Josh me keh dia ya ispar amal bhi krte ho aap?

@@maishayartonahi Amal karta hun isliye keh diya. Jo sahi hai wo sahi hai

@@ritwikdubey9246 Mtlb saccha pyar hai aur gharwale ni maan re to gharwalo se rishta tod do par pyar nibhao?

@@ritwikdubey9246 yaar indian parents bhut blackmailing hai bhai. 😭

You r ri8. Parents ke kehne pe mene arrange marriage ki aaj meri marriage failed hogayi and my parents are against it. Like LOG KYA KAHENGE AGAR HUM SHADI SHUDA LADKI KO KESE GHAR ME RAKHE. i regret i believed them. And today i m suffering n nobody is supporting me. Take stand fr urself

India hai 😂

I'm 20 and realising the same thing now🙁

Am here

Yes true I don't like judging people but my mom is very judgemental

abba nahi manege😂😂😂3 idiots

They will be like haan..... kya bol rhi thi dubara bolna 🤣🤣🤣

@@sonaljain0232 and you are like....ab fir se bolne ki himmat nahi😋

Best of luck 👍

@@ashishchoudhary4451 hamare abba sunte hi koot dete hai

Arrange marriage is part of patriarchal society because they don't consider women choice and in arrange marriage women still judge on primitive criteria and women is the only one that has to leave their home on the other hand men are allows to stay with there parent which is an unfair and major cause of female foeticide because the parent prefer one that can stay with them, our selfish Indian parents that see profit and loss even between their kids and treat them like property and give nothing in property to their daughter and which make women depends on their husband or someone else to have shelter on their head that is why women after domestic abuse not able to leave home because they don't have their own, to begin with because they didn't get it from any side

Stand for yourself You should be capable enough (financially as well as mentally) to take charge of your life even when things go wrong. If your parents can go to the extremes and say you are not my son and daughter (like they just disowned you) then why would you ever want to live with such parents ? Work hard so you can earn well and can stand alone(or with your partner if things between you are going well )if this situation comes to you. Try to sort things out with your parents so you han live happily with them (everyone wants to live happily with their parents) But if nothing works you need to be cabale to Move out if your parents are still clashing with you Otherwise you will have to live an opressed life until your parents are alive and honestly I saw someone personal facing this issue and he is very helpless as his parents runs a private school and they are rich but his parents interfare in his personal and married life too much but he just can't say anything as he is MSc from physics and he will get paid around 40k and his wife is MSc chemistry (with no experience in teaching) so she will get a pay of around 20k and with this salary they can't live the rich lifestyle they are living right now so they just listen and obey to their parents ( and tbh deep inside they are waiting when their parents will pass away(

@@bhumikkumar2274 60k is not enough for your friends 😵😵 strange ...

no didn't said that they can't live with 60k I said they can't live that rich lifestyle that they are living now. The girl have xuv500 and the boy just bought a fortuner last year. They spend so much money on clothes,shoes,watches,handbags, perfumes etc... when they go for shopping And they also give expensive gifts to each other on birthdays and ring aniversary or wedding anniversary When they go for some celebrations they book the whole cafe to celebrate The boy use expensive phones ( in January he bought s21 ultra) and already have 2 iphones The boy have two sisters one of them is IPS which is a very elite job itself and socity pays a lot of respect to her and other is doctor (radiologist) and earning around 4 lac per month So in short their parents never restrict them to spend money but they do some small stupid things and always want to show that they are the incharge. For example The boy and girl both loves to eat nonveg food but they are not allowed to eat nonveg (so whenever they get a chance to go out they eat nonver without telling their parents). Another example the gir wants to teach chemistry but they don't allow her to do so .... They want her to stay at home and do nothing.

In short I am saying they have two options Work their ass off and still live a middle class life but BE FREE Or to live a comfy and rich life but get treated kind of enslaved

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So nice of you. Thanks a ton!

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Thanks for sharing this ❤i hope you come out of this

My parents have made my life miserable , they are not ready to understand relationship ..i am suffering emotional trauma

Lol🤣🤣but so true... 🔥🔥🔥

Kisiko serious health issue hai to parents ne kya karna chahiye...

It won't help if your father is judge or advocate 😒😒

@@ashwinikhobragade1164 ask doctor take counselling 👍

​@@gogetter7371sarcasm tha .isme judge kyu ghusa raha Bhai . 😅

My pleasure 😊

Yes. Caste is a main issue now a days. That ruins your mental peace. I don't understand what the hell is this.

Love you too ❤️

My mother has the most genuine reason, my gf's house is not too far from my home. So she says she wants a daughter in law who should be from a far away place. This is the most stupid reason I have heard.

@@arnavsharma4922 that's a very lame reason. My sis got married last year and she lives only 2KM away from us. try to change your mom's mindset or why don't one of you move out to some other city?..... sounds weird but you can try if you want

@@bhumikkumar2274 Yeah I will surely move out to a different city. I have already planned to buy a flat in some other city. BTW, thank you for sharing your point of view.

Girls ko yahi dhyaan rakhna hai ki boy reserved ya backward mindest ka na ho . In laws should be like open minded and only glued to their business . I have many mother I law dancing ,making reels with daughter in law .wearing clothes of daughter in law for videos or photos or sometimes really going out in western clothes with daughter I laws .and sometimes I have also seen mother I law scolding daughter I law for wearing even jeans or sleeveless clothes . In such cases you can't fight with your mother I law of husband takes his mother side and scold his wife only .so it is better to know each and everything about the family of man . Only financial condition is not enough . Because my mother is victim of such husband and mother in law .my father has enough money to live a luxurious life .but he only invests money and money and saves the money and don't spend money on my mother .my mother doesnt even has a purse or bag or proper smart phone . She only gets one saree in diwali every year . And she is treated like a slave doing household chores . She lost her health doing household chores but my father never tried to hire a maid . So never try to marry a man who is just financially strong but is from conservative family and who is miser . My mother couldn't take divorce because her father told her to adjust with my father and she had to live like a housemaid until we got our job .now we give money to our mother.but it took 27 years for her to bear my father and his unnecessary responsibilities . So never ever marry such man . Also try to become self dependent before marrying and don't leave your job even after marrying . Only your career can save yourself . No one will .own fathers don't accept their daughters due to social stigma and mentality . I have seen lots of families and families of my friends and relatives .

Always welcome!

Can change their opinion with interactions???

Won't help. Just ek kaan se sun kar dusre se bahar nikalo They are anyway too stubborn. So you navigate your way by not paying so much heed

@@zanybhr7696 nope ... Tum agr baat kroge unke perspective ko smjhoge tw shayad koi raasta nikl aaye .. But agr phir bhi nhi baat bn rahi tw u can do whatever u want ...

My parents also had many drawing room conversations on their personal issues and my mother always use to involve me in that. I just stand there like a referee and I have to see that any of them don't cross limits in tearms of what they are speaking...... Whenever any of them started to go out of their limits I used to calm them down. All debates/conversations they did without my presence always ended up in a handoff and assault (that's why I even told my mom many times not to argue with dad when I am not there as if the matter heats up and they start fighting physically my mom always took more damage then she does obviously as a women she is physically less stronger than my dad...... And I hate my dad for doing this cuz he is misusing his power😟) My dad is very cruel when he is angry and he becomes a litteral animal😭

@@bhumikkumar2274 u can advice anyone anything until and unless they want to change. U are not responsible for others behaviour 👍more power to ur mom and you

I tried to convince him countless times .... And I know he we never change so I don't even try nowadays. When I tell him to go to a physiologist with me he just straight out say no. A few more years till my graduation completes and I give my PG exam As soon as I will get resedency during my post graduation and will start getting paid I'll move out of this house along with my mom (cuz she don't deserve te be with my dad..... He is an absolute headache) And god if you think that I am doing wrong with my dad then forgive me but I am not changing my mind now. Deep inside I want him to be normal as I have a lot of favours from him (especially finencial help) and afterall he is my father But again what he is doing is wrong and my mother is getting mentally frustrated day by day as she is living with him. And if I have to choose one of my oarent .... I'll choose my mother anyday 🤧

@@bhumikkumar2274 I'm not judging you don't worry

Thanks for that But tbh I don't mind even if you judge me That's one of the greatest advantage of internet that you can discuss anything sensetive as you don't know anyone personally I do also have a a couple of friends and one of them is very close to me but I still feel awkward to discuss these issues with her.

Very soon!

Keep watching!

Happy to help

Yes sir please make a video on it

Thank you so much 😀

Apne Bharat desh me aisaa he hai 👍

@@SantoshGupta-jy1wu yaa 🥰

Yes right ..98percent agree ...ho jate ...lekin caste same hai to cent percent

I don't think so....n tumhe kaise pta ??

@@paras3849 Mera do dost job k baat intercaste marriage kiye hai

your parents happiness is NOT your responsibility. That is the emotional blackmail from them working within you and now you’re a product of a toxic mindset. Your parents have each other. Your mom is your dad’s wife and your dad is your husband’s wife. They should fulfill each other. RESPECT is important, correct, but it is not a one way street. If you don’t do what you love because shout parents don’t support you and you must RESPECT them, then no, there is no respect anywhere. They disrespect you and what you want, and you are not respecting them, you’re just scared of getting them upset.

U dont owe ur parents anything. U only owe to ur children.

True😣

Mam or sir whoever u r first stop calling parents selfish their could be conflict of ideas but they never want bad for their kids 2. This is the system established long back that girls have to leave their home parents couldn't do anything in it even if they do society don't let them live 3. Parents try to give as much as assets they have to girls in the form of dowry and in the rituals that follow 4. Girls should study make a career then nobody can put their opinions on u....no one can harass u education is empowerment 5 u are the most ignorant one if u call parents selfish they are the one who do everything for their kids selflessly u will realise this when u will face the actual world

@@tanu5786 yeah for these people parents love are called true love only when they allow you to do love marriage Herein my colony a father donates his own kidney for his daughter because his daughter kidnies had been damaged by some fungus when she was 20 and now when she is 27 and asking for interfaith marriage he is denying but does it means his love for his daughter was never a love ? He does not donates his kidney if he do not love her but as of above statement(which a person has written) he is selfish because he do not allow his daughter to marry

Girls r selfish nowadays...they don't help their parents after getting good job...they hardly call their parents...

@Manvendra Deopa I hv so many examples...don't say idiot...mind ur language...

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Haha😂😂 same here

Vo bilkul sahi bol rahi rahi hai

Typical indian parenting with very conservative approach And I can assure with my personal you this also happens with boys Sometimes I used to talk to my female school classmates and when my mom found about that she gave me a wierd look.

Just go and talk to them They will try their best to avoid it but you have to drag them down to have a conversation

U r defenetely below 18 immature teen. I bet

@@user-jc1km1qv1m i m not immature bro.. my age is 16

really brother you are mature and smart thinking person. God bless and fulfiling you all wishes.

@@parteekkumar4923 thanks bro...🙂

I don't think that's true Seriously who slaps an adult ? My dad last slapped me when I was 14. And now nobody can do this again to me.

@@bhumikkumar2274 it's not the same in some family ✌️also when you're a girl

@@mohanapriya9581 Be strong..... and never forget what you are feeling now so you don't treat / allow someone else to treat your kids like this this situation will get better generation by generation BTW I am very curious about your name is that your real name? (cuz. it is combination of 3 different names)