They may be young, but they also want a loving, loyal, mature, and faithful partner. Due to "hookup culture" young women have more failed relationships in a short period of time. So, younger women are more open to relationships with older men these days. Feminism = "career minded "boss babes" that "don't need a man". Until they "hit the wall". 30+ years old, successful, but single. Fertility becomes more difficult, too. Every man wants a woman when she is young and pretty. No woman wants a man when he is young and has no assets. A womans value is front loaded in her youth. A man must spend his best youthful years earning his value to a woman. So, if she is young and tired of getting hurt by playboys, and he is older, mature, and can provide for her, I don't see a problem with their relationship. Also, why would a guy accept a woman his own age that has rejected him, belittled him, and told him for the past 20+ years that she "doesn't need a man"?🤔 Just a thought. 😈😎😇

Fortunately many Asian women in middle age still look much younger than they are. So you can date someone close to your own age even though it appears that she is much younger. I've met several Chinese women who looked to be in their late 20s who I later found out that were in their early 40s. I don't know what their secret is but it's working.

Love your videos! no BS and to the point! Keep up the great work!

ok jo, once again you tell it like it is! That's what I love about you, you get right to the point. Makes me love you even more.

Jo. Spot on again. Big age gaps do make a difference.

You are right on with this and I am guilty. I sees to shut those relationships down. Thank you for your advise.

Very smart woman! Everyone should be aware of their value in relationship to their prospects.

It's the hubris of believing money and status are more important than physical fitness. In my experience, people overall treat you better when you are obviously in shape and invest a lot in having a nice body.

You give people the right dose of “Reality Check” 👏 This is utterly needed in our Australian society who is sinking in the deep lake of “entitlement” 🙄 Cheers. Walid

The nicest compliment I can give you is this ... since you are so capable to make one feel both ends of the spectrum ... *I hate you Jo, and at the same time I love you Jo* ... you do a wonderful job. - - Keep it up. The truth shall set us all free.

Hi!! I like ur channel.... 🤗 I'm Italian,but I live in the U.K. and I like to talk about couples/love....

U are to the point great video and u are funny too 😄 😆

Thank you for your brutal honesty.

Chinese women can look so young so why even try to date a woman that is 30 to 40 years younger then you? I have been married to my Chinese wife for over 15 years. She is a fantastic women. She is turning 60 in July and I am 66. She looks like she is 30 years sold if that. Everyone thinks I married a woman who is 35 to 40 years younger than me. I consider myself the luckiest man on the planet. She is beautiful, fit and looks so young and she makes me want to take good care of myself as well.

Hello Jo, again you have provided everyone with very insightful information, and again with your candid and direct, sarcasm and wit. Which rhymes with another word very well. Anyway, I would choose the one that is going to give me peace, tranquility, and support, and she is also going to have to be effeminate, caring, and willing to work together as a unit through both good and bad situations. I don’t rely completely on a woman’s beauty, since a woman is made up of a lot more than her looks. I want a woman that is finished shopping for her blouse and has made a final decision on her purchase. You know how women will shop for a blouse and pick one, but keep shopping and looking at other blouses, all the time comparing them to the one in her hands. She will then pick another one, and another one, and place them in her hands along with the first one. She will look at them for a minute, compare them again, and then put the first blouse back on the rack. She will continue to look at all the other blouses, before coming back to the original blouse and taking that one and putting the other two back on the rack. I want the woman that will go home and say, “This blouse is exactly the one that I wanted, and it goes well with so many of my outfits.” Not the one that says, “Oh my God, I made the wrong choice, I should have picked one of the other ones that are so much cuter with my outfits.” Your advice is very solid, but unfortunately, the very men that would benefit from your advice, are the ones that are going to ignore it and believe what they already believe. They are going to block you, and when someone asks them why they no longer watch your videos, they are going to say, “Because, she was mean to me!” Hahaha.

Very simplistic

Seriously funny too😂😂😂

Again, this issue occurs regardless of race. Men are very good at deluding themselves, I suppose. Your frank discussion is very much to the point. Thank you.

I like you … you tell it how it is … thank you Jojo… hey grandpa 😂😂😂you funny aswell yes it is how it is 👌🏾

You'd have to be a complete narcissist to expect that you will attract 20 or 30-year-old ladies to 60 to 80-year-old men. that's just pure arrogance, unless you are looking to be a sugar daddy, then you aren't looking for a relationship, you are just a creep. I think the whole idea is really funny when you think about it.

Yes, take a reality check! What can an old guy offer a young woman? You’re both in completely different phases of your life and truthfully such a liaison is unfair on both parties. Just enjoy an uncomplicated friendship instead and learn to appreciate the freedoms you have of living by yourself.

Sometimes the truth hurts.

In these old dudes defense they say Filippina girls like guys that are much older.

Good ❤

Good point you totally see you being married ti a young cute guy

age was very important to me as well i'm a black man and i met an Amazing Asina Queen (profile picture here) and we are the same age in our 50 and i still can't believe how lucky i am now i got my queen as she made me her Adoring King everyday she dose little things i find it hard fighting back tears because she's really the best Real Woman i have ever met i only wished we had met way back when we were 18 we are that happy now. Asina Babes are Awesome.

Some guys just don’t get it . I know a girl that went out to dinner and when it came time to pay he wanted to go halves. She paid for both and told him to never call her again.

A lot in common, financial stability, chemistry and better shape than the newer generation gamers and no ambition and the younger guys who can talk a good talk are dating several girls

Hi, I trust that you have been reading the lessons and training I gave you?

Gosh your hair is gorgeous. But good advice though.

你这个视频太对了，那些一把年纪的老外，谁给他的勇气觉得小他20几岁上会对他有兴趣，每次有这些 年纪的老男人骚扰我就想吐🤮🤮🤮

If a 50,60,70 year old man is living with a delusional fantasy and can’t relinquish it then there are places to go and people to see for this unfortunately. I doubt seriously after a few adventures that his fantasy will kindle to addiction. Reality will surely come to fruition! Men and Women both at some point struggle with the loss of their youth! The cold hard facts are that young people need good wholesome older people who aren’t predators that accept their place in life and have value to offer and not be complicated with again predatory matters! We lose our young people this way! Jo I find you very interesting and it is amazing how much insight you possess at an early age, I would think because of your ability for wisdom and understanding alone that your future is very bright and I want to continue to observe your path and enjoy your charm. That is how I want to embrace younger women, by watching their journey! Same way with young men, I want to see and enjoy watching them be on a course and maybe I can offer insight to get through some of the struggles that at times stump us in life. Someone in my age range understands what I deal with and why I feel things I feel. Even in your 70’s dating someone in their 60’s depending on experience a man can come off like he’s a Daddy figure to the woman. Maybe thinking he’s just a little further along than her and needs always to show her the way, this is not a good thing if it is habitual! All the factors need to be in play for a relationship, commonality, connection, reality,comfort,respect and mutual appreciation and compassion that will eliminate fear. I can’t speak for women so I’ll speak for myself and if it resonates then embrace it, as I became older my sight has certainly changed. When I was young, I thought my parents were old (NOT) now I realize how young they were. I see women my age or near my age and I see their beauty and their youth still there, maturity looks so good on them but from that same perspective a young woman based on reality isn’t going to see that maturity in me and find the same value that I find when I see the maturity in a woman near my age. I can relate to that maturity and I understand the life that’s been lived. A young woman hardly can comprehend! I don’t say that in a demeaning way it’s pretty much reality and lack of life lived. So here goes (2 cents sent)

Jo, I personally would choose the 50 year old attractive Chinese women. I would expect her to be more mature than he younger women.

Falling in love is a young man's game. Older men who make the mistake of falling in love with a much younger woman get what they deserve.

You are very harsh today, Ms Moon 😮. As for me who is in my late 50:s don't look for any woman who is in her twenties or even thirties, cause I can feel that the age-gap is to vide to be able to overlap. I think that atlest 35 or slightly above would (perhaps) be ok, but I'm quite content with my situation, so I don't really feel any urge to find a partner. However, and with that said, there is one thing an older men can offer a younger woman that a younger guy could never do, and that is maturity and (hopefully) wisdom, something that usually comes with age. Ofcourse there is exeptions from this rule, but you get my point. In some way I understand that you get upset, because if you are in your 50:s-60:s or above, and don't understand why a woman in her 20:s or 30:s leave this much older guy for someone younger or for other reasons, well I don't have any symphaty for them, because if they don't understand that them self, they are either stupid or immature, or in worst case scenario, both. But again, the one thing an older guy could offer a much younger woman is maturity. I just mention this because you forgotten to mention this in your video yourself, Ms Moon; Maturity 😉. Later alligater; // T.

So are these older Chinese women in their 50's nice and loyal to these older men? (because as you say, the younger ones are not) - I have had no luck with younger Chinese women, I'm a very young looking 50, English with money and a house and a nice car and handsome and they still didn't want me. AND I'm nice and polite! Best wishes Jo, please keep making these videos.

😁😆😀😄🤣😂👍👍👍 straight forward, know your place 😂🤣😄😀😆😁👍👍

I don't think older men are immoral when chasing younger women as such age gap couples are very common in my three decades of living in USA as a Chinese American. We also see lot of these age gap couples in Philippines. I think it's positive and acceptable. Chinese media has tried to advocate age gap relationship, as it made household news when Yang Chen-Ning, 杨振宁， a Nobel prize winner in physics， married a 28 year old Chinese woman when Yang was 82 twenty years ago and when Yang returned to China permanently as a professor in Tsinghua University in Beijing. I had also observed many young Chinese students or girls dated dated or married old Japanese or Koreans or Westerners while i lived in Shanghai as a teacher at Fudan University. The behaviors of the younger generation are heavily influenced by the government controlled media, which now discourages foreign influence or so called infiltration, so foreigners are no longer shining class in China.

Nǐ hǎo Jo, sorry for my late comment 😆 Nice to see you again🙂 Your sense of humor is great, if i don't it better i would say "You are a german."😂😂😂 There's one more important point.. And that's children. It is very selfish, let me explain.. A guy in his 50s meet a Girl in her 20s (it doesen't matter what Country) and than "maybe😅" they are have Children that is unbelievable, because when he is 60s the children is 10 (My math is really great😂😂) this is selfish he can't see is children growing up.. And what is with the woman when he is dead? She is a widow with a children, ALONE😟. There was for 2 years ago a documentation about a Man who meets a Thailand Lady 😂😂 called "My Father the Thailady and me" (Me was his Daughter) ... And we are sitting there in the livingroom and it was so awkward.. And my Dad just shook his head and said "old fat pig"😂😂 A guy in his 50s can find a woman in his age there is no problem i think.. So, Jo Jo, i wish you a good day and take care see you next time. Best wishes from Germany.

Some people (both men and women, but in my experience mostly men or at least men are more verbal about it) are so delusional with no sense of reasons/logic and you just can't educate them.

11:22 why did she have to be ablest in this part of the video 😔

Are Chinese women monogamous??

Hello Jo Jo. I think it's fantastic that you are giving advice and help to old white grampa, 🤣. I love your humour and mind. ✌❤🌏🙂

I’m in my 50’s I date women their 30’s later the better, I have an out plan always, I don’t get it other than money. Seriously. They look for me.

If an old dude wants a younger lady of any race, PAY for it.

like come on. Why would you date somoene way younger???? That's NOT normal. We should be dating to create families and marry for a long time.

It’s amazing how those old timers think a relationship like that can last forever It’s hard to have any sympathy for them. You’re exactly right just think with your brain and not with the trouser snake. Good video Jo!

Jo I love your Opinions..Im in my very late 50s and to find a woman in her say 20's and 30's the age gap is to much..40's and up is it..Anyone in their 50s and up thinking a 20 to 30 is what they want is living a fantasy..unless they are millionaire and she is looking for a sugardaddy...its called REALITIE..Love all your advice..

Jo, I agree with you. Older guys should live in the present, not the past. Their youth has passed. Stop chasing girls and find a woman.

It's no brainer, they want your grey hair looks LOL

Truth being told in this video. I'm a western dude and have a few very close friends that have this mindset... they feel entitled because they are American or have a money, etc. After being used and dumped they continue this behavior and cannot understand why. Like Jo said, it's common sense. This is and has been problematic with Western men and Eastern girls. I agree with Jo, know your place.

Go to Thailand. Girls there are more accommodating.