In this video, I’m addressing a challenging and often confusing situation: when someone tells you they love you but they’re not ready for a relationship.
Have you ever heard phrases like “I’m just not a relationship person,” “I’m too messed up to be in a relationship,” or “I love you, but I can’t commit right now”? If so, you know how incredibly frustrating and painful it can be, especially if you tend to have an anxious attachment style.
In this episode, we’ll explore:
• The meaning behind these statements and what they might signify about the person’s feelings and readiness.
• Practical steps you can take to navigate this emotionally charged scenario.
• Ways to maintain your self-worth and emotional health while dealing with mixed messages.
• Tips for clear communication and setting healthy boundaries.
If you’re struggling with a similar situation, you’re not alone. Join me as we unpack this complex topic and find ways to move forward with clarity and confidence.
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CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction and Topic Overview
00:37 Understanding Anxious Attachment
01:40 The Reality of Love and Relationships
02:31 Evaluating Relationship Viability
03:18 The Pitfalls of Convincing Someone
04:58 Raising Your Standards
06:57 Final Thoughts and Advice
07:42 Conclusion and Call to Action