great video

Enjoy Venice - it's my favourite city to visit ❤️ I recommend avoiding the big restaurants along the main streets (they often have Indian waiters, for some reason!) and looking for small places in the back streets. Also, you will get lost. Often. The place is a maze 😂

Do you mean, you prefer watching porn or thinking about it instead of getting married?

Love your videos, take care of u. I don't know if u eat red meat/liver and I don't need to know, but it's good to avoid mild anemia. If u eat, try to make a hamburguer patty half minced meat and liver, with salt, garlic, herbs... I know u r a pale boy, and that is ok, but u got to have some rose hues. Pale =/= palor. We

Venice is great, i hope you get the best experience

Me too. INTJ, as per usual, is second to last...

@@talyahfeigenbaum9486 ENTP here. He was spitting facts

Same lol

Intj as well

Same

Me but replace music with story concepts and art

Same. But for me its writing. What if its trash? There's already a lot of good works and few masterpieces, what makes my work special? But I can't just give up on it, coz I just want to continue.

@@onegaimatte1845 because there is a public for everything and yours is different so why can't it be good and a masterpiece?

KZfaq would be a great place to start to get it out! If you posted a link here I bet we all would listen to it!

I started writing 3 songs, but I want perfect lyrics, so I add one line every year.

I agree. I'm still writing this novel I have been imagining for years since I was a kid. It evolved a lot. It's still not finished, I probably won't finish anyway. I'm just hoping it would be a masterpiece but deep down, I know it's just trash. It's probably boring and only I would like to read it since I made it. And working on it on and off for years won't make it better, I'm just wasting my time on trash. Just because I've worked on it for years doesn't mean it will turn out as something remarkable and a masterpiece

@@onegaimatte1845 I know I’ve never read it but I feel like you’re underselling yourself. I’m sure it’s much better than you think it is. Seriously😁

Best sellers are often non fiction. Give it a go ! I’m INFP too 😊

Hey man, Imma tell you one thing, very easy: Keep it simple first. For real. For example, try first to write short texts, tales... or even small texts where you try to summarize one big idea.. What I'm telling you here is that if you want to make something big like a novel you have to go back and playing small. The INxP quadrant takes that personally haha, but it's the goal anyways, it's the Si goal

SAME. I'm really interested in learning how to papier mache (which is weird, I know), but I've watched every video on YT about it, read absurd amounts of blogs, learned its history, have regurgitated all this info to every person I know, and have gone so far as to purchase the supplies, but they sit there staring at me... Laughing at me... Taunting me... ETA: However, I do sew and embroidery and quilt!!! It's totally a skill you'd love if you started small (at least that's how I started).

I whole heartedly agree!

I know, actually doing things often enough to get good at it is BORING! Currently I’m becoming a master blueberry farmer and accomplished tiny home builder, without ever having done either of course and probably never will (INTJ)

Hey, that's my life you are divulging. 🤣

Ditto!

that cound be the title to any video that mentions the personalities inferior functions tbh hahahhahah *cries*

Indeed. As an esfp, I've been mistyped as the other 3 possible options of the stack until I had a catharsis that I am actually an esfp. And that I have to stop torturing myself, punishing me in my mind, because I have this cycle of having a big future plan, step by step, and not being able to follow it because I deviate from the path and because I am not a robot (we have the se-te loop turning us into workaholics too). So, when I finally acknowledged that, and got self aware, I turned it into a strength. "Caminante no hay camino, se hace camino al andar" - Antonio Machado My best try at translating it: "Walker there's no path, the path is made as you walk"

I agree, I was brutally roasted with my obsession of routines.

@@Epic_shipper1000 ISFJ? I laughed so hard and nodded my head profusely.

"perpetually at the brainstorming stage" was a bit of an oof, lol

I believe in people who make timestamps supermacy

Literaly a hero

Thanks but, I already saw the entire video :(

Thank you very much, the world needs more people like you

Thx :)

This 😭 I work very hard to get myself out of the loop and take action. My ENFP friends help me so much

Me too.

It actually sounds like INTP's stuff. INTJ are too determined for it.

@@user-vt8zu8gl1t Yes, as an INTJ i see no problem in making plans and executing them. But the planning part is the most difficult one

My husband is an INTJ and it drives me crazy that he looks at every single possibility and how it can go wrong or right, then just sits there for a few weeks like a statue. I’m a planner, and I like to check off boxes, but I hardly ever take the first step. I need him to decide on a plan or at least agree with what I’m set on, but it doesn’t happen that way very often 😂

Fr 😭

Get yourself an INTJ. My husband is an INTJ, and he has helped me so much to put my ideas into action. INTJs are my favorite personality type. They are just awesome people and deeply misunderstood. They are loyal, passionate, and loving people. They just don't show those emotions unless they deem you worthy of them lol. I always say they are sort of like INFPs on the inside. We value a lot of the same things... we just express those values differently. I'll stop gushing, but I'm telling you an INTJ will change your life for the better :)

That’s why I love ENTJ’s

@@bunny_0288 thanks for sharing your experience, I was looking for this because I want to know what type of personality is best for me, as an INFP I have several (and good) ideas developed in my mind, but I never carry them out because the practical part costs me a lot. For example, I've already written about 4 songs and I'm on the fifth (at this rate I'll have an album in no time); my parents love them and they tell me that they are genuine, beautiful, and I should share them because they would help people, but I never set them to music or recorded them, I don't think I have a good voice or know enough about music, so they are there, just inside my notebook . But now I know who I could become productive with.

same

while reading this I was like, wait- a married INTP? I didn't know that was possible, and then you said you are one too and everything started having sense again xd

I wonder how you get together

INTP and INTP? Yooooo this is the first time i ever heard this!

I’m married to an INTP too. He’s always inventing things in his head, but doesn’t do anything about it. Years later, we’ll see his “invention” on the market.

I can relate. Lol I've been writing a fictional book for five years and constantly add on to what I have created. It just never feels ready. I constantly shift, change, rewrite, and erase the world always finding something new to add.

Or we could just wing it. -INTP

Or we could make a good enough plan and DO IT NOW, instead of wasting time. 😈 -ENTJ

Woow I only have plans like A-G, (like the piano keys) infj, they were driven mostly by worries of the worst.

If you don't plan properly you could die.

Plan for likely scenarios, plan for worst case scenarios (usually done in opposite order for me), then go and hope for the best! The overthinking may reduce some stress, but usually just wastes time, as the ENTJ put it. Stress of 1 event in your life vs time you have left of your life (in your current age range too).

As an ENTP when I get into something sometimes I will fall into a bizarre hyper fixation on one small aspect of the interest as a whole. The obsession isn’t really useful or practical but when it happens it’s all I can think about when I feel like exploring the topic. So naturally the ideas going around my head nonstop that are impractical and not useful I definitely can relate with

Same lol

Ah, yes. Some of the ideas would take 200 hrs to implement, but 5 seconds to use. All for a simple reason of simplifying a 5 hour task into 5 secods. (worth it)

Yea same

Agree

relatable aahhhhhh

And if you do get to the point of putting your work out there that you have made painstakingly perfect for everyone to admire, and then don't get the immediate accolades you feel it deserves, it causes an almost existential crisis and downward spiral about your own worth. I'm married to an ISTP that I have to talk off the ledge pretty often when he doesn't realize that marketing and networking have a purpose. 😂

I'm glad I'm not the only ISTP allergic to publicity

I've learned this from another youtube artist. If an idea came to you, that is special. Only you could put that into the world, because the idea came to you specifically. Only you could put out that vision to the world. The artist take it as like a moral responsibility. Get it done right away at the moment the idea came, because ideas come and go. I was an infp, now I am an infj. I must say I have some frustrations of not putting out ideas when I was an infp because I was more passionate back then than now. I was more inclined to my own feelings that it touches people sometimes. Just let it out, you have something that others do not have.

@@katnipkatnips that's so sweet and beautiful 🥺 thank you~

For me it’s just procrastination. I planned to spend today working on my children’s book. Instead I searched the internet while watching t.v. all day. It’s evening now and I’m eating pretzels and watching the news while typing this, vowing I’m going to do better tomorrow. I know I have talent and I could do something awesome but I have to get to it. Any INFP’s find an answer to this?

@@kathyann9643 I was an infp. Infj now idk why the change I don't understand that yet, but here's what I do to get things done: I know it doesn't work for everyone but if you want to take a piece and ignore what doesn't work for you, that's fine. I make a small to do list before starting. Don't freak out. It can be done. Just make it simple, scribly, the goal is to write to dos just for the day. I know you want to do a lot because there's lot of ideas but what you can do to really produce is deduce the choices. At least for the day. If you wanna do more, that's a back up plan. Or if you wanna wing it, have a top goal for the day that's non negotiable. Don't be too hard on yourself by putting in the pending to dos on the single last day. Future goals/ inspirations to explore can be written at the back of like say your notebook. I have a notebook of just for the dos/ideas/concepts (put it in one place so when you run out of time for a great idea, it's easy to come back than looking for notes), the other one for the ideas exploration, sketching/ writing- for the draft. Then just polish the draft for "the piece" version. How I think about it, what bare minimum is forgivable for today? Goal to do - 70% of the plan. It works because usually infps have great ideas and vision but they can be perfectionists and get frustrated when outcome is not the same as the idea. I got this 70% learning from youtuber struthless - he's a comic book artist. Hopefully it helps. On the other side it's a shame ideas can't be seen. I know some of them it matters really well and resonates with you. Some infps can just put it out and not have a care how weird it is.

@@katnipkatnips I’ve had some success with a reward system. For ex., if I get the closet cleaned out, then I can paint the picture I’ve been wanting to do. I just have to figure out a way to apply this to something I enjoy doing but procrastinate getting started. Once I start I’m usually okay.

this sounds wonderful :)

I am INFJ (w/ some INFPness) and was curious what personality type I might do well with and was thinkin' about the ISTP - love what you shared.

Lol, I'm an INFJ married to an INTP (so a bit different) and my husband gets all talkative and excited discussing new lesson plans and experiments, or new tabletop RPG plots he plans on running ^^

@@emilyharvey4930 It's weird how there's almost this childlike glee when they're talking about stuff that interests them. I love INTPs, btw!

That's a typical ISTP at it's happiest.

Good for you! Best of luck :)

i'm an enfp too and i've had the same problem, gearing up so much for the starting line it feels like ive finished the whole race before i've even moved, how are you handling it tho with taking actual steps like are you just forcing yourself to sit down and accomplish smth tangible or are you going about it differently? all my best wishes regardless tho!

@@Shiri_Yam Thank you!

@@ros.an. I'm mainly pestering myself to just continue with what I've been doing. It's easier to continue once I take a look at how much has actually gotten done. If I could do that, I can do more. I draw from my potent desire for something to exist and use that to make the thing take shape. Believe me, the feeling of earned accomplishment is much richer than the feeling of a fantastic idea in and of itself.

ENFP here, I've been making videos in KZfaq for awhile now, and there's this weird pattern: I have a great idea for a video(A), let's make it and post it! Then few hours later making the *start* of the vid, oh maybe in another vid(B) we can have smth like that! Oh maybe the characters from (A) can appear in vid (B) oh maybe I can have another vid (C)... Now I have a bunch of unfinished projects and vids on the list lmao

Same

Way to break out of the un-helpable INFP stereotype!

That would be my ideal job,though I don't know if my art would be good enough for that

Oh what a dream

THIS EXISTS?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I googled it. I now have concept art school (a 1 year program costing about $50k) on my list of fun things to do when I'm rich. (I have a 5 year plan to get rich. Real estate.) - ENFx

@@heathertoomey7068 well for when you are rich you might as well learn another language, and comme to Europe where you can have concept artist formation for 5k ahah (what i'm going to do)

What a nice career path

That's a sweet comment. I also want to go to Italy someday. We can be jealous of his trip together lol

@@gongoozleriam9783 Hopefully he'll share some videos of his time there and let us see! :)

is his cat even alive?

as an italian (esfp btw) i can promise you won’t regret visiting my country, everything is beautiful except for the politics unfortunately :,)

me from Italy: 👀😁

agreed. my fields of study in college were biology with an IT minor. spent 12 yrs as a programmer and am still a GIANT science geek in my spare time. high five! 💯🙋‍♀️

That's so true as an infp I am truly fascinated about science and math and am just so tired of being told I should be fascinated with the arts and languages they are just so boring i am like the worst at art and languages, I wish people could stop niching us down to a type bcos we are infps and more

I like STATS ❤

Yep pretty much that explains it all, an ENFP here, our dom and inf functions r the same, i like the fact that u can quickly pick up the pattern (thanks to Ne), anyways dw about the fact that u struggle to achieve ur wanted structure, if there's a thing am sure about it's that we r capable of better using those functions the more we mature and gain experience in life, but maintaining a discipline is a lot harder before reaching our thirties.. it needs a lot of work that consumes our energy, am always envying Si users 😢 but hey a world without intuitives would be disastrous right?..

You basically just summed up what each of us is obsessed with ,not just in our goal seeking and dreaming behavior but even the qualities in other poeple that puzzle us and attract us and even that we our selves project when we try to awkwardly" act cool" and be attractive , but there is a weird dynamic I am sensing ,is that while some are obsessed with their inferior functions with in lifes they might reject it and even devalue it in other poeple, take me as an enfj for example, I always tell poeple that all the help I am doing is for me and me only ,it's the can you all be happy and healthy so I can move on with my life ,so my mind can finally take a break from you all and think about me for once , I always have these self improvement plans stacked up ,this hobbies, and then someone fail their exam and I am like wait I gotta start doing their share of house work so they can have more time to recover and study , i IDIOLIZE the poeple out there that seems like they got life under control,I mean who doesn't but they don't have to be all that successful or rich ,they just know what they want ,how they want it ,actually on their way of achieving it and most importantly they want it for them selves and they are entitled to do so cause it's their one chance in life and they have the right to live ,but then I go around labeling poeple as self focused, centered ,entitled and even selfish ,and I am like if your existence doesn't do others any good by any means then why do you even exist, I whole heartedly believe them both so I fall into this weird belief that helping others is somehow gonna get just me enough permission ,allow me to feel entitled to do something for me ,so yeah this probably sounded weird and out of nowhere and just me rephrasing your perfectly well put article into this personal repetitive monologue but yeah you should write a book about this

Totally agreed!

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Yes though there are some major obstacles when the two Fi clashes and the INTJ starts to try to Te with the ENFP about how their Fi is not what *should* take priority. Also good luck getting the INTJ out of their perpetual planning spiral over and over and over again so that it lines up with the ENFP's goals without being manipulative or pushy. They do work really well together but I think it is more of a project by project basis where clear cut goals can be agreed upon before entering the project rather than say a romance that needs imo flexibility depending on the events that occur to last. The ENFP consistently being told their Fi is not important will drain them.

I actually think INFPs pair better with the INTJ... but I'm extremely biased because that's what my husband and I are. He helps me make my ideas and dreams into a reality, and I help him to be a little more spontaneous and have more fun in life. But, since we're both introverted, we enjoy similar activities so it's much easier to convince him to spontaneously go on a picnic with just the two of us where it's quiet and we won't be bothered. I would never try to spontaneously drag him to a concert lol. That doesn't appeal to either of us, but I could see an ENFP getting frustrated by the more quiet and orderly life. I think INFPs are really adaptable and are more likely to compromise and work with an INTJ than an ENFP would. Now an INTJ that is closer to the middle on I/E scale may be different. My husband is an extreme introvert. I don't see him pairing well with any Extravert at all.

@@bunny_0288 I would think the Fi clash would be worse with the INFP/INTJ match but you, also I would think, help him out with that Se of his More too because the ENFP loves to go experience things but they also trust that they are able to come up with on the fly how to deal with anything that comes up so why plan in detail when what happens determines the best plan?.... and that is frightening to the INTJ.

Idk why someone would hide it, I personally dont

I feel this comment in my bones, fellow INTJ.

@@combat_tournament nice to be able to relate, isn't it?

@@ggggia 100%

Just make sure that you don't research it so long that you lose the opportunity to go. Some places take years to research, and by then, the place has changed, you have changed, and maybe the world has changed. A lot of people were planning international trips for 2020. Notre Dame is burned out. Don't lose an opportunity by procrastination.

@@edennis8578 That's why you set a tentative date so there's a deadline for all that research.

I feel you! I have said this same sentence a million times now😂 I wish there were more hours in the day!!!

I've said that phrase more times than I can count - "If only I could live long enough to learn everything I want to learn."

I also said it in my head 😅

I am a INTJ and for 50 years had a best friend INFP, it worked out so very well. That is until 2 years ago and politics raised its ugly head and we went our separate ways due to irreconcilable differences in that area. Such a shame to let go of my last friend.

​@@cellgrrl I am so so sorry that happened to you. I think it's such a shame that politics has gotten to a point where it divides people who love each other. My husband's family was torn apart because of politics. The liberal side of the family refuses to have anything to do with the conservative side. My family is split. Half liberal and half conservative, but we don't let it affect our relationships. We all love each other and care about each other and we agree to disagree. I hope that perhaps one day y'all can reconcile

Infp too. Ideas never explored enough, never enough research and maybe even not enough education to share ideas or expect to be taken seriously. 😣

@@patriciarose2342 I am an ENFP working with an INFP at the University with the thesis project. I have prepered it by setting a lot of goals that has to be met before we can start analyzing new ideas. Our work hours are so structured, and we work 9:00 am every morning setting all the goals for the day. It is so so so exusting but at the same time so fullfilling to see have much closer we are getting to our degree.

@@1lymydog I'm and ENFJ too and I feel just like you. Everyone thinks I'm an introvert, and I feel that I am like this sometimes, but I'm genually an extrovert. I just need to be confortable around people to act extrovert, and it happens when I fell people are confortable with me. This is horrible and I hate it. I always need their reassurance for everthing. I'm continually trying to deal with it

@@1lymydog Yesss, that's exatcly what it is!! I've looked for it in the internet, and you said everything. Whatch a video called "shy extrovertes" from psych2hgo (I can't send the link here). Just because you're extrovert, it doesn't mean you can't be shy

If you want to work on this, but like, on hard mode, you could marry an INTJ like I did 😂 😭 "Honey, sometimes I just need a little bit of encouragement or validation." ... "So, you're saying you need me to tell you ... obvious things? ... Why?" 😑

Yeah evo psych is interesting and can help explain many of our actions. A lot of people like rebecca watson are trying to discredit it though. Definitely a bit contentious with certain people. Edit This dude called 'myles powers' made a good video on it.

@M A me neither. I have a few friends from high school I talk to online but they are such incredibly different people that I keep my distance from them. Making friends is hard enough for most people, and even harder when you’re INTJ.

Everyone likes isfjs ^^ I think you kinda have to - they're just too nice

@@legasius9358 sry to be like that but nope, I know a lot of ppl who hate them LMAO

@@buffjesus5348 truly, this has to be the "entpest" reply I've ever read :D it even has that stereotypical LMAO at the end But yea, you ain't wrong, it's just that if I hated isfjs, I'd feel like some god's gonna strike me dead with lightning or something

I'm INTJ too and I can totally relate.

Even if I'm a INFP I can totally relate with this

I can teach you how to dance in two steps 1) Everyone is looking at your hands and not your feet btw 2) Dont put your heels on the ground (with rare exceptions) BOOM! Your a professional dancer!

Partner dancing is the same... What is going on with the hands and arms is more important than the feet. 1) "The woman is always right " which means she always starts off with her right foot and 2) "The man always leads" which means the woman always follows what the man wants to do which is communicated through his arms and hands(mostly the fingertips) . Now you just gotta go find a partner.

@@carissahill3414 Thanks I guess :D I guess I need to become confortable doing that now tho :/

I kinda relate, as a composer. I actually love the production stage but then after it's done I can't stand it

@@alienswillcomeAWC I can't say I love the production stage. It's fun up to a certain point, but then, I just want it to be finished. I love listening to it over and over after it's done😂 I think I need a sound proof room so I don't annoy my INFP daughter. But, I listen to other people's songs over and over again as well. I'm a little bit obsessive/OCD that way. Sometimes OCD comes in handy:)

Same!

That's interesting. I'm usually an ISTJ, but I relate more to the ESTJ example in this specific video

Try speaking dialogue out loud to yourself as you write it (with the emotion and everything). It might help you get an idea of what feels and sounds the most natural.

@@TiaTam Thank you!

@@abbasturd You're welcome!

This explains the difference between INTJ and ESFP very good, I think. ESFP: Lot of energy. You never know. So why not try everything that might work. INTJ: No energy. I wanna know in advance, so I only try what is most likely to work.

@Melissa Phillis That's so cool!

Watch WheezyWaiter he's the same way so he experiments and binds himself down with scientific method thus actually finding practices that work for him Nothing wrong with being a breath of fresh air even for yourself tho 🤓

hi! could you talk more about that? I'm an enfj and what you said is so exactly my infp friend too

INFP here. I'm too selfish, I could never do that.

As an INFP, I gotta admit that I always want to do that, but I never do because of the fear that other people will find my ideas stupid, cause I know it will make me doubt myself and my abilities TuT so they always just stay ideas in the end…

In my case I just do that with ideas I know I won't be working on

@@katelovegood7961 that's a shame Kate. I have learned that lots of people have dumber ideas than I do so I don't worry about it anymore. Just step forward in confidence and fake it til ya make it. I just know I'm a bit too scattered to organize some things.

Sorry, sitting in bed sick (the only thing free at Disney is the viruses they give out as souvenirs) and also want to comment that yesterday, I watched a movie, The Alpinist (obsessed with the Alps/Mountains and all) and the climber featured was SOOOOO ESXP and it was remarkable how much your description of the type fits with the sorts of things he was saying. He seemed to think that climbing these ever more dangerous mountains was going to bring him to some specific plan or purpose but in reality he was all kinds of all over the place chasing the next experience. I was shouting at the TV a lot.

Ohh. I feel this during my jobhunt :(

Yess exactly and it's such a pain in the ass bc we never get anything done