1942
@robertoducusin1942 3 жыл бұрын
Me, at 55 im a dog lover had a 2 closest friend ( rare seeing each other now) Im living wd my eldest sis at 74 widowed in an apt.🇵🇭
@mrskingkong1485
@mrskingkong1485 3 жыл бұрын
So sad. I'm willing to chat with anyone who needs a friend!! Big hugs to all.
@robertziegler7168
@robertziegler7168 3 жыл бұрын
greetings from 🇺🇸 am robert chatting from Baltimore Maryland I could be a friend trust me I mean no harm
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hello, there! How are you doing? Greetings from Preston hope you are fine and staying safe. Where are you from and hope you don't mind me asking.
@mistreme8341
@mistreme8341 3 жыл бұрын
When lonely, become the solution to someone else's loneliness.
@eileenhuss9915
@eileenhuss9915 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Yes, you are right about that, how do you cope with the loneliness of all this while? Do you still have relatives who check on you sometimes? We all need love and affection to make the world move forward. Where are you chatting from?
@goose300183
@goose300183 4 жыл бұрын
This is why community is so important. We have let community slide over recent decades. People don't connect with their neighbours much any more. It's important to do it though. The lonely elderly people in this film are just examples, they are a drop in the ocean. In your community right now, there will be people like this. Alone, struggling. We can all help though. A visit, a kind word, a favour. Offer to tidy their garden, take in their shopping, ask if they need anything fixing, chat to them for 5 minutes. All very simple things we can all do with very little effort, but things like this make a huge life-changing difference to these people. Look out for each other.
@joseesteban9285
@joseesteban9285 3 жыл бұрын
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@Ginattan2010
@Ginattan2010 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in my 50s. I have been alone most of my life. My wife to be left me because someone told here they were meant to be together. I'm glad. My dad died 4 years ago. My mother died this past February 2020. I quit my job in Colorado (it was a great job) to help my mother who couldn't take care of herself. Now I work at Eagle's Trace Retirement Home as a maintenance tech II. I fix just about everything in those buildings. At the same time I get to talk to these old people who live there. They just want to talk. Something to pass time by. Doing this helps me understand what I will be facing in the near future.
@klausschwarz2012
@klausschwarz2012 3 жыл бұрын
Nah
@bekinditcostsnothing1684
@bekinditcostsnothing1684 3 жыл бұрын
Actually,I live in a very christian community and moved due to toxic abusive relationship and even with that not one here has ever end me a helping hand. Its odd but true. I've always done that,offered a hand to those around me.This summer I thought to try to lend a hand to my neighbor and they wrote me not to do that again lolol They seemed to not like me soI thought that may break the ice but it just made things worse.
@jesusmyking9254
@jesusmyking9254 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman, single and Introverted. I think I'll be okay being alone. I enjoy my space and time with the Lord Jesus. ❤
@forhim370
@forhim370 3 жыл бұрын
You are never alone when you have Jesus!! ❤
@nessalynlaniohan5237
@nessalynlaniohan5237 3 жыл бұрын
Me too... Everyday is reflection day..
@rexel666
@rexel666 3 жыл бұрын
Get help.
@dalyt7989
@dalyt7989 3 жыл бұрын
hello I feel the same
@anns1921
@anns1921 3 жыл бұрын
Same here! To me it's far lonelier to be in the company of people you have nothing in common with or don't feel connected to. I always say that if you don't like living alone you're just not doing it right.
@gybx4094
@gybx4094 2 жыл бұрын
There are so many of us retired in our 60's who would love to talk with those who are isolated. Many of us just want to listen rather than talk about ourselves. We just can't seem to make a human connection in a virtually connected world.
@justme9723
@justme9723 3 жыл бұрын
My mom is elderly and was living alone too. But I took her home with me and will never let her live alone again. She’s happy being with us and her grandkids. I’m happy that she’s with me and that I am taking care of her. I love her too much to let her live a lonely life. Kids should keep their parents when they are old like that.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hello, there! How are you doing? Greetings from Preston hope you are fine and staying safe. Where are you from? and hope you don't mind me asking.
@peaceandlove544
@peaceandlove544 4 жыл бұрын
At least this older people have gad a beautiful life story, many now are young lonely, without a good past nor a good future
@alexandramedichi4668
@alexandramedichi4668 4 жыл бұрын
peace and love True.. I am working on a life mission that has a lot to do with what you are saying my friend
@icyivy2424
@icyivy2424 4 жыл бұрын
My thoughts Exactly!! Our generation is living in a superficial digital world... talk to me about loneliness. I feel like this for the past 10 years...
@priyasatiaceelan552
@priyasatiaceelan552 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I was thinking the same. They have already lived their happy fulfilling life. Many have never experienced love, happiness and have been lonely since young.
@Ginattan2010
@Ginattan2010 3 жыл бұрын
"without a good past nor a good future" but also without a bad past or a bad future. you have to look at it both ways you see.
@ceooflonelinessinc.267
@ceooflonelinessinc.267 3 жыл бұрын
Me too. I am 30. All girls rejected me. SO alone. All day. No friends. Never had a kiss, a hug. I am also uneducated, why have almost no money.
@FuzzyCholo
@FuzzyCholo 8 жыл бұрын
I talk to myself in the bathroom at 26. So I won't be THAT lonely by their age.
@alaitain
@alaitain 5 жыл бұрын
FuzzyCholo >> 😄😄😄, your right, I do that all the time, special to the TV...
@sylviahawley6180
@sylviahawley6180 5 жыл бұрын
Lol !!!
@sherenasherman8391
@sherenasherman8391 5 жыл бұрын
Me too an am 28
@anitaparks8945
@anitaparks8945 5 жыл бұрын
FuzzyCholo lol lol don't answer 😂
@jaberwock4568
@jaberwock4568 3 жыл бұрын
I am grateful for these folks sharing their experience of my greatest fear.
@SusanA1056
@SusanA1056 Жыл бұрын
For the elderly of today who lived through WW2 & the Korean War and the great depression, loosing their mates can seem like the last straw. Especially if they are used to having families around them. Gosh my heart broke listening to these dear folks. I wish they could come here.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
Hello, Susan! How are you doing? Greetings from Preston hope you are fine and staying safe. Where are you from and hope you don't mind me asking.
@SusanA1056
@SusanA1056 Жыл бұрын
@@prestonsmith9824 Good Morning Preston, from Canada.
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
@@SusanA1056 Good morning Susan! So sorry for the late response. How is the day going in Canada? I'm from Nacogdoches Texas. What is the time over there now? Hope my asking is cool with you.
@SusanA1056
@SusanA1056 Жыл бұрын
@@prestonsmith9824 Good Morning Preston. It is 8:03 am here right now. Always cool to ask. I live in Ottawa Ontario. (Canada's Capital.) It is supposed to be a steamy (For Ottawa) 98 degrees today. Each year I try to do 3 large projects that help conserve hydro, water & energy as well as plant trees and grasses to help conserve our local bio-diversity. Quite a challenge. I haven't heard of Nacogdoches before. Where abouts is it in Texas? Are you having problems with drought there?
@prestonsmith9824
@prestonsmith9824 Жыл бұрын
@@SusanA1056 Good morning Susan! How was your night? I hope you slept well. Nacogdoches is a city in texas, there is no drought in Nacogdoches right now. But the National Weather Service has issued drought information statements for these locations: Brownsville, TX; Corpus Christi, TX; Austin/San Antonio, TX; Fort Worth, TX; Lubbock, TX; Midland/Odessa, TX; San Angelo, TX. Is there a drought in your county? Hope you are having a great weekend and staying safe. Happy weekend 🤗🤗🍀
@LordSzabonight
@LordSzabonight 4 жыл бұрын
I just cried so hard out of nowhere !! That's it I'm volunteering somewhere!!!
@alexandramedichi4668
@alexandramedichi4668 4 жыл бұрын
Joe Szabo Joe what a sweetheart. and I have cried many tears as well for the masses that feel the same way..
@MC-ii3qk
@MC-ii3qk 4 жыл бұрын
You can make a difference to someone! Bless you for thinking of others..good man.
@RippSnortin
@RippSnortin 4 жыл бұрын
How's the volunteering going?
@JoJo-ic1th
@JoJo-ic1th 4 жыл бұрын
You just made me chuckle. :)
@stumack9755
@stumack9755 3 жыл бұрын
so its a yr later....where do u volunteer?
@sarahjane9008
@sarahjane9008 5 жыл бұрын
This completely broke my heart....💔
@alexandramedichi4668
@alexandramedichi4668 4 жыл бұрын
Sarah Jane there are so many wonderful People on our Beautiful Earth.. we just need to use some creativity and Turn the sadness into a movement for Love.. I do have some really good ideas...
@oscarwilliamson1264
@oscarwilliamson1264 3 жыл бұрын
Sarah Jane, Really!
@MuhammadImran-ln4fz
@MuhammadImran-ln4fz 3 жыл бұрын
😍😍❤❤❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷
@cyn.boujee4626
@cyn.boujee4626 2 жыл бұрын
Ohh yes it has sarah
@cyn.boujee4626
@cyn.boujee4626 2 жыл бұрын
How are you doing Sarah?
@boomatie8073
@boomatie8073 3 жыл бұрын
Sad, I lived all my years with my mom until she passed in 2003. I was also looking after my grandmother. Your parents should never live alone without someone take care of them, we're never know if we ourselves will be in same position. All the elderly need is care and love.
@user-gg5wv6pt3i
@user-gg5wv6pt3i 15 сағат бұрын
Sending prayers of love, friendship and strength. I hope God will bring her lots of safe and loving friends. Amen❤🙏🕯🛡
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