I was first Frank

I'm just replying because it's just been one person for over 20 minutes

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INTP. In my case you're straight on the money. Lost 2 players in a blossoming campaign because of it. Love stories. And they can take quite a bit of time because they're good explanations. And the worst part is that we love those stories from other people too and tend to encourage each others, so if two INTPs meet, can bog down a group a little bit. I am purposefully not telling that 2 players story tho.

An idea for your comedy videos. The 16 personalities reviewing movies. I always like getting people's thoughts on movies from KZfaq like Jeremy Jahns and the critical drinker. I thought it would be cool to see what you could come up with in terms of what the types focus on and movies that they think is important to talk about in their review 👌

Apparently i still can't control.🤓✨

Agreed, since I'm mostly surrounded by sensors, there's a high chance that they would claim that I'm "unrealistic" or "impractical."

So accurate right...???

Sometimes it's hard to keep my mouth shut and stop thinking about other people's validation 😅

Yes!!! Every time I do I regret it for a multitude of reasons and end up being really upset but I want to share my goals/plans so it's so hard

Totally agreed!! I live for those conversations where someone tells me their dark thoughts. They give me an interesting aspect, from which I can understand the person's mind better. It's a part of getting to know each other, if you ask me. (Of course, make sure, that these kind of topics are welcome before sharing ;)) So yeah, please DON'T QUIT sharing this kind of stuff! -INFP

I was thinking the same thing! I love people's weird messed up takes on how reality works. I'm often guilty of deep diving on it so far that I actually exhaust their interest on the subject. - an INTJ

Yeah, INTJ (sometimes ENTJ but it depends on their mood), are a type that LOVES to go there with us. I love it!

This is why I love INTJs! 🥰 You guys understand that our dark thoughts aren't completely random. Thanks for taking us seriously when needed, and please stay as you are!

I originally was gonna keep this dark joke my mind conjured, to myself BUT I mentioned it's dark and asked my group of ppl for their permission to say it. It was that a poor person quite disheveled was asking for money then, with a hand outstretched and i thought it'd be funny to shake their hand. Thought. Yes, my friends laughed awkwardly, they couldn't digest it. Only one could laugh.

INFP here, people always tell me they like the way that I describe things, because they would never have noticed those details, but they’re accurate

@@carolinemeyer2062 Absolutely

This made me cry lol😅. Im so afraid of expressing myself bec i think im weird🥺. -infp

@@yhalou4526 haha be your gorgeous self. You'll be surprised, because people love authentic people!

@@carolinemeyer2062 same, as an INFP

😂

Good to have it in a KZfaq vid. It took me six years of being beaten up every day to realise that invisibility and silence are the only ways to survive.

@@helenwood8482 not in my case... I keep to myself and I'm still the target of many attacks because of it

@@erikadavis21 So am I, but less so when I avoid saying anything. We'll never be completely safe in a world full of EJ types who hate us.

I know this isn't tarot, but I hear the best Tarot readers say "Take what resonates. Leave the rest." He seems to be describing an extrovert anyway.

lol I've seen INTPs do this so many times and I love it. Go ahead, chronicle the history of your intellectual development :D

@@Multitudes_ What type are you please? I feel this strange acceptance vibe

@@louisejoel INFP :)

@@Multitudes_ yes, we're not so different

What does he do now ? Is he in cs/it ?

I have a huge problem with thatttt One time I was on a bus with two of my friends and an old man got in. He was somewhat peculiar. He reminded me if an adventurer from Peru, with a big hat and a beard. I know, it's hella stereotypical 😂. Well I badly wanted to laugh and I did so, while looking indirectly to him. He got angry and shouted at me some bad things.... I felt bad cuz I didn't mean to insult him, but it felt so natural to me to laugh at the time 😅 (I was 12 and I know I was quite old to do that). Anyways, sorry to bother you! Have a niceee day

I think It has something to do with the fact that we're bad at explaining. I'm trying to make the other person understand what I'm thinking. It just ends up falling through T^T I also try not to imitate but I end up doing it sometimes and I feel bad because it comes off as mocking which wasn't my intention

Yeah, I think I did that sort of thing a lot more in, like, middle school than as an adult...

My mom does it, but she’d never admit it. I think I don’t really do it as much as she does, but I go between INTP and INFP. And both of those he alluded to them acting like they’re the center of the world. Greaaaattt.. lol

Yeah it's really hard to control that, at least I find it very difficult. At times I think I do it to lighten the mood, maybe just to myself, specially if its a story that was upsetting to me. Though it can also be due to my imagination mixed with a lot of movies and cartoons which I pop up in my head in real life situations, and that, maybe, helps me understand the world around me better ... Or both 😵‍💫 in any case, yeah, I'm not doing it to mock or insult anyone u.u

Haha so true! 😆 - intj

Why thank you :) Have a nice one, and thanks again for taking your time to make this.

Ty bro

Quick question: which Personality type are you pls? I find those who do these time stamps incredibly helpful. This ENFJ appreciates you!

Love you for it thanks! IT ALWAYS HELP SO MUCH!

Same here, with me ( infj) and my istp sister!

Hahahhahaha

wow I like Enfp Istp relationship.. adorable..

I'm the istp there XD

Quick question. I am an ENFP married to ISTJ and it is quite interesting to see how we work through our differences. How does it work out with you being married to an ISTP? How do you work out your differences and find balance?

Oh my gosh! I was thinking the same thing! I have so many worlds in my mind that I can visit it’s hard to deal with the real one. Getting chronic fatigue syndrome, with its attendant brain fog, when I was in my late twenties didn’t help. So here I am, sixty years old (still doesn’t seem possible) and I still am trying to make myself actually work towards my dream of being a successful writer. I would say that I mean just being able to make a modest income from a blog or at least finish one of the books I want to write and recoup the cost of self publishing, but in reality I want to be a bestselling author. That’s how it looks in my mind. I think part of my problem is that I overthink things. I have a few projects I want to do that were supposed to be simple descriptions of insights I had that I wanted to share with friends from my Bible study. But I want to do things right so I had to look up some info and that led to more things to look up and it all became an unwieldy mess of ideas that would be hard to explain to others. Then all the projects felt overwhelming, and if I can’t do them right so they find a sufficient audience, what’s the point of going through the trouble to tell myself something I already know? On a side note, I’m sort of an inadvertent cat lady myself. A few years back we agreed to feed our neighbors’ outdoor cats when they were moving and couldn’t afford the deposits for all their pets. The cats were fixed so it was no problem for two or three years. Then more cats made themselves at home here and started having kittens and took over the garage, which has a dog door to the backyard. They don’t let us touch them so we can’t get them fixed or find the kittens new homes. But kittens are just about the cutest things in the world. This is what people did before they had television.

As a fellow writer I relate to this but I often lose motivation because I'm too analytical and I obsess over plot holes and out of character moments to the point I have no idea how to continue because I'm stuck in an endless rewriting phase.

Side note: I love your screen name cause I love kitties!

Same. I have this complete list of the books I'm really certain to write but after a day or two, I'd lose motivation and be like, "F*ck it."

I am an ENFJ and I relate... I read abt this in the book Ego is The Enemy and it talked abt how we get the validation when we share an idea and then we don't execute it, and I realized how much I've done that in my life... I am an open book and I am not saying that I am now this secretive person, but try to at least get to working on smt and commit to it before I tell everyone abt it, and of course that also depends on how close those people are to you, like telling ur mother abt an idea is different from bringing it up in front of ur entire class, but ye lol it is interesting and I think any type could probably relate to this, but I can see how it's more prevalent for people with strong Ni

+111

Thanks for the congratulations! However, jokes on you, i jumped over the middle and read the end and nobody can stop me

that essay with the operatic music sounds exactly like smth i'd do, i love that youtube rabbit hole of orchestral/classical/dramatic playlists with hyper specific titles, especially if 'philosopher' is somewhere in it

The congratulations lolllll SO true

enfp here. I only read the first and 2 last sentence hihihiihi

And change the setting too.

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@@HeliosimWorld absolutely. 😅

LMAO

I’m game!!

Oh my god you literally read my mind. It's a form of validation for the other person but damn dint know it came across this way!

Same here as well 🥲

relatable

Exactly, when people tell me their stories, i like to relay my own little stories to make them feel validated, but i do take away their spotlight sometimes which was totally not my intention! 😭

Lol my friend's an INTP and I know he's trying to be there to listen and relate to reassure me, but his stories are so out of context that sometimes I can't help but question their intention. But, I'm learning they don't mean anything bad, and I think that's nice of you to try to relate and not want the other person to feel judged.

Same, tbh tho I'm not exactly sure I completely understood what Frank was saying lol-

@@warriorcatkitty Yeah, it doesn't feel all that relatable, though I can see where it might be coming from, in that INFPs can sometimes feel like aliens in the world and therefore sometimes might see/portray others as alien. And also the tendency that some of us have towards acting.

Same

Same

I agree with you 100%. I didn't relate at all to what Frank said about INFPs, but the ISFP description sounds a lot more like me.

Fellow INFP here, add me to the mothership newsletter I've been waiting for it to return 🤣

Me too

I'm one of the rare ones that 'think of themselves as humans'

Mothership? Pfff ... In just going to built a hut in the woods. I do not belong here, but nature is fcking awesome lol

Same here. I sometimes have conversations with people who go on and on about pop culture, which I have little interest in nowadays. The Kardashians, Cardi B, Post Malone, etc., I couldn't care less.

@@MigGa-yu5xv INTP, those things are a form of torture for us as well. It's not just that negative fun I get on the spot, but now I got that much time less for me to enjoy life, plus the fact that THAT free time needed sleep, food and thus work to allow for it. You take an hour off of my life, but an hour of work and an hour of sleep went to support it at least. Let me waste my own damned time.

I am infamous for not seeing movies/television that everyone else has seen.

Same, I eventually had to realize that it kills conversations before they start and just leads to awkward silences. Although I do get a little kick with my Gen X friends out of being oblivious to every famous song that came out before I was born.

So much this. I'm also an INTJ who's not on Facebook or Twitter. Also female, which seems to really confuse people as my personality & interests aren't feminine.

Don't say that, INFP have a lot of interesting things inside... Just keep aware when people start to be uncomfortable...😉❤️

That is literally my exact method

Thats sad and I'm not sure if that's the right method. It's just avoiding conflict at any cost and that rarely solves anything. But ok on the other hand I get that you don't want to waste your breath in situations where your opinion probably won't be appreciated.

INFP here too. I'll talk if necessary to defend someone else or whatever, but if life has taught me anything, it's that I am very hard to like and very easy to hate, so I stay as quiet as possible and avoid interaction whenever I can. Only other INFPs understand me and a few other people. My few friends are precious, but I don't go looking for more.

@@gisa.amorim The moment we say anything other than "Hello." Which is why many of us don't

i feel this exact same way. Sometimes i also feel like if i tell them and fail then it would be so upsetting. I’d rather succeed in private and surprise everyone

@@ngndnd Oh my goodness, yes!! I took a course to get certified in the job I have now and I told like a handful of people in case I wasn't able to pass it! Then everyone was shell shocked - especially my old job when I turned in my notice, haha!

Very well said!! As an INFJ I've also noticed this happen with things like movies, shows, and music. If I like a song and someone else trashes it, I subconsciously start to like it less.

@@TheKarateKidd Oh my goodness, yesss!! My husband loves to pick on me, so sometimes he will say something that I like isn't cool or catchy, just make it seem lame, and it's not that he really thinks it's lame, he just knows that it gets to me...but unintentionally on his part, I actually start disliking that song, movie, and even food sometimes, lol. I keep having to remind him that it makes me not like the things I once liked! Lol

yes, I find that it's very difficult to share dreams with others, or anything personal really, and so it is great to practice this too

I’m Muslim and we consider that evil eye, where people may be envious/jealous of you and it stops your blessings. We have certain prayers to protect ourselves from it

YEAHHHH SAME DUDE

relatable

SAME

SAME!!

To be fair our tendency to overexplain usually stems from a fear of not being understood, because let's be honest, when we don't overexplain, most people tend to have no idea why we say/do certain things, if I'm making sense

very few types listen. they usually are just waiting for their turn to talk.

That last sentence is absolute gold. Most of my friends are introverts, mbti-wise, and we do conversations well, everyone takes turns automatically and we all have a good time. When i finally got to know people who weren’t like that…well. I never thought that i (istp as well) would ever feel that i didn’t get to say what i wanted to. Was proven wrong lol.

May I ask what your interests are?

@@Shadow-zf5uc who are you asking Shadow?

Amen sister. It took me into my 20's the learn that lesson but I finally learned it. If they aren't gonna listen, i'm wasting my time, energy, and knowledge on something that could be used elsewhere.

It’s not a trick. I’m an INFP but for a long time I thought I was an INFJ because of all the videos about it being the rarest type. Also, I like realism like ISFP. So we definitely can relate. Don’t really think I can relate to any of the personality types that start with an E but I watch the whole video anyway, because I know people who might have that personality type.

Honestly, I could relate to the ISFP thing the most. Is there way that I can find out what my personality type is?

I grew up to be a risk manager and now I get paid to help people think about all the possible ways things could go wrong in a project so they can put plans in place to prevent them from happening, and they can achieve their goals; have a look into it, you might love it! - ENFP

I have an INFJ friend, and she is the only one (besides myself) to call me out

True af

As an INTJ too, it be like that. Even me sharing my ideas into the real world…people wonder what is my point or what I am doing

Oh, isn’t it a relief to be there? I was so hyper miserable in Junior and High school. Corny jokes make me laugh really hard, and I love it!

@@RendaJane It really is! I honestly love being in my thirties! I'm just so over all that garbage that used to bother me and trying to be someone that I'm just not. It's so freeing to just be myself.

@@bunny_0288 It keeps getting better. 40s and 50s are great. Except for arthritis, I am really digging my 60s too!

@@RendaJane That's great to hear!

exactly, I just want stay truth to myself

Agreed, these types possess absolutely zero filters!

I felt this way when I had to ask one of my content creator friends how to make an Instagram reel and they were shocked that I had never made one before 😂

Thanks for the tip fellow INFJ :)

Thank you for your words here ! We came to the same conclusion. Most people won't be able to help us because they won't be able to envision the plan from our perspective. They will see it through their own lens... I I got totally mistaken about my professional path for years because I lacked confidence in myself/my feelings/thoughts and listened too much what other people had to tell. Dear fellow INFJs, if you can avoid that (sometimes very costly) mistake, please do. For yourself and your own sake. It doesn't mean becoming deaf to what others can say, but don't value their judgment over yours.

Yes 🙌🏻

Omg saaaaaaaaaaaame. I didn't know other INFJs were like that too!

i really resonated with that. I do tend to talk about others than myself because I don't see myself as a main character in my own life. I however (playfully) reject your conclusion. I think we should learn to talk about ourselves just a little more than others. Maybe then we'll become the main character in our own lives :)

@@reynaldacontreras9165 but when we talk abt ourselves little bit more i tend to see people around me feels bore and i always think that they are getting the wrong idea that I'm always talking great abt myself that's why I love to listen to others which helps me how they have a look at life ig it's really our problem tho😭🤣

Love this perspective! I think I fluctuate between the two viewpoints

Reading those comments i noticed how much INFPs have a hard time overthinking and just accepting what other said to them as "wow x told me that it sucks i will never do it again, i don't want to be a bad person" or it goes like "oh so many people told me what to do you know what!? I won't do anything, no try no warm" Looks like we flee from any harm we could get, and we stop to have fun or live our lives just because "someone told me so" No one even thinks "wow you know what? Whatever what this or those people said, this person is not the whole world and the words they said aren't godlike. This person can be wrong and we should have fun, they can do anything they want and we can't? Why? Because they told us to?? I feel like both of those people will end being trapped inside themselves, without the courage nor/or the patience to being judged.

ah, that makes sense.

Painfully accurate. I’m 15 and also an intj, my mother is an intp and I swear anytime I share any sort of opinion with her she argues with me about how it’s wrong.

I'm an INFJ and I relate to that too. I just realized that I don't know how to tie a knot.

lmfao I still struggle with my Left from Right

This is most likely the same reason as to why I am always last to hear about news or event at my school...

@@chimpsimp9879 exactly my INTP sister😂😂

I get that same response from people as well when I say "I never tried it" or state "I'm not interested in doing it". It's irritating.

I know exactly what you mean. It begins to wear on you after so many times.

I feel this

@@ankhmorporkgirl5317 That’s why I stopped telling my interests with my classmates. I only tell my friends now

bleh just the sickly sweet smell of engergy drinks makes me gag.

“That’s never been done before.” “You could have said that about both Tesla the man and the company.”

I feel like someone who is an Ne user would get really excited and start throwing a million ideas at you… might exhaust and annoy you lol. I have a gathering addiction to people’s goals and dreams and love understanding the why’s.

I agree so much! I'm an ISTP and my closest friend is like an INFP of sorts and I like talking about things I'm passionate about. Things that interest me. But most of those things, my friend finds boring and confusing. I like to think WHY while she doesn't like to dig deep. So in my friend group I give advice; ironically enough, and no one wants to hear what I have to say about myself. So I just keep quiet about it cause no one cares.

@@_shad3_71 ooh same about the advice one! Though my best friend is Infp too and we share a lot of interests, so she does listen to my crazy talks sometimes 😂

@@Rita_Arya I'm trying to find out why people are hurting her or the cause of their actions while she just wants comfort...

I'm an INTJ, and I tried those social media things, and mostly got kicked off for being too blunt. I can't do Facebook because... I don't care about stupid stuff. I tried Book Clubs. Nope. Sadly, my honestly is not appreciated so I tend to shut up. Yes, I have some social relationships but few and those people do understand me.

I admire u guys so much honestly u people are great achievers...I really need tips on how to become an intj from an infj

@@sawahtb I have very similar experience and thoughts. The older I am, the less I actually care about what others think anyway. I don't want to miss out in life what I find interesting. Since I quit facebook I have more time for reading. I don't know what's going on in the world but who cares? I found so many great fictional stories instead 🙂

Yeah, I dont mind the missing out. I suffer from anxiety so less the better. The Twitters/FB etc etc...not for me. And I am better for it

Dude same, We went back to in person school and there was an entire base of memes and references that I just completely missed. I caught up eventually but i don’t understand how I could have been so disconnected, it’s kind of impressive actually, I how completely missed like 2 years of teenage existence.

same here!

I needed this SO much. I’ve been stuck in that vicious cycle, and sensing that others may be tired of me coming back for support. I come to others, because I DOUBT I know how others truly feel. I just need to believe in myself!

ALWAYS

Are you ADHD too and a systems thinker or pattern recognizer?

Hahaha GG brother! ENFPs will rule the world !! 😂🎉🎉

Stop recognizing patterns, that's racist/bigoted/...phobic etc.

@Tsuki - Chan and we're glad you're existing, THANK YOU

SAME ^ -ISFJ

Love you isfjs, you help this messy enfp to have a little order in his life

yes, sadly this has confirmed to me that I am possibly an INTP (I'm not going to vomit further words that are not of interest to others)

@@louisejoel Lol From now on I'm gonna get a little obsessed with this Do Nots haha

@@louisejoel Buuuuuuut like… we too listen to a lot of uninteresting shit from others.. sometimes… often. I wouldn’t dwell on censoring myself too much lol

this is so good (intp trying to be more like entj)

I Know Right???

Meh, I don’t know why it would bother people for someone to use funny voices and sound effects to make a story more interesting. Seems like they gave a stick up their butt. Life sucks so ya gotta spice it up somehow and what better way to do that then to tell an epic story.

It's not just you. I don't drink either and can't understand how sitting around drinking alcohol is perceived as fun. Plus, it does not help when they act stupid or worse turn into nasty drunks when they drink to much and then try denying it, once telling them when sober. I once tried going out in a social setting (me with no alcohol taken) once to test out the theory and was utterly bored within 15 minutes and had to leave.

Nothing wrong with not using drugs although you are missing out on many great cocktails, wines, beer and food pairings. Not to mention loosening up around friends. I think the real issue though is that you don't trust yourself. The fact is you can stay in control if you want to, even in situations you've never been in before. And I think you should try people, if you know what I mean! At 25 your looks are only going to go downhill from here, so time is not on your side anymore. Your standards are likely too rigid and idealistic. Focus on having fun with a fun person, get some experience and you may find what you are looking for in an unexpected place. Good luck and do report back how it's going!

Yes, it's so frustrating explaining that to someone else. 😩

OMG THIS!!

Ohh i can relate as well, when i write something long and i am expecting a long reply but they just reply with "oh" 😐 it hurts, also use of emoji is must for me, many people don't use emojis😭.

@@infinity8982 😭😭😭 Also when I sent them like seven messages and they reply with only one or two QAQ

@@YozoraYue i can feel it😭, sometimes i just find something so interesting and knowledgeable so i share it with them and as i can't speak properly(i get stuck in between the sentences or i just keep forgetting what i should say) i have to type 4-5 long paragraphs but nobody reads it😭😭

yes, but at the end of the day I suppose it isn't say an outright good or bad thing that we're like that, honestly I feel this kind of behavior helps me a lot to complete goals, but sometimes when I look back I do realize I may have missed many things. And honestly what's even more accurate is that fact that I'll be like, "whatever, I don't need that" to whatever I've missed out on. AKA one of my joys in life is being absolutely clueless about social media and social media trends. It's really interesting insight and I'm glad I decided to take the 16 personalities test

@@mirandapoh9198 I agree (which is why I don't necessarily agree with his conclusion of suggesting we ought to keep it private).

@@johannesaskehov That's an interesting point, I'm not sure if it's architect behavior or just me but is there a point in a social interaction if you kind of try to fit in with the rest of the crowd and hide these things? I mean I guess don't keep on focusing on this one thread and don't make people feel too awkward, but if you keep masking your insecurities and this part of your personality you aren't really letting the other person get to know you that well?

Haha same I'm an isfp it took me a like 7 minute to find other isfp💀

@@sanihasaniah7343 Honestly it's so sad i can never find another ISFP in any of these videos lmao

Finally... I dont really see other isfp's comment on most of his videos. Found you

@@sanihasaniah7343 samee

Yes! I feel like this is a huge FJ superpower 😎

This has been my experience rather than not following through. It's become a point of contention with all my friends to various extents and the worst part is that I feel as though I haven't done much and my goals aren't even that ambitious or grand. Rather isolating overall.

@@windingstars Yeah, I always knew my friend was never intending on making people feel bad. He was just very intent on his plans so he thought about them all the time and therefore also talked about them a lot. But I quess I was one of the few that "got it". I'm an ENFJ, so I guess that makes sense. I'm sorry you're having troubles with your friends. Just stay true to yourself and keep the plan going wherever you want to take it.

@@SickAcousticCovers 🥲 Your INFJ is lucky to have you. I hope I find an ENFJ of my own one day.

#1 is 100% on point ~ INTP

@@Nicronomicon_The They are in my order of frequency, and the relationship is...geometric.

yes this is accurate

I think you hit the nail on the head when you mentioned empiricism. INTP are obsessed with finding the Truth in objective reality but we are also keenly aware that subjective belief in things "untrue" is necessary for a person's sanity. I am constantly being pulled between the opposing views of empiricism and rationalism and find myself sometimes being accused of flip flopping on my principles. But what do you think?

@@FutureNihilist absolutely. I still remember being driven nuts in elementary school by them telling me o couldn’t subtract 7 from 6, or the arguments in high school with the music theory kids insisting there is no such thing as Cb. I eventually realized their misconceptions were necessary for them to maintain some semblance of a working worldview, even if in both cases they were desperately “wrong.”

Fellow INFP here! I can relate to all of this 😂

That time is now... INTP 🕛

@@louisejoel Ok, so this is a bit stupid maybe, but I read up on trauma ect a lot. There is a way of dealing with emotional pain body and how to regulate it ( basically you draw on a very warm memory and use that to imagine yourself as light. Then you sit with your pain. The brain can't hold a single emotion for too long and it starts to fade in less than 30 seconds. That's it in veeeeery short ) Now I was thinking about how similar it sounds to the feeling of love ( not being in love ). We are almost all born with the ability to love. So in that case we are saved from pain by love. But not by others but by ourselfs, our own love. Now I thought religion is really just a very fancy way/ possibility of dealing with trauma that people came up with. It basically teaches things that are also taught f.e. in traumatherapy like trauma integration by giving it meaning and a place in your biography ( God has a plan, it all makes sense in the end ). Learning to feel our own ability to love ( God loves you unconditionally ). Praying and be thankful ( writing down 3 things you're grateful for and 3 things you got done ) and so on. Religion is just a very ancient way of psychotherapy!!! I wonder if an INFJ came up with it 🤔 and what that person would feel knowing how many died from it.

I think it's more that he's saying to avoid being that person who shoves a stick into the spokes of the conversation by saying "I never heard of that". Like, everyone is talking about the Xman movies, and one person says "what's that? Never heard of it and I don't care to." And then the others don't know what to do. Are they offending this person by continuing the conversation? Should they explain so that this person can participate? Is this person judging them for caring about frivolous things?

Yeah, i got the same vibe as @ER -- that he's not really referring to modesty in not knowing about a subject so much as that weirdness that comes when you openly reveal that you've never played tag as a kid, owned a radio, cleaned a toilet, [insert random thing that every normal human has experienced].

I do this to my partner all day. >.< I also share stuff on FB for myself to find again after I forgot I liked it. :)

Intjs tend to be low in play energy... hence low on socializing and flirting. It occasionally comes out around other N doms like entp or enfp but normally we forget time exists and are focused on what we wanna do.

We all have different priorities. I really dislike when people get judgmental about it. When I hear, "Omg, why don't you [thing]?" It's like, "OMG, why don't _you_ stfu and leave me alone?!" Perhaps you will eventually meet someone that fits in with your plans/projects/whatever. Until then, don't sweat it. Relationships are not a thing you just jump into because other people expect you to. You have to want it or it's not fair to yourself or the other person.

Same 27 intj & single since birth...and when people ask me why, i honestly dont know what to say. While i didnt used to care, at this point in life, i am embarassed about it, thinking sonething is seriously wrong with me.

I didn't find my INTJ female spouse until I was in my 40's. 100% worth the wait! Oh the stories I have about dating other (incompatible) types!!!!! You're on the right track.

@@mikesmith1181 You don't know that he's on the right track just because things worked out for you. For one thing, you were trying to date, he is not so he's not even in the game.

Yeah I’ve milked a lot of stories dry so I hardly tell any anymore bc no one’s interested lol

I'm going this way too, it leads to less judgment

Hence our all black outfit... always on trend! :)

I have Also Seen That, How we used to say that INTJ Are Usually Robots Despite Tert Fi, In that way also We ENTJs Also Can Be deprived of Se, But We Could Have More Experiences Compared To INTJ And INTJs Could Have More EQ than us. Respected Bothwise

As an entj idk but if we don’t do that. We would be the only one who always take the blame when it is a teamwork not even solo.

I think it is because of the intuitive thinking "N". Because intuitive people prefer to think at the 30,000 foot view, when we talk about going on a diet, we feel like we've already accomplished it lol

As an Esfp,I understand ya :)!

ENFP accurate - no one gets the connection or plot

The ISFJ one is accurate and made me laugh. Don't worry I learned to control my impulses to tell the teacher we had homework.

@@nady2296 lol

Same here. I'm that one ISTP who can't do anything 🤦‍♀️ ...yet.