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They enjoy your company but don’t want to commit. What should you do when they like you, but not enough for a relationship? Here’s the answer.
Jo writes, “Dear Susan, after sex on date 2, I got very attached to a man (we were acquaintances). He treated me well and he likes me but "not enough YET" he said. This triggered my insecurities, and we had several arguments over 4 more dates, until he said we were making each other sad and needed 1 month break or stop. I chose to stop and go No Contact. But now I am stuck to hope and cannot move on. Help*TY”
When a person enjoys your company but won’t commit, they love the game but refuse the responsibilities of a relationship. They’ll take the upside as long as there’s no downside for them to endure.
For anyone seeking committed partnership and something meaningful, a ‘no strings attached’ or ‘FWB’ rarely works. Getting stuck in this loop of mixed messages can be confusing and hurtful, leaving you in a state of emotional limbo and unable to move on.
Recognize the signs of a person who refuses to commit. It is what it is. Do what’s best for your emotional well-being.
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00:00 Introduction
01:23 Why Pace Matters
01:55 Observe Them Before You Pedestalize Them
03:02 When 'Hope Is Harmful'
04:06 Why They Don't Want A Relationship
05:28 Setting Yourself Up For Success