He was very fraudulent from the very beginning and it took for me to completely remove myself from the situation to be able to analytically understand what was actually going on. I'm over the savior complex with everybody in my life, him, family, toxic friends and coworkers...everybody!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Lesson learned! 🌱
@notjustaprettyface4 ай бұрын
@@WeavToldMe yes Lord 🙌🏾💯
@Sunshine-dm9hp4 ай бұрын
When I told him to leave , the mask fell off and then wanted to save the marriage afterwards was nothing but future faking and wanting me around for his convenience , while he cheated and blamed me , not anymore been done with him , blocked forever
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🏁🏁🏁
@JamilaGomez824 ай бұрын
This is why it’s so hard not to feel stupid.
@shellybailey77624 ай бұрын
You're gonna rise above it and they will still be stupid! So there's that! Get away and stay away!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
You don’t know what you don’t know. Live and learn!
@patriciastarchia47123 ай бұрын
Exactly, daily I reflect back and now see all the stupid ass mistakes I made, and how I let too many things slip past me. 🤦🏾♀️ It burns me up inside when I think about how he was able to get away with that stuff, because of me trying to be so understanding.
@orvelorten55867 күн бұрын
I loathe the amount of love time support and money I poured into a cracked vessel. Never again by God's grace!!
@JamilaGomez827 күн бұрын
@@orvelorten5586 I felt that!
@juliu8764 ай бұрын
Am the one who ended the relationship after it became dark and darker.
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Stay inspired
@MaryCooper-mf9mz4 ай бұрын
Amen, I'm just sorry it took 21 years for me to actually see the real him!!! 😢😢😢
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Live and learn
@patriciastarchia47123 ай бұрын
Don’t feel bad!! I too stay for 20 yrs , married 18th. We are currently going thru a divorce now , I will never trust anyone again. I waisted 20 yrs of my life dealing with a someone who was and is full of shit
@MaryCooper-mf9mz3 ай бұрын
@@patriciastarchia4712 thank you so much. I've been going through straight hell and it's just getting worse. And the more I try to leave the more he just won't give up. I've been arrested twice, put out of MY apt that his name is no where on, by the cops.. it's crazy. But let a 5 mins to a hour go by after each of his rage fits and this man acts like nothing's wrong and he didn't do a damn thing wrong. He's cheated, downplayed it, my fault. It's way too much
@patriciastarchia471229 күн бұрын
@@MaryCooper-mf9mz Aww wow . I’m so sorry you are going through this , that is horrible!!! Has things been okay since then? Please say you are in a better place now .
@HopeFaithExpect774 ай бұрын
Took 8yrs for me get discarded hy her covert vulverable narc self. Such a liarface. Enjoy all that no compassion/zero empathy mister new supply guy.
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Stay inspired
@GracedToWin4 ай бұрын
In my case, I didn't share anything with the narc. He illegally gained access to my personal info. In addition, he tried to track my activities, so I sent him on a wild goose chase 🤷♀️ I had no idea he was that crazy but then again it is a mental illness...sad. While he no longer fazes me, I am annoyed at my new connections for actually believing his smear campaign (although supportive). He was never a hero in my story, he NEVER helped me, not once and I never asked. You're right, what a nightmare. Dangerous people, scary. Well, what can you do other than contunue no contact and minding my own business like you said? 😃 Who doesn't love Coach Weav?!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Stay safe and strong!
@charleshess39394 ай бұрын
Spot on... I let my guard down...dang...
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾
@graceg49964 ай бұрын
They’re sick
@clarisseh.82114 ай бұрын
Educating myself on narcissistic behaviour and the traits is helping me heal and confirm that I wasn’t going crazy after all
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@zentient88404 ай бұрын
A whole fraud....😞
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@earnyourimmortality4 ай бұрын
The precision & efficiency of your delivery is impeccable! Noice!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Thank you. Truly appreciate the love.
@Ms.B.Warren4 ай бұрын
FACTS!📚
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾
@geoffreybester79534 ай бұрын
My girlfriend is BPD, Trauma bonding is difficult to escape, I really just want to build a life with someone, and she just destroys everything I work for.
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@orvelorten55867 күн бұрын
Hellava breakdown, Weav. As always. Thanks for the breakdown and the hard truths.
@WeavToldMe6 күн бұрын
🤝🏾
@ladyvirgo0134 ай бұрын
Truth 💯
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙌🏾
@zacharysmith-se2bc4 ай бұрын
Thanks🙏 and its truth heal move forward there better
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@DutchiesMomma4 ай бұрын
I left him after he told me to go. Called me stupid, told me I was making a mistake. Took advantage of my entire existence (mind and body 😢) Monsters do exists!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾
@kalencorrie85254 ай бұрын
Awesome 🤩 love your energy and truths.
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Ty for watching
@ArmandoGarcia-pd5bh4 ай бұрын
Brother you hit it right on the head
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Ty for watching
@sushmasinha80544 ай бұрын
Sir you are correct,they(husband narendra sinha) sold me whole ass nightmare,now I know who is a monster, now stopped cooking