Huge fraud! Mine discarded me on 12/2 by a cowardly text. Had new supply she was grooming for months all along! 8yrs w her gone. She was talkin babies-marriage w me same week and took me her work cmas party night prior to dumping. Zero compassion. Zero empathy. Am still in shock trying heal. These humans suck.
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Stay strong!
@mortischahicks53414 ай бұрын
94 days of NO Contact! I left and didn't look back! DISCONNECT! DISCONNECT! And keep it moving 💯
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
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@getnthru4 ай бұрын
The reason so many of us stay is because the narcissists know how to use our guilt against us. It’s always our fault. It was our fault they weren’t happy; that the relationship wasn’t what it should be; and it was ultimately OUR fault that it ended. Most of us are left with the question of what more should/could we have done. It’s getting beyond their blame and the self blame before you can even begin to regain your life.
@ericmurphy62664 ай бұрын
My ex mask came off....Yes I seen a side I never seen before....She discarded me after 5 1/2 years....No I aint going bk
@HopeFaithExpect774 ай бұрын
Feel ya. Mine discarded me on 12/2 by text. Had new supply was grooming for months i found out. 8yrs w her gone. She was talkin babies-marriage w me same week and took me her work cmas party night prior to dumping. Zero compassion. Zero empathy. Am still in shock trying heal. These humans suck.
Preach it! Retaliation kicked in once control was lost. I stayed because I honored my vows and my rose glasses were super glued. Until he was no longer in my face and the truth hit. Amen for truth! I wish him and his new supply happiness and joy. 🙏
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Love and learn!
@RHFIV4 ай бұрын
Weav you are the man!! Your videos have helped me so much!! You are right on, with everything you say! It's hard to believe that I spent 10 years with this evil woman! You know what's weird, I think back and remember times where I was like wtf? At the grocery store a few times she talked to the cashier like she was trash, after we left I was like wtf was that?? It was like the other side came out momentarily.. it was like who was that?? Now I know who that was, it was the mask coming off, it was the monster inside . I wish I woulda made a journal of all those red flags I ignored. Thank you so much for helping me! I got a long way to go, but I appreciate you man!!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Appreciate the love! 🤝🏾🫡
@stephm674 ай бұрын
You just said exactly what I went through. To a T! And even after 5 months of not being together, I'm still grieving. And I want her back! You're right, still have to do some deep diving and figure out why I just couldn't leave. Why it felt like leaving would be the end of me. I've never gone through this with any other relationship. Sure had some heartbreaks along the way but nothing even close to this. The work never stops! Thank you again Weav!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Stay inspired! 🙏🏾
@tawnyasterling58754 ай бұрын
Thank you again Weave, for getting right to the point and telling the truth. "MONSTERS DO EXIST".. I am diving inside me to understand why I allowed and stayed, going back, believing and his apologies. I am trying not to hate the evil spawn, us being a child of God, as we all are.. I am now focusing on me.. not even thinking of being in any relationship - too soon. Im also wondering, if if there are any real men, not just males, who will one day cross my path.. that is not my focus now, just thinking out loud
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🏁🏁🏁
@Sunshine-dm9hp4 ай бұрын
I thank you so much for all your videos, I have grown so much and learned so much about my ex husband, he will always be blocked , and I have my peace, don’t get me wrong I still have my days but it’s all about the healing process, thank you always Weav
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Ty for following along
@tyreewilliams79543 ай бұрын
We got this 👍🏿 💯
@satyajeetpatnaik37804 ай бұрын
I remember the day she left was so horrible. She was saying vey rude things, comparing with her other supplies(ex/crush) humiliated me with something which I never expected. I tried to to understand whats wrong with her but she was shouting and saying bad things, dint listen anything. Its more than a month now she probably with someone else. Looks like she did all this so that she can go to the new supply. This was something took a part of me to realize who the hell I was with. No empathy, selfish and self centered, no emotional well being, no respect and excessive aggression towards criticism. I am no longer talking to her, but as an empath, I was invested into her. She took away my health, peace of mind. I end up thinking about her bcoz she was two faced all the time. By the time I saw her true face, may be it was too late. I lost a lot of me, just want to recover asap.😮💨
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
No rush. One day at a time! 🏁
@satyajeetpatnaik37804 ай бұрын
@@WeavToldMe thank u sir
@KK-by1ms4 ай бұрын
This is painful 😓
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾
@tawnyasterling58754 ай бұрын
I feel your pain, too. Let's focus on us... let the pain come out thru tears, screaming into a pillow, or while driving alone, thru prayer, journaling... you will make it thru
@carlosrios89204 ай бұрын
Facts! We are the blame…
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Always!
@leslieturner86534 ай бұрын
One more thing I wish i would have found you then but i here now again Thank you❤
@peterellis96844 ай бұрын
Weav, you make me feel like I've got a friend who's been through the same things I have, and that feels good. Thanks. Keep doing what you're doing.
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching. Truly appreciate the love!
@rspecialt20034 ай бұрын
So true but i still want him. Why. Help me mov on
@gormlee4 ай бұрын
In my situation the person he was when he broke up with me isn't the guy I fell in love with. There is no way for me to go back to him even if I wanted to because he isn't who I was with anymore. He dumped me and berated me while I was packing my things thats not what someone does when they claim they love you. But doesn't stop that I still miss him and it makes me sick knowing what be did to me for years. I'm sorry you feel this way and my words might not help and I don't know your situation but from mine he isn't the person who I loved anymore just a lesson on who I don't want in my life and not to settle for the bottom of rhe barrel. Hope you're doing well and are safe💛
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
What’s the rush?
@Ms.B.Warren4 ай бұрын
Here it is! Gift-wrapped with a BIG AZZZZ BOW🎁 Thanks Weav!!!❤
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾
@leslieturner86534 ай бұрын
Wow your good at what you know. Thank you from the ❤
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Thank you for following along. Truly appreciate the love!
@luisfc3114 ай бұрын
Very true! I just got out of that kind of relationship last year and working on myself.
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Stay inspired!
@geminiflamez4 ай бұрын
Thank you, I needed this❤
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙌🏾🫡
@Minyobiznazz4 ай бұрын
2.75 yrs ... DIVORCED. Life is at PEACE
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
💯🏁
@Yash00304 ай бұрын
Facts!!
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
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@aprilcobianchi28154 ай бұрын
Very true 💯
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
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@zacharysmith-se2bc4 ай бұрын
Thank you
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@DanielRivera-hi3gn4 ай бұрын
My ex doesn't care but wants to add me on social media to co parent
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
@a.d.b5354 ай бұрын
Is he an avoidant ... Or a narc? Has traits of the latter.
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Does it matter in the grand scheme of healing after?
@a.d.b5354 ай бұрын
@@WeavToldMe I just think there could be better results when working on a relationship with an avoidant. But characteristics aren't that clean. I can only control so much and working on my own growth.
@SGM-ep9uv4 ай бұрын
I saw your videos around a year and half back and finally saw the reality of my partner but I was manipulated into staying back. Watching this as I'm 5 days away from my real exit. I'm moving to another city on the context of a break not a breakup 😵💫
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
Stay strong and safe. 🏁🙏🏾
@epo6154 ай бұрын
You just explained exactly what I went through with my ex.. I will become stronger from this!