That was my first instinct. At that point, its self-preservation. She didn't care about a cojoined future, so why should he?

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100% She's not the bride he married, she's a bored wife sneaking around with a married man He's sure of a lot of things going into this marriage and he was wrong. If she were interested in a fair split she would have been honest, let him see the phone etc. She'll fight this to "prove" her innocence.

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Why did i find forbidden bedroom dance funny

@@runics8052 idk but it is

After reading the end, the dude is fucked. Holy shit, the idiot honestly is doing EVERYTHING wrong. Ffs...

I totally agree

To be fair tests are hard

So form your own opinion and stop feeling pressured too do feel other wise. She doesn’t care because he’s being passive aggressive. If you and the OP were being honest with yourself, what did you actually want. Her too say I’m sorry and please forgive me and beg. But if she did that would you actually be happy? Probably not.

@@McLovinMcFlurry Honestly bro you are 100% right, sometimes tho it’s complicated to be fair, after being attached to somebody for so long and especially in a marriage it’s hard to see somebody just not even try

Reddit seems to be filled with kukqolds.

That's only sometimes true. However, they chose to get drunk and at that age understand who they already are, so its still on them.

@@Jadae when drunk you will not do anything your subconsciously uncomfortable with, so what you do is what your like without self control, its not a sometimes thing its a "this is how humans are when drunk." Thing that has been studied and people like you should stop being enablers to people using it as an excuse to justify their behaviour...drunk mouths speak sober thoughts, if your abusive when drunk, your simply an abuser who's exerting self control to not be abusive while sober...the only exceptions are those who can exert self control while drunk and end up behaving the same, or people that have no self control when sober thus act no differently when drunk. Stop being an enabler and start holding people accountable...you can forgert the harm you've done, but that doesn't automatically unharm someone, you can't unharm someone at all...the alcohol is no excuse because thats stuff that can out of a person when your alone and they feel they can get away with letting you see that side of them.

That makes me think about the only case where being drunk is an actual excuse, and that's when someone who's sober takes advantage of a person who's almost blackout drunk. There's always the abuse situation, that's why the "being drunk is not an excuse" quote rubs me the wrong way. I understand the people who say it, because the excuse is overused so much. But it depends so much on the situation! Because if there's like proof it has been happening for a while, pre planned or even just the initial intent then yes, definitely cheating. But if it's a situation where the victim is taken advantage of because of their inebriated state then... it's R^pe... I saw a case about a young woman "getting it on" with her sisters fiance. The thing is she was 10+ years younger than the fiance, and so drunk she struggled to remember anything that happened. She relied on the fiance to drive her home, he pulled the car over and "did it" with her, then dropped her at her house. This was a clear instance of a sober man in his mid 30s taking advantage of a very drunk young woman. Her family shunned her for being abused and completely excused the sober fiance... I apologize for my bad English, im not a native English speaker. I hope I provided another perspective by being the devils advocate!

@@fanendey I agree with and understand that perspective. I just don't think it really applies in this particular case due to continued flirting, meetings, and secrecy. It could have been prolonged shame and belief that she was culpable in her r^pe... she could have been managing her r^pist/coworker (and thus her job) in secrecy the best she thought she could while doing her best to avoid ruining her relationship. That could possibly be why she was so eager for the OP to tell her to quit her job or work elsewhere. So, she could blame her sudden departure on an overly jealous spouse rather than her own terrible experience with the coworker (especially because her mother works in the same place... it could really rock some boats close to home). I don't know the bigger situation. And OP wouldn't know either unless she's willing to communicate. I know in many of these situations, victims may be more willing to lose valued people in their life thinking that they chose to cheat rather than be seen as powerless as they feel deep inside themselves. It may not be the correct choice. But it's their choice to make. And thus, all of this is just conjecture until more truth comes to light through communication, effort to heal the relationship, or further cheating behavior.

@@rachelsarmientotack as I mentioned in my comment, it depends on the situation. I believe the OP in this story was indeed cheating. But my comment was more directed to the "being drunk is not an exuse" quote! I understand and agree with your comment, but my perspective was more general rather than this one situation. Thank you for your input though!

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Yup. Cheaters DESERVE to lose everything. Love means LOYALTY. Which is why I encourage Men to get a passports to find love. Because legit, until there are laws that protect men from Western Women's Ego-centric bullshit, they don't deserve Love and Happiness.

That’s what I’m saying. He caught her red handed and he’s still wondering is she did him dirty? Well next time she cheats on him at that point it’s on you

Nope, divorces benefits women much more than men, I guess he should just forget about this situation and get along with it

@@kerbodynamicx472 no tf

@@kerbodynamicx472 no wtf

Unfortunately Judges can and have thrown stuff like that out. Legit, don't get married to ANY women in the West. Get a Passport, and go over sees. You'll find someone who TRULY loves you and will never do THIS bullshit, there.

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Too right man

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SPECIFICALLY the Ruin part. Legit, send this shit TO HER PARENTS. Make sure she has ZERO support for these Evil Deeds. And sure, she'll probably have trashy friends. But, not like there ever gonna die with a family. They're gonna either be paralyzed with fear when their cats turn on them. Or already dead with their cats eating their faces. A fate WELL deserved.

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Bruh

Yes myself I agree

@@AmItheJerk I'm good I hope you're doing good as well