It DOES feel like finding a job

“Just go outside bro” “Just touch grass bro” “Just be yourself bro” People say phrases like this as if it’s some groundbreaking discovery. Have you considered maybe the reason a lot of men withdraw from society is because they tried to network and failed miserably? Only an insane person does the same thing over and over again and expects a different result. If you want a gf, I recommend go someplace you actually are *respected* and have a tight knit community. That is what you should really be looking for, that is the foundation that is missing in a lot of young men’s lives, not a job or a gf. If you can’t find that community, then you need to travel until you find a place where you belong.

How to avoid the friend zone: don't be her friend.

I'm giving up finding girlfriend I just moved on my own life.

I think having a job, a place to live, income, is all for nothing if you dont have a family to build. Youre just drifitng and surviving through life alone.

Bro were not Gen X. Were Zoomers. Were in a different era right now. Meaning were living in different circumstances. Having a wife and kids with a white picket fence is a thing of the past. We must accept this or choose to live a life full of hope and cope.

These guys who come out talking in their cars are actually talking to themselves, and setting a camera just makes them feel less crazy. Everything that he just told us is something that he struggles to grasp himself.

Plain and fucking simple, social media.

We are too picky, superficial, extra shallow, judgmental & just fkn mean. Truth is we complain about finding a girlfriend, wanting attention of someone not interested in us. But not the girl who would like us, just isn’t as pretty as we want. So we never find her, till too late. And we’re bitter. And treat her half as good and not so into loving her.

blackpill reality and shows human nature that looks are everything

I Just feel like here in América is so lonely man, I literally have no friends.

I enjoy being alone

Honestly I was told the lie that relationships are a two way street at a young age. Men literally have to do everything and ive just given up.

man, you got it all figured out …with great comparisons ..it’s a doomed society.

This guy I know is 6'3"and he looks like a male model. Upon striking up a friendly conversation I found out that he was not dating anyone I was shocked but he said he found that the ladies just wanted to know how much his salary was and if they could get money for hair and nails..so he just working over time and saving his money to buy everything he wants

also 1. ) people aren't really as interested in having families as much as the past in addition to delaying having families til later. 2.) men vs women singledom are 2:1 for those under 30 this means that either more women are not actively looking for someone or they're sharing someone 3.) working hours are draining up a lot of peoples free time. if you have little to no free time good luck with the dating thing 4.) if you also don't make a lot of money.... you might as well save yourself the trouble of dating. we keep hearing this no more free dates. they want fun dates and fun cost money 5.) you can also thank relationships becoming disposable. something about them having backup guys already in the rotation just incase you don't work out or something like that. don't know if it's 100% true but i am told that relatinoships failed long before they actually leave you.

Bruh started rapping at the end 💀

i stopped hanging out with people while still in school. The future looks bleak.

I just gave up like the stress and frustration is too much. Rather be alone and look out for those people who actually matter like my family and friends. I’m only 25 and it has demotivated me to the ground ,if I were given a opportunity I wouldn’t take it.

Can’t find friends, can’t find girlfriend, can’t find new job with degree, can’t even move out of parents home now because of living crisis, I tried dating but all I found was used 304 so I gave up. I just sit at home in spare time

Most men just aren't mature enough to have a girlfriend. Women are now much more educated and make more money than men their age and the gap is continuing to get bigger. There is also a lot of shitty, abusive dudes out there.. girls have given up as well. All I can say is that you will find someone when you aren't looking. Keep improving yourself instead of obessing over women you can't even provide for. 💀

You couldn’t have said it any better. That’s exactly how things are. Spot on my guy.

You speak with a lot of truth and wisdom for being so young. One thing I would like to add is that *you* are responsible for your own happiness.

Some will say go to bars, but good people have trouble meeting other good people because were all working. Its bad people who go to bars and clubs, won’t find marriageable people there.

Hard out here being a dude, fml 😂

Internet just made the competition absurd. Average young girl has 3.000 likes on Tinder, ITS OVER. Even if you get one, will not keep it for to long

Me as a recent college grad who put himself out there plus fine tuning my social skills and still haven't found an amazing woman who likes me back(dealt with countless of rejections)

Thanks needed this.

Bro just kept speaking facts, a lot take in. But practice makes perfect fellas 🙌🏼

Thanks for the truth.

I legit stopped interacting with people in my age after I graduated from school last year

Very true man, very true

You speak a lot of truth. A lot of us need to get up and start moving. Because nobody is gonna do the work for us. Only WE can do shit for ourselves. I really understand completely of what you said in this video. A lot of us tend to be very lazy and shit like that. Its time to wake up and start doing something.

“There is someone out there for everyone” is an age old lie that I don’t even know how it’s still sold. Statistically there are slightly more men than women on the planet so some men will genuinely not have a partner if everyone had a relationship. Something I always say is that some people are destined to be alone forever and there is nothing you can do to change that fact, it’s sad and grim but it’s the reality, and it’s only getting worse with time so, all hope is cope.

Facts appreciate this

bowy spittin 🔥...

Welcome to Life in 2024 🥃🔥

I dont want a girlfriend/wife. I dont like the idea of bonding with someone finicially and living with him/her for the rest of your life and share everything you have with that person. Because the risk and cost is just too high. I want someone I can hangout with sometime, maybe going for a walk, feeding some stray cats, and share what I did today. I dont owe that person anything and she doesnt owe me anything. I want our relationship is based on the fact that we can already take care of ourselves alone, and every moment we have together is a bonus to our already fulfilling life. Maybe I will never find this kind of relationship, then I will still be perfectly fine on my own.

I’m a woman who use to search for love and that’s the biggest mistake. Also, It’s so hard to find someone to connect these days people are so picky and care about looks way too much as well. My advice is to stop searching for love. Let love come to you even if you do want to find your true love. Once I stop searching, my true love came to me. A man or a woman will come into your life, you just have to be patient.

Like in 2012 I thought it was bad.. then I realize in 2020 during lockdown figuring out narcissism.. I was made fun of and disrespected for not having friends.. now tables turned and people think I’m cool for being alone… and also someone told me my past is iconic.. my parents should never been parents

It’s easier to find a gf at a part-time job than school/college/etc. Especially if it’s a grocery store or retail outlet.

bro helping himself and others at the same time with these

Who ever see this. Get off the dating apps guys. The odds are literally stacked in your favor to spend as much money as possible. Just work on yourself. Focus on money

You spitting truth brother! Shoot your shot! Just be yourself and don’t give them everything right away. Make me laugh! I married my HS Sweetheart but everyone I know now have met their significant others on a dating app. Just the way it is now.

Honestly this advice is not only for men, because I am learning and taking it all in myself. I feel like I am always trying to put my effort when someone else isn't and it just makes me feel needy, but when I pull back a little bit they pull back all together than blame me for the loss of communication. I have learned to just be myself and the guy that likes the way I am and accepts me for all of my emotions and the way I look is worth all of my effort. Thank you KevSoLitty and have a great day!

1:48 I think your mistaken..... There is nothing wrong with the friendzone. You are in the friendzone cuz you want to know her first before treating her more than a friend. And that's normal! That thing of... playing the game, it doesn't exist! Like seriously?!?!.... who invented this garbage? Being so straight and... asking her for a date (If you haven't met her much) is quite weird and very needy and a woman finds it unattractive. Relationship takes time! Attraction isn't about being desperate for a woman, is all about being yourself and have your own confidence that attracts a woman attention so can she makes the first move! and then you do the rest!

my guy it’s been a minute. u just described me lol

Men who approach random women I can’t take them seriously.

i hope you find someone who loves you for your soul.

What you described in the beginning of the video is called a third place. How many parts of the US builds it's cities, removes most third places. You're speaking of this topic from a uniquely American view, in Europe there are still plenty of places you can meet and talk to people after school. When you delve into city planning you realize just how much it affects daily lives, social lives, how that goes into society, and how society forms culture, how culture forms the future. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jNyUhJZplrGZqJs.html

True. I just don’t have the practice because of my educational path. And paying for sex made it worse. It’s like video game cheat codes or steroids. It only masks the problem.

I used to be infatuated with finding a girlfriend and could never find one that was interested in me but then I came to the conclusion years ago that 98% of females aren't worth getting into a relationship with nowadays anyways (imo). I recently got a decent paying job after graduating with my Bachelor's Degree and love my job because I feel like I have found my purpose in life. It's much better to focus on your goals and life's purpose than women.

0:02 as I'm an ambivert(part extrovert and part intorvert) I can relate because a large number of women on college campuses are very superficial despite my highly grown social skills improving over the years plus confidence rebuilding. Now I'm struggling to even get an internship role of a data analyst role. What a time to be alive 😂. So many faculty members and my friends told me I'm the hardest working guy they know. Yet it is mind boggling that no woman I like don't like me back. Like what???

Same !❤🔥

Ill be with u . No worries

im just broke bro

My issue is that I don't go outside and don't socialize. Other have at least tried dating once, not me, not ever. I've been like this since middle school and it's 100% my fault.

"You just have to talk to them like you're talking to your guy friends" - uhm, no. At least not at the onset of a relationship. Women need to feel like they can depend on a man with their lives, they need to feel protected and like a guy is ready to meet their needs. The biggest turn off for me personally is when a guy treats me like one of his homies and fist-bumps my shoulder

Nothing wrong with being in the friendzone at first, it's important to be someone's friend before getting into romance 💐

Be yourself lol it doesn’t work that way for me since I hung out with lots of toxic people and having asperger syndrome I struggle with talking to everyone but I always put myself out there but easy to say than done

I play Airsoft as my Video Game replacement. You guys should try it to join the brotherhood 😊

It's difficult for queer and straight men to find a genuine connection these days

Just be nice to her.

So all I gotta do is work nonstop all day every day to be the best me I can be, and maybe one day I too can get some mid girl to settle for me after she's had all her fun and maybe some kids along the way? How exciting. /s

Fact.

Have a lot to learn Lot of people can’t find work 😂 Even after Graduation

Modern dating is getting difficult. Many become picky with the person they want to date and have "icks". (What are icks even about? I mean everyone has goods and bads.) Not only that, but a second chance is not given for personality. I say that as a woman. Difficult times but we should all try not to get pessimists. Hope you find someone that's worth yall. :)

Because social media has given women the feeling that they have infinite options and men are disposable.

I just use "providers" and have fun with immigration crisis. New pretty girls at the Asian Massage Parlors every day for $160-200. "Providers" are cheaper than dating. Just not worth dating in your 20s when you can spend that time focusing on ourselves on building better careers, physique, and goals.

Real

You just Catch 22 yourself 😂

I'll interview myself 🥀

Not trying to tell you what to do bro. But you would slay in SEA

8:15 i don’t know my guy nowadays a lot of chicks picks bum ass guys over a good lookin guy that’s got a lot going for himself…

Boss can fire 🔥 you too 😂

We struggle because of what parents and people tell us. I found a woman who loves me even while I’m broke. I thought it was impossible, everyone told me I need to have a job and lots of money, that’s when the women will come to me. I never believed that and I lost hope. But someone came and she’s my type in appearance, in personality and in height. I didn’t settle for less I got exactly what I wanted. All you need to do is go up to the girl you like, don’t fear rejection and boom you got her. Looks don’t matter my girl is out of my league, I’m very much below average. I’m introverted and so is she. I’m also turning 20 so guys it is possible, stop losing hope.

Kev, when you get into the habit of not caring about being in a relationship, you will end up finding a women without making that much effort, if you spend your time doing things you like doing you can make friends and get a girlfriend that way because they are doing something that sorts your hobbies and interests.

Life is not worth it anymore Everything is plastic and superficial People only want happiness and goodness, anyone going through stuff is not considered desirable Things are not getting better

I watched your Fio who was telling your story with the posting. Whoever reads this comment the best way to work and the impact in society is to work in the professional field you can learn to make something and sell. I know that it is in a sense of suspicion, but I promise you that once you master a career or handmade you will find who comes to me and run behind you to do this thing for him. (This is my story. When I was 13 years old, I loved making sailbirds that were a meter or more in size. After that, I found out who wanted to make one for me, and I had many people and customers, and in one week I became the one who made the majestic ones in my city. I don't know how this happened, but I learned valuable lessons. Don't think about money because it's going to run behind you. First of all, you just know something like a fix? And then say to friends that you fixed the (This is just a very simple example)

Or you can just be good looking and melt the hearts of pretty girls with a simple smile.

Thank God I'm gay 😂❤

Loneliness and suffering are my fate.. relationships being like jobs aren't fucking worth it, it's all just transactional and fake.

Come to Jesus. You don't need a girlfriend yet, but you need a purpose that truly is fulfilling.

Women like who they like remember if she ain't following you she ain't swallowing you

What really bothers me is that not enough men are standing up against what is happening and jyst watching it happen. Yes the higher ups are causing a lot of this and MORE men need to care!

But bro i don't want to have no children tho. Them women are being difficult nowadays

im here

In USA women base their lifestyle choices on stupid horoscopes

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Everything about modern dating and attraction is trash. The process especially is trash but unfortunately there is nothing else I can do to get realistically successful results other than try. Cold approaching is a meme so I'll have to use these dating apps. Hopefully I'm lucky for once in my godawful life when it comes to this bullshit.

I'll be your girlfriend.

This is what you think but I know someone that literally found their so at their doorstep. In other words, this is a narrative. When is the best time to find the right person for you? Today. ^^ At least from now on

I know a bro of mine that became gay and is dating guys because he can't find no women. But it's his choice, i ain't judging😅😪

Their dads are getting divorced at this point.

Read “Bronze age mindset”

LOL

It's bc of your yee yee ass haircut my guy, goodluck man.

This might be an American thing cause I found my wife overseas rather quickly. This whll ok e you have to meet in school thing is frankly overrated .

Women can easily find men they just have to open any social media app and say "let's meet hehehe" whereas for men what you say is the brutal reality.